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FDS RESCUE MISSIONEmergency_Leopard_14/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:05 PM
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You make a lot of sense. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:29 PM
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I only found out two weeks ago about all those things. I feel like a fool because it has caught me SO off-guard. I feel like I don't want to have even one more talk about our relationship with him. Just thinking about it makes me feel drained. Like it would feel like giving him free therapy, that he can use to fool the next woman better... That's why I want to deal with my emotions without letting him into this process. But they are very intense. I want to work through them without him, that I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:56 PM
4

Yes, that's so accurate, it cuts to the core. And I think you are right about the rest also...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:49 PM
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That's what I'm thinking and feeling exactly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:44 PM
3

What do you find to be helpful? I don't know where to start looking... but I think grounding would be a good thing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:38 PM
5

Thank you, you are right. I know grief and this is what it feels like, I know deep-down this relationship is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:19 PM
3

Thank you for your thoughtful comment <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:13 PM
7

Thank you! God, this community is gold, I'm tearing up from the support in these comments... <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:11 PM
3

Thank you so much! Solid points, and much appreciated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:08 PM
9

This resonates with me on a deeper level... Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:06 PM
5

Thank you, very good advice, I appreciate it so much. I have ADHD too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:27 PM
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He has a lot of high value traits, and that's what was making me confused. He has empathy, is supportive, a generous lover, hygienic, has his life together... But he's a coward, he runs when things get too real, I'm starting to realise that he's not capable of really being there should things get really hard, like a serious illness or loss. This pandemic has shown me that he's egotistic, he's been having a hard time, like we all have, but he's been very escapist in dealing with it. I found out a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:09 PM
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So betrayed... I feel like a fool! My god, I was so blind. Luckily we don't live together. I have been avoiding seeing him for two weeks now, with the excuse that I'm very busy with work. But the emotional rollercoaster is starting to take it's toll, the first week I couldn't eat, was throwing up, couldn't sleep... Now I'm just so angry I want to punch something. Thank you, so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:03 PM
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THANK YOU! this has helped so much already! This process is a real mindfuck! I am starting to see clearly now, the love bombing, the bread crumbing, the gaslighting... I'm finding words now for the behaviour that confused me so much... I feel SO STUPID! I'm an intelligent woman, I don't even know what happened, it happened so gradually, I feel like the frog in hot water
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:53 PM
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