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| 1 | Have a dilemma about approaching a few girls at my jobMeh, Had plenty of work flings and relationship. Hell, Most of my relationships have happened from meeting girls at work. Yeah some of them turn sour, but it's never affected work performance or my job in general. If you let a little awkwardness get in the way of your job, you have other problems that need to be addressed. | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Getting approached by women, but no idea how to act. Help!If they talk to you, ask them questions back. Obviously if they approach you, they're into you. The hard part is over. You could literally say anything. If they dance with you, grab them by the hips or hands and direct them. Like i said earlier, if they make the approach, you can basically do anything. Shit you could grab them and kiss them most likely. If they look at you weird, just tell em you've been wanting to do that all night to her. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 04:10 PM |
| 3 | What are your go-to questions?I'm the same exact way. I can keep a conversation going forever, but it always ends up talking about our jobs, background, etc. A lot of times, I know for a fact the girl is in to me, but I seemingly cannot turn the conversation into something more than what a stranger would talk about with another stranger. I'd love to know how to change the tone of the conversation into something that connects two people. Something that creates energy and a spark. | /r/seduction | 05/09/13 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesThis post is amazing. I think i've taken more from your posts than I have from all of the other material on here i've read over the last few years. The thing you do well is turn it around back on us. I feel like i'm in an attractive and intelligent woman's shoes watching all these AFC's try their "game". It sounds like there really is no "game", other than just being confident in your intentions. I love seeing that examples of physically attractive men failing while average men succeed, it reall… | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 05:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you meet women after college?It's counter intuitive to self improvement in my opinion. It lets you sit behind your computer instead of doing the dirty work and actually improving and learning. | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 09:35 PM |
| 13 | How do you meet women after college?The same way you meet anyone. Walk up and talk to them. | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Worried about opening? Worry about closing. Closing is where the fun is.Important but also irrelevant? How so? The entire art of seduction is built around outcome independence. The second that a woman senses that you're over investing in the outcome, you're done. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 03:57 PM |
| 13 | Can you trust a good looking PUA's advice?This is a really shitty path to go down. Self pity will get you nowhere. Make with what you have. Your "swimmers body fallacy" is bullshit. Swimmers body's are great because of diet and exercise, just like every other person with a great body. | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Worried about opening? Worry about closing. Closing is where the fun is.Why worry about anything? Worry will come out in your game and be displayed as neediness. Stop investing in the outcome and just have fun. | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Pickup is a numbers gameAgreed on all points. I would like to point out that these numbers will increase with the increase in experience and skill. Seduction is a skill that can only get better with practice. It's like shooting a basketball. If you've never shot in your life, you'll probably make about 1 out of 10 freethrows. If you practice every day for a month, that number could easily go up to two or three out of ten. If you devote your life to shooting a basketball, you will most likely be shooting damn near 90-10… | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Why Your Text Game SucksI actually disagree with calling. Not that it doesn't work, but modern day women people have a lot of shit going on. If some girl I just met called me at work the next day, i'd text her and see what she wanted. Just use texting to arrange an in person meeting. Nothing else, till you two are on a personal and fun level. That's always been my policy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 09:09 PM |
| 1 | People watching my awkward social interaction as I try 2 openThis takes time, as it did for me, but you must start seeing rejection (this includes all forms of rejection) as a good thing. She is simply not attracted to you for whatever reason, and she's saving time for both of you... You need to respect that. Imagine you're a beautiful girl at a club, you're going to have 5-10 guys (probably more) approaching you every night. This allows you to be pretty damn picky in who you are going to open yourself up to for more. Think about it, if the roles were rev… | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Are you a daygamer or nightgamer? Which is best?Yes, some places are absolutely terrible. And some places are simply too small to have a good nightlife. For instance I used to live out in west Texas for a bit after college, I was in a town of about 50k. There were about 3 good bars, but it really took some work to even find an attractive girl. I then moved to Austin, Tx, It is a gold mine here. The average guy with no experience can pull a K-close just by playing the numbers game and approaching as many girls as you can find. | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 03:06 PM |
| 1 | People watching my awkward social interaction as I try 2 openwhat do you fear exactly? Rejection? Paraphrasing here, but I'd rather take the pain of rejection over the pain of regret any day of the week. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 07:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first attemptSome people here will say try one more time to get her out, but I say drop it and move on to the next one. I don't want to go out with someone who doesn't want to go out with me. | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Are you a daygamer or nightgamer? Which is best?There is no best, they both have their advantages as well as disadvantages. I'll try to explain as best I can. Advantages: Day game: The greatest advantage to day game is simple; you are immediately much more of a genuine and trusted individual when you approach during a casual situation, albeit requires much more confidence and language/conversation skills to cold approach during the day (which is why the PUA communitiy struggles with day game). The problem of being "that guy i met at a bar" is… | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 05:50 PM |
| 37 | How do you end your text message conversations?pls reply | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 05:37 PM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I know. I was just pointing out that there never needs to be a painful silence. | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 05:27 PM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I honestly think you can avoid painful silences in just about every situation. Like your example, she says "i hate TV", you just flip it back on her and ask "really, you hate TV?", while she explains herself, you can start thinking of some way to spice up the convo, maybe a tease like "damn, you really are a hipster" or "who said you had to like TV to watch a show?, the internet is a great thing". Just let it flow, if shes interested, she will become more and more into the conversation, if she's… | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit! What can a girl do to get your attention without being obvious?Talk to him. Honestly all of the rules of attraction aren't much different from women to men. Society just sets the tone that men must engage. My last relationship was 2.5 years, she approached me and got my number. Best relationship I've ever been in. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 04:40 PM |
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