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| 12 | Have working in retail/people helped you with your dating life? | Emil_1996 | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 08:03 PM |
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| 2 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.I'm not going to approach what I don't find attractive, simple as that If there's no attraction, no approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically."Men are naturally more selfish IMO" lmao And here you are expecting the household duties to be shared equally when the man works more a lot of the time If a man works 40 hours a week, and add commuting to that etc. you cannot expect the household duties to be shared equally Whoever stays at home is supposed to do more than the person who works, because they pull a lot of weight there. And household duties does not take up as much time anyways, so whoever stays at home really has it "better" if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Why is it when men don't go down on a woman, they're unacceptably selfish lovers, but when women don't go down, it's an acceptable choice for something she doesn't enjoy doing?Because society loves being hard on men and loves shitting on us men Just how it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?If the man works and the woman does not she's absolutely supposed to do much more of the work at home If she finds that unreasonable, just leave her it ain't worth it She has no common sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Lie about your experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 3 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Nah, What's lame is being judged for some things that you may not have had any control over, or if you suffered past trauma that made you exclude yourself from people, and then you got over it but apparently now you're a red flag even though you healed and you're more than a good person and there's nothing wrong with you Just lie, don't ever admit to being a virgin or having little experience because most women are shallow as hell Lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?Just lie to them bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerlol it's not archaic, this will always, always be the case. Here's a really simple way to prove it's factual. A man is presented with 2 women They are exactly the same except for one thing. One of them has slept with 20 people, the other has slept with 5. Other than that, they are EXACTLY the same. Every sensible and logical man would then pick the one who has slept with less people and you know this is true too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Yeah that makes sense But fuck me I wish I was born in the 60's or something, dating nowadays is too much of a fucking game, keep track of this, do this, do this trick, don't respond within X and Y amount of minutes/hours etc. etc. like bruh, I just want it to flow naturally but it just feels like you need to play a fucking role and that's just not authentic to me and it ruins my peace I'm sure there's a woman out there that feels the same way and doesn't care about playing the dating game that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.And I'd give everything to give that up Perhaps the rewards comes after going through the fire and the rain, but right now I don't enjoy it one bit, makes me feel like an absolute outcast and just in general like a weird as fuck human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.Sometimes I wish I was low IQ so I wouldn't overthink every single little thing in my life and just go with the flow. Seriously, when I say everything I mean everything, even the small things no normal human would even think is a thing. Fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 3 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.Its not as easy as you're making it sound when you've got ADHD/Asperberg and you're on the spectrum. Sure, high functioning, but still on the spectrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Yeah, but why is the pressure always on the men to be able to hold conversations and initiate flirting? While the women only have to be pretty and reciprocate. I'm perfectly capable to hold social interactions if it's split somewhere along the 50/50 line, but in modern society men are expected to cover like 90% or some shit like that, which is unreasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.If she was a slut in bed for others but refuse to with her actual SO, what does that say inbetween the lines? She's with him for the money/security and nothing else, there's no raw attraction. That's an issue. She also lied. Lying is a no go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.If it was only that easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.She clearly does not love him enough, what are you even trying to do now? Justify her lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:44 AM |
| 15 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.And this is why lads, we don't get married Marriage is a scam for men There is absolutely nothing to be won for us So why would we get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:41 AM |
| 9 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.The problem is with her LYING about it. If her appetite has changed, you be upfront about it. Lying about it will lead to this, and it's a shitty thing to do. You're perfectly fine wanting different things from sex over time, but don't fucking lie about if you've done it before, that's not cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerI'm not even active on Instagram to begin with, it's toxic. I've uploaded like 2 photos in 3 years so I'm already sorted on that, just gotta say "I barely use that shit" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerThots will always justify thot behavior. The higher the number the less your value is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 5 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyMen should improve themselves But the problem with this post is that it screams "men need to prove themselves to women and women don't have to do fuck all to be interesting themselves" I hate modern society, someone invent a time machine and take me back to 1975 or some shit because fuck this skewed society where all the pressure is on the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerOf course, if you have a high body count it means you think low of yourself and just about fuck everything that moves It's thot behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:27 AM |
| 13 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerImagine putting every single man in the same bracket when they all have different stories Talk about being shallow and ignorant as fuck Dumbest comment of the year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:26 AM |
| 0 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Keyword "excessive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:17 AM |
| 0 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?For having reasonable expectations? Sure, then I'll gladly have some issues :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:56 AM |
| -1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?No man in their right mind would prefer their woman to have armpit hair, I'm stating the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Yep, you're spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?I know it's not fair, I never said it wasn't I just pointed out that exact fact I accepted that fact long ago, not sure where in my comment you got the impression I haven't accepted that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:29 AM |
| -1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Are you serious? A beard elevates a mans look. This is the case if he takes care of it though. If he doesn't and it looks like shit, it's just as bad as body hair. It's all about taking care of it. You can't be serious. Armpit hair doesn't elevate ones look, a well kept together beard does. I shouldn't have to explain something so obvious. No, it's not conjecture. I have a fat father who's been fat my whole life and he grew fatter over time. The more fat he became, the less of a shit he gave abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:38 AM |
| 0 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Beard is fine, that's normal, it's facial hair, body hair is everything else but the head/face. But hairy legs, armpits, back etc.? Nah, I believe that partners should keep each other accountable and don't be lazy or blame it on "I'm just being meeeee accept me" no, it's pure laziness. I can expect her to remove it and she can expect me to remove where necessary for a man and put in work elsewhere like the gym etc. It's about staying disciplined. If you can't stay disciplined and be bothered eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 0 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Yeah and that's not even close to what is expected by men, and we don't have a blueprint to follow, we have to figure shit out. You know exactly what to do and get the results you seek from putting the time in. We don't always do because we literally don't always know what will bring results or not. You don't know what it's like being a man. Shaving and putting on make up sounds pretty chill. You don't shave everyday either so it's barely any time spent. Men ain't worth shit unless we provide so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:10 AM |
| -5 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Yeah but you're expected to take care of yourself. Excessive body hair is disgusting on both men and women. If I as a man can shave my bloody armpits then I can expect my woman to do the same. No one wants to see armpit hair when someone lifts their arm, it's disgusting and it literally takes a minute to remove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:44 PM |
| -2 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Shaving and wearing makeup is not that hard lmao, it's just a little time consuming but it's not like you have to solve a problem. Life for men is way harder, and that's just the reality of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?Very important, it's about taking care of yourself. I also find body hair unattractive in general, it's rather nasty especially in the armpits, that's supposed to be clean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Eh, maybe, I've sort off accepted that there's a possibility that I'll be single forever I look good, would honestly give my face a 7/10, and will look a hell of a lot better overall when I've gotten my physic to another level But I'm on the spectrum, sure I'm high functioning, but I have no idea how to flirt or anything, or how to escalate things with women. Also got ADHD/Aspergers, I tend to be in my Head all the time. So, I know there's a smaller chance for me, but I'll keep trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | In what situation is it ok/ not ok for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex (or whatever they’re attracted to)Why would anyone call you paranoid for not allowing your GF to fuck other men??? Huh?? Did I misread anything because that's like the most obvious thing ever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 3 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Yeah, what Insidious-Sid wrote above is just plain wrong. Imagine thinking that all women have someone next lined up, lmao what kinda shitty mindset is that?? Sure, dating nowadays is fucking trash and I wish I was born 50 years ago. But no, it is not that bad, there are women and men who value faithfulness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | women are attracted to both looks and personality.Hey you sound just like me lol, Northern European here, 25, never anything, I'm on the spectrum too but I'm high functioning, got ADHD/Asperbergs too. Also tall, 6'2. I can't hold a conversation with a woman who I don't already know, and at that it can still be tough. No way at my current state I'd be able to speak to a woman I don't know about whatever, I don't get how people do it, my mind goes fucking blank and I can't come up with shit to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Rich Man and "High Value Man" being allowed to CheatYeah Kevin Samuels is an immature boy in a man's body who puts on a posh character. Seriously, if you ever cheat, you're not a man, you are a boy. If you can't keep your fucking dick in your pants, man what the fuck? If you cheat, basically what you are saying is that what is most worth it to you, is just having sex. What happened to building your empire with your spouse? That to me is more exciting than fucking lots of random broads on the side. He is fucked in the head, extremely fucked in the… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldGet in the gym then and become the top 25% Modern day society is so pussified, it's easier than ever to be in the top 25% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manAbsolutely not, that is the reality for simps. I don't simp. The only thing that matters is what I think of myself. If you get your sense of self worth from what others think about you, you're fucked and will live a sad life, because you will always work on pleasing others rather than being true to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manAh yes, hit me with the incel comment because I presented facts 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:44 AM |
| 0 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manYou completely missed the point I don't care if I end up living my whole life single, I'm only ever giving that up if I find someone who's worth it Point still stands, men are the price. Who runs the world? Who are better at almost everything? Men, always been like that, always will be. Men are way more prone to succeed on their own because men at their core, have that drive to conquer shit. A man without something to work towards and fight for, is no man. Many women are just happy and content w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manWhy yes, it's uncommon in the grand scheme of things, but for most women it's the sense of security that matters. They can't fill that role themselves unless they're Ronda Rousey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manHow did you come to the conclusion that I was threatening you?? Obviously, I'm talking in general, there will always be the odd one out. Imagine a decent sized man attacks someone in the street. More men will be able to defend themselves than a woman ever could. Many women could never defend themselves against any man ever, and would need a man to fill that role. No matter how well you are at defending yourself, you will never be able to reach the heights men can reach physically because it's si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manThose people are idiots though, there's no peaking at 21 etc. That's very young, most women will not be at their highest level of maturity at that age, let alone men. I'm calling you toxic because you have an unrealistic expectation of relationships. Your expectations are only valid if you are a 10/10, feminine to the core, has all her shit together and have no bagage. You don't, because you're not perfect, just like everyone else. No one's perfect, so don't expect perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 0 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manLmao, Us men definitely don't "need" women. Women have always been the ones more in of a need of a partner. I'm not being sexist here, just stating facts, the world is run by men and men are the price. Men create everything you see around us. Men innovate shit to another level. Men are leaders. Men can defend themselves physically, women cannot. If you genuinely believe women are the prize, all I can see is geez, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manYou were still very young and haven't been in a relationship for 10 years, things change. But I guess you don't, with that toxic, entitled attitude of yours. I seriously hope for every dude out there that they all see through your shit and you never get tied up to anyone cause no one deserves to endure what will inevitably end in a heck of a lot of pain and toxicity. I support your quest to always stay single, the world will be better that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 09:29 PM |
| 3 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manHoney, you have been single for 10 years, since you were 20. You claim to have had 2 long term relationships before that. Y'all were kids. People grow up, and a long term is multiple years. So you're still stuck in the mindset that "average" men behave like your partners did when you lot were 15 - 20 years old? I feel sorry for you, because you have a shitty attitude towards dating and zero belief in that people change. You see how someone looks and you automatically but them in the same bracket… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manExactly lol, this girl sounds extremely entitled and I can guarantee you she is nothing more than average at best. She'll be lonely forever until she realizes what she has in mind right now, is unattainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 3 | A handy guide to attractiveness levels as a manGood luck with this mindset unless you are a 9-10/10 who fills the traditional role as a woman. I imagine you are a 6-7 at max, in this range you seem to think you are all that when in reality, you really aren't. You sound extremely extremely superficial, shallow and a bit deluded. Imagine thinking someone being "hot" is what makes a man good. This mindset you got will lead you to unhappiness in relationships 'cause you believe hotness will lead to a happy life. Have fun when they happen to be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 9 | What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender?Sorry to hear that, women are idiots I don't understand how the brains of those women are wired because how you gonna bitch about someone and then hook up with them Women don't make no sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?This Someone who fucks everything that moves is a low value person who don't value themselves and therefore give themselves to basically anyone It's disgusting, but these hoes aren't ready to hear it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?Uhh what? Is this a serious question?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 12 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?Most men are not like this wth, where do you live?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Becoming alpha when never needed to be?Thanks for replying My height is 187cm, I weigh 97,5kg (weighed 113kg 1,5 year ago), recently got back in the gym but gotta take it slow cause I have a slipped disc since a few years ago Now when it gets hotter im going to go for a shit ton of walks just like I did last year, so towards June - July I'll be under 90kg Body fat no clue but I'm not very muscular other than what I have genetically, I've got decent genetics I freelance from home and make anywhere from €2500 - €4000 a month depending … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/22 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Becoming alpha when never needed to be?So I'm from Sweden and from my understanding, dating is way more of a casual and normal thing over there in the US I'm 25, never been on a date ever, grew up with a fat unavailable father who never taught me shit, and with 4 sisters and a mum, so just a lot of feminine energy I was bullied in school which led to me practically always excluding myself from groups of friends etc. with forced thoughts such as "no one cares if I'm there" or "everyone secretly dislikes me" and shit like that Was heav… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Very powerful image. Women who were very happy to make false allegations against men for sexual assault and rape, to then be later caught out!Is it really a surprise that all of them look like absolute freaks? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/03/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Ok gotcha, I want to do that, I want to change myself, so how would you recommend I go about programing myself to enjoy it? How did you do it? I mean if I dont do it my life's over so gotta make it happen | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Did you always have that or did you have to reprogram yourself? Never been someone who just talks to people because its "fun" | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Y'all make things sound so easy, how is someone supposed to develop the confidence to smoothly be able to first, approach someone, then talk to them and actually carry a conversation and on top of that FLIRT? I have no clue how to carry a conversation like that, let alone flirt | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 2 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.What do you say after "hi" though? And without choking on your words like you're having a presentation in front of 100 people? Y'all make is sound so easy when it's really, terribly hard | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesLove the sarcasm Hope you have a lovely day so far | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesYeah well, being attractive is what will get a conversation started to begin with Unattractive guys will be shut down immediately even if they have their shit together | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesWhen you wake up? You mean after breakfast? | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Lowering your standards is for desperate people. Those who don't mind being alone don't have to lower their standards.Man I dont get this "lower your standard" bullshit You are attracted to what you are attracted to, that comes naturally and you cannot change it What you should do instead is level yourself up Have some Self respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop thinking , just vibeI get what you mean etc. etc. But it's not possible to just decide that you're charming and then all of a sudden, you're charming Simply not possible when you have nothing to say or talk about ever unless spoken to | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Stop thinking , just vibeYeah well you're obviously extroverted if you can make anything interesting, I'm a shut down introvert with zero creativity | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Stop thinking , just vibeWhat if you're bland as shit and have nothing to talk about, like ever, with anyone? | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Those of you who were kissless virgins post 25, what changed for you and how did you change?How though? Like, if there's no Attraction it wont work, cant fake Attraction | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Have working in retail/people helped you with your dating life?Hmm, do you know other roles in a bar other than a bartender? I don't think I could ever be a bartender, don't see myself being able to do that | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Have working in retail/people helped you with your dating life?I'm not like that, I can socialize quite decently with people I know, just not with people I don't really know. So having an excuse to talk to people like "Can I help you?" or "What are you looking for?" and stuff like that could probably help me a lot with talking to new people, as that is my biggest struggle. Basically can't say a sentence to new people unless they speak to me first, or if I have drank some alcohol, which is not something I want to depend on and it limits it to parties/bars on… | /r/seduction | 22/05/21 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Downside of raw game / cold approachHow did you get started? I often even struggle to lead conversations with friends I know very well, it's almost always them leading the conversation and me filling in, I struggle a lot with topics to talk about I'd love to learn day game cause it seems to be incredibly fun and great for your confidence, but I gotta be honest right now it doesn't feel like anything I'd be able to do anytime soon | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 09:53 PM |
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