Emms1023 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to ask a girl straight-up that I want to feel her breast without creeping her out Umm....no. Maybe she didn’t feel comfortable saying no? First step would be actually asking this girl on a date or letting her know you’re interested. Not creepily pushing her limits, especially after she “protests”. Holy shit.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 02:31 PM
1	Isnt self-improvement in the hopes of attracting a female in itself adhering to toxic masculine gender norms. What if that bald fat nerd drinks Mountain Dew and eats Cheetos all day completely happy with his lifestyle? Self improvement should be done for the self. Not for anyone else. Plenty of fat, bald, nerdy men are in happy healthy relationships. They may not be dating the super models that the red pill tells you you should aim for, but they may be with someone who makes them laugh, supports them emotionally, share similar values and life goals, enjoy sleeping with, and spending time together. The key word here is that the fat, bald, nerdy guy is happy with himself! When you’re happy with yourself you’re n…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 02:25 PM
1	How do I curb my thirst/man up? Did you ask her if she was dating other people? I mean you can’t really be upset if you hadn’t had a talk about being exclusive, right? Also sounds like you were the one who was pushing for sex because you didn’t want to be in a “sexless” relationship, but maybe she was waiting to see if she liked you enough to be in a relationship/be exclusive. The assumption seems to be that she somehow manipulated you, but you’re coming from a red pill past that’s all about manipulation, so you assume other p…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 02:15 PM
1	dealing with my fractured capability to trust “I hate myself very much” I think that’s your answer right there. Don’t focus on dating or women, focus on learning to love yourself. Try new activities, gain new skills, practice healthy living habits, make new friends, try positive affirmations, therapy, etc. People who don’t value themselves, often times don’t value other people.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 02:04 PM
1	How to get over trust issues (idea all women are whores) What makes someone a slut? Let’s start there, break down what that actually means to you and why you find it so upsetting. Is it the number of relationships she’s had in a life time? Is it the number of sex partners she has had? Is it the attention that she gets from other men? Is it that she has multiple men interested in her? Is it the possibility that you will feel embarrassed if you show interest in her and find out she is dating other people? Will it hurt your self esteem to know you’re not…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 01:48 PM
5	[HELP] I need to leave my mysoginistic tendencies Disagree. Therapy is for everyone. It is not a negative thing. It helps you gain different perspectives, gives you coping skills, etc. Especially for a lot of men who aren’t comfortable being emotional around their friends, therapy can be an amazing tool.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 01:35 PM
4	[HELP] I need to leave my mysoginistic tendencies Do you have any women friends? Start there. Find women you have similar interest with or share the same sense of humor. Don’t try to date them or flirt with them or anything like that. Just learn to value them as people.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 01:33 PM
2	I like this girl but... Honestly, I’ve liked guys that I can laugh with. Doesn’t mean they have to be making the jokes, but just that we have a similar sense of humor and don’t take life too seriously. I would be turned off by someone trying to “compete” for me, as I feel like that treats me as some type of prize instead of a human being. Just talk to me and get to know me. It’s a two way street, you’re not trying to win me over you’re also trying to see if there’s a possibility that you’d like to date me for my person…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 01:30 PM
18	As an ex red pill woman, I still feel like I’m unworthy, slowly becoming infertile on the basis I’m still not married with kids (24F) Wow this was totally focused on the wrong aspect. Women have value and worth regardless of their age or fertility.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/19 01:26 PM
1	What's the appropriate confidense level acceptable for a guy to start dating? Confidence comes and goes through out the day, week, year. You’re ready to date when you feel like you have something to give (instead of focusing on what you get) in a relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/19 05:24 PM
1	I hold my hands up. I am another hopeless nice guy who has spent all of his twenties with background depression and unfulfilment because I can't get laid. Help? Hi, I’m a 30 year old female. Stumbled on to this forum and thought you may like a female perspective. Sorry if this has already been said, but I think your biggest hurdle is your self esteem. Looks are definitely a benefit, not going to sugar coat that, but as I’m sure you’ve noticed in life there are plenty of people of all shapes and sizes in happy relationships. Looks may get my interest initially, but what draws me (and I think a lot of men and women in general) to someone is if I feel a co…	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/19 04:37 PM