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Go to Miami, the asses are fake but they’re big.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:00 AM
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Women are people not a fucking sample platter at ur local Chinese restaurant.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:57 AM
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The Amount of times men have said they want virgins, that body count matters, that women literally depreciate in value as they have sex. So yes we are demonized for it. Also white men created the world we know today not women that’s why it’s so misogynistic and racist.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:30 AM
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And side note I was exclusively with women for 4 years, they are more adventurous, have better stamina, and are all around better at sex. It seems like you maybe have been going after inexperienced or vanilla women. Just simply don’t do that if u want fun good sex.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:18 AM
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I like how ur talking to me like I’m the women ur referencing when if u read my other comment at all you’d know I’m the adventurous one my husband is the vanilla one. 😭😭 get a life
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:12 AM
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Bro I ASK for different positions, he’s the one who says he wants to see my face/tits 🤣 u don’t speak for all men clearly. Ur dense and ignorant frfr some men are just vanilla, some women aren’t, sorry ur experience is bad out DONT push it on other people like u know something lil guy.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:10 AM
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Okay I read the first paragraph and imma stop right there bc all women I know are much more adventurous than the men. Sorry maybe u just go after boring people. But even me and my husband have completely different wants for sex, he’s a missionary all the time guy and I’m a try a new thing every time gal. I’m the one who bought the sex toys and handcuffs and all that shit to be adventurous and try new shit, all my friends are the same way 🤣 u just go after boring people
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:07 AM
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Not reading all that. Men in porn poke and prod and women in porn scream like it’s actually doing something it’s unrealistic end of story 🤣
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:03 AM
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porn is like a movie it’s all actors not real life, it literally has no real correlation to how real sex should be. Even the ways they do it, it’s just for show porn is supposed to look good not feel good.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:57 AM
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That is a big reason especially the maturity thing. J bc we don’t outright say it don’t mean that not what it is. We have to choose our words carefully so y’all don’t go super crazy and try to do some wack shit. “I’m just not feeling it” or “I’m not ready for a relationship” is fr just bc we don’t want it WITH YOU bc ur 1. Weird 2. Creepy 3. Unstable (financially or emotionally) and 3. Immature/selfish
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:17 PM
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When I see someone with a Ferrari or any super nice car I instantly think “he’s got a small dick” 🤣 it reeks of ‘pick me’ energy
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:28 PM
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That’s what they like
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:26 PM
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I’ve approached women as a woman. I understand how difficult they can be in a relationship but getting them to go on a date is easy
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:52 PM
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Yet ur on the street trying to approach women and I’m married so like who really knows better 🤣
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:48 PM
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I said to fix urself too baby :) respect is earned if u respect them and they respect you ur chances of getting them on a date are astronomically higher. But you’ve got to have everything a girl could want too for 100% success rate.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:43 PM
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And all the reasons are a you problem not a flakey problem. Fix urself and they will show up. treat them with respect and they will show up. It’s easy.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:36 PM
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I don’t flake on my husband no. And when I was single I showed up to dates I was asked on UNLESS he was a creepy asshole. Not flakey just know my worth
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:34 PM
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They flake on u ❤️
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:31 PM
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Bro no one is gonna wanna date someone who dates at least a dozen women a week. That’s slutty behavior.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:29 PM
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Girls aren’t flaky they just flake on you. Says something more about you than the women.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:27 PM
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I was on collage campus at 16 that’s not a smart one
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:28 AM
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It is quite easy to tell if someone is a minor in most cases. I think ur perception of what a certain age looks like is wrong tbh.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:25 AM
2

!!! Spot on
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:43 AM
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Advertising sex to her 😂
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:42 AM
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We don’t talk abt it with men bc we are told to be pure and keep our body counts as low as possible. We are taught to be timid and innocent, not loud and sexual. Yes women and men have around the same sex drive, this has been proven. Women like sex just as much as the next guy we are just demonized for talking abt it. Also triple digits is a lot for anybody I hope they get std tests.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:39 AM
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I use the term raw dog a lot in conversation but not in a sexual way like this 😭 I’ll be like “my AC is broken I’m just raw dogging this heat rn”
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:16 AM
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Imma be honest with you, me and all my friends won’t even fuck a dude over 7in. That’s painful just asking for them to hit ur cervix 😭 no thank u I’ll stick w average men all day
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:07 AM
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I doubt it’s the dick 😂
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:00 AM
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A lot of females like the “I haven’t slept in four days and am malnourished” look. He looks like a irl vampire. Yea he’s tall but I feel like a lot of girls don’t care abt height he is just attractive, has good bone structure, he’s confident, funny, chill, and he doesn’t care abt status.
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:59 AM
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I wear clothes to get females attention as in if I’m wearing cute outfit revealing or not I’m doing it so another pretty girl will say “wow that’s a cute outfit” not for men to find me attractive, never heard of “I do it for the girls and the gays that’s it” ?
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:34 AM
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Don’t do that if she finds out you sent it to other ppl you can get put in jail or fined or put on the sex offender registry 🥰
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:41 PM
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Bro… 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ why tf else would she send that common sense dude use it
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:39 PM
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Many NFL players have done ballet… those are like y’all’s idols and masculine asf I don’t get ur point 🤣
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:20 PM
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How 🤣🤣 sir if u wanna be a dick just bc someone else likes something you don’t deem valid you’re just a hate filled sad weirdo and no one likes that not even your mama
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:23 AM
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Jesus who shit in ur cereal 🤣 did daddy tell u that u were too girly as a kid or sum why u got so much hate.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:20 AM
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Depends on the lady ig. When I was dating I wanted someone who smoked weed j bc it’s something I used to do a lot
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:51 AM
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I always bring up this couple bc it’s true ur personality will get u a wife ur looks will get u laid. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTd3NaxkJ/?k=1
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:36 AM
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You can pull any girl if u have confidence and compassion. U just lack it.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:14 AM
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They using him for that visa and American money 🥰
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:13 AM
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Some feminists still believe that men and women do have different roles in society. 🤣 some aren’t dense and whiny
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:51 PM
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Most women just wanna rant if ur girl want advice that’s cool too
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:03 AM
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We are engaged never plan on getting married on paper if u saw any of my social media and you’d see 😂
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:11 PM
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Don’t give her solutions or advice unless she asks.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:47 AM
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My husband did it and he fs didn’t end up in the friend zone
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:04 AM
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I have many times. Girlfriends, flings, hookups. I actually prefer women funny enough
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:22 AM
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Women usually leave stuff at dudes places to let other females know they were there 🥰 I wouldn’t do this unless u wanna get way less pussy
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:52 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/to8jc5/does_size_matter_my_experience_with_a_micro_penis/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:10 AM
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A lot of women fake it sorry to burst ur bubble 😂
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:07 AM
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I think the only reason females do this is bc they think it’s disrespectful idk how bc it’s literally just what I have but some girls are crazy about it and can only be called women I think it’s an ego boost or sum
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:07 PM
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Men’s ideas of small dicks is so wrong. I’ve had guys say they’re small then when I pull out a ruler they are 7in. GET OUT OF UR OWN HEAD.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:05 PM
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The only thing holding you back from having sex is yourself.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:03 PM
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Exactly this. I’ve been with females and that was some of the best sex I’ve ever had idk how men are so caught up in dick size when ur size isn’t what makes good sex your skill is what makes good sex. 😂😂
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:02 PM
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My first thought was 50 cent in candy shop 😂
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:59 PM
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I’ve never said u can’t call us females? But also I said “female body” which I think is different than just saying females yk? Either way idc
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:58 PM
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U are so wrong it’s literally how ur body is set up that’s why I said it was rare, it’s not about how attractive she finds u 😂 https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/female-sexual-dysfunction/expert-answers/female-orgasm/faq-20058215
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:56 PM
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Guys do this too, was in a toxic relationship when I broke up with him he told everyone I was abusive even tho he hit me, screamed at me, wouldn’t let me leave his house at some points, and threw shit at me. Ik I wasn’t perfect but I know if anyone was abusive it was him. They are most likely projecting
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:03 AM
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And 6 is very average. I’ve had sex with bigger men and the 7in and above isn’t very pleasant it’s quite painful actually. I would rather have a 4in guy who know how to work a female body than a 9in guy that hits my cervix every time he enters😂 the porn industry has ruined y’all’s perspective on what actually makes women happy in bed. Like damn our hole is only 4-6in deep why would I want someone too big vs someone the same size as my depth yk
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:00 AM
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If u constantly put urself down based on size you will just hurt yourself in the long run. I had a rule before my husband that I would sleep with anyone above 7in(it’s painful), meaning I’ve slept with men who are 4in and still enjoyed it. Ever heard of the phrase “it’s not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean”
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:47 AM
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No woman will finish from just penetration in the fist place, it’s very rare and takes forever to accomplish, get good w ur fingers and mouth let her finish before you or having outside stimulation along with penetration. Most guys jump straight into the actual sex but don’t stop to focus on the foreplay
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:36 AM
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If you can make her finish ur in don’t matter the size. Only ever met one man who could make me finish and now he’s my husband so yk.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:29 AM
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I know how shallow and demanding some men are and that others just look for average girls to bone bc they can’t keep it in their pants but ill tell u my experience when I was heavier and “less attractive.” I still got plenty of good looking dudes hitting me up, wanting relationships or casual hookups. I met my husband while I was 40lbs heavier, your weight and “attractiveness” to these dudes doesn’t matter because YOUR person is out there shitty men attract shitty women in the end even if ur not…
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:27 AM
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I like the last one made me chuckle 😂 is that a 50 cent reference?
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:16 AM
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I literally met my husband while 40 lbs heavier but go off
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:28 PM
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I can’t tell if this is an insult or compliment but I’m laughing at it anyway ur funny 🤣
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:57 AM
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I’m a house wife always wanted to be told him that when we first got together. I’m CNA certified I just prefer to be home while I’m pregnant and for the fist years of my child’s life until he goes to school
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:54 AM
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Do u know him? I’m on this sub Reddit bc I stay at home and take care of his every need while he works. I do my cleaning and my laundry wait for him to get off work and then he tells me about his day an he plays his video games til I’m done cooking dinner for him. What am I supposed to do in my free time besides piss off the “alpha” males with actual advice on how a man I’m with settled down with a trophy wife 😂 y’all just beg to be with woman who will actually do something for u and not complai…
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:50 AM
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And that’s you but lots of dudes like a little big of chub. When I was 40lbs heavier I got just as much if not more attention then now granted I was single and not pregnant when I was 40lbs heavier but u get it.
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:38 AM
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I don’t think most of these would be a deal breaker maybe not having a license and depends on the age of ur living at home but also housing market is terrible rn so it’s understandable. I’ve talked to or dated short men, balding men, skinny and chunky men, men with little dicks (it’s about how u do it not the size), men of a lot of races (white, black, light skin, mexican, Asian, etc.), been with virgins and been peoples first girlfriends. A lot of it is confidence, how u make me feel, and what …
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:35 AM
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Tru
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:07 AM
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Confidence is attractive how u carry urself definitely affects how many woman you attract
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:53 PM
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I’m not angry I literally just said it was gross and creepy and not everyone like that. I’ve seen ur comments before on his sub talking to dudes and it’s never this creepy even good advice but as soon as u comment on a woman’s post ur like 👹get fuckin naked in the middle of a party and put ur panties in his mouth 👹 it’s weird
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:51 PM
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My husband does almost nothing around the house besides make me food rarely when I cannot (I’m pregnant so I get dizzy by the hot oven) I clean, do the dishes, laundry and cook most days, I set up his mic and headset for when he gets home so he can play his video games and console him as he rants to me about his day (he’s blue collar so his job is hard and stressful) and even while pregnant we still have relations everyday. He’s very coddled and I enjoy taking care of him so no he doesn’t have t…
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:46 PM
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If he smells bad, doesn’t take care of himself, or is creepy. By taking care of himself I don’t mean the gym I mean a clean living space, cooking his own meals if he’s living by himself, and washing himself properly (like if I notice u don’t wash ur hands or hair)
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:39 PM
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My husband constantly tells me I’m out of his league I’m pretty sure he thinks I’m hot along w the men in my inbox, ur fantasies aren’t everyone else’s stop being such a perv and I’ll stop being a “hater” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:35 PM
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Ocean by bath and body works for a body wash old spice for deodorant and a Calvin Klein or a Dolce and gabana cologne make it all work together. Ocean has a very fresh scent makes u smell clean same with the pure sport old spice then add a rich smelling cologne
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:32 PM
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Never heard of any guy wanting to taste underwear I think your a minority and that u aren’t giving good advice rather catering to the thing you like an assume other men like too. If I did that to my husband I’m pretty sure he’d think I’m crazy 🤣🤣 just keep it to yourself next time bud
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:28 PM
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It’s not a trick it’s literally just to see if u are what we are looking for to a more easy and open ended response would be like “I’m open to anything relationship casual or hookup as long as ur open to it as well”
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:25 PM
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OP literally said AT A PARTY 👎👎 ur advice was to strip in the middle of a party and put it in his mouth that’s gross
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:21 PM
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A funny pickup line not a creepy one or sexual one just funny and corny.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:20 PM
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She likes you but is secure in her relationship. She will likely end it soon and go after you
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:16 PM
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Hot to u makes everyone around the people uncomfortable. Don’t practice ur weird ass kinks in public with Non consenting people around u weirdo 🤣🤣
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:12 PM
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I didn’t mean literally the second date but if u like her and can see urself settling down u gotta get her before someone else does simple as that
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:11 PM
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As a girl on snap when I post a picture at least 10+ guys slide up if we deem u as creepy we block or unadd u if it’s a normal compliment like “your pretty” or “your makeup looks good” we won’t. I think u might be the problem here not the girls 🤣
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:10 PM
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My fiancé bought me flowers after a week now we are pregnant and engaged y’all just don’t listen to what women want when we show u the cards if u wanna settle down you have to be serious and show us that 😂😂 that’s why he settled down at 22 and ur what 40?
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:07 PM
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Just answer with ur true intentions it’s not some game we just wanna be prepared
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:05 PM
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It looks insecure when u change urself just for women bc women’s standards are a lot more flexible than dudes standards you fr just have to show us real affection and interest that we don’t get from other men easy asf just bring flowers to a second date and she’s urs
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:03 PM
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Idk some men like chubby woman when I weighed 40lbs more than I do now I got just as much if not more action 😂 from good looking men too athletic or strong and very attractive on the face
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:00 PM
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Just bc ur chubby don’t mean u can’t be hot 😂 my man is chubby and he is SEXYY but always says I’m out of his league. Weight doesn’t equal attractiveness unless ur obese
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:56 PM
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That’s really gross 😀
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:53 PM
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Being chubby shouldn’t stop you as long as ur pretty. I’m pregnant and ppl still slide in my inbox all the time dudes are easy asf to get they’re whores 😂
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:52 PM
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That’s definitely a challenge! I think if you’re happy with yourself then that’s all that matters the right girl will be out there for u
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:37 AM
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I feel like most woman prefer just a normal looking dude. Personally if I saw a 6’3 guy with muscles the size of my head I’d be more scared of him than attracted 😂 maybe try looking athletic but not like a body builder
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:35 PM
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It is above average the median heterosexual man (age 18-60) reports somewhere between four and six opposite sex partners in their lifetime. If it’s more than 10 by 25 imma assume u got diseases and ur a whore idc
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:31 PM
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Yea plan b is also painful asf for us. Forces us to shed an egg in a day, just but condoms that fit they make custom one based on length and girth. But congrats on the baby mines due in November 😂😂
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:27 PM
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There’s like condoms that u can buy custom to fit you. Especially in states banning abortion rn no woman gonna wanna fuck with out a condom unless she want that child support 💲
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:25 PM
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Exactly! Plus online you don’t know if they are faking some kind of persona to sound like ur person but irl it’s hard to fake that long !
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:25 PM
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Ur confidence will get you further than your money! Ofc women love going on fun dates and stuff but picking up a girl to do that with is all about how u approach her and make her feel during ur interactions. If she feels beautiful and wanted after u talk to her she’s way more likely to come back to you and start a relationship over a handsome guy who makes her feel like shit
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:23 PM
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Ofc! Ur all good I don’t think it’s shallow to approach someone on just looks but also think broadening ur type/ bending the standards u have can be helpful bc I think it’s hard to find the right person in such a narrow box yk :)
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:16 PM
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I never said it was shallow og commenter did. I just said I’m not too sure how long the relationship would last! I actually said dating apps are like the same thing too and a dating app is how I met my husband! Not bashing on it bc physical attraction is a must in relationships
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah fs I agree you are at a disadvantage in life for certain issues but the weight loss should be happening at a low frequency as it can increase other factors losing too quickly, but many women do find big guys attractive, a small girl and a big man make a perfect cuddle pile in my opinion but that’s just me! I also am originally from Texas where bigger is better so that might be why 😂 idk a chunky cowboy is the hottest thing to me.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:02 PM
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I mean dating apps are basically the same thing u swipe if u like how they look I’m sure most dudes don’t scroll to see the interests and things like that. Ofc I’ve fell for people who didn’t fit my normal “type” even married one! I think cold approach is about looks and I’m sure how long those lasted or if it is just casual sex but it can definitely be a start to a relationship just not sure if it’ll be long term ?
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:26 PM
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I definitely get that! It is ingrained in society for men to be the bread winners and never ask for help I think all that bullshit should be thrown out it doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things money is fake we put so much value on pieces of paper!
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:23 PM
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Definitely when you love someone their “flaws”can be ur favorite thing about them ! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:20 PM
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a number of studies have reported a higher mortality risk associated with weight loss, compared to maintaining a stable weight when obese and the mortality of gaining weight has been inconclusive, so if you stay at 260 ur whole life ur more likely to die if u lose weight. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5803289/
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:17 PM
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Guilty til proven innocent*
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:32 PM
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Right? Women are taught all men are kidnappers, rapists, or murderers until proven otherwise kinda like a guilty til or own innocent thing, definitely approach by urself bc even that can be a lot for women make her feel comfy!!
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:31 PM
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Women nowadays are more likely to be in a job high paying job than stay at home, this thinking is set in the 1950 stereotype. A women having a higher paying job than you shouldn’t be a turn off or something you think about if it is than maybe ur too fragile in ur masculinity to handle her. There’s other ways of providing than just being the bread winner.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:29 PM
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This is good FWB can be a fun no strings attached way to explore. It can get bad if jealousy/ feelings get involved but my last fwb the only reason we stopped was bc he got into a relationship then I did, I was happy for him and congratulated him I think it can turn out bad with the wrong person tho
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:24 PM
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How do you open? Something funny and charming like a cheesy pickup line? Bc that’s good women love that. Ask her about shit you see in her profile, it says she likes hiking? Ask her where she likes hiking at. She should be asking you questions too if she’s into you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:20 PM
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Approach alone ask her to join you. Approaching with a group of grown men is scary/overwhelming to a lot of women.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:17 PM
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Ur confidence matter more than looks or money. My husband had financial troubles a few months after we first got together and it didn’t deter me but he was always worried I would leave him bc of it. If ur shallow enough to care about money someone has then you should be finding sugar daddies not casual sex so I think ur good just build up the confidence and if she’s willing to go to ur place suggest going to her instead of u don’t like ur house as hookup spot
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:16 PM
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This!
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:04 PM
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Ur confidence will get u further than your body, women’s standards are a lot more flexible than men’s. Hell some women love big men I know I sure as hell do my husband is 5’10 and 270. It really depends on who ur talking to ❤️
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:55 PM
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This is good advice. Women a lot of times get treated like a prize something to win over when we just wanna be treated like a normal person, my husband has two friends that are girls he grew up with his mom and sister his dad passed when he was 17 so he got his roots from his dad and his mom taught him how to treat women.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:44 AM
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It’s the confidence that makes you attractive to these women! Ur a natural that’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:32 AM
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Chubby girls suck it best bc they eat good know how to use they mouth 😂 but FR good for u take that confidence and run with it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:20 AM
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👎
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:17 AM
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I tell my husband words of encouragement everyday I buy him his air soft stuff and spoil the fuck out of him. I think it depends on who ur with and how they show love
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:14 AM
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Ur like 30 posting in a subreddit abt advice on getting women. U should be with a wifey material women by now, check urself before u have opinions on thing u clearly don’t understand. All but one “bad boy” I dating in high school was a toxic dude so my experience is valid.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:11 AM
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My og post was abt bad boys he’s describing most likely abusive, cheaters, and immature so yes I was talking about toxic men to begin with, maybe you should read further into my comments smart guy. No one rlly cares if u found it boring, I told my experience with toxic relationships and that little things are what makes a girl happy and want to be with you long term.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:03 AM
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I’m boring bc I don’t like fighting and toxicity? Me and my husband have a better relationship than you could dream of 😂 keep being toxic see you when ur divorced and have two kids to pay child support for. Toxicity won’t make a relationship last 👎
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:52 AM
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They are different bc most men are really bad at relationships as you’ve proven. Women have always been a better option and it’s really not that different considering I’ve been on both sides. Dated a chick for a year before I got w my husband and was exclusively only dating women before all that.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:17 AM
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I’ve had many girlfriends and boyfriends so yes I have gotten women
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:50 AM
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Me too we always preach body confidence for women but never men. It’s sad that they think they have to be a certain way for approval from women
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:10 AM
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Women don’t care about looks as much as they care about how you make us feel, you can literally pick flowers from the side of the road it give it to us and we will be happy. If she does care about the money then she’s not worth it. A few months after I got w my husband he lost his job and was behind on rent, I stayed because he made me feel special and loved I didn’t care that his finances were bad. Do shit for you not approval from women
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:34 AM
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Lots of women like big boys! Get to your desired weight for you my husband is 5’10 and 260 I think he’s the sexiest mf alive. When we first got tg he weighed even more, it’s all about preferences really!
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:34 AM
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Just don’t. It’s weird and we do not like that, idk abt y’all but I’d literally think u wanted to kidnap me. I’ve always been taught not to go near a mans car unless you know and trust him.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:29 AM
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You gotta stand out. Women get compliments everyday and people asking them generic questions. My husband came at me with a pickup line about stealing my heart or sum and out of the 100+ matches on bumble I chose him.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:24 AM
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Y’all act like women don’t know how to get a woman 😪 just go approach more ladies on the street and get no emotional fulfillment. Y’all aren’t in committed relationships with good women bc you listen to men over women
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:21 AM
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You should be okay :) I think you’ve got it
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:47 PM
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Just do it man. If she rejects you then she isn’t for you, don’t change how u look or anything like these men on here say. A good honest women won’t care how u look it’s about making her feel good 😊
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:45 PM
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Yes ofc some people are bad at texting that’s okay! Keep a line of communication open so she doesn’t feel closed off!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:43 PM
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You should have to become anything of a girl likes you for you that’s the best thing OP please don’t change for women our physical standards are more flexible than men’s bc we don’t care abt looks so much as how u make us feel
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:42 PM
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Dude on this sub will tell u to not text her but they clearly don’t know how women work. Stay talkative and be yourself, ignoring us won’t get u anywhere
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:36 PM
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That’s why they can’t find the clit 😂
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:20 PM
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That’s why I’m in this sub Reddit to give them a perspective of someone who has had successful relationships and married a man who treated me like a queen! Most the dude on here will say to ignore her and make her feel unwanted makes no sense!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:19 PM
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Literally then we get attacked by men saying “no ur wrong” like we aren’t women who actually experience it 😂 these guys need to be themselves and find someone who love them the way they are
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:15 PM
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I just assume they don’t understand social cues. Many men will ignore signals thinking they are making it up or something. Many women won’t flat out say they want to date or fuck u unless they are confident and dominate enough
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:09 PM
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True!! Make us feel wanted and we will think ur the most attractive man on the planet. My husband has a dad bod and I’m obsessed with it he is the sexiest man alive but always says I’m out of his league. I actually prefer the look of a dad bod or skinny dude over abs and muscles, women’s standards for looks are flexible and easily changed
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:07 PM
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Looks don’t matter as much as confidence does! Fake it til u make it or learn to actually love yourself! Women have very flexible standards for looks it’s about how you make them feel. Don’t do anything just bc you think you might like urself more, love the body you’re in and take care of yourself
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:00 PM
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This!!! Treat us like a normal person when talking and woo us with cute gestures, don’t even have to spend money. Bring us a pretty rock or flowers you picked and we will value you higher than a man that never did anything for us!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:51 PM
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I know many women who prefer a skinny guy or a big guy! It’s just subjective, I don’t find abs and muscle attractive but a chunky guy? Yes please!! Maybe it’s the area your in? I know in place like Cali they probably prefer an athletic guy but up here in WA big boys and skinny boys are always taken and they athletic dudes might be but their gfs usually are kinda a step down from them :/
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:47 PM
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Women who are interested in you should be interested in ur hobbies too! Talk to them about weight lifting they might ask questions about it if they like u if they don’t ask questions they probably aren’t too interested. Talk about stuff you like and ask her about things she likes!!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:44 PM
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Honestly you might just be presenting yourself as a friend, catch a vibe with a girl! Maybe don’t ask for something right away and make them like you first, you have the right stepping stones to get a relationship but you might be jumping into it ofc I’m not there so idk! Flirting should come naturally if u have chemistry to begin with :)
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:42 PM
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Are u over 18? Download a dating app! If they aren’t replying they probably aren’t interested, keep trying and you will find a good match for you !!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:37 PM
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It is very subjective! I’d probably rate myself lower than most men would and my husband thinks I’m way out of his league but he is literally a 10 in my book!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:34 PM
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Exactly this!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:31 PM
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Women aren’t as shallow! Our requirements are loose and bendable whereas men have strict set of standards they want in women. Exactly like the other comment post Malone is not conventionally attractive but ong so many women love him! He is slightly chubby, has face tats, and long hair not a typical model but we drool over him! We care about how u make us feel, my husband constantly tells me I’m out of his league but I love him to death he is the most handsome man in my opinion, and it’s bc he ma…
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:31 PM
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I consider it okay to call an ex crazy if she cheated, was abusive, manipulative, or was constantly starting fights! But even I’ve been called the crazy ex bc I broke up with him when he didn’t want me to, and guess what!? He came back about four times after that 😂 if it was really a crazy ex they’d want nothing to do with her
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:28 PM
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You’ve got to have the confidence to get more attractive women and also maybe u aren’t a seven if u can’t get a nine? Not to mention that number is subjective so what u considered a 9 might actually be a 7 to someone else! If they are that shallow abt ur looks maybe u aren’t finding good honest women just girls who wanna party.
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:25 PM
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You have the confidence to get those attractive women which is what some men don’t understand! If u go for someone “out of ur league” you might be surprised that most aren’t that shallow abt looks like that!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:23 PM
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It shouldn’t be a deal breaker! I had fun dating virgins teaching them new stuff and exploring, virgins are always more open minded in trying new things!!
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:20 PM
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No one said u had to be ugly to be a virgin I just said most women find it fun and a teaching moment! I have dated virgins so don’t tell me it’s untrue. I also never said he should advertise it but he should be honest if the intention of having sex is there! Please do not twist my words u men always do 😂 I converse w females on these topics often as I am a female and fuck even my bestie is dating a guy (for 2yrs) that was a virgin we do not care unless u are trying to get w shallow women as stat…
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:19 PM
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I think a dating app might be better u can set ur location anywhere if u prefer Hispanic women put ur self in a Hispanic place yk? I just think women on Omegle are there to have fun not start a relationship/ fwb
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:13 PM
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I go for big dudes, I like chunk. And most of my friends love a dad bod too or skinny dudes a ton of them say abs an shit aren’t that attractive. Ofc I don’t speak for all women but just be urself if u wanna work out do it but not only for female attention
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:25 AM
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I’m 5’3 currently pregnant so my weight is confidential, I’m 18, men chase me idk how attractive I’d be to u, i think im hot asf and my husband is needy. Im obsessed with it bc most guys will constantly slide up on stories and shit but really j want to fuck and needy man just mean he cares, and wants to show affection I love it and most of my girl friends do too.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:06 AM
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My husband is needy! Asks me for affection all the time I absolutely love it!!! Definitely helps keep us into it these “alpha men” who can’t talk abt their feeling get girls who won’t last very long in the grand scheme of things. Husband material is a caring, gentle, and honest man!
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:03 AM
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If ur just being you then the right woman should come along eventually! I saw y said in comments ur autistic which is probably why ur mimicking how they act and that’s okay but when ur true personality comes out then they should still want to be around u. Gotta think no one is fun all the time I’m a bubbly outgoing person but when I’m home I really just sit there on my phone or clean!
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:00 AM
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Maybe guys should be themselves and the right woman will come. Appearances are different for women we find all kinds of body types attractive the notion of him say to workout makes no sense lots of women love big boys lots of women love scrawny boys. I personally don’t even find abs or excessive muscle attractive men have no clue what women want and it shows by this dude LENGTHY ASS post
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:51 AM
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I never said that I said it doesn’t often work out !
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:41 AM
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I agree we should stop rating women but if u think my blue eyeshadow is lying to u abt my appearance… u might be slightly slower than a lot of men. It’s not my fault my eyelids aren’t glittery and my lips aren’t red I just like doing the art on my face 😂
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:40 AM
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That’s how I met my husband. He is my best friend and my partner, if I can’t be friends w u I can’t date u end of story! I wanna be able to talk to u like my friend and love on u like my man it’s not hard to grasp the concept of organically starting a friendship, u work w her see her at the gym whatever talk to her there then after awhile get her socials that’s organic not cold start that’s multiple times talking to someone and feeling them out.
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:32 AM
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Be supportive and interested in what we like! Comfort us when we are sad and celebrate with us when we are happy! Match energy fr
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:27 AM
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U can meet women lots of places to organically start a friendship! If u approach colleagues and stuff like that it’s easier to start one, I’d not consider it cold approach if u know of the woman. Ofc cold approach can work but rarely and really only if u decent looking!
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:24 AM
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Looks don’t matter much and it’s never been boring for me I enjoy a chaos free life! Stress makes me physically ill so a man that causes problems will make me actually throw up 😬 I love getting the stupid little things like pretty rocks and flowers and having someone I feel comfortable talking to and joking with, without feeling like I’m walking on eggshells as to not upset him
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:14 AM
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I like a man, someone who will be there emotionally for me, think about me when he’s doing things like randomly picking me flowers bc they reminded him of me, someone who can be compatible with me sexually and someone I rarely fight with. As for physical aspects it might shock u but a dad bod is a must or at least a lil chunk and pretty teeth that’s it!
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:11 AM
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I don’t like bad boys bc the type I assume ur referring too would most likely be abusive, cheaters, or immature. No woman enjoys a mean guy.
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:07 AM
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Maybe don’t act crazy? Idk but if they all think ur annoying u probably are I’m sorry 😢
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:01 AM
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I don’t think a lot of women care abt virginity! I see it as a fun time to help them learn and teach them how to do stuff right. If a girl does care she clearly is just shallow ! But if ur not honest and go in awful it could hurt ur chances at keeping a relationship bc compatible sex is a staple in relationships.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:57 AM
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Maybe Omegle isn’t the best place to meet ppl? Just ask for it if they say no then so be it
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:54 AM
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I think there’s an option on bumble at least that says if u want a relationship or not or a casual one. If u match I’d make it clear from the beginning u don’t want a relationship just sexy time. Many women are okay w hooking up if ur a decent looking guy, whenever I hooked up there was no dates just went to his house or he came to mine hung out smoked fucked then left. Sex isn’t all that great ur not missing out on much unless u find someone who know how to do it right.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:52 AM
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Yes it does. If u attract “crazy” women or women who are manipulative I can’t trust u too much. If u say every girl you’ve been with is crazy I’m out bc it probably wasnt her, the common denominator would be you. For the physical aspect women do date less attractive men from my experience, the women is usually like 2+ points above the mans appearance.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:46 AM
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Cold approaches are off putting it can be successful if ur not a weirdo but most of y’all are. Idk who needs to hear this but just bc u got a couple dates and maybe some hookups from cold approach doesn’t mean it works. If y’all want a real relationship befriend the woman first then get more in depth. It’ll last longer and you both can decide how compatible u are.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:43 AM
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Maybe you just talk to bitches? Idk man me and all my girl friends love when a man will woo us with gifts and reassurance!
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:15 PM
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… my fiancé texted me right away after our first date, bought me flowers, and was respectful well being a gentleman. His reassurance that he liked me, texting me first, and him showing he cared with gifts all made me fall for him. I’m sorry but ur “alpha male” persona isn’t what will get u a good woman it’ll get u a girl lacking in personality, intelligence, and motivation.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:05 PM
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Ur actually hilarious. My fiancé knew he wanted to marry me since day one 😂 and we both know us tg is forever type shit. Even if he somehow died and left me single I wouldn’t be lookin for another man I’d jump on a woman bc yall are EASY. Too easy. Sluts perhaps? Whores even? All Ik is that if I ask any dude he’d give it up 😂🤚 that’s why ur single and I’m with the love of my life.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:05 PM
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Sir it has happened to me multiple times. It’s called SEXUAL ASSAULT. Idk what high horse ur on but dudes fall at any woman’s feet, y’all are easy. I’m engaged and pregnant and still have ppl asking me out and sliding up on my stories 😂😂
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:57 PM
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Yeah if you jump into asking for a date we will assume it’s a hookup. I met my fiancé on a dating app we talked for a week and a half before he asked me on a date, by that point I knew we had chemistry and I knew he wanted more than sex. we dated for a bit then made it official now pregnant w his child (an accident but oh well) and engaged
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:57 AM
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Maybe they assume u want to just hookup bc ur on said dating app? If it’s tinder definitely. Make ur intentions for a relationship clear from the beginning. No need to change from being nice (which women do love) to being a dick. How long do u talk to them before going on a date? If u talk for at least a week or more that’s good. Some women also try to see if a guy will have sex on a first date to determine if they are only in it for sex, I’d say if u want something more with a particular woman …
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:42 AM
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If you run out of things to talk about quickly maybe it’s not a match! The first time I met my fiancé we talked for hours, then I came over the next day and we did it again! It kept happening like that and we always have conversation topics the flow was easy and consistent. He also knew right away I was who he wanted to marry we moved in after two months and still talk all the time even though we see each other all the time
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:34 AM
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Don’t do this this ever. Woman will assume ur a creep, kidnapper, or murderer. We don’t like it and Idk what u said but if it was catcalling to some degree it’ll also turn off a lot of women. Especially when we are alone just leave us alone approach at a bar or club or coffee house and don’t be weird.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:25 AM
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As a woman I agree w him. If I don’t get a text right away I assume ur not into it and I’d be a second priority in a relationship. We go on the date or we meet and when we leave and get home I want a text like “did you make it home safe?” “Hey when are you free to do this again?” If you text me hours or days later I won’t respond most likely and if I don’t respond to ur fast text ur creepy 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:44 AM
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I don’t think a lot of women care you guys! I have dated virgins before, I personally see it as like a teaching moment. I think it’s fun to help them explore and tell them how to do it correctly, just put urself a out there and take a shot at a woman u find attractive. U miss 100% of the shots u don’t take!
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:34 AM
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Bro if a dude did this to me I’d be very uncomfortable… don’t do this
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:21 AM
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