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I definitely think our society needs to work to appreciate, value, and encourage men. However, as someone who was raised in a very religious family (homeschooled, didn’t date until college) I see these statistics in a more positive light. I was a virgin until I got engaged after graduating from college, and I think being able to express yourself sexually for the first time in a safe and committed relationship is so freeing and fulfilling. If the trend is that as a whole we are waiting for more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:41 PM
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Thanks, I really appreciate it :) I’d probably be too much of a baby to get face surgery anyway, so I guess it works out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:45 AM
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It’s Reddit, we’re all creeping 😂 Oh man, Natalie Dormer is fabulous! Her expressions are pretty much unbeatable, and I think she’s so charming. Also thanks! That’s so nice of you! I’ve got a lot to work on though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:03 PM
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Well good luck with your unicorn; I’m sure it helps to have a goal either way. I’m picturing a young Amanda Seyfried :) And thanks, can’t wait to read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:21 PM
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Omg this was fantastic. I definitely wasn’t expecting that much detail, but I love it. It’s so much more helpful than a general “don’t be fat” recommendation lol. Do you think most men have such a specific type, or do you think you’re pickier than the average man? Also if you don’t mind, yes! I’d love to hear personality preferences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:58 PM
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Omg I love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:31 PM
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You can’t just tease us like that, and then not share your type! Haven’t you ever read the rules of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:05 PM
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This is actually really wholesome. I’m sure she values you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:12 AM
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Of course you’re right that couples should try to show love to each other in the love language that means the most to their partner. The only potential issue I see is the fairness as far as time and effort. If one partner is putting in two or three hours a day (or more) cooking and cleaning, their partner should also be putting in an equal amount of time and effort to show love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:04 AM
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This is really helpful, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:54 PM
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Girl you’re doing the lords work in this hot mess of a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:41 AM
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Another women who prefers short and muscular guys checking in. You’re right that most women prefer tall men, but not all of us. Even a dreamboat like Rosie Huntington Whitley is with Jason Statham. He’s 5’6” and three inches shorter than she is. It might take longer to find a women who prefers short and stocky women, but there are quite a few out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:39 AM
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This might not be what you’re looking for, but have you thought about posting on r/equalattraction or r/rateme?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:01 PM
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Thanks for your response. Of course I can’t speak for all women, but two out of the three men that I’ve been obsessed with were short and average or below average attractiveness, although not overweight. What they all had in common was a confident, playful attitude, good eye contact, very intelligent, both about their specific fields and in their overall verbal banter, and they were not afraid to invade a woman’s personal space if they felt there was chemistry. All this created a huge amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:46 AM
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Just to add my two cents, I totally agree that physical attraction is very important in a relationship. However for me, things like charisma is a huge creator of sexual tension and physical sexual desire. Physically I don’t have a type, as long as a man is generally about as fit as I am. But I can’t have real desire for someone without verbal chemistry, intelligence, and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:10 AM
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I am 1000% here for this Reddit love fest, and expect at least one helicopter couple selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:22 PM
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Good job friend, get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:03 PM
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I wish this was higher up, I think it could be really helpful for actually nice men who struggle with women. A man who is weak or a pushover can be a huge liability for a women, especially if they prioritize feeling safe with or respecting their man. You can be nice, empathetic, etc without being weak, afraid, or a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 01:21 PM
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These type of social policies need to be changed at the federal and local levels of government. If you want to see actual change in things like social programs you should be looking at the policies, and the (primarily male) congressmen that created them. Bickering about how people shouldn’t take advantage of things they shouldn’t have will change nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:35 AM
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Maybe some women, and if so that’s fine. I definitely agree with getting the government to stop stealing our money and passing it around to other people. Many women like myself paid our own way through college, and pay more than our fair share in taxes. I’m all for people of both genders having to pull their own weight. Having to take responsibility for your actions is good for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 08:47 PM
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I definitely think both genders could benefit from having sex robots actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:54 PM
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How do you think we could realistically change women’s biological sexual standards? It seems to me that either men would have to work unreasonably hard to be more attractive physically and emotionally, or else we would just have to be ok with a huge percentage of the population being single. I’d love to hear your thoughts about a better option; both of those solutions aren’t great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:41 PM
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Omg this thread is killing me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:33 PM
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I think that it’s much easier to look like a top woman when you have lots of money to throw around. Personal trainers, a chef, tailored clothing, the best hairstylists and makeup. Could it be that many of these women look that fantastic they married into money and had the means to become model tier after the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:39 PM
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In general I agree, especially if we’re just talking about OPs Comic-Con cosplayer type example. I live in a city, and conceal carry when I might be out late by myself. If I ended up being followed by a man who was yelling sexually suggestive things while I was alone, and it escalated to the point where I thought I might be attacked, in that instance I might defend myself and escalate it to a physical altercation. I believe in freedom of speech, but I also believe I have the right to defend myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:24 PM
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Of course we all have freedom of speech, and have the right to say rude or sexually aggressive things. However, when someone is behaving outside of social norms in that way, of course people are going to think there is something wrong with them, or that they’re creepy and offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:53 PM
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This is such a fantastic answer. There’s nothing wrong with making comments within the boundaries of social norms or starting a conversation with someone you find attractive. However, if you start throwing around aggressively sexual comments to someone you don’t know, don’t be surprised when they think you’re creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:47 PM
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I agree with you that men should never have to preemptively reject themselves. If you’re attracted to someone, and want to reach out in case there is mutual attraction, that’s fantastic. I think the issue is when, like the poster mentioned, someone is going from 0-60 sexually. There’s a huge difference between starting a friendly conversation and starting off with throwing around sexual comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:41 PM
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This powder foundation definitely is! I’m oily too, so I can’t do liquid foundation either. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 05:03 PM
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I’m obsessed with the Too Faced Born This Way complexion powder. I put on a little lightweight glossier concealer first, and the combination is definitely the most flattering light coverage I’ve found. Good luck with your search! Edit: Forgot to include my routine! After washing, I use Neurogena Hydro Boost City Shield and Neutrogena oil free moisture with sunscreen under my makeup. Then glossier stretch concealer, glossier cloud paint blush, glossier boy brow, a light eyeshadow (I’m still searc…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 04:31 PM
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I agree, but I think really accomplished dancing would definitely be included as something that can make a woman feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:18 PM
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It’s not necessarily cool, but I love painting. It’s great to have an artistic release, and when you throw in a fantastic playlist and really sink into it, it feels like a mind massage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/20 11:12 PM
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Uhh, what a fantastic thread! I’ve already added a bunch of things to my playlists thanks to you ladies. :) To add some suggestions of my own, right now I’m loving: Utopia by Goldfrapp Perfume by Annella Monster by Dodie Vai Tu Sei Libero by Dalida Black feat. Nora Jones Dream by Tessa Violet And almost anything by Coeur De Pirate
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 02:44 PM
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Right?? I generally feel bad for guys on this sub who are really having trouble finding love, but i have zero sympathy for someone who’s just annoyed that his “looks match” isn’t hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:18 PM
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I agree girl. I don’t get the height obsession. I’m 5’4” and I prefer someone my height or a few inches taller. Shorter stocky guys are more physically appealing imo, and cuddling someone near your own height is just so comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:13 PM
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You’re probably right that there are some women out there who don’t need to put in work. I follow lots of Victoria’s Secret models daily diet and workout videos, and they consistently workout at least once a day, and they’re really busting their buts; they do lots of cardio and weights with a trainer. Most of them also follow very strict meal guidelines, but you’re right that not all of them do. Many celebrities have to do the same; for instance Blake Lively had to fast in addition to just worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:44 AM
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Myself and most of my fit friends spend significantly more than six hours at the gym a week. We do intermittent fasting every day and eat very low carb. We pay for expensive haircuts and blow outs, get spa treatments every month, meditate and do yoga to cultivate mental health, take cooking classes, and work on being informed and interesting conversationalists. This is of course in addition to our 9-5s. All of my high smv friends do much more than basically shower and groom. Edit: I’m not compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:18 AM
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I’m 5’4” and I prefer a man my height or a couple inches taller. My ideal male body type is slightly muscular/stocky/compact looking men, and this just tends to be much more common in shorter guys. The taller a guy gets, in general, the lankier he can look. IMO shorter guys are also just the perfect height for hugging, etc. It feels so much more comfortable and intimate when you can get close and look into each other’s eyes. I don’t want to feel like I need to stand on a chair to get quality eye…
/r/seduction12/07/20 12:44 AM
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Like many other women, I carry a gun and wouldn’t dream of relying on random men to jump in and save me if I was in a dangerous situation. We are all responsible for our personal wellbeing, regardless of gender. The same goes for dates. Like many other women, I don’t put out outside of relationships, so I make a point of splitting the cost of dates. It’s much more comfortable to avoid some man you barely know feeling entitled to sex because he paid for a $15 dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:23 PM
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Ok, thanks for the response. From some of the posts I’ve read here, I assumed Chad was some god tier type, I didn’t realize the inc5l origin. It makes a lot less sense to me now that some men hate on Chad so hard. Chad is basically them after a year of gym/nutrition/socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:01 AM
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So just to clarify, are you saying that Chad is... whatever someone lower on the sexual market place totem pole thinks he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:49 AM
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I dress much sexier at home than I do in public. It’s validating to look in a mirror and notice the changes eating healthy or fasting do to your body. It feels good to work out looking like the yogis in the yoga videos you’re training with. The way I dress at home makes me feel good about myself. In public, I cover up almost all of the time. I don’t prefer potentially awkward or uncomfortable social interactions with men I don’t know, and I hate feeling stated at. Not all women are dressing up f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:09 AM
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