Emotional-Log1277 Archive

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3	If it isn't already, please make this scientific article about how little looks matter for romantic success a part of the First Aid Kit! I wonder if there could also be something of a feedback loop going on…? I only ask because there is some of this that I really identify with from when I was younger. I was super insecure when I was in my late teens and early 20s. And because of that I just sort of perpetually assumed no one would like me and, at the time, just sort of defaulted to not liking much about anyone else either. Because I was on the outside, I wasn’t really in on any of the fun or jokes or warmth or anything. People di…	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/24 08:29 PM
2	If it isn't already, please make this scientific article about how little looks matter for romantic success a part of the First Aid Kit! Oh yeah, that would make things harder. That’s so interesting. I’m curious, do you like men that you’ve met? I’m trying to understand if it’s something specific to women that you don’t like or if it’s just people in general, including women. I guess I can see how if you don’t get along with anyone, attractiveness would really be the only remaining factor to consider.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/24 07:11 PM
2	If it isn't already, please make this scientific article about how little looks matter for romantic success a part of the First Aid Kit! Gotcha. That makes sense. For what it’s worth, at least a couple of those are things you can work on over time. ☺️ I’m not saying you shouldn’t want an attractive partner— but it’s okay to also want someone you actually get along with and like spending time with, too! I think sometimes we set ourselves goals that are intentionally unattainable when we feel undeserving— sort of like the low self-esteem you mentioned. Like believing “i only like women who are too hot for me” so it’s less of a blow…	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/24 08:45 PM
2	Conflict and Connection in Couples This is so well said. My mind was blown at the “90% are in constant conflict” statement. I felt sad for OP reading that— imagine looking around you and reaching that conclusion! The world would look really bleak. Either they are surrounded by a tight circle of very unhealthy people, or they have a hard time noticing the good and the neutral, and disproportionately register the bad. Either way, that sounds really depressing. 🙁 OP, for what it’s worth, relationships can be, should be, and generall…	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/24 05:50 AM
3	If it isn't already, please make this scientific article about how little looks matter for romantic success a part of the First Aid Kit! Can you help me understand why you value looks more than other qualities to that extent? I’m not trying to be argumentative, I promise. I’m just really wanting to understand.	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/24 05:05 AM
5	What advice would you give to someone still in r/redpill who is questioning their beliefs? This. This all day!!	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/24 04:48 AM
1	If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers? When one person said that women may seek divorces because their partners are behaving badly, you heard: “every man whose wife leaves him is a dirtbag”. When another described a particular type of situation where a woman stays in a bad relationship longer because she has kids, you heard: “every time a relationship ends, it’s the man’s fault” My friend— when someone answers a question by illustrating with specific examples, you gotta stop assuming they are talking about every single person in exis…	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/24 04:52 AM
3	Skewness in attraction Pretty sure you won this one. That aside, it was fun to read two people arguing where someone asked for studies, another found them and went on to post and summarize them, only for the other person to actually click the link, read it for themselves, and respond to what they read. And then to have that refuted with additional studies. This whole thing was such a breath of fresh air in the world of Internet disagreement. Hats off to you both. That was an inspiring disagreement.	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/24 03:34 AM