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Again, you get rejected then you tell them you wouldn’t have stuck around long anyway. How is that a loss/gotcha?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/26 09:14 AM
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No offense but if I reject someone and they tell me they are a hoe/don’t stick around long anyway, then that’s just more of a relief that a bullet was dodged, what exactly is ragebaity or even upsetting about that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/26 04:48 AM
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No? Some people are into femme and some into masc. I personally am not into masc and I love feminine men. You can see the same in gay men. Some gay men love masculine men and some men love feminine men. And gay men definitely don’t have any feminine leverage (?), it just comes down to sexual preference and what you like to have looks wise in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:30 PM
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The take that women "can not love" I've read here several times, they simply can't comprehend, that women are also "humans" and that biology does not just erase brain activity, chemical components and connections. Even pets can feel love, so I assume they see them lower as an animal as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:20 PM
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How are they not equal? Your money is not mine so unless you literally pour your whole paycheck into a shared account that I can use, your money does not affect me. I am unsure how your savings would affect me or our relationship, especially if you keep them to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:17 PM
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I haven’t dated a man for 5 years for this exact reason. I’ve made bad experiences, I don’t really like them, so I don’t date them it’s not that big of a deal. I do not think about hating them everyday, not even a monthly occurrence. I am completely neutral towards them except if they try to come onto me then I get a huge ick and tell them no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:29 PM
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Because women experience a lot of misogyny and have a lot of bad experiences with men early on, it’s not rocket science. If a guy is already making sexual innuendos to a 12 year old, then no it’s not the girl‘s fault nor is it surprising they grow up with an opinion on men (which will countless times be proven again, an early 20‘s woman will experience Bad apples too)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:53 PM
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Ok done! Now did you read the post again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:02 AM
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Read the post again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:54 PM
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You’re wrong, women can be alone at home in their room playing video games, having no friends and no sex, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:14 PM
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"Perceived benefit" 😭 If you can not comprehend that 50 years ago, women werent allowed to work, educate themselves or literally leave the house, then please don't open discussions around such topics you clearly misunderstand women's rights and you obviously do not understand how women have lived the last 20.000 years. If you need concrete examples pls take a look at the current middle east/asia. I literally also just played a game today with a quest where a woman was only allowed to leave her r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:34 PM
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50 years ago our grandmas still had to ask husbands if they are allowed to go out and work. Now that they can they can be independent. It’s not that men were only there to provide financial support. It’s the fact that women were not allowed to operate at all under the laws of men. I am unsure what’s hard to understand about that and to narrow it down to such a small part, some women still aren’t allowed to literally educate/pursue higher education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:29 AM
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I see a lot of guys disagreeing again on this topic and I find them very close minded. Yes, you can 100% not expect your partner to do something you did not disclose beforehand. People for some reason see their kink as not that bad? Then here is an extreme example. Let’s say someone has a feeding kink and wants you to gain weight. The other person reacts with a „no I don’t want that“. The reaction to that should be „yes, that is fine, sorry“. Just accepting a no if the other one is not into it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:24 PM
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In my example she does not have one. ^^ She just wants you to do it for her. Just like many guys "want" women to do something for them. You basically didn't reply to 90% of my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:54 AM
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So if you were in an experimental phase and sucked cocks, it's my right as a woman now, to want you to do that now even if you noticed after the first time, that you do not like it? And if you refuse, I am supposed to think you're not attracted to me and not as enthusiastic about me as your previous partner whom you sucked cock for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:20 AM
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How about people can just accept if a person does not want to do something. Just like I accept a guy's decision, if you do not want to suck a cock, regardless if you did never do that and "couldnt know if you really like it" or if you might have done it already in the past. It does not at all communicate to me if you are attracted to me just bc you won't fullfill my fetishes (I am a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:15 AM
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Then maybe you did not get my point? You are delusional. I would absolutely love a life where I can just chill in my house and have someone clean up after me + buy and cook food for me everyday. I would love to go to him and have sex on demand whenever I want. I would love for him to leave me alone/in peace when I don't feel like talking or doing something with him. And I would love it, if he just did whatever I wanted when I told him to. Reality is that the other person would get the short end …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:28 PM
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I dont rly understand your argument. Maybe I'd also like my husband to homecook a few times a week, have sex a few times a week, to be leaving me alone and be submissive in terms of what I tell him to do, but it seems very hard for men to like or do that either even if it's so easy to do? It honestly sounds like heaven if someone like that existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:44 PM
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Like literally just post on a random subreddit or on Facebook and you will have people in your dms even if they are undesirable. So when does the unchosen part actually activates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:55 AM
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Okay but we are talking about this topic now. Also you would probably too find a guy who wants to fuck and date you if you were into guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:54 AM
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When does unchosen begin? I doubt any woman would never get chosen to get laid and there’s certainly people who would date them as well. So does the unchosen part start here alrdy or does unchosen start at „not getting chosen by the ones she is attracted to/likes“? I rly dunno if there’s any woman who seriously wouldn’t get chosen by any guy in the whole world ever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:54 AM
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No I am having a hard time finding anyone attractive sorry.. if it’s alrdy a once in a year event in reallife I don’t think it would get better if the handful were not seen again at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:51 AM
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Sorry but it’s clear that there already are a lot of men hating women so sure, usually women‘s hatred for men started with men hating women/misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:19 PM
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So there is a huge group of fujoshis, if you count that. But in BL (boys love) media, you definitely have passive men who get seduced 😅 and characters that people love. Yaoi, Danmei, can be in form of novels, manhua/manga/manwha or donghuas/animes, even live action series. So what’s your question exactly? Because there’s a huge fanbase that loves the shy and passive shous/uke I personally usually prefer the „bottom“ over the „top“. If you want a book that’s specifically „woman seduces man“ idk, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:54 AM
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I am a very visual person, I love pretty men. But I don’t feel like I am in their league. So I would probably not increase my sexual encounters bc I need to find them pretty and I doubt I would catch a lot of the ones I do find pretty. (There arent that many in the first place and they need to be attracted to me too so that will be an issue.) so in the end I’ll probably just stay at home and not have anything casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:44 PM
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Then why are you downvoting me or arguing against the post? It literally says "find yourself someone who fits it and don't try to coerce someone into something they don't want to do". If you agree that you'd hate getting degraded, then you're just agreeing with what they (and I) said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:47 PM
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If he roles were switched you would likely not find that you were bonding through kink. It is not hard to understand what the post means. If you get degraded and do not enjoy that, then you'd feel the opposite of bonded with the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 PM
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Hah I looked at your history and you stated you only found 3 men attractive and that they were all straight- I have the exact opposite problem, the only men I sometimes find attractive then turn out to be gay, what a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:31 PM
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Yes you can debate it by just not mentioning the other gender and not saying „but women too“? Like if I have a discussion with my partner I can also avoid saying „but others do this too“? Because that’s not rly a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:41 AM
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You just literally did write what they said in the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:09 AM
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Ye that was my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:50 PM
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So if you're not saying it to women, is your intent to lie to them once you reach "desirable" in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:46 PM
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If anything I am the one criticizing that Trad isn’t a group think and can be feminist, idk where you got the belief that something has to be followed unconditionally if I am the one criticizing the comment not the other way around? I mean they said Trad is generally anti fem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:58 AM
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How’s that connected to what I said? I said Trad and Feminist can exist in the same person, not that you can’t criticize either of the beliefs. There’s also a big difference between criticizing something or being completely Anti something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 AM
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I gotta be honest here I don't think feminism and being traditional are opposites. Part of feminism is that you can choose to be traditional. I think I am both, feminist and trad, so the comment "he was critical of feminism" sounds crazy and not the kind of partner I would want to have a trad relationship with. Do you believe someone can not be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:09 PM
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Here’s the fun fact tho: 99% of the people you met aren’t railing half the town so don’t worry if you put a bit more effort into liking someone sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:35 AM
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That‘s kinda weird but no one’s forcing you to. I think its telling that you permanently post on purplepilldebate but then don‘t really engage in debating + that you talk shit about age ranges but don’t want to reveal your own. Comes across heavily as just some teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:19 AM
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I asked your age and you didn’t say so twice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:14 AM
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Idk why you‘re not answering? Isn’t this supposed to be a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:13 AM
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Your whole comment is about age so it would be interesting to know if you‘re a person in their 28-31 and unmarried
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:48 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:45 AM
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Of course women can be used for sex. That's why I haven't had sex with a guy for 5 years. And if they keep up this attitude, I don't know if I ever will, considering the next time someone would abuse or use me, it is "all on me" and "all my fault". Seriously can't incels see that they are digging their own graves? If you're so obsessed with women, then start respecting them. What you're spouting right now means that even the few people who would talk to you, will not want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:06 PM
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It’s like asking if men would stay in a relationship without attention or sex for example. They wouldn’t. Neither would women. I don’t see how it’s a grand reveal that people need to have something provided to them otherwise I guess you are just room mates? I am unsure what the debate or discussion is even supposed to be about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:07 AM
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Pretty sure men also love what women provide and do for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:15 PM
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Not the norm my ass. If you want to talk about norms, then don't bring rich "famous" people into the equation but start talking about normal people. Everyone likes to see youthful features. Have you ever been on Instagram or Tik Tok? There is definititely goon bait for women as well and it is definitely not a 50 year old bald man with a gut. Idk why men are in a weird bubble where they can not comprehend, that women enjoy younger features too. They are just more conditioned to be open to more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:42 PM
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Actually, apart from Heidi Klum, I just googled "famous women with younger boyfriends" and here are some more https://www.buzzfeed.com/consheabrown1/famous-women-who-dated-younger Kim Kardashian apparently is also someone in their 40s that dated men in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:58 PM
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Just gave you an example, sorry I edited my post. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:55 PM
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Your view is too narrow. Most people do not have money or status, thus, young people prefer dating other pretty people in their age range. On the other hand, if there was a rich 50 year old woman, she would also find enough male suitors, who are after her status and money. I have no idea why you think that would only be the case for men or how that is a good argument. ^^ I can assure you, that even 50 year old women prefer a tight, nice looking young man if they can "afford" one. Projecting rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:53 PM
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What's your opinion on a 30 year old woman with a 20 year old boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:29 PM
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Bla bla bla „men want young“ bla bla bla. Theres rly only two things to say: 20 year old women also prefer men with plump skin and a tight body in their age range + most people do develop until 25, so to most people, yes 18-21 is still „kinda children“ if you‘re 30 yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:05 AM
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Depends how you define attractive.. most people just dont do it for me, but if I spot something that fits my fetishes, then I can get aroused from looking, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:54 PM
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„Why are people so reluctant to blame women?“ They aren’t. Have you ever been on the internet? Men blame women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:49 PM
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I love skinny men. Tbh everyone just looks best skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:06 PM
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As an anecdote, even my 15 years old cousin (female) is already taking uni courses. Her IQ is quite high so she is encouraged to do higher education while still being in high school. Like, literally as a teenager people are already setting your path to be: school - uni - work, no matter the gender. The faster you reach the "work" stage, the better. The people who brag are the ones who finished this school life early and are now in management earlier than their peers, everyone else is just doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:13 PM
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Well people in Europe have kids later in life too, but no one brags about having a job. ^^ No one here can afford houses. Many people pursue University here, generally speaking women are pursuing it more than men here. People here are not only encouraged to be independant, but they kinda have to because they can't afford life otherwise. ^^ That is not a symbol of strongness or independance but just "is how it is". I dont feel like its interesting at all, we live in a very capitalistic world, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:07 PM
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That seems to be something in your bubble, because quite frankly, I have never seen anyone brag about having a job.. I am European though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:45 PM
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Obviously depends how much money I make and if he is willing to do the housework? For a long time I wanted a house husband, but I am just not there careerwise. I am still a student and I think my perspective has changed because life has really gotten expensive. In my current situation I couldn't finance someone else obviously because I am a student with a part time job? I study something in the medical field, so I always had a vision that I would be the bread winner with a husband or wife at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:36 PM
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I just want a cute straight/bisexual not-too-young (I'm not into teenagers) femboy that is a switch, that's worse than finding a millionaire with a lamborghini, no wonder I'm frustrated 🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:12 PM
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Sry I think you replied to him not me dunno why o got the notification that way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:46 PM
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Yeah and writing three paragraphs of hate on Reddit or rather on the internet itself isn’t that rare, are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:45 PM
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How is that rare, you alrdy wrote 2 paragraphs, adding another one isnt that hard or rare to see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:27 PM
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"Smelling the misogyny" is what the comment I replied to worded it so idk why you put it in quotes. And your reply makes no sense either because again, I referred to "online space" vs "irl" which was a topic in the comment I replied to. If someone writes a 3 paragraph rant how they hate women on reddit, then it's not easy to miss the misogyny, while someone irl might not open up so honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:52 PM
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They can smell it on the people here because they already spoke their honest mind in a thread here and what they wrote speaks of misogyny, while someone irl might not exactly go on a rant over women 2 days into dating, the concept/difference between those two things is not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:35 PM
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With that example it seems he is picking 1 (woman too dumb) and the man has full responsibility for lies and abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:25 PM
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I just don’t think teenagers should be the scale here no offense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:26 PM
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I am 30 years old, it’s really hard for me to care what happens in High School. But hmm I dated no one when I was in High School and then had 3 long term relationships, that weren’t short and with different times in between, some short, some long, idk but just logically if everyone is going for the top 20% lots will lose and I just don’t see it, there’s like every third guy and girl single or something that alone doesn’t fit into the top 20% argument and if it would, majority of women would be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:21 PM
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That's actually an interesting way to put it because if all women are fighting for the top 20%, it means 80% of women also stay single and have trouble dating. Looks like they are also as miserable as men, if they keep chasing something that they cant reach!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:48 PM
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So at first I thought maybe you meant that you can not decide being childless because you need a woman to make a child, but it seems like you genuinely believe you have less bodily autonomy because of biology. You also seem to realize that a woman has not much choice in having children either without a man. So you are literally only talking about "woman can choose not to have a child" e.g. via abortion or staying sexless. Well you have the choice to not make children as well by getting a vasecto…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:01 AM
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Men not being able to choose getting pregnant is like a woman saying she can’t choose to make someone pregnant. What’s that point? And suddenly it’s equal parts autonomy again. And women don’t fight for or choose for me to go to war. IMO everyone should be able to make the choice if they want to risk their lives or not generally I think a lot of people would favor not having any war at all which is kind of out of our hands as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:42 AM
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Hm so imo thongs or panties feel the exact same if you are wearing the right size like it’s not more uncomfortable. I usually just wear whatever is clean lel. I also don’t rly understand the „butt cheeks covered“ part because to me slips are for the vaginal discharge, period and keeping pants clean part, not rly because of coverage. I just like them both but thongs look better under certain clothes because it doesn’t give a panty line like in leggings, tighter pants or dresses that’s the only ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:51 AM
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I have no idea. I love children and animals, they are the best. Idk if the thread OP replied to was about having or getting those kids or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:04 PM
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So I do think women get jealous at women, but I find it unlikely that those women are on purplepilldebate downvoting "i love my husband" comments especially if I see every 2nd post men getting jealous and angry at women and virgin subs being filled with "never being enough"? I also find it more unlikely for women to downvote "love" in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:44 PM
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I think they dont care about the Karma, they care about the opinions. It does reflect the mindset of a community if loving your spouse gets many downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:36 PM
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I havent even seen the thread but I just know, it was indeed not women who downvoted that. xD Men get jealous about other men getting "sex and love" all the time especially on the internet, where many men complain about not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:31 PM
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Men are not the prize. They do not at all peak at 50. Men who make children in that age range are egoistical. Not only is the sperm quality worse, let's say they produce a healthy child. Well that child will have a father that's retired before it hits 18, someone who needs care when the child hits 25 and in sad cases, will not even have a father anymore when they hit 30. In no world could I imagine not having my parents or grandparents in my life at such a young age. I find it absolutely narciss…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:57 PM
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I also disagree with that because another anecdote is, that I dont care about mess, I live alone and barely want to do housework, yet I still experienced having to "do everything" when living with men because living with another person the mess quadruples to the point of neighbours calling the property management and him not being able to clean up one single thing, while I go out working and studying. It is literally not a subjective view or an opinion if outsiders notice it too, which causes mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:18 PM
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First of all, I think you are leaving out parts of the story. "Not working + staying at home + homework declining + then blaming you" makes no sense to me unless you're leaving out kids or an illness. A little more individual and anecdotal. Other than that, from my own "anecdotes" and "experience", I had to clean up thrice the mess when living with men while they struggled to do one dish or one cat litter box. So which personal experience "wins"? This discussion is pointless. No people are not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:58 PM
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Actually I read your last paragraph because it had all caps :D There is even a chance that I paid more than him. I dunno, I havent calculated. He paid popcorn and a drink, some drinks at a bar and 4€ tacos and drinks at christmas market. I paid bubble teas, ingredients for a meal that I cooked at his place (about 30 bucks) and some drinks at a bar. In other words, I always paid back what he paid at the next event, but then I realized I am apparently more willing to just pay for him, than he is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:52 PM
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I see, well tbh I am kind of done debating after your first point makes no sense so I wont read the whole thing. The fact that you dont even have a reply to the "fight, flight, freeze" situation is quite telling. I said, the fact that its unlikely to happen means WE DO NOT KNOW how we will react beforehand. You do not know either. You're also jumping so much from literally knowing someone for 2 seconds to "married with a wife that does not protect me". I can just assume, that if I would try to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:08 PM
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Ayo you went from a 2€ red bull to murder and stabbing. If there was an actual situation irl, I am rather sure there is an equal variation of flight or fight in both genders, but the reality is chances are very unlikely we would get into that situation anyway. But if someone tried to hurt my loved ones, of course I would to help. If we freeze up is nothing we know beforehand. >In friendships I can count that when it ends they will not demand half of everything I did with my own efforts. Again yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:37 PM
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Does the Instagram comment section rly tells us anything considering theres this weird trend in any social media comment section where 50 comments all say the exact same like the first one (idk the term for this/english isnt my first language but have you never noticed that somehow one comment becomes the trend and then people are just redoing the same comment over and over?) plus the fact that literally thousands of users cant even tell if something is ai? If anything, comment sections mean to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:25 PM
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Seems staged? So its bad when people find a clip funny thats scripted to be funny? I could see this kind of scene in some american sitcom tv series with a laughing track in the back. If everyone finds the "gag" equally enjoyable/funny is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:45 PM
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No because there’s a difference between wanting everything to be paid or being weird about 4€. I‘m not sure where you are from but I legit witnessed a discussion yesterday between 3 MEN where one was criticizing the other for not paying a 2€ Red Bull or something because „in our culture we invite each other, it’s 2€ not 200€“. So if men can pay for each other in their friendships, then perhaps Wonder what impression you make when you want to date someone. All I am getting from this is that if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:32 AM
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I saw a guy like twice, he was picky over 4,15€. Yes it's wildly unattractive. Cry about equality and gender roles all you want. Being stingy is not attractive. If I dont know you and thats the first impression I get, then thats the first impression I get. ^^ At first I did the bill 50:50 but when I realized that person will literally fight over 4€, it just goes too far dude. And yes I "paid" it back with a round of drinks. But I dont feel like being in a friendship where everything feels transa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:14 AM
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You will find a huge lack in confidence, ambition and emotional stability in men too. I dont really see how those are masculine traits, have you taken an actual look at men? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:35 PM
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Or in other words, if you have to start negotiating with a grown adult as if they were a little child, then it's mentally over for everyone. I doubt men would like a literal mentally backwards woman either, who you have to "teach" how to do chores just for "her" to refuse doing them. As if men want to do twice the work either. I do not believe it is that hard for guys here to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:41 PM
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You know, I am just speaking of experience. There was a time in my life, when I was busy 24/7. I had school, work. Still went to the gym, had my hobbies. I had a guy at home that had no job. No work. Gaming all day. And the flat still looked like a mess. If someone is capable of doing something, think of something and has the time to do something, then I can expect a grown man to "do" it. We had many fights because on top of graduating and working, I had to come home and pick up twice as much, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:38 PM
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You are quite close to the point. The point is, men can do it but they do not and women have to keep reminding them of everything or pick up the slack after them, that is when then it becomes emotional labor. If men would just do it, then no woman would have to complain. But picking up behind a grown as man because he does not want to put socks in the bin or get a gift for their mom's bday, is when it becomes work, because you're doing double the chores, have to think double about things and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:25 PM
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I cant get over the "getting laughed at". You realize that every man is wearing heeled shoes to a suit? The black dress shoe is the most basic, men's shoe you can get. You talked about my country, well then take a quick look at your own country's politician. You can find any president in dress shoes. No matter if you're american, french or japanese. It is THE professional THE basic man's shoe and THE shoe that popped up on that picture in spot number 1. Why do I know more about men's shoes than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:27 PM
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Dress shoes literally all have a heel and always had a heel otherwise I would not even suggest "heel shoes". These shoes are not 12 cm high heels for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:04 PM
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Half of them are sneakers and half of them are dress shoes and again you can do research by yourself, I literally googled 2 seconds FOR YOU. Go type it in yourself, why do you even need a woman to find you the right shoe? Also saying dress shoes are bad..? It's literally the absolute most neutral shoes you wear to suits and it is the first in line. You get laughed at in a professional setting in a suit and dress shoes? Where do you want to work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:03 PM
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So you are saying the hard part is, that you have to do research and that you can not wear EVERY type of shoe with it like loafers. Which means, a girl getting breast augmentation has it easier. This is literally such a silly discussion because the answer is so incredibly cheap and easy to do. And yes, for beauty we sometimes have to make consequences on WHAT we have to wear. An hourglass body cant wear balloon pants that make them look 20 kg overweight, not everyone fits a short or blonde hairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:59 AM
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So you're retarded? I literally googled 3 cm heel shoes and all of these look absolutely decent. Its not my fault that you dont know how little 3 cm is. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:51 AM
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In other words you want to call it easy for everyone else but for you it’s too hard to wear soles, heels, inlays that cost you 50€ max (shoes + inlays) and that styling those would be too hard. Have you even tried buying and styling them? 8,99€ on Amazon. Research a little. Get the style of shoe you want. Try styling them. Worst thing that can happen is that you have to return your items and get your money back you know? Dare I even call it easy to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:25 AM
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Those soles are literally advertised with male models. Ofc I am calling you a troll. Not to mention there‘s the option to combine a short heel with the inlays. Literally get 3 cm heels and 5 cm inlays and style your hair a little upwards and you look above 6‘0. Did you really need someone to tell you that you can combine things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:20 AM
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I haven’t seen anyone leave a good review on some guy‘s height surgery yet. Soles and heels are much more subtle an can have great effects. And literally most people don’t care about it. And I literally googled for 2 seconds and found out that 4 inches are 10 cm (I am not American) and that there are soles/inlays that boost 9 cm, so you‘re off by 1 cm so 0,39 inches. I can’t believe you‘re literally posting rant if you have not even googled yourself and found 10€ inlays that boost you up to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:05 AM
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I personally find that discussion annoying because men can do the exact same. You can have fillers, you can have plastic surgery, you can have veneers, you can wear makeup, you can be not overweight. Height surgery? Just get shoes with heels or put something in your shoes, women have been wearing heels for decades. Hair transplants? Just get a wig, women have been wearing wigs for ages. But apart from you being able to do anything a woman does, a woman then on top also spends money on nails, hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:17 AM
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A man can get injections too if they dislike their wrinkels or other parts of their face? Because you brought up jaw surgery. Idk how much you read up on it, but for example some people rly want rhinoplasties but its expensive or invasive, so they can get fillers/injections to change their profile view/noses first, I am sure there are many injectable options for men too before plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:09 AM
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Women are not randomly missing a leg either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:19 PM
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I already said thrice that some random brain part is not missing just because you have xy chromosomes and women have xx
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:19 PM
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There is no difference, there suddenly is not a whole area in the brain missing from having xx chromosomes. If men can feel love, so can women. If men can feel sad, so can women. If men can feel angry, so can women. If men can feel satisfaction, so can women. Please enlighten me, what part you're doubting about that concept. To an extend I can see how people have trouble projecting that these basic things are also things animals can feel, because we're hardwired the same way, but women and men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:59 AM
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One day they judge single moms (while completely ignoring there’s a man to that equation) the next day women can’t even love their children. Y‘all are genuinely crazy. People are hardwired to all feel the same to an extend and anything that is not „the same“ is pathological (it’s an illness if you can’t feel basic emotions). I genuinely don’t understand how narrow minded someone has to be to not understand the concept that when you stub your toe on a table, everyone is capable feel that pain not…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:21 AM
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How is an anecdote a better response than literally science, logic and your own experiences of love (you received love by women and you are able to love people, what makes you believe other humans can not feel love if you, as a human, can love?)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:33 AM
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It really is not about kid or not, you asked if they can love, not sure why you're still doubting women can love if you literally agreed that they can love
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:41 AM
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But that means women are capable of it? What is that question? It does not matter why they love you, the question was if they can and they obviously do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:34 AM
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Have you ever had a mom, grandma, aunt or sister who loved you? Why is the concept so hard, that basically any mammal is able to love, no matter their gender and kinda no matter their species, anyone who is NOT capable of basic feelings is an outlier not the "norm" or "all"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:31 AM
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Hanging out alone ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:41 PM
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I have also never seen anything like that and I live here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:23 PM
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I do not know, as I am not American, but I can assure you that dating is just as hard in Europe!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:40 PM
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I only read the title but then I wondered, that getting paid is probably better than casual sex as well, because for women the orgasm rate with casual sex is super low, so getting paid would be at least somewhat not a waste of time and rewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:36 AM
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Okay but the thread was about aging and boomer jokes? Just by marrying younger, like boomers, you cant avoid the "i hate my wife" trope. So I do not understand why so many people here are suggesting to marry/settle younger. It literally goes straight against the thread's premise that boomer joke about hating their wives, if they were the generation that married young. No idea about your nagging theory but nagging would have nothing to do with age nor appearance, but usually that stems from chara…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:09 PM
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But if you settle at 26, how does that avoid the "I hate my wife" jokes 2 decades later? I thought boomers were literally the generation, where they DID marry young and now they hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:20 PM
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Okay! Well there is a lot of speculation around this post anyway. We do not know how they are related and the guy could be after HER money after all. We know of female golddiggers but if this girl is going on a Dubai shopping spree, he could be one of the male kind. I would assume, carrying someone's bags is not the worst people have done for money and the way she walks ahead and is having a phone call at least to me suggests they aren't exactly "close"? As for the comments, people can have fant…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:49 AM
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You only replied to half my comment, here I will copy paste it for you so you understand it better Do we feel like a waiter carrying food +drinks or a friendly worker from a hardware store carrying wood to someone's car trunk equals objectification? If not, then so shouldnt this be ^^ It's just some mallboy carrying boxes while she does what rich people do in Dubai, that is literally the service they serve there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:11 PM
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Right. A clip from Dubai might be the least representative video one could use as an example. Do we feel like a waiter carrying food +drinks or a friendly worker from a hardware store carrying wood to someone's car trunk equals objectification? If not, then so shouldnt this be ^^ It's just some mallboy carrying boxes while she does what rich people do in Dubai, that is literally the service they serve there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:13 PM
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No offense but if that is Dubai, is that even her boyfriend or is that a worker carrying her bags? ^^ If it is the latter, that is his job and we are all treated equally "dehumanized" and "replacable"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:56 PM
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No? I dont give a fuck which watch people are wearing. Anytime I see an apple watch its a reminder I should use mine but it's just buried in a box somewhere. Apple watches have way more functionality, I had the thought a few times that technically you do not need any other watches if you have a smart watch and that they are pushing other watches out of the radar. Which I found sad.. and understandable? Why bother buying any other watches? I certainly wont be spending 40€ on some cheap ugly fashi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:24 AM
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Women dont coddle men because you hate us and the actual equality lies in same sex relationships because you dont have to constantly worry that they hate you or belittle you or think less of you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:49 AM
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Also not sure why you are arguing for women being the providers if your starting text said, men should be the providers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:48 AM
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You must be like 19 years old if you think you can not cook as a date activity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:47 AM
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I want at least 3 children but yes it will die if you guys dont step up lol that is again a men's issue. If they cant pay 4€ for dinner, they sure as hell do not have the genes or character to make and care for decent children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:45 AM
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Women on the other hand, love providing, gifting and coddling me :P And it almost feels like they do not have hate towards women either, how freeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:31 AM
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We do need to get back to our roots, but especially men. You want to be the provider? Then why are men these days are literally too stingy to pay 4€ for a taco? It is highly unattractive. There is no way I want to mother a man who does not want to invite me. I actually cooked for this man too. He could not hold 2 sentences of a conversation, then tried to wrap an arm around me. Again, what needs to change are men. I do not even know you, and you wanna get physical? Then later he posted on Instag…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:28 AM
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Oh man sure whole of Europe, a whole continent, half of Asia and North America is insignificant data hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:50 PM
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It is not an outlier, it seems it is tied to how developed a country is and what the beauty standard is. If literally 20 countries are proving your point wrong and number one and two are egypt and the US, what can I say? Whole europe and big parts of asia have skinnier women than men. I live in Europe. So of course I will see more big men, if in a room 2 out of 3 men are obese. But I also do not understand why you are bringing up statistics, that prove your own point wrong. US is top 2 on that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:01 PM
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Actually interesting chart, because Italy, Spain, Germany, Canada, Australia, South Korea, Japan, China all have that reversed. I suppose it all matters on the bubble we live in. Europe, Australia, Canada and the classic 3 big developed asian countries all seem to have bigger men. Though I must say, if you are from the US, the percentile seems to be almost the exact same, so if there's a 50-50 divide, then you should still see the fat guys with bad diets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:50 PM
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I guess I am living in a magical land
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:47 PM
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xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:45 PM
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Yes..? Of course I see it in men, isnt it statistically proven that the quantity of obese men is higher than women's? Google says, for Germany 61% of men are overweight, 47% of women. I am unsure how you have not seen that? ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:26 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:31 AM
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Ok but men arent paying to have their ass eaten and to give someone head so maybe actually do what women have to do when men pay them? Go ahead and let yourself get fucked and suck some dick and give handjobs for 25€ like the other top comment suggested and then talk again?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:33 PM
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I'm gonna kms if men really think giving 8 handjobs a day to random strangers is easy work. Yk what's even easier? Sitting on a comfy seat as a cashier somewhere doing repetitive mindless work for a few hours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:10 PM
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Disagree, men with too much confidence borders a narcisstist which is just as unattractive. I would not date someone who considers "himself the prize". Tbh women also do not like being "less than" and they would have constant self image issues or wonder if he was just playing a shitty game if their partner acted that way (which by the way, a lot of overconfident men are)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:24 PM
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Sorry what is this thread? "Virgin" and "slut" is something men have used for centuries to describe women, in very aggressive and judging ways. Women are only worth when they are virgin, worth nothing when sluts. The internet has existed for 34 years, but only has been used mainstread for like what, 20? If you would want the word virgin and anything related to sex, not to be an insult or judgement, perhaps men should not have literally constructed someone's worth on their virginity/if they had s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:23 AM
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Because women on average are more attractive so the chance to find an attractive women after 9 events is higher, do you truly disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:01 AM
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Tbh I think if a guy in reallife told his friends, he had no luck at a dating event, he would get comforted too. I think the whole comfort vs ridicule is something on the internet. Anyway, looks like the thread was edited, because there definitely was a part about comfort vs ridicule, so now everyone commenting dont even know what OP wrote because now its a lot more harmless, objective and neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:46 PM
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I think the average person is quite ugly, I legit see hundreds/thousands a day and I could only point at a handful and say, I'd be attracted to them. Comfort or ridicule aside, most of these, actually the huge majority of these people are still in relationships. Sometimes, I look at a person online and wonder how anyone could find them attractive but the same person will have a relationship offline. My point is, we need to stop looking at internet reactions. There are definitely extreme reaction…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:05 PM
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This post is literally written by someone who finds that woman unattractive and you are not giving him backlash for it either. It is literally the same thing. Tbh I am bisexual and she does not sound like my type either, but also so does not an overweight guy with hair sticking everywhere, no makeup and not trying to look attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:07 PM
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So you did not find her attractive. The same way, she was not attracted to the men there. I am unsure what your question is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:51 PM
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If you want to bring nature into the equation, then you have to realize that we are animals that evolved in such a way that BOTH parents have to take care of their offspring. It is not "woman have babies, they take care of", cooperative baby care and/or the community helping is part of our evolution. So men spreading their seed carelessly (and then leaving) or men not helping care for the baby, is not actually part of nature. Guess what? In the past, without community/both parents raising offspr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:57 PM
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I am an introvert and do not have many friends. It also means I value friendships a lot and spend a huge amount of time with the friends I do have and I will focus a lot on them. I am the type of person that is rather spontaneous, I will always be up to do something if the other is up too. I could meet up with them everyday irl or if the other person prefers something chill, can hang out online for hours everyday. I think a lot of people only do this kind of timespending with their partner, so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:00 PM
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Sure man so the whole argument once again is that it sucks to be a man and being yourself is so different just because of what is in your pants. If you hate men and you hate your life as a man, why should women like men? I think a lot of people (women) genuinely do not care about what is in someone's pants, I think it is a much bigger deal for men. That's why, for example, gay and trans people usually are finding friends in women and not in men. There really is no balance when we're supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:28 PM
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No, you're forgetting that there ARE women dating women. I do not consider me above average and just by being myself I have been pulling girls since 2010, before I even knew I liked them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:07 PM
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That post is just delusional. The point is, that it's not "something completely different", a man who hooks up with many is just as unattractive. It is either fine for both genders or fine with none and as long as men think it is fine for them (as you just proved with your post), then there will be women asking for equality. In my personal opinion, men should get backlash for their actions as well, but as a woman I am aware that there will just not exist a word like "sluts" or "whores" for guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:47 AM
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As someone who has been gaming for the last 20 years, I have to disagree. I do love sitting down and playing with friends, but if someone does not game it does not make them boring. In fact, as someone who has spend ten thousands of hours in mmos and mobas, it is much more boring to have a "main game" and play it for hours on end every evening. It has nothing to do with maturity, but I think the older you get the more you begin to notice that some things can be too much and can be timewasters an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:38 PM
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Your last paragraph was arguing about how its historic that people "should" be attracted to something, arguing about a point that has never been made in this discussion because no one implied a fat person should be attracted to fat people or a jaded person should be attracted to a jaded person. As a depressed person I know how it feels to want someone who is energetic and happy. I just thought it made your whole "arguing" reductant because you argued about a point that no one made. I just still …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 11:32 AM
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Sorry when did I say someone should be attracted to something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:56 AM
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Thats exactly why I said your example was bad though. You want someone to unjade you, good for you, but with the bodytype issue there's people actually attracted to it but no one is attracted to a jaded person. I am not sure what you dont understand about my point, it is not that fat people have to be attracted to fat people or jaded people to jaded people, I am saying some people are attracted to fat people but no one is attracted to jaded people, so its not a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:56 AM
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Interesting, but kind of a bad example. I heard a lot of gym bros actually have a fetish for fat girls, yet I have never heard of anyone finding "being jaded" hot. I also find it interesting how a 36 year old has been jaded for 20 years and then want to date a 20 year old that is not jaded, imo I find the contradiction/irony funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:19 AM
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It's interesting to read, because most men in their early/mid twenties are already jaded, can you explain that phenomenon? There's incels on virgin and pill subs that turn out to be like 16, 19, 21 - so why are men complaining about jaded women, when they themselves started being jaded way earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:36 AM
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Well but in both cases, the women dont like the attitude and in both cases it didnt matter how he looked, so perhaps the key issue is still the attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:45 PM
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It’s common knowledge that only the top few creators actually make money on that website, it doesn’t take a lot to know a normal job pays better or you have to gain a following beforehand and then start OF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:54 PM
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I have thought about it for 30 seconds?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:52 PM
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Actually in general if you look at the work you have to put in it and potential initial costs like camera, lingerie and toys, you might make even less than 50€. Let’s say it takes 2-3 hours to make 50€ in a normal job, while with onlyfans you start in debt and then earn a euro a day xD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:44 PM
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Apart from stereotypes and treatment, there’s already too much competition on the market, you might think otherwise but having your naked body on the internet in hundreds of photos and videos is not worth 50€
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:42 PM
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Not rly that crazy considering it seems humans are kind of wired to want payback. So women have been pressured by beauty standards for 200 years and felt bad about it. Ok. Now men are pressured by beauty standards and they feel bad about it. Ok. Same with feminism. Women not allowed to work and have money and feel bad about it? Ok. Now men do not want to pay for women anymore. Ok. Idk if you get my point but it seems a common theme that one group feels wronged and then wants retribution/payback.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:01 AM
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I thought the cel in incel and femcel is involuntarily celibate? Sorry I had about 5 longterm relationships in my life and the time I took off in between them was not involuntary. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:17 PM
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I see and disagree. Men tend to say that they are more intelligent than women (and women more emotional but stupid), so I would not exactly say that "the poor men just don't understand" is a good argument unfortunately. I would put on big boy pants and believe, they can figure out how women are especially if they are straight up telling them especially now with the ressource of internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:48 PM
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Sorry whats the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:37 PM
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The point is no man wants to do it. Incels and womenhater are literally the ones that are driving traditional women away from being traditional because they are so repressed they wouldnt even want to buy her a coffee and then blame women for wanting equality, so they should work for their own coffee. I can assure you, men play a big part in why there are less traditional women out there who would have otherwise loved the traditional lifestyle if men's mindset would actually still be like it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:28 PM
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Men do not want traditional women. I myself am more traditional leaning. For example I waited until I was 25 to have sex, I wanted to get married and have children early and I would love to be a stay at home mom. Men do not want that. They just want to conquer a virgin, then call her a slut. They do not want to pay for her, nor want to court her. They do not want children early. They keep bringing up feminism and that women wanted it "this way" when they do not put any effort, no stability, no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:49 AM
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Nope from what I have seen, men like cuddling a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:35 AM
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I dont know why that is the case. Just did not seem compatible, I am sure there are many people who will be fine with you working specific hours. For example, there are a lot of couples who sleep in 2 separate rooms. So it is not weird or uncommon that some women do need some space at night too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:32 AM
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But why? Because you hate women and dont want to pay 5 bucks and the "feminism and equality and you women wanted it this way" is your only argument? Look at my argument about financial equality through income, not gender. How I compare the genders in my comment. Not sure what approach you mean. You really think men would be more likely to write a card, draw a picture and pay for everything, if women did not expect them to? Why would you believe that, if men are already not doing the things that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:05 AM
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Tbh subreddits like PurplePillDebate make it seem rather the opposite aka that men are using their gender as an excuse not to pay for women. I have never met a woman who had issues paying for their woman. Just my anecdote. My ex girlfriend paid for everything and gifted me a lot of stuff, she said gifting was her love language and that she liked seeing me happy. She's the first one who actually brought me jewelry, write cards, even DIY things like drawings, carved glass.. which is cheap to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:56 AM
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What's your opinion on women who pay for women? Like bisexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:34 AM
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Okay I guess. Well my stance is that women can sense toxicity from men. I am not sure why you believe they can’t. It‘s anecdotal. I dated three toxic men and when I sensed it I told them straight up. My last ex was emotionally abusive. So I told him „What you are doing is emotionally abusive“. I am not exactly sure what kind of explanation you’re seeking for. Do you need proof aka do you need me to include a screenshot where I wrote it? Do you want to know how I sensed that a toxic thing was tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:16 AM
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What have you done in your twenties? Was "hooking up with one night stands" the only achievement? Growing up means a lot more than having sex. Between 19 and 30 people - Move together the first time - Go to university together - Have their first real jobs - Travel together - Hobbies that take a lot of time that you might not be able to do later in life either out of age or because you have kids - Gap year in Japan or another country - People also can grow apart once again, it's not too wise to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:15 PM
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Depends how young. The brain develops until 25. Do I think even a 25 years old dating a 40 years old is weird? Yes. Was I personally interested in 30 years olds when I was 19? Absolutely not. Am I now interested in 19 years olds? Absolutely not. I can judge if I want to. Because age gap relationships are never on equal footing and people are in different phases of their life, no matter the genders or sexuality. People should stay safe and protect themselves from abuse when they are young and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:18 PM
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I find my own point interesting actually after I just spend quite a bit of money on black friday and will go for example in a salon on monday which i booked last thursday, how much you actually pay for your clothes and looks. Because if its indeed 50€ a month broken down into a 20€ haircut and the 20th black grafic tee, people do notice and I am sorry if it just doesnt come across as attractive to majority of people (men can identify and notice men with style too btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:32 PM
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Sidenote, if you dress girly you'll definitely attract a large amount of women. I wouldnt even say gays dress in women's clothes though, for example they look great in well fitted suits too which definitely is not a feminine clothing item
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:29 PM
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They are pretty and women find them pretty too, sorry that a grafic shirt and buzz cut isnt enough to look attractive ^^ Women spend a ton of money on hair and clothes, if you go ahead and spend a bit more on a hair cut that you maintain and splurge, maybe even get advice on, a good wardrobe then women will notice it definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:27 PM
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Well dressed, good hair cut and some jewelry like ear piercings and it‘ll transform any ugly to mid guy. Gay guys in general look much prettier than the average dude. How come? They certainly have the same genes as you but they dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:17 PM
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Yes it does, you‘re just not able to dress well but if you took a few hours researching you will be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:15 PM
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Yeah so you‘re blaming the women xD That’s my point. But it’s not women‘s fault if you‘re bad in bed and compare each other to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:51 PM
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I kinda doubt people have that outlook here, they would probably rather counter with „that’s why I want a virgin girlfriend“ and call it a day and that women are used and too used to riding the cock carousel, don’t tell me you never heard that take here, but it’s not at least anyone else‘s fault if someone is bad in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:33 AM
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But also how is it the fault of women if someone is bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:43 AM
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This might blow your mind but even ugly people look better well dressed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:51 PM
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Disagree before reading all points because while you might not simply attract women by "dressing shorter" you will definitely attract women by dressing nice. Women love well dressed attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:46 PM
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Sorry where did I even once talk about sex or pleasing? I said, there are core values that girls are taught like being humble, kind, small/weak and sympathetic. That you then turn around and say "I find it hard to believe that your parents told you to please men well sexually at age 5" is so far away from my point that I can't even have a debate. NO they did NOT teach me that. Though what I will say is that I am more traditional leaning and that I was a late bloomer. There are so many more value…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:39 AM
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Also that a lot of women have looks AND personality is from 20 years of experience, not from people teaching it to me when I was growing up. I have never heard anyone call themself a "powerful queen", but again, I am not American and luckily 95% of earth also isn't. You also misunderstood my point there, I said I personally think a lot of girls are pretty and kind and attractive. I didn't say they think they are better, I said, I find a lot of girls pretty with a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:01 AM
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LMFAO just where do you live? My family/mom/parents have NEVER told me to be rude or hostile towards men. There is absolutely no way the average, normal, cookie cutter family teaches their children to be hostile towards anyone matter of fact. I am European, if that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:53 AM
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Reading these comments is crazy. It’s way simpler than all of that. Women are TAUGHT to care less about looks. It is a question of how people are raised. Reality is women, just like men, do care about looks but most girls are taught from a toddler age, to be humble. To be kind. To be neat. To be feminine. To care about personality. To be small. To be weak. To give a chance. To not be so superficial. To be thankful. Etc. These are virtues that parents give or rather hammer into girls the moment t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:52 AM
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I simply disagree based on my experience. When I was IN LOVE with someone then it didn't matter what they would do for me and if I wasn't really in love with someone, I did in fact not suddenly fall in love no matter what they did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:02 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:57 AM
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There is literally nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be a housewife but having the OPTION to work, something that was not an OPTION only a few decades ago. Women now have a choice, that men had for millennia. Men can also choose to be house husbands or the option to work and be the provider. I literally do not understand what is wrong about being free to do either, as men have the exact same options too if they really wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:31 AM
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YES, because I am bi too. Less likely, because my bubble is more queer and I prefer if they know what they want (could be the case) Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:19 AM
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I mean you kinda lost me at the whole applauding thing. I dont think women want to get praised or cheered on for not dating, I doubt real people even announce this. If your bubble is just tiktok, then yeah, i guess theres where you do find self-centered and attention seeking people.. its social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:28 AM
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As a bisexual woman, I can get behind liking women between 19 and 29 or so. I was never rly attracted to men 30+ and imo a lot of men look older than they are in their 20's. I feel like they physically mature really fast, theres this weird sudden skip between 19 and 21 where they suddenly have beards and are grown men, which was never rly an aesthetic I liked. I like softer and gentler looks, that dont look childish, but pretty (men can possess this look too, its just rarer bc a lot of men dont …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:51 AM
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Nahh.. ik a lot of women with depression and anxiety who can date just fine. A lot of ppl feel unwell and especially with online dating or with talking to people online, youll find a lot of guys in the same board who can relate to depression and anxiety. As long as you have a good character, those things matter less or are even a thing both can relate to. Neither of those mental health issues is an excuse to have a bad personality or appearance tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:08 PM
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i dont think its playing if he made sure to say he doesnt want a relationship. but theres more layers to online dating than just relationships, people can talk to people out of different reasons. making friends, finding fuckbuddies, just dates for the night, no strings attached friendship plus, etc. so that he stated he does not want a rl is open and good. its not silly that he is searching for the other things, especially not on a dating app and with his comment he kind of made it clear that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:59 PM
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Okay tbh the guy seems weird as well. Its good that he made clear what he wants from the start but apparently he can not clearly communicate what he wants either. He probably figured you wouldnt want to just date around and fuck around without strings attached or without rl and bolted. I still think its weird to get into arguments on the first date or to expect a lot from meeting a stranger, but i doubt it was a good fit anyway so he did a favor by just cutting it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:50 PM
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No its not normal to call strangers your "gf" but I also dont exactly know what makes you believe you're his gf if you just met 10 minutes ago. A first date is literally getting to know each other and if he states at the first date he doesnt seek relationships, then theres nothing to argue, I dont really think its "playing" if he makes that sure very early on. Its odd that he did call you that, he was probably playing along but "thats my date" wouldve def fit better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:45 PM
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Its really odd and I dont even know whats there to argue about if he clearly states he does not want a relationship, what are you trying to discuss exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:41 PM
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Why are you arguing on your first dates? And why are you expecting people to not cut ties if a stranger already starts arguing at the first meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:38 PM
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Men don’t want traditional women either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:17 AM
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"Man dating is so hard, so I can totally understand why you impregnate then run and/or hit your wife, that was already so hard to get in the first place" makes zero sense to me. If its such a hard and rare thing to get, why not treat the relationship or kids as precious? Why arent you mad at the man that has something that you want but is so hard to get and who is just throwing it away, beating it to pieces or spoiling it? If someone gets a rare scale figure that you always wanted to get and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:57 PM
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I dont get that point. Sure you can relate better to men than women, but if a man is a deadbeat father or abusive towards a woman, then the guy is obviously winning at dating, so that cant be the common factor that you empathize with him with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:55 PM
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I am curious tho, why would you think I am more likely to be liked and befriended? I was shy and introverted my whole life, if there is no extrovert that approaches me, then I am and would remain friendless. Women are more likely to be shy, anxious and introverted. Why would it be easier for such women to make friends? And on what base/hobby/interest/common would that friendship even form?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:02 PM
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There are many social anxious and depressed women, depression and anxiety reportedly is even higher amongst women than men statistically and the split among gamers is 51% male and 49% female. Why I am bringing those examples up? People who are depressed or are home dwellers, with indoor hobbies, by default have less social contacts and that has quite frankly nothing to do with gender. If you dont leave your house, you wont have friends nor a social safety net, so considering theres a higher depr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:57 AM
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Being a woman does not mean they automatically have friends, aquaintances or a safety net to fall on you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:51 AM
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Do you seriously think there are no women who have no friends and who would receive empathy from no one because they also lack the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:51 AM
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To burst your bubble I doubt many people rly have anything. You will find nothing in my icloud, the medicine cabinet has band aids, paracetamol and stuff against the flu, and I got like 3 sex toys that i dont even use, but that I did use on my ex (female) partners. Like what are you GENUINELY expecting from the average person? Where do you grow up that you think theres 10000 nudes, 27 special edition bad dragon dildos and 4 anxiety meds in the cabinet of the average person? Ah yes, the internet …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:58 AM
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Theres no number attached to that. The number can be 1, if that one time he just played her. What does that mean? Leading someone on, leaving/ghosting after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:53 AM
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I do wonder what the point is. So the people here hate on men for not giving them a chance just for the same men to turn around and admit they arent even attracted to them, I mean, if both sides arent into each other then where is the hate coming from? Shouldnt you be neutral towards someone not giving you a chance, if said person is not your type anyway? I have never once craved the attention of someone who I havent noticed/who I didnt want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:48 AM
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If you didnt get my point, everyone is settling, women too. I will probably never find a pretty perfect blonde petite twink for my bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:38 AM
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I think everyone understands that we arent each others perfect type. Men arent either. Women arent either. People fall in love through touch, shared interest, etc. and yes you CAN find someone attractive that isnt 100% your type. For example, I like blonde hair and skinny waists. Well I dated brunette people and I dated chubby people and they were still attractive regardless. I dont even think theres like a 100% match to your perfect type, the closest I have found someone that matches it, would …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:36 AM
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finding ANY relationship at all, yes that's more so tutorial level, but i already said in my earlier comment that this thread is about GOOD ones, i think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:28 AM
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yeah and i said finding and securing a GOOD relationship is harder than a tutorial in a video game, i am unsure what you're misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:27 AM
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Well as I said a good relationship isn’t as easy as a tutorial, I am sorry you‘ve been mislead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:05 AM
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a good quality relationship is not a tutorial screen, and getting into a relationship of "any kind" wasnt the topic of this thread I think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:32 AM
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How is that a cucked place, its the same the other way around, no woman owns a men either and it is also just their turn, yet I have never met anyone consciously think about that and crash out over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:15 PM
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This is so stupid, as if it’s a weird discovery that someone wants to be attractive to and be loved by their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:58 PM
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Can I ask which privileges women lose? And if you seriously think women become bitter because of losing those? I can assure you 99% of the people you meet outside, have never thought about this topic at all and aren't bitter about losing fantastical privileges. Like please, most people in the world do not even know purple pill nor would engage in random internet activities. They do not know, they do not notice, they do not care and they aren't bitter. They might be bitter about other things. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:33 PM
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I mean theres two questions here. First, why cant he travel or go to concerts from age 20 to 30? Whats that gotta do with women? I literally went to a concert 12 days ago and I am single? Whats it gotta do with men? And the second question is, why would he not be allowed to travel or go to concerts at age 30? You know life doesnt end at 30 and you can still go to a concert no matter if you're 29 or 30 or if you're single or have a gf? Is your opinion just that women age 30+ have no hobbies? Cant…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:09 AM
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Oh and they also really fucking like the sex scenes and confessions :D There really is no shortage on such titles. its only getting more popular considering in the last 2 years they have been printing and officially translating more and more titles, not to mention literal danmei cafés, danmei stores and danmei collaborations all through asia
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:56 AM
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Women consuming gay content is like men consuming lesbian porn and the fact its in novel form with all the feelings and vulnerability is exactly what women want. Most women want to either be with them or be them, they love the pining, mutual respect and yearning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:51 AM
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Sooooo untrue. Its literally written by women and the fanbase is 99% women, it tells a lot if you actually read the novels and participate in the communities sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:48 AM
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The simple answer is no. There is literature like that and then there's also a million romantic literature that is not depicting that. Take a look for example at Danmei. Danmei is very much romantic and sexual, often depicting two men, written by and for women with a huge female fanbase that goons over it and buys merch every single month worth thousands of euros. Men are often depicted as flawed but emotional, kind, loyal, yearning and somehow strong no matter what life throws at them. A lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:42 AM
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I usually don’t date multiple people at the same time because my social battery is too low to handle many people at once but it seems fairly okay to have several first dates in a short span of time. You don’t really know each other yet and you‘re just getting to know several people? Seems kinda normal. Unless you have talked to each other for months already and kinda set the baseline for a relationship which is not really the case usually when you do online dating, usually first meeting is also …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:19 AM
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Most women do want children but they dont want them with the wrong man. What you‘re not considering is that stars have access to good men. But your average person is better off single than bound to a misogynistic/toxic/unfit partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:33 AM
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Which is good, bad mental environment is worse than staying together just to not be alone. Most people have learned at that age that it's more relaxing and calm to be single and that it inherently is better than a bad relationship. THOUGH a good relationship obviously is still better than being solo! But finding your actual match is very hard and can take a while. So I wouldn't say "never", but also wouldn't be surprised if someone is divorced in their 50s. Either way, I am not a millennial but …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:18 AM
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Doesn’t seem to be the case in Europe, basically everyone has fulltime jobs, just a manager gets paid more than a nurse. So again I don’t understand why men are lying about not caring about their partner‘s profession
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:09 AM
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If you‘re unhappy or feel like your partner is unfit then just break up. If any of these things were a problem and/or if women really did „nothing but throw tantrums“ in a relationship, there’s nothing stopping a guy from leaving her. It’s okay to be single especially if a relationship mentally drains you. I’ve had difficult relationships and after they ended it felt okay to be alone for sometime just until you healed and feel better again for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:03 AM
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Not to mention your comment wasn’t about who works more but who earns more that’s why I said „I think men care about what job a woman has, then why do they say they don’t care?“. Do you need an example? A man and a woman both work 40 hours a week. One is a manager, the other works at a shop. One of the two earns more. One of the two says „I don’t care what you work as as long as you‘re happy“ (this is the lie). A year later he says „women dont want to contribute as much“. My question: why are me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:01 AM
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Please read again, I never said either should work more than the other, I said men should stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:57 AM
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I find that argument interesting because in discussions I often see that men do not care about what job a woman has. I always found that unbelievable because in real life I felt the tendency that people DO care about their partner‘s work. Now a third argument suddenly is „women don’t want to contribute as much as men“. I don’t understand that argument if the same pool of men on the internet say they don’t care what their partner works as. I feel like they are lying especially if they turn around…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:38 AM
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Doesn't it depend on who the homeless man is directly attacking? If he's going for the husband, the wife will help him out. If he's going for the wife, the husband will help her out. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:16 AM
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Well obviously because you started justifying yourself in your first comment as if I accused you of something which I didn‘t. That’s why I replied. I still don’t know why you did though, if I did nothing but agreeing with the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:33 AM
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I know, that’s why I am agreeing with the post. What was your point of replying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:28 AM
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And I didn’t say you said that but it’s a general consensus. Just yesterday I talked to someone who wanted to know if girls would feel like a slut after sex. I asked him „how? The man participated too. Wouldn’t he feel like a slut too if that’s the case?“ and he said „only women can be sluts“. It doesn’t matter if you or me agree with that, but that it’s kinda a common thought. Anyway yes men with high body counts are unattractive and almost everytime I mention that men try to argue with me that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:19 AM
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I totally agree. Same goes for guys, a high body count in men is unattractive. Men don‘t seem to realize that or don‘t want to. For some reason only women can be sluts and not liking a high body count in men is „insecure“. Nah. Let‘s look at your post and repeat that people don‘t need to justify anything. It‘s repulsive and gross. It doesn’t matter if you‘re the one fucking or the one getting fucked, it shows that you have no standards at all. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:11 AM
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Amazing, just like for women then. The original comment was that 3 genetic traits will decrease the dating pool drastically if you're a man. I gave you an example for 3 genetic traits in women and I do not feel like it narrows the dating pool down that hard. As you stated yourself, women can and have to do the exact same things if they want their smile, body and hair to look decent. So if the conclusion is, that men and women both have genetic traits that one has a preference of, and if I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:08 AM
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The commenter literally said that the broad shoulders can be achieved through working out. But I know what you mean, that’s why I added an „in deep“ genetics example as well that you totally ignored because all 3 of those traits are definitely genetics. Even more so than the original „Not bald, broad shoulders and nice smile“ comment. Imo it still doesn’t shrink the dating pool that much. And with taking care I mean: brushing your teeth to get that nice smile, working out ever so slightly to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:46 AM
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Does it really shrink that fast? many guys are asking for a long haired, thin woman with a nice smile. Or if you want to get even deeper into genetics: a brown haired, big boobed girl with a nice smile. I don‘t think it narrows down the dating pool as much as you make it out to be or are you just implying that men are bad at taking care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:31 AM
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Because it costs more than one meal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:10 AM
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What the the hell is this post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:30 AM
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Imo, people prefer people with similar bodycounts. I personally wouldn’t want to date someone who was married or who has a high body count. Since mine is low, I wouldn’t want my partner to have more than 5, a tolerance number that can increase with age. I know it’s unrealistic to expect someone with th even lower body counts in their mid-end twenties so I digress. But, and sorry for that, it’s hypocritical of a man to want a low body count, if his isn‘t. We don’t know the counts of the men menti…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 08:38 AM
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I think I’m quite alright looking, but definitely not like a v taper, whatever that means. I don’t really like too much muscles on men and women. In shape to me is a skinny/normal person with nice distribution, not necessarily a body builder who works out everyday. I like to swim and jog and imo it gives a much subtler and subjectively prettier look of health. I really am not a big gym goer but I enjoy the way I look, which is big tits, long hair, a nice hip to waist ratio, thigh gap, no double …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:24 PM
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Yes some women lie about their body count. My body count is 1 and I didn’t tell the dude I was with that I am a virgin, he thought it was 2-3 at least :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 05:58 AM
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That‘s a tough question. I recently went on a trip to Austria with a friend and we concluded that there’s rarely an attractive person that we‘ve seen. And that compared to the city I am living in (Munich, Germany) it is a pity, because in Munich I meet attractive people easily and on a daily basis. So many in fact, that you can’t really count them. They are everywhere: at my Uni, just walking the streets, chilling in the city, sitting at the lake or traveling in the U-Bahn. It is really not hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:32 AM
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Why do people keep bringing up that men age better? It’s such a lie. Receding hairlines, bodyhair at unflattering areas, wrinkles, beer bellies, still no makeup or creams or plastic surgery (a face that was shit in your 20‘s won’t suddenly turn great in your 30‘s sorry) and the clothes don‘t really change - if you put no effort into it in the past, you won’t suddenly be a fashionista in your 30‘s. I am not saying that women don’t get worse when they age, they sure do, everyone does. So are men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:15 AM
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Can you tell me why most men don’t want to marry then but try out their options + have sex with as many women as possible before settling down? It‘s even the case in this very thread. It‘s always „if she slept with others quickly, I want to have the benefits too“ instead of maybe living after your own morales and/or giving some slight importance to actually having feelings for a person and committing. Personal example: my count is 1 and I romanticized the idea of only having this one man for my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:55 AM
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Kinda funny because aren‘t most men actually complaining they can’t get matches on Tinder? You sure they are as high count as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:47 AM
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So who you gonna marry, if after your own logic, people who sleep around a lot are not worthy and you‘re (in theory) one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:37 AM
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Of course men ruined dating for men. But not because of their low standards only. It’s also because promiscuous women are instantly insulted as sluts, so of course they pick and choose the „right“ person - which they attach standards onto. Why would a woman lose their status as a pure virgin with a low quality man? Also: why do you think looks is supposed to be the major factor as brought up in your „good looking men get rejected“ statement? Not to mention that everyone has different tastes (e.g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:45 AM
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Also again, apart from all this „we don’t fit“ and „you think you‘re the only one existing“ stuff, again, it would completely raise red flags to me if someone said „20€ dinner“ and „she’s looking for a sugardaddy“ in the same sentence. The whole concept that it would be a „burden“ to pay for the dates is so alien to me. I’ve only dated people that had as much money as me - so broke students - and people from my background are usually chill and just want everyone to have a good time. They don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:15 AM
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Sure why not? I am sure that happens sometimes, probably more often with lesbians than with hetero couples. I can totally see a woman inviting someone. I would like to add though, that I have a general feeling that a woman wouldn’t ask out random strangers in the first place. I might be totally mistaken, but a lot of the times a bond comes naturally, usually through meeting someone beforehand before getting „serious“ and asking someone out. I think men might have a different experience in that r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:03 AM
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Absolutely, I never said we would be a match, I criticized your way of thinking that 20€ is supposed to be sugardaddy money. :D I am a student in a very expensive city (not in America), so my priority of expenses are definitely different than yours. That is one of the reasons why I don‘t necessarily like relationships with a weird power dynamic or age gap relationships where people are in two different parts of their lives (e.g. someone who‘s still in university and someone else 10 years older w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:42 PM
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? I am a student myself and I‘ve only dated people in similar situations like me (art student, engineering student, English student). No college attendees though cuz I am not American :). Dating culture in America is a lot different anyway. All the people who’ve paid for my dinners were also my longterm boyfriends. And yes you‘re completely right that they were (sometimes) as broke as me! That’s why it’s something special to ask someone out to dinner and that’s why I don‘t exactly do it often. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:34 PM
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I personally don’t have 20€ and even less to spend on a random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:24 PM
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I gotta be honest, if someone asks me out and doesn’t want to pay, then don’t ask me out. I am a student and my money doesn’t lay on the streets, so under normal circumstances I would never go out and waste a full week‘s grocery money. I completely expect the other person to pay for me if they go out of their way to ask me out to smth I would otherwise have no expenses for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:22 PM
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On what kind of dates are you going? I would feel pretty uncomfortable going to a high end restaurant on the first date with a stranger. So if that’s not the case here, then how can you seriously state a 20€ meal to be „looking for a sugardaddy“. People are so out of touch with reality. Most normal dates don‘t cost 500€ and even if the accumulated sum of several dates were that high, that‘s still not sugardaddy level - have you ever actually checked how much a night with a prostitute or a month …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:18 PM
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How do they provide that info? By telling you how many relationships they had or do they clearly tell you their n-count? I never disclosed that information to my ex partners. This lead to them just „assuming“ my n-count. I just want to verify if they actually told you or if you‘re interpreting something into it. I lost my virginity with 25 to my longterm ex-partner, who just „assumed“ I have had already sex by then because I was in relationships before him. I never told him I didn‘t sleep with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:21 AM
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Since the other girl didn’t give you an answer, I can surely do that. You want me to give you an example for an unattractive behavior that doesn’t stem from insecurity right? Well that’s pretty easy. An inflated ego or narcissism. A man thinking he is so good, that he can „use“ and „dispose“ of you whenever he pleases. My ex for example, wanted to keep me „warm“ until he goes to Japan for his studies, drop me and find Asian girls to have flings with. I found that highly unattractive and didn’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:10 AM
1

Doing their own house work is supposed to be a whole new floor? xD The bar is low. Apart from that sex doesn’t give you a good husband. First of all, actual good quality men have higher standards, because they KNOW they can get sex just anywhere else. Why would they choose their life partner only on one factor, that a lot of women would comply to do. Second of all, if sex was the only thing to bind a man, then why are there so many single mothers or why are there so many „sluts“ getting shamed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:40 AM
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In fact, my standards used to be super low. It took me being in a relationship with a man than had the holy trinity (character, looks, intelligence) for me to increase my standards, because I noticed people who are lacking in those 3 just aren‘t as sexually and romantically attractive. Just one of the reasons why I stayed a virgin until 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:31 AM
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But they do. If a woman is too tall, they feel less „manly“. If a woman is short, they infantilize her, sexualite her or boost their ego, because they know they are physically much stronger than her. In fact, both genders care to some degree and it’s not uncommon at all that men prefer shorter and women prefer taller than them. Also I don’t think a lot of men are flexible on the weight unless they have a fetish. For most, weight is a definite dealbreaker. Also again, for both genders even though…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 02:58 AM
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Luckily men also can't tell the difference, when I tell them I am 165 cm tall, while only being 162 cm >:D Just a lie I tell to brag about. Idk why but I found it funny how so many people are stuck up on the height part - did you know women also receive height comments? I am supposedly average height, yet get called dwarf, gnome or "wow you are so short, I am so big, I could easily crush you", while I am not even considerably below average, by men. For some reason I think, that most people compl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 02:38 AM
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But Sweden is also a western country? XD Lots of European standards are literally higher than American‘s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:14 PM
1

Women are visual creatures too. Just because you might have not experienced a woman getting wet after taking off your shirt, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. I found that pretty funny actually, because from your comment you should be able to „relate“ getting horny by looking at smth, so why is it hard to grasp, that women can be the same? This is a lil offtopic because that wasn’t even my question, but I find this mindset hilarious. Yeah simps are unattractive though, I agree :) The question th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:16 AM
2

„Go to the gym and get an ass“ So the same thing men should do but complain about in this thread? Getting healthy and fit looking boosts attraction levels? Why are so many people complaining then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:51 AM
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Most people aren’t stable (but women and men), so finding a good relationship with a stable partner is hard for both sides. Apart from that, most young men don‘t want to settle. It’s not just women who stereotypically wait. A man in their early 20‘s doesn’t want to think about commitment yet, he wants to have fun and explore. Thats why most women date up agewise, because they know a 30 year old would be ready to settle. It’s kinda common, that women want to have something serious sooner than men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:43 AM
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google.com it definitely happened, not just once and a lot of incels actually drop their names as (meme) heroes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:30 AM
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I'm so bored I clicked on your profile and read the first few comments and they dont seem to be triggering at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:26 AM
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Actually I have to completely disagree with you. From my own experience, once you truly are in love with a special someone, the more vanilla the sex gets, because you don’t need 183363826 other stimulations or fetishes to get yourself off. I thought I was heavily into bdsm for the longest time - turns out I was just never truly passionate about my ex Partners until I found the real deal and that just having someone close and sharing good sex with is all you need. Especially because you feel so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:53 PM
1

The point is to treat each other like the prize, not just one of them. My last relationship was very balanced, I was so happy to have someone who I felt struck the jackpot in character & looks, so I treated him like he‘s my jackpot. On the other hand, he also made me feel like a „prize“ e.g. by saying I look better than him. While I felt like he looked better than me. IMO that’s the best dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:30 PM
1

F, 26, lost it at 25, was in a longterm relationship. We broke up 3 months ago. He doesn’t want a relationship anymore, but if I would let him, he‘d use me for sex. It hurts. Why are men this way? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:43 PM
1

I agree that someone is selfish if they only look at themselves, but that was not at all what I implied :D But yes I wouldn’t want to be with a partner who makes me cum 0/10 times :D I can just masturbate then. I don’t get your thought progress - sounds to me like you just want to be against me to be against me, because what exactly are u thinking about? That I have 10 times sex with a dude and he also cums 0 times? What a pleasurable experience for either side!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:09 PM
1

I‘m from Europe and most people are not cut (it’s uncommon to be and most likely done by foreigners), so idk about that. My ex was EXTREMELY sensitive, needed tons of lube, he was uncut and from France. I didn’t necessarily cum through penetration alone (like most women as studies show), but ofc I want to have an orgasm down the line, preferably after vaginal sex cuz I am not a fan of foreplay. I wouldn‘t want to have sex if I don’t archive anything through it - I can just masturbate then. And y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:57 PM
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Yeah sure Kevin, because you would enjoy sex if you would cum 0/10 times
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:32 AM
3

She‘s not even wrong tho lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:47 AM
1

26 and preference would be +/- 4 years. I keep noticing that age gaps are an issue tho, even if people don‘t want to admit it at first. My last relationship was a 4 year gap (me 25, him 21) and while they do want to pretend that they can „see a future“ and want to „commit“ it sooner or later hits them that they are „too young to make scary plans yet“. It‘s pretty typical in men to promise things won‘t be an issue and the same thing becoming an issue in the end. The other way around, I don‘t rly …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:42 AM
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Might depend on the man she‘s with. I certainly did not look for others while being in my last relationship. I loved that man, even though I knew things would end sooner or later due to him studying abroad. I probably still do - it‘s even hard now to look for someone new, because I still consider him perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:17 PM
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26F Count: 1, lost it this summer I prefer my partner to have a low count like me. I was his second, so that was fine. I also didn‘t tell him I was a virgin, because men make a weird competition out of it. I don’t regret waiting. I do expect bodycount to go higher the older someone gets, but I think I‘d draw the line at 5 currently. I‘m still hoping he will stay my only „body“. We are currently not in a relationship anymore due to him studying abroad. So I could look out for others, but I am not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:34 PM
1

How is that the conclusion if I would take that woman, which is supposedly the looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:38 AM
1

But you‘re also implying men date the girl even tho they are „looksmatched“ which is untrue. Or is the whole conclusion just that men are „on average“ more unattractive than women, cuz sure that’s true, but what does that proof? That men need to put a bit more care into their appearance which they voluntarily decide not to, while the average woman at least tries to improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:26 AM
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But I’m not a guy and would also date the girl cuz she‘s actually more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:22 AM
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I‘m a girl and I’d date that „average girl“ but not that average man, what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:10 PM
7

Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:38 PM
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Are you not talking to a lot of women? It‘s very common for women to blame themselves (sometimes even if they were not the problem) and ask/reflect on the „why“ when someone breaks up with them - especially if it was a committed longterm relationship, that was supposed to last longer, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:55 PM
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It’s funny how I‘m a woman that talks negatively about the high N count of women and men, because there‘s literally the same factors playing a role and yet society still lives the double standard of women being sluts and men apparently not being sluts. To me both genders are but if I tell a dude that he is, he thinks it’s a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:15 AM
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Ok but that was my question - the one you responded to :D
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/21 03:18 PM
-5

So the problem is, That she cares about the height and not that she‘s a hypocrite? What if she cares about height and you care about weight and both answer each other’s questions. You still gonna be mad she asked?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/21 03:03 PM
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But what happens if a woman asks for your height and has no issue replying with her weight? You still gonna be mad cuz your switcheroo didn’t work and you have an actual different problem than her hypocrisy?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/21 02:23 PM
2

Also what you guys don‘t seem to realize is that not every virgin is doing it out of religious reasons. I see people here saying they will „pretend to be religious“ to fuck a virgin, but what are you gonna do if she‘s nit even following religious beliefs herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 08:29 AM
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They also made the point though, that most of those chores only occure once or twice a year, some things even once a lifetime. Edit: While cooking, cleaning and childcare is a daily routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:31 AM
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Why are people advocating for a 20-25 years old to get pregnant? So you can make fun of her being a single mom without an education that she can „bring on the table“ cause she wasted her twenties on a brat? Not only is it really unlikely to get a child with birth defects (even if the chance increases, from 0,006 to 2%, which obviously makes a healthy baby NOT the exception), but women are at a better place socially and have stability (education, money, housing). You guys keep shitting on women f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/20 07:24 AM
2

That was neither the question, nor do you seem to realize that you only need 1 egg cell, not the 2 million that women are born with. It is "ova" for her biologically at around 45. Was just asking how many women you know, because that's what you asked other people. I doubt that a handful of "regretful reddit posts" can really conclude that the "majority" of women will change their minds. Apart from that, choosing a family at 30+ is not only biologically possible, but also extremely common. Due to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/20 04:50 PM
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I mean, do you know a lot of women who are 45+? I personally don't, so how am I gonna know if "many of them" suddenly change their mind when they biologically can't get a child anymore
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/20 03:31 PM
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Never said a generation is 50 years, I literally said that there's 3 generations involved: my grandparents, my mom and me. I live in Germany and yes it happend like that to my grandmother, when she was pregnant with my mom. I never said I was from the US. And yes back in the days you had to wait till 21 to make these decisions. Actually his mother said "I do not want to ruin your life by making that choice" and declined the marriage at the same day, they scheduled it because she did agree a few …
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/19 02:00 PM
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Well no. A society simply doesn't change so rapidly. That's exactly why extremist religion and racism still exists. Also I am not trying do defend myself here, if it came across like that. In fact I am not married & I am a virgin, so it's not like I buy my life with sex. But my grandmother for example is about 65 years old and she's simply an example of how shitty society was. Was dismissed by her family when she was pregnant with her first child. Wanted to marry my grandfather, but his mom didn…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/19 12:45 PM
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Do people even realize where that mindset is coming from? I mean, sure it's not right to expect men to pay for everything during a relationship, but I mean, literally 50 years ago men wouldn't only be the provider but literally the "master" of a woman. Women couldn't even go to work without the permission of a male. He HAD to pay everything and she HAD to rely on him in every aspect of her life, because otherwise she'd be kicked out of society. Hell it was even a "crime" to not be married at a c…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/19 11:58 AM
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The fuck are you even projecting. The majority of females arent even like this but I get the underlying feeling that all of you, if you could be female, would use your body to cash in. I literally only know 2 people that would use their pussy if they were broke. And that only because they have been raised in a bad environment (mother is a prostitute).
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 08:58 AM
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Ah I see. Thought this was more emotionally driven as in „oh my god you are asking about my height? Imma ask for your hair color! Take that bitch!“ because then it would absolutely make no sense as I am sure no woman has a problem telling you whilst it sometimes kinda seems that men kinda have an issue with the height question (source: braincels, this sub, rladvice eg)
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 09:10 PM
2

I think it‘s hard comparing a clothing size to something like height or weight, because there‘s a ton of people out there who didn‘t even get fitted properly. I read and watched lots of women who used to wear B or C Cups but after real measurement actually would need an F or G cup (because a bra supposedly is there to cover the whole breast). Imo this inconsistency kinda fucks up the whole idea of measuring boobs by bra size, I think society is kinda uneducated in that regards AND support that s…
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 09:00 PM
1

Yeah ok, but as you stated yourself, its not coming from nothing. Men support and boost that self confidence, just like you said. So whats your point?
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 08:29 PM
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I dont really see a problem with either of the questions, but the first one is equivalent to dicksize, not height. What exactly should be insulting about hair colour?
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 08:18 PM
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Did you edit out the „no one cares“ part? Just saying, humans are unattractive in general and people gotta get over it. Everyone already knows that makeup fakes womens appearance. How is it still a surprise to some people if its common knowledge? You say its misleading but really its just hypocritical cuz most men arent exactly „sexy“ either, so why even complain about their lvl of attractiveness. Be grateful that lots of women do it for men. Everyone who says „they only do it to attract men“ is…
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 02:49 PM
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I never wear makeup as I don‘t see why I should waste hours of my life and tons of money on everyday. Yes, a lot of women look ugly without makeup, so do men
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 12:32 PM
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yeah okay but why you wanna show off objects in the first place? none of your facebook friends cares about your new car or coffee mug
/r/MGTOW12/01/19 10:25 AM
1

I literally have never heard of a case like that in Germany. I do know that stereotype from America tho. Well then fix your problem by moving somewhere else:
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 11:52 PM
1

I am a female. I have been asked to dates and I asked other girls out. Nah females don't want expensive dates. I literally can not think of any person in my area who would want that.
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 08:03 PM
1

And I can have fun on my own, too, like I literally stated several times. Of course, no one is needed, that's literally what I said when I spoke about being antisocial myself. Who's even talking about hormones? Being with another human and making fun experiences isn't even tied to hormones, nor gender. Men who think that, simply were in company with retards apparently, that's exactly what I mean by "missing the chance". Everyone can obviously feel free to do whatever they please, but not all wom…
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 12:04 PM
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Um, how is talking about a movie or reacting to certain scenes an illusion? How is having a conversation in a car an illusion either? How is splitting costs an illusion? By no means do I hate going alone to the cinema, I love it, really. But if you DO something with another person it's not an illusion, you ARE there in that moment, HAVING the experience and all the things around it. I'm quite antisocial myself, but I can at least admit, that stuff doesn't just "not happen" in that moment.
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 11:40 AM
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Cause it's more fun? And how can you go "more efficiently" into the cinema? It's only one of billions of examples, but going into the cinema with another person (both the drive to the theatres + the movie itself) is more fun than alone, from my experience. And I go to the theatres alone frequently. Edit: Actually it is more efficient, as you can save money by splitting the gas costs and food. xD
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 11:29 AM
1

That's not how logic works. A women doesn't "hand you" good experiences. It's 2 individuals "making" good expeirences. There is no "providing" of happiness on one side. A woman isn't a "good" thing. Going to the cinema together is a "good" experience. The event itself is the "good thing", not the woman, nor the man.
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 10:52 AM
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Yeah and I didn't say that women are good things, I said experiences can be good. Learn to read?
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 12:16 AM
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Of course there has, just meet the right fucking people xD
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 06:01 PM
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But I never said a man should pay for a dinner?
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 02:52 PM
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I am a 23 yr old virgin without STD's, does that already prove you wrong?
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 11:12 AM
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Then you guys are weak. It's your own fault for going into that relationship and letting them steal your money off of you. How about being an adult and simply taking responsibility for the mistakes you have done in your life? Accepting and moving on, while learning from your past mistakes is way more effective than being hurt, angry, misogynists. No one forced you to throw money at them. And I understand that negative interactions can be a real pain in the ass. But (and I hate that term) but you…
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 03:03 AM
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Well but I am curious to what hurt you tho, its not shaming its a question
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 02:32 AM
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0€ is my going rate? xD
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 02:07 AM
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I don't think you get the point. How is spending 0€ spending money? Also I don't think you get the point of being friendly people, I don't care if I was born female or not, I never asked or chose it, why would I have an issue spending 2€ for a cheese sandwhich? I'd give you one every day, if you were one of my friends, that lacks as much money as people make it seem.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 01:50 AM
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But zero euro means zero euro xD What the fuck xD If you spend 0€ on a date, you already had to spend nothing and can spend it on something else Who even hurt you guys, that you are so angry, you can't even acknowledge that 0€ means absolutely nothing, yet you still don't want to spend nothing xD
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 01:39 AM
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Yeah but that doesn't make sense, if he has to spend 0€ on her and only 1€ on his own coffee. That logic is flawed as fuck. You rather burn money than spend 0€ on a woman? Well that sounds like a blast!
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 01:10 AM
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Love it. A date can be free, no need to spend a dime on it. I obviously have more money than that dude, if he thinks 70€ is a lot, so don't worry, I can afford to buy my own coffee. Or do people only have dates to disney land, that they allegedly pay so much for em? xD Or is the issue, that he can't spend 1€ on his own coffee? Hard to guess if you are trolling, in Germany we share food and drinks all the time. I am happy to bring coffee to uni, just as much as my friends are happy to bring a bag…
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 12:56 AM
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Okay so 90€ is actually a lot where you are from? Are you from the US? I thought your economics were higher than that? Also I am not shaming, just saying you can get both, since a date doesn't even have to cost something. If 70€ is a lot for you, then get a 50€ headset and spend 20€ on a date.
/r/MGTOW09/01/19 12:46 AM
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