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| 9 | No follow up after first dateAgreed, sending a thank you text is always recommended. It's also just common curtosey, especially if he paid. Guys get insecure and self-conscious, too. The thank you text may put them at ease. Being the first to send a thank you after the date isn't "chasing". It is just being polite and letting him know the door is open if he is interested in moving forward. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | insecure and anxious about datingDo you have hobbies, skills, talents? Focus on these. The more you focus on them, the less self conscious you will be about your looks and the better you will actually end up looking. One of the most attractive qualities to a guy is a woman who feels at ease in her own skin. The best way to feel at ease is to accept yourself physically, put effort into presenting yourself nicely, and then don't think about your looks or image at all on the date. Mentally focus on how talented and awesome you are… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/24 02:56 PM |
| 5 | No follow up after first dateDid you send a "thank you, got home safe" text the night of? If you didn't, then this may be why he ghosted. Always send a thank you text after a first date, especially if you let him pay in full. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/24 02:49 PM |
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