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EmptyApartmint/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:07 PM
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Why are you comparing the human women in porn, to a mass produced inanimate object? Do you see the problem with that comparison, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:22 AM
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Guys like me more when I'm anorexic and that's when I'm considered an 8 so... I guess I'll buy a dildo instead of seek out for dudes who want girls who look like middle schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:18 AM
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So, why would a HOT guy waste his time fucking around with an average women instead of a hot woman? I'm not talking about a drunken one night stand- I'm talking about a FWB situation in which you hang out and fuck, but not commit to the label. Also, are you implying you're a top dog, considering you are claiming to have this intel from personal experience? A lot of men overstate their SMV and think that they are hotter than they are- and women usually think they're uglier than they are. A lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:50 AM
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I mean, our mentality is, why would he be devoting time and sex into us if he doesn't think we're "hot enough". It makes the guy seem desperate if that's how the optics look. Like, he'd rather risk getting someone pregnant or STI's just to get some poon poon he doesnt even deem worthy? He can't even get with a hot girl already, yet he's holding out for one when he's already seeing someone else? That's hypergamy, and that's why so many guys end up alone. Hot women go for hot men, average men hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:19 AM
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Because, if you're already sleeping with a woman and devoting time to her- and the thing deterring you from dating her is something fickle like her appearance- it just seems like a self fulfilling prophecy for men to be lonely forever. Especially as they get older and don't settle down, and their SMV decreases. Women already establish her attraction to a man if she's sleepign with him- her not wanting to date him ends up relying on factors that he's been able to craft (money, social charisma, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:11 AM
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lol that's pathetic tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:21 AM
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Lol- my story was actually from when I was 22 years old. I can look back on it now and cringe at the fact a 32 year old was banging a 22 year old. My current LTR was a forced relationship from me putting pressure on him to be my bf. He spewed some "I wanna get to know you" line, and was being vague about whether he wanted to be in a relationship. Eventually, I told him I would no longer keep seeing him if he didn't date me (lol, I know) and we stopped talking for a week or two- he came back to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:07 PM
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I understand this breakdown but I also find it condescending. I think women are way better at learning how to "glow up" in sex appeal than men are. Women are aware, hyper-aware if anything, of what measures need to be taken in order to reach "visually high status" territory. My question wasn't "what can I do to be hotter to men?" the question was, "is a woman's appearance the deciding factor, generally, in whether or not a man with decide to commit to exclusivity, while in a FWB situation with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:50 PM
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To me, that is insane and I think often that's what a lot of women don't grasp because we wouldn't even bother having a casual sleeping arrangement with a guy unless we're already attracted to him and willing to be in a relationship. I don't understand why a guy would bother sleeping and hanging out with a woman but not "attaching" because she's not "as hot" as he'd like. Also, I've seen men in relationships with women who- at the time, I would consider less physically attractive than myself or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:39 PM
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Asking for 700 bucks? Is she a sugar baby or something? You both sound immature, to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:39 AM
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As a woman who' been on the rejected side of wanting more from a situationship- I could never help but wonder if my looks were what deterred certain men from dating me or moving onto official territory. Do looks make a difference in whether a guy will date you vs casually fuck/hang out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:14 AM
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I used to do Only Fans. I won't comment on my "objective" attractiveness... But I have had men spend money on my sexual photos and videos- a lot of them had girlfriends. I, myself, felt sickened by my customer's addiction to requesting nudes and affection from me. Hot girls and insecurity aren't mutually exclusive. There are thousands of hot girls, and men who are willing to go through them like a rolodex. Porn sickness isn't just a concern for "undesirable women". As a former "porn creator"- it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:49 AM
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I don't like casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:41 PM
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You need therapy. Red pill isn't helping you- it's giving you an echo chamber to continue in this spiral of self hatred. Listen to guys talk about getting out of the red pill... They are happier- the weight is lifted off their shoulders. You need to look into real philosophies and find ones that can provide you some semblance of hope. You are making women unattainable by putting us on this weird ass pedestal that only low value women would take advantage of. You might think every attractive woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:21 PM
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Also, if you're average looking and have a bad personality... Than yeah, you're not gonna get shit. Obviously we're attracted to what we're attracted to- welcome to reality. It's gonna be in favor of certain people based on factors we can't completely control. GET THE FUCK OVER IT. Even toxic masculinity tells men to "buck up, nut up and shut up"... or whatever. You're acting bitch made and that's more unattractive than a less than perfect jaw line, or a receding hairline- whatever the fuck men …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:17 PM
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Oh okay- based on what you're writing... I can definitely tell you that your problem is your gross personality. I'm clearly articulating myself concisely and rationally, you're getting butthurt and pulling some ad hominem shit based off nothing but your aggression. I hope you get out of this toxic mindset and realize that life doesn't have to be so shitty- all you have to do is stop being shitty, yourself. I'm done with this convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 11:15 PM
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Dude, I'm trying to give you my perspective as a woman who has gone online dating as well as met people in real life. I probably wouldn't have fucked half the guys I have been with, if I met them through a tinder profile. My best interactions with sex have been serendipitous and highly based on a chemical reaction my body has gone through, upon meeting someone, IN PERSON, who I found attractive (good looks or not). I don't have anything to gain or lose with changing your perspective- if you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:49 PM
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Ok, but you realize that OLD and this obsession with lookism has only harmed you? This is a reality that has existed through out time, but we realize that ugly people have reproduced and gone onto having long lasting marriages and legacies? The goal of our social infrastructure is not to have relationships that go nowhere- it's to tie someone down to build a family with. Hook up culture, self obsession and self victimization over life's realities are all modern concepts of our social/romantic dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:36 PM
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Online dating is a horrible barometer to gauge human attraction. Of course the hottest people will get the most results, and men in general get less matches than women. A lot of men I know, who I find attractive, claim to get minimal matches- let alone from girls they find attractive, too. I'm a woman who's sworn off OLD due to it's objectification of people. I can't get a sense for what kind of person you are based on a profile and some pictures. It's clearly a shallow medium for people who can…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:57 PM
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Red pill men's end game is always sex, which is sort of a self fulfilling prophecy for them to hate women. They objectify us harder than the rest of the manosphere, and are literally incels who manage to try and play the hook up game. Because of this being their goal, they do weird shit like "spin plates" aka, date multiple women at once- they also do slight negging and the in-n-out method- which entails being mercurial about your interest in a woman... They've realized that if they solely insul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:05 PM
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You sound dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:17 AM
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Red pill mentality is a turn off. Maybe that's why you may observe the paradigms you wish to believe. Any guy who starts obsessing over lookism turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:50 AM
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Comparing women to children just sounds bad- I understand where you're coming from... But those movies about children outsmarting the annoying adults are fantasies. In reality, children are voiceless and seldom taken seriously by adults- that's why kids shows cater to entertaining children via a concept that puts them in a position of power... Because it's not the reality of our society- why do you think so many children get molested and don't say anything? Part of the reason that pedophiles are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:15 PM
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The way men view women as a monolith of "hot and hypergamous" can be reversed to how I've been generalizing men by the lowest common denominator fuck boys. There are also women who are average that are constantly scrutinized for not being a "Stacy". It goes both ways. Let me tell you, I'm a woman who genuinely values a man's personality- but no one believes me, of course. They finally do when I date a guy who's considered "ugly", and of course, people start hating on him or pestering me about wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:00 PM
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I personally find myself black pilled and out of the dating game due to my bitterness to gender paradigms. I can play the "game" and probably have a good time with men, but that would be at the expense of my dignity. I'm not saying girls on FDS are "beautiful YAS KWEEN"- I mean, they are like hot instagram girls who know how attractive they are based on the men they interact with- but they realize that regardless of how "hot" they are, they are still being mistreated by men they've encountered. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:28 AM
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Well, if you're going on a shit ton of dates because you'd rather fuck around than actually pursue one of them, that's ON YOU. With my formula, the whole point is to actually go on more than 2 dates with one woman, and than she can start paying for shit too. I personally think that, even in the animal kingdom, men are supposed to pursue the woman. In our society, peacocking can be perceived as being chivalrous and attractive to the female. This is honestly a biological fact for most species. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:07 AM
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Exactly! I'm actually fighting against toxic masculinity- not men. Men are victims of other men, generally. There are instances in which a woman is the predator, or working with another predator, but generally- women as a whole are the more nurturing of the 2 sexes, and we have been historically known for being "voices of reason" to the man of the house- who may get riled up from the testosterone and lack of regulation over their ego. The discrepancies between men and women in western society ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:56 AM
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Establish eye contact first and fore most... Little glances here and there, dont just stare. Read the room and her energy. Is she with her friends or alone? What about you? Keep in mind, women have their guard up in public so you have to establish that shes inviting your fliration. I think you should ask questions that can open up the conversation. See if you hiys have anything in common, its all circumstantial. Dont compliment her appearance until you guys have made some small talk for a bit. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:50 AM
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If you have such good luck with women, why arr you here? Clearly youre doing something wrong. Girls on FDS are actually hot women who are simped for by losers like you. They arent femcels, they are intelligent hot chicks who realize how sexist and stupid people like you sound. There are men who are high value, but they dont troll this subreddit... Thwyre out building a legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:41 AM
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Yeah... If youre a realistic example of millenial men, Id rather just fuck my dildo and actually orgasm while cultivating my interests. I dont need someone who doesnt respect my basic needs and than expects me to eat someone elses pussy to turn you on. Good luck with porn and your only fans hotation, though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:39 AM
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When you say western women are coddled, do you mean in comparison to women in countries who get stoned to death for losing their virginity to a rapist? Or do you mean the countries where women have to hide their face, because showing any skin or hair is begging for being raped by animalistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:36 AM
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So, if a man is already having issues providing for a woman- what does he even bring to the table? Women dont want men to pay because we dont have money- we want to gauge whether they are cheap and greedy. I think men should pay on the first 2 dates... After that, that's on the couple. Do you think we cant buy ourselves a fucking plate of food? Honey. You just sound really sexist... Why wouldn't women be able to code? Coding is not physically demanding, you don't think women are capable of doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:33 AM
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Is this sarcasm to agree with me or are you serious? Literally, the same thing could be said about women towards men- hence toxic femininity based on traumatizing experiences and patterns I behavior exhibited by men and "cool girls" who enable toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:26 AM
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No, dear- I'm lucky and demisexual... So I actually haven't had too many of these trash experiences with low value men. However, I can not say the same for other women in my social circle- who would NOT take my advice and get fucked over the hard way. I'm not interested in playing the "game" in hopes to attract a mate. You either like me or you don't- if you weaponize me opening up to you against me- than BYE. Not all women feel this way, and will seek extra hard for his approval the more he neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah- sorry... A lot of us don't consider watching porn with you and having 3 ways with other girls to be fun. Would guys want to do that same shit with their gf? Seriously, she wants to fuck you and Chad, that's cool with you right? Oh, no? Got it. How can you go from leaving the tolet seat up, to having sex with other people with your gf's approval? Those are two extremes. Not all women will be so high maintnence that you can't be comfortable in your surroundings- but why not leave the toilet …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:47 AM
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That's funny, most women I know have faked at least 70% of the orgasms they've had from another man... I think guys think they know what they're doing because we fake orgasms all the time- not to bruise your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:33 AM
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The world coddles us? Have you not heard of what's going on in the other parts of the world? Since when have women been "coddled"? Western society JUST started recognizing our autonomy and independence. Just be a-sexual, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:31 AM
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Well- "not all men", right? Men generalize women just as much (hypergamous, gold diggers, liars, manipulative, bring nothing but sex to the table). If you want to generalize, you're going to get that same energy in return. I just wish men just realized HOW common it is to be fucked over by you guys. Of course we're traumatized- and men always acknowledge what "dogs" they are. Fathers ALWAYS suss out their daughters new boyfriend- because those same fathers KNOW what they were like before settlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:30 AM
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There's only extremes when it comes to being a woman in our society. A lot of girls on "FDS" are what they consider to be former "pick me's"- which seems like what men want (the "cool girl", the girl who's down for him to talk about porn and other women and be lazy) because a lot of us former pick me's were hoping that we could have an equal friendship dynamic- but it's never like that... The men usually end up taking advantage of the woman who doesn't have high standards... ​ Than you have delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:20 AM
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I'm 26, maybe youre still in tour early 20s and late teens and put up with mens bullshit because youve been normalized to it. I'm not ok with how men objectify women, perhaps for you its just humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:33 AM
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I don't hate all men. I just noticed a pattern amongst most men ive interacted with- they dont want friendship from a woman... They want her sex and validation- while hes supposed to be allowed to be non monogamous. Most men watch porn, knowing damn well what the sex industry does to exploit women. Men think with their cocks and feel threatened by women being too opinionated, especially about female issues. Maybe I just hang with the wrong people- as a neurodivergent woman, socializing isnt alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:30 AM
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There are good men out there, but they dobt hold the views of the men on most of reddit or the internet. Theyre living honest lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:25 AM
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You must live a sheltered life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:19 AM
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Male rape victims are generally raped by other men. Toxic masculinity isnt a myth, the cultural misogyny amongst our social infrastructures is not a myth, etc. Third wave feminism is always being criticized and bastardized by people with a personal agenda- those people should not inform how you understand tbe hard truths of our history as we know it. Red pill men see woman as currency and vectors to provide sex. They see no interest in humanizing us or acknowledging their blatant level of disres…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:16 AM
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I honestly don't think you're being completely transparent in your story... But, I'll bite. Your uncle is a complete bum and no self respecting woman, who has options, would be with someone who has THAT little to offer. He looks like shit, doesn't work, doesn't clean, etc? If he's with someone who puts up with that, than she is severely insecure and clearly does not think she can do better. There are a lot of scenarios in which the guy looks like shit and provides very little, and has a woman, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:52 PM
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Where do you get that statistic from? Rape is one of those things that are often heavily unreported, normalized, and extremely difficult to prove after the assault. We have all been victims of rape culture conditioning- whether men have attempted to rape someone or not, our culture has historically perpetuated a narrative that condones the sexual and visual objectification of women- and a startling amount of men have harassed and sexualized other women under the context of "humor" or other socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:43 PM
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Just put in effort to show her that you care about her still finding you attractive based on your self care. Lots of men let themselves go, and get straight up bummy once theyre comfortable. Hed never do tho with a new girl he wants to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:26 AM
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It's because husbands or ltr's stop putting in effort once theyve won the prize. Sorry, your dicks arent gods gift to us. If you dont make an effort to excite her, or look good, ofc she will start fantasizing over chad thundercock at work who flirts with her and makes her feel attractive- without her having to suck his D.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:53 AM
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Because a lot of men end up letting themselves go once they have sexual security, yet expect his wife to stay hot. I said many, not all. Women can easily overlook how gross her husband has gotten if hes providing security and sustainability. We just like being desired by our romantic partner and have been conditioned to be the "attractive" party in a hetero relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:46 AM
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The issue is that you acknowlege my stances are true yet refuse to understand or empathize with where feminazis are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:50 AM
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So... Whats your argument? That feminists hurt your feelings because of their discrimination towards men? How does that effect you? Just keep it pushing. Women have a reason to be more wary of men in most scenarios, you even acknowledged that my points rang true yet somehow you are still offended by women shit talking men. Like, I'm genuinely curious about your stance on this conversation and im not even sure what the objective is at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:49 AM
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Right, but that's an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:16 AM
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You're kind of disregarding my whole argument to continue to stroke your ego and dump your personal issues, instead of actually address my points- which seems like you did, but you actually didn't. If you can't understand the basic infrastructure of how societies have been build, and how women have been historically seen as property until quite recently, than we can't even have an intellectual discourse about it. Don't send unwavering support to women- but maybe if you hear or see a guy harassin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:25 PM
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When I say "men always act in an unreasonable manner"- I should have rephrased that to sound less general and vague. Here's the thing- the patriarchy has been harmful to most everyone, including other men. Toxic masculinity affects more than just women- it affects young men too. I agree, toxic femininity, is also a real thing- however, it's fair to say that a lot of women's prejudices towards men come from a history and pattern of behavior. We're finally in a time in our "civil society" where wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:50 PM
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The difference is, on average, men usually pose as a threat to women more than the other way around. Work place harassment is usually inflicted on by a creepy guy- usually in a higher position. I've also witnessed a disproportionate amount of men using work or school as a meeting grounds for finding a mate- where as for women, it may be a secondary desire. AKA men are creepier and pose a threat to women more than woman do to men, so it'd be understandable to understand a women-only space. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:43 PM
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Fine, but men always act in an unreasonable manner, but the base level of our society has been that women have had to put up with it generationally. I think worse can apply to many things like... someone who is sick, or someone who's gained some weight, etc. A real man who loves his woman will be okay even when she's not at her prime self. I don't think it applies to women with mental illness and abusive tendencies- don't take it so out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:18 AM
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Marilyn Monroe isn't a feminist icon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:57 AM
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Why would a company discriminate against hiring women? That seems regressive and counter productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:46 AM
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Women are historically revered as the "prettier" sex, whereas men have always been "strong". A mans testosterone turns him more animalistic, aggresive and horny. Women feel attractive when they are being paid attention to and fawned over- often times, we get turned on by the idea of us turning him on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:40 AM
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Literally never heard this trope. Ive always been sold on the lie that a man will protect me and make certain "head of the house" decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:37 AM
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And why would women be okay with this admission of male oppression and mysoginy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:30 AM
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Do you not have a mother or grandma who you can discuss the history of women's equality with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:29 AM
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Ok, but why would Chad choose to fuck an uglier chick over a hot one, considering he has all those options? TBH, when you're a below Becky tier- even the uggo dudes won't look in your direction- and even feel anger by the fact that they're supposed to looks match with an ugly chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:35 AM
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Do you know how many men in ltr buy other womans porn and try to talk to them online?? At least for the woman, it's mainly just a fantasy. Men are openly simping for "hotter" girls and paying them WHILE in relationships or marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:33 AM
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Well, at least you're aware of your pick me status. If you're cool being objectified and seen as inferior because you're being compared to other women who are only seen as submissive holes- but I'd say it's really setting the rest of us back. Go back to your twitch titty stream and your orbiters, that's where you belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:53 AM
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it's not our fault that men are greedy and porn sick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:51 AM
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lol cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:43 AM
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I don't know how to help you- your logic is simply flawed. Men have always been able, and have, publicly objectified women and exploited them at their expense- all for men's entertainment. There is no reason for men to "speak out" against women, men have historically oppressed women (not the other way around). If you can't accept that basic fact of life (especially since it's still happening RIGHT NOW in other parts of the world), than this conversation is futile. With your reasoning, you are va…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:16 AM
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already "let" women speak? oh boy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:05 AM
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As someone else said: family is wholesome, fucking is not. The "playing house" only seems like a chore to men who have no interest in evolving to the next stage in their life- which is fatherhood and legacy building. There is nothing interesting about the game of hooking up. The outcome is always ejaculation and moving onto the next thing. The relationship- however, is where the excitement begins... That's closer to the "playing house" aspect of life than the "hook up" culture aspect. Men want q…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:55 AM
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