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25

Doesn't cure the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:41 AM
3

Yeah but when you're 26 and have never been in a long-term relationship before it takes more than just not being anxious to get over that hurdle with women, lol. I can't magically make myself come across as socially competent and in-touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:09 PM
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Could the 5ft4 Indian guy with an accent ever get a pretty, slender blonde woman Implication is clear enough. It's easier to just roll with it than writing an essay dissecting cultural norms for attractiveness every time this topic comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:05 PM
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It's not just conventionally unattractive people who struggle. I'm 6'1", white, but a useless fuck up with anxiety and nowhere near enough experience for my age so I'm pretty much undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:55 AM
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That's definitely not what Jesus was going for, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:34 AM
5

Believe me, I would. But I'm really uncoordinated and have zero sense of rythem. At 26 that's just sad so don't wanna embarrass myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:00 AM
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Well if you want him to be bullied relentlessly, leading to stunted social skills that will impact all areas of his life and can easily cause long-teem depression and anxiety then sure, go for it. Or just give your kid a socially acceptable name and avoid all that trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:22 PM
3

Well, yeah. The earth is of finite size. Perpetual growth is impossible and just leads to too much competition for necessities and a reduced quality of life for all. Overall population decline is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:10 AM
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The planet is overpopulated anyway. Birth rates won't decline indefinitely. Eventually we'll hit a point of equilibrium where the population doesn't grow or shrink significantly anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:56 AM
1

Getting people to not dislike you is easy. Getting them to actually like you and want to spend time with you is much harder. I'm almost 26 and still haven't figured out how to actually form bonds, admittedly I spent my prime years depressed and didn't bother, but the lack of common experience caused by these issues makes it impossible to connect with anyone since I have basically nothing in common with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:30 AM
1

I mean I'd be quite happy with a high-quality sex + companionship relationship if the opportunity arises. Pretty sure most other men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:00 PM
11

While I don't doubt some women would go for that, I think you're vastly overestimating the amount who would. But don't take my word for it. Go vote for politicians who'll legalize prostitution and see if the United States truly is such a special nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:38 PM
23

Why wouldn't they do literally any other minimum wage job?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:28 PM
30

Women are not cattle. There is a limit to what they'll do for certain pay. There's no way a significant portion will spread their legs for random guys for US minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:21 PM
29

Your idea that the US is the magic nation that's going to make top-tier escorts a dime a dozen is too ridiculous to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:03 PM
49

Sex work is legal in Australia. The dating market is not significantly different to that of the US. Also lol if you think sex work is unskilled. The difference between a $50 dollar hooker and a $500 per hour escort is astonishing. And not just in the sex department, their social skills, marketing, and organization abilities are quite impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:57 PM
1

Has made no difference. I was an awkward loner before, now I'm still an awkward loner. Only thing th ast changed is now I'm living on a university campus studying computer science since I'm useless at everything else. Just too old awkward and out if touch to date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:47 PM
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The problem is you can't force your way into a relationship through sheer determination. It is entirely dependent on approval from other people. As far as I'm aware the vast, vast majority of women in their mid-20s are not interested in first-timers. Nobody wants the hassle. The few who do seem to be super low libido which is just not a good match for most guys. The things I'm doing now - getting in shape, studying CS at university to break into a higher paying career, trying to develop more int…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:13 AM
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The green card thing is just creepy though. Dangling the dream of a better life in front of the less privilaged to get a woman who'd never have been interested otherwise is just.. predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:11 AM
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25 with no functional social, sexual or relationship skills makes things a lot harder. Not impossible, but hard enough that combined with other problems in my life I have to deal with it's just not very feasible that things can turn around. I don't blame anyone else, this situation was my own creation. The fact is that I'm currently very undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:12 AM
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Sure seems that. Due to a combination of bad luck and bad choices (male-dominated interests, depression, isolated jobs, lockdowns) I missed out on all the young relationship stuff, and frankly building social skills in general. At 25 I feel so woefully inexperienced that I cant imagine I wouldn't just make a fool of myself and be taken advantage of. No idea how to be anything other than a work associate with people. At some point we just gotta accept the hand we have to play and know when it's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:16 AM
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Would love to know what these trades are and what country you're in, because in my country your choice is either unskilled manual labor that pays shit, or spending YEARS training as an apprentice before you ever make anything even close to liveable, and rarely ever making a significant amount. ​ I'm 25, man. I'm way too old to break into a serious trade. Most tradies start in their teenage years here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:25 AM
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I've spent my whole life with tradies. The vast majority struggle to make ends meet. This "blue collar = $$$" thing on Reddit is a fantasy. It is also extremely hard to break into trades past young adulthood - you need an apprenticeship and they rarely train older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:26 AM
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I wish setting up a successful white-collar career was half as easy as Reddit made it sound. Being a six-foot white male doesn't mean shit when you grow up in a low socio-economic area. No money, no connections, and school is mostly just to keep kids off the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:45 AM
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Ha. If you think most men can control their income you've been living in an educated middle-class bubble. A sizeable portion of men have shit lives and wind up married to unattractive women. They're socially confident because they have bigger problems than how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:25 AM
2

"Not really the person to ask if you want a rigorous scientific explanation."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:06 PM
2

Instinct, I guess. Not really the person to ask if you want a rigorous scientific explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:38 PM
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Nah. We work because the alternative is an extremely uncomfortable life we have basically no control over. And since our lives revolve around working we develop a sense of pride to compensate - and improving our career is the only way to fuel that pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:56 PM
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Define "bigger guys". I'm at 6.5inch and decently girthy, and I'm practically a virgin with absolutely no confidence or social proof. Admittedly I watched a lot of porn while young and thought anything shorter than 8 inches was small.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:04 PM
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Doesn't seem like it. Idiots like me who made a pigsty of our lives aren't getting laid, but I'm living on a university campus now and I very rarely meet guys who don't at least have some relationship experience. I'd wager the statistics are simply a result of surveys more reliably reaching shut-ins than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:44 AM
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I don't know how many over there can competently speak English in person. The foreign students I encounter at University only have a basic grasp of English and require a translator to communicate effectively. However this fetishization of whites and the desire for a better life is a big problem. I want to have a relationship with an equal who's genuinely into me, not someone who kisses my ass because I'm a golden ticket for them. Not to mention the power imbalance issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:39 AM
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Attractive man for sure. Get all the plusses of being a man with few of the downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:30 AM
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I highly doubt the hot english-speaking women in asia are going to be any more common or any easier to impress than attractive western women. Thin on its own isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:10 AM
6

Well it's still better than zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:00 AM
1

This whole 80/20 thing doesn't exist outside of Tinder or high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:46 AM
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I applaud this line of thinking. The more men realizing they don't want women and thus withdrawing from the dating market, the better my odds at dating become, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:32 AM
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A 25 year-old university student with no career, no social skills, no social media presence, no dating history, or any life history beyond "had an unskilled manual labour job for a few years"? The sheer difference between me and the average person is staggering - I have literally nothing in common with most people my age and thus am totally incapable of connecting with anyone. At this point I just have to accept that I ruined my social/dating life and that the only thing I have to aspire to is g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:00 PM
4

No kidding. I'd give anything to go back to 15 and discover the red pill instead of listening to the utter bullshit my parents told me. Now that I'm closing in on 26 having messed up every area of my life there's nothing I'll ever be able to do to attract women. All I have left to hope for is the desperate hope of salvaging some kind of career potential so I don't starve to death. ​ Really wish I'd understood how your entire life is determined by what you spend your teenage and young adulthood d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:34 AM
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Like most things in life, past 25 the best advice is "travel back in time to when you were 15 and try again". For something more realistic, I don't know. People tend to have their social circles fixed by 25 and don't want any new friends. Trying to become part of a new social circle will require consistent contact, at least once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:13 AM
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I'm not sure where you got the idea that nobody wants to date women 30+, but I'm 25 and not getting any younger. I have neither the desire nor the looks/charm to appeal to women that young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 10:44 AM
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If most, or hell, even a noticeable minority of women in their mid-20s had standards like that I sure as hell wouldn't be single, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:48 AM
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If you can't find any "suitable" people to date your standards are unrealistic. Ultimately it comes down to how important you feel your standards are. Keep in mind that if you're part of a super small percentage of the population: 6 figure salary, attractive, well educated, fit, etcetera, then expecting someone else to have those traits and still be single may not be realistic. The dating market doesn't care about our standards, it only matters who's available.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:23 AM
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Establishing yourself financially requires a career though. If you've completely wasted your life up until 25, there's so little time left to get a career together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:59 PM
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You're probably right. There's truly no point even trying then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:58 PM
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ment. If you hate yourself and take every opportunity to devalue yourself, why would someone decide to value you? Dating is half about selling others on the idea of you. If you are underm I don't have to have any opinion of myself to know what others think of me though. All I need to do is browse a few threads here, so what women think of inexperience/underachieving men, and it becomes obvious what my position is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:54 PM
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So you would happily give up any and all relationships? You could live completely single and unwanted for the entire rest of your life and not start feeling like the world is better off without you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:50 PM
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Horrifying depends on the method. If depressed people were granted euthanasia it would be quite peaceful. ​ Boring, well yes. But a life of solitude isn't exactly fun either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:49 PM
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Self-confidence is meaningless on its own. For example, Trump is one of the most confident and self-valuing men in the world, and he's despised by a very large group of people. ​ If you fall outside of the standard expectations for "minimum dating standards" then valuing yourself won't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:45 PM
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Older men are only attractive if they have experience and maturity worthy of their age. Someone who's messed up in life lacks that, so they don't have such benefits of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:41 PM
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So there you have it. Locked out of relationships, the fundamental purpose of being human. So there truly is no reason not to just kill myself then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:38 PM
1

Mate, I wish I was over-thinking it. But everything I've seen on the internet, especially in places like this, from the keyboards of women, makes it clear that socially awkward men with little sexual experience are utterly undesirable. I blew my youth playing video games and ignoring other people so now I have nothing in common with anybody. Literally no way to relate to anyone anymore. My chance at relationships has long sailed by.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:54 PM
1

Working at a retirement village has filled me with so much existential dread already. Struggle to motivate myself to do anything at all knowing that in no time at all I'll be withered and forgotten. Scary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:50 PM
3

Oh to be 18 again. Would give anything to be young and full of opportunity again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:31 PM
1

Well it would be nice to make friends and date again after years of total isolation from anyone even remotely close to my age group (hooray for working fulltime in a retirement village). But my social skills are so bad I wouldn't get very far. I don't know how to be anything other than a work colleague or a subordinate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:36 AM
2

I had to chose between a stable dead-end job with no transferable skills or trying to advance my skills and credentials in the hope of creating a less bleak future for myself. I hope it was the right choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:28 AM
1

What's a BB? I'm at university because I'm unemployable right now and every industry that even remotely interests me and doesn't pay dirt requires a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:09 AM
1

6'2 to be exact. But I'm studying Computer Science so there's almost zero women to talk to, and a 25 year-old joining uni clubs would be a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:10 AM
4

Didn't get far last time I tried. Not bothering with that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:54 AM
1

Why would I, suddenly the undisputed emperor, give two shits about dating rituals for the masses? My immediate goal would be putting together a team of advisors and figuring out how to rule Australia without tanking the economy or sparking a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:14 AM
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Nah, I'm just average: 6ft Caucasian, little bit of muscle, little bit of fat. But I've fallen well behind in social and life skills by not getting a degree and working in an isolated unskilled job for the past few years. I'm at university trying to turn things around, but as far as dating goes it's not a good look, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:57 AM
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Speaking as a left behind man, I think it's now too easy for people to withdraw from society from a young age. Video games and porn can easily occupy us until we're too old for anyone to want to date us anymore. I never had to confront my anxiety and now that I'm 25 women see me as too inexperienced regardless of what I do now. It was too easy to ignore the problem while it was still solvable so here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:34 AM
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Problem with a bad start is it becomes extremely easy to snowball out of control and by the time you realize where you've gone wrong it can easily be too late to do anything about it. It's possible to have irreversibly destroyed your career potential and social life by mid-20s and no amount of desire to change can redeem that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:07 AM
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Being white doesn't save you if you're socially stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:42 AM
1

Shit, man. I'm glad to have read this. As a 24 year-old social catastrophe who burned his career potential to the ground (programming and mathematics knack but depression happened) I get worried it's too late to change things. Stories like this give me hope. Though I have to ask where on earth you're finding women who like being roughed up so much. Is that really common?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:28 PM
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Wait... what? Is that really how people behave in office environments? I'm looking to get out of blue collar work but that sounds like a huge pain in the ass to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:49 AM
2

Assuming you have the money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 11:34 PM
1

I wish someone had told me that being a 6'1", reasonably in-shape white guy was considered attractive because when I went to university I could have joined clubs and been surrounded by women. It's a real shame because there's quite a surplus of hot chinese and Indian women at that uni, and not many white guys. I might not have developed depression, flunked, and ruined my future if I'd bothered to see what was happening outside my IT classrooms. Now I'm 24 so I'm too old for that gimmick to work.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:33 AM
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Eh, women who stay in shape can look absolutely stunning in their mid 30s in a way that early 20s can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:16 AM
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Building muscle requires a caloric surplus so buff guys have to eat a shit-tonne of nutrient-rich food. Needing to eat lots at the risk of losing your gains is a pain in the ass if you don't like cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:57 AM
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Who asks somebody what their personality is? Most people don't have the self-awareness to objectively know their personalities and the ones who do will only tell you what they think you want to hear. You discover somebody's personality by getting to know them. You start with shared interests and build from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:38 AM
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I'm in Australia. Our government hates the humanities and considers science useless, so they've decimated funding. A lot of STEM majors don't let you pick non-STEM electives. For the most part tech jobs won't even look at if you don't have an the right degree. Nobody I know who studied IT or engineering has done any humanities subjects. Most business majors don't either. I think Aussie degrees are way too specialized. You should be able to just study whatever you want and if you earn the right c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:53 AM
3

To be fair guy #2 is disgusting and seriously needs to take better care of himself. But yes, attractiveness makes everything easier. Not really breaking new ground there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:32 AM
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Because people connect over mutual interests and deal with personality later. I can't really have a conversation with a woman about how loyal and nice we both are, but I can discuss how much we both like to stomp on little kids' sand castles and listen to death metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:31 AM
3

Eh, why not? She's in great shape and looks like a lot of fun. An open relationship means you can play around with other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:17 AM
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Most women aren't throwing themselves at my feet. That's most selfish of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:06 AM
2

I think liberal arts is invaluable for both soft skills and general education. But a liberal arts degree on its own won't land me a job. Especially in my country where the government is actively discouraging liberal arts and making it twice as expensive. Everyone I know with a non-STEM degree is waiting tables, working retail, or at call centers. The IT guys hate their jobs, but they get paid twice as much as the rest of us, and we still hate our jobs. I desperately want to believe you, but I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:03 AM
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I'm not distraught, just explaining the mindset of perpetual loners. I've accepted the position I've gotten myself into and am working on changing that. Well... was. Thanks, COVID-19. Inexperience is hard to hide though. It's not just a matter of not telling people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:37 PM
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The vast majority if people don't have passion for their work. Most get paid shit-all for it on top of that. Even just having stable work on a liveable wage is becoming hard these days. I'd love to get an arts degree as I find that far more interesting than tech or engineering. But where's the work for an arts graduate? Rent is expensive as hell and buying a house that isn't in the middle of bum-fuck nowhere is practically undoable. STEM degrees are the most reliable ticket into the middle class…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:32 PM
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That's what happened to most of us. For one reason or another we didn't fit in while young, and kids are seriously nasty when you don't fit in. It messes up our social development and that has a compounding effect - the further we fall behind the more we're ostracized. Without support or serious insight to fix things we just turned to what made us feel good - video games. The obvious question then is why don't we change? Well, many of us try but run into lots of hiccups. Building a social life f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:04 PM
4

Or just become more interesting? Your job doesn't define you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:11 PM
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If you're a genuinely hot guy and not just delusional then yes. Of course this only works on women who aren't shy - those ones will be too intimidated to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:33 PM
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I've met a lot of women who still want to get married and live happily ever-after. Mind you, they're all in their 20s so perhaps they'll become bitter and cynical about relationships in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 05:57 AM
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Who cares? A happy couple doesn't need concern itself with the opinions of friends. Most friendships fall by the wayside for family in the long run anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 12:45 AM
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Yeah, my mum was one of those women who obsessively chased after her crush - my dad. She raised me to believe that was normal. Also was a vocal prude and hates most people. Turns out she's a high-functioning autist and completely out of touch with other women. Never had female friends at all. Really regret listening to my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:46 AM
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Because people ages 18-22 are morons who think they're the main character in an erotic action thriller.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:30 AM
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Before I let my life fall apart, yes. I quite enjoyed friendships with women. They feel a lot more real than male friendships which usually start and end at specific interests: drinking buddies, sports buddies, gaming buddies, etcetera. Unfortunately most of my interests were male-dominated so I rarely got to meet women. When I was growing up I had a sister of roughly the same age, an over-protective mum, and a negligent dad. That's likely had an impact on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:32 PM
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Some men can pull that off but most can't. Most people need to socialize to maintain social skills and stay mentally healthy. Social anxiety can trick one into thinking they're an introvert when they're actually an extrovert. Every loner I grew up with is still a loner today and most are really unhappy with their situations. Hell, I've never met a person outside the internet who actually enjoys social isolation. The vast majority of people want companionship and relationships. While Reddit makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:46 PM
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The chads I grew up with all had LTRs. I believe one couple is still together, 10 years later. Most men want an LTR. The ones who are purely into pump and dump are either psychopaths, broken people who chase the n-count to hold up their fragile self-esteem, or guys who are simply too busy to handle an LTR. The definition of an attractive man is that he attracts women. So an attractive guy who wants an LTR is likely not going to be on the dating market for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:10 AM
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I'm 24 so I don't really fit in with the millenials or gen Z, but I'm very experienced with the repercussions of no social life. Quite simply, hooking up or getting into relationships requires a degree of social skills, attractiveness, and luck. If you hide away from society you miss out on social skill development, you miss out on countless opportunities to miss people, and you likely end up either fat or skinny-fat with poor posture. Once you hit the adult world it's much harder to recover fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:00 AM
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Poor men will date whoever we can get, we just don't have the time or energy to look too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:41 AM
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Legalizing euthanasia for everybody would shift things back in our favor. We could bow out gracefully instead of making pitiful attempts to rejoin a society we fell out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:53 AM
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Yes. I'm 24 and only been drunk twice in my life. Just about every single person I've met is a social drinker and many have been shit-faced more than a few times. We're the oddballs, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:52 AM
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I dunno, like a career, social skills, some sort of passion or at least interesting experiences to talk about. That sort of stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:32 AM
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Oh? Well to be specific about my situation, I'm 24 and looking at going back to University next year since I flunked out last time. Made the mistake of getting into labor work instead of customer service or retail, so have only had old men for company - when I'm not comletely alone. So screwed up my career and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:30 AM
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I'm sure that stops working once you reach your 30s. You've got to have something else going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:25 AM
1

Eh... my personal situation is pretty bad and not really worth worrying about, lol. I'm more curious in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:15 AM
1

Well I'm thinking less in terms of looks and more in terms of social skills and career potential. Both require years of work and if you've fallen behind it can be hard to fix them, especially concurrently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 12:07 AM
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Yeah, my dad was in his mid 30s and he had low energy. Really low energy. He could barely walk when I was a kid. Spent his time smoking, drinking, and gambling. Hadn't held down a job in a couple of decades. Stole our pocket money to buy ciggies from time to time. Also had terrible anxiety. Wasn't exactly the best father figure one could hope for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:46 PM
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Well, I guess it depends on the severity of the LVM's situation. I'm wondering if there's some holes men can't climb out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:40 PM
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Having a Bachelors and some work experience still puts you ahead of some at least. What did you study? Do you have many friends or family members who might help you find work? What country are you in? Your situation should still be salvageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:25 PM
1

Really? Are you a NEET or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:18 PM
1

You'd probably be surprised at just how deep the barrel is. If you can confidently call yourself a normie, you are nowhere near the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:23 PM
1

I've failed as a man so I welcome the opportunity to fail at being a woman too, lol. The important question is would I get to be attractive and keep my memories as this female version of myself? Because with the benefit of my male hindsight I'd be the most manipulative and evil bitch imaginable. I would capitalize on my looks by working out and counting calories at a young age. With my looks I'll become a high-class escort. I'd filter clients to a small pool of regulars who I'd be happy to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:15 PM
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It works better if you're high up on the ladder, that way even by dating down you're getting a good quality match. If you're towards the bottom of the ladder it's definitely playing with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:26 PM
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Problem is "normal lives" is mostly a depressing 9-5 slog with the occasional weekend outing, but usually just chilling at home. There's an over-representation of middle/upper class people on the internet. The working class, who make up the bulk of the population, live stressful and mundane lives. Lack of sex and divorces often stem from financial stress. People are living paycheck to paycheck, struggling to make ends meet. They certainly don't have the time and money to keep themselves in shape…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:24 PM
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To be fair, I'm a guy who ruined his life after discovering video games. Specifically, video games nobody else was playing so I couldn't even fit in with the other nerds. Threw away all my potential because of it. Hindsight is a real bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:23 PM
1

Oh well, what can you do? Trying to find a woman with little to no prior partners gets pretty damn hard past your early 20s. Most enter into LTRs while young and stay that way for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:42 AM
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Purely a concern that more experienced women expect more from me. I don't care how many men a woman sleeps with so long as she remains loyal and satisfies me. But experienced women tend to want experienced men, so I steer clear of them for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:17 PM
2

Well, nobody's perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:55 PM
0

Then you're attractive and/or have redeeming qualities, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:43 AM
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It sucks for guys like me, who have no redeeming qualities and thus have to rely purely on our looks. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:22 AM
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That's assuming you didn't fuck things up along the way. Some of us fall behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:01 AM
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Well I'm a dumb asshole so you're going to need to spell out your point because right now I'm not sure what women's articles have to do with men slut-shaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:14 PM
2

Wanting commitment doesn't mean they don't enjoy the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:02 PM
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I think it's jealousy more than anything. We want these women for ourselves or we want their lifestyle, but we can't have either. Some men get bitter about it and drag those women down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:25 PM
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