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| 1 | Fuck the redpill bro, it takes ages to get cleared from your mindI really do suggest against going far left or far right. Home isn't an ideology you conform to. No system of thought really solves life, you have to believe in yourself, rather than submit to this idea that you need to listen to someone else. the most important thing in life is that you fuck up, make mistakes, and learn from them. You'll never have a strategy that nails it or gets through; you can only trust your guidance in many moments and so you have to refine that guidance by fucking up and … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is a red piller, help!Sis I'm happy for you. There's a ton of men in the world who would value a woman who stands up for herself and knows her value. It's degrading and demeaning and any real partner would want to elevate you and your goals; not put you in a place <3 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/23 10:42 PM |
| 29 | My boyfriend is a red piller, help!Well you're validating it by dating him | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/23 04:45 AM |
| 9 | Why do women really get approached so much by men, online and irl?They want sex or because they think we're pretty and just.. have this urge to see if they can make a connection. On the flip side since I feel like women can usually get a steady stream of attention that method, they don't really do the converse of approaching men since there's no need. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a lifeGirl here. "I'm not getting women because other guys vs me!" Is a far less productive mental resolution than "Im going to be so badass that I get whoever I want anyways, because I'm going to be confident in myself and not feel insecure or resentful" Like, women are attracted to that latter type of guy, not the former. And it's mostly an internal process that comes from you :) The good news of it all primarily internal to begin with! You CAN change how you think and act. That is our greatest capa… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Another one bites the dustI've been doxxed by people who deeply wanted to make sure that I was punished for having an opinion on something before, so now I don't do that, moved houses and made a new account. I wasn't certainly being horrible to anyone; I only voiced opinions on trans stuff. Anyways, be safe, avoid showing face. And if you are showing face, avoid anything that someone can use to rile a digital mob against you with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Advice on moving in with bfImo, knowing if I can live with someone before marrying them is a fairly important pre-requisite. Living with someone is different than dating them, and getting the greenlight on "Can I live with this person now with their habits and true selves waking up to me each morning?" is an important prerequisite before "Do I want to be with them forever" That could just be my opinion, though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Wasted years on a bad relationshipThis. To further elaborate on "Working on yourself" can look like: Taking a big break from dating. At least a month. You're going to struggle to really apply and learn the lessons to be had here, and you'll bring a ton of baggage into the next relationship if you don't. Develop skills that make you capable of sustaining yourself. Take time to really be happy with yourself and understand what you want rather than immediately hopping into the process of looking for a new partner. Discover your str… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 13 | Is it my business to meddle?Gather evidence of unfaithfulness and present your dad with a very clear and cut divorce case. Build evidence for it according to research accordingly. She has spent decades holding power over him, and decades under her being powerless. That is not salvageable, so contingencies must be sought. He needs rediscover himself and find his own truths outside of the toxic banshee he somehow married and slowly allowed himself to erode under. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Tea TimeI appreciate the self honesty you have with this. I'm a lesbian but I can't vibe with the general overarching LGBT at all. I've been more of the 'rock' in my relationship and the one to take charge, be protective etc., Regardless of the biological truths that divide men and women, fundamental truths of relationships still have validity in redpill theory. I've appreciated my partner for being strong in her own ways even if she's the submissive one, she believes in herself and her capacities and f… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?I see where you're coming from; Yes. That shouldn't have to ever come to fruition. But when faced with nearly extinction, we're back to tribes. I'm not even straight; I'm a gay woman but I'm also a realist; Women were pretty much forced to have kids they didn't want for many years. To think that my protest of "This is communism!" will hold weight in the face of apocalyptic humanity-ending conditions is laughable. Though, this is all theoretical. In the reality of today, yes, it is communist oppr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | "When Is Narcissism Real?" with Alison LIVEI agree. Everyone's a narcissist these days. People love labels to slander their opponents under lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | The importance of not oversharing about sexKorean girl here. I can tell you where Asian women (more old-school ones) get it so terribly wrong: Gossip. It's deleterious to your friendships and relationships to keep gossipping about them. Asian wives virtually gossip more than anyone else I've ever seen; "My son got into X" "My daughter is studying to get into B" "Did you hear cheong-mins husband hasn't had sex with her in over a year?" It's the worst thing to anyone to feel like you are an accessory to someone else's gossip. If you need e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | "When Is Narcissism Real?" with Alison LIVEAnalyzing motives justly and fairly is really a skill more people need to utilize. "Is this action he doing engineered to make him look a certain way? Is he a variety of different people depending on who he's with? Are they always defensive if something makes them look bad in a certain light? Are they vying to be the center of attention at this time?" There really are fake people who try to wear a mask. Compulsive liars and storytellers are often just... The narcissists that are blatantly visibl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?For the record I am trying to ask YOU what YOU do, but all you respond with is "he says I do nothing". | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 9 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?Be supportive, have good talks about feelings and how to help each other Cook Have fun together Sex Live in the same house Be giving towards each other and selfless Have adventures Ask him how his day was Give/receive massages Hike Laugh at each other's silliest indiscretions and smile together Watch things together Play games together Have a hobby together Be excited for each other's successes Basically enjoy each other and be selfless of yourselves together; But to me it sounds like you almost… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?And what do you love about him again? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?Thanks for updating your post :P I'd evaluate if you're really bringing value to his life. If you are; is it worth it to him? We all show appreciation in different ways; you can try telling him that. (E.G. Love language) like touch, acts of service, language, gifts etc. If he isn't feeling appreciated for any of his efforts, why? I personally disagree with his approach in not communicating his feelings well to you, its dumb to expect someone to "offer" to pay. But from your post, it largely soun… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?How long have you been dating? Who suggests to go eat? How often? Why is he saying "You're ungrateful and taking advantage of me" over... let me see, $16? Does he pay the rent for both of you? If you're eating out twice a day, that's kind of expensive af, but also, more indicative of both of you needing a lifestyle change and cooking more. If it's like, 2 times a week, then that's pathetic for him to bash you over. Sounds to me like he's just definitely not a provider; but, it is very difficult … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?Oh! How was that going for you by the way? Would be nice to see if the advisories helped. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Is it bad to expect your bf to pay for you?Are they really, really expensive meals + Who is suggesting they go eat X or Y? This sounds... trashy on his end to bring it up like that. If he's suggesting you're using him, well, are you? Are you providing anything for him in general? Healthy relationships are give and take, no matter where you look at it. I'd suggest cooking for him as a way to pay him back if you want to be diplomatic, though. Not easy to answer comprehensively; there's not a lot of details on this one! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation?Sorry, this isn't going to work. He's not even what I would call a beta personality... your husband just seems... spineless. You are not responsible for nourishing his life to the fullest. His therapy should've came far before your marriage if he was even capable of taking life into his own hands and the fact you had to tell him "I wont find you a therapist" is bizarre. If hes hurt thats fine; but saying "I dont want to hear about our lack of sex" is sad. He's not taking any level of self improv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | PornographyI don't believe in restricting anyone elses freedoms; but I believe in respecting someone elses boundaries. I've never felt the desire to watch porn other than when my partner has been away on business. Some women aren't comfy with it; and if it's a committed relationship, that needs to have some weight. If he is entirely disregarding your stance there, that's a red flag to me, as a sign he doesn't respect what you are comfy with. But, when my partner is here, I'm really just preferring them ins… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Is bad communication at the start of a relationship a red flag?It really depends. Personally, he isn't obligated at all to respond to you after just... two dates. Like you said; you're not technically in a relationship. Bring it up to him with an earnest chat in a casual (and not pushy) way during your next date. Some people just aren't big on it; is he often doing physical stuff where it's inconvenient to respond, or is he usually at a computer in his work AND off-time? Use some empathy to discover more contextual clues for yourself on that one; obviously … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Christian single (F) desiring to be a wife and homemaker.Anyonymous_fiend is pretty spot on. While not religious myself; my stance is: It sounds to me like you have your 'comfort' moments pretty infrequently; but if it's something you wanted to change about yourself, taking more "present" hobbies such as rock climbing, gym, martial arts, crafts where you have to go somewhere in public are usually great places to enjoy things other than those temptations; while also being the #1 place to find men and or friends! I don't believe masturbation, (personall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | RP Women, what is your opinion about the argument: "The RP philosophy is mostly aimed at men, to benefit them" ?I'll put it simply: RPW is the strategic application of methods to achieve womens wants in a relationship via supporting/empowering a partner rather than dominating and demanding. It's about knowing what you want, achieving it, and a healthy level of self reflection that is lost these days by asking oneself "Hmm, did I fuck up here? Was I in the wrong?" RPW is about being a strong partner in ways that are not hostile or aggressive while still being very self-respecting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 19 | I recently found out I have been cheated on and lied to for a yearI'm terribly sorry. I feel horrible that you had to deal with this level of emotional AND literal dishonesty. OP, you're fine. Women are not at all "Damaged" just because you had sex, if there's any single one thing to take from bluepill, is that we as women are not at all, less of women just because a douchebag lies to us or takes advantage of us. You're completely okay. You don't have to abandon faith in others; life is a learning process, so it's time to sit back and reflect on "What are the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Please leave this RedditI will never forgive the left for letting slippery slope, classified as an actual fallacy for debate teams, to be true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Please leave this RedditGod I feel for you. Same. Feels like being a vagrant with no real home. The LGB went bonkers after like 2 years of just being moderately normal from 2011-2013. Crazy how bad it's gotten. Here for you if you wanted to rant about that btw. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 10:04 AM |
| 2 | How is this whole thing NOT about being a subservient dog?I'm a gay woman and redpill logic applies. While lots of RP advisory is rooted in biological differences, it has fundamental truths for strong relationships anywhere, in my experience. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 18 | Please leave this RedditI'm a lesbian and OP is a moron. Women have every right to live and date via the methods and strategies they choose. If you practiced what you preach, so called liberation, you'd know that it's true. Play any MOBA game these days and there are people who love to play a "support" class. That is no different here. Stop controlling women and invading their spaces. Thanks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Fashion Advice for masculine looking women?How wide are your shoulders? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like so many women give so many passes to boyfriends?There's a certain level of healthy ownership of your results. Its an iterative cycle and some people don't follow step 5. 1.) Things aren't where I want to be yet; what do I need to be doing differently? 2.) Have I tried those things? 3.) The results aren't what I want; have I looked at other approaches? Have I done them? 4.) If those haven't worked; is my partner even trying to put in fair effort to accommodate the problem as well? 5.) How many times am I willing to run this cycle, and when is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 06:48 AM |
| 27 | Why does it seem like so many women give so many passes to boyfriends?Not sure why it's so hard for so many women to respect their own time. I have told everyone this. People are not projects. You are your own project. if it's a correctable like a habit or he's still figuring X or Y out on his own, that's totally fine. The issue comes to when people try to fix others' character traits; If he's dishonest, and you've created a safe space for honesty, (e.g. don't explode at every minor thing) then that's not a problem you should tackle. I've talked to women who are l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/22 12:53 AM |
| 18 | BF has been texting a office colleague a lot and following exes on instaDon't blame the women, blame your man. Sure they're homewreckers but you can't control every woman who ever wants to take a shot at him. Your relationship however, is in your boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 21 | BF has been texting a office colleague a lot and following exes on instaYou gotta keep trying hon; it takes a lot of effort and some good luck to get a really good, stable friend who is reliable. I'd look at hobby activities; pottery, martial arts self defense, something you go out and do so that you can have a friend there you talk with and can bond with over a recurring shared activity together. As for your boy issue, the person above us is right. Other women don't "steal" your partner, your partner allows themselves to wander. He is being emotionally dishonest to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I think I misunderstood what RPW means (not hating just confused)Sadly though, the dynamic is different; a "traditional lesbian" community would face extreme moderation strain from fully bearded people demanding entry, to attempts to be cancelled because of how "exclusionary" or "hateful" the idea is coming from within the lgbt community. Any lesbian community (you can look) is ran by very much so, non-traditional lesbian voices, or arguments on syntax of "what is a lesbian?" Or "what is a woman?" Or trans issues. The online lesbian community is highly trans … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/22 08:18 PM |
| 4 | I think I misunderstood what RPW means (not hating just confused)I agree with your entire sentiment for the most part. I'm here just as a gay woman who feels modern feminist culture values are deleterious to our own experiences as women, Im certainly not here to absorb dating advice for attracting men, though. I enjoy a traditional relationship structure even if the genitalia are different; but I certainly don't aim to complain; it's not even possible to find a woman's space where women aren't hyper liberal, constantly finding novel things to complain about a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/22 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Let’s talk about not texting him firstDon't spam and be interested in who they are. Ask questions (without being vain) and learn about them. Don't ask multiple questions at one time unless they're kind of related in a logical way. "What's your favorite color? Depending on which one, why?" Is a shitty example of it being done right. "What's your favorite food? Also, what is your opinion on climate?" Is agitating. If he texts, text back and try to make time for good conversations. Write thought out responses that show you have a mind … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about not texting him firstYep. If you want someone, court them. Who cares what genitals you have. You can be feminine and approach someone without "masculinizing" or "appearing desperate" with yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 06:15 PM |
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