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mental healthEmrys_Merlin/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:13 PM
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Find me the legal requirements for pet Euthanization in the area it was done in if that is what you want to argue. I didn't come here to create suspicion. I came here to point out that info was missing and that we should wait to see said info before making knee jerk defensive proclamations. That you think me stating that is akin to creating suspicion is both hilarious and worrying.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 12:03 AM
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Unless I'm much mistaken, Euthanization is literally killing the dogs. It's the act of putting them down. If he walked into a vet, claimed they bit someone when they didn't and had them euthanized just to spite her, then fuck him. But we don't know exactly why. Again, the article doesn't say. So before you go trying to knee jerk defend him, wait to find out the actual info.
/r/MensRights21/01/26 11:42 PM
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I think if they could reasonably get away with auto banning certain keywords and such here, they absolutely would. It's just a condition of a place like reddit, where the mods for each sub treat their space as personal kingdoms. The mods who don't know how to adaquetly parce out good faith takes from bad ones just find it easier to wipe out the potential for bad faith takes because they can and it's easy to do. Actual, healthy moderation requires the leadership of subs to be nuanced and willing …
/r/MensRights05/01/26 04:26 AM
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To be fair, the mods here have also been guilty of removing actually relevant discussions just because they felt like it, so unfortunately, this is just a standard of reddit mods that can't be avoided, no matter what sub.
/r/MensRights05/01/26 03:51 AM
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Of course. And yeah, the effect lust has on men is pretty overblown across the board, especially in online areas. I think that, especially for younger men, they don't fully know what they're actually looking for in a companion, so they default to what they think they should- physical appearance and the like. It's like trying to establish a baseline but not knowing what that even is. The only apt comparison I can think of at the moment is the 6/6/6 thing that's pervasive among women seeking men: …
/r/MensRights20/12/25 11:38 PM
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Ok, thank you for explaining that, I appreciate it, and yes it did clear it up. I guess let me start by answering your direct questions, and then I can also address some of what I'm perceiving are your underlying concerns. I hope this form of answer is acceptable. Does lust really control a number of your choices, or is that just something that's been overexaggerated? A: Lust is a factor in romantic/companion based choices in the same degree that it is with women. That is to say, it varies by ma…
/r/MensRights20/12/25 10:58 PM
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Heya! Alright, so I know how to engage with this post, allow me to ask this: First, thank you for sharing your thoughts. Second, what is your intention with this post? Are you looking to develop a truer underanding of men, to confront the bias you had ingrained in you and seek something new? Help me understand your perspective so I can best understand how to to best help here.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 10:01 PM
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"Why couldn't your brother have lived and you died in the fire?" My mom to 13 year old me on my 13th birthday. My older brother died in a house fire a couple years prior.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:19 AM
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Michigander here. Don't trust her. Speaking from experience.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:40 PM
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If you're truly in earnest about discovering more about the struggles men have, I recommend Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves. The audiobook is free on Amazon at the moment. He's a researcher who dug deep into working to uncover many of the struggles boys and men face throughout their lives as well as offering insightful thoughts on what could be done.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:55 PM
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Question: Who's Ryan and why should I hire him?
/r/MensRights12/09/24 03:51 PM
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Quote: "The 17-year-old daughter claims her father, Hawkins, raped her when she was almost six years old and continually molested her throughout her childhood despite her protestations that he stop, according to court documents. The two adopted daughters also claim they were sexually abused, those documents state. The oldest son also told a forensic interviewer he felt like his father tried to drown him in a pool in 2018 in Costa Rica, using police control tactics and holding him under water unt…
/r/MensRights02/09/24 08:53 AM
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I mean, if you wanna take the side of a dude clearly manipulating OP, I guess that's a choice.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 03:31 AM
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In case anyone doubts this is real: 1. Library of Congress: https://catalog.loc.gov/vwebv/search?searchCode=LCCN&searchArg=2018900514&searchType=1&permalink=y 2.Delaware Department of State: Divisions of Corporations listing for the publisher: https://icis.corp.delaware.gov/Ecorp/EntitySearch/NameSearch.aspx Search Lemons to Lemonade Publishing
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:23 PM
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Demanding an equal share in everything that has occurred since entering into a marriage while also making the decision to give up your career (meaning all of your income moving forward) is a more than fair thing. Of course if she's the one to cheat then that's an entirely different story, but my initial comment wasn't about her cheating. It was about demanding that he treat her as an equal partner in the relationship moving forward. See for reference the very next sentence in that comment. You t…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 10:12 PM
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Sure she does, especially given how manipulative he's already proven himself to be. Bottom line, if he purchases 3 properties while she's stuck at home raising his kids after giving up her career and then he decides to cheat and leave, she absolutely should be able to walk away with some of that, either in cash relative to the amounts of the properties or a property herself. She's not trying to sandbag him, she's trying to ensure that her future is still going to be ok if he plays her. Nothing w…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:27 PM
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First and foremost- You should both know each other's financial status and info. That he's intentionally withholding the info is a big, crimson-red flag. Before any other decisions get made, you two need to be equal in the knowledge of each other's finances, because otherwise you are going in blind to any discussion of your future, leaving him holding all the power. You can't just trust that he won't 'leave his kid's mom without a place to sleep.' Again, this is a power dynamic issue. So to add …
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:57 PM
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That's an interesting post history you've got there.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 02:33 PM
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Irl I'll regularly tell men who I mentor to man up if I feel they're allowing life to push them around when they could be taking actions to gain control of their lives. To me it's a call to find ones inner strength, to brace oneself against the storm rather than let the storm blow you over. Sometimes, you need to man up and let the tears flow freely as you allow yourself the power to feel. Other times, you need to man up and refuse to budge an inch from where you stand. Don't get me wrong, there…
/r/MensRights17/07/24 11:49 PM
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"from women" "these women" etc. Yeah, you're massively generalizing. Man up. Stop making the same kinds of statements others make of men.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 06:19 PM
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Work to remind both sides that neither cause is a zero sum.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 06:44 AM
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Beat me to it!
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:18 AM
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Near as I can tell, OP didn't mention dating apps. They mentioned Onlyfans and reddit subs dedicated to porn/adult entertainment focused on gamers, yeah? Setting up dating profiles with the intention of only getting subs is a whole other topic.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 03:50 AM
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I think to assume that such people are specifically targeting others because of their emotionally vulnerable implies a level of malevolence that borderlines on the cartoonishly evil. Ultimately it just comes down to business 101. A business, or class of businesses, succeeds because they fill a need in a society. Do I like the way that the need is being fulfilled? Not at all. But neither am I going to begrudge people their occupation of choice because, at the end of the day, people need a living.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 03:35 AM
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Reminds me of what happened to Timothy Hutton.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 12:50 AM
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By those burned and by those fearful, marriage is the ultimate surrendering of your freedoms to vain optimism. To those not ruled by such predispositions, it is easy to see: Love and marriage are not the evil these people make them out to be. There are plenty of advantages to it. Chief among them, at least for me, is the opportunity to be vulnerable with someone who will never judge you and will always be in your corner, no matter what. In this world still growing dark, hope for true partnership…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 09:32 AM
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Sauce? Edit: Really? I asked for the source because I'm curious about the suit, and ya'll downvote me? Really?
/r/MensRights15/01/24 01:13 AM
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I am an Aarnisador, trained in the weapon-based martial art known as Arnis. While I can't say with 100% confidence that the "martial arts sticks" she used were Arnis sticks (I couldn't find any video/pics,) the amount of blunt damage someone could do with those is significant. We're talking a set of hardwood sticks that's typically between 28 and 32 inches (71 and 81 cm) in length and is designed for quick, precise blows. Even if you try to block the blows with your arms, you're still going to g…
/r/MensRights09/01/24 03:42 PM
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My feelings on JP are mixed. On the one hand, in the past he demonstrated that he was articulate, knowledgeable, and willing to be patient in his explanations about things to the average person. There's that famous/infamous interview with Cathy Newman where she tried again and again to get him on "So what you're saying is" lines where she'd try to interpret things as negatively as possible and he was having none of it. On the other hand, at some point I feel like he began to buy his own hype, an…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 03:13 AM
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My god I actually forgot about that dude.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 08:04 PM
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Disagree on compromising core values. Sometimes ones core values are bad and need to be reconsidered.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:42 AM
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Your love for your partner doesn't grow. Your knowledge and understanding of them grows, and the love you have for them expands to encompass the new areas and depths you've discovered. You can only ever be innocent in your ignorance of a problem once. After that, if you allow the same problem to continue happening, it is to some degree your fault. This includes relationships and feelings your partner has about things. Learn "Yes, and" Know that it's always ok to admit that you don't know/don't u…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:39 AM
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If the saying that "you are what you eat" is factually correct, and vegetarians eat veggies... Then what do humanitarians eat? Jk. Old joke I haven't been able to whip out in a while
/r/MensRights10/11/23 06:15 AM
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That hasn't started already? I hate to say it, but the breakdown of healthy communication is a huge contributor to the problems between men and women. I'll say up front that I'm not for AI girlfriends, but I can absolutely see the appeal they present.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 08:53 PM
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It'd be nice, yeah.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 06:53 PM
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There's also r/BrosBeingBros which, while not exactly the same, was a fantastic sub that I stumbled across recently.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 06:31 PM
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I think r/upliftingMen is still there, though it doesn't seem to be terribly active.
/r/MensRights05/11/23 03:57 PM
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Probably the best example would be a therapist asking very leading questions towards one parent specifically.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 12:23 PM
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"Only 45% of physicians performing circumcisions use anesthesia, and at an even lower number, 25%, of obstetricians use it." I'm sorry, WHAT?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 09:01 PM
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r/missedthepoint
/r/MensRights17/09/23 01:39 PM
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Tfw a hatemonger harasses you, then instantly blocks you, am I right @ u/krazyjazz ? Why should I ease up when you're ostracizing people coming here looking to understand? Calling you out for making the situation worse isn't preaching, it's called being a decent human being. Sorry if the nuance escapes you.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:55 PM
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Ease up. Stop being so confrontational. Dialogue with respect.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:43 PM
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Ya'll downvoting this random person to oblivion for making small mistakes in their post is not helping. Stop being retaliatory. If someone comes to this sub looking in earnest to understand the struggles men face, then guess what? They're goona make mistakes in the discussion because they don't know. You want people to understand our plights yet the minute they attempt to do so, you chastised them. Shame on you.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 05:42 PM
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Nothing, because forcing our burdens and sufferings on others just to get them to experience it is an act of cruelty. We shouldn't have the systemic problems we do. That doesn't mean we should wish others did as well.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 04:35 PM
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Menucation
/r/MensRights04/08/23 01:15 PM
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'There never was much hope,' he answered. 'Just a fool's hope, as I have been told.'
/r/MensRights03/08/23 03:45 AM
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Nope. Lol. Been doing it since I was a teen.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 02:51 PM
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Oh so that's why when I'm angry I power clean my entire house. 10/10 makes sense tbh.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 01:38 PM
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It really is. 10/10 would recommend.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 09:08 PM
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Then: 27 page 12 font times new Roman diatribe on the obvious and evil subtest of men looking for someone who's spontaneous. Most men: "Hey, I got a craving for some mint moose tracks. Wanna go down to the park and get some?"
/r/MensRights18/07/23 12:30 PM
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I'm down. Dm me with an invite.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 08:32 PM
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To quote Red from OSP: What's more manly than men loving men? :) Glad you're feeling welcomed and respected, friend.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 01:38 PM
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Sometimes the things that may or may not be true are the things a man needs to believe in the most. That people are basically good; that honor, courage, and virtue mean everything; that power and money, money and power mean nothing; that good always triumphs over evil; and I want you to remember this, that love... true love never dies. You remember that, boy. You remember that. Doesn't matter if it's true or not. You see, a man should believe in those things, because those are the things worth b…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 08:40 AM
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It really is.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 01:09 AM
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It's a subsection of the Men's Rights movement, for better or for worse.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:40 PM
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Cannot say enough good things about Secondhand Lions. Robert Duvall, Michael Caine, and Haley Joel Osment do a fantastic job in this coming of age movie. 10/10 no notes.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 12:10 AM
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Hi Just Dim, I'm Dad.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 12:18 AM
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Looks like there were some links in the article itself to the studies, about 1/3 of the way down. I didn't read over them, but did click on them to briefly view them.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 12:10 AM
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So, since OP decided to cherry pick the quote out of context to suit their own narrative, here's the full quote: "To include the realities of non-college-educated men, we ensured that group’s representation in our sample and looked carefully at their responses. The gender-based achievement gap among boys begins at kindergarten, expands through eighth grade, and persists through high school and postsecondary education, setting up this group of men for increasingly tenuous connections and insecure…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 12:04 AM
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How is this anti-MRM?
/r/MensRights22/05/23 11:33 PM
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