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Yeah, I can relate back when I was much younger I came off a long stint with a virgin girlfriend in my very early twenties and lost all confidence with women. But you just read and watch about one on one sex and it all makes sense. I'm at the point now where I'm using the make a girl cum on command technique. So now I don't have confidence problems. Thus as I was eluding to just learning to get better
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:07 PM
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It sounds like they are looking to you for leadership so just give them commands. You want to be good as an adult. You need to learn how to set boundaries and give instructions to both men and women. Good luck my young friend. If you liked this comment check my history I'm making a website with content soon
/r/askTRP05/02/20 01:03 PM
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Damn dude you got played out son. You're still in her frame caring what one girl thinks of you. How did the topic even come up I've never had a girl say that kind of line to me before.. Unless you overtly spoke about sex or something like that. If you liked this comment check my message history for my webby I'm putting out content soon
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:56 PM
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Oh right, I think you're saying you like a certain style and she has a certain style or is shy and then that kills it for you. I get that. Don't ever stop improving your sexual game though. There is always so much to learn and fun to have. If you're worried to see a girl again because you don't think you can get up for it or off at all then just move on to the next girl and keep her as a friend if you want that
/r/askTRP05/02/20 12:09 PM
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I know, have read book of pook a few times now. Thanks mate
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:09 PM
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Thanks for the link to rsds moved material. I already approach regularly when it's convenient to me. I pretty much always try for a number. I'll admit I could go out more
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:08 PM
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Your character assessment is a little off. But I appreciate the lines of wisdom regarding sunk costs.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:06 PM
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Yeah I did that already. Cheers mate.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:30 AM
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I know... I had to unfollow her tho. Was too hard to deal with seeing updates of her.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:17 PM
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Hard to know for sure. But I was getting narcissistic vibes. I also tried to set a boundary/called out her behaviour which led to her nexting me. So I am worried that will not go down well.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:16 PM
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I know... I had to unfollow her tho. Was too hard to deal with seeing updates of her.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:08 PM
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It's often better not to kiss on first dates.. create sexual tension and doesn't allow her to get buyers remorse. Except if they come back to yours ofc but you'll still have to deal with ASD.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:45 PM
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when I asked to be exclusive ALWAYS let the girl ask this from or bring up with you..
/r/askTRP20/06/19 09:43 PM
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I don't have a partner FYI but I understand your story.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:13 AM
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I had to triple check they were being serious through probing questions..
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:13 AM
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co-workers..
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:12 AM
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cheers mate, also how badly do you think i've ruined things with girl 1. Salvageable in person?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:38 AM
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no
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:34 AM
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got a link?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:32 AM
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my second q then is how bad do you think it is was girl 1 now then? (see my below comment)
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:30 AM
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Is it really that simple though? What if a female is more dominant (girl 1 - knows me IRL whom was and always has been inside my frame + showing IOI's last meetup) is meerly just not used to be spoken to like this?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:29 AM
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Thanks for that. How would a high value man display vulnerability to women?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 01:32 AM
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oh dude, but don't you realise that if you encounter a guy who's status you value higher than your own (which I can already see will not be very hard) who didn't care about those things. You would be trying to qualify yourself to him so hard, it would not look good for you in said high status males eyes and then you would just be obsessed with him when you didn't get your validation etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 08:44 PM
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It could happen that you make the girl feel too insecure by being much better than her and not showing vulnerabilities Can you elaborate more on this ideology of vulnerability with examples? I've read this, particularly in Models and the 48 laws of power, but am still grasping it fully/trying to think how to put it into practice. I believe it could be a big down fall of my own
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 08:41 PM
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Sorry for the late response this is a throw away. Thank you for your advice
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 06:52 AM
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Not sure what you mean, do you go on dates with females
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:10 AM
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Thanks mate
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:27 PM
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Thanks mate
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:27 PM
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Great post but how will you know if she believes she has obtained Emotional Conquest over you? My story here is I was interstate and after receiving a lot of interest from a woman (HB10), I wanted a field test. I'll admit I may have played my initial response lazy, but still felt I maintained frame through texts/shit tests and the call we had (i'm very experienced/confident talking to women on the phone). I did end up chasing her (which I know is wrong) but felt was justified to exemplify two po…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 08:42 AM
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Do you know that is funny because I was only just at the appreciation stage and recently moved on from that perspective as I felt like my desires to be mentally and behaviourally challenged were no longer being met, leaving me with an empty feeling and finding it gradually harder to appreciate women. Was thinking about MGTOW until I met a female who possessed all the qualities (compassionate, self-ware, objective, intellectually studied and still kept the qualities we know and love of females, f…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 10:36 PM
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Also i found this is a good introductory watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NL1zYDq1tjo
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 09:50 PM
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I can do funny and cocky by accident not really forced. I rarely find myself lost for words when talking to girls, typically i just throw them questions and act semi-interested. Then normally just kill the conversation before it gets awkward or weird and just leave. I'll give all this advice a go thanks for the reply
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:43 AM
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thanks! Turns out she wasn't there but may still come to train every so often so i'll see how it goes next time
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:42 AM
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hey guys, i've been floating around for about 6 months now. I've been focusing a lot on myself and finally over the hate stage. I often speak, flirt and converse with every girl i meet, at the local places i go for food, the gym, standing in line somewhere. What ever it is, I have no issues talking to girls, flowing the conversation. My struggle is transitioning for the n close. I'm convinced it's all about the wording of asking for her number and also what point in the conversation to execute. …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:37 PM
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if you live in Australia i'd recommend products from the Body Shop. I had extremely bad acne younger (was on roactin pill to try and cure it) and even during mid twenties it will still bad. Now I very very rarely do i even get a pimple (maybe once a month/2 months). Have tried pro-activ that shit dries your skin out
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:36 AM
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sounds fine
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:45 PM
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no push pull? and you said this " After a bit, I sit up and say "I can give you the best sex you've ever had in your life, you know. I've been wanting to fuck you for a while now." And she shuts it down again.". Terrible idea man she was probably already thinking that and you lost hard by telling her
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:16 PM
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was just thinking this after the first line lmao..
/r/askTRP26/06/17 12:12 PM
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your post helped me out so don't feel bad for asking we are mostly all learning sitll
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:37 AM
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yes
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:35 AM
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thanks for this story (29 in early learning). I've had situations very similar to this and know of somebody exactly like J who is not alpha naturally but tries hard to be. Just wondering how bad are cigars for you? i always head out with my mates for a smoke but don't actually smoke myself. Sometimes i'll pinch a casual smoke here or there but i'd be keen to pick up cigars (mostly cos of the flavour). But are they just as bad for you as cigarettes?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:24 AM
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sorry man i live with a natural alpha and he easily pulls women when he is single and he could not give a fuck about any social media platform (he actually couldn't give a fuck about anything - it's natural to him). I think social media does help for some but it's not black and white "if you have good social media following you're going to pull heaps of chicks" and "if you have no social media following you're doomed". It helps yes i agree but it's not the be all
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:31 AM
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i agree you are shit at texting. But i've said less/better things and still fucked it up the same. texting feels like a no-win unless you organise a date. i can be texting a girl for months flirting, sexting, nude photos but then it never equate to a in person meeting of that kind. it's hard because women have an abundance of guys they can talk to and get attention from very easily and quickly. But they can't get an abundance of men setting up the date and actually showing up (unless they are li…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:03 AM
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tell her what you like or what you want her to try man. or just do it for her. Ie: if i want a blow job i'll just shove my dick in their mouth, fuck their mouth, if i want my balls licked i just ask for it etc. it's not about being domineering it's just about making it exciting for her. you're telling her what you like and then you over-react to it (moan harder, etc)
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:06 PM
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thanks mate appreciate all the advice
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:33 PM
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So as mentioned first girl i had already slept with a few times prior to TRP. Although i was accidentally already incorporating similar behaviors anyway since my trip here was actually pretty gradual and then the big leap. The second girl and I have probably been talking for way too long, mostly over snapchat, already sent me a bunch of nudes, I was not bothered to see her prior to nofap (a few times we had organised to meetup and i just jerked the pain away) because she's a HB4 and i want to im…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:13 PM
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i deleted tinder after TRP man sorry but yeah talking about choking somebodys cat is fucking weird man (also learn to spell). Social calibration bra
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:03 AM
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Practice saying a leaving excuse and give her the urgency of saying yes/no to you indefinitely. She will feel like she has to make a decision now if she wants to ever see you again or not. Something like "okay i'm getting out of here now, you should give me your number" or even "okay i'm leaving now, ..." or "okay i've got to get to class, ...". If she says no just leave, you'll get nothing more from her now
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:38 AM
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holy fuck dude that was the worst tinder approach i've ever seen. damn. have you not texted many girls in your life? you're not at all calibrated with society
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:29 AM
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ah yeah, nah well i've never been tied up before but done plenty of it. you can pretty much do what you want with them (but then i guess TRP you can do that anyway) so it makes sense now that the guy would be getting what he wants.. lmao blue pill realizations
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:55 AM
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but how can you tell the difference between not giving a shit and being a douche bag sometimes? i had two girls block me last week. 1 was jokingly saying that i probably miss her and i said i've replaced you. So she ghosted and i thought this was normal behavior but i think my reply was bit rough. next was talking about being on period and i said something like thats okay if your head game is strong. and she was getting offended so i didnt retract and pursued and said something like well it woul…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:53 AM
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wondering why you went with "I'm looking for a girl that will tie me up" as opposed to "I'm looking for a girl tie up" also mine wasn't really a FR just because I'd already slept with her once before TRP but yeah shit testing is real and constant
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:44 AM
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What about please, thank you and sorry ??
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:07 AM
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Time is running out LMAO? I'm 29 and similar to you in the best shape make a good amount of money. Even without the trp I had about 10 sexual partners last year. This year around 6 so far and I only just started on TRP this week with one field report done. Why do you want to settle down tbh
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 09:44 PM
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dude serious? you think we aren't racist because we SAY we aren't racist? actions speak way louder than words. I work in an environment where there is one arab and literally no one will talk to him or hang out with him at lunch. Men or Women it's the same thing our body's are programmed to be attracted to specific traits which encompasses some nationalities. I'm definitely not racist sincerely nor am i agreeing with this but in my pre pill days i'd never even take a second look at an arab girl b…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:46 PM
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that is what i wanted to hear
/r/askTRP09/06/17 06:03 AM
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thanks for the advice man. i think because i am new and trying to learn as quick/fast i can maybe i'm trying the "harder stuff" too early or something. I've never felt nervous around women especially on dates or visiting their house/they come to mine. But i do have some weird social anxiety around dinner dates. I'm going to be trying to ploy around that for now while i work on overcoming htat. Thanks for your help
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:56 AM
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nah have not fucked her. i asked her to hang out and she was was kind of shocked and said what i wrote above. So i just figured i needed to change subject and pursue later. But then the conversation ended shitty and i dragged it out too much with fluffy bullshit. As I mentioned above i'll give it one week see if any replies, if so escalate to another date otherwise i may contact her again one last crack next week and be even more direct with the invite (as i never wrote back to her last night). …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:41 AM
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surely after you cum in their mouth they are so disappointed that they "might not get any fun" and/or lose their excitement. Also in saying this i normally tell a girl i'm about to cum from their head even though i'm not even close and then they go hard out trying to suck it out of me. And i always say "you should stop, i just told you it's building quickly" again another lie but they keep going? so i guess you're right they do want cum in their mouth
/r/askTRP09/06/17 02:17 AM
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also what are your thoughts or if you have any links, about arranging a date with a girl and then bailing on purpose? is that a thing. i've read some people talk about it in threads but nothing in the help guides i've read
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:47 AM
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honestly don't burn yourself out. I've been lifting for about 1.5 years now some weeks i will go 5-6 times others 3-4. Make sure that if you dont feel like going you don't but promise yourself you'll go tomorrow and then mentally prepare yourself all day.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:30 AM
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i haven't "came fast" in about 6-7 years. I was pretty lucky that i had an LTR that i would consider probably around an 8-8.5 who i practiced lasting long without a rubber with. I'm never ever up for round 2 once i've blown i'm out of there. should i practice this?
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:45 AM
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for me personally since i'm still learning i've set some goals that i'd like to achieve. i'm an extremely competitive person in real life played sports my whole life/video games and also lift weights. Although her personally isn't the goal overcoming the appearance scale is one of those goals and she's just the closest thing i have on the go for this
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:39 AM
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hey man i've only started this been about 9 days so far i know that it's not close to 70-90. But i feel like i'm more sensitive now or something like in the shower is unbelievably hard to control myself (even just washing myself). I am worried that the next chick i bang i might not last long because of this. Have you had experience with this? my last lay was 6 days ago so not that far in
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:02 AM
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i'm already catching other fish? i feel like too many people on here next too quickly and i've been reading a fuck ton of threads lately and it seems to be a common theme the TRP vets seem to be trying to make new TRP members realize you don't need to next every time you're faced with a minor push back/adversity. I think if you can get into a girls head she will think about you and situations of her being with you to a degree that what ever push back you faced a week ago can change a week later
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:30 PM
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i would not consider us "friends" just yet. I've had my fair share of friend zoning (29) and i would not classify our relations or interactions close to that. I more meant we have had small/quick interactions in the past mostly to raise my SMV (ie approaching her out in public for 1-2 minute convo). I do agree i am going into too many general conversations with her, I will take the short/sharp approach in future. But I'll also ignore her for a week and try for one last date thanks for your advic…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:28 PM
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