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Men have got to learn how to define themselves by something other than their job or “their woman.” I’m 55 and just now able to comprehend that you set yourself in danger by defining yourself as anything other than “a person with the right to be an emotional being.”
/r/MensRights10/06/24 12:00 AM
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What do you do when the dish washer quits working?
/r/MensRights05/06/24 02:15 AM
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Overall, this is a step forward. Do guys in the UK go to jail for this kind of thing first time out of the gate if they don’t use physical force?
/r/MensRights25/05/24 10:51 AM
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Back pedoing?
/r/MensRights08/05/24 01:11 AM
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The issue is that, whatever you want to call the system, it was designed to keep men doing one thing and women doing another by norms that no longer work. It wasn’t to any one sex’s advantage or disadvantage. It was to ensure an orderly society. Men died in factories and battlefields. Women died in childbirth and under abuse.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:22 AM
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The difference, though, is that no doctor or hospital is going to do a FGM procedure. Someone tries that shit, the law can step in. The task in front of people opposed to circumcision is to get medical boards to forbid it, not the law.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 11:33 PM
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So, this opens a can of a bunch of worms. My son was born deaf and has Cochlear Implants (CI). Lots of radical Deaf people argue that implantation of CI is a violation of the kids rights to be Deaf and in their community, to which I say “fuck off it’s my kid. I want him to hear.” It is the same with gender affirming care for children. I may not like it, but a parent has the right and the responsibility to make decisions that they think is in the kid’s interests. The real response to this is to d…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah. I’d love to do one. It would optimally be open source. I’ve also thought that we needed a civilian corp who would show up to protests, police calls, domestic disputes, public events, etc. dressed in purple to display neutrality and would have passive recoding and streaming to the internet of all events. They would be like press or journalists, but have a strict non-intervention code and just be there as an observer.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:02 PM
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I’ve thought about making a civilian 360 degree wearable camera in glasses form or some kind of wearable shirt overlay. The service would auto save your feed to the cloud and you could tag and save certain portions or have it emailed out.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 03:44 PM
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Hell yes. Gay men are the vanguard for all us men in the area of having rich emotional lives and intimacy (sexual or non sexual) with other men.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:40 AM
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I want to interject here in defense of “feminists.” I am a long-time men’s rights advocate. So much so, I was run out of a graduate program over my support of the findings in the “Myth of Male Power” book. Saying “Feminist” is like saying “Christian” in that it encompasses a whole lot of stuff and movements, some good and some bad. I will advocate that I am a feminist as well as a masculinist and put it all under my “humanist” label. Don’t become the cunts you hate. Or as Nietzsche said “be care…
/r/MensRights04/07/23 04:24 PM
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“All the lonely people where do they all come from…” This stuff has been happening since the beginning of time. Socializing with people in groups is difficult but necessary as humans if we want companionship outside of families. It has to be learned as well as innate. It used to be that you were forced to socialize sometimes on public transportation or at church or at school, but all of this is changing. I almost wish they had a program for painfully shy or introverted people to practice with ea…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:11 PM
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So, technically (and I hate this but it is true) rape was a property crime involving illegal entry and the taking of something of value. It could be a pig or it could be your daughter’s virginity and honor. As such, the law often is archaically writing to say that a man cannot be raped. Sodomized, yes. Assaulted, yes. But not rapped. Even statutory rape in some places implies a female victim. She straight up sexually assaulted him and robbed him of his childhood.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 10:13 AM
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Seriously, the best thing to do if even accused is to drop out immediately and remove yourself from campus and begin a civil suit agains the school and your accuser. By doing so, they cannot kick you out and put an entry on your record, and you can get back into a university elsewhere. I’m not a fan of Trump, but the Obama administration’s insane Title 9 changes basically hung a young man out to dry.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 09:08 PM
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As screwed up as the logic is, here is the basic argument. Men will have to fight in the wars over resources, and they will be dead. The women will have to carry on with fewer men.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 05:58 PM
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This whole thing sound a lot like the bomber data issue from WWII repackaged. Yes. Like others say your data is off as many religious people don’t cohabitate beforehand, but among Hindus, Catholic, etc. divorce (in addition to cohabitation) are unheard of or highly frowned upon .
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 03:32 AM
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As long as they call it herstrionics as well, I have no problems.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 02:11 AM
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Society sees nothing wrong with telling jokes about men being bald and having “small dicks.” Yet when a similar standard is applied to women it is somehow “wrong.” How would each of these scenarios play out? 1) “Christina” Rock (female) makes the same joke and Will Smith slaps her. 2) Chris Rock makes fun of “Jason Pinket Smith (M) and Will Smith (M) slaps him. 3) Chris Rock makes fun of Jada Pinket Smith and “Willamina Smith” (F) slaps him. 4) All of them are female. 5) Jada Pinket Smith slaps …
/r/MensRights29/03/22 01:46 PM
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Exactly. If someone mentioned the horrible tragedy of Black people being victims of homicide at a higher rate than whites and someone said “well it’s blacks killing blacks,” we would look at them rightly as being some kind of racist idiot. Substitute “men” for “black” in that statement and you see how fucking stupid that is.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 02:58 AM
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Even in the US where we are overly draconian in our punishment towards minors, a 13-year-old cannot be sentenced to death or to life imprisonment. It is beyond immoral to incarcerate or punish a child as if they were an adult. I have plenty of sympathy for the man, and the courts and police need to make sure he is exonerated in the press. And hell yes, we need to make sure everyone accused by a child, woman, or man gets due process and assumption of innocence. But Jesus Christ, a little mercy an…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/21 03:24 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with you. The kid is troubled. But “kid” is the operative word. This is a child needing help, not scorn. I’m glad the accused man was proven innocent, but vengeance wishing or glee on a child is sick.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/21 10:35 AM
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Yeah. I hear people declaring that this 13 year old is a horrible person and the like. A 13 year old is not a moral agent in this world. That child needs therapy, not scorn.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/21 10:13 AM
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Yeah. There is that. But I don’t like killing people’s dreams directly. Bleeding them out slowly like the rest of us have had done is the best way.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/21 12:08 AM
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Yeah. I agree it is staged. It feels fake.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/21 10:19 PM
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This seems staged. Either the posing or something else about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/21 10:18 PM
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It’s hard to love others when you hate yourself. These women hate women as much as they do men.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 10:08 AM
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Fake ids are now a Federal crime, iirc.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/21 01:43 PM
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The argument they always seem to throw back is that women judge women on this kind of thing because of men. That always struck me as the stupidest thing. Just stop giving a damn about what I think or don’t think. I don’t want that kind of power and never asked for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/21 03:00 AM
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r/conservative is exactly the same. I’m all over the place politically, and I usually know I am in the right place when extremes are pissed off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/20 03:36 AM
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It feels a bit staged, yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 07:25 PM
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The girl, even though she isn’t his biological child, has looked to him to be a dad. I don’t know what the right answer here is, but I have two sons, who I love, and nothing, not even a paternity test, would change the fact that they are my sons.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 03:15 PM
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So there was enough makeup to cover that crazy.
/r/MensRights09/11/20 12:48 PM
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She walks into a room, everyone murmurs “AMBER ALERT.”
/r/MensRights09/11/20 12:47 PM
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So if Donald Trump asked a woman if he could grab her pussy that makes everything cool? Nope.
/r/MensRights30/09/20 11:28 AM
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Except the insane fucking histrionics and shrill drunk women...
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/20 02:59 AM
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There aught to be a superhero named this.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/20 01:24 PM
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About the same as being the sex of Elizabeth Bathory and Ivana Trump.
/r/MensRights14/04/20 02:13 PM
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There is no spoon.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 07:16 AM
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It really isn’t about him. It is about her and the unchallenged hypocrisy that says using a woman’s physical beauty (or lack thereof) as an attack is wrong, but doing it for a man, any man is ok.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/20 12:00 PM
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And I think it is fair to say that if she was borderline personality disorder or a narcissist that this may have been an intended outcome. I quite agree that whoever is left needs to have some serious help. I am not a councilor though. My wife however is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/20 05:02 PM
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What amazes me is the tone. If a man were to beat a woman and get caught and killed himself on the eve of being called to answer for his crimes, I feel the tone would be less sympathetic and perhaps more gleeful. This is the darker side of when men have sex with a child, it is reported (rightfully) as rape. When a good looking woman sleeps with a young boy, she “slept” with him or had a “relationship.” I certainly do not want to belittle her depression or take glee in anyone milking themselves, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/20 01:02 PM
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If South America is any indication, they will also be very Evangelical and even more crazy than their North American counterparts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/20 09:05 PM
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As a Catholic and a former Boy Scout and leader, I feel your anguish. But, as I suspect that GOP will eventually find out, your group is only as honorable and its weakest link. We have to get better about BEING better as groups. The ideals of Scouting are wonderful. The practice was abysmal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/20 09:04 PM
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I think the Dutch are actually taller.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/20 10:12 AM
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The CDC has released documentation on the scope of issue of male victims of domestic abuse and violence. Something like 40% of domestic abuse victims are men, and they know that men underreport (due to social stigma) domestic violence. It ranges from rape (in the case of same sex partnerships as men technically/legally cannot be hetrosexually raped) to beating by a woman. Depp likely felt that he couldn't report his abuse and probably didn't even consider he might be a victim until much after th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/20 02:12 AM
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Called a “failure to act” law but it doesn’t force someone to put themselves in danger in order to act. Basically you have to call the cops as soon as you can. Edit: it can and should apply to anyone.
/r/MensRights04/02/20 04:26 PM
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still usually something like a cry for help Or an illegitimate passive-agressive attempt at control of another human being. I've taught my sons that if a woman (or hell if anyone else) says "If you don't do X , I'll kill myself." To tell them to go ahead and do it and maybe say, "Can I get the pills for you?" Fuck them. I know it sounds brutal, but I believe that there is a toxic femininity that originates with and is used by women. RULE #1 DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/20 09:11 PM
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As a follow up question, did you find that you were a real "butch" guy when you were in your "male" mode? I've met two transwomen, and both of them were army and bad-asses in the traditional "male" sense (one was an MP). Is there a pattern of over compensating among transwomen prior to transition?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/20 11:06 PM
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I've always felt and have stated here that the Marxist roots of modern feminism is largely to blame here. I don't think Marxism itself (per se) is the issue, it is as others have said the way that it was co-opted by feminists. In both Marxist and feminist philosophy, the boundary between, say, an owner of the means of production and a worker was often seen as a hard boundary, and much of the Marxist economic and philosophical analysis I've read has always felt ambiguous at best (and antagonistic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/20 11:00 PM
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I have yet to see the evidence that he is obsessed with her feet, but if he is, and it can be demonstrated, it goes a long way to discounting his mental acumen and what he chooses to focus on in public. In rhetorical terms his ethos would be damaged. When you go public like this guy does, you lose a certain amount of “hey-guys-this -is-off-the-table” ability.
/r/MensRights22/01/20 09:43 AM
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God, I hope not. I appreciate Ben Shapiro trying to make the appearance of a rational discourse. However, I get no sense of doubt from him about his understanding or logic. If you can’t doubt yourself, you aren’t thinking. I’ve also seen him really create some sly false equivalencies that are never deconstructed. People would just have to ask him to define how a is anything like b and his arguments might fall apart.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/20 10:37 PM
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No problem. The more perspectives the better, and I like the term bastardization for this as it has some interesting connotations with “birth” and “illegitimacy” and as a sometimes metaphorical bastard I can claim it triggers me(/s).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/20 01:07 PM
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Admittedly, my reading of Marx was from the the perspective of literary criticism and gender studies, not as much from an economic theory and class divisions. You are probably right in the regard that what I've read of his late-capitalism analysis has been very close to what we have now. Additionally, I know that their reading of Freudian analysis was also wildly co-opted in ways that would have made Sigmund vomit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/20 05:37 AM
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I know. The ending scene (spoilers) where he looks at the photos and they say “Please come home to us” slayed me. In part, because you know even if he does make it, he will never truly be able to return.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 11:02 PM
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Yeah. I’ll agree that mortality from domestic violence is overwhelmingly female and that needs to be addressed. I am all for removing guns from anyone arrested for DV until they are acquitted. I also think we need to approach male anger as something other than something inherently genetic to maleness. This is learned and reinforced behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 10:05 PM
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Well, like I mentioned there, women are now starting to experience a rise in heart disease, suicide, homelessness, incarceration, etc. These are all hazards men face just being men. Maybe now that women are experiencing these as well we have the opportunity to really investigate how society is structured to abuse people in general. Now that women are suffering we will probably finally see some movement in that area.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 10:00 PM
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Oh. True. Most great shifts in human culture take places as a result of technology changing. The shift from hunter gatherer to agriculture was a anthropological earthquake in terms of how it shaped human culture. So yes. I like the idea that feminism, shifting gender role and all of this is predicated upon technical changes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 09:56 PM
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So, my wife and I were binge watching Unbelievable on Netflix. It is a great show and you should definitely watch it, but it skated very close to being misandrist by portraying most white males as incompetent or uncaring and most males of color as being helpful but a little dim. I say almost, because I have not read a non-fiction history of the case and don’t know if that was the case, and it could be. I am willing to believe that a guy who has never been raped couldn’t understand how traumatize…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 09:42 PM
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Absolutely. I’ll take this a bit further and say that I think what lead them from an essentially good idea of egalitarianism towards a supremest or vindictive rhetoric is the words they choice. Warren Farrell talks a bit about this in “The Myth of Male Power.” But the words we use often influence our concepts of the discussion. “Patriarchy” (the word) clearly puts the problem on the “father” and makes the enemy male. I don’t want to wander too far into the Sapir–Whorf theory (as it too has issue…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 09:18 PM
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Yes. I think it is insane. I think what offends their sensibilities is akin to what supposedly happened when biologists encountered the platypus. It crossed so many defining, preconceived boundaries that it threatened to bring down their entire taxonomy. I think transwomen and transmen are essential to us understanding our gender roles and our concept of sex. I’m not saying I get their desire or always feel comfortable with it, but I see that most of them are honest and authentic in their need t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 09:01 PM
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Thanks for asking! Yeah, I think it does in a way robs women of their moral agency. So, take for example a recent CDC backed statistic (I’ll post a link under here after I make my point). They estimate (iirc) that 40-45 percent of domestic violence victims are men. It is also acknowledged that this percent is probably higher as men tend to not even conceive of themselves as victims. I would argue it is reasonable to assume many women don’t see themselves as abusers either due to the same cultura…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:54 PM
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And while I know it is a flaw in Human thought in general, it seems to me to be a hallmark of Marxist thought. Some ideas are so abhorrent to their political view of reality, that they have to be forbidden, even in discussion. I am far from some kind of intransigent nay sayer. Hell, I’ve changed a large number of my opinions based upon Reddit discussions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:42 PM
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Here was my answer to a commenter who saw my critique of Marxist based feminism as another sign of my lack of wokeness. He said that Marxism wasn’t about dividing and assigning blame for a system, and that I clearly wasn’t educated enough to grasp it.— “ I’d beg to differ. Granted it started out as an analysis technique of economic systems, but definitely during its blossoming under the Russian Revolution and under the Cultural Revolution in China it became a tool of denouncement and division. M…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:35 PM
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Additionally on the other thread I was accused of being alt-right and spreading propaganda. Here was my response: In full disclosure, I am not anywhere near alt-right or even conservative (per se). I am big on opposing Trump, who, along with his Fascists supporters are a cancer on American democracy. I’m more of an anarcho-libertarian who favors a Nordic style social safety net. I want everyone to be free to decide who they are. I’m just more concerned right now for my sons and myself. My readin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:32 PM
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Yeah. I am in no way anti-women. I am married to a wonderful and strong-willed woman who frankly is more than a match for any man when it comes to getting things accomplished. She has a Ph.D., is beautiful in my eyes both inside and out, yet she is scarred because her weight is high and she doesn’t match modern ideas of beauty. I am just as pissed off that we live in a world where this happens as I do where my boys have to sign up for the draft when women don’t (currently it is finally being cha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:23 PM
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Back in high school I talked with the English grandpa of a friend of mine. He said that of his high school class of something like 100 only 2 survived, one being him. I don’t remember the exact number but he was still (in the mid 1980s) very traumatized by it. Mentioned above is the White Feather Society who were female suffragettes who shamed young men to volunteer at the start of the war by handing them white feathers or handkerchiefs if they weren’t enlisted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/20 08:14 PM
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And if I understand correctly, micro-biomes in the gut have an effect. It could mean that there is an environmental component that isn’t under control.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/19 12:18 AM
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Any subreddit that does this kind of preemptive banning ought to be band themselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/19 01:23 AM
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She looks like she prefers fearful children for food..
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 11:34 PM
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Just have someone invite them to your house and shoot them in Florida. It's a stand your ground state.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/19 01:58 AM
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A bridge? Damn dude, I live under a footpath that bums urinate off of.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/19 08:16 AM
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Bingo. Somehow it is ok to expect a man to give his life up in a job, but women are allowed to choose what kind of life. Luckily, my wife and i balance this out fairly well.
/r/MensRights25/08/19 01:30 PM
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Yeah, but tell me that a judge wouldn't look at an 18-year-old's juvenile record when something like this happened to a woman when a man cut her in a similar manner. Those judges know and talk amongst themselves about bad actors all the damn time.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 02:40 AM
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Mayhem in English common law.
/r/MensRights20/08/19 02:37 AM
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There is a good reason for this. In places without such a press-freedom it is easier to “disappear” people without a record in the press. It is a mixed bag either way. The real solution is for the police to investigate quickly and thoroughly before making an arrest.
/r/MensRights28/07/19 11:00 PM
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Do it. I'd love to see the conversation we would have on this. Anyone wearing said shirt would, of course, be an asshole.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 10:59 PM
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Look, I have been involved with the Men’s Rights movement since 1993. When I reviewed “The Myth of Male Power” for a Genders Study class in grad school because I got sick of that whiny-ass bullshit being spewed by the second-wave feminists. I was working on a PhD in literature and got a B- (the first non-A I had or have ever made). I saw what was coming and noped out of academia with my masters and went straight into IT and software development because I was sick of the attitude that rewards whi…
/r/MensRights03/07/19 01:51 PM
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I’ll agree with you on most of that. I am just not a fan of being a little bitch to make a point.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 01:37 PM
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In the US (I know it is different than other countries) it isn’t against the law to say (for example) “Shoot the Swedes!” You practically have to be in the middle of a full-on riot with everyone armed and a small group of Swedes in immediate danger before this kind of law comes into effect. It may be immoral or unethical, but it isn’t illegal. I want this shit out in the open so I know where the crazies are.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 01:36 PM
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Give me a damn break. Anyone stupid enough to follow this as a motivator to violence is going to trip over their feet and break their own neck. Stop being the enemy you hate.
/r/MensRights02/07/19 11:03 AM
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He’s not bi—he’s cisgot.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 10:33 AM
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Absolutely. I have had a hard time trying to put my finger on what they were about and this describes it perfectly. Men (and women) have to start defining their self worth as an intrinsic part of who they are.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 03:22 PM
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Iirc prostate cancer is very slow growing and can take up to 15+ years to kill you. Lots of men get it in their mid 70s and it just isn’t worth the pain and other complications to treat it when the average life expectancies are only a few years beyond that. Breast cancer (which men can also get) can kill you in months. Of the two, if breast cancer is more aggressive and (most importantly) scientifically interesting due to its relation to cancer in general, I am all for it getting more funding an…
/r/MensRights13/04/19 01:47 PM
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That doesn't surprise me. There are tribes in Africa, IIRC, that only make a small slit in the penis as a sympathetic magic to ward off castration anxiety. They bleed so that the "toothed vagina" (a common mythological image) has no terror. But my understanding is that the current practice is approximately what was done as early as 5,000 BCE (which is disputable).
/r/MensRights21/03/19 01:48 AM
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I studied Biblical History and anthropology. They (and many, many other cultures around the world) have absolutely been practicing it for thousands of years. Leviticus and Deuteronomy explicitly mention it and are dated at least 500 years BCE. The practices and the oral laws go back even further.
/r/MensRights21/03/19 01:03 AM
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Yeah. I get what you are saying, but if you ask, 99% of men who were circumcised as infants (as I was) have no memory of it. If you were to ask, most grown conservative Jewish men would probably say they were glad (specifically for religious reasons) they they were circumcised. There are lots and lots of unethical or immoral things people all around the world do every day to get through life without thinking twice about them. The question is, if the majority of people who had something done to t…
/r/MensRights21/03/19 12:37 AM
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While I am opposed to circumcision now that I know more about it, it isn’t just tradition in Jewish and Moslem families. The Jews (and I think the people in Islam as well) are literally commanded by God to do it to boys. Female circumcision has never been the law in Judaism or Islam as far as I know. It is just a tradition in some cultures, not an integral part of their faith. In the US, it is mostly still done as a matter of course when boys are born. It is absolutely wrong to remove healthy ti…
/r/MensRights20/03/19 10:22 PM
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Yes. I was in grad school and had to put up with reading “all sex is rape” and other bullshit theories that were left to go unchallenged. But, in the end, I’d argue that expecting gender equality and expecting equanimity in calling out bullshit when you see it is the next step for all of us—a better humanism where we look at people as people and not an identity.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/19 10:06 PM
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Let's take another stab at it.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/19 11:00 AM
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Edmonton Oiler.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/19 06:46 PM
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Their wounded. I’ve heard this is literally the worst thing you can get in the middle of both from family members who are lesbian and from friends in law enforcement (some of whom are also lesbian).
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/19 06:44 PM
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I generally hate Trump and the whole MAGA bullshit, but I hate two things more. First, people who interfere with others’ right to free speech, and second, fuckers from other countries who have the expectation that being in America doesn’t require fulfillment of the basic idea that as you want your human rights respected, you have to respect the rights of others.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/19 09:55 AM
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Of course this was dismissed as mansplaining...
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/19 01:12 PM
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Actually it was this guy filming who did that.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/18 10:15 AM
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And name “Anna Lushchinskaya.” This isn’t an example of white privilege gone amok. This is crazy drunk Russian gone amok.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/12/18 10:12 AM
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The Chinese socia credit idea horrifies me, but when I see this kind of shit, I see their point. Part of me thinks that none of those women should be allowed on the train until they they prove they will act properly.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/18 12:20 PM
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I’d like to see him stab his spotted dick with the bayonet.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/18 01:25 PM
2

Weinstein’s probably guilty as hell. We have to wait for the trial before we can know for sure, but the shareholders have every right to remove him on a whiff of impropriety. He has been accused and talked about at least for the past 10 years. Too much smoke for there not to be a fire.
/r/MensRights31/08/18 08:04 AM
3

Rain deserves praise for what they did.
/r/MensRights31/08/18 08:01 AM
0

Let’s not give Weinstein any kind of out here. I have no doubt he is exactly who they say he was. He exudes the kind of air of the kind of guy who would get off on putting women and men on the end of a hook just to watch them squirm.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/18 08:20 AM
15

She needs to ge the same treatment Polanski got.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/18 03:18 AM
1

It is the same in many US states. Rape is related to the property idea of trespass. As such, it means basic illegal entry with the intent of stealing something.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 01:51 AM
10

Sumo wrestling, however.....
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/18 12:50 PM
5

It will result in a strongly-worded letter!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/18 09:32 AM
2

I am an older white guy and I find it hard to give one fuck about what she said. The one thing we have left is the desire not to be the whiny ass bitch of the universe.
/r/MensRights03/08/18 09:51 AM
5

If you walk around and find most women to be horrible human beings, maybe the problem is you.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/18 10:41 AM
1

She went from fairy princess to sumo damn quick.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/18 09:35 AM
2

How long before we hear something about having to respect nudist rights in public?
/r/MensRights17/06/18 05:33 PM
4

I think you might be conflating extreme poverty with race. Poor, desperate, people living in third-world countries will do anything to claw out a survival. If you read accounts of East-end London in 1880s, you’ll see just how crazy poverty will make people. Prostitution, robbery, murder and just about every other crime were incredibly common back then due to the horrible conditions. Not all poor people are criminals, but the vast majority of violent offenders are products of poverty.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/04/18 09:25 AM
0

Absolutely. There has to be some psychological component that attempts to help her understand the harm she could be doing to a man, regardless of her previous incident.
/r/MensRights02/04/18 12:10 AM
7

I am and will always be in agreement that these have to be applied equally across all sexes. Sexual assault happens in every combination imaginable and needs to be treated the same.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 09:34 PM
8

That is a good question. I would like to see first-time acquaintance incidents among young people be handled less a draconian manner than say a stranger violent rape by a repeat offender. Those registration lists are more for the violent, multi-incident offenders, not the 18 year old with a 15 year old girl-friend who turns sixteen in three weeks. I just think, in general, in the US, we look at prison and punishment more than we do intervention and education. We have way, way too many people in …
/r/MensRights01/04/18 09:32 PM
9

Agreed. I just want to live in a world where we leave room for people to grow and change for the better.
/r/MensRights01/04/18 05:31 PM
57

While we have to (and should always) insist on binary proven/not proven verdicts and fair, impartial due process, I do see that people’s psychology can lead them to do things that normally they would not do. I’m not advocating not punishing people who do this kind of thing, I’m just saying she needs help to understand what happened to her, and why what she did can be horrible to those innocent who are falsely accused. I am a long time advocate of men’s rights, but we need to advocate against the…
/r/MensRights01/04/18 04:34 PM
2

We do a disservice to women as well as men by putting them on a pedestal.
/r/MensRights26/02/18 12:24 PM
9

Well, yes, and no, wrath, pride, etc. are those deep cardinal sins that tend to stay with us and act as huge blind spots in our lives. Part of the reason for those lists of 7 deadly sins, etc. (At least in the Middle Ages) was to be a touchstone for self-examination. The worst of all sins (counted as a mortal sin) is blasphemy or using what is holy in an unholy manner, especially to harm others. She sounds unlikely to have a realization that her wrath and pride has lead her to use baptism to har…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/18 09:25 PM
21

There is a section in the Nicene Creed that goes “one baptism for the remission of sins.” It is a central point of our faith that you can only be “reborn” once in baptism. If you are Catholic, you are only permitted one christening in your life. At the end of the day, this was about playing control games and using the holiest of Christian sacraments to hurt the child’s father. It quite literally is a blasphemous perversion of the sacred and if that mom really is a follower of Christ, she has a l…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/18 04:48 PM
40

Take the religious aspect out and focus on how important any ritual like this is for BOTH families. Grandmothers bake crap. Grandfathers and uncles and aunts get to be godparents. She just spitefully cut them out. They only have one baptism, and while you personally might think it stupid, they wanted to be involved.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/18 10:31 PM
4

And fuck the alt-right. Fuck alt anything. Just be a person and let other people be.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/18 01:52 AM
1

Depends on the amount of beer....
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/18 01:12 PM
7

Sexually assaulted. Sodomized. Iirc many states make rape a woman-only crime and use these others as catch all terms to include men.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/17 07:49 AM
2

Glad to hear it. I count myself as a feminist who is willing to call bullshit when things get unfair in either direction. I’d love it if we could eventually have a “humanist” movement that really cared about full equality (or at least equanimity) between the sexes.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 07:58 AM
2

Our legal system in the US and Britain requires public trials and everything--evidence, accusers, alleged perpetrators, charges, witnesses--every last damn thing-- be public. The only exception might be the names of children involved because they are minors (and even that probably needs to be public). If you don't feel aggrieved and justified enough to put your name out there in public, you have no goddamn business taking your complaint to court. Don't even get me started on rape-shield laws.
/r/MensRights23/09/17 07:57 AM
8

I have no idea what an article about the trial of a mentally ill child has to do with men's rights. Maybe, as a stretch, we could speculate what would have happened if this were twelve year old boys.
/r/MensRights17/09/17 02:43 PM
6

If we allow "mansplaining" as a cut off word, I would argue we need to allow vaginawhining as its opposite.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 10:50 PM
1

I have a mild set of tics from anxiety and ADHD meds. Sometimes, it actually feels pretty good to be surrounded by a heavy blanket and tucked in, especially when it is bad. Is this the case with full blown Tourette's like yours?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/17 12:09 PM
2

While I agree with the sentiment, at the end of the day a civilized society has to assure that children are taken care of. Without parental support, the state has to take on the expense of raising children. One solution would be to take DNA from every child at birth to immediately determine paternity and require that the state track down men who serially father and abandon kids using said DNA. I am willing to bet that the 20-80 rule applies here. There are probably 20% of the male population tha…
/r/MensRights22/07/17 07:02 PM
2

I got banned from a subreddit for something like this as well. If they used the same logic, they'd ban black people from shopping at a store because "the majority of our shoplifters come from your group." Both are unconscionable.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/17 07:54 AM
1

No, he was removed from the force when he brutalized an immigrant FryGuy during a routine stop and frisk. He now runs a detective agency and has an alcohol dependence issue.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/17 11:09 AM
4

It isn't total bullshit, and yes, men should get it too. I'm in IT, and I knew a guy who early on put his career on hold to support his wife (who earned lots more than he did) by staying home and taking care of the kids. In IT, especially back in the 90s, if you do t keep keep up with certifications and get experience in new technologies, your hiring potential and salary go down. Additionally, you face age-related discrimination. 20 years rolls by, and he is unemployable, while she, free of chil…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/17 12:22 PM
6

Dude, then they wouldn't be lesbians. I rarely, if ever have problems with lesbians. FFS, they generally (in my experience) are the first to call other women out on their bullshit. The ones that trend towards "male" mindset make great friends as they think like we do, but understand heterosexual women.
/r/MensRights11/05/17 05:48 AM
2

It really goes to the idea of "full-consent" and the idea that a person involved in having sex (of any kind) or being sexual with another person is "reasonably" able to consent with full self-knowledge about what is going on. A woman in a coma couldn't consent at all, and if a man has sex with her, it would be rape (and vice versa). If a woman were so mentally retarded that she didn't know what sex or consent was, that would also be abuse. The real question I think you are dealing with is how mu…
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:52 PM
13

The sex, frankly, isn't the problem. Two 14 year olds getting it on would be ok. The issue is the abuse of a minor by a person way older than they are. A 38 year old woman and a 14 year old boy cannot have a consenting relationship of equals.
/r/MensRights08/05/17 05:12 AM
11

This and the 1 in 4 women will be assaulted on college campuses are perhaps the most outrageous use of statistics I know of.
/r/MensRights30/03/17 12:10 AM
143

Vaginawhining
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/17 05:31 AM
2

I like the line "Sit down and shut up. I am tired of treating you like a five-year-old." Hell, I've wanted to say this to plenty of people.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/17 02:41 AM
2

I get where you are coming from. Physical violence in reaction to an emotional or minor physical altercation seems (but may not be) excessive. However, for quite some time, feminism has equated all male behavior (from conversation to sex) with women as a form of violence to perpetuate the "patriarchy" (whatever the hell that is). For example, they have argued that if a woman feels that a conversation or interaction is abuse then it is, and they have an unquestionable right to treat it as a form …
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/17 07:47 AM
1

No, but some billionaires who are not quite billionaires grab women by it though...
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/17 09:26 PM
1

Taking any human life in anger (I.e. not for direct, immediate self-defense) is wrong and advocating it does nobody and no argument any good. I do understand that the anger is natural and the anger itself may be self-justified, but taking action on that anger has to be stopped. We need to establish a phone number and a service for men to call to "get me the hell out of here and protect my mental health." I'd love to see us establish some kind of men rescuing men organization that provides help, …
/r/MensRights30/12/16 11:36 AM
0

Googling this, I found it was a methadone clinic. She's just crazy and jonesing for a fix. Most people hanging out there probably have to wait for their dose.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/16 07:17 PM
1

Ok. Let me start by saying that claiming something is just that, a claim. We see a shit ton of claims every day that day stuff like "group X is more likely to do Y" without any evidence or citation of research. The proper response to this is always "show me the evidence." If they cannot, the proper response is "STFU until you can prove your conjecture" (feel free to throw in a "bitch" for good measure if you like). If they do produce evidence, we have to evaluate the quality of the evidence. Kee…
/r/MensRights17/12/16 01:48 PM
1

Don't be a hamar (ass in Arabic IIRC).
/r/MensRights17/12/16 01:19 PM
-1

Yeah, I get that. I didn't call him a dick (just ish) because (like I said) I suspect he deals with shit like this all the time and wants the reputation as a person who puts up with no shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/16 08:37 PM
1

If by suck you mean animated and intelligent, sign me up.
/r/MensRights10/12/16 10:48 AM
-14

Steal from her and see if it a "joke." However, the owner (while well within his rights) seems a bit dick-ish to me. Maybe he has to be, maybe this woman or others like her have just assumed that behavior like this is acceptable and he has to put his foot down in order to stop it. I just would be a bit more polite and accommodating to potential customers.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/16 11:09 AM
1

I have two master's degrees (and part of a third) and my wife has a Ph.D. In IT, your earning potential can actually dip if you have a Ph.D. (Depending on what you want to do). So I comfort myself in saying that, but yeah, I feel a bit 'inadequate' at times (especially when I see a formal invite to 'Dr. & Mr.' on the envelope). However, I am very proud of her, and was glad to support her while she finished up. She's got a hell of a lot more organization and grit than I do, and I know the money a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 01:34 PM
3

This should be required viewing at any campus for freshmen students. I couldn't have put this better--"Men are suffering. They have been emotionally stunted from youth. They need each other and they need intimacy with each other." God yes.
/r/MensRights02/09/16 01:29 AM
3

I imagine it is akin to getting speech therapy for MtF to talk less masculine. It is the small stuff that throws dealing with the transitional people (for those of us cisgendered) into the region of the "uncanny valley" (for lack of a better term) where you are not quite sure if the male or female gender is being dealt with. I hope we can move beyond it one day soon. I'd like to have gender roles be respected as a choice but not enforced as a cultural norm. The only "taboo" should be treating ea…
/r/MensRights02/08/16 04:16 PM
3

Thanks for the reply. I guess what I was looking for on #1 was I how you (as a former female) saw the lack of emotional freedom many men encounter. I'm heterosexual and somewhat traditional, and for guys like me, who liked women and were into reading, poetry, art, talking, etc. and wanted deeper friendships and emotional connection with friends but didn't identify as gay, I have always felt "less-than-a-man" for being emotionally deeper. Did/do you feel any of these constraints in becoming a mal…
/r/MensRights02/08/16 03:52 PM
3

Thanks for a sane response. Trust me, as a believer in equality humanism (my alternative name for what feminism and any ism should strive for) I don't think a guy is cosmically ordained by God to throw his life away for anyone. However, humans have to be humane and look out for each other. Your point on her claiming rape is also unfortunately true. My point is (as quote says) when we take on enemies, be careful not to become like them. I just see too many "men's rights" groups devolve into rampa…
/r/MensRights02/08/16 03:45 PM
1

I'm not saying it is cosmically our responsibility as men or anything. I'm saying a good human being is simply a good human being. We are social animals and need to watch out for one another.
/r/MensRights02/08/16 03:35 PM
1

Again, not my story, don't even know what state it was in let alone the city. If the story is real, I think the guy deserves a kudo for being a good person. Jd
/r/MensRights02/08/16 03:34 PM
2

It wasn't me, but yes, that could've been except the guy says they were cat-calling her.
/r/MensRights02/08/16 03:32 PM
-4

I'm a big supporter of men's rights. I'd like to see us tone down the anger factor (as Nitsche said 'Be careful when killing monsters that you don't become one yourself'). This guy was a good human being, and far too often we don't hold up what is best in men. We also need to take an honest, transparent look at the guy's friend (who abandoned him) and the assholes who were harassing and possibly trying to rape the girl. It isn't a guy's sole responsibility to be a protector--any decent human bei…
/r/MensRights02/08/16 12:47 PM
7

Wow! I have a ton of questions about gender perspectives that you might be able to answer, but first off welcome to our world. I'm proud to call you a brother. It takes courage to be yourself. 1) What is the biggest difference for you emotionally being a male vs being a female? 2) From your perspective is it easier for a female to male or a male to female to find acceptance with their new gender group? 3) I've found that male to female transpeople tend to become very feminine especially if they …
/r/MensRights02/08/16 11:11 AM
2

Absolutely. If a male's life is not valued much, what kind of value do you think will be placed on the underdog male's life? I read Native Son by Wright back in school, and I recommend it for any person who wants to see what kind of life a man has when he is the absolute least valued human class on the planet. It isn't a pretty view of our scoiety, but it is a well-written book.
/r/MensRights27/07/16 09:54 PM
21

I'm all about men's rights, but I have to agree with you here. We need to re-frame. Our screwed up socio-sexual ideas of manhood and femininity are to blame here, not women trying to be themselves and be empowered, free individuals. Some feminists are not helping this issue. They see any exploration by men where we begin to throw off our traditional roles and free ourselves of the unreasonable and damaging restraints on our emotion as a dangerous thing in part because they now have to shift thei…
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:55 AM
4

When does anyone complain about the son or daughter of a famous athlete having "privilege?" Do we say Ali's daughter has boxing privilege? Heck, my daughter (if I had one) couldn't complain about being repressed or disadvantaged in the boxing ring? She'd just have to work harder. Life is like that.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 12:13 AM
9

I upvoted you, even though I really respect what this author is saying. In recent years, the stress related illnesses men used to die from are now taking the lives of women in droves, and many feminists have suddenly "discovered" the idea that a woman working from home is now an acceptable role for a woman if she chooses it. I have a wonderful wife who has a Ph.D. and makes as much as I do at a local university. I'm very proud of her. However, for 1/2 a year I was the bread-earner. She wanted to…
/r/MensRights03/07/16 12:29 AM
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