EncasedMeats Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Flying solo...advice? Go out, make friends and HAVE FUN. Ramen to that. Start out by talking to people with whom you do not want to have sex. This will give you a) practice, b) a positive vibe, and c) many opportunities to slingshot into the attentions of lovely, eligible females.	/r/seduction	04/12/10 04:54 AM
1	Kick ass everywhere else, just can't do bars. Need advice. I don't know where "here" is but in Chicago we call such a bar a "pub." I find they are more likely to have a "house party" vibe (i.e. lots of people know each other and conversation is possible), especially when most of the crowd is in their late twenties/early thirties. Of course, YMMV.	/r/seduction	26/11/10 09:57 PM
15	When they tell you "I miss you..." "I'll scratch that itch soon, baby."	/r/seduction	26/11/10 05:00 PM
5	Kick ass everywhere else, just can't do bars. Need advice. One way to get an "in" at a particular bar is to become a regular. Have lunch there a couple times a week, come in with a book or work early in the evening on a weekday. Basically, get to know the staff. Knowing the bartender is, in my experience, the single best way to feel comfortable in a bar. The bartenders' positive, enthusiastic response to you is also a signal to the other patrons that you are cool and not a serial killer. The better the staff knows you, the more information they will sen…	/r/seduction	25/11/10 05:43 PM
2	Having trouble with this whole push-pull thing I like to think of a push as a reason nothing could ever happen between you two and make it as ridiculous as possible. I did this with a lesbian and it worked a treat, until she remembered she was a lesbian (true story).	/r/seduction	17/11/10 10:58 PM
7	I cant wipe the feeling that when i use an opener am not fooling anyone He needs to realize that he does care how it's going, if for no other reason than if it's going shitty, he's probably not getting any.	/r/seduction	17/11/10 10:43 PM
1	The Good Guy Contract I was as powerless to refuse her a favor as I was to run through a brick wall. The headline should have been "The Co-Dependent Contract."	/r/seduction	11/11/10 05:07 AM
1	Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application. Not a shrink, a therapist. You need to find some ways to express your feelings. One way to tell if you have a mediocre therapist is if you don't get homework. Find one who gives homework.	/r/seduction	09/11/10 06:17 AM
1	Crosspost from /r/depression: Finding a girlfriend is like a job application. I always keep on my happy face. No one knows how I feel, or ever will. Find a good therapist.	/r/seduction	08/11/10 03:53 PM
1	Bumping into a flake one year later and finding out what went wrong -what you thought was smooth game was actually creepy and weird. Anyone else had similar experiences? Certainly, the disturbed ones do. If you prefer a heaping dose of drama with your carnal pursuits, then that would be the way to go.	/r/seduction	13/10/10 03:18 PM
12	Bumping into a flake one year later and finding out what went wrong -what you thought was smooth game was actually creepy and weird. Anyone else had similar experiences? Really excellent points made here. The net of it all being that most girls don't want to bang an always on narcissist (and the ones who do are probably quite disturbed).	/r/seduction	12/10/10 04:58 PM
19	every one of these damn 'get a girl' help pages states 'build up you self confidence' but not one tells you how. How to increase confidence: Step 1 - Go to a bar (not a club). Step 2 - Talk to strangers you do not want to bang, gain confidence. Step 3 - Talk to strangers you do want to bang. Step 4 - Bang.	/r/seduction	28/09/10 01:34 PM
2	I might have picked the wrong university. I D I O C R A C Y	/r/seduction	19/09/10 01:28 AM
1	Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkward Yeah, I do not see that one translating well. On the other hand, pretending to assume a woman is gay might make her want to prove otherwise. Kidding!	/r/seduction	19/09/10 01:27 AM
1	Little to no approach anxiety, but I'm clueless after opening What a tweest!	/r/seduction	16/09/10 01:25 PM
9	Little to no approach anxiety, but I'm clueless after opening My friends over there and I have a bet Men have been crashing and burning with this one since at least the 1920s.	/r/seduction	16/09/10 02:27 AM
2	Dudes, get an iPad right now! Thank you! And yes, a regular paper notebook. How old of me not to think of the alternate definition. Weekends aside, I always bring a spiral notebook into the bar. I have met more women this way than every other thing I've ever done put together. P.S. It may help if you are writing something interesting (not bad poetry or fantasy football picks).	/r/seduction	16/09/10 02:21 AM
7	Little to no approach anxiety, but I'm clueless after opening Perhaps you are too focused on your own "performance"? If the women are talking, and you're listening, there should be no shortage of topics. What is it, exactly, that seems to happen with you?	/r/seduction	15/09/10 08:03 PM
5	Dudes, get an iPad right now! Cheaper alternative: bring a notebook and write in it.	/r/seduction	15/09/10 07:52 PM
1	Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkward Just like with straight people, I'm sure the less confident ones do.	/r/seduction	15/09/10 04:33 AM
2	Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkward You probably ain't wrong about that. Not that jagermeistr necessarily dresses like a dork or anything but gay dudes are probably looking for fashion signals other than, say, a Green Lantern t-shirt.	/r/seduction	15/09/10 02:49 AM
20	Approaching/Opening makes me feel dumb and awkward Just to get a feel for being on the other end of this exchange, go hang out in a gay bar. I am not kidding here! Maybe go with a friend so you don't feel besieged. Gay dudes will hit on you all night long and you will see that it is not that big a deal. Not only will you develop more empathy for the women you hit on but you'll have a better sense of what feels creepy and what doesn't. You'll also pick up some great openers!	/r/seduction	14/09/10 07:30 PM