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Only if you want to be alone. It seems most women would have chosen bear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 12:01 AM
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Comment: https://archive.ph/njkVE Entire post: https://archive.ph/wip/Pas91 Report the comment for hate speech. It's a textbook example.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 11:02 PM
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It exists, but nowhere near as much as feminists would have you believe.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 08:59 PM
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Sure, but there do exist people who never will. And if that's you, it's best to accept what you cannot change.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:37 PM
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No, you shouldn't stay single if that's not what you want out of life. It isn't healthy to pursue the unobtainable. A hallmark of maturity is accepting that there are things in life you're going to not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:58 PM
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I've known a few. Mostly just shy, got bullied and it destroyed any confidence they had as kids. One of them was pretty short and women visibly treated him far worse than anyone else in the room. I guess I could also classify as this. 24 and expect to die a virgin and all that. Most of my problem probably stems from having horrible socialization at a young age. I never got the necessary "components" needed to play the game, so to speak. I have issues that would make me a non-starter for dating, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:24 PM
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Men didn't create the system, the historical ruling classes did. Do you really think a feudal peasant who worked 12 hours a day to pay his lord's taxes had time to think about how much he was oppressing his wife?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 08:55 PM
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Yes absolutely. I think you’re being conservative tbh. I don’t know a single woman that hasn’t been catcalled, groped, intimidated by men. I don’t know a single woman that feels safe walking at night, in badly lit areas, alone in a sparsely populated area, in public transportation. Switch the genders? We are constantly told to suck it up when we’re threatened by men for existing while being a woman. We’ve been sucking it up for all of human history. One is six women is a victim of sexual assault…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/23 12:52 AM
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This fucking sub dude. The reason most men show on raw statistics to have never reproduced is because of infant mortality, war, low life expectancy, and similar issues. It's not because the majority of men are unfuckable. Please apply any fucking historical context to your interpretations of data. I'm fucking begging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:49 PM
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Please, do explain how men being desperate, thirsty, and having low standards is "female privilege" Really funny how men simultaneously have too low standards and too high. This subreddit really makes you all show who you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:40 PM
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1812 Again, the vast majority of men couldn't get an education back then either. The working class getting an education is a fairly recent phenomenon. Think about class before you think about gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:55 AM
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I'm not talking about that, but nice try shifting the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:51 AM
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I really miss r/men_kampf where we would replace words in posts like this. Would turn your generic ppd comment into something straight out of stormfront. and were the reason women couldn’t get an education… This is just a plain lie or is a result of historical illiteracy. Back when women didn't get an education, the vast majority of men couldn't either. Same goes for voting. Universal male suffrage was only in the place in the USA for a very short time before female suffrage started. Before that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:35 AM
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Those poor reactions are the result of being lied to your entire life and then having the rug pulled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:24 PM
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fatphobic There's no such thing as fatphobia. Put down the fork.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:17 AM
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The studies didn't address that. I don't think men should be promiscuous either, for the record. I think sex belongs in a loving relationship only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:30 AM
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They're not. The thing is that if one person has had few partners because they only fuck in relationships, and the other person has many because they are serially monogamous/have casual sex, they have different values. Also, there is evidence to say that women with large amounts of sex partners have diminished ability to pairbond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:46 AM
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The men I know who are more successful with women are complete assholes who treat them like fleshlights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:09 PM
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Of course it is. "I know you're lonely and hurting (don't care though), but after your youth is over you can get pity from a woman who has already been run through and only values you for your financial and social stability. Is that ok?" Like come on, that would piss anyone off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:13 PM
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"Women respond well to kind men" This one is just plain untrue though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:04 PM
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I don't believe in marriage as a concept. (I. E. Legally or even culturally binding yourself to another person like that) Feels like a way for the wedding industry to make money and a fake, hollow way of making a relationship "legit".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/23 12:11 PM
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Out of every lie men are told from a young age, "men should open up more" is probably the most morally reprehensible lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:19 PM
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Healthy, sane people r/Purplepilldebate Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:49 PM
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It's a feminist-lead discussion board about men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:09 PM
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They let too much low effort shit in. And there's too much from conservatives in general (they don't value men either, just in a different way)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:30 PM
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Horrible place. Just a place for feminists to have full control over the narrative of male issues. If you're a male and participate there, you either hate yourself or are the archetypical male feminist (a rapist) trying to undo the harm you've done. Either way it's not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:29 PM
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Was about to comment exactly this. I have no clue why people still fall for this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:05 AM
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Gender equality doesn't exist anywhere in the world right now. Without a society where this has been achieved in existence this is impossible to know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:37 PM
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How are devout Christians who don't believe in sex outside of marriage supposed to do this? These kinds of people find relationships in Church. If you're looking in the general pop for that you're going about this all wrong. I'm a Christian but have distaste for evangelicals, don't believe in marriage, and don't want kids. So church isn't right for me to find someone, but for most Christians it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:35 PM
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What you're describing is exceptionally rare from both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:12 AM
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Redpill is still very niche. There are still a lot of guys that play that game without ever have even hearing of the RP, but that's usually after a string of negative experiences. Guys that follow that philosophy are created, they're not that way by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:08 AM
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Anecdotes that you made up in your head are not a replacement for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:12 PM
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I mean, it's possible for someone to just not believe in marriage as a concept, though it's rare. I'm very relationship-focused but marriage is completely off the table regardless of how much I love a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:55 AM
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Being an influencer is not work, neither is being an only fans girl or a boob streamer. They're not performing labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:40 AM
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Men and women both unironically live in a society ran and upheld by both men and women. I don't see women running the power plants, fixing the roads, repairing vehicles, working in lumber, maintaining sewage, etc. If women disappeared, it would be a disaster. If men disappeared, it would be the literal apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:40 PM
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It's free in my country and yet they still don't go. Source please Er no, there are plenty of male therapists? The entire field is overwhelmingly focused on the female side of human existence. The presence of male therapists doesn't discount this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:16 PM
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Therapy is expensive and not useful for a lot of people. It's not a magical bullet. Even then psychology as a field is mostly woman-focused and often pointless for men. You're speaking from a position of extreme privilege in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:10 PM
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The system wants everyone to dedicate their entire lives to work and not anything fulfilling, which includes relationships among other nice things like hobbies, friends etc. Capitalism is not gender exclusive in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:04 PM
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Damn I didn't know Tai Lopez had a reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:54 PM
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Feminism is the golden calf of liberals and many leftists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 04:36 AM
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And they got it when they could...but it was just a lot harder under very rigid, patriarchal systems that arranged marriages or forced them to marry before sex, etc... As with most feminist drivel, this is ahistorical. Arranged marriages were mostly political or for the accrual of capital or the entrance into a royal or capital owning family. This means it was mostly an action of the upper classes. Sex before marriage has been common for most of history, but religion has had a feature of no sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:22 AM
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So you wouldn't go on dates unless dude is a meal ticket? Come on. What's the point at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:30 PM
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I think if you are treating women right, you have nothing to worry about. This is the same thing as saying people have nothing to fear from cops if they "just comply". Both are patently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:21 AM
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Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:16 AM
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The fact that this is seen as normal by anyone is a symptom of a very sick society. At this point the gender war nonsense doesn't matter, there's something fundamentally broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:15 AM
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Please read a book. None of this shit happened except for the very upper classes and in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:35 AM
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Economic freedom is not the correct term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:30 AM
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Reality has no social or political capital. Welcome to the system. It sucks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 02:23 AM
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There's no way in hell a man wrote this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:40 PM
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Comes home, pissed, doesn't want to be bothered Gets bothered until he just says fuck it and talks about it Wife gets mad after he talks about it Just can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:54 PM
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No, the idea is a myth and has nothing to do with finances. You either have to work to live, or you own things and live off the labor of others. There is no middle road.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:41 AM
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People need to realize that the entire idea of a middle class is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:01 PM
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I really wish I lived in the simple, happy world you seem to live in. Unfortunately, I live in earth, where problems aren't solved by hand waving them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:38 AM
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Not a factor. It's the emotional side that bothers me, not the physical. Edit: also, any doctor worth anything wouldn't sign off on that without good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:31 AM
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Women have basic and biological wants* NOT needs too. you are not the same as a cow or fish or squirrel whos lives function on instincts. Needs are not limited to things you would die without. Humans are a sexually dimorphic species. Women and men are not the same. That’s why there are priests and nuns and asexual people who can go without sex and redirect their lives not to pedestalize it. They aren’t dying nor are they suffering as long as they have other forms of fulfillment. They made the ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:40 AM
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Women aren't finding the partners that they want but on the other hand they seem to find ways to be happy while single. Single men should take notes. Those notes are worthless. When you can give men a way of overriding basic needs and biological drives, I'll break out my notebook and pen. I tried ignoring the desire for a relationship. All it did was make me more miserable down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:54 PM
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They want incels to rope, not mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:53 AM
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This is the kind of men that communities like rinceltear and the like spend their time hating so much. As a man, if you don't fit the mold, society is so endlessly fucking cruel to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/23 03:24 PM
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That's difficult when people see you as lesser if you're a virgin above 21, and if they don't see you as lesser they hound you with stupid questions of why nonstop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:57 PM
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The mystery here is why average men keep signing up and swiping and thinking it will lead to something. Because dating for men is a pure numbers game. The only way you're going to find something is either pure luck (i.e. meeting someone who is into you from friends) or by playing the numbers game as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:37 AM
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You can't turn off the desire to want a romantic companion in your life. Believe me, I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:16 AM
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tl;dr women put up with incompetence, laziness, mild abuse etc if the guy is attractive and confident. People aren't logical beings, the sooner everyone realizes this the better. That includes the women who deny they do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:49 AM
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However if you go back 25 years prior to the internet, these individuals who became pessimistic didn't continue to be pessimists simply because they found ways out of it. No, they just suffered in silence or killed themselves. Just because they're invisible to you doesn't mean they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:22 PM
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Pessimism is the result of very negative experiences that compound on each other. Things like this don't happen in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:13 PM
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The misogyny of r/mensrights is fabricated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:49 PM
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It's funny how we went from "Video games like doom caused columbine" to stupid comments like this in the span of less than 25 years. The more things change the more they stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:48 PM
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Men get criticism when they're unsuccessful with women, regardless of where they place the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:21 PM
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Also, biologically speaking, male sexlessness is normal and even a good thing, in regards to the gene pool. In the animal kingdom, most of the males of a species never pass on their genes or have a mate. This is not scientific and I'm sick of redditors parroting this shit like fact. The reason this appears to be the case is because (especially in humanity's early days) infant mortality was high. For animals, there's no proof of this occuring at all, and that's not even taking into account that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:02 PM
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Prostitution is immoral (even if it doesn't involve human trafficking, which it does most of the time) and is not a replacement for actual emotional connections with someone (yes, that includes sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:13 AM
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How on earth do you come to this conclusion? If you think that men wanting a meaningful connection with another person is equivalent to wanting to use them as a sex toy you have a super warped perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:05 AM
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Feminism as an ideology is a massive contradiction given form. This is one example of said contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:59 AM
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Porn addiction doesn't manifest in the way of "obsession". It's more an issue of 1. Using it for staving off sexual starvation (single) or 2. Using it instead of having sex with your partner (in a relationship) Source: mild porn addict myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:26 AM
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Therapy seems to serve little purpose other than draining your wallet and wasting your time. It didn't work for me in middle school, I doubt it would work now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:45 PM
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White Americans having a worse deal than before has nothing to do with slavery or other subjugation of black people, it has everything to do with class.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:07 PM
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If I see one more reference to therapy on Reddit I'm going to lose my fucking mind. People really love painting it as some mystical practice that fundamentally changes a person. It's just someone who went to college making educated guesses about your mind and making suggestions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:02 PM
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Absolutely not. I don't mind work in general, and it keeps me busy. I just want to be fairly compensated obviously. Even if I won the lottery I'd keep my current job. Pay isn't good but it's easy and has a great schedule. People can maintain domestic duties when they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:50 AM
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Correlation doesn't equal causation, but it can provide potentially important information.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:43 PM
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No, it was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:41 PM
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Patriarchy I asked for a scientific basis, not a conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:31 PM
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Do you have any historical or scientific basis for this, or is this just you spewing nonsense because you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:56 PM
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The problem isn't casual sex. Average and ugly men struggle to get relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:54 PM
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Most men want both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:52 PM
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How old are you? this skill can be learned. If you haven't learned this skill by your early 20s it's very unlikely you'll ever learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:42 PM
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If you really want to play the game of who steals resources from who, you're dead wrong and are tinfoil hatting to a ridiculous degree. Men don't take shit away from women. Women are the benefactors of taxes and neoliberal economics in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:27 PM
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Probably has more to do with porn. Porn can cause ED and lack of ability to orgasm. I mean if you check out r / dead bedrooms you can see a lot of the issues are at least partially caused by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:11 PM
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If casual sex didn't provide women sexual satisfaction, they wouldn't partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:50 PM
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Seems like a poor financial decision. If you're in a relationship, at some point you should be comfortable with cohabitation. If you're not, there's something not quite right with the relationship in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:25 PM
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I agree people here have a lot of contradictions, but I want to address a couple points. Conflict #1 - Men here tell women to "choose better", yet get offended when women are shown to be more picky on dating apps. Does "choosing better" only apply, when she's choosing YOU? Blues constantly talking about how women can detect a misogynist from a mile away, yet they can't seem to detect an abusive narcissist or some guy who's gonna pump and dump her with the same Spidey sense. This in and of itself…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:04 AM
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Criticism of feminism has absolutely nothing to do with wanting traditionalism to come back. I criticize feminism because it is not an ideology interested in equality, it's an ideology interested in the advancement of women at the expense of other groups, and the usage of the neoliberal apparatus to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:57 AM
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Those years being miserable can result in stunted social growth. I can only assume this can be worse for autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:16 PM
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Biology isn't necessarily in harmony with the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:58 PM
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This is like asking somebody starving why they care about food so much. Why don't they just go to the store?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:07 PM
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You likely wouldn't try to marry someone who has different sexual values w you. Marriage is immoral as long as it is a legal construct. You seem to think your insecurities This has nothing to do with insecurities. Cut the insults. I do lots of tinder and bumble dating. I've never once had a guy ask me about # of people I've slept with. Because you're likely coming across people with similar values. I have dated and am open to dating Dad bods Assuming you're being honest about this, you're not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:58 PM
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If you bust, how long until you can get it up again? What if you bust twice in a row? Ability to get an erection != Sexual satisfaction You don't need a woman for that. I'm not into guys. If anything the best way to lose a woman is to emotionally vulnerable with her. Irrelevant to this current discussion. Sure you aren't. The conclusion you came to is suspiciously smelly, leading me to believe you pulled it out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:52 PM
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Virtually all men can significantly reduce their sexual desire through masturbation. I can personally attest to this being false, as can plenty of other men. There are physiological limits on how often men can ejaculate. That doesn't mean anything. Sperm leaving the body doesn't magically take away the physical feeling of tension except for a few minutes, and does nothing for the mental/emotional side of intimacy. Don't put words in my mouth. I'm not saying that men will be satisfied by masturba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:26 PM
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Inbalance? What the hell are you even talking about? Adults dont care about that shit are you f-cking 5 years old? Jfc. If two people have different values about sex it's going to clash at some point. And cut the insults. Feminist spaces def care about women's actions lol the left is literally always eating itself Not really. Women to liberals and much of the left is like Israel to the Republicans. Something that is always in the right and cannot be criticized. Idk men get Dad bods Women being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:22 PM
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That's not how male physiology works. Masturbation and ejaculation almost always significantly reduces sexual desire. If you assume the following: All men are the same Sex and emotions are in no way intertwined Masturbating is just as good as actual sex Then sure. Masturbating just makes the problem worse for a lot of guys, with added shame and emotional issues to boot. What a deal! I clearly specified that porn is optional, in case that wasn't obvious. When something becomes less and less satis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:59 PM
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You always feel like you need to pee. This negatively effects your life. You can fake pee on your own, but you need to pee with another person to actually pee. The kind of people you need to pee with don't need to pee as often as you. Not only that, the vast majority of those people won't pee with you. Because you can't pee with someone else, you keep peeing alone. Eventually, that doesn't cut it anymore. It doesn't provide any relief. You turn to fake peeing assistance (porn). This just makes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:44 PM
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Sexual history is important if you want to start an LTR with someone. If one person is promiscuous and the other is not, there is an imbalance there. This is gender agnostic. Feminist spaces do not criticize women's actions. Body positivity should be limited to immutable characteristics. Don't care The whole idea that anyone is shaming women into anything is just silly. There is no body positivity for men. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:15 PM
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Prostitution is always morally wrong and often exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:56 PM
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Your social value isn't above your head like a video game. But if someone finds out that you're low n count or god forbid a virgin as a man above age 20, people lose any respect they had for you very quickly (especially women). This sub makes a big deal Don't start on that "sex isn't a big deal, you put too much value on it" nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:54 PM
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Because a lot of the value that society places on men is directly tied to their sexual success. Incel isn't a label these men chose, it was given to them. Just not verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:30 PM
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So you hate insecure people, because being insecure is causing the cause of their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:33 AM
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I'm 23 and haven't looked up to anyone in a while. I certainly don't look up to Andrew Tate and his ilk. I don't think there's really any good role models, and if someone looks up to a celebrity or politician you should be very wary of them, because members of the ruling class are not good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:45 AM
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Tl;Dr and take your meds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:55 PM
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If he still lives with his mother past the age of 23. Most men are out of college by then and there is really no excuse not to be working full time and finding somewhere to stay, even if that means having roommates, it's still more of an independent lifestyle than living with your mother. IDGAF about the excuse of "that's not possible in the economy/my state". Guess what? I live in this economy too, in the infamously pricey west coast, at 25, on minimum wage, working 40 hours a week. I have two …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:39 PM
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Most of these are either so broad they're meaningless, cost money most working people don't have, or have nothing to do with your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:59 AM
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The feedback I hear is tons of average looking men will say they want something long term, and then get disappointed and bounce when the women won’t have sex by the second date. I Because she would be doing so if he was more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:20 PM
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perhaps you should try dating guys? Believe me, if this was a choice I would have made that choice years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:38 PM
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Reasonable values. No pyramid schemes. No astrology or witchcraft. No obnoxious political convictions. (Fascism, anarchism, etc.) Being a racist or homophobe is a deal breaker. (Yes) No facial piercings. Especially septums. Tats are negotiable. (Yes) Wants a long term, preferably life long monogamous relationship. (Yes) Honorable mentions: Doesn't want kids or is indifferent to the question. (Yes) No short hair. Sorry, I just can't do it no matter how hard I try. (Male with a pretty basic haircu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:00 PM
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For the most part PPD has just confirmed what I believed before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:15 AM
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They don't. The fact that men (on average) have higher sex drives than women is a biological fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:01 PM
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They literally do not. Women can choose to relinquish their responsibility, men do not have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:54 PM
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Neither did men. Unless you were in the upper echelon of society you had no freedom over your life and your material conditions were at best poor. Women were relegated to certain societal roles, and men were too. Men were the ones sent to die in wars (often ones of imperial conquest), not women, if you want to argue about who was the victim of what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:53 PM
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If this factored into women's logic when choosing a partner, women would never have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:13 PM
2

Revisionist history might as well be a feature of feminism at this point. Men were beholden to the same class structures as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:07 PM
1

No. Stop weaponizing poor reading comprehension. Women and men should have equal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:49 AM
6

No, the draft should be abolished. This should be accomplished by armed force, if necessary. A sexist institution does not suddenly become okay if both men and women suffer. I don't want women to be given less rights, I want men to be given more. Not a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:32 AM
4

Got news for you buddy, your taxes are already going to be paying for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:30 AM
0

if you don't want to be a father, don't have sex without a condom or with somebody you don't trust enough to lie about birth control. this obviously goes for women too. Except this doesn't apply to women. Women have the option to opt out of parenthood at will, men do not. If neoliberals cared about gender equality (they do not) they would be going to bat for giving men the option to opt out of parental responsibility, like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:23 AM
3

Step 1. Get in the best physical shape you possibly can. Doesn't fix short height or ugly face Step 2. Refine your look and style. Play around and figure our what look( hair style, clothes, persona) works for best for you. See step 1. Step 3. Build multuple streams of income, don't just rely on your job. Live beneath your means and save and invest your money "Just get more money bro" The idea that you need to work 70 hours a week and invest nonstop to live a good life is why I'm probably slowly …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:04 PM
1

Prostitution is not going to solve the problems that cause this. By doing that you'd be attacking the symptoms and not the causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:37 PM
2

Bars are for hookups, not relationships, which is what the vast majority of inkwells want. Bars also don't work if you don't do well chatting up strangers and can't handle cruel rejections. Rejections can be infinitely worse than "no thanks", contrary to popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:35 AM
1

If we were beholden simply to reproduction then a) the clitoris (an organ with no reproductive use or biological function and solely for pleasure would not exist I mostly agree with your comment except for this part. Sex is pleasurable because it makes biological sense to encourage reproduction. The existence of the clitoris (as well as the frenulum, ridged band, etc. In the foreskin) is there to encourage reproduction by means of pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:16 AM
4

The idea that women have higher default expectations than men needs to die. It's one of the dumbest myths ever perpetuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:21 PM
5

Large amounts of people with no social connection or purpose in life is bad for society, and if you can't see that then you're in for a very, very rude awakening when neoliberal capitalism brings about societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:55 AM
2

I'm gen z and have said that all women are bisexual until proven otherwise for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:44 AM
5

What the fuck does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:12 AM
1

God dude I can't roll my eyes any more without getting sore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:26 PM
3

There are studies that point in the direction of high n count meaning higher rates of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:54 PM
2

Paying for sex doesn't take away your social v card
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:52 PM
1

No men are taught how to. The thing is that many learn how to naturally or through trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:49 PM
5

I cannot comprehend how any straight man with a sex drive can make it to that point without going crazy They do go crazy. Either that, just resign themselves to being depressed, or commit suicide. Mostly the latter two happen, which is why no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:42 PM
4

25-29 Minimum $250k income, preferably with room to grow Isn’t status obsessed. (Think LV, Gucci, etc. just to show the brand off) must have reasonable hours as well. No 60hr work weeks being regular. What the fuck is this? This is the most unrealistic set of standards I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:42 PM
2

How is going to a strip club or watching porn not cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:00 PM
1

Also the fuck are you doing holding up Islam as an example of monogamy further up when polygamy is allowed, or Christianity for that matter with the Mormons. Mormons are not christians. Roman Catholic Catholics are also not Christians. Catholicism is polytheistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:58 PM
0

true biblical church of christ A "truly biblic" denomination doesn't have entire sermons on why Baptists are going to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:55 PM
2

Their dangerous workplace for one. And dangerous jobs seems to be the only male space that women don't want to invade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:50 PM
-2

Not all women do that, but enough of them do it to be a fair generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:55 PM
-1

The reason someone would be angry about that is because if they were more attractive, they would get it right away. It's common sense that women break their rules for men who are exceptionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:16 PM
3

I'm 23 and a virgin (and will die one), and I can promise that most people see it as weird or a "what's wrong with them then?" Thing at this age. At the same time, sexlessness is pretty bad for men in my generation. The only people that haven't seen me as defective or weird because of it have been close friends or people from previous generations. Gen Z treats sex differently than other generations, in a way that's just one big contradiction. Gen Z is simultaneously extremely promiscuous and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:49 AM
1

Go to church. It's been that way before dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:33 AM
5

The Boy Scouts are far more appreciated than the Girl Scouts (coming from a former Girl Scout). Largely due to the fact that the girl scouts were turned into a thinly veiled multi level marketing scheme by... The women in charge. Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:17 PM
3

Let's give women less rights." Literally no one is saying this stupid shit. Where do you people get this ridiculous fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:10 AM
1

It's more about how I don't like anything about it. My entire life has been defined by mistreatment and precarity. I've never really been happy, and every time I have something good going I just am waiting around for it to get taken away from me. Some of it has nothing to do with me being male, but the majority has been a direct or indirect result of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:13 AM
2

Unless you live in a theocracy or similar this just isn't true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:07 AM
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It's only said so they can handwave away concerns that men's activists bring up. Feminists never have and never will do anything for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/22 09:36 PM
12

Absolutely not. I've never understood the big fascination with anal anything. The vagina is literally biologically designed to be used for sex. Seems gross to stick anything up their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:54 PM
8

This is a ridiculous take even for this subreddit. Porn is about as realistic in regards to sex as Robocop is to police work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:11 PM
1

Why wouldn't I want a connection with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:53 PM
3

If you desire a relationship, and try to fill that desire with something other than a relationship, it's not going to work. Nothing is going to replace what you want. It's human nature to want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:04 PM
4

A very small minority. Stop generalizing, it's a waste of everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:17 PM
3

That's exactly why men should to MGTOW. For most men, that's a bandaid at best and actively harmful at worst. It doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:08 PM
1

Love doesn't exist in the way most people think. It's mostly a fabrication that needs to stay in fiction. It's like every other relationship in nature: Mostly transactional, and absolutely not unconditional. Does that mean you can't have a feeling of love for someone? Of course not. But people need to accept reality and looking for a life out of a romance novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Minimal. If the alt-right had their way, red pillers would be considered hypersexual degenerates that are destroying the institution of marriage. Incels/blackpillers etc. Would be considered even more subhuman than they are in the neoliberal system we're in now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:20 PM
4

Disagrees with you != Immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:17 PM
0

Start by not downplaying their struggles, stop saying it's all self inflicted, shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:18 PM
3

Anecdotes are not a replacement for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:29 AM
2

You'll rot if you listen to blues as well. Both ideologies are telling you that it's hopeless, it's just that the blue one lies to you, if you're ugly/poor/short/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:57 PM
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I think people here overestimate what you can do as parent. Yes, but it's also the reality that how you were brought up is a massive part of your success in the dating world. My father is responsible for a lot of my issues, dating included, because he was an awful parent. Not responsible for all of it, obviously, but to say he was a non factor is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:54 PM
2

At least you're honest, which is more than what I can ask for on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:22 PM
2

This is a worthless word salad that means nothing. You're essentially saying that men who have issues with self image, depression or other mental health issues, or who otherwise don't fit into your (intentionally vague) guidelines shouldn't be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:09 PM
3

Not nearly at the same rate Sexlessness in women is an active choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:11 PM
1

This is a question targeted at women, post under the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:02 PM
2

I disagree. I take it you are American. If you travel outside the US, you will find that circumcision is, in fact, extremely uncommon. But it is not illegal anywhere. The only countries that have tried are a few northern European countries and Iceland, but their (extremely small btw) Jewish population threw a hissy fit. For example, bodily autonomy has been recognized as an unenumerated right in Ireland, under Article 40 of the Irish Constitution. Bodily autonomy is also recognized by the Univer…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:05 PM
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This pretty much won't ever happen because it would go against bodily autonomy. Contrary to popular belief, bodily autonomy is absolutely not a right in any country on Earth. If it was, I would not have been strapped down to a plastic board and had my genitals mutilated when I was a newborn infant. Abortion was not federally legal because of bodily autonomy, Roe was based on the constitutional right to privacy. Not bodily autonomy. That right doesn't exist in the USA, or any other country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:05 AM
1

Are the social services given based on gender? Yes. Look up WIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:34 AM
-5

Women are net receivers of wealth and net beneficiaries of capital. This is the case in every modern society, and likely has been for all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:33 AM
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Sure, if you lack empathy. (Which is most of this subreddit) You could say the same thing about all unfortunate things in the world. Not caring because it's "survival of the fittest" doesn't make you objective and smart about it, it just makes you an asshole who has no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:27 AM
2

I just want for people to stop lying. That's it. There is no solution, but being lied to about the topic makes shit worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:05 AM
1

Most parents don't love their children either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:04 AM
1

Cheating should always be an immediate breakup. Same with abuse. There's no room for exceptions with either of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:39 PM
2

Look dude - if you pay attention to every dumb girlboss-ass talking point that gets farted onto social media, you'll get a very jaundiced view of women. It's literally just women being honest for the first time in their life. Difficult to not have a negative view after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:36 PM
1

Therapy isn't built for men. It's all based on psychology that is focused almost exclusively on PMC women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:27 PM
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Therapy isn't useful for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 PM
1

I stand by the fact that most of they guys who are “depressed from loneliness” have no close intimidate friendships and don’t talk to their family. And assuming makes an ass out of you and me. I have a good group of close friends, and have a good or great relationship with much of my family. I still struggle with loneliness. Humans aren't meant to be without mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:28 PM
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This is one of the dumbest things I've read on this subreddit. Then they can match in their late 20s and have a great life together. So guys are just supposed to wait until then, when they're a single mother/have diminished ability to pairbond to get in a relationship with their coeval? Got it, at least you're saying it out loud now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:34 PM
1

I'm a sucker for a woman who can play an instrument. I've dabbled in a few different instruments over time, but it has more to do with the fact that music is a necessary, completely irreplaceable part of my life. I'd sooner go blind than deaf, just for that reason. Having them be able to participate in that part of my life in a large way like that is huge. And it probably means that they share my helpless love (or addiction, I guess) for music. But having a hobby in general is attractive, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:04 PM
0

Where is he wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:12 AM
3

Or it could be that men have been lied to their entire life, and that has had disastrous effects on the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:35 PM
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If women want men to stop caring about their n-count, they need to stop shaming sexually inexperienced men. The easiest insult for a woman to use on a man is calling him a virgin or an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:32 PM
1

In the west? Absolutely nothing. White women are the most privileged group in the history of humanity. Most of the "struggles" they have in the west are either fabricated/lies (pay gap) or self induced (beauty standards). But in many developing/theocratic/etc. Countries, women have it super rough for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:16 AM
1

Men used to act like men. Women like manly men and men just aren’t manly anymore. That's what happens when you have it drilled into your head all of your childhood/teenage years that being male is toxic, and that women really like guys that don't act like big men or whatever. It's hard making peace with these facts when you were lied to your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:51 PM
1

Poor socialization in formative years. Seen it both in myself and peers. I went through a long, nasty divorce between an rx addict father and a stressed out mother with a poor relationship with food. The result of such is that I didn't learn how to fully socialize with my peers until adulthood (maybe late teens) due to bullying and social isolation. I still don't have the ability to approach dating at all, even if I wasn't physically low tier. Even asking a co-worker I was interested in for her …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:01 PM
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most women do not have high standards Well now you're just ignoring reality or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:27 AM
2

You should enter the Olympics, on account of your skill in mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:38 PM
4

Lol this is why I love this sub. It's the only place you'll see a woman say how they actually feel about 1/2 the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:11 PM
2

There is no way to phrase that a correct way. It's horrendously backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:26 PM
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There is no solution. The USA won't last for another 50 years, and when it falls, global neoliberal hegemony goes with it. Including Europe. When everything falls and the shit hits the fan, none of this will matter. It'll be forgotten, just like the mundane lives of the people who lived through past history. Even if my schizoposting is pointless and won't happen, things will just get progressively worse. I'm 23 and my generation is completely fucked, so much so that the fucked up social situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:18 PM
1

This just plain isn't true. Most men find most women at least attractive, the opposite is absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:39 PM
4

When Duolingo said that they harshly favor women in hiring, no one cared there either. They reached 50% parity a while ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 11:31 AM
2

Just feel like this place has turned into an angry and bitter incel/MRA forum. Opinion discarded
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 01:20 AM
2

You can't convey sarcasm effectively though plain text.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:07 PM
1

Humans haven't changed much since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:02 AM
2

Human emotions do not care about what period of time it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:46 AM
16

"If you are going to be like that, don't expect our help" is not "kill half the population".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 04:41 PM
15

I'm not saying it's right but I understand it. When your grievances have been downplayed nonstop and have resulted in countless hateful comments towards you, it's hard to care about the people who do it to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 03:49 PM
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And make no mistake, both of these subreddits will still be called misogynistic buzzwords.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 12:30 PM
8

Pod Save America is promoting this organization because the hosts of that podcast are basically r/politics given human form. Lifeless husks that swear endless fealty to neoliberalism and all of its proponents. A Hallmark of neoliberal movements is a lot of grifters. We saw this when the BLM foundation was found to be what amounts to a money laundering scheme, right after the members of the org lied about being Marxists. I have no doubt that the leaders of this Register Her org are just out to ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/22 02:38 AM
14

Both the left and the right have a lot of anti-male elements, the left just has louder ones, and the right's anti male stuff is less explicit. I just don't interact with anti-male leftists and their spaces. Unfortunately this leaves very little of leftist spaces to interact with at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 01:52 PM
1

sound like something Elliot Roger would have written? Isn't that just the ultimate irony. It's the gender version of arr/stormfrontorsjw
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/22 07:27 PM
17

Shapiro is not an MRA in any way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 07:05 PM
32

Feminists will create a word to avoid admitting that a woman was not the victim in a DV case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 04:07 AM
0

Are you under the impression that the wage gap exists, in any capacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:49 PM
1

This view only makes sense if you're intensely history illiterate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:41 PM
4

If the number is zero at 22, that causes problems. I would know, I'm there right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:47 AM
2

Ok Americans, hear me out: people are not goods. You fucking kidding me? What's this shit about a "better one". It's not a mobile, it's a person. American capitalism turned health into a purchased commodity, and most people see that. But something that no one seems to have noticed is the commodification of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:20 PM
10

Both parties are different varieties of neoliberal, which will never enact real class conscious change
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:19 PM
1

The idea that women have more risk when dating is ridiculous. The vast majority of people that date, regardless of gender are just normal people and I refuse to subscribe to the notion that more men are dangerous people than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:17 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation, but it can give valuable information. I. E. Being promiscuous may not be the cause of not being a good monogamous partner, but it could be a good marker of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:30 AM
1

Finding casual sex disgusting is a mark of a good person. Chasing endless hedonist pleasure with no other goals makes you a fucking animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:33 AM
1

Class is the biggest divide in society, but the second one is gender. Without a doubt. Men are treated like shit, in a much worse position than women, even if you look at society from a class-centric perspective. Hell, even a Marxist perspective should see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:31 AM
7

Point me in their direction then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:56 PM
1

I want men and women to both be held equally responsible for their actions, which is currently not remotely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:28 PM
1

Good job shifting the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:58 PM
1

Selling your labor isn't optional. You do that or you starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:58 PM
1

You people just love to pretend that PVPS doesn't exist. It's getting really old. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-vasectomy_pain_syndrome Also, it's not always reversible. And after a decade you may as well give up on reversing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:43 PM
1

You're selling your labor, and therefore you're body is your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:41 PM
1

Take your meds Also being poor isn't always someone's fault. Most poor people are born into poverty and will die in it. Poverty charges interest, and life isn't all about chasing the bag, regardless of what neoliberal capitalism has drilled into your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:15 PM
2

Make moves on women I'm interested in. Hopefully find someone I want to be in a long term relationship with in that process. I have absolutely no interest in hookups/casual bullshit. Wouldn't give a shit about how authority figures see me. I've cared too much about not making trouble. They're all assholes anyway. Wouldn't ever touch porn. Ever. It's mental poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:53 PM
1

Just insecurity. I've disliked or downright hated myself since I was like 6. Same thing happened to an old friend of mine twice. As soon as you open up about it they don't cut it off but they become intensely disinterested/cold towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:55 PM
0

And if they're a virgin themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:23 PM
0

A woman’s value or ability to pairbond is not based on her number of partners— This has been proven wrong with several studies that are linked in this sub ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:13 PM
1

I struggle with porn addiction. I might be biased. Porn is bad enough for you when you're single, in a relationship it has to be worse. I see it as a form of infidelity. If you're in a relationship with someone your sexuality should be expressed with your partner, not anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:02 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:36 PM
5

Get a fucking education in a marketable field. Doing so is orders of magnitude more expensive than it was just a couple generations ago. Are you trolling or actually a boomer stereotype given form? It's like you're trying to be annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:23 PM
1

but women no longer need a man for protection or resources. Not really true. They're still given this, it's just through the state instead of through marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:20 PM
1

Damn, what a useful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:21 PM
1

It's human nature to want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:03 PM
6

Same age, agree fully It really fucks with your head when everyone around you is participating in something great, that is taken for granted. It makes you feel defective as a human being. I'm doing way better than I used to be and I still have a deep hope that someone just shoots me for my pocket change so I don't have to deal with these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:11 AM
4

"men who aren't happy with neoliberal hegemony are just abusive fathers/incels/other buzzwords" This is so lazy, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:32 AM
0

And for an equal amount of men it's also about love. Stop generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:12 AM
4

But it still ignores the point that people can change. When I was younger, I was dumb, naive. I had a few guys show interest in me, I didn't want casual sex, I wanted a relationship! But I wasn't clear about that, I didn't have as many boundaries, I wanted to believe the best in people. You know what happened? I got used by these guys. I learned through my experience and now, I don't fall for such tricks. And typing an essay on somehow that it means nothing doesn't change the fact that you'll ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:07 PM
9

This is something that was very surprising to me. Women on average are more forgiving of their partner's past than men. More accepting of high n counts because of point #1, but women are far less accepting of low or 0 n counts than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:03 PM
1

I'm open to suggestions for alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:38 PM
5

There really isn't. Then again, I don't expect the fat to understand the starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:52 PM
7

But it’s just sex. They say after describing how great it is. Anyone who says "it's just sex who cares" and similar horse shit is either a liar or dangerously delusional. Saying sex isn't important is far more of an absurd and stupid view than believing the world is flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 PM
1

Men and women don't have the same goals usually. fuckboi phase instead of settling down into a LTR. The Institute for Family studies reports that single men are the least likely group to have twice weekly sex in their 20s and 30s. So if sex was their main objective, the average dude is going to better served by marrying or cohabitating as soon as possible. So why don't they? Because a lot of them can't. The barrier to entry for men is an order of magnitude higher for both casual sex and LTRs tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:56 PM
1

Yeah but the reality is that people (especially men) who are in therapy are still seen as weird at best, if not consciously then unconsciously. Your friends are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:28 AM
1

It’s a green flag to be in therapy. No one in real life thinks this. Literally no one. Get off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:11 PM
1

We do, and ignoring that fact is going to cause serious problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:08 AM
2

But it was like... Pabst and Miller Lite. PBR is a good beer and no one will ever convice me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:58 AM
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You're either a legitimate psychopath or just a pants-on-head moron if you believe this. For the far and away vast, vast, vast majority of men the #1 turn on is a woman being enthusiastically into them. If you're raping someone, they're obviously not interested in sex with you. I've only talked to one guy who would rape if given the chance, and the guy gave me serious serial killer vibes. The kind of guy to eat your eyeballs after he kills you. Didn't like him much. It's been proven that sociali…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:53 PM
3

The UK is shit in general. Laughing stock of the developed world. The position men are in within the country is just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:30 PM
1

The reality is that most men can get into a relationship with a bit of effort, but many men struggle to have hookups or no-strings-attached sex. This isn't really the case either. I've never, ever seen a guy be able to get into a relationship but not casual sex. They either struggle with neither or struggle with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:39 PM
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Pornography exploits the figure and the consumer. Sexuality is not supposed to be a commodity. Work should be fulfilling, not exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:06 AM
0

Fertility is associated with education level, access to contraceptive and material conditions. That's why Cuba's fertility rate isn't super high, everyone there can read, and the state provides access to contraceptive. Even though their material conditions for children are met, those two factors bring it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:20 PM
1

Because you and your ilk insult, demean and ostracize men who do so
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:55 PM
1

Emotional connection. Humans are social creatures, and having friends isn't sufficiently providing what I need. I have no desire to have sex with someone I'm not emotionally connected to. And cohabitation is more financially responsible than living alone. I'm 22 and don't plan on leaving my childhood home until I have enough to afford a home, preferably with someone else tagging along.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:29 PM
8

The state has replaced the male when it comes to providing for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:37 PM
1

This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:21 PM
1

Your standards for hate are warped if you think most people here hate the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:38 PM
3

Nothing "becomes" majority men. Women invade male spaces, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:35 PM
1

Probably a 3, maybe a 4. If it wasn't for my group of friends and decent job I'd probably be at a 1. I still would be indifferent if I died. Yeah, my situation would never have to chance to improve then, but I wouldn't need to deal with problems anymore. I don't really think that there's been a decline in male happiness, it's more that we have more time and ability to express our misery because we're not dying in coal mines or dying in a war nonstop. A society that is formatted the way this one …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:37 PM
1

MRA is a separate thing than TRP or MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:26 PM
2

I think so. And it was an extremely negative experience. Hopefully digging out of that rut. Things are getting better. Curiosity and I like arguing with people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:54 PM
1

They get understanding. No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:35 PM
4

God that comment section is a mess. Less outright pro-circ nonsense than I was expecting, but one guy just keeps making these super unfunny quips about Biden voters. Blegh.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 09:55 AM
3

Yes they do.
/r/MensRights27/09/21 11:15 AM
2

His imagination
/r/MensRights26/09/21 04:04 PM
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