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| 1 | Too old at 43?47 here. I've never stopped dating and I live an alt-life but age is not a thing so long as you're respectful and don't fuck with uneven power dynamics. There are a lot of events and clubs that cater to age groups. I often go to 35+ and 40+ events. I don't approach women in places that are not designed for connecting. That's a me thing. I would start by checking out and mixer/mingle stuff near you. You can use apps like Dice & EventBrite. I'm currently saturated with partners but I've met and co… | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you hit up a hookup from a long time ago?I (M47) often trade my numbers with ONS. Not all of them are down with that but it's just the way I operate. The ones that pass me their number back I will send a message every now and then like 'Hey hope you're doing well! Place-We-Met/Smashed-At is going to have such such this weekend.' More often than not I get a response like 'Hey nice to hear from you! Want to check it out together?' or 'Are you asking me out?' So I think it's OK to reach out just make sure you keep it on the same level as … | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?M47 here. I've never paid. I've always gone dutch. In fact when I first started dating at age 13. I was told by my uncles and others to do all the traditional things right. My first date became my first gf from age 13 to 18 and she REFUSED for me to pay. Spoke to my friends about it and they felt that was weird but she kept on calling me and finding me at school. Since then I've done the same. I've had other partners and been with my wife since 1995 in a open setup and I've never covered a date … | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 09:22 PM |
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