Endlessly_ Archive

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3	What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you? I’ve done it once. Didn’t pay for her full ticket, just the rescheduling fee to move her layover to my city. We had previously been on one date before and it ended up with her wanting to have sex but being waaay too drunk for me to feel comfortable about it, especially considering I’d known her for less than 24 hours at the time. We texted the morning after and she seemed confused/disappointed I didn’t spend the night so next time she was nearby I figured I’d shoot my shot again.	/r/seduction	01/12/25 07:26 AM
6	She is at your place, how to you make her horny This is 1000% better advice than the poorly written AI garbage/fantasy shilling online courses that talk about “bEtA prOVideR FRaMes” or whatever.	/r/seduction	28/08/25 04:26 AM
3	HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.” Yes. It wasn’t our first date though. There was about 2-3 months between first and second date due to our respective traveling schedules. First date went well, but she had a couple drinks too many and I ended up just taking her back to her hotel and leaving back to my place. She ended up upset in the morning that I didn’t spend the night lol. After picking her up at the airport for our second date, I straight up said, “look, I fully intend to take you out for a nice night tonight, but I’ve been …	/r/seduction	12/08/25 06:51 AM
2	Are female friends worth the effort? Anecdotally, most of my best “wingmen” have been girls I’m friends with. That being said…I was actually friends with them and never did a cost-benefit analysis of whether beings friends with them was worth the effort in regard to ROI/how much they could help me get laid. Treat the friendship like you would any other. If the friendship isn’t worth the effort to you, cut ties. I don’t really make friends with the objective of increasing my chances of getting laid and if you’re not actually getting…	/r/seduction	04/11/24 10:17 PM
1	Ethical rules in dating multiple women? Should you feel guilty? Depends I guess. Have you both agreed on exclusivity? Would you be upset if she was doing the same thing? If	/r/seduction	11/10/24 10:25 PM
4	50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrong I mean sure, but you need to build up the skill to actually succeed. Unless you’re attractive enough and charming, approaching strangers on the street is hard mode compared to a bar. Talking to people and selling yourself is a skill that needs to be developed. Getting rejected 50x and not being able to get beyond the cursory introduction phase means you’re likely not actually improving anything beyond desensitizing yourself to rejection.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 08:47 AM
7	Never go on Dinner Dates Helps to know a few of the bartenders as well. They make excellent wingmen without it being too obvious.	/r/seduction	05/05/24 04:50 PM
–	When it comes to romantic, or frankly any kind of relationship, love must be conditional. *everything is conditional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 02:38 PM
1	What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are? Don’t worry bro, Reddit acknowledges you.	/r/seduction	23/05/23 03:07 PM
2	The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it all Respectfully, why give a shit what hand other people are dealt? We do our best with what we can reasonably get, then we die. Being angry isn’t going to contribute to your happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:57 PM
9	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? Enough men are trash and the potential consequences are severe enough that women are valid in being cautious around guys. If you are a man and get butthurt over this when a woman you just meet takes precautions or is standoffish, consider that not all snakes are poisonous but if you can’t tell, you’re better off keeping your distance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 08:35 AM
3	Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive? I got long hair. Full-blown, to my lower-back, thrash metal frontman black hair. SOME women are into it, most are not. IDC. I also wear old, ratty band tees with holes in them and every now and then slap on black nail polish. I will say while MOST women don’t find my chosen look particularly attractive, it plays well in the demographic that I like, i.e. tattooed alt chicks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 11:10 AM
1	What type of clothing do you prefer on women? Wear black. Denim, leather, or flannel is also cool. +10,000 points if you’re wearing a band tee I dig.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 09:04 PM
38	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub Bro, guys do this as well hahahahaha. People IN GENERAL are self-centered and get easily butthurt when a group they belong to gets criticized, even if the criticism doesn't apply to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 05:31 AM
3	What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner? Lol my only point of contention was why one should assume that promiscuity is the shared interest/value when someone is friends with hoes, to the point where you assume that “innocent girls” being friends with hoes are outliers. If similar sex drive is just one factor out of a myriad of factors when it comes to compatibility, as we both seem to agree upon, why assume someone is secretly a hoe or a statistical outlier when the more likely explanation is they just share OTHER factors with the frie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 05:10 AM
6	What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner? IDK dude, pretty sure there are other factors that people can share beyond level of promiscuity/sex drive that dictate their friendship compatibility. Of the group of guys I’m close with, our promiscuity level/drive for casual sex ranges from “manwhore on viagra and red bull that thinks he’s still in college” to “dude that is content dying alone”…we all hang out because we have OTHER shared interests and get along well with one another. Unless you’re saying that the way women make friends/mainta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 04:20 AM
1	What is your ideal relationship dynamic/partner? Off the top of my head: - Someone that I can talk to about important shit and silly shit for hours on end. - Someone that loves listening to my kind of music and enjoys going to concerts/shows. - Someone that enjoys good food and isn’t going to subsist off of salad and chicken breast entirely because that’s technically all they need to survive. - Someone that is okay with conversations taking tangents that often last way longer than they should. - Someone that enjoys doing spontaneous shit. - So…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 03:59 AM
3	Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life? Are you talking about appearing as "nice guy" while in a relationship, or appearing as a "nice guy" when meeting women/trying to get dates? When I'm in an actual relationship with a woman that's more than just sex I have zero issues with doing my best to be the best partner I can be. When I'm JUST meeting girls, the fact that I can be a good boyfriend is largely irrelevant/secondary to figuring out if we actually vibe together to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 05:24 AM
1	How would you like someone to show interest in you? What would help you feel appreciated vs used? Here’s the list of shit that works on me: - Initiate non-sexual physical contact. The more intimate the better. - If you’re active on social media and you publicly tag me in shit, even if it’s just dumb memes or inside jokes I’m going to smile my ass off. - Make effort to hang out with me. - Random acts of caretaking. While we were just friends, my current partner started feeding me fries while I was driving her home and I damn near proposed on the side of the road.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 05:14 AM
–	This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective). As a dude, I’m looking for a partner. Someone that takes care of me in the ways that I need, who I can in turn also take care of in the ways that they need. The best relationships I’ve been in haven’t been about sex. It was about having someone I could feel at home around, enjoy long car rides with, and to know how to make me smile when I’m having a shit day. If the trade for all of the above is me paying for some shit, being emotionally supportive, etc. I’d do that deal again in a heartbeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/23 01:33 PM
1	How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs? Ehh probably wouldn’t care tbh. Would probably ask to see lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 07:36 AM
1	It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractive Of course unattractive people find attractive people attractive. Not sure why you’re specifying women when men do the same exact shit. Ugly guys don’t just suddenly find ugly women attractive. I guarantee every undesirable fat neckbeard has a folder on his computer of women out of his league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 06:35 AM
1	What are your actual dealbreakers? Ehhh, only 100% dealbreaker I can think of is stealing money from me or treating my little brothers like shit. Those will get me to nope out real quick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 05:50 AM
1	What are some behaviours that make you distrustful of your sex? I don’t trust men that knowingly sleep with married/taken women. That’s scummy shit dude. Obviously the woman is in the wrong as well, but that’s outside the topic at hand. Also, men that expect praise for doing the bare minimum. Whether that’s bro wanting a pat on the back for NOT sleeping with the chick that was passed out drunk or the husband that wants a cookie for taking out the trash. Raise the bar guys. Be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 03:32 PM
2	Thoughts on a new dating app concept What's the incentive for non-single matchmakers to perform well on the leaderboard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 05:55 AM
1	Do any men here have height requirements for their female partners? Not really as long as you don’t make a big deal over being much shorter/taller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 03:38 AM
1	What is your toxic dating trait? I’m dead inside but am excellent at listening to people. This has led to a shocking number of casual dates/ONSs trying to “fix me” despite being pretty honest and upfront about only being friends/FWBs. I find it incredibly patronizing tbh. Toxic trait when I WAS seriously dating/in a relationship…I think maybe the longer the relationship lasts the more I feel like I have to take care of them? Maybe to the point where the lover-caretaker balance is skewed. IDK. Ask her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 04:58 AM
1	A normal 30 plus male looks at a 21 and below year old woman and sees a very young girl he wants to protect, almost like a child or a younger sister Lol this sub is wild. It ranges from dudes infantilizing 21y/o women in one thread to dudes justifying why it's okay to lie to women to have sex in the next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 01:04 PM
1	How old are you, and have you had your first love yet? 29M. Met my first love at 14. We were together for 13 years. She was my best friend. We grew up together. We were there for each other through the highs and the lows. Eventually yet suddenly, she wanted something more/something else. There is…a lot I still don’t understand, but I don’t need to understand it to embrace my new reality. It is what it is. It may change. Post-Fiancé I pretty much don’t give a shit about love anymore. I had conversation w/ a FWB about potential dates, but I cannot see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 11:28 AM
1	This world of sexual encounters is very alien to me. Ehh, I’ll answer these questions for myself and myself alone. 1) Because sex is fun, I have less than zero desire to be in a relationship for the time being, and enjoy meeting new people. So long as everyone is on the same page, it’s just a fun thing for adults to do. 2) IDK man. I’ve been with +20 women since my fiancé left me. I use condoms religiously and get tested as frequently as possible. So far the worst thing I’ve contracted was a minor cold from walking home in the rain with a girl. Kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 11:00 AM
10	Which celebrity is considered a sex symbol, but you just don't see it? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Zendaya.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 10:41 AM
-1	CMV: Men who are inexperienced with relationships/sex should just lie about it Yo dude genuine question, what do you think actually happens when you’re no longer a virgin? That virgin status BS only exists within your mind. If people treat you like a virgin I guarantee it’s because you’re acting in a way that makes them look at you like that. Having sex once won’t magically change that. There will be virtually zero practical difference between virgin-you and slept-with-one-girl-you. Point 2: Good communication trumps pretty much anything. I don’t want to come off as condes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 10:37 AM
8	CMV: Men who are inexperienced with relationships/sex should just lie about it Lol I am very confused by this. At no point in time when hooking up has the topic of how experienced I was with sex come up. I’ve had women ask me how old I am, but never my sexual history in the context of a ONS. Unless you’re talking about this in the context of wanting to develop a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 07:44 AM
4	What should an inexperienced man do? Work on your social skills. Good social and communication skills, the ability to be charming and funny, etc. is applicable across genders and is useful in non-dating contexts. Learn how to listen to people and engage with them in a way that makes them feel heard. Learn to read cues so you know when to be serious or not. Learn how to talk to strangers. Find the confidence you need to carry yourself like a secure man when interacting with people. The best way to pick up these skills is through rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 04:43 PM
3	If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at best Surely this is true across genders? I don’t think this is women-specific. From personal experience as a guy, the relationships I’ve had where I “lowered my standards” always sucked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 06:30 AM
6	Q4M: Is there anything you like about women? In case I misunderstood your comment, is there something in what I wrote that you construed as me defending the patriarchy? Just so we’re all on the same page, I am a feminist and stand fully against all forms of sexism and the institutions that uphold them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 04:25 PM
27	Q4M: Is there anything you like about women? Non-romantic stuff specifically? Generally, I feel emotionally safer around women. This makes building more meaningful/longterm friendships easier for me personally. This is ENTIRELY a byproduct of growing up with an emotionally abusive father and having an older sister who I adore and absolutely think the world of. So yeah, these are a very specific set of conditions that apply to me. Other than that, I like how the women in my life have a more straightforward time asking for help from me, whet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 06:44 AM
1	I say 'hello' then basically let her do all the work. Dude…I don’t get why this is a controversial opinion lol.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 09:16 PM
2	how do I stop fucking girls I'm not into? By stopping? If you can stop watching porn, you can stop fucking girls you’re not into. Yes, it likely stems from your underlying insecurity.	/r/seduction	15/10/22 04:48 AM
1	Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl? Be specific when complimenting people. Don’t just throw out a generic “oh, you’re hot”. Also, if we’re talking about OLD specifically, physical compliments are usually going to get a pretty meh response from women tbh. Be more interesting. If she’s attractive she probably has plenty of DMs telling her as such. Stand out somehow.	/r/seduction	12/10/22 09:24 AM
5	I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to be It was kind of an in general thing. I think the main thing that helped me make a positive impression was just the confidence and lack of caring if they liked me/ulterior motive when I was interacting with people. A general thing in life I’ve learned, and this extends to outside trying to “seduce” girls as well, is that people generally respond more positively to confidence. For myself, I’m at my most confident when I don’t care what other people are thinking and I’m doing my own thing.	/r/seduction	12/10/22 06:42 AM
84	I seem to be at my most attractive when I’m not trying to be lol the most attention I’ve received from women was when I was in a happy, committed relationship and truly didn’t give a fuck. It is what it is. I would try and embrace it if I were you.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 05:25 PM
4	Girl told me im "cute, until I open my mouth." I mean…sounds like flirting/light roasting to me. Dish it back and see how she responds. Don’t let this shit get to you man.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 05:03 PM
6	CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in him I dunno dude. I have plenty of friends/people in my life that I think are objectively attractive but wouldn’t want to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 03:17 PM
3	How much of a deal breaker is yelling/shouting to you? Do you think it's abusive behavior? Ehhh. I don’t mind the volume. I judge much more based on content/vitriol when arguing than I do just yelling tbh. I’ve had partners say some venomous calculated shit at normal volumes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 03:13 PM
1	If a maidenless man is a bad relationship choice because "there must be something wrong with him", then so is a woman who's had a string of failed relationships. Wait, is this Elden Ring?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 03:09 PM
71	Is having platonic female friends as a man a good or a bad thing for dating? I mean, if you’re awkward around girls then yeah, being around girls and realizing that they’re just human beings and that you shouldn’t put them on a pedestal/be afraid of them will be good. Otherwise, it’s mostly neutral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 05:17 PM
1	how do you make friends? I go out to quieter bars where people can carry a conversation or coffee shops and just start talking shit with anyone that looks remotely interesting. Made a couple of good friends from this actually. Being social is a skill that you can work on. Probably actually have an easier time making friends as a reasonably confident 28 year old compared to when I was in high school/college tbh. Edit: also hobbies. I’ve become friends with people/made connections at the BJJ gym I used to roll at, at the …	/r/seduction	16/09/22 12:03 PM
1	The fact that women are immediately drawn to men who are taken and base their attraction on what other people think of a guy, yet most men are immediately turned off when they find out a woman is taken confirms that women have far more impure mating behavior Alternative hypothesis: people in general are trash and should be expected to put their own desires over other peoples’ relationship. You really think men don’t go after women that are in relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:39 AM
2	Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men? Dude, do you also think men only dress well, work out, get haircuts, buy nice things solely to attract women? Sometimes people do superficial shit to improve their confidence and self esteem. No different than a skinny dude trying to lift so he can start feeling better about himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:35 AM
21	Young Man Saving His Virginity Till Marriage (Turn Off?) ^ THIS It’s like people that get married with most ever having lived together. How the fuck do you actually KNOW this shit is going to work? Sometimes comparability can’t be helped.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:32 PM
7	Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex Lol if someone needs to be told to clip their fucking nails before sticking their fingers in someone they’re probably a lost cause.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 02:47 AM
1	Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup material Ultimately you do you. Here is what I would advise though. If you truly love this person, do so without expectations or attachments to whatever imaginary what-if scenario you’ve dreamed up. If you’re sticking around wishing she would change then you’re more in love with your idea of her that you’ve constructed in your mind than her in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 11:40 PM
5	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? Yeah, I kind of have replaced the term masculinity with competency in my personal mental vocabulary. You don’t need to have people feel that you’re an ALPHA MAAALE, you should aspire to have people feel like you can handle shit. Whether that’s changing a tire, deescalating/escalating a conflict, picking up something heavy, having an adult emotional conversation, or opening a jar.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:19 AM
2	What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating? Instead of focusing on being a “high value man”, or “game”, or wtv BS is flavor of the month, most people struggling to date would benefit from learning how to talk to strangers, how to properly listen and carry/maintain a conversation, and generally make the people they’re interacting with feel seen. Yeah, this shit probably won’t help on the dating app, but meeting people IRL is generally more successful for most people anyways from what I’ve seen unless you’re looking for just casual hookups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:14 AM
6	This sub just doesn’t believe in love I mean, on a macro level there is nothing that is unconditional. Things never exist in a stationary vacuum, nothing is truly permanent, and attachment to the idea that something is “capital T” True is a delusion. At its best, love can be real and wonderful. (Note: I’m talking about love in general, not specifically romantic love). But even in its purest form, it arises and exists because certain conditions are met. Regardless of whether those things are “superficial” (i.e. how much money a perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 03:07 AM