EnemyOfTrust Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I (25M) have a weird voice, sounds like a cartoon character or teenager, and is not that deep, will it hold me back that much in dating? Who knows? Maybe there is more autistic women than men. nuancepill.com/is-autism-the-real-black-pill/ Compared to autistic men, yeah. Unless you want to go down the route of them being more vulnerable.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 07:06 PM
2	Is there really a “loneliness epidemic” going on or is it just a online narrative But don't you wanna be cool, go out, dress well? Come on, keep the grinder running.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 03:51 PM
1	Is there really a “loneliness epidemic” going on or is it just a online narrative Good thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 03:39 PM
1	I got more than 4 girls approaching me this year without even me tring. inability to see yourself as physically attractive. That's a tough one.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 03:33 PM
–	Women are more human Sounds like a good analogy to a woman's dating experience.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 01:16 PM
2	Women are more human Patriarchy raised them that way.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 12:21 PM
1	I got more than 4 girls approaching me this year without even me tring. Like what? I agree that bad self-esteem and inability to read cues will do a number on you.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 11:39 AM
-4	I (25M) have a weird voice, sounds like a cartoon character or teenager, and is not that deep, will it hold me back that much in dating? In this case I'm speaking from what I read on nuancepill. There are significantly more autistic men and most of the autistic women actually don't have that much trouble dating.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 11:10 AM
-7	I (25M) have a weird voice, sounds like a cartoon character or teenager, and is not that deep, will it hold me back that much in dating? Not very likely.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 07:09 AM
0	Is there really a “loneliness epidemic” going on or is it just a online narrative What's a support network?	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 07:06 AM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Unless it's cheap, the cost outweighs the benefit, which can't even be guaranteed.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 02:33 AM
9	Seeing Beyond the Redpill Narrative: Lessons from My Ethiopian Upbringing Respectable.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 07:23 PM
-1	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person Neither is status	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 05:14 PM
1	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person This is just obscurantism.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 04:04 PM
-3	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person Other personality traits such as looks or money are also important.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 03:57 PM
1	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person Enjoy being young and gorgeous. Ok	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 03:37 PM
0	I'm not really wrapping my head around how having a good personality makes someone sexually attractive to another person I have asked all my female friends this. I have asked all of my male friends this. Lmao, stop larping	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 03:34 PM
3	Gift ideas for him Give him the thing he wants to show you care and pay attention to what he likes. Or just give him whatever that he will enjoy because it's from you.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 06:44 AM
0	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Of course my concern is cheap free sex. I'm not willing to bend over backwards and become (or pretend to be) a nice, well mannered, not shallow, empathetic person just so I can get laid with women ugly enough to be my looksmatch and then act like they are so sexy and amazing overall so I don't hurt their feelings. I have zero empathy for ugly women unless they demonstrate the ability to not eat like a 6'2 powerlifter.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 04:55 AM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Would be better if women made it clear those are different things and that when it comes to casual sex being the kind of man they would like is irrelevant.	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/24 12:55 AM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Does being ugly count as looking like a bag of shit? And wym tell them how I feel?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 11:07 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? but people pick up on the fact that you may show behaviors of being more attentive, polite and interested in the most attractive women in any social setting. Btw, so they shouldn't act like your female coworkers? Maybe that's why your overweight unattractive male coworkers got jealous...	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 11:03 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? What women like and want in a man and who they are willing to have non committed sex with are two totally different subjects. I don't think that's much of a common sense.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 10:47 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? No, it's definitely not! Make sure you are not a misogynist when the women realize they catch feelings after sleeping with men just cause they are hot enough.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 10:45 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? How hot were they before they married? Are you saying they weren't sexually attractive to each other? Why do people default to talking about marriage instead of casual ltrs.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 10:23 PM
0	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? You are dodging saying the thing. You know we are at the brink of no-no opinions.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 10:04 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? But looks are subjective and women care about personality much more than looks.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 09:52 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? How come?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 09:47 PM
0	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? That's quite a long winded and underhanded way to tell me I should date ugly chicks.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 07:01 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Seeing the evil patriarchy make women swoon over hot assholes makes me hate it! We cannot let this go on.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 06:34 PM
1	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? It's clearly not the same since you have to be sexually attractive as well.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 06:24 PM
0	I got more than 4 girls approaching me this year without even me tring. I never had any girl interested in me, let alone approach me. OP did and just stopped ignoring the women. Zero information value.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 05:05 PM
0	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Do you mean there are separate secrets for sex, love and marriage?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 05:00 PM
2	Them acting like their body don’t have oxytocin and they fall in love with pure feelings Lmao, yes	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 02:49 PM
-6	I got more than 4 girls approaching me this year without even me tring. Women can sense he has empathy.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 02:25 PM
1	Them acting like their body don’t have oxytocin and they fall in love with pure feelings What do you mean by "actual whores"?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 01:38 PM
3	Them acting like their body don’t have oxytocin and they fall in love with pure feelings Don't have sex with manwhores and start shaming them	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 01:21 PM
2	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? I agree. Being moral won't make you more sexually attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 12:38 PM
-12	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Some (many?) women find guys like OP is describing more exciting than a guy who would make a good long-term partner. 😏 (Not all women)	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 12:36 PM
-6	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? morally good person isn’t the same as being sexually attractive. What does that mean?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 12:27 PM
-11	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? Being a badboy = exciting = good sex Being a good man = boring	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 12:19 PM
1	virtuous women Tldr: go outside, ignore statistics	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/24 09:53 PM
3	Is waiting several days or a week to call or text a girl after a first date in order to avoid seeming needy a red pill idea? Yes.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/24 07:09 PM
-2	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I hope you realize I'm expressing more concern for her wellbeing than for her opinion. She can have whatever opinions she wishes. Not to mention I was/am interested in her opinion, but that's not very pleasant for her.	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/24 02:34 PM
-1	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub She's a traumatized woman and I'm not sure if being on reddit in combative subs (which might change for this sub) is healthy for her.	/r/ExRedPill	06/05/24 02:11 PM
2	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I didn't mean to disturb you in that way. I'm a cold, internet weirdo recluse so I can be insensitive. There would be more to discuss, but I don't want to be a bother. I agree that inherently, as an incel you have to somehow blame women, because they decide what is appealing in men. Same applies vice versa for femcels, perhaps. I will try finding your old post.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 10:39 PM
2	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I apologize for making it so personal.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 09:34 PM
2	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I am sorry you had to go through a personal hell. I understand you were mistreated badly. But as you said, this isn't "help lonely men for free". It's "stop men from being dangerous abusive misogyny terrorists". Which makes a big difference in approach and wanted results, in my opinion. I concede. I don't want to remind you of your awful experiences and I'm sorry I did so.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 09:31 PM
-7	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub The problem is that you are very clearly only personally and politically motivated to 'empathize' with and 'help' men.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 09:17 PM
1	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub Okay, firstly, don't say 'coping tools', that's very low hanging fruit to get dismissed. This focus on acquiring a relationship is very hard to overcome. The void is permanent. You realize you have no pp and now you want it back. It's no longer normal and a given that you get relationships, like it is for most people. A relationship is great for hiding that you have no pp. Power, money and such are also good. It's a big ol' problem. Why should I do anything if it won't lead to a relationship? De…	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 08:52 PM
1	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me I didn't accuse you of requiring no effort, you, to be classy vulgar, pulled that out of your hind. Are you willing to admit this? I wonder how it even crossed your mind? Forgive me for my passive aggressive guess, but perhaps you are aware that not all effort is equal, and you as a white, fairly attractive middle-class woman actually do have it easier.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 08:29 PM
-6	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I believe that you got and get hatebombed. Do you think everyone is like those who want to get into your head and make you hate men (because then they are right)? Are you saying you had an incel threaten you irl? If so, that's quite bad. I think the last paragraph shows why you shouldn't even be trying to help and have empathy for (these) men. Not only is it a mental strain for you, but it might also affect how you perceive them and the help you give.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 08:19 PM
0	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub I conned and halo-effected everyone into hating me and downvoting even my very sensible comments. Edit: Meanwhile one of the upvoted posts is a self-promo from an ebook salesman, lol	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 06:31 PM
1	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub The former is clearly prevalent. A lot of people are here just to be freelance political activists. When it comes to the latter, I don't even know whether looks are subjective or if should 'stick to my lane'. Make befriend a woman first or be direct? Ah, my neurosis...	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 06:25 PM
-1	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub Stop trying to groom perfect partners. Groom people that can get dating experience like most people.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 06:17 PM
1	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? On the surface level, because the pillers are mean and hateful and not just glorifying depression, misery and self-harm. :(	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 05:07 PM
-7	Attention hijacking and keeping true to this sub the ideology that concludes that women should not have rights and that only 20% of men will fuck due to female freedom But that's both a strawman and your sole motivation for caring about these men. The seeming consistency of these ideologies will always win out over the disjointed attempts of 'anything goes as long as you disagree with OP'.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 04:25 PM
1	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me So you basically agree with me, but unlike everyone else here, you say how it is.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 03:42 PM
0	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? Ok, my bad.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 02:47 AM
-2	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? This is the incel circuit. He doesn't want to hear it. Either it feels untrue and you get hopium, or it's true and you get depressed for a bit, or it's true and you get to complain of injustice. It's kinda like being emo. Self-harm makes you feel alive. It's a 21st century cult for flagellant hermits.	/r/ExRedPill	05/05/24 02:45 AM
-10	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? You are basically asking him to dox himself as an incel. At least ask for a private message.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 11:38 PM
-7	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? So you're good looking and have no issues dating. Ok.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 10:48 PM
-8	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? All that plus size women need to do is lose weight. What about people (women included) with ugly faces which is a way harder change than just eating less.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 10:45 PM
-20	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? And they say honest women don't exist...	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 10:21 PM
-3	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? Discounting being fat and age, I wouldn't say Devito is ugly. I accept Bezos and Gates. Young Bezos hits close to home, besides my less psychotic eyes and less of a chin. The overall rat vibe of his face is accurate. So yeah.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 10:05 PM
-9	What's the point of invalidating the experiences of ugly men that post here? Do you have an example of an ugly man?	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 07:46 PM
-1	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? I like your writings about the female gaze.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 07:43 PM
0	We Often Suggest Therapy. Has Anyone Actually Taken This Advice? The western world sliding into political darkness/fascism isn’t helping either. Umm. You're catastrophising! ☝️🤓 The downside of cbt is that you can apply it to anything. Reaching a healthy place is bound to what is healthy, which is, in the west, being a content, timid liberal subject.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 05:30 PM
1	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me I understand that some people must put in more effort to get to a 'healthy place'. I also understand why you can't just push buttons to acquire a healthy relationship (pushing buttons is manipulative, which is unhealthy). Basically you want me to not expect a relationship ever and be satisfied. After all, everyone needs a certain amount of luck to find one. To question why some are less lucky would be unhealthy. You pulled the 'healthy place' curtain over the implication that not all effort is e…	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 04:20 PM
2	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me Oh yeah. I've found the comment quite thoughtful. Even the linking of OLD and gender wars. I'm a nut for bigger picture stuff.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 02:02 AM
-2	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me I know that's how it works and is. But when it comes to dating, a lot of people find it distasteful. Everyone likes to act like how they aren't shallow, how lookism is just a minor thing etc.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 01:57 AM
-4	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me Of course you always have to make effort. You say that effort doesn't necessarily mean a relationship. Well, how come? Now the Pandora's box is open and it's no longer all flowers and sunshine.	/r/ExRedPill	04/05/24 01:36 AM
-7	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me Kinda sucks how you equated relationships with effort, where if you get a relationship, you did the effort, otherwise you did not do the effort. Inherently, everyone who doesn't have a relationship must put in more effort, because everyone does so, which makes it all seemingly fair and equal.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 11:30 PM
-1	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me For some reason the amount of certain luck required to date seems to vary. You have to realize these cbt proselytes don't actually care about anything besides making sure you will have more palatable, undisruptive thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Not to mention these people, doubtlessly practicing cbt themselves, find all their repressed bad feelings resurfacing in the positive outlet of making snarky comments on inceltears. If you need cbt, just get a job at amazon. They offer all kinds of emp…	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 10:42 PM
-4	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me I'm just agreeing with your advice.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 09:27 PM
-7	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me Yes. Just cbt yourself into feeling okay with being a virgin sexless loser.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 09:14 PM
5	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me Yeah. You're just thought and feeling dumping. Hard to give advice based on that.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 09:11 PM
-1	I don't get what's so wrong with that not one girl can be attracted to me I told you to go over your experiences with asking chicks out. Specific cases ala redpill field report.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 08:45 PM
-22	What country has successfully brought true equality for men and women? North Korea	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 07:20 PM
-3	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? I've literally SAd zero women in my life.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 05:42 PM
2	isn't it hypocrite😭? I am well aware it's dumb and a scam. That's why I don't care about PUA. Not to mention I would have to go OUT and SPEAK with WOMEN?! Well, I think not! Stop being entitled. >:[ Speaking of tiktok, I'm slightly older than that. Back in my days, we had to do drugs to destroy our brains. It was more fun and you had to get your ass off the couch every now and then! 👴	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 05:16 PM
-2	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? Most people that die every day are Chinese? God knows what they must be doing...	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 04:30 PM
-2	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? Camping, just like you. Or tripping on shrooms.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 04:18 PM
1	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? Per capita?	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 04:12 PM
1	I feel like I don't have a very clear answer on how men who aren't attractive are supposed to meet people I meant making friends with fellow men. Should've made that clear, my bad. But since you brought it up, why leave women working out alone, but doing that to men (even to pick up one) is fine?	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:46 PM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man Ok, fair enough. Sorry.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:40 PM
1	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. When you put it that way, it sounds like I'm saying women are just mad and sulky, which isn't the case. I'm talking about the position they are in wrt actually improving their position, while being deadlocked by the values seemingly enforced by the other gender.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:31 PM
2	I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid? I think it's pretty obvious why. A bear will brutally maul you. A man will call you fat, rape you and then brutally maul you.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:46 PM
3	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man I am suspicious he is lying. I hounded him and he won't talk about his experiences asking out ugly women, neither he can't at least make up gym stats. What do you think is his bias? To be honest, he did try clearing it up as his social circle basically being average to above average people mingling, and that only some of the guys are handsome and some of the women are above average.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 03:57 AM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man He*. Still, at small scale that's possible. If you meant in the grand scheme of things, in the "math doesn't add up" gotcha way, all the hot women date hot men + rich men + high status men.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:42 AM
2	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man He should. Shouldn't be that hard since he has good social skills. I don't want to date someone a friend already dated. That's pretty off putting, yeah.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:37 AM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man Hot men.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:30 AM
-2	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man What are your stats? Edit: No stats means you ain't fit, larper.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:18 AM
-2	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man While that's true as an absolute, it doesn't have to be at a local level, say, OPs social circle.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:16 AM
8	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man Idk what you mean by "a bit overweight". Curvy, soft women are attractive. Also, become fit. Preferably fitter than those guys.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 02:05 AM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man Well, then I'm out of my depth. Go over some of the experiences you had with the women here. If you want to be productive.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:59 AM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man As in you chatted them up, asked them out?	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:54 AM
1	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man Not sure how asymmetrical, because nobody is perfectly symmetrical, but still. I believe you, man.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:49 AM
0	I feel like I don't have a very clear answer on how men who aren't attractive are supposed to meet people That's pretty good, especially if you're lean.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:42 AM
2	I've never met a woman my age who was willing to date an ugly man What features make you ugly? Eg. I have no chin. I look kinda rat-ish, to be frank	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:36 AM
-1	I feel like I don't have a very clear answer on how men who aren't attractive are supposed to meet people "Will ya spot me?" Can be that easy at the gym, yeah. What are your stats, if you don't mind telling?	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/24 01:27 AM
0	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. I get it better now. I've got to say, they've got themselves in quite the pickle, because they fundamentally still rely on men stopping valuing women just for aesthetics. Also, I'd like to draw a paralel between incels and the women (oh, boy) she spoke about. The women feel no compulsion to develop any other qualities, because they bought into the immutability of their value, which is looks only. They are in the exact same boat as incels, who have no reason to do anything, because they will stay…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 11:44 PM
2	The Most Dangerous "Red Pill" Lie And thence he said: "Ye who doth not grift with me, grifteth against me. Whence ye gather not clicks with me, surely thee scattereth abroad."	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 10:48 PM
2	The Most Dangerous "Red Pill" Lie It's not my fault. I was mislead due to a vulnerability in my psychology. I should buy an ebook. Wait... 🤔	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 07:28 PM
0	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. What if I said your reply was meaningless? Lol. . But I deliberately answered it that way, to avoid the obvious, clear cut answer. The wish-wash obscurantism is, literally, my whole point. Is lowering your standards and giving unsightly women a chance good advice? That's a yes/no/depends question. It obviously depends. You shouldn't give someone who you personally don't find sexually attractive a chance. That's a disaster relationship recipe. Lowering your standards is good, if you think your cu…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 05:30 PM
1	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. I will check it out.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 01:46 AM
1	isn't it hypocrite😭? A lot of my questioning is rhetorical. I stand by my opinion that being fit, like an mma fighter, olympic swimmer etc. is the most conventionally attractive. Wouldn't you say?	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 01:43 AM
1	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. I appreciate your concern for the trajectory of my life. You are very lucky you don't know me. I am far from pleasant and I actually do consider this a good time. The difference and gap in communication, the way language changes the way you see the world. It's fascinating. Do you like Carlin? He was such a lad.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 01:35 AM
0	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. I meant standards in all aspects: looks, mental health, compatibility, and so on. Yes, for people. Men, women, non-binary, and so on. What about the part about women with less than optimal aesthetic value? Well, since your answer was so broad, it's probably included in there somewhere. What part of this is confusing? It's not confusing at all. It's just meaningless. You reap what you sow or whatever. I am glad you ask me about the less young man. Your question is so strangely specific and concre…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/24 01:25 AM
1	isn't it hypocrite😭? I don't disagree, however, please take notice that this is a different matter. My point was that I was made to hit the gym, not buy ebooks. Due to the gym being small, non-commercial and with a powerlifting club, it was less anonymous and more friendly. So, after moving a lot, I built a social circle from scratch. But with regards to looks, sure. I did become attractive to men. I overcompensated for being a skinnyfat boy in my late teens. So I became big, strong and far from having abs, which ki…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 11:21 PM
-2	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. Yes, I do. That's why I asked the tricky question, because I wanted to demonstrate. You have successfully dodged it. Or did you really? >:] (There will be no tldr. I assume you're not lazy.) You say it is a bad idea to lower your standards, but you mean personality, attitude, mental health. Because I did ask about standards, your answer gives the appearance that you indeed did answer. However, you also say people. Sure, I did not explicitly specify if "lowering your standards and giving ugly wom…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 06:00 PM
0	When can I say it is 100% my looks But he didn't say he enjoyed spreading good ol' democracy, or shooting islamic fundamentalists (that now rule a theocracy) because they are brown. He said that experiencing war firsthand changed his character to the better. That's why it comes off more like an excuse to not engage a line of thought you feel uncomfortable with, the actual argument. Sure, if he did make it clear he was one, I'd have my own gripe. Like yeah, enjoy fighting for your libleft flavored petro-dollar debt blackhole oliga…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 04:37 PM
0	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. That's a loaded term. I wouldn't say so.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 04:09 PM
0	isn't it hypocrite😭? At this point I get downvoted just because it's me. This isn't about rhetoric. It's about challenging the notion that the redpill is wholly manufactured as a tool to extract money from stupid men. If that was not the case, a convenient leverage would be lost as you could no longer claim that redpill = stupid lazy men that buy ebooks. I was actually active on the sub. If I said "I'm ugly, women hate me.", nobody would offer me ebooks, but they would ask if I can bench two plates for reps and have…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 04:05 PM
-7	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. Would you say lowering their standards and giving ugly girls a chance is bad advice?	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 01:42 AM
-3	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. Don't you think it's odd that a side effect of a revolt against being valued solely by your aesthetics is, well, being upset if someone even implies your aesthetic value is low?	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 12:42 AM
1	isn't it hypocrite😭? I've done my due diligence and checked the sub. You are right that it is a funnel towards men that sell books, like Rollo Tomassi, because of the sidebar links.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/24 12:01 AM
3	isn't it hypocrite😭? I'll take your word for it. I'm not that old or was ever really interested in PUA. I know that way back it was guys dressing weird and doing magic tricks, lol.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 11:44 PM
1	isn't it hypocrite😭? I'm not sure what you mean. That people lie? A lot of guys would post gym pics, so there is at least that. That it's all just a grift? Maybe now that it's super popular due to knowledge of incels being msanstream, lookism etc.. The redpill sub, as imho the core of it, was, well, free. The grift was getting worse and worse, that is true. Without getting explicitly too spicy, a lot of things are a grift.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 11:36 PM
1	isn't it hypocrite😭? Quite a lot of them, yes. Couldn't tell if most. This was many years ago.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 11:19 PM
-8	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. Do you enjoy getting clowned on and perpetually being wrong? I don't enjoy that and it doesn't happen often. That is unless you judge by who gets updoots or not on a very partisan, politicized sub where form>content. I am personally also disabled, not to the degree that you are, but still enough to live frugal on disability checks with my parents. I don't bring that up because I don't find it relevant. We are here for similar reason. You get your rocks off by acting smart (trying to convince stu…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 11:09 PM
-12	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. 🙈🙉🙊	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 09:37 PM
13	What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards. Shakalaka boom boom, you got a very no-no thread. Women's standards are as follows: Hygiene, grooming, not asocial, not unemployed, not misogynist	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 09:18 PM
-4	isn't it hypocrite😭? I'm not sold on that. Maybe what is 'the red pill' has changed (I don't care about Tate), but back in the day you would be berated if you didn't ask women out, didn't hit the gym, were a neet etc.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 09:08 PM
0	When can I say it is 100% my looks You're seriously reaching.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 08:54 PM
1	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men Please link the study.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 08:37 PM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks That makes sense. I was baffled for a moment as to what is a guy supposed to do without befriending and getting to know a woman.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/24 12:52 AM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks So the correct way is to make it clear you don't want to be just friends as soon as you realize?	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 10:02 PM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks What do you mean "befriended"? That they didn't act interested in you at first?	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 09:51 PM
0	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." But in this case, it's not just saying what they want to hear, it's who is saying it. Yes, men who can't hide their misogyny will struggle with women. Especially when it's obvious that it's because they are bitter and sulky. I'm not sure what makes overcoming prejudice the better option, besides it likely being easier than becoming a borderline sociopath. The requirements are also lower and for many men it might be the sole option, as nobody will be that impressed with an average guy who tells y…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 08:02 PM
0	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men www.statista.com/statistics/811487/number-of-mass-shootings-in-the-us/ Btw, you somehow went from uggos to mass shooters.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 06:37 AM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks That's tough. If you don't mind saying, what are the things that are wrong with your body? I assume you are american, in which case your situation worse off just by the fact that so many people are obese. I think body positivity is actually counterproductive and likely just paying lip service. I am not hideous either, but far from a looker. I am definitely lacking in the personality and social skills department, as I'm very cynical and don't actually enjoy socializing that much at all, which mak…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 04:15 AM
0	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong I hate to be that guy, but due to those factors, I wouldn't find it inconceivable that some are dishonest at the least.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 02:12 AM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks As I said, I only think they are in my league. I say that because I'm very confident that the trope of men going only after models and very attractive women is a vast overexegeration. Do you not find the average woman attractive or do you think the average skewed? While I agree that there is a spectrum of preference for looks and personality, I am not convinced there are people for whom looks don't matter at all, besides asexuals. I also think a part of this spectrum is influenced by the subcons…	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 01:56 AM
4	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong I haven't noticed any demisexual women here. I doubt it's "a lot" of women like that here. Not to mention they are likely overrepresented in this sub due to the topic.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 01:18 AM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks That what is attractive is fairly objective (colloquially). That people settle down. That people are shallow and care most about looks. Things incels would say. I'm not sure about the biology, but I do pay the most attention to women "in my lane", or so I think. With regards to upbringing, I wonder how much of an influence do socio-economics play in who turns out more attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 01:05 AM
1	When can I say it is 100% my looks I am aware. Incels call it "looksmatch". But why is it that way? Isn't what is attractive subjective? Doesn't this actually lead to no-no conclusions?	/r/ExRedPill	29/04/24 12:02 AM
6	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong I glossed it over. Not being able to have sex is bad. That could be self-esteem shattering, I imagine.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 11:26 PM
-2	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men I agree.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 11:16 PM
-4	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men Incels, guys that can't get laid because they barely even socialize properly, are domestically violent? Do they beat their moms?	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 11:13 PM
1	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men Even better. I'm personally not sold on the uggo = incel though.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 11:08 PM
-1	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men Good save.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 11:04 PM
13	When can I say it is 100% my looks That's the issue. Going only after conventionally unattractive women comes off as predatory, dishonest and creepy. You see them as easy and that's quite dehumanizing.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 10:42 PM
-10	When can I say it is 100% my looks I'm gonna be anal and claim three. If you wish to be very anal two and a half.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 10:35 PM
-8	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong Isn't it kinda shallow to be upset about your partner being with you solely because of your personality?	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 08:23 PM
-18	When can I say it is 100% my looks And the answer boils down to "stop being entitled, date ugly women", which somehow nobody finds inconsistent with the usual attitude presented here.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 07:43 PM
-6	When can I say it is 100% my looks If you're ugly it's gonna be a numbers game for you and you're gonna have to relax your standards. How come?	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 07:11 PM
2	I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrong I kinda know what they mean. My mind somehow did turn "nice" women to "hell yeah" women. Just because they remind me of my cousin or something. They mean the same thing. Not exciting to look at or not conventionally attractive is just average "alright then" men, not the "nah" or "ew, no" guys.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 06:49 PM
1	The point of life is NOT sex You're right. My bad.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 06:23 PM
-17	Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive men They just need to learn the hard way. They will be wiser when they get older.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 12:59 PM
2	The point of life is NOT sex There is also no reason why it shouldn't align. Saying that sex is not the point of life is just as dumb as saying it is. It's easy to turn to nihilism in order to sidestep the obvious teleology of life, which is to keep on lifing, but as soon as it gets too unwieldy it gets discarded. Fulfilling relationships are not the point of life. Neither is having fun or being happy. Not even living is the point of life.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/24 12:56 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. I am kind of talking in circles on purpose. Why do you think differently? Is it that looks are not subjective or that despite looks being subjective, something else is preventing some women from being beautiful and sexually attractive to someone?	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 11:59 PM
2	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way That's what I would say in your place. It made me grin.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 11:52 PM
0	I haven't seen any proof that physical attraction is subjective in any meaningful way I wonder what is considered charismatic.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 11:01 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. All women must be sexually desirable and beautiful to someone. Attraction must then spread even, even if all people go after attractive women only.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 10:11 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. What is attractive is beautiful and sexually desirable. If what is attractive is subjective, then there must be a logical connection. If that is not the case, there must be something missing or false.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 09:40 PM
1	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." Okay, not a single step. Just think of what the distractive/attractive qualities are to derive shallowness. To derive cattle, think of why they get distracted, eg. why not vet the man. I am glad you indulge me just for the sake of it. The takeaway is that they are losers and ugly. Why get mad at women? Because they will fight tooth and nail to deny they are this way and do get distracted. The result is the weird madonna/whore complex. Women should both be celibate virgins and have sex with you o…	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 07:10 PM
-2	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." I have to admit to my sly predatory technique. I roofied your drink with the core blackpill tenet of 'looks, money, status'. To return to your previous comment. Sure, the grievance could be, at the surface level, that incels lack the distractive qualities (mainly status and looks). If you look into it though, the issue is how women actually can get distracted. Women being distractable is just a step away from reaching the conclusion that women are shallow hoes and/or dumb cattle.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 05:32 PM
0	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." This is the truth. Should be carved in stone.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 03:15 PM
-2	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." What are the things that could distract women from a man's glaring issues? Looks? Social status? Money?	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 03:01 PM
-4	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." experienced First hand of course!	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 02:52 PM
-1	The claim is not "women have a magical misogyny detector." The claim is "misogynistic men who have trouble getting dates are often bad at hiding their misogyny." Isn't this a claim the redpill makes? Women fall for sociopath manipulators.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 02:50 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. Maybe a new term for it is in order. Call it gender-based capital reorganization. I would prefer that term myself as calling it work is fairly misleading.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 02:42 PM
0	A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are women The issue isn't that women are giving the advice. The issue is the ideological baggage they bring along. There is a demographic that will be interested or even aware of this sub, which is explicitly about leaving behind the redpill ideology, not about male issues. However, since there exists no real neutral, non-ideological stance, you have to leave the no-no ideology for something else. As that is the purpose of this sub, the direction of moving away from no-no has to be maintained. Even no-no …	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 02:33 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. Why do you think that is?	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/24 01:59 PM
-3	The point of life is NOT sex What's the scientifically accurate point of life if not reproduction?	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 08:12 PM
-4	The point of life is NOT sex Get a feeding tube and drip slop straight into your stomach. You don't need to 'eat'.	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 08:09 PM
0	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. Sex work should be shamed. Unless you're up to turning sex, a woman's attention and body into a commodity. Oh, the implications you could draw from this...	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 08:00 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. A man had to build some kind of life (or inherit one) in order to be deemed a worthy potential partner. Men no longer have a clue what "some kind of life" is so they use women to confirm they have it.	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 07:42 PM
0	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. So does external validation.	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 07:33 PM
1	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. How is that possible? Looks are subjective, so even if every man considered only attractive women as women, it would still spread out even.	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 07:26 PM
1	I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynistic What do women actually want and find desirable?	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/24 10:06 PM
1	My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants. I understand the mindset and I am envious of the capability for it. At the root of it, not every human experience is worthy.	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/24 09:15 PM
0	My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants. Aw, you have my sympathies. Life is so hard :(	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/24 09:47 AM
1	My best friend constantly talks about how hard his dating life is because he is juggling 4 different women who all want to be with him and he doesn't know which one he wants. Sure, but the only one that cares about your worth is you.	/r/ExRedPill	19/04/24 09:43 AM
2	I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit. He's up there, smiling down at us...	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 09:49 PM
1	I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit. I am on the out-side ;) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9n8Xp8DWf8	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 09:28 PM
0	I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit. You have no clue what side I am on.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 08:59 PM
-4	I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit. Yeah, but that doesn't really change anything besides "weak" implying there is some objective standard (patriarchy). Does "Women are less strong and less able to protect themselves." sound any better? Try watching some George Carlin.	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 08:18 PM
0	I keep seeing the sentiment on this subreddit that "women are taught they have inherent value, men are taught they must earn their value." This is bullshit. patriarchal notion that women are weak and unable to protect themselves Aren't men dangerous to women, hence why women feel unsafe going out, being approached etc.?	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 06:06 PM
2	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? And yes, clearly if I'm choosing friendship with them, we're receiving that from each other. How do you get to that point though? Do you just happen to treat each other better than randos? What kind of hellish revelations do nice guys commonly have?	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 05:09 PM
2	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? It really does sound like a teen fantasy. The handsome asshole outcast falls in love with me <3 <3	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 12:25 AM
10	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? This is a dangerous line of reasoning. If you think you can work on yourself to become better and more attractive, you are one step away from drawing the conclusion that there are objectively better and more attractive traits. That is a big no-no.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/24 08:54 PM
3	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? 🤔	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/24 06:49 PM
-3	I need help not getting triggered when my friends talk about things that are kinda black pill adjacent or similar Sour grapes, sweet lemons.	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/24 12:23 PM
1	Tradwives/ redpill women ruined my worldview Yeah. Young men are horndogs.	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/24 04:47 PM
-2	I don't think I've seen any proof of physical attraction being subjective in any way that's meaningful to me Which of the men's hurts have been caused by the patriarchy?	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/24 02:52 PM
1	Lost all respect for Fresh and Fit today. Could you point me in the direction of fresh tomatoes and salad?	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/24 12:52 PM
4	I get depressed when I see pretty women What does regular attractive and super good looking look like?	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/24 02:45 PM
1	I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality. People can't read minds. They can read behavior though. It's not misogyny that makes incels off putting, it's just that they see it as their full time job. That's why casual misogynists do get laid, it's just their hobby.	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/24 10:12 AM
0	I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality. There isn't that much nuance to it. All you have to do is act normal instead of acting like human relationships are transactional. Looks matter, you just gotta suck it up. What you think inside is irrelevant (don't mistake that for personality). Don't be a party pooper. Play the numbers game. Lower your standards. You will probably start enjoying yourself eventually.	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/24 07:09 PM
-5	I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality. Reads like: You are not being gaslit, you are dumb and need me to explain it to you.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/24 11:28 PM
1	I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality. It's true. Having looks and good social skills (maybe even being sociopathic) does let you get away with misogyny. Have you had any experience with secret misogynists?	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/24 11:25 PM
1	Gaslighting in this sub You are justifying white lies.	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/24 01:27 PM