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It certainly is. Men want to spread their seed with EVERYONE. Women only want to be seeded by the best they can find. Vastly different mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:15 PM
3

Yep. This is the only reframing OP needs… OP, your ex sounds like a fkn PSYCHO… good riddance. Jfc.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 09:14 PM
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What does she think about your apparent excitement? Has it given her pause?
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 12:19 AM
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She doesn’t need to pause the divorce in order to find a job and a place to live. She’s either waiting to see how things pan out with this other guy, a new guy, or this is her first step in trying to sucker you in to taking her back. Don’t take her back. You aren’t her safety blanket anymore, not after she cheated on you and agreed to a divorce so she could sow her wild oats. Adulting is hard. She was probably banking on replacing your financial and lifestyle support with his, and he was like … …
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 12:17 AM
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And once the waters settle down, my sister will be writing me a check for $130k. Hopefully 👀
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 09:11 PM
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Is this something that resonates with you? I’m sorry, mate. Now that you know, google how to break a trauma bond. Good luck, mate.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:05 AM
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Yep. This is called a trauma bond. Google it and see how closely it fits what you’re going through.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 03:46 AM
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Of course she backed out. Two weeks a month she has AP taking care of her and paying all her bills, and the other two weeks, you’re paying all her bills. Why would she change that?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 03:13 AM
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They don't 'just divorce'… Based on these types of threads and my own personal experience, and those of some of my friends: you’re 100% correct. You can google it for various studies, but it is estimated that 50% of women have a back up option ready to go before ending a relationship. Best thing OP can do is to bet on himself and put his own wants, needs, desires ahead of WW in ALLLLLL regards.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 10:56 PM
3

The problem is, more women fat shame other women than men do. On the other side, the only people who shame men for their height or endowment are exclusively women. And we all know women refuse to take accountability for their behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:59 PM
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Disabled people can’t help that they’re disabled. It wasn’t their choice to be disabled. Fat people are fat because they consume more calories than they expend. If you CHOOSE to eat too much, I don’t have to CHOOSE to support your poor lifestyle habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:57 AM
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Lol now that’s just false since most women desire men who are 3-7 years older than them, statistically. Your stance is such cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:54 AM
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No. Men won’t support a body positivity movement because we realize it’s nonsense and detrimental, over all. You can feel good about how you are, but it’s dumb and dangerous to encourage ANYONE to remain obese, just from the health risks alone. How many 90 year old obese people have you ever met? Zero. 80 year old obese people? Zero. 70 year old obese people? Zero. But we’ve got fat women on magazine covers, in reality tv shows, glorified in pop music. America is the fattest it’s ever been and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:52 AM
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N count only matters if he’s looking for a wife. Other than that, men don’t care about it. And to be clear, the men who argue about n count aren’t also the same men who contribute to women’s n count lol. They’re typically the men that these women settle for when they fail to lock down someone of higher status (the guys who pumped and dumped her throughout her 20’s). They’re typically the 1/3 of men between 18-30 who are either virgins or who haven’t had sex in a year. But, again, women choose wh…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 12:58 PM
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Historically, men and women have opposing sexual strategies. Men are wired to want quantity, women are wired to want quality. This is why men can theoretically impregnate as many women as they can bust nuts, but women can only carry one child to term per year. And, despite women being more sexually liberated than ever before, they STILL choose “quality” partners. Women have always had the power in the sexual market place. Men want sex, women choose who gets to have sex. Modern day feminism teach…
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 12:21 PM
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Very fair point. I’ve got numerous examples of witnessing women smile in someone’s face, or feigning concern for someone, and then flipping the script and being nearly vitriolic about that person behind their back. Plus, women sl*t shame and talk shit about other women WWAAAYYYY more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:41 AM
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Side note: who cares who's on the cover of vogue? Magazines have been toxic in conditioning women for decades, why would you want to do the same to men? It was simply an example. Another would be national women’s day vs national men’s day. National women’s day is globally celebrated and is heavily pushed in the media, but men’s day isn’t. People love dad bods. Some do, not all. And even fewer would choose a dad bod over an athletic body if given the choice. If that's not body positive idk what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:37 AM
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Yeah, but a lot of people need more than just a healthy lifestyle. The vast majority of people would live much happier, less depressed lives if they adopted healthy lifestyle habits. A lot of them need therapy and don't see a benefit. My personal experience with therapy is it is BS. I’ve gained much more from life by taking radical accountability for myself and driving myself to improve, even when I didn’t think I could. My best therapy sessions happen during hard workouts, when I’m trapped in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:08 AM
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No she didn’t lol. I’m trying to have a rational convo and she’s reaching for the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:34 AM
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I appreciate the extremes you took this to, but I don’t understand the point as it isn’t part of the convo we’re having.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:32 AM
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I mean, if you don't have empathy you shouldn't even be dating. Someone with a complete lack of empathy is considered to have psychopathy, and it’s estimated that only 2-4% of men (and 1-2% of women) fit that mold. Everyone else feels empathy to some degree. And to be clear, no one feels empathy all the time, for everyone, in every situation, forever. But I agree, if you find yourself dating someone with zero empathy, you should leave them. Why would anyone want a partner that doesn't even reg t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:28 PM
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Empathy isn’t considered a masculine trait and I don’t think it can be “learned.” You either have it or you don’t and there are varying degrees of how empathic a person is. Women, on average, are naturally more empathetic than men. You can delve in to evolutionary psychology to figure out why that is, but it’s certainly more in line with the nurturing nature that women posses. “Healthy masculinity… with an emphasis on empathy” is what drives men away from those types of influencers. When people …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:53 PM
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This is further evidenced in studies performed on dating apps where 80% of the women only swipe right on 10-20% of the men.
/r/AllPillDebate26/01/23 02:27 AM
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Happened a lot in college bars in my 20’s. Random ass grabs, a couple crotch grabs, getting real close and pressing their breasts in to me, etc. It never bothered me much, except for the hand full of times a girl got belligerent when I told her to leave me alone.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 02:15 AM
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Toxic masculinity = masculinity. Feminism = toxic femininity.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:10 AM
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In my early 20’s I dated and lived with a girl who was diagnosed BP and maybe undiagnosed BPD. When she would get mad at me (regular event) she would ignore more for days/weeks at a time. I mean, we lived together and she would legitimately just flat out ignore me. Not say a single word to me for days/weeks. I was young and dumb and didn’t understand emotional abuse at the time. Shit really wore me down over the 2 years we were together. She also got physically violent with me a few times and de…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 12:12 PM
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What now? You do realize that maintaining multiple casual relationships until officially deciding to consolidate on one is normal dating, right? Women do this ALLLLL the time. Seriously, the 2-3 women you’re talking to right now 100% are talking to 5-6 other men, too. This might seem abnormal to you because it’s OLD.. but even before dating apps, most women dealt with multiple suitors, even if you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:34 PM
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By pseudo science, I assume you’re referring to evolutionary psychology? Sure, it’s difficult/impossible to “prove” things with ES, but ES does make a TON of sense when applied to human nature throughout history. If you’re a reader, you should check out literally anything written by Dr. David Bus. There are plenty of other evolutionary psychologists who have written books, but Dr. Bus is widely regarded as being at the forefront in ES research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:33 PM
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To be clear.. wanting to f**k someone, and wanting to wife someone, are two completely different and separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:28 PM
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Ah I see, my bad. Yeah I see the very real benefit of never getting married. If my wife and I split up, I for sure would never marry again. I mean, I live my wife and never plan on leaving her, but if I were ever single again, I wouldn’t remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:20 PM
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People with your mindset represent the 50% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:00 PM
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You’re exactly right. It’s called having frame. You live in a box, socially speaking, and anything anyone says or does outside your box should have no effect on you or your demeanor. Couple that with self respect while also being respectful and women eat that sh*t up. Disney movies and Hollywood would have you believe that a man needs to acquiesce to every whim a woman has. Basically, we’re taught to simp. The problem with that is women despise simps and will either reject you or put you in the …
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 05:47 PM
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I mean, you were triggered and told me to gfm because you don’t like what I said. They’re just words, mate. Everything will be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 PM
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It would be within your rights to call me whatever you want. They’re just words.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:06 PM
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They’re just words. Don’t let words affect you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:05 PM
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What’s funny is that lesbian feminist is now married with children to a man with a beard who hunts and votes Republican. I’m definitely not claiming ownership for her role reversal. She went on to date one or two other women after our little fling, but yeah… biology always wins.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 02:57 PM
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Oh, man. I know. I feel terrible about it now. But when I was 24/25? I didn’t give af. I just enjoyed the idea that I turned out an ultra feminist despite her and I basically hating each other and having nothing in common.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 09:13 AM
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The jury is still out on this. I can find just as many studies showing that male promiscuity has no bearing on long term relationship success as I can on it being a detriment. However, all studies on female promiscuity point towards decreasing relationship success. It’s widely accepted that, in general, men can (and do) disassociate feelings from sex, whereas women, in general, cannot or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:05 AM
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I agree. I’ve only met 2 serious hardcore feminists in real life. One was in my early 20’s and the other was my early mid 20’s. The first was a lesbian and the second was political science major in college who was engaged to a male feminist. I fuc*ed both of them. Not because I simped for them, but because I was always fair and even with them, and because I didn’t take their shit. A lot of feminists are only empowered when they’re feeling validated. That’s why social media is seemingly rife with…
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 06:58 AM
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If you’re truly curious and want to learn, not just the male perspective, but human nature as a whole, I implore you to read from evolutionary physiologist Dr. David Buss’ catalogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:48 AM
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You wouldn’t feel shamed if you didn’t, in fact, feel shame for your n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:31 AM
1

How many proposals and marriages is “enough” in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:29 AM
3

A sexist? Or a realist? Men and women are different and value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:27 AM
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Men and women are different. We value different, often opposing things in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:26 AM
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It’s perfectly fine to call people that if that’s what you perceive them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:25 AM
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Lucy out here angry that she can’t find a man to take her serious because of her extensive history.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:24 AM
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Not everybody considers a relationship "an investment" Sure, when you’re young and are incapable of thinking of anything past the next house party. Many people aren't trading attention for another's attention. They give it willingly. They don't expect anything back, they don't always feel their time is wasted if it doesn't work out, it's just that the project wasn't supposed to continue if they end up parting ways and things didn't sync. Sure, when you’re young and are incapable of thinking of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:22 AM
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Your entire response is exactly why he trolls like he does. He’s banned from all social media, yet he’s still the #1 topic on all social media. I agree that someone saying small d*** energy or whatever else negative about men is silly and is pointless to give a second thought to. I swear, a lot of meninists are just as emotional as feminists. It’s a bad look.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/22 06:07 AM
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It’s time to find a lawyer, request a paternity test, and file for joint custody.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 08:48 PM
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Are you sure the baby is yours? Could her reactions to you be related to her fear that the child belongs to someone else?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 01:53 AM
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Modern Feminist Rallying Cry: “All the benefits, none of the responsibility!”
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:17 PM
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Yes. This. A while back, there was a post on one of the feminism subs arguing that when a man and a woman consensually have sex, and the woman gets pregnant, it is 100% the man’s fault. If I infantilized my wife even 10% the amount that feminism infantilizes women, she’d leave me.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:22 AM
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Male sexlessness, particularly between the ages of 18-30, has doubled over the last 10-15 years lol.
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 02:48 AM
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Around 4 million babies are born in the U.S. each year. Conservative estimates on fathers unknowingly raising another man’s child (paternity fraud) are between 1-4% with some estimates being as high as 10%. Those percentages are relatively low, until you actually do the math. 1-4% is 40,000 to 160,000 and 10% is 400,000. Imo, those numbers are staggering considering paternity fraud is literally a man’s worst nightmare. Paternity tests should be standard practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:52 AM
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I brag about my wife’s body all the time! Mostly just to tease her though because she’s very reserved despite being an absolute bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:24 PM
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That’s an interesting stat, but context is important. Male sexlessness is still roughly higher than its ever been. And that’s mostly NOT by choice. Sexlessness in women is STRICTLY by choice. Any woman can go out at any time of day and find at least one partner to sleep with, if she wanted to. Most men can’t do that. Korea certainly has different dynamics, but the fact remains that most Korean men who aren’t having sex cite a lack of a willing participant, and most Korean women who aren’t having…
/r/AllPillDebate03/12/22 06:23 PM
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then this epidemic of ''lonely men'' alone is exeggrated, wouldn't you say? most people aren't truly incels or struggling THAT much The number of men between the ages of 18-30 who are either virgins or haven’t had sex in a year have tripled over the last decade. This is likely caused by the advent of social media where average women get hit up for sex from upper tier men and then have a warped idea of the type of men they can “pull.” I’d say that’s an issue. That mixed with modern feminism/misan…
/r/AllPillDebate03/12/22 04:32 AM
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Scenario: She’s your dream woman in every aspect, but she tells you she had trains ran on her at college parties and the videos might still be out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:30 AM
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it's why you wrote this comment instead of spending that time doing a pushup, earning a dollar or "building value". Funnily enough, I wrote that comment shortly after getting home from the gym, after work. I’m always working on improving myself. and surprise surprise, even the chadliest of chads can get cheated on. I understand it hurts to get cheated on. It’s happened to me before. But fuck moaning about it online. What does that accomplish? What does that fix? Instead of crying and begging a c…
/r/AllPillDebate30/11/22 08:58 PM
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it's why you wrote this comment instead of spending that time doing a pushup, earning a dollar or "building value". Funnily enough, I wrote that comment shortly after getting home from the gym, after work. I’m always working on improving myself. and surprise surprise, even the chadliest of chads can get cheated on. I understand it hurts to get cheated on. It’s happened to me before. But fuck moaning about it online. What does that accomplish? What does that fix? Instead of crying and begging a c…
/r/AllPillDebate30/11/22 08:58 PM
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you should be fixing the problem YOU have with weak men rather than expect the rest of the world to fix it for you. I don’t have a ‘problem’ with weak men. I just find it sad and, honestly, pathetic when people complain about things, but take no responsibility in trying to change the things they’re complaining about. That's why you make incredibly deceitful statements like "Don’t like your body? Eat better. " How is this deceitful? Americans are the fattest humans on earth. SO MANY issues people…
/r/AllPillDebate30/11/22 08:45 PM
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It’s not my job to fix weak men. It’s theirs. If you re-read my comment, you’ll see that.
/r/AllPillDebate29/11/22 09:32 PM
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This is what all men want (not the 17yo part) but it’s not reality. Men have to EARN this type of treatment from women. That’s just the truth. If a man isn’t on his shit, he can’t expect to get shit from women.
/r/AllPillDebate29/11/22 09:06 PM
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Stop being comfortable being a loser. That is the most frustrating thing in these message boards. People (men) complaining their life sucks but refusing to do anything about it. Don’t like your job? Find a new one. Not earning enough money? Start a side hustle. Don’t like your body? Eat better. Don’t have energy? Get in the gym. Your gf cheated on you? Stop crying over her, work on yourself, get in the gym, build your value, and become someone that others won’t want to cheat on. It all comes dow…
/r/AllPillDebate29/11/22 12:23 AM
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Wild, right?! How dare a man be counseled to exercise self respect and maintain his dignity by throwing a cheater back in to the wild.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 02:18 PM
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Your’re spot-on about OP’s ex being a selfish asshole. The statistics on children coming from single mother households are abhorrent. https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/
/r/MensRights25/11/22 10:49 AM
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In my early 20’s, I worked with an ultra progressive left wing ‘lesbian’ feminist for a while. We were friends and often hung out outside of work. I never let her push her feminist nonsense on me and it used to piss her off. When she and her most recent gf broke up, she and I hooked up a bunch before we each ultimately moved away from the area, separately. She’s now married with children to a man with a beard who hunts and votes Republican. Biology always wins.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:17 AM
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Sure
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 11:04 PM
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Be present in conversations. Don’t talk exclusively about yourself. Ask questions. You don’t have to lead the conversation, but you shouldn’t require him to, either. Smile and be engaging. That’s the start. If you’ve attracted him and now you want to keep him, you’ve got to find ways to fit in his life. Can you cook? If so, cook some of his favorite meals. I’m not saying you have to deep clean his apartment, but if you’re spending time over there, just casually tidying up will go a long way in h…
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/22 06:02 PM
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If you don’t want to be a struggling single mother, don’t get knocked up by a bum. Even better, don’t get knocked up outside of marriage. The only two people responsible for that child are the biological mother and father.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:54 AM
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You’re not wrong. Women shame other woman FAR more than men do.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 03:49 AM
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That wasn’t me. Unless you misunderstood what I said. I pointed out that there was an article posted recently that made the argument that if a man and a woman have consensual sex, and the woman gets pregnant, then it is 100% the man’s fault. The article was literally removing all accountability from women who get pregnant and placing all the blame/responsibility on the man. Which is a completely asinine concept.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:46 PM
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I think you have me mixed up with someone else. You’ll have to go ask whoever else said that.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:41 PM
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Honestly, I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make here. I’ve never said a man shouldn’t be responsible for taking care of his child.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:39 PM
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Why would I give you an instance of feminists rallying against male contraceptives when I never said they did, don’t believe they did, and wasn’t arguing that they did lol.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:05 PM
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And there are laws that literally make it illegal for a man to “run away” from his responsibilities. If he is court ordered to pay child support, and doesn’t, he’ll go to jail and have his paychecks garnished.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:03 PM
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As a male, I have to say, you don’t fully grasp the male sexual experience. Half(ish) of male sexual pleasure is derived from experiencing and providing female sexual pleasure. If it’s a random or casual hookup, the onus of pleasing a woman is significantly reduced, but if you’re a regular, or if we really like you, the onus is always. I think the drive to please a woman sexually is the same thing that drives men to conquer and to creat things. Idk if it’s ego or pride or whatever, but it is tan…
/r/MensRights12/11/22 08:25 AM
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Feminists claim they want things they don’t REALLY want. For instance, they claim men should be more “in touch” with their emotions, express themselves “in a healthy” manner, cry if they have to… but women are almost all universally sexually/biologically repulsed by male emotion. They tell you to cry so it feeds their ego that men and women are the same, but in reality, demonstrations of weakness strip them of their sense of security and then they don’t/can’t view us as viable mating partners. T…
/r/MensRights12/11/22 07:39 AM
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I’ve never agreed with 100% of anything that anyone has ever said. I’ve seen the video before. It appears he opened that line of dialogue with a half baked idea of where he was going and what point he was going to make and completely flopped. Certainly not his best moment, to be sure. But that doesn’t discredit his entire catalogue.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 01:51 AM
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Literally not the argument.. I was responding to a comment about men and women sharing responsibility over reproductive rights/decisions if/when they release this new male contraceptive. A new contraceptive doesn’t give men more rights. I totally understand the risks involved with pregnancy and I support a woman’s right to choose. But if you CHOOSE to have the baby, DESPITE those risks, I’m STILL liable financially, even if MY choice wasn’t to have the child. So, again, women maintain 100% of th…
/r/MensRights12/11/22 01:26 AM
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Kevin Samuels was a legend. RIP.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 12:10 AM
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I just wanted to add: Keep swinging for the fences with women. Everyone strikes out A LOT… the best pickup artists in the world, the guys who literally teach this stuff, who have wealth and status (attraction triggers for women), might close 1 for every 10 women he talks to. I’m 6’4 with an athletic build. I have a good job and have always taken care of myself. Good hygiene, etc. I did half way decent with women when I was single, but I struck out WAAAAYYYY more than I ever had success. That’s t…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 09:44 PM
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Build yourself up in other ways, my dude. Focus on the things you can change. Take responsibility for where you are RIGHT NOW and start improving everything you can control. Who cares what your friends have, or don’t have. What do YOU have? What do you WANT? Get in the gym, eat right, focus on hygiene, invest your money. Ever considered getting in to real estate? Building a side hustle? Have any interest in any new or exciting hobbies that could give you new experiences and the opportunity to me…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 08:01 PM
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Men and women are different and are attracted to different things in the opposite sex. Humans are visual creatures, but women are much less so than men. Men are typically much more “shallow” than women in that regard. A man’s primary attraction is youth and beauty. A woman’s primary attraction is security. For example, how many beautiful women do you know that date broke losers who live with their mom and play video games all day? Conversely, how many successful, well put together men do you kno…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:47 PM
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Yes. And the stats on single mother households are absolutely horrendous. https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/
/r/MensRights11/11/22 06:06 PM
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Agreed. Women are social creatures and are vastly superior to men in that regard.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:27 PM
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“Equally important stuff” 😭
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:11 PM
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Yep. Women shame other women FAR MORE than men shame women. The same women who shame men for caring about a woman’s sexual history, for instance, are the first to shame other women they don’t like based on her sexual history. What’s the first thing a woman says about another woman she doesn’t like? “She’s a hoe! She’s a sl*t! She’s a tramp!”
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:06 PM
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Yes, women do those things to be noticed by members of the opposite sex, but like to argue that “nooo, I do it for myself to feel beautiful and good about myself!” How fortunate that the things they like to do “for themselves” just so happen to be the same things that attract the attention of men 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:02 PM
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Modern feminism is doing such a disservice to men and women in the west. Lower marriage rates. Higher divorce rates. Less child births. More single parent households. Higher rates of depression. And a whole generation of women who refuse to take responsibility or accountability for the consequences of their actions. Just constant validation for entitlement. You’re not entitled to the type of man you want if you refuse to be the type of woman HE wants. And then, at 40, wondering where they went w…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 04:57 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Everyone is responsible for THEIR OWN decisions and for THEIR OWN bodies. This whole push to remove all responsibility and accountability from women is absolutely wild. Feminism is literally fighting for the ability to be two year olds. You’re an adult. You make your own decisions. There are consequences for those actions that are solely your own responsibility to deal with.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 04:50 PM
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Nope. Never said that. It’s a man’s responsibility to put on a condom. It’s a woman’s responsibility to make sure she doesn’t let a man inside her without a condom. Women also have other contraceptive options. Unfortunately, no contraceptive is 100% effective. For the third time, what I said was: if I impregnate a woman, and she chooses to have an abortion, I have no say. If I impregnate a woman, and she chooses to keep the child, I have no say, but I’m still liable, financially. Stop arbitraril…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 04:46 PM
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What I said is 100% accurate. If a woman wants an abortion, I have no say. If she doesn’t want an abortion, I have no say and I’m liable financially. That gives women 100% authority over reproduction. They LITERALLY get to choose who is born and who isn’t. Idk how you could possibly garner bias or a dislike of women from my completely factual statement, other than maybe YOU are biased and your natural reaction to hearing factual statements you don’t like is to make assumptions about other people…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:52 PM
148

Modern women want traditional men but refuse to be traditional women.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:35 PM
6

No, women maintain 100% of the decisions about reproduction. If I impregnate a woman and want to keep the child, but she doesn’t, I have no say. If I don’t want to keep the child, but she does, I have no say AND I’m responsible, financially.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:08 PM
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This. Just because I’m wearing condoms or I get this gel injection or whatever, it’s probably a good idea that you’re still on your own form of BC. There was an article the other day claiming that if a man and woman have consensual sex, and the woman gets pregnant, it is 100% the man’s fault. So, with that logic, if I get this gel injection and the woman gets pregnant, it’s 100% her fault, right?
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:05 PM
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Masculinity IS toxic masculinity… to feminists. I just feel bad for all the young men in college getting swept up in the modern feminist movement. They are setting themselves up for a life time of being friend-zoned, or wondering why all their girlfriends always cheat on them. Because, don’t be mistaken… even feminists want strong masculine men to reproduce with. Biology always wins. I’m not proud of this.. but in my early-mid 20’s, I worked with a self proclaimed ultra feminist. She was LITERAL…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 10:42 PM
1

That’s all nonsense. For one, that article links to a guy named Paul Dolan who did a “study” on married/single happiness in women. Feel free to google all the institutions that have debunked his “study.” Also, women who don’t have children are 46% more likely to be depressed than those who do. Sure, a woman can be a mother without being married, but she shouldn’t be. At least, not by choice. The stats on children who grow up in a fatherless household are horrendous. https://thefatherlessgenerati…
/r/MensRights10/11/22 05:12 PM
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I suppose a certain subset of the population still treats feminine men badly, but, I mean, a certain subset of the population treats masculine men badly, too. I guess I just think people often care too much about the opinions of irrelevant people.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 11:39 AM
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This OP is homosexual. I guess I don’t understand his issue with being, or wanting to be, feminine? I think he can and SHOULD do whatever tf he wants. He’s not trying to attract women, so who cares if he’s feminine?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:34 AM
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I asked you what feminism means to you and your response was “are you serious?” You’ve declined to discuss what rights women have that men don’t and you declined to discuss differences in the male and female experience. If you don’t want to talk about it, we don’t have to. I’m not going to keep asking you questions that you won’t answer lol.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:14 AM
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Nah. I mean I’d bang her, but I wouldn’t (and didn’t) take women with promiscuous pasts seriously. Part of what initially qualified my wife to me was her low body count.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:10 AM
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It’s cool, we don’t have to talk about it if you don’t want to.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:04 AM
9

I’m legitimately asking what rights I have that you don’t. Or how the male experience in America is better than a woman’s. I’m open to an honest and frank discussion with you.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:50 AM
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What does being a feminist mean to you? What rights are you fighting for that you don’t believe you already have?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:33 AM
2

Best comment!
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:23 AM
6

I believe in you.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:15 AM
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Ok I just read the transcript. It’s truly just a long winded way of arguing that women have no responsibility for who they let go inside them. If every pregnancy is the sole responsibility of the man, then shouldn’t he get sole responsibility over the outcome of the woman’s reproduction? Sounds gross, right? Taking away a woman’s reproductive rights? It’s equally as gross to refuse to take responsibility or accountability for your OWN actions. Modern feminism is wild.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 12:14 AM
15

I was just agreeing with you.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:48 PM
19

Did you read her blog where she admits to being a feminist? Since you claimed she likely ISN’T a feminist? She’s a feminist.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:41 PM
20

Right on. Anything to not take responsibility for allowing a man inside you without protection.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:32 PM
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Feminists seem to do that pretty regularly.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:27 PM
19

I believe that’s their official slogan at this point.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:27 PM
10

You mean to wipe off the facial?
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:26 PM
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Here she is on a feminist podcast. http://breakingdownpatriarchy.com/episode-17-breaking-down-patriarchy-and-abortion-rights-with-gabrielle-blair/ Oh, and here is her blog where she self-proclaims to be a liberal feminist. https://designmom.com/newsletter-how-my-conservative-mom-raised-lots-of-liberal-feminists/
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:25 PM
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What, like.. “Here….comes….the…..SPLOOOOOGGGEEEE!!!!” Like that? Surely you can’t absolve yourself from all accountability. I mean, you let the dude inside you without protection.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:59 PM
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Women are the gate keepers to sex. They can LITERALLY say “not without a condom, bud” and that would be the end of it. If they BOTH choose to have sex without protection, the fault lies with BOTH of them.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 09:26 PM
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I think many (most?) women would love to stay home and take care of the children and the home. Of course everyone is different, but I’m wondering if the OP would be willing to stay home if this were something she and her fiancé discussed rather than him literally demanding it of her.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 07:35 PM
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🐈
/r/MensRights06/11/22 02:13 AM
2

Never mentioned pussypass, soy boys, or simps. But there you go, using incel language to project lol. Also, if you read my post history, you’ll see that I’m happily married. You could probably learn a thing or two from me.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 02:04 AM
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What a deep and thoughtful response. I get strong projection vibes from you, mate. Don’t worry, if you can tap in to your masculinity a bit, you too can have success with women. If you think I’m wrong, let’s talk about it.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 01:32 AM
1

Fair enough, but my point was that the pendulum of modern feminism as swung too far in to misandry (perhaps that was the goal all along), not specifically or necessarily that feminism originated as a wholesome force for good.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 01:51 PM
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Yeah, I got banned from that sub for essentially telling a guy to respect himself and not put up with his cheating gf’s BS.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 05:49 AM
3

😂 We’re on the same team here, mate.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 05:04 AM
3

I agree with everything this poster said in his comment and it’s a much more eloquent way of stating what I’ve been arguing. It seems you and I are on the same team just facing opposite directions. That comment should be posted in feminism threads so maybe they would understand where MRA’s are coming from.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 05:00 AM
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I’m aware. But that doesn’t negate the fact that feminism started as a means for women to gain liberty and equal rights The goal was to open up opportunities for women, with a focus on suffrage.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:44 AM
1

Google the term suffrage.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:39 AM
2

No, that commenter is explicitly arguing that since women shave and men don’t, it is misogynistic. The commenter goes on to say that when men don’t find certain populations of women attractive (trans women, woc, bisexual women), it’s because it’s rooted in bigotry.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:37 AM
4

Can you describe the abuses modern feminism is fighting against? Obviously physical abuse is horrid no matter what gender you are, but especially so for women because they are the smaller, weaker sex. Outside of physical abuse, what other ‘systemic’ abuses do they face?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:32 AM
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So, you’re arguing with me based off my initial comment on this thread where I was “having a very level discussion” regarding the OP. Based on your logic, “it seems like you have trouble with even the topic existing?” And to be clear, modern feminism’s entire foundation is built on self perceived victimization. They still argue for the rights they ALREADY have.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:18 AM
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The post itself is delving into the idea that the amount or type of body hair that a man prefers on a woman is inherently sexist. Also, this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/ykdknt/men_preferring_women_to_shave_inherently_sexist/iutk5wb/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Apparently male preferences are misogynistic AND bigoted.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:11 AM
5

Proof. https://www.pacificu.edu/magazine/four-waves-feminism
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:09 AM
4

That’s a terrible stat. But that’s not a feminist issue. Even with that stat, far more men are the victims of violent crime, including murder, than women.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 04:08 AM
5

My argument is that you can’t have all the benefits without all the consequences. ‘Moderns’ feminists want all of the benefits and then want to rail against all of the consequences.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:48 AM
1

Yes it did.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:46 AM
4

Yes, like I said. MODERN feminism assigns all men to those ideals. ACTUAL feminism isn’t a thing anymore. They’ve already got all of the rights and liberties that men have. MODERN feminists are represented by those that like women in the feminism posts I provided. You picked a post that happened to not be about a hot button issue lol. That’s called cherry picking, mate. I provided two posts, one of which was about body hair, that proved otherwise.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:45 AM
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I like how you came back and edited this comment to add a bunch more gibberish after I’d already responded to it. Go listen to Megan the stallion or nicki Minaj and try to tell me that ‘modern’ feminist ideals aren’t being pushed to the masses. And sure, men and women get judged for their past. The only difference is that it’s excepted when men are judged. It is NOT excepted when women are judged. Cue the shame-language: insecure, small d**k energy, misogyny, sexist, etc. We coddle women. Why? T…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:41 AM
5

Sure, comb for man haters. But don’t try to tell me that I said those forums are full of man haters. Because that’s but what I said. But, there are plenty of them in there!
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:33 AM
4

You’re conflating what I said. I said to join a feminist subreddit and scroll through. That’s it. I didn’t say it was full of man haters or that it’s all like that. But the fact that I did quickly find a man hater is pretty telling, isn’t it?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:27 AM
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You can’t call mine cherry picking when you did the same thing. I literally scrolled down a little, picked a post at random, and BAM…first comment… misandry.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:16 AM
7

I’m not going to argue about second/third world countries. Everyone in the western world thinks women in Iran should give women the same rights that men have. In the western world, where feminism has flourished for 60 years, and where they’ve achieved their goals, I’d be willing to argue that women have the same rights as men and often enjoy better outcomes than men based on their rights.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:14 AM
4

First comment in this thread: “It’s ALL men” https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/yjiwrg/a_poem_to_the_meninists/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:10 AM
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Apparently body hair, or the preferences men may or may not have, could be inherently sexist? https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/ykdknt/men_preferring_women_to_shave_inherently_sexist/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:09 AM
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Because the only women still claiming “feminism” in 2022 aren’t real feminists. Women have all the rights. I’d argue their outlook and opportunities in life are greater than men’s. Real feminists know this.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:03 AM
8

Sure. Screen shot the length of your phone instead of scrolling and finding posts with a like heat to them and reading the comments 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:59 AM
8

You’re basically arguing that the ‘good feminists’ are different from the bad. My argument is that the ‘good feminists’ only claim to be feminists with a caveat. In other words, REAL feminists barely claim to be feminists anymore.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:53 AM
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For quick reference, go join any of the feminist subreddits real quick and scroll through.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:49 AM
9

Fair point. But from my experience, most ‘feminists’ are exactly the things you’re saying they’re not.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:49 AM
9

Lol no. Modern feminism assigns ALL men to the idea that we “abuse and degrade women and oppress.”
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:47 AM
10

If you aren’t arguing that what I said isn’t true, then what exactly ARE you arguing?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:41 AM
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Because I’m not a pu**y.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:30 AM
5

My bad. I thought we were discussing first world countries where feminism has run amok surpassing their end goal of equality (which is deserved) and resulted in what we have here in the western world.
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:22 AM
13

Right. Now compare the stats between the numbers of men and women in prisons. How about the numbers who have died in war. Or the fact that men are the victims of murder roughly 80% of the time. Shorter life spans. More likely to die on the job. Completely screwed over in divorce settlements in which women initiate 80% of the time. Who pays the most alimony? Who loses the most time with their children? Who are the most depressed? The most homeless? Who has affirmative action working AGAINST them?…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 02:10 AM
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The funny thing about feminism that most “feminists” don’t understand is that feminism began as a movement to fight for.. ‘equal’ ..rights. Modern feminism isn’t that. Modern feminism has fully infiltrated society as a whole. It’s on every app, in all of our news sources, in every tv show and movie, in every song. In the process of women earning their equal (deserved) rights, the pendulum has swung too far. The REAL problem is that men, naturally, adapt to their tribulations. Society tells us to…
/r/MensRights05/11/22 01:47 AM
2

It’s a lucrative business for some women.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:18 PM
5

There often is a wage disparity in relationships, but that’s solely based on choice. Women CHOOSE lower wage jobs, often work less hours, take more time off work, are less likely to travel, less likely to work harder more demanding jobs, etc. Women CHOOSE to date and marry men who earn more. That’s more rooted in biology, as women naturally want someone who can provide and protect. This is also partly why divorce rates among couples where women earn more than their partners, the divorce rate ris…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:16 PM
5

The problem is finding a woman ‘on your level’ to take you serious. Women are naturally inclined to date ‘up’. In other words, if a woman makes 100k a year, she’s looking for someone who makes 200k a year, etc. Admiration and respect are two of the most important factors for a woman to view you as a serious candidate for marriage/relationship. She may be a driven individual who earns her own money, but her natural instinct in finding a man is to find someone who can provide and protect her. If y…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:00 PM
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They certainly help but they’re rarely ironclad. Even with the best prenups, terms are negotiable during the divorce. It’s often cheaper to negotiate the payout during mediation than it is to fight for what’s agreed upon in the prenup. On top of that, most men aren’t worth a prenup when they get married. It often takes years/decades to build the type of wealth for a prenup to be necessary. At that point, as a man, you’re screwed.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:05 AM
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Despite being a part of the commonwealth, AUS is very similar to USA in this regard. Marriage can be (and is) a very lucrative business for women. Men gain zero benefit from getting married. Men have nothing to gain and everything to lose.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:27 AM
16

Yes. Current laws were necessary in 1950, not in 2022.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:21 AM
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Lesbians divorce the most, heterosexual couples divorce second most, and gay male couples divorce the least. Also, in heterosexual marriages, 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women. In lesbian couples, that number climbs as high as 100% (lame attempt at a joke, but seriously). In other words, once a man chooses a partner, he is far more likely to attempt to work things out than a woman is. Part of that (all of that??) is that fact that women are literally incentivized to end marriages. They g…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 04:55 AM
45

Current laws surrounding divorce were necessary in 1950. They’re wwwaaaaaayyyyyyy outdated in 2022.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:39 AM
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Damn… I know a man who has been paying an exorbitant amount of alimony for several years now after his wife left him for another man. She is currently living with that man and raising a child she has with him while still collecting alimony. She refuses to marry the father of her child so that she can continue to collect that alimony payment every month. Shits wild.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 03:23 AM
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Women can leave you for any reason and are entitled to half of everything you have, even if she didn’t contribute. She’ll take your money, your house, and your kids.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:14 AM
2

Sure, there are some exceptions to the rule. The passing of a dearly held loved one is probably the best example. In fact, the only time I ever saw my father cry was when his own father died. But even then, it was brief and he was back to consoling the rest of us. Perhaps he cried more on his own? Idk. But the point is, during that extremely emotional event, he was our pillar of strength while handling things with the doctor and then preparing things for the funeral. Being strong and stoic showe…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 08:50 PM
-1

My opinion on this isn’t very popular but it’s something I truly believe. Men shouldn’t cry in front of their SO’s and certainly not their children. Stoicism gets a bad rap but it is vital for men to adhere to it. Stoicism isn’t about having lack of emotions, rather, it’s about controlling your emotions. Men, when it comes to interpersonal relationships - specifically in the nuclear family - are supposed to be pillars of strength. We’re problem solvers. We’re the crutch our families lean on for …
/r/MensRights09/10/22 05:46 PM
2

The only thing I’ll say is that the vast majority (entirety?) of things that feminists (really, misandrists) call out as being ‘toxic masculinity’ …is really just masculinity. If you want to raise your son to be a strong, successful, well adjusted man, you’ve got to allow your husband to raise him that way and do what you can to support that. Stoicism is important, not lack of emotion, but emotional control. He’s got to learn to stand up for himself and the people he cares about. Confrontation W…
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:52 PM
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🤨
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:08 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty wild. I’ve never once touched a female inappropriately without consent. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve had random women push up against me, touch my arm randomly to get my attention, grab my a, even grab my d* while in a bar/club/party. Personal boundaries only count when a woman sets them.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:42 AM
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Appreciate you! Also, try reposting the update tomorrow afternoon. For whatever reason (maybe so people don’t spam the threads) some subs don’t let you post more than once in a 24 hour period. Post tomorrow. I bet they’ll let you keep it up.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 10:47 PM
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If you have a copy of the update, can you DM it to me? P.S. I was one of the one’s counseling you to hit the launch button. I need to know the ending!
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 10:30 PM
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