EngineeringCalm1893 Archive

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7	Do women use misandry as a female bonding? My wife is not a feminist and I do have a number of non-feminist female friends and they actually respect people of both sexes. Generally speaking, that kind of misandry is mostly limited to feminist and feminist-influenced circles.	/r/MensRights	09/03/25 06:37 AM
1	Woman who forced ex into sex at machete-point sent to psychiatric hospital Well if you teach everyone that a man always wants sex from a beautiful woman, then of course any woman who buy that line will panic the moment a man turns her down for sex.	/r/MensRights	09/03/25 05:31 AM
2	Do women use misandry as a female bonding? Most women, no; feminists, yes.	/r/MensRights	09/03/25 04:57 AM
15	An example of a celebration honoring men that was turned into a "gender neutral" celebration that clearly favored women more. We need something more explicit. Think 19 February, Pizzey Day: Erin Pizzey — Wikipédia There are only so many ways that feminists would be able to spin that one. If feminists attack Pizzey, we claim feminists hate women who think for themselves.	/r/MensRights	08/03/25 03:58 PM
1	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims Coerced sex not uncommon for young men, teenage boys, study finds	/r/MensRights	08/03/25 02:22 PM
2	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims In 95% of cases, the aggressor is a woman: Coerced sex not uncommon for young men, teenage boys, study finds	/r/MensRights	08/03/25 02:21 PM
1	What are some examples of (internalized) misandry or simply sexism against men that people don't see as such? And there I was just talking about internalized misandry. Never mind that if the man musters the courage to seek help, he'll then encounter plenty of externalized misandry. Don't forget too that feminism in the media is a major contributor to that shame because after all, only men can be abuser and only women can be victims apparently.	/r/MensRights	08/03/25 02:18 PM
9	How to debate against “misandry annoys, misogyny kills” That was years ago, and the psychiatrist was a woman. As for me, I clearly was in no mental capacity to respond to that in any positive way. I was literally in shock. And yes, she pulled it completely out of nowhere.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 09:05 PM
10	How to debate against “misandry annoys, misogyny kills” I'll share my own personal experience. After a few years of domestic violence, I ended up attempting suicide and woke up in hospital three days later. The psychiatrist called my wife to the hospital and in a private room told me in my wife's presence that I'd attempted suicide as an alternative to killing my wife. Shocked, I said nothing. Luckily for me, however psychologically and sexually violent my wife was, at least she wasn't the kind to make a false accusation. She ignored the psychiatrist…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 08:38 PM
7	What are some examples of (internalized) misandry or simply sexism against men that people don't see as such? And God forbid that the man should so much as raise his voice at a woman. I remember hearing of one case of a girl hitting a boy in the school yard and telling him that because he`s a boy, he can`t hit her back. He went home angry and then his mother was angry that society had taught him that he can`t even defend himself.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 06:10 PM
9	What are some examples of (internalized) misandry or simply sexism against men that people don't see as such? Another thing feminists don't realize. I've seen grown men cry and never in my life did I ever see another man mock him for it. On the contrary, other men will empathise. Many women will empathise with him too. If feminists actually spent more time with men, they'd see that it's not the men who try to suppress other men's emotions, it's the feminist media that teaches that women can't hurt men because only men can be violent. So when a woman becomes violent towards a man, the man stands confused…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 05:05 PM
9	What are some examples of (internalized) misandry or simply sexism against men that people don't see as such? What many feminists don't realize is that some men have been so taught to only fight a woman in legitimate self-defense and then using the minimum force necessary to defend himself, to never raise their voices at a woman, never show anger towards a woman, etc. that when a woman pleads, begs, pouts, sheds tears, or in extreme cases threatens suicide, she knows that as long as she doesn't use physical force against the man, the man has no idea how to defend himself as they're fighting by totally d…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 04:46 PM
30	What are some examples of (internalized) misandry or simply sexism against men that people don't see as such? And men are supposed to be emotionally invincible. And that is so internalized that a man whom a woman can coerce through psychological violence will feel great shame about having acquiesced and blame himself even under the greatest duress even when it reaches a level of undisputable psychological violence. That shame and self-blame probably explains in part the low rates in help-seeking.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 04:31 PM
4	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims There's a reason feminists focus so much on the use of physical force. Because the average man is physically stronger than the average woman, of course if we exclude drugging and psychological coercion, the rate of male sexual violence against women skyrockets compared to the reverse. But once we add drugging and psychological coercion, that's where we get parity. The feminist solution is to downplay all violence of a nonphysical nature, which hurts women too given that sometimes a man might use…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 03:55 PM
5	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims Likewise if the woman coerces the man not just into sex but into a sexual relationship though suicide threats for example, the man who consents out of fear of her harming herself will blame himself for being too weak to stand up for himself because she didn't physically force him into sex. Things like "She was pointing the knife to her own stomach, not mine, so it's my fault if I consented." Or things like "Why did I give in just because she kept pleading and begging and pouting and stalking, et…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 03:43 PM
10	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims And because of the stereotype that a heterosexual male always wants sex from an attractive woman, if the man is heterosexual and the woman attractive, most can't even imagine why he'd refuse and perceive a heterosexual man constrained to sex with an attractive woman as somehow lucky. It just never crosses their mind that maybe h's religious, or married, or afraid of contracting an STD, or afraid of getting her pregnant, etc. etc. etc. There are 1001 reasons why even a straight man might refuse s…	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 03:20 PM
30	A reminder that men make up almost 36% of all Sexual Violence victims Add to that that in most cases, the aggressor is a woman.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 03:10 PM
-2	besides circumcision obviously what are some major issues mens rights care about out of curiosity. For me, male circumcision is not a particularly big deal. That said, I think victims of female sexual aggressors are often disbelieved or even blamed even by healthcare professionals, and that is a big problem.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 02:47 PM
2	Anyone else confused by feminists telling us that crying isnt bad? My dad forced me to completely dissimulate my emotions. He even forced me to smile in the presence of guests no matter how I felt. Of course kindness should be taught, but not to the extreme of violently threatening a young boy for not smiling. So yes, I knew it before adulthood. In adulthood, I would smile by habit even when I was boiling mad inside. Complete dissimulation. Not healthy though.	/r/MensRights	07/03/25 01:05 PM
1	Anyone else confused by feminists telling us that crying isnt bad? Any research to confirm the theory that women disapprove of grown men crying?	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 08:32 PM
-1	Anyone else confused by feminists telling us that crying isnt bad? Any research on that? Men also want strong women to care for their children. By the same logic, a woman who cries would turn a man off too.	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 08:27 PM
34	Anyone else confused by feminists telling us that crying isnt bad? Makes no sense. I've seen grown men cry, especially after a major loss. Even in literature, we read about grown men crying. The error feminists make is in presuming that they need to tell men that it's okay for men to cry as if men need feminists' permission to do so.	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 08:21 PM
7	Women, Why male suîcides are joke to you ? 🤔 Non-feminist women do take it seriously actually. But unfortunately, feminist women are the ones holding the reigns of power in government, etc.	/r/MensRights	06/03/25 04:28 PM
3	Has a woman ever falsely accused you of something? Yes, and it wasn't my abusive first wife, but the psychiatrist. I was in an extremely psychologically abusive marriage to the point that it pushed me to a suicide attempt. After I woke up in hospital three days later, the psychiatrist, who had never met my wife before and knew nothing about her, called her to the hospital and, in a private room with just the three of us, told me in my wife's presence that I'd attempted suicide as an alternative to killing my wife. Luckily for me, however psychol…	/r/MensRights	02/03/25 06:26 PM
2	Young men's experiences of abuse in couple relationships Aleksandra, please let them know that they can volunteer even if they're not a 'perfect victim' or if their abuser was not a 'perfect abuser.' Aleksandra was happy to interview me in spite of the fact that my abuser was far from the 'perfect abuser.' However emotionally and sexually abusive my first wife was, she never threatened my physical safety nor did she ever threaten to make a false accusation against me. However selfish my first wife was, she never gave me the impression of malicious int…	/r/MensRights	05/06/22 04:31 PM
1	Young men's experiences of abuse in couple relationships She's already interviewed me and she's quite kind, friendly, and compassionate.	/r/MensRights	05/06/22 12:45 PM