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Who you met at the beginning was just her mask. You are now dealing with the REAL HER!.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/26 12:19 PM
1

Get a lawyer. Protect yourself. She doesn't need protection... A simp is probably financing her lifestyle by now with kid in tow.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/26 07:02 PM
6

More men need to read these type of stories. So many men are still living in the Disney fantasy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 05:26 PM
1

How old are the both of you
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 01:52 PM
1

You are just a place holder. She already has her main guy who diks her down and good. She just needs you to stay right where you are for emotional support.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 01:32 AM
6

Men are in Love... Women are in Business!
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 02:21 PM
2

Block and ignore. While married to you... She fucked someone else behind your back. Thats the ultimate disrespect. None of my exes who have disrespected me have a line of communication towards me. Why does yours????
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 07:24 PM
21

Sorry OP.. But your princess is in another castle!
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 05:27 PM
6

DNA test both of the kids
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 07:18 AM
6

Welcome to Gynocentrism
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 01:28 PM
1

Single moms aren't looking for love my dear.. They're looking for help (Financial)
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/26 06:41 PM
8

So your ex wife called you last night and instead of ignoring the call and replying 3 days later with a " hey just saw your missed call.. Is everything good?" Which will send a list of powerful messages that you have a life. You've moved on. She lost immediate access to you when she decided to walk away. . She now has to work with a time buffer to get your attention. You have a lot of inner work to do. " I don't love her anymore " you may be able to lie to some of us... But you can't lie to your…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 02:21 AM
3

His wife took him to the cleaners way before she filed for divorce 😁
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 01:19 AM
7

AWALT
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 11:18 PM
2

Get that amount reduced immediately. She's now making good money.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 06:30 PM
6

Start wearing a condom. Chances are the other dude isn't
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 04:43 PM
3

Your fault for involving the government in the first place
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/26 02:13 PM
4

Remove all Ultra processed crap from your diet. If you're not a gym goer.... Get some nice headphones and Start going the gym for cardio and make the transition to weight training when you feel mentally ready. Also follow John Griffin Life 2.0 on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 05:18 PM
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Nothing is gonna change . She's gonna give you dry vanilla sex for a few weeks then she's gonna make you feel guilty for wanting sex so often and the cycle repeats. Divorce... Therapy..... Gym
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 05:52 PM
4

You weren't young and in love... You were young and horny
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 06:02 PM
10

So she was trying (or fucked) her married neighbor???? That should've been the end of it. Each of those little cringy notes sealed your fate brother. Your marriage have been dead for years. DNA test your second child.. You may be raising your neighbor's kid
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 03:40 PM
6

Sounds like another man orbiting in the vicinity got inside her head. Women can't serve 2 masters.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 11:48 PM
15

That's why I'll never commit again EVER!!
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 02:24 AM
7

Go on vacations overseas. Start going to the gym. Your physical fitness must become your priority. Start taking your nutrition seriously. Start taking your grooming seriously. Update your Wardrobe. Get yourself a nice new cologne.. New belt.. New wallet and a new watch.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 01:31 AM
4

Sorry OP.. But it seems like Your Princess Is In Another Castle!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 01:17 AM
7

If you are financially well off why are you even looking at women your age. If what you're saying it's true you shouldn't have an issue attracting women who are 37-45. Im 42.....5'11 175lbs..Workout out 5 times a week.. . I Dress well(old money style)I eat well and I only make 50k/year and have no issues attracting 24-30 year old women. I don't find Women my age attractive at all. Maybe I'm too shallow
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 05:20 PM
7

Oh they weren't trying to cut the father out. They were just trying to keep collecting those $4K
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 06:47 PM
26

For 4 grand a month...... Not surprised those snakes would try to do such a thing
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 06:46 PM
24

She met someone else That someone new gave her the novelty every marriage loses over time. The new guy after months of having sex with her is now craving someone new. She now feels used and wants her doormat husband to take her back to elevate whatever is left of her self steem. You do whatever you want with that information
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 02:22 PM
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You're 38... Filter your results age 24-27 They're less traumatic. Im 42 and spent a week in Spain with a match (26- Colombian) Had my fun now back in the states as a single full time dad. Life is so much better when you live in the moment and don't expect anything from anyone long term.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 04:08 PM
10

Wow she played her cards right.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 11:25 PM
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Why are you as a 38 year old dating a plus 40 woman who's still married. Also why are you caring for the offsprings of your ex wife new man. Check your testosterone levels. You are making bad decisions one after the other. Look for a woman at least 10 years younger than you. Date for fun and travel. Your peace triumphs all
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 07:25 PM
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I'm 42M.. a widower (since 2022) wife lost her depression battle. I'm full time dad to our 9 year old daughter . I joined this sub to reaffirm myself to Never Get Married Again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:16 AM
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Now she needs you to give her a good bent 🥵🔥🥵. Are you good in the sack??? Couples therapy took off because Men became lousy lovers in bed.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 11:47 PM
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When you first meet a woman.. YOU ARE MEETING HER REPRESENTATIVE! Not her true persona! That representative will start unmasking herself slowly as you become emotionally attached and more invested in the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/25 11:59 PM
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Gather all your assets.. As much as you can and flee the country.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/25 03:51 PM
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Get a LAWYER... like YESTERDAY!
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 09:35 PM
2

Of course.... You did what all men should've done since the beginning. Once Women initiate a divorce they have to realize their standard of living will go down and they must be OK with it. Baby boomer simps have been moving out the marital home because they don't want to destabilize their children... Forgetting their enemy ex-wife aren't playing by the same rules when deciding for divorce. If every man starts adopting your behavior we'll see a big decrease in women initiating divorces.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 08:07 PM
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Ok that would be information you put in your original post. I'll call the police and make a report. Im Dominican myself living in USA. And if I have to take a guess... Your wife may have met another man and ran off with him. How long ago did she went missing? Are you in one of the major cities?? Or a rural town??
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 03:00 AM
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Are they vacationing?? Why else would she go to Dominican Republic a third world shit hole aside from Punta Cana resorts spots.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 02:52 AM
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Nop... But thanks for telling us who wears the pants in your house
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 02:17 PM
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Having an extremist liberal Woke wife is 10x worse. Consider yourself lucky
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 11:49 AM
3

Run from this predator. She's only seeking a sperm donor now. Her biological clock is ticking hard. If you take her back she will make sure to end up pregnant only to discard you later on.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 06:43 PM
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Divorce now.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 05:42 PM
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Your wife walked out a year ago... What you think she was doing this whole past year.. Bible study??? Missionary trip to the Phillipines???? Sign the papers and get on with your life. You have 2 children who need a fit father at this moment
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 01:37 PM
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Tell her to go find and apartment. You took her/married her with 4 kids in tow??how many different fathers ? Bad financial decision. Sell house... Get your half.....and thanked the lord you won't have to pay her child support. This woman would stick a financial knife on your back if she could.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 01:13 PM
2

Where's your lawyer????
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 05:14 AM
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"There was no affair " Oh my sweet summer child
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/25 11:16 AM
4

Get your passport. Unless you're a submissive liberal soft guy.... You're just wasting your time. Start traveling the world.. Become comfortable on your own skin.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 02:58 PM
9

It seems she's fucking the affair partner but her guilt is messing with her mood.... so she wants you to lovey dovey her so her sick mind can convince her everything is back to normal and her orgasms with the other guy can return to being climatic.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 08:52 PM
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How was the sex?? Did you roughed her up from time to time??? Some of those Cluster Bs would forgive some boredom if you make up for it in the bedroom.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 05:48 PM
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It's cheaper to keep her
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 12:38 AM
8

Soon To Be eX Wife
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 01:10 PM
4

It's not that the new breakup hurt more than the divorce. It's that you felt the pain of both simultaneously.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 03:09 AM
3

Swearing to never get married again. How about that for a start
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 06:10 PM
1

Not really a disposable razor with a good lather soap in the shower will do the trick
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 05:14 PM
4

She used you as a sperm donor. She never loved you and you only were recruited to play the pregnancy part. She's a predator.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/25 02:09 PM
3

And who's alot younger
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/25 02:06 PM
4

Ok then.. Fuck Her... Let her go claw her tusks on some other chump. Thank the universe she's out your life. Some men get so screwed they commit suicide. Enjoy your new life.... Join a gym Optimize your nutrition.. Wardrobe.. Grooming.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 06:02 PM
1

Why do you mean you bought her a house??? The house is marital property.. Sell it back and split the debt/gains 50/50
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 05:19 PM
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The hell some men endure. My gosh. I swore to God I won't ever get married again after becoming a widower. My emotional state and inner peace is not going to be in some bitch's hands.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/25 12:39 AM
2

We aren't speaking about everyone. We are speaking about You and the other fellow who complained about living in the middle of nowhere
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 02:48 AM
2

Then you'll have to simply migrate.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 02:28 AM
1

You need to make yourself physically appealing to women. What's your body fat percentage Are you fit.. Do you exercise? How's your personal hygiene and grooming. How's your Wardrobe??? do your clothes accentuate your body?? How's your hairstyle?? Once you make yourself physically attractive to women your results will mirror those changes.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 09:39 PM
9

You do realize you can get sex from women without committing yourself to a relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 09:22 PM
11

Are men really this oblivious in today's age???? If the women you married STOP having sex with you..... SOMEONE ELSE IS FUCKING HER! This has been known since the stone age
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 01:25 PM
3

You better sort this out with your lawyer.... Seek Alimony or half her 401k
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 10:28 PM
20

Beautiful Women have always lived life on Easy Mode
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 08:41 PM
18

I'm a widower(10 years married) .. Currently full time dad to my 9 year old daughter and EVEN I WOULDN'T EVEN THINK ABOUT MARRYING AGAIN.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 05:33 PM
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Many of our fathers are/were Simp. Also our fathers lived in a much different world than today's. Yes they may give you a valuable sprinkle advice here and there.... But it's most likely the rest would be obsolete. Today's we have too learn as we go. And not only we must learn from our mistakes but also from each other's
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 08:23 PM
4

You better believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 10:14 PM
13

Cucks are men who are too weak to leave their girlfriend/wife - after- finding out she's engaging in sexual activity outside the marriage/relationship
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 01:54 AM
1

Why is she keeping the house. This is probably rage bait post
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 06:09 PM
9

Don't marry her period. What benefits is there for a man?
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 05:45 PM
4

With 3 young kids??? I mean would you even have time.. Energy and effort. But it sounds like your husband is a piece of sht. I hope you take him to the cleaners. It's one thing to be an unmarried bachelor and lie to different women to get them to bed (not justifying) It's another thing to place your wife and mother of your kids in danger with (STDs).
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 02:48 AM
3

The sad thing is that your lazy no good wife(and her current/future boyfriend) is about to get a big payout and live off the fruits of your labor for the next several years
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 12:53 AM
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The fact you never hit her... Cheated on her.. Or stolen from her is why she left you. She got bored. Is much easier for a woman to forgive infidelity.. Physical or emotional abuse than the ultimate Sin of BOREDOM. Crazy world isn't it. Go to infidelity sub and read the multitude of stories of women complaining about their cheating abusive husbands and multiple infidelities and asking for advice on how to drag their husbands to therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 09:49 AM
5

Not only that... But it seems most men hate freedom and can't function without a woman/relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 01:42 PM
3

DNA test the kids. With so many weekends her whereabouts were away from home. Also why did she wait until she was 40 to have her first child?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 10:41 AM
3

All of that should have been done after divorce was finalized. Women are conniving and vindictive. I'm sure as soon she found out another women was in the picture she changed for the worse
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 01:31 PM
6

Your mistake was letting your girlfriend into your kids life way too fast and letting your ex wife knows you have a girlfriend.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 12:33 PM
4

The least of his problems is his sham marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:35 AM
10

Your wife left the marriage long time ago. Sorry bud. Get yourself a lawyer NOW!!
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 02:41 AM
3

Don't listen to the above. Get your lawyer and your finances in order
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 10:40 PM
8

She's leaving you because there's another man in the mix. She may have already cheated.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 10:39 PM
11

No one wants warns Men about Modern Marriage. It's basically a wealth transfer.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 03:52 PM
1

It seems you're still too vulnerable and she can smell it from miles away. The level of disrespect is astounding. She went over told you to give her a day or 2 while the boyfriend was sitting in the car???? Seriously..... How can she respect you when you don't even respect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 06:17 PM
7

Exactly the nonsense written above about competing with the boyfriend is Hogwash. I've seen children grow up and choose the deadbeat dad versus the Stepdad who paid for their schooling
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 04:37 PM
2

Why does she get to keep house.?? How about everything gets split 50 / 50 and everyone's standard of living goes down accordingly? What a lucrative deal it is for her to inherit a house just for participating in a sham marriage for 7 short years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 12:28 AM
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Lawyer Up NOW!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/25 02:11 PM
7

There was no cheating involved THAT YOU KNOW OF. You still have alot to learn about life.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 11:27 PM
4

As we age Sarcopenia creeps in. Exercise-especially weight training) is a must. No compromise. Get your membership and ask her to join you. If she rather stick to her processed crap diet and lazy routine then divorce her. You can tell alot about an individual by how they treat and care for their bodies.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 02:46 AM
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Strengthen your wardrobe. Update your style. Place yourself in ketosis for a few months. Nutrition is key. Boost Personal hygiene and grooming. Start weight training. We begin to lose 1 percent of muscle annually in our 30s. Grab your passport and explore a new country. Don't focus on women. Women aren't attracted to Men. They are attracted to their lifestyle and what that lifestyle can provide them. Delete dating apps. They are filled with scammers.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 04:11 AM
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Wow. Hopefully Marriage is a mistake you'll never repeat. Women are in full blown business. Men need to catch up and stop falling for the Disney fantasy.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 03:00 AM
2

Don't do it. Fathers are not respected anywhere in the west. Airline staff neither immigration workers would ever ask for father's permission letter if the kids are with mommy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 06:54 PM
2

I wouldn't pay a cent to your ex wife after daughter turns 18. OP stop paying. You can set an allowance with your daughter privately if you choose to. But give nothing to ex-wife and go to court if you have to
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/25 10:20 AM
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Start traveling abroad. Expand your horizons. Start weight training. Update your wardrobe/hairstyle /beard Turbo boost your hygiene.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:19 PM
6

This Disney fantasy about Finding Love is why most men end up in the abyss of PAIN. Im 42 widower father since 2022 of an 8 year old daughter. I stopped looking for Love and instead focused on Serenity (peace). If Love ever knocks on my door I'll answer but you won't see me desperately look for it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 06:27 PM
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Horseshit. If they're unable to find a better deal elsewhere they would stay in their current miserable relationship for years and decades. Are you denying that hypergamy exist??? Generally Men are wired differently. We are wired to save our marriage by any means necessary. We men see Divorce as a personal failure unlike women who see it as liberating We as Men have to start being more SELFISH in every aspect of our life. Society have ingrained in us that we must put everyone and everything befo…
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 03:54 AM
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One thing I'm jealous of is women's nature and ability to hop on a new dick and start a new life and erase their past like it never existed. Yes it's a survival mechanism they gained from thousands of years losing their men to war etc and having to immediately get with another one to survive.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 01:48 AM
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Yea you married a stranger. Most women come with a closet full of skeletons and it takes a few years to get a whiff of their past debauchery. This is why they usually start pressuring for marriage after 6 months of dating. Take this as a lesson as you move forward in your dating life
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:52 PM
3

You got married in 2021... When did you started dating her???
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:44 PM
6

How long were you dating her before the the fake marriage took place. I had a woman walk out on me because I refused to get married after 1 year of dating. Bullet dodged.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/25 10:38 PM
3

And still droves of mindless morons tie the knot each year. However Many are waking up to this matriarchal scam. Give it 30 more years and weddings will be an anomaly
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/25 03:19 AM
6

She owes you alimony.. Take her to the cleaners. You deserve every bit of it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/25 03:18 AM
17

What a scam marriage is for Men. The only men who should be getting married are poor men. Any man with high earning potential should never enter into this now being a matriarchal scam
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/25 03:17 AM
19

Change your frame. None are a keeper. You are just dealing with her representative. Her real her will come out when you drop your guard
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 12:46 PM
9

You're entitled to fat Alimony payments. Seek legal counsel... And take her to the cleaners.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 05:43 PM
1

No need to... Men aren't getting married in droves like before
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 04:34 PM
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