Enirehtac Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base	ADVICE	Enirehtac	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 01:23 PM
12	Lust: What to do about it?	ADVICE	Enirehtac	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/16 12:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Simple Questions He does things only to keep me happy and at the same time I think he's sacrificing his own happiness. He's told me in the past he's only done or said things to make me happy and avoid me getting upset, alot of the times it hasn't worked though. Now I don't trust that whatever he says or reorganises our time together that he's doing it because he wants to or whether he's doing it just to make me happy. If I don't comply with the reorganisation (because I believe he's just trying to make me happy)…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/18 07:22 PM
1	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base During an argument I said that I felt like I was a convenience to him that he can just pull out from under the bed when he wants me, ie saying what time I can come over at. That made him really angry and I probably didn't help at all but it was how I felt. His return argument was that he sacrifices so much of his time to see me and make me happy that I shouldn't feel like I was a convenience and how dare I undermine his sacrifice for me. But after, he did become more flexible with the time and I…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/18 12:22 AM
1	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base Thank you for the advice, we seem very similar and it gives me hope	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/18 12:10 AM
0	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base She did his chores while he was at work and now that I'm there she doesn't come over anymore and expects me to look after him. I've encouraged him to be more proactive about chores. I've got him to do the bins, laundry, and dishes if they build up but most of the time I've already done them because I had the time. She just wants someone to keep on top of his house, she's very house proud and he needs looking after.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/18 09:36 AM
1	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base No he doesn't, he's by himself. He's had his own house for 3 years.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 07:39 PM
2	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base My heart isn't in studying anymore. I wanted to do a Phd after my bachelor's but I'm in my final year after 4 years and I'm so done with this education. I'm a 'mature' student and after another 4 years of phd I'll be near 30. A relationship has made me realise that I want marriage and kids and a stable job and not working 60hrs a week, stressed, and little income on a phd with no guaranteed job after, with my ovaries shrivelling away. I do agree though, I need to work on myself, make friends and…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 06:16 PM
1	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base I was abroad in Germany from the UK. I was working, had a shared apartment but it was so spaced out you wouldn't know it was shared. I made my own money, did my shopping, paid my rent, and was proud of my little space to call my own. Came back and I was still working but not being paid, in a new relationship (ltr while I was away), and back in with my parents. It was difficult to adjust. I loved making my own food, doing my own thing, and not living around other peoples routines. I found it real…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 06:10 PM
3	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base I do pick up after myself and I like to think I'm very neat. But when I've used dishes and he's left his there for two days running and I'm washing my own, I can't help but wash his because why not? Or because I use his shower everyday, I'd clean it once a week. I feel like it's courteous and polite as he's letting me use his house if I need to study, I'm using his heating, electric, and some of his food so I like to contribute something back. I don't know, maybe it is all too much. If we argue …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 05:32 PM
3	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base Yeah, you're right. It hurts though. We've talked about the future so much, about marriage, children, and how its going to be. He's just as eager and happy about the future as I am. He likes to call me his 'wifey' and talks about imagining me with his kids etc etc. When I talk about this stuff he doesn't hide or avoid the topics but gets really into it. It's all big promises and he says he's committed but I guess when it comes down to it maybe it's just to keep me hanging around because I'm an e…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 05:23 PM
5	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base My parents miss me and want to see me more. This is going to sound bad but sometimes I just can't tolerate being with them and need my own alone time. They remind me that they're getting older and will be needing support soon which I feel I can't give them, I'm an only child so much pressure. I want to be thinking about starting my own family instead. I spent time abroad by myself and felt good and supported myself and had my own place and I've felt a bit trapped since I came back. I don't have …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 05:14 PM
2	Split between his house and parents home, I'm feeling lost, tired, and no secure base He has his own house and his been living there for 3 years. Before I started sleeping over his mum would come over and clean and wash and iron his shirts etc. So yeah... make of that what you will. She still asks him if I'm doing things like his washing or ironing his work shirts to make sure her little cherub is being treated right.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 04:50 PM
1	Free Friday - February 24, 2017 Kim Woodburn's view on women. She's hilarious and tells it straight.	/r/RedPillWives	24/02/17 10:29 PM
3	We hit 15k members! Lurkers and newbies come out and say "hi"! Hello, I'm a lurker. I've been lurking since July. Since I've found the RPW I've been on here every day soaking up information and wanting more and more. I'm 24 and I've only had one messed up relationship (LDR) that lasted nearly 5 years during my teenage years. It's been just over 5 years since we broke up (it was a messy break up so I needed a lot of time to get over it) and I'm ready to find another relationship. Hopefully with the help of this sub I can do that. I'm a mature undergrad stude…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/16 11:04 PM