Enjianah Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Back to Basics September: A Good Relationship Is Built In The Bedroom Are you able to have intimate moments with your husband outside of sex too? I heard someone recount she told her husband that if he wanted to have sex in the evening, he should start seducing her in the morning like mental preliminary? so I definitely agree with your point number 2?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/24 12:02 AM
4	This subreddit might change my life Could you start fixing things outside the house, in like hobbys, thus giving him the chance do to more at home ? Start with something small " Babe, I'm so tired/overwhelmed/busy/yourchoiceofword; would it be ok to let you take care of X this time ? " "Thank you so much +Kiss/Hug/Big Smile/Sign of appreciation and affection". Then don't touch that thing unless it's on fire. Don't even remind him. When it's done, notice it, appreciate it out loud. Repeat in different area. Hopefully he will start …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/24 04:20 AM
–	“Male friend” advice please!!!!!! You should stop with the better than you attitude. Then you'll realize that (at least in that situation) you're just a people pleaser you can't even say no to people you internally put down. And you internally put them down because that's probably the only way you can feel some kind of power - power you don't have in real life since you can't say no. Right now you're distracting yourself from that fact by trying to find what were that guy's intention, when it doesn't matter. What matters is lear…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/24 07:37 AM
17	Is this guy a red flag? You are talking about red flags, when you should be thinking of compatibility. This guy wants to have freaky sex, and you don't. Do you really need to expend and write so many words to come to the conclusion it won't work out ? Sometimes being direct and plainly honest rather than trying to analyze for hours to find excuses is more productive.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/24 10:48 AM
2	Spoiled life over 40 in bad circumstances: what would an RPW do? Thank you. In that case it seems a divorce will probably benefit both you and him : you, because from a romantic perspective you can only stay single just like you currently are (you don't seem to feel like you are in a relationship) or find someone else, even only slightly better or really better (even if you have to be the breadwinner in that new relationship, at least you would get some affection, so that's going up from your current situation) Him, because he can use this opportunity to find…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/24 02:08 PM
1	Spoiled life over 40 in bad circumstances: what would an RPW do? How is your current marriage different than a co-parenting situation? What would you win/lose in case of a divorce? Would he abandon his child ?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/24 09:23 AM
2	A comment I was about to post… now a separate post 😅 I feel the same applies to being so emotionally invested. Trying to please man, show you are such a wife material woman when he hasn't even asked for commitment has the same effect as using sex to get more from a random man.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/24 09:17 AM
3	Boyfriend (36m) is thinking of taking a sabbatical and start a business You have to decide what you would like your partner to be able to provide and see as his responsibility always. If you are satisfied with him financially providing on dates, and you financially providing for the rest (you did offer to support him financially - some would say that's mommy behavior as in I don't see you as capable of figuring things out by yourself ), he's the guy for you! Does he even know your expectations/desires ? Does he agree ?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/24 06:58 PM
3	Advice needed It sounds like you haven't been honest with him/didn't go deep enough (also he is currently away, correct? So you didn't talk face to face) Did the conversation include the following point ? I love you and would like to spend the rest of my life with you I deeply desire becoming a wife, a mother, and am very excited because given my age and biology, it has to happen quite soon! I'm one of my areas of focus At the moment, I'm still a single woman who has to support herself, pay all her bills, and…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/24 09:44 AM
5	Considering moving cities for my boyfriend? It seems there are some drawbacks if you move, so now's the time to negotiate! Your quality of life will decrease, how is he willing to compensate ? Will he give you some financial support? Will he do your groceries ? Does he know how to find you a nice place to stay at an affordable cost ? You might have heard one reason for discrepancies between men and women salaries, is that women don't negotiate as much as men. It's the same thing in relationships; right now, he's negotiating the condition …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/24 06:30 PM