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All of these problems would be solved if you stopped worrying about this shit in the first place. I never think about any of this shit. I can't even be fucked to deal with it, I will literally walk away from a conversation. It's up to you to decide what's bullshit or not. Your mindset has to change, and I can't change it for you. Are you willing to read up on this? It would help you a lot, and I don't have the time to explain inner game to you. But seriously, stop worrying about this shit and go…
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:15 PM
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Yes, and yes A key that can open any lock is more valuable than a lock that can be opened with any key
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 05:00 AM
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Bitches ain't shit bro You are the only thing that matters. Focus on improving yourself, doing the things that are going to make you happy in the long run. I read this, and I see a ton of confusion and over-thinking. You're frustrated and disillusioned. That's fine. But you should get your emotions sorted out before you even think about game. I have a couple general points to make: Don't let yourself get your panties up in a bunch over basic bitches Never treat a what a woman says the same way y…
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:48 AM
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You need to talk to someone
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:55 AM
1

You're heading down a really messy, fucked up path. There's no way this is going to work out well for either of you unless you grow a pair and talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:08 AM
2

Dude, be a man, talk to the bitch. She's not a fucking child, she can handle it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:04 AM
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Please do not make this assumption. It can be true, but often isn't.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 11:01 PM
7

Man, I exercise all the fucking time and lift big, I eat super clean, and I mediate twice a day. I still have crippling anxiety that makes it difficult to function in my day to day life. I don't understand why you think I should just suffer instead of going on medication. That's kinda messed up.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:24 PM
1

You're overthinking it
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:28 AM
19

Sounds familiar. When you feel it, you just have to embrace that feeling instead of running away from it. It's powerful and leads to sexual tension more often than not.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:02 AM
1

Read this: https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:34 AM
1

You need to talk to someone
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:27 PM
6

https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-4 Is this in the sidebar? I'm on mobile so I can't find out. Anyways, it's my favorite source of rp truth. Also, The Blueprint Decoded is amazing if you can get past Tyler's ghastly haircut.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:23 PM
2

Holy shit that would be unbelievable fucking terrible
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:16 AM
2

Still a bitch for Kim though
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:13 AM
26

Yeah, but a lot of us are nerds at heart just pretending to be outgoing and confident, and we're fighting our own natures.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:28 AM
8

Unicorns, if they exist, always swallow.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:23 AM
1

You're not polarizing. I don't have the time to explain in detail, but basically, you need to push her boundaries just enough to find out if she's into you or not.
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:38 PM
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What the fuck is this girl doing, sitting alone on some random dude's couch? Girls don't just hang out at random dude's houses because they like taking to them. At least not in my experience. If you are alone with a chick at your pad, unless you are already friends, she is preparing to make a decision, based on whether you continue to turn her on or not. But seriously, a girl would have to be pretty dumb to go to some random dude's apartment solely to have a conversation.
/r/seduction09/12/16 03:18 PM
3

Exactly. Leg swings and arm circles are your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 05:23 AM
2

In the same vein of rsd videos, the blueprint decoded is a great overall seduction guide that's worth watching multiple times.
/r/seduction12/11/16 05:24 PM
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Check out the blueprint decoded. I learned more watching that vid than I did reading a shitload of seddit posts.
/r/seduction12/11/16 05:22 PM
1

That's cool man, I wasn't trying to insult your living situation. I had a couple twin bed hookups in high school. They get the job done. You seem like you're not new to the game, but I thought I might mention that mindfulness really helps in a situation like this; having no expectations or preferred results, just being in the moment.
/r/seduction12/11/16 05:18 PM
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Man, I haven't dealt with this type of thing since high school, and it sucked; girls getting texts from their moms to come home right in the middle of making out. If I can recommend anything, it would be something like a Sunday morning brunch and then a walk afterwards. That way you can build up some sexual tension and then head back to your pad in the late afternoon and make use of your tiny ass bed.
/r/seduction12/11/16 04:50 PM
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I was a fat fuck at 6', 210lbs and I was lifting at the time. Now I'm 190 and doing macros and I still have a bit of excess fat.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 03:17 AM
2

Yeah the audio is fine, he uses a board for some shit, but 95% is just him talking. Also, for a different perspective check out Models by Mark Manson. Really good stuff.
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:08 AM
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Also, if you have the time, watch all twenty-something hours of "the blueprint decoded." Just search that on YouTube, someone put it up in parts. It's life-changing shit.
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:21 AM
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I get that this night is lit af, but the "best night of the year" mentality is toxic for someone who actually has shit to do.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:06 AM
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Damn man, sounds like you've been feeling with some rough shit lately. It's good to have some sort of community to help you out. Just remember-bitches will come and go, the only thing you can rely on is yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 11:57 PM
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Yeah, it seems like there was a huge influx of teenagers a while back. I can kind of dismiss the rants, some people need that to get past the anger phase. But holy shit are there some pathetic motherfuckers on here.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 07:05 PM
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Just when I think this sub has gone to shit I get a post like this. Spot on, bro.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 11:24 PM
1

Man, it's hard to finally get it through your head that what you think you're missing out on is a shit ton of drama, possible std's, manipulation and frustration. As great as it is to fuck a gorgeous woman, there's a huge can of worms of bullshit involved.
/r/seduction24/10/16 07:09 PM
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Sluts are children. There are plenty of adult women out there. And what's this shit about it being "too subtle"? What does that even mean?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:18 AM
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Man, you need to talk to someone about this shit, even if it makes you bawl your eyes out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:02 AM
2

This. It's incredibly easy to see the world as either a hostile or welcoming place, but it's difficult to let it exist and see good and bad as the illusions they are. I need to start meditating more often...
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 11:16 PM
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A side note about the "too much sex" thing: A sore pussy is definitely a thing. But she will let you know. If a girl is really into you, I can't see that running dry unless you do something really unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 02:50 PM
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It means touching.
/r/seduction09/10/16 05:05 AM
2

This takes me back. I remember when this sub was about being a man and not giving a fuck, not being a horny keyboard jockey.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:58 PM
4

This is basically what I came here to say. What happened to this sub? It seems like it's half teenagers nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 08:55 PM
1

If you aren't physically escalating, this is worth a read: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction14/09/16 04:16 PM
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If it's worth it to you to hang out with women who are shitty people who insult you without a hint of humor, then that's your choice. But from my experience, women who aren't garbage don't insult you for controlling, manipulative reasons.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 09:43 PM
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Dude, what kind of fucked up chicks are you hanging out with?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 09:36 PM
3

I'm gonna spend some time on askwomen and post some content on Monday
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:14 PM
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9 times out if 10, when I talk to strangers, I get at least a decent conversation out of it. Unless the person is painfully awkward, I usually have a positive view of them afterwards. All it takes is asking someone how their day was, or giving an honest response to, "how are you". When you get used to talking to everyone you encounter and saying hi to random strangers, your game will get better way faster than if you just approach hb's.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:12 PM
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Yeah, I haven't been to Japan, and I have read the culture there is becoming more westernized every year, so I wouldn't doubt that. Do people really post pictures of their rice cookers as their profile pics on dating sites?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 03:51 AM
1

I didn't really read into that, so thanks for clarifying. Obviously, it's hard to be a productive member of society when you're independently wealthy, but that doesn't stop him from going to music school or starting a band, if guitar is his passion.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:05 PM
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That's definitely true. I've heard my fair share of horror stories.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:02 PM
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Yeah, but I think most people would say that after you get married. Most people, at least in my opinion, would discourage anyone from having a kid after being with someone for less than a year and not being married.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:01 PM
1

I guess I missed that. It still seems like this guy doesn't really have goals in life. While that's not the reason Hamster McGreedybitch dumped him, not having goals or wanting to meet new people makes it seem like this guy is either hiding his passions from his 10 month SO, or simply has no desire to improve the quality of his life.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:58 PM
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He doesn't even have to spend the actual money when he makes bank off the interest.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:06 PM
7

Name the subtitles file the same thing as the video file
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:04 PM
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As much as this sub doesn't really talk about it, part of an ltr is having common goals, and this guy doesn't seem to have any goals whatsoever besides playing guitar and consuming huge amounts of media. She didn't mention that he was in a band or performed ever. It seems like this guy has as many issues as his ex. And no career-minded woman would date him, since he has very little energy. He probably doesn't exercise. Unless this dude is seriously pursuing a career as a guitarist, it doesn't se…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:01 PM
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I don't know; in Japan, for example, it's a cultural taboo to post selfies. And a lot of eastern cultures view social media as encouraging arrogance and cultural dissolution(which it is)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:50 PM
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But then that's actually people communicating face to face, most of whom would not advise someone to have a child within a year of meeting someone because she's jealous.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:47 PM
61

epidemic of gold digging whores Have you seen Bill Burr's stand-up?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:44 PM
5

She has an attention-giving machine right in front if her that will validate her no matter what, it seems like the point of this story is she doesn't need a man for attention per se because of facebook. Sounds like she just isn't that attracted to her husband. The only solution to this is self improvement, making your life so awesome that she knows if she doesn't fuck you someone else will at least want to.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:34 PM
3

Exactly. I've never had a girl that was attracted to me deny me sex except for purely physical reasons. Most women desire nightly sex, and most evidence points to the fact that a healthy ltr should involve nightly sex. If your partner doesn't want sex on a nightly basis, she either isn't attracted to you as much as she should be, or has some sort of hormonal issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:28 PM
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I'm personally not a fan of outer game, although that's fucking awesome if it works for you, you can now satisfy half of male desires. However, I find that being in the moment is more effective for me, and helps me be in touch with my emotions when I'm talking to a girl. I find this helps me find someone who is more intellectually and emotionally compatible with me, as opposed to just sexually.
/r/seduction07/10/15 05:02 AM
9

Dude, come on, very few people in this sub say or believe that. I can't stand feminism, but men are at least as fucked up as women.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 04:26 PM
12

Every thing you say to a woman gets translated into feels before she hears it. Its the feels shes responding to, not you. If you learn nothing else from trp you'll be solid.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 04:17 PM
3

As someone who has contemplated suicide, I'm sorry you have such a shitty world view. Call him a fucking idiot if you want, vent your anger on his inferior beta-ness, but realize that beyond the red pill, everyone's going through the same basic struggle. Trp is great, but if it's your sole guide in life it's easy to be a shitty person.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:11 PM
1

Dude every time you say I'll be ready to start learning game soon but not now, you're screwing yourself over and just making excuses. Get out there. It doesn't matter what you look like. An overweight true natural will get way more pussy than a beta Adonis.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:05 AM
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Read: Woman who isn't attracted to you simply doesn't have a sense of humor. In a perfect alpha frame, women that aren't attracted to you don't exist in your reality-they don't have a sense if humor, or they're boring, or they're too sensitive.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 02:56 AM
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That's not funny! I'll kill you!
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:22 PM
13

To add to that, if you're black, wear glasses. Seriously. It will completely change the way people react to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:57 AM
3

I think you just accidentally responded to an /r/askscience thread...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:52 AM
8

Pickup is essentially conversations, really getting to know someone, then trying to get them to give you pussy. Ftfy
/r/seduction09/08/14 10:06 PM
5

That's what I thought, until I realized he's like 14.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:22 AM
15

Dude you should never promise a girl an exclusive relationship if you don't want one. You should never have flat-out lie to a girl. Period.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:16 PM
19

After watching the blueprint decided I can say that most of these criticisms don't apply to Tyler's philosophy at all.
/r/seduction23/06/14 10:23 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:01 PM
5

Tease her about really minor shit too. She had cheerrios for breakfast? "Who the fuck eats cheerios for breakfast? I eat 13 eggs and and a whole chicken every morning!" If you have a decent sense of humor you can make anything about her life hilarious. Once she's laughing, it's a lot easier to connect on a deeper level later. But keep it light at first.
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:00 PM
7

Fucking cold reading bro. She tells you something about herself, you say "wow, that means you're free-thinking and you value you own thoughts on things over others." Good cold readers have hundereds of vague character readings that apply to almost everyone. Read a horoscope for some basic ideas. Exchange stories about emotion. Comment on how other people were feeling in her stories. Never give here advice or intellectual analysis. Remember, women don't want you to solve their problems. They want…
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:47 PM
2

Wat
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:22 AM
4

Once you get comfortable with this you can mix in piercing eye contact and kino, and panties will be wet.
/r/seduction05/05/14 01:50 AM
12

Think about the way you act around your homies-you mess with them, tease them, say what's on your mind, pretend to get pissed, whatever you're like personally. Try treating girls like bros you want to fuck. Seriously. Bust their balls constantly. Stop giving a fuck whether they like you and just playfully fuck with them. Eventually you will learn calibration, but starting out, it helps a lot to have that mindset.
/r/seduction04/05/14 09:02 PM
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My reaction would be, "Use you? At no point in this relationship have I been dishonest with my intentions, and you have the ability to end this whenever you want. If you are uncomfortable with this relationship, then we can discuss it, but I have not used you in any way." Subtext: "Stop lying to yourself."
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:15 PM
1

I think women are sociopathic and manipulative by default. They only treat alpha men differently because alphas will see right through their bullshit and dump their sorry asses. They have no power over a man with options and are therefore forced to be nice to him.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:53 PM
1

He brought this upon himself by being a beta codependent without any boundaries. He is allowing his wife to ruthlessly take advantage of him and believes her ridiculous backwards rationalizing/hamstering. He is looking to her to solve all his problems instead of being a man. He has no spine, and would probably agree to whatever his wife told him to do, even if it was against his personal values. He has no self esteem or personal boundaries. He finds out his wife is cheating, that's fine too want…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:48 PM
5

What about rape culture on college campuses?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:45 PM
19

I second this.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:57 PM
1

If you're willing to put in that much dedication, then who am I to judge?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 01:29 AM
1

Indeed. It comes from 90s pickup stuff, so yeah, pretty archaic...
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:34 AM
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Except that, in Ghandi's case, he liberated India, directly influenced MLK, and single-handedly created the peaceful protest. So ya. Call it sappy if you want. Edit: that quote is attributed to Ghandi
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:52 AM
3

Be the change you wish to see in the world --Ghandi
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:47 AM
1

You're missing the point...
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:44 AM
3

too much of anything is a bad thing Yep, bitch attitude.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:38 AM
3

No, she didn't mean physically unhealthy. She meant unhealthy because it's "addictive behavior", which is inarguably bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:32 AM
1

It depends what type of cardio you do.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:27 AM
2

Holy shit. This is pure RP theory. It should be in the fucking sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 08:15 PM
2

I think that there is a definite psychic aspect of one's gender. I don't think the collective subjective determination of gender can possibly define the actual gender that someone is, because I think part of gender is a psychosocial projection of sexual energy. That is why many gay men seem feminine and many gay women seem masculine. This is independent from the genetic binary definition of gender. I would like to think that race is analogous in this situation. If someone us born black but then …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 07:52 AM
2

3) legal unity That's why.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:33 AM
1

This. The second you think, "okay, I'm approaching this girl in order to game her", you will fall on your face. Show the girl you don't give a fuck what she thinks of you and she will have to work for your approval. The trick to cold approach is to be self amused and able to laugh at how ridiculous what you are doing is. And not giving a fuck goes without saying.
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:48 AM
1

I'm sorry who is this? That's it. She's not interested. She fucking knows who you are. You should have stopped texting her immediately. There's no such thing as text game. She's either interested or she's not.
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:35 AM
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It's all in all your head. Seriously. Keep frame and escalate. Don't even think about it when girls say that. Would you even give it a thought if you were constantly fucking extremely attractive women? No. Because it's not even remotely important for your game. it's all on your head. Just remember, there is no spoon.
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:27 AM
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I'm going to try this--looking people in the eye until they break eye contact, next time I'm at the mall or something, and say hi to people who hold contact. It sounds like it would be very beneficial for frame control and inner game. Thanks op! I hope you medal!
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:07 AM
3

For #1-4, I think the reason these work is because you are outcome independent, and your body language etc. communicates low investment in the interaction. A way to do this is to approach with the mentality of "I wonder what she's like" instead of "I wonder if she likes me." When you communicate this attitude of not giving a too much of a fuck, you will have people qualifying themselves to you. This is a main aspect of social confidence. 5&6 are basic rapport-building tools. These are great, but…
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:39 AM
16

"Hey, that girl's cute!" RAPE CULTURE!!!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 11:47 PM
0

I disagree. It is a good book to read of you want to have your ideas challenged and for having arguments with conservatives
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 04:52 AM
2

A way to practice this is by paying attention to what you say when you talk to a really good friend of yours who you feel comfortable opening up to. You will find yourself talking in statements and sharing how you feel about things honestly. Think about treating her like that, and physically escalating.
/r/seduction29/01/14 09:11 PM
1

Honestly, that comes off as a little pathetic. If you get that reaction, then you are trying to escalate too much in your text game. If you get that in person, then you need to work on your physical escalation and reading of interest. I recommend this: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-vt16552.html
/r/seduction29/01/14 12:28 AM
1

Exactly. Just be low key and confident about it. Just tell her you're gonna get some friends together and would she like to come? Preferably invite her to something with people you know you vibe with well and are fun, preferably a good mix of guys and girls. If she flakes, she flakes. Next time you see her treat her like one of your friends, and at some point, if she gives you signals, then break away from the group. Just keep everything low key. You came to hang with your friends, catch up and …
/r/seduction04/01/14 12:50 PM
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Work on being friendly/charming and your sense of humor. Don't try to "game" anyone. You have a perfect opportunity to interact with many diverse, interesting people. Crack light jokes, be friendly and outgoing, and GIVE OFF STRONG POSITIVE EMOTIONAL VIBES TO EVERYONE YOU MEET!! Try to get each table you visit feeling good. Become that awesome, funny, charming bus boy who connects with people and greets returning customers like old friends. Be legitimately interested in people!! If you build it,…
/r/seduction04/01/14 12:32 PM
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