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Word? Is that a thing? Kinda funny that I musta been just completely unexposed to that idea til now lol. Not too surprising, but funny for sure Now I'm curious what other examples of "social legitimacy" there are (and how many of them that I've been oblivious to)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:21 PM
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And, amusingly, I feel like people that say "fuck that" are FAR less likely to kill me if I am alone with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:44 PM
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Of course, what is this social "social legitimacy"? It is the collective manifest of peer pressure. The unwritten but effectively codified set of behaviors, actions, and views that makes an individual a functioning member of the community/society/culture. Throw out some examples so I get a better idea of what you're referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:42 PM
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Because you hog everything and project your sexuality too much onto us so we don't get a chance. Hmm, care to elaborate? What are we hogging? What do you mean we project our sexuality onto women? And how does that prevent you from being able to tell us what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:25 PM
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Not entirely sure what "gender ideology" is but I guess I have a general idea.. It’s amazing people are free to be who they truly are now. Always have been, always will be Would you be open to dating trans women/men and nonbinary people who are free from cisgender norms? Date? Nah. Fuck? Hell yeah. But we're all "free from cisgender norms," not just trans people Why would anyone choose to be cisgender anyway nowadays. Do you mean like "why would a man choose to act masculine/manly just because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:14 PM
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If the past didn't matter, we wouldn't have history class. Next question!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:02 PM
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Or that not everyone lives the same sort of life nor everyone is promoted to live the same sort of life. Of course, I know that. But what are the alternatives? Not everyone knows the signs for one. And two these men learn to entice women. Wouldn't that mean that women can't easily spot male abusers? lol While true women are less likely to be physical than men when it comes to abuse. I'd bet good money that the opposite is true. Women can be physically abusive and feel pretty comfortable that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:50 PM
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How did men invented it? Huh.. how old are you and where are you from? lol I guess I always I thought that was basically the default life plan for men? You whore around through your 20s and you find someone to settle down with once you've got yourself decently established (buy a house, car, decent job, that sorta shit). Have things changed on me? Male abusers are easily spotted by men and women That's what I really thought, but then how do you explain the women who date/marry these dudes? But ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:20 PM
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Basically the same thing men have been wondering since the beginning of time. In short.. "what do women want?" + "why don't they just tell us what they want?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:00 AM
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Funny seeing I never ran into them. Granted I don't seek such things, but I doubt its that many though. I admit, I did seek them out lol So the male verison of women who slept around and/or party in their 20's and now want to settle down in their 30's. Well yeah, we kinda invented that shit, didn't we? Not sure if it's funny or sad watching women do the same shit they've always condemned men for.. You often don't hear women saying that, its much more "he owed me a baby as he promised me bla bla …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:35 AM
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Tell me you don't understand how post partum psychosis works without telling me? If you're not in the medical field and haven't worked with women and patients like this daily then you don't understand enough about these conditions to comment on them so concretely. I understand how psychosis works and I assume they're pretty similar. Have you experienced psychosis yourself? Or just worked with the people? Actually, there is a reason, she's 5 months post partum. Women can be diagnosed up to one ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:51 AM
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If the medical field says that this woman isn't to blame for slapping her baby then fuck the medical field, they're WRONG Not to mention, there's no particular reason to believe this woman is suffering from any sort of "mental health condition," y'all just jump straight into saying that must be the case because why? You don't want her to just be the bad guy? THAT is the most likely explanation for what she did, not "postpartum psychosis." SHE'S JUST A CUNT. 1,000,000:1 odds on it, the lady is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:35 AM
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Would you prefer to have a single monogamous sexual relationship for your entire life with somebody you loved but only found moderately attractive. Or would be prefer to have an endless supply of causal sex with people you found extremely attractive but never formed an emotional bound with? By far I would prefer the monogamous relationship with someone I love. My dad always told me "IT'S ALL PINK ON THE INSIDE!" And it may sound lame and romantic but I will always find someone I love to be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:21 AM
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Most likely that is the case According to who? Because according to me, that is most likely NOT the case.. Would you say this was the most likely conclusion if it was a man hitting the kid instead of a woman? but sleep deprivation and PPD/PPP can make you do things you don't mean to do. Things you're not aware you're doing. Bullshit. Been there, done that. Bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:04 AM
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It's awful to see someone so broken and harshly blamed for something they didn't mean to do.....they need help, not criticism. Sooo this woman didn't mean to hit her kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:54 PM
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Sex isn't ABOUT bonding, sex is about fucking. But sex is one of the best ways to bond with someone, yeah No I didn't realize that after I lost my virginity.. I realized it way before that. Everyone knows that, right? I asked my friend about it and he said "guys don't want to believe sex is about bonding" I think I see what y'all are talking about. Like saying men don't want to believe that we fall in love with people we are having sex with? That does seem to be true, but then again, women don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:13 PM
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That's probably the origin of patriarchy, yes. It's unfortunate, if one is a woman, because it means constantly taking the full blame for situations that were only 20% your fault, or even 0% your fault, just because it is politically difficult to control the other man. One can understand how this feels unfair to many women. You think so? I'm definitely not with you on this one lol. If anything, the percentages are reversed. There would be no guy to worry about if the woman would just tell him to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:05 PM
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Jesus was cool, but he ended on the cross. That's what concerns me here. Don't be afraid I'm not sure if I understood you correctly, but I'm really confused about "back and forth" part. Where do you get that? I meant that you treat people well until they mistreat you. Then you'll free to treat them accordingly, because they're clearly hostile towards you. Not like you should be manipulative from the get-go, quite the contrary, at least that's what I was talking about. Because if you're response …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:57 PM
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I'm not religious. As for helping anything, it might help your survival. I'm not religious either, but that doesn't mean I can't agree with something Jesus said As for helping anything, it might help your survival. How? I'd say, if anything, it's going to hurt your chances of survival. If you keep going back and forth with someone, things are probably going to keep escalating until some real shit happens, wouldn't you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:00 PM
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I bet you have, but not in the manner you think. No one really outright admits to being abusive. They will more admit to doing things but frame it like they had to do it or that it was justified. There's whole youtube channels of men talking about how they used to be abusive and how they're trying to recover. But I didn't really mean "abusive" so much as just mistreating (though people don't seem to differentiate nowadays) Basically, you hear from men all the time about how they used to be a pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:50 PM
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Well, that's not what Jesus would have you do. Jesus said: “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I say to you, do not show opposition against an evil person; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other toward him also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak also. Whoever forces you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you. Also, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:40 PM
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The article you linked gives several explanations. I have no idea why someone would lie on a survey, but people are dumb as shit so I guess it wouldn't surprise me that much if a lot of people lied I'm kind of surprised that they say men are the ones that tend to give an approximation. I thought we were the ones that literally made notches in our bedposts? How disappointing ​ Second, If anything you would think the numbers would rank in at the same rate. But why wouldn't they? Do more guys have …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:23 PM
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Okay, join the club of people who deny facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:08 PM
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Is any of that what I said? I believe the phrase "suck my balls" is appropriate here..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:07 PM
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But you're wrong. You gotta go ask some old bitches about this shit and you'll see. I'm tellin' ya boss, take a classic porno scene right? Say a plumber is at the woman's house to fix something and her husband is at work all day. She answers the door in a robe, and.. well you know the rest of the story. So whose fantasy is that? The man or the woman? If you don't believe that it can be the woman, lemme tell ya, I got an ex girlfriend who lived that exact fantasy out. While she was 8-9 months pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:06 PM
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"What? No, some people are are assholes and will take advantage of anyone, I don't really see the point here." So his answer is yes? lol. That's the point, right there. And yes, your husband is a fucking phony beyond all belief. You'll find out at some point years down the road. He knows he's bullshitting you, and there's a reason he's telling you to stop talking to (insert slur here) :) Sleep tight
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:57 PM
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You're right in saying that women aren't anymore complex or intricate than men are, but they are still very different from us lol. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:39 PM
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Your husband is a complete and total phony, just so you know. Shall we make a thread taking a poll or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:14 PM
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Women generally feel like it's off-putting the way men are attracted to them on the surface, by and large No they fucking don't. Stop letting them lie to you. They love it. If you had your hand down their pants during this shit, you would feel their pussy get wet. Don't let them fool you! The shit that men project onto women. How men watch porn. How almost any man would happily accept a free blowjob from a supermodel for no reason whatsoever. It's all weird for women Nope. They understand And me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:02 PM
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I just can’t believe that the overwhelming majority of women would mean the world we live in is much darker than I would like to believe It is, that's what I'm trying to tell you lol. And it gets to carry on, partly because people just "wouldn't like to believe it" We aren’t married yet, but where we live all the benefits of marriage apply to de facto couples as well so I could even ask him the same Question but geared to ltrs because they have same rights here. I will, we often have discussion …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:53 PM
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Well then, give it a go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:46 PM
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I already said there are some no good women I have not contested that and also conceded some men get shifted. How did you take what I said as me defending them? There is clearly a communication barrier and I see it all the time but I literally don’t understand where you think I was defending she devil women Because you're not admitting that the whole thing is shifted in favor of women, and that women are overwhelming taking advantage of this. And that they're taking advantage of decent men, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:02 PM
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Why can't you just stop it and see it for what it is? It's not speculation on percentages. We all know what's going on. Stop it. Can't you just shed your female skin for a fuckin second and empathize with what men are going through? Aren't you married? Don't you think your husband would appreciate you being able to do that? Even if it's just for one day out of y'all's lives? I'M RIGHT. I don't care that I'm right, that's not the point. I just am right, why can't you just stop and say "wow, bitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:50 PM
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I am not talking about being overly emotional but simply opening up. What I meant was that women tend to be overly emotional (as far as I can tell), and should be held to higher standards, because no one wants to live with that, not even from a child Not putting up with their behavior and demand they do better. This of course means willing to walk when they aren't doing better. But even not even seeing them again after the first day if they say don't even thank you for paying,as after all women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:43 PM
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You are correct! Next question!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:31 PM
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Treated in the following ways, belittling or bringing down their confidence or self esteem, emotional/mental abuse or physical abuse, infidelity, anger issues Do you think there's no way of stopping this? Nope as a child of divorce seeing my parents fight was awful and when they divorced of course I wanted them to stay together what child would understand the complexities behind a relationship plus all the Disney shows had married parents How sad. Best to get it out of the way young rather than …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:29 PM
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Hey, don't ask me, ask Jesus. It was all his idea But really, naw not exactly what you said. It's just that we should do what is right in all situations, regardless of circumstances. Now, what is "right," doesn't mean that you should be "a rug to step on" or someone who defers to being everyone's bitch. I don't think that is what Jesus did :) Just to be clear, I'm an atheist and always have been, I just don't know any other quick and easy way to explain it to everyone. Go out and try it for your…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:14 PM
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Erm no women don’t file for divorce and assume they will be in a better position they believe they will be in a healthier situation albeit quite possible a less financially secure position. So you're going to be cute and say that women leave because they assume they will be in a "healthier" position, not a "better" one? That's fine, but FOR WHO? Are they thinking "this will be a healthier position for me, for my husband, and for our child(ren)?" Many women leave because of they way they are trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:57 AM
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I know what you mean but at the same time I can't really help it. Trust me, I've tried dipping my toes into the evil water that women seem to swim in, and I get nothing good out of it, just sick to my stomach I don't blame any man who gets back at a woman who did him wrong though. Just don't punish the next girls for what an evil bitch did in your past Women all the time go on how they are doing the emotional labor but then whine about men not opening up Straight up bullshit of course. Men are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:37 AM
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Okay. So it leaves the man with ~60-80% of his usual income and ~10-20% of the usual amount of time that he would have with his kid(s). So who has it better? Let's go from there, eh? Odds are between 70 and 90% that the woman is the one who filed for divorce (depending on her education level, apparently). So 70-90% of the time, I would assume the woman believes she will be in a better position somehow after the divorce, right? Most important of all, the woman is going to end up with the children…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:17 AM
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Child support isn't. And who is better off really? A woman with a house mostly paid off, receiving child support and working part time? Or a man paying rent and working full time? Now how might it appear on paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:21 AM
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It's just safety I suppose. Like, at least they weren't the one that was supposed to "step up" but didn't/couldn't do it I only came up with this idea because of my own thought process regarding women "Oh, that girl is doing really well? Ahh, I don't want to get involved with her then, I'll just fuck her life up.." But the girl who is in the process of fucking her life up, it's like "I know what she's going through, and I could save her from having to experience all of that" Course my life's goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:10 AM
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Because of what they have to report in order to keep receiving government benefits on top of what they receive from their ex-husbands. Aka THEY'RE LYING. A woman receiving alimony can have a man move in with her as long as she doesn't marry him (I'm not judging, I'd do the same shit) There's no way that a man gets a better deal in a divorce than a woman that has kids. No way, not fucking ever in a million years. NEVER. So if a man does end up doing better than the woman after the divorce, it's e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:52 AM
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You know, I'm pretty I'm sure I'm on your team here, OP, but.. where's all the women telling this guy that he is wrong? Not just this guy and not just this sub, but all across the internet it seems. Sure it could be that we just see the worst of the worst, but god damn it if it don't seem real!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:46 AM
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That is factually untrue. Also those two things sort of go hand in hand. If you believe women aren't funny and men are then that pretty much concludes you associate humour with men, and masculinity is qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men (actual dictionary definition there). And that's why I put the "lol" at the end :) Also IQ is one measure of intelligence. I think I read that the highest I.Q was held by a woman however I cannot confirm that. Also there's more women in coll…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:38 AM
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I guess to me there's a difference between "women aren't funny" and "funny is a masculine trait." Because well.. everyone knows that women aren't funny lol And as of recently (supposedly), men really are more intelligent than women. By a few IQ points, at that! But regardless, I don't associate either trait with masculinity. Nor do I see sensitive and gentle as a feminine trait. Where would I be if my dad wasn't sensitive or gentle? How can a man be a good father if he isn't sensitive and gentle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:49 AM
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Bleh. Since no women ever seem to want to explain it, I guess I'll do my best to make sense of this shit for us guys. You're way overthinking it, of course. I may not know every detail, but I'll at least get you on the right track First of all, forget all the masculinity/femininity shit, it means nothing. Women want bad boys because they don't want to be alone, and they want to get some dick, but they're afraid of or they're "not ready" for a serious relationship. It's as simple as that. That's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:31 AM
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Yeah I know. I guess I was just asking "what are the stereotypes for masculinity/femininity?" I live under a rock, you see. Also I'm trying to make sure that I'm seeing a woman who is saying that "funny," and "sharper intellect" are masculine traits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:11 AM
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Which of those traits is masculine and which is feminine? I'm lost
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:04 AM
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If you put femininity and masculinity on a scale, then men with higher IQs would fall closer to the center of that scale (meaning they are more feminine). Same deal for women with higher IQs; they'll fine closer to the center, aka more masculine These same men tend to be more attracted to.. yep, women that are closer to the center of the scale. And of course, the reverse is true as well (less so though, strangely. But still true) Course I'm talking about looks only. I only just noticed the list …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:55 AM
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Funny because I've actually heard people talking about their bf/gf saying shit like "we do our own thing, we can't talk all the time because they're very successful and very busy, you know?" And you can fucking hear the sadness in their voice when they say it, but they seem to believe it.. And it's just become acceptable to a lot of people from what I can tell. It's a sickness, that's how I've come to think of it. Shameless, selfish fucking people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:49 AM
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Welcome to 2022, where apparently this is the norm.. Where people are so busy that they don't even have the space in their mind just to LISTEN to someone talk about anything more serious than the weather Ahh but one day, for the right person they will of course do that (so they say). What they don't realize is that it is impossible for them to find "the right person" unless they give people the "mindspace" first. That's how you get to know people. That's how people fall in love. That's how this …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:33 AM
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I tell my boys that if a woman describes herself as “strong, independent and opinionated” run and don’t look back because there is nothing but misery for them with that. I agree with this advice but not because a woman who is "strong, independent and opinionated" is a bad thing. It's because a woman who always feels the need to describe herself that way is almost guaranteed to be a bad thing. The same goes for anyone who seems to always be describing themselves one way or the other. Someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:04 AM
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Just because women can be cruel, selfish cunts doesn't mean we should be that way in return. Supposed to be the bigger person or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:52 AM
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INTERESTING🤔 Men dont want their daughters to be doormats like they want their wives to be. It's not that, it's that they know that they are not going to mistreat their wives, but they don't know how the men in their daughter's life will treat them They figure it's fine for their wives to be less independent because they know that their wife can depend on them. The same logic goes for all these traits Their thinking is flawed, of course, but I can see where they're coming from. I figure the idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:53 PM
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Really? I don't think guys think "I really love this girl therefore I am going to ask her to marry me!" I've never heard a guy talk that way before, at least. And I've never thought that way If my daughter was with a guy who proposed to her after being with her only a short amount of time, I would warn her to be careful of him lol. To me, that's a sign of a sketchy guy right there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:42 PM
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Just the thing about police, bosses, and teachers who regularly issue commands and expect to be obeyed. You say that you don't have to do what teachers tell you, but if they say "now we're going to take a test, so everyone please be quiet," you are supposed to do it. Imagine if half the class decided to talk during tests, to stay in their chairs when it was time to move to the next class, to keep writing on tests past the time limit, ... you get the idea. The classroom wouldn't work. That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:37 PM
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So you can't orgasm, even solo? You've tried using vibrators and whatnot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:04 PM
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How do you know that? Because he came? You don't know what was going on in his head though Rapists get off on fucking people who aren't enjoying it. The rest of us would rather have just masturbated instead..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:56 PM
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You see what I mean when I say a married man feels extra anxiety about making sure everything he says is said in the right way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:58 PM
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Your solution is to make her have more sex with you? Knowing she doesn’t enjoy it? This actually is the solution, by the way. I know people will read that and automatically take it in a bad way, but you gotta let go of that goofy shit. Practice makes perfect. Instead of giving up on sex because it wasn't amazing the very first time(s), you should realize that everything gets better with practice, and sex is no different And drop that mentality of having sex to please him even though you're not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:39 PM
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Well if you read my comment you would understand that is not at all our situation, since I was saying how we didn’t have kids. That was part of the point - that you can make your own marriage be how you want. We want ours childfree and egalitarian. Alimony is awarded in long term marriages (like over 10 yrs) if one partner doesn’t work and the other has been fully supporting them for a long time, which doesn’t apply to most divorces, that’s why it’s so rare (like 10%). I don’t see how getting ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:28 PM
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It puts him in a bad position? How so? Because divorce almost always favors the woman. It's to the point where almost all divorces are filed by the woman, yet women still end up with the children, half of all the assets, child support, and god forbid you live in an alimony state.. You know, once a man gets married he has to live with that anxiety 24 hours a day from then on. Now he has to be extra careful with what he says. Now he has to always be on top of his game when it comes to "making you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:43 PM
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As much as I disagree with Myron's and Sneakos and all of those guys takes. It's really fucking entertainment. Myron is a closet gay, by the way (you heard it here first :) ). Keep that in mind when you listen to the shit he preaches "Never be vulnerable with you girl. If you need to be vulnerable or cry, then go to a guy friend!" Sneako seems like a good kid though, he's just wrapped up in a group of phony, greedy and apparently influential "content creators." Every time I see a Sneako video I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:10 PM
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Do you remember what you wrote? Not exactly but I know I woulda went as extreme as possible. Prolly something like "why you even think I would go out with you. I don't even LIKE you" lol. Ahh well, woops The whole idea sounded like it woulda been funny, but I think maybe in a movie or something, not real life. Then they could just throw a pie in her face when she's crying and everyone will laugh and things will be happy again, yay Do you think this will change with time? Oh yeah, of course. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:00 PM
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In women’s brains, it’s “I love him so much, I want his babies!” I hear a woman say this to me and my brain says "ahh right.. I believed she actually loved me but she just wants babies. Same as all the other ones.." Even worse when she says some creepy ass shit like "I want a baby with your smile!" Then I'm thinking "is that the reason she started talking to me in the first place? Has this been in her head since before we even spoke to each other?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:04 PM
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Lmao. Did you tell her she can induce lactation without actually ever having been pregnant? Pft, are you kidding me? Of course she told me all about it. Yes, like the wet nurses in tribes in Africa, and apparently hippie ladies living in communes.. a well respected position I've heard everything there is to hear about babies and pregnancy. I think she and I are both certified doulas or some shit Jokes aside, I think I was genuinely jealous. I felt that he must have loved her more if he was willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:22 PM
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Nothin. I mean, I could come up with a bunch of ways this guy coulda handled his specific situation better, and I think I coulda prevented this from happening.. that night. But when you're with a crazy bitch like this, it's always going to be a possibility, no matter how much you try and prevent it Instead of spending all your mental energy worrying about how you're going to prevent something like this from happening, what you ought to be doing is mentally preparing yourself for if (when) it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:00 PM
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Well yeah that's one way of handling that lol. I'm thinking you weren't actually all that jealous of the ex-wife, you just really wanted a baby and you were trying any angle you could to convince him to do it Girls get that baby fever, they start saying all sorts of wild ass shit. I had a girlfriend who had a bad case of the baby fever and I think her crazy ass must have been googling "how to convince my boyfriend we're ready to have a baby NOW" or some shit because god damn, it never ended Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:38 PM
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So are you telling me that you can feel that way even though you know that it's irrational?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:20 PM
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Probably. That’s where the stereotype of gentle giant etc comes from I guess. Hmm nahh, see, Andre the Giant was a "gentle giant." Giant and intimidating, but soft hearted and peaceful, nothing to prove to anyone, just wanted everyone around him to be happy Tooootally different from the dudes we were talking about. Spoiled pretty boys obsessed with their image, buying beard oil by the gallon and going to a damn barber to have their beard professionally styled to look like they're fucking homeles…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:08 PM
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Well what I was getting at was that they're probably the exact opposite of what their image would suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:06 PM
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Had a friend I hooked up with a couple times -- pretty hot, sweet girl, but a little crazy. She had two serious, multi-year relationships. When they both broke off, those exes got engaged within six months of meeting their new girlfriends. She was definitely feeling the heat. The idea is that the new girls must be better in some way, therefore the dudes decided all on their own that they wanted to propose and make these girls their wives, right? Pfffffttt. I'd bet one of my three nuts that this …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:53 AM
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Yeahh well I don't think you ought to go off of the look. These dudes probably cry after every orgasm or some shit. Meanwhile Ron Jeremy's plowed through more women than fucking Genghis Khan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:37 AM
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I never really sweet talked her. I never really gave her a compliment except "your ass is softer than my ex". Really, that's the only "compliment" I've gave her within 1-2 month "relationship". She told me she loved me through text. I sent laugh emojis.. Funny when I look back at it, but holy fuck I really must've destroyed her self esteem. I never showed affection apart from touching and kissing, that was really it, bought her Chinese food one time lmao. Apart from that I never manipulated her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:28 AM
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Primal is just there, it’s that raw physical attraction where it doesn’t matter what they’re like. It’s rare. lol yes, I'm much closer to understanding after this explanation, thank you (just fucking with you) Ohhh shit, that dude is fucking Khal Drogo, now I see.. So basically someone who likes like the kind of dude that'll fuck you the way animals fuck, not like a dude that'll leave a trail of rose petals to the bed and read you poetry for a half hour before beginning foreplay. On the right tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:11 AM
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Uhhh, hopefully this is how you link stuff lol https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x6xcwr/comment/ina0iqb/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:02 AM
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Celebrities I guess would be like Jason Momoa, Oscar Isaacs Ahh man, gross. I had to Google both these dudes, so now I'm curious.. how old are you? anyone who can generate that primal attraction And what in the hell is "primal attraction," and how does a guy "generate" it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:34 AM
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It'd be nice if someone would show all those girls the response AlejandroVillegas posted, pretty sure it'd help them out Just to be clear.. they never actually thought the girl was a whore. They also never actually intended to marry the girl. They were just a lying asshole, and nothing they said should affect how you go about the rest of your life, or how you think of yourself. For the love of God, don't be afraid of having sex with a guy that you actually care about because you're thinking "he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:15 AM
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Hmm, I meant the thoughts you were having while you told this girl you loved her/wanted to marry her, and then when you said you were leaving her because she was too easy (or whatever you actually said to her) I guess I'm kinda wondering if you believed your own bullshit or if you were totally aware that you were bullshitting her the whole time. It's just that I find the actual thought process to be the most interesting part I remember I just turned 14 and I told myself these exact words "this y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:58 AM
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Legal benefits. In my particular situation a couple big ones were a big tax break, and my husband can get health insurance from my work. I have to pay a lot to the IRS so I really try to lower it any way possible, and healthcare in US is expensive, seems like if we can spend this long together so far, we can keep going a couple decades more, so why not take advantage of the benefits we can get? Because it puts him in a bad position for no reason.. other than tax breaks and insurance I guess How …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:06 AM
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It's true. Granted my sole goal was to get some, when I got it, I was empty. I didn't really leave because "she was easy" that was a facade I told my toxic masculinity circle. In reality I left because I was scared, I didn't know how to relationship, I was judged amongst my "freinds" for being with a "hoe", I've known was being alone and I didn't know how to love. Right, yeah, I guess I should have clarified what I meant. Guys will promise marriage just to get sex, then TELL the girl they're bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:06 AM
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you can do most things as partners without marriage There's nothing married couples can do that unmarried couples can't and then got married But why? Why not just keep doing what you were doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:27 AM
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Just a random recent realization. I've seen a good bit of discussion here something along the lines of men jealous when they find that their SOs either made them wait more or did things with other men they don't do with them. Hold on a second. It's not that these men are jealous, it's that they feel betrayed/lied to/used My children's mother first brought up the topic because several friends were pregnant and I wasn't trying with her. I have many examples in life and of course media. Seems often…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:24 AM
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So what's an example of the 1-2%? There a celebrity that fits the bill? A description just isn't as good as actually being able to look at a picture lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:52 AM
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Funny cause I can tell you exactly how many times I've seen that happen.. ZERO lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:01 AM
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Hmmmmm, I guess it depends what "attractive" means? Someone might be like.. aesthetically attractive to me, but if they're a complete piece of shit then I'm not going to be what I would call "attracted" to them. I wouldn't want to fuck them, I wouldn't want to spend time with them, I wouldn't want them in my house or in my bed, etc.. Why would a woman have sex with a guy who treats her like shit, doesn't care about her, and is an all-around terrible person? And why the hell would she choose to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:49 AM
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Ehh, if you watch enough Sneako shit you will see the bits where he admits that he just wants love in a relationship and all that human stuff. He seems to actually care about other people, if nothing else. I think he's just gotten a little wrapped up in this whole youtube world and the redpill shit and all the people associated with that stuff. Plus the money and fame he's prolly gotten. He's pretty damn young, I think he'll turn out good in the end MrGirl, on the other hand.. I'd bet anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:05 PM
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I can say for sure that a woman's morals affect my attraction to her. I think it's pretty safe to say that the same is true if you were to flip the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:53 PM
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Alright, I watched the first 15-20 minutes of this "debate" and I think you're totally misreading these two guys That Mr Girl dude REEKS of phoniness. I don't think what he presents is anything close to the real him. Maybe the girls picked up on that? Sneako seemed to pick up on it, as he even says that Mr Girl just seems "creepy" to him for some reason Sneako seems to have a bit of an online persona thing going on as well, but he's also perfectly willing to "break character." He's also willing …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:47 PM
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Thanks, this is an interesting perspective. I agree that worrying too much about how society crippled my freedom isn't that productive. It _is_ useful when one is concerned about raising kids. In "Hunt, Gather, Parent," the author writes about how to raise kids without using commands all the time. That seems like something one can do for kids. What's society have to do with any of that though? But yeah, my dad has always said to me "I will do anything for anyone if they ASK me to, but if they TE…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:58 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:13 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:58 PM
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Recently though, I became more interested in the idea that _freedom_ not power was the defining feature of hunter gatherer society This is the defining idea behind the United States of America as well. I don't know about other countries, but I imagine (hope) most people believe in this idea What if in fact _almost all_ people at that time were alphas, not in the sense of being mini-kings or Mafiosos, but in the sense of being free to do what they wanted to do and say what they wanted to say This…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:39 AM
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This is just as wrong as telling women they must be sex machines ready at a drop of a hat to indulge their man's sexual appetites. Wait, what's wrong with this? Why wouldn't a woman want to indulge their man's sexual appetites? I betcha men would be happy to be sex machines, ready at a drop of a hat to indulge their woman's sexual appetites
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:24 AM
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In my specific case, they built a halfway house very close to the high school I attended. The men would sit on the porch commenting, cat calling, and following female students. We couldn’t walk to school alone and a lot of girls started getting a ride. So this happened on a daily basis to multiple high school girls? Sex offenders from a halfway house blatantly following them all the way home? And no one reported this shit to whoever runs the halfway house, or the school, or their parents, or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:14 AM
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You're asking for the male equivalent of an adult male convicted sex offender masturbating and following a high school girl home DAILY? Yeah, there's no male equivalent to that. Mostly because that's never happened to anyone, including you, but yeah..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:55 AM
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If someone is going to have a ho phase, they most likely are going to do it when they're young (high school - mid twenties) That goes for guys and girls both. As a guy you don't have to be a star athlete or whatever to have a ho phase when you're in high school/college. You kinda just have to talk to the girls that are hos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:52 AM
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