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I have!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:45 PM
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I used to spend a lot of time on Omegle. I've met some pretty interesting people!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:45 AM
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No, I'm not spiritual whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:35 AM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:34 AM
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Haha, I see!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:33 AM
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Libertarian Fems: Solve your own problems. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:40 PM
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Aww. Is that your herd? So cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:33 PM
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Omg same here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:07 PM
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Ahh I see. That sounds really nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 03:54 PM
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I'm a happy person! I'm on this sub because I like to chat about gendered topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:18 AM
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I like that firefighters help people. Firefighters also have valuable skills, on top of firefighting, such as responding to medical emergencies!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:10 AM
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Firefighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:05 AM
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Maybe we shouldn't be using gendered terms to describe people's bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:14 PM
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Women suck ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) cmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:09 PM
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Men of PPD, If this pufferfish can get laid... You can too. Stop making excuses. 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 08:06 PM
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So cute. 😭😭😭 How's it like raising ducks? Do you have a pond?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah, I always ask them to half the sugar in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 05:41 PM
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It's delicious. If you're bothered by the tapioca balls, you can just get it plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:11 PM
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More women are becoming breadwinners in the relationship. Stay at home dads are rising too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:32 AM
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I personally don't think men should be the breadwinners. It's getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 03:26 AM
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Yeah, if an individual chooses to abide by traditional roles that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:42 PM
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It's a ironic because FDSers are acting like they are the "choosers" but they can't get a decent man to LTR them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:40 PM
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Same here! Forced gender roles need to gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 10:30 PM
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Get yourself a hummingbird feeder. Hummingbirds are very territorial and when they fight they sound like little fighter jets. Or you can be nice and put up multiple small feeders so they don't fight haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:45 PM
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I agree that physically fit men are more attractive, but fucking me senseless for 45 minutes? Uhhh no. I do not enjoy that. Muscular or not. I do enjoy getting wrapped though! That's super cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 06:38 PM
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That's exactly how I felt when I quit eating sugar. Your tastebuds adjust and things become too damn sweet. When I bake, I half the sugar now!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:26 AM
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Lmaoooooo. Good ol' Utah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:23 AM
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Vetting leads to finding a good and compatible partner. That's what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:59 PM
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That's so cute! I didn't know I was going to marry my husband when I first met him. However, when I first met him, I remember feeling so comfortable around him. It was as if I've known him for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:58 PM
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Ahh I see. That makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:44 PM
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Cute! How could you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:37 PM
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I think vetting is a skill. Wasting time on a guy that's not compatible sucks. If you vet frequently and early, then you increase your chances of finding a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:35 PM
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Are you the oldest or only child? My oldest sister freaked out when she started her period but since I was the youngest I knew it was going to happen eventually because she told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:33 PM
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Same here. My dad was very chill about the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:31 PM
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I'm so sorry :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:29 PM
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Oh damn I didn't know that. That's so strange. You'd think they consider hearing loss a safety/health hazard that would be justified to cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:26 AM
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Damn, that sucks. I'm sorry about your ear. Shitty insurance doesn't make it better either ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:54 AM
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Interesting. I was subscribed to WvP and when I commented in PCM, I got a ban message. This was several months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 07:02 PM
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Seriously. I think they believe that banning people will reduce bigotry but I actually don't think so. If someone is ignorant and gets banned, it will only push them farther right because those are the only communities that (ironically) allow free speech. This is why I like places such as PPD and PCM. People are allowed to freely express their opinions, even it's controversial. The discussion that results from those controversial opinions often result in the OP agreeing somewhat with their adver…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:59 PM
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Ahh, very interesting. I ask that because a lot "white food" is very heavy on the dairy. If you don't like the taste of dairy, then you'll probably not enjoy white people food haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:22 PM
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I'm so sorry about your cat. :( I hope he makes it! What are your favorite hobbies?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:20 PM
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I looooove the way James Joyce writes. It's so beautiful to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:13 PM
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I was banned from there for participating in PCM. I actually wrote them a mod appeal in which I had to "explain myself" for participating in PCM and I also had to write, "how I was going to fight the patriarchy". They still didn't accept me back in. I hate places like WvP. They call themselves liberals but then ban anyone they don't agree with it. Fucking hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:11 PM
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Are you lactose-intolerant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 06:07 PM
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I think the feminist terms such as "toxic masculinity" and "mansplaining" are toxic, exclusionary, and hypocritical. Feminists loooove to talk about semantics (pronouns, herstory) but then they say shit like this? It doesn't sit right with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:56 PM
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I'd consider myself a feminist/egalitarian but I rarely say that out loud. I'll still talk about gender issues IRL but I never say I'm a feminist in those conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:51 PM
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That's very similar to how my husband's and I's marriage is!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:29 PM
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Oh, okay. I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:16 PM
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Oooooh I see. What if the wive got an amazing job opportunity in a different state but the husband didn't want to go because of the weather? Would he still make the final say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:10 PM
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Minority voices tend to be the loudest ones. I think there are plenty of open-minded women out there. You just have to find them!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:08 PM
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Ahh I see. Thanks for explaining it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:05 PM
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Interesting. I'm a white woman and I don't view Asian/Middle Eastern men as inferior. :) My marriage is a bit uncommon compared to other interracial marriages though. However, I actually know a few other white women who are married to Asian men. So it's not rare by any means!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:57 PM
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He's Chinese!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:44 PM
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Okay, but in the moving example I gave, that's not the case. She's putting her foot down and changing courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:43 PM
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My dignity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:19 PM
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Ah I see. I agree with you that freedom and autonomy needs to be included in the relationship! Ngl, I kind of want to read that book now lolololol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:33 PM
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I thought you were RPed for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:28 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for your insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:27 PM
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Hehe, maybe search for a weird TikToker and start watching their videos and then maybe the algorithm will start to take notice? TikTok is sooooo creepy like that. They know my husband's ethnicity now and they show him videos of people with his same ethnicity + his interests. It's weird, but also really cool to think about the engineering behind it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:25 PM
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That took an unexpected turn LMAO. Would you consider that a captain/first mate dynamic? Because to me, that just sounds waaaaay to submissive. I think it's a part of marital duty to let your spouse know if they're making a huge mistake. Two minds is better than one, so both parties need to express their concerns (unlike the surrendered wife). I'm also bothered by this line, "the price of a new car in return for matrimonial harmony". Partners should be able to express their concerns without affe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:21 PM
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Oh my bad, I didn't realize that, "she would raise her concerns and a course correction would most likely be made" meant putting her foot down. I still thought the man made the final decision. So, from what you're saying, it seems like the decision-making in this relationship is actually egalitarian. Right? Is the captain really a captain if the first mate can put their foot down?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:01 PM
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Does it work the other way? Is a woman advised not to commit to a man who will hold her back? Is man expected to be supportive of her goals as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:49 PM
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What if I thought the move was bad for the ship, but my husband didn't? If I didn't want to move there, am I allowed to put my foot down?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:41 PM
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What about spaghetti today, burgers tomorrow? Or is that not acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:39 PM
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That's what I've always interpreted it as but most of the RP women here say that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:34 PM
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It's about a self-proclaimed 21 year old incel who had a really bad experience with a woman he crushed on putting him in the friendzone and that's what pushed him into the RP community. The thing is though, he never actually let her know he liked her yet he was angry that she would text him about her guy problems. He friendzoned himself basically. They ended up having a falling out in which he called her a cunt. When Dr. K asked him why he didn't let her know he liked her, he replied that there …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:33 PM
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Genuine question for anybody who understands the captain/first mate relationship dynamic: How does it actually play out? For example, if I want spaghetti for dinner but my husband wants burgers, does he get the final say? Or, if my husband wants to move to a certain area for work but I don't want to, do we still move? Or... If my husband wants me to dress a certain way, do I need to say yes? What does, "having the final say" actually look like? How much autonomy does the woman have? I'm asking b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:18 PM
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He has an MD which makes him a psychiatrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:18 AM
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I think the psychiatrist is trying to help him by getting him away from manospherian beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:56 AM
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Haha, I sure did! I find this stuff very interesting. Yeah, he's a pretty good looking dude actually! I really think he's the only one that's holding himself back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:53 AM
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I want a man that shares the same values as me. This includes reserving sex for only LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:55 AM
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Hey guys! I thought you might be interested in this video about a psychiatrist talking to a man with dating struggles. They actually talk about RP in the video! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_tE4uN6LLN4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:11 AM
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It matters to me. I have zero tolerance for fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:56 AM
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Lmao. I would never LTR a man with a high n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:44 AM
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You can even make up to half a million if you include stock options. My husband's former boss left for Google and he got a 200,000 salary along with 300,000 stock options. This is in the bay area though. He's also a senior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:29 PM
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Have you noticed the difference between American tech workers and foreign tech workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:20 PM
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My husband works in tech and he's bluepilled as fuck. His co-workers seem bluepilled as well. Most of them are married and pretty liberal as far as I know. They've always treated me with respect too. Most of them are nerdy but they're not socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:12 PM
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Yeah! I take modafinil (dopamine/histamine modulator) everyday and oddly enough, caffeine seems to energize me more? Like, I remember taking modafinil for the first time and it definitely energized me but it was mild compared the cup of coffee I drank after being off of caffeine for three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:39 PM
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I thought so too and then I stopped drinking it for a few months and then when I started drinking it again I felt GREAT. Tbh, cycling off and on caffeine has had a greater affect on my energy and mood than stimulant medications. Very interesting. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:20 PM
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Ooh nice. I'll check them out!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:21 AM
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HealthyGamerGG is a stream and a YT channel that helps gamers with mental health issues. They don't have to be socially awkward nerds. I think the reason it's called healthy gamer is because the stream is on Twitch and Dr. K primarily talks to streamers about their problems. The goal is to broadcast live therapy sessions that may help a wider audience as well as the individual. He does have a lot of content about inceldom where he talks to incels live on stream and tries to help them. I'm curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:11 AM
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Yeah, he's been married for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:45 AM
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What does everyone think about this piece of dating advice from Dr. K? Too bluepilled? I obviously agree (especially with the, "being authentic" part) but I'm curious to see other opinions. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TEadDxJ6W58
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:36 AM
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Feminist as an egalitarian. My husband doesn't identify as a feminist but he does identify as an egalitarian and it's obvious from his opinions and interactions that he views women as equals. I'd say he's more egalitarian than me tbh. He believes most gendered behavior is social/cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:00 AM
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Everyone thinks their SO is a unicorn. Makes you think that maybe... Just maybe... NAWALT and NAMALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:13 PM
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Because I love him to bits and wanted to build a life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:12 PM
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I said, "I think" to suggest that I might be actually wrong in my detection of subtle hints. I'm acknowledging that I don't actually know if my male friends are attracted to me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:06 AM
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I can tell by subtle hints. I think. That's still a far cry from claiming that I read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:37 PM
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I didn't say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:32 PM
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Oh, let me clarify. My male friends have never explicitly told me they're not attracted to me. I can tell by subtle hints. I think? I don't ask either. And it's fine if a male friend is attracted to me. It's natural. I'm more bothered by him being romantically into to me than physically. I like to be friends with other married couples for that reason actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:59 PM
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Ahh I see. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:51 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:50 PM
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I'm not attracted to them though. And gasp, I don't enjoy having male suitors. Especially when I'm not interested in them. It's quite annoying actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:50 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I'm bluepilled af but I have learned valuable things from other pill ideologies as well. :) I have a question to ask you. Would you ever be interested in having a female friend just because you genuinely enjoy her company/friendship? There's no wrong answer here, I'm just interested in hearing your perspective. The reason I ask is because, as a woman, I genuinely enjoy platonic male friendship just as much as female friendship. I'm even relieved when I find out my male fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:49 PM
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What if I genuinely enjoy pursuing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:27 PM
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I agree with you that women are better gifters! That's been my experience as well. I wonder why? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:26 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:24 PM
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Dude, I swear most women on this sub have told me that pursuing men is not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:45 AM
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True. PPD is just weird then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:38 AM
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I was mostly joking haha. I do think I have a naturally assertive personality though, and the whole trope of being submissive/tradcon woman has never sat well with me. Since I was a child, I've always been independent and a little aggro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:36 AM
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I do pursue men. 😬😬😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:30 AM
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I've heard a ton of criticism about it on PPD. Things like, women who pursue men are coming off as too "easy" or that the type of men who allow women to pursue them are LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:27 AM
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I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:07 AM
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Thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 02:07 AM
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The internet. :( I did grow up in a very conservative area so maybe that's why I have that impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:59 AM
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According to PPD it's not. It's probably a biased sample tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:49 AM
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I wish it was more socially acceptable for women to be the pursuers in the relationship. You know why? Because doing romantic shit is so FUN. I looooove being the one to buy gifts and plan dates. The look on someone's face when they feel loved is priceless. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:35 AM
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Oh dang, you got me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:29 AM
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I'm an alpha woman. AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:00 AM
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I feel that way too sometimes. It gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:10 PM
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Yeah lmao. I deleted my deprived bee one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:02 AM
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Dude, most women aren't trying to snag a rich dude. 🙄🙄🙄 She's probably a college student? But honestly, you have no idea so there's no point in judging people blindly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:29 AM
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Which spheres are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:26 PM
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I'm a woman. I watch porn because it's hot and it turns me on. I like to masturbate to porn. I also watch it to get new ideas for my husband and I. I like passionate porn with lots of kissing! I like riding scenes and oral scenes the most. I also like watching sensual massages that turn into sex. r/passionx is my favorite place to get porn on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:32 PM
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For the sake of equality I think all genders should be referred to as bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:03 AM
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Eh, I don't think commitment is a gendered thing. A woman could totally be the gatekeeper of commitment depending on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:01 AM
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You're forgetting the most important thing smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:59 AM
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Their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:36 AM
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What about women who don't prefer any drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 11:06 PM
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So instead of him being the deadweight, you're going to be the deadweight? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 02:19 PM
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It's a nice gesture when a man offers to help me carry something heavy but in most cases, it's simply inefficient. For example, in college my friend and I went grocery shopping together to make a recipe. When we got to the parking lot of the dorms, she wanted to wait and call her guy friends to pick up the groceries for her. I kid you not. I just started carrying them myself because I do not have time for that gender role bs. She eventually sucked it up and carried them herself but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 04:53 AM
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Yeah I don't think it's possible for everybody but I'd rather die trying than use somebody for money. The point is that if you want something, you should go get it instead of depending on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 01:41 PM
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True. I also think computational fields are badass so that's another reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 02:52 AM
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As a women I get turned on by visual cues too. A handsome face is top priority. Personality can be hot as well. I like men who make me laugh and have a good time. The way a man speaks is also very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:38 PM
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Yeah, it's way easier being a gold digger and the success you get from it is temporary. Having a good degree and a nice job is way more stable and also more rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:04 PM
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Okay! I'm pretty strong so I don't think I will be mentally affected. Years of online gaming with a mic has hardened me to sexism lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:17 PM
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I have a pretty hard shell and I stand up for myself so I'm not worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:15 PM
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That's awesome! Being able to travel is a huge plus as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:20 PM
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If you're a woman and you want to have a career and a family one day... Consider computer science! With computational careers, you can work from home, spend time with your family, and make loads of money. It's a win-win!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 05:14 AM
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Those things you mentioned above are very easy to do compared to landing a high-paying job. Those things are common and also expected in a normal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:45 AM
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Honestly the best thing a woman can do is work on herself and become a self-made millionaire herself. This is so true. As a woman, I'd be so disappointed in myself if I didn't accomplish anything besides being some rich dude's trophy wife. If a woman wants to have money, then she needs to earn it herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:27 AM
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Smart women are gold diggers. Nah, smart women have the capability of getting a high-paying career that cannot be taken away from them so they go that route instead. More importantly, moral women do not manipulate and use people for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:18 AM
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Social savvy, ability to run a household, emotional support of her man, love and encourage him to be his best This is the most basic shit that everyone should learn and do. You're not exceptional because you do these things. Everyone does them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:03 AM
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Their meaning comes from providing a life for themselves. You can provide a life for yourself without sacrificing your moral character. Again, it's better to be an escort or a prostitute if that's the path you want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:50 AM
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Yeah, I'm aware people are lazy. Gold diggers also lack principles because they don't respect themselves or have anything meaningful to works toward in life so they just use people for money. Prostitution is way more respectable than gold digging. At least prostitutes are upfront about their services instead of using manipulative means to get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:18 AM
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For real. People seem to forget that there is something called principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:50 AM
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> They got a free weekend on a big boat with free alcohol and food. This is why I have a problem with gold diggers - they are lazy. If you want to have a big boat then just work for it yourself. Instead of spending all those hours trying to charm an old guy, you can spend those hours studying and working hard to achieve a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:47 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 02:07 PM
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It uses empiricism and the scientific method to develop findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:34 PM
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Evopsych is not even remotely science. What do you mean by that? It is a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:20 PM
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Yeah, I'm saying it's okay to not like it. So yes, it's okay for him to be disappointed and it's okay for him to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:03 PM
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It's not about money. It's about the place. Fast food places are not romantic. I offered the alternative coffee date to show that the date itself doesn't have to be expensive in order for it to be romantic. If you can't afford Mcdonalds then a hiking date is cool too. Or you can cook a recipe together. It's about effort, not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:04 AM
1

How is it privileged?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:53 AM
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Yeah I did. I'm saying that a woman's sexuality changes over time but it's still the same quality. Just because she tried kinky stuff before doesn't mean she's obligated to give it to you now. The key word is obligated. You have every right not like it and move on if she's too prudish. A better example would be if my date wouldn't eat me out but he ate his exes out. He's not obligated to eat me out but I certainly would move on. It's not about what she tried in the past it's more about what she …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:26 AM
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Your ANALogy is bad. Instead, it would be like a guy taking his date to a nice American restaurant instead of a nice Italian restaurant because he tried that Italian place and didn't like it, so he's taking her to the nice American place. Just because you took your ex to the nice Italian place doesn't mean you have to take your date there. People try new things and their taste's change. If she's bothered that you like American now when you used to eat Italian then that's her problem. On a side n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:10 AM
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What if he let you order besides the dollar menu?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:52 AM
1

Have you tried getting a sun lamp? I've heard those work really well!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:42 AM
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"Live by nature" is so subjective though. A man providing resources while women raises kids is a relatively new concept. Should we live by nature the way our hunter-gatherers did? That's the era homesapiens have spend the most time in so it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. If so, women should have an income because hunter-gatherer women contributed to gathering resources for the tribe like men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:47 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:03 PM
1

Okay. I guess we're just from different environments because no important person in my life would care about such a thing. If they do, then I wouldn't give a shit tbh. I also don't live my life caring what people think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:57 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:50 AM
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It's okay. I agree that academic research regarding the topics often spoken on this sub is iffy. Social sciences are notorious for being unreliable so I understand the skepticism surrounding academic sources. I also agree that pumping out a list of sources isn't enough to win an argument. Rhetoric is very important in developing a cohesive argument. My point is that if you want to have the best argument possible, a good rhetoric backed up with sources (that are critically evaluated) is ideal. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:24 AM
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If women only go for the top 20% of men, then those 20% men will choose the top 20% of women, correct? If that's the case, the top 20% of men end up with the top 20% of women. Everyone is trying to choose the best partner they can get. In that process of trying to choose the best partner, your potential partner is also trying to choose their best partner. This ends up canceling out hypergamy and you end up with a partner roughly equal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:15 AM
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I love and respect my husband and would never want other men to think less of him. Why do you care what other men think of your husband? Why does your husband care what others think of him? I selfishly want to not change my last name. How is that selfish? Do you expect a man to take a woman's name? Would he be considered selfish if he didn't take his wife's name? No. So why would it be selfish for a woman to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:31 AM
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To be frank, why do you care what other people think? If it's fine with you and your husband then that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 12:48 AM
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This is a debate sub, not a lifestyle sub. If you're going to debate someone, having sources to back up your claim will make your argument stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:12 PM
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Yes. I also like seeing men cuddle with their cat. It makes my heart melt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:04 PM
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Yeah, male celebrities are a rare percentage of the population. My example on male celebrities isn't the best. However, my opinion still stands that there are a lot of masculine men with liberal viewpoints. OP stated that masculine lib men exist, just not in the numbers where supply meets demand. I think they do. We don't know how masculine they really are. How are you defining masculinity? I'm defining it by the intensity of male secondary sex characteristics. Most male celebrities are very mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:43 PM
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Seriously. Masculinity has nothing to do with values. OP is implying that women are attracted to right wing assholes. Really? Liberal men are definitely masculine. The majority of attractive male celebrities are liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:14 PM
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If you enjoy it then it's not a chore. I feel the same way as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:45 PM
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It would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:31 PM
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I'm not saying it's better to use sources over a coherent argument. I'm saying sources are needed in order to fully develop a coherent argument. It's not either/or. You need to have solid evidence to back up your argument. Academia isn't perfect. However, it is still the best way to get closer to the truth. I do agree that it is important to consume sources critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:44 AM
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Just strive for your arguments to make sense and follow a coherent thought. No. It's important to have sources to your claims on top of rationality. If you don't have a source then just say it's from anecdotal experience. This is a huge problem on this sub. Some people just say the most outrageous shit about the opposite gender when there is no evidence to suggests it's true. It's fine to have an opinion. But some people here treat their opinions like facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:18 AM
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This post brings up a lot of good points. I think being yourself will lead to fewer dates. However, being yourself will lead to a higher quality LTR since your partner is attracted to who you are. I would give the advice “being yourself” to someone who is looking for a serious LTR even though it’s going to filter out more people. Once you find that person who you can be your true self around, it’s amazing and totally worth the wait. If you want to have as much casual sex as possible then I’d agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 10:43 PM
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I think we just disagree then. Since men and women have expectations set upon them, both of their values are tied to the utility they can provide. I don’t think women are valued for what they are. I think they’re valued for their utility just like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:59 PM
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Hmm... I think in some societies if a women can’t give birth the she is considered less valuable. In modern western societies, I think women and men are valued for what they can provide. Most women work. When they don’t, it’s usually because they’re SAHMs. Women are still expected to add value, whether it’s raising kids or working.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:38 PM
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The men who are doing underwater welding are doing so by choice. No one is forcing them to do dangerous jobs. Men are choosing these jobs at much higher rates than women are. It could be the fact that men are physically stronger and thus more capable to perform these jobs. I bet the salary is a lot higher for these kinds of jobs too. I don’t think it’s okay that men have to do these dangerous jobs but you can’t force women to choose them either. It’s a shitty situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:24 PM
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In the case for Chinese society, they can only have one child so they prioritize male babies. This is because the male child of the family is in charge of taking care of their parents when their older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:52 PM
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That’s actually a good point. The rapid rise of population does reduce the need for women to reproduce. However, the rise of technology decreases the need for men to do manual labor jobs as well. I was referring more to the demands of agricultural and industrial societies. There is an interesting conversation to be had about the changing gender roles in a technological society though!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:03 PM
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Both men and women are valued for their potential to provide utility. A little boy is valued for his potential to provide, while a little girl is valued for her potential to be a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:44 PM
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Another commentator said that women are considered valuable because they produce children. That makes sense. I’m going to disagree with you here and say that a person’s value is determined by what they can do in a society, and that no one has inherent value because of their sex. If a man can’t provide utility, then he is not valuable. Same goes for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:23 PM
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I think it really depends on how you define value. In my opinion, providing utility is considered valuable. Thus, men in those societies are considered more valuable than women. How is a woman valuable on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 02:39 PM
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My vagina goes for men with great personalities. If you’re an attractive man that can make me laugh/have a good time then you have a decent shot at getting into my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:19 PM
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That’s good though. Everyone’s beliefs should be backed up with facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:22 PM
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Death, infidelity, divorce, abandonment, co-dependency, enforcing traditional gender roles, accidental pregnancy, dead bedrooms, and STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:06 PM
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Honestly the only reason I chose Blue Pill is because I'm anti-Red Pill and anti-Black Pill. If you go to the Blue Pill subreddit, they're pretty much the antithesis of Red Pill. A lot of Red Pillers will say the Blue Pill is viewing the world with rose-colored glasses. I disagree. I think the Blue Pill stands for viewing the world in a neutral, rational way instead of letting sexual frustration taint your worldview (Red Pill and Black Pill). I find that Blue Pillers actually have healthy relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 01:51 PM
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No. I like men. This sub in particular attracts misogynists and misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:20 PM
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So true. FDS is just like TRP for women. Proves that both sexes can be awful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:33 PM
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This just sounds like an excuse to be lazy or a cop out for insecurity. The only reason you would want a man to lead you is because you’re too lazy or too insecure in yourself to make decisions. If you want something go get it. Don’t wait around for anyone or anything to bring it to you. Nothing is going to happen if you just sit around waiting all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 05:26 AM
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I’m a highly feminine woman and I don’t mind approaching men at all. Approaching a man doesn’t make a woman less feminine. If anything, taking a leading role is feminine as fuck since women have amazing social skills that enable them to be good leaders. With that being said, a relationship should be a partnership and no single person should be leading it. I refuse to accept that femininity is about waiting around and taking a passive role. It just makes women who say that shit look lazy, weak, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:45 AM
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Ahh that’s good to hear. I’ve never had a FWB so I don’t know how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:18 AM
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Nah. Culture changes all the time. Men do need to learn social skills but women need to as well. Asking a man out doesn’t mean that you’re going to be the one leading the relationship. Asking someone out is a small part of the whole relationship and it doesn’t define its trajectory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:43 AM
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I’m unsure if I’m rare. I feel like my views are average but idk. I do agree with the worry that casual sex isn’t going to be good. It takes more effort for a woman to orgasm so that might be awkward for people to explain to their FWBs but it can definitely be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:39 AM
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I disagree. Some people choose to remain celibate until they find a LTR because they don’t like engaging in casual sex. They don’t choose so because they have to it’s because they want too. The reason you stay celibate is because you value the love and relationship bonding aspect of sex and you’re waiting for the right person to share that with. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with casual sex I’m just trying to explain the reasoning behind why people wait until they get into LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:27 PM
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Women can have a high sex drive and still value monogamous relationships so they won’t fuck around whole they’re single. There is something called masturbation that women do in order to alleviate their sexual desire. So it’s possible to go without sex for 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:07 PM
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Low n-count women with high sex drives aren’t unicorns. There are plenty of women like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:01 PM
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No? It’s a huge oversimplification to label women into three categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:08 PM
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People can’t be shoved into categories like that. Most women in my life act like none of the categories you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 02:06 PM
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Women on FDS have poor social skills that render them incapable of forming fulfilling romantic relationships. FDS women have trouble in the romantic world and instead of owning up to their own inadequacies, they blame society/men for their problems. This results in a lot of misandry on the sub. FDS also claims to be feminist while simultaneously cherry-picking traditional values that only benefit them (a man paying for all their shit). They are hypocrites. If you need relationship advice, FDS is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 05:44 PM
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I feel the same way!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 07:22 PM
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No, just because a woman approaches a man that doesn’t mean she is going to have sex with him right away. She’s just letting him know she’s interested in dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:50 PM
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Yeah, that’s why it’s nice as a woman to approach first because I can weed out all those types you mentioned above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:57 PM
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Yes! That’s exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:50 PM
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What is the extra time women have? Oftentimes, women have to hold down a job and do housework so they oftentimes have less free time compared to men. As a feminist, I actually worry about your second point. A lot of women aren’t pushed to have careers like men do. It’s fine if they want to have a job, but it’s not necessary. On the other hand, men are expected to have good careers capable of taking care of a family unit. If a man fails, he is often ridiculed for it. Women have the privilege of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:47 PM
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Very interesting read. Thanks for sharing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:43 PM
2

Such as? Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:44 PM
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Beautifully said. PPD attracts people with fringe opinions, not normal ones. It’s important not to let the internet skew your viewpoint of people so much because it easily can. There are amazing people in this world of both genders. You just have to go out and find them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:42 PM
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What, you mean you don’t wear a cum stained shirt? Get a load of this HVM right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:43 PM
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Going to the gym and eating healthy is definitely enough to be consistently attractive. Getting enough sleep is important as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:20 PM
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Modern women aren’t interested in finding someone who is going to provide for them since most women have the means to provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 11:11 PM
5

But 24, 25, 26, and 27 aren’t prime numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:14 AM
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Thanks! Looking forward to 29! You’re the first one to get my joke. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 05:13 AM
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I totally agree that men and women are more similar than different. I also like men and women equally. I’ve had great friendships and relationships with both men and women! It sucks that some people are so jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 04:16 AM
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Hey guys my birthday is coming up and I’m turning 24. I’ll no longer be in my prime. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 12:11 AM
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Expecting a man to pay for you doesn’t make you high value. Treat others as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:07 AM
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Having a coffee date also filters out entitled women. It’s a win-win!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:05 PM
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I completely agree with that. Having self-compassion and staying in a comfortable routine are different things though. Self-compassion is equivalent to being your own coach and treating yourself with tough love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 08:12 PM
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I completely disagree. I think self-compassion is how people get out of rock bottom. It is a source of strength and security that comes from within so no one can take it from you. I'm having trouble explaining the concept so let me give you a couple of links to show you what self-compassion means... Definition & Elements of Self-Compassion: https://self-compassion.org/the-three-elements-of-self-compassion-2/ What Self-Compassion Isn't (very important): https://self-compassion.org/what-self-compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:58 PM
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Being valuable is completely subjective. I'm not convincing you to value an obese woman over a slim woman. I'm arguing that individuals all have an inherent value because they are human. Most importantly, we should see ourselves as valuable even if we're not perfect. It's a self-compassion mentality that I believe is conducive to change. An obese woman walking around with confidence has nothing to do with her obesity. She should still work on losing weight, but that doesn't mean she should hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:42 PM
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Yeah that's true. I think I'm arguing about something different. I'm arguing that an individual is valuable and should see themselves as valuable. Does that make everyone valuable to everybody? Absolutely not. There are two types of value... One that is inherent and one that is relative. An obese woman would be less valuable relative to you because she's unhealthy and unattractive. However, an obese person relative to themselves is valuable. No one should see themselves as less valuable. Self-co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:33 PM
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No, I'm saying just because someone isn't perfect doesn't mean they're not valuable. You can still have goals and want to change yourself, but your inherent value stays the same. Obesity is wrong and obese people need to lose weight, but that doesn't mean they are not valuable and that they can't be confident. It's like me telling a smoker that they are less valuable because they have a terrible habit that harms their health. Obese people are still valuable even though they need to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:18 PM
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While I think being fat is unhealthy, no one should feel like they’re less valuable because of it. A person can be confident without being ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:52 PM
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I thought this post was about relationships, not sex. Women have a high relationship drive so it only makes sense for them to put in the work too. If someone isn’t willing to put in the work for the first months of a relationship, they’re not going to be good long-term partners. An entitled date is an entitled spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:11 PM
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I disagree with your assessment that women fall in love with extrinsic traits. I think they fall in love with intrinsic traits like men do. All the married women in my life have fallen for their man as a person and not for what he has accomplished. I’d rather be loved for my personality, my values, and my abilities. I didn’t fall in love with my husband for his accomplishments (we were both broke college students), I fell in love with him for the same thing I want to be loved for, his personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:44 PM
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I don’t think there is anything inherently special about women that makes their time more valuable. I think the reason women are pursued more is because of cultural reasons. Men are taught to pursue and women are taught to receive. It’s actually a very dominant/submissive set up that I strongly disagree with. If men started to hold women to the same standards I think we would see the rise of more assertive woman. I don’t think most woman would fail. I just think different types of women would su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:41 AM
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Same here! The field I’m in is something I’m strongly passionate about so there is no way I’m giving that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:23 AM
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If I like someone I'm going to ask them out. I don't have time to wait for a guy to make the first move or flirt with him or try send him messages that I'm single. It's a waste of time. I'm an efficient person so if I like you I will start talking to you. I'm not concerned with gender roles at all. You say that women are out to try to find the best man possible, so wouldn't asking out the best guy in the room make sense? I'm confident enough in myself to do that. If he is bothered then he might …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:36 PM
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No I’m a woman. I’d rather have my boobs hang out than my ass lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:07 AM
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I would argue that pants are more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:12 AM
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