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Obviously women who have experienced severe violence from male partners or family members are likely to consider dating women Direct quote from OP, this is what they are taking umbrage with, not the existence of beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:50 AM
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I actually have a few views on gift giving. I enjoy giving spontaneous gifts to friends and family, but don't like receiving gifts. I also have zero interest in celebrating my own birthday or anyone elses, I'll go along with it if I know they care, but I really don't see the point. That goes for most other annual holidays, it all just feels like capitalist nonsense really. Celebrating things like weddings, engagements, births, like actual major events, feels far more sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:39 PM
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I ain't chasing anyone. There are no good men out there spending their whole lives focusing on the wrong women. Good people surround themselves with good people Are hoes not good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:24 PM
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That’s the way men want them to be presented Then don't present yourself that way and just date guys who don't have that standard? Guys who don't want to conform to gender roles just get lambasted and told to accept being alone, the same applies to women who don't want to shave or do things to make themselves more attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:00 PM
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There are styling choices men can make that will get them labelled gay, have people assume they're making a statement or are deviant. I started shaving my head like a decade ago for convenience and comfort and got comments all the time ranging from being told I looked scary to someone accusing me of being a skinhead, even my own mother made a comment about it, so I just decided it was easier to grow it out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:50 AM
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Women here always try to frame pump and dump as the man's failing, but she's the one picking and the one with an abundance of choice. Either she let him hit with no effort, so she was just an easy lay, or he put effort in and realised she wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:36 AM
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There's so many hoes out there choosing the pumpers and dumpers that it's hard to find someone to love or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:30 AM
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I suppose the first guy would have less exposure, but he already has more chances than he needs anyway, especially with Tinder. Uptight and boring is exactly how the French guy acted, since he barely spoke English and had a girlfriend, women were still coming on to him. The thing is, thanks to the halo effect, once you're good looking enough you don't need a personality, women invent one for you and perform mental gymnastics to explain away your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:22 AM
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You're whole comment is just confusing, you've basically ended it agreeing with me? What do you think I'm saying beyond women show more desire and passion for physically attractive men, that those men have to do less, sometimes virtually nothing, to get more from women than the guys out there cultivating, striving and putting effort in for some vanilla sex and a commited life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:20 PM
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Status is about where you sit in whatever heirarchy you're being considered in. It's a complex web that overlaps a lot with ideas of class, no one thing would set you're status and some things would leave you low status regardless of what you do to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:02 PM
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He made himself available to women, that's part of what socializing and "putting yourself out there" means. He had a girlfriend and didn't want anything to do with the women that were coming onto him, he was visibly uncomfortable at their approaches and just wanted to sit in peace and drink with us. I'm starting to feel like you're misrepresenting details to make a weak argument that all women mindlessly throw themselves at Chad, with no consideration as to whether these men are both making them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:50 PM
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It really is the biggest red pill, I actually think red pill beliefs are on the rise because the internet allows more guys than ever to see this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:27 PM
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You said that your friend was "ripped". That requires hard work and dedication to do. Not really hard work and dedication, we just went to the gym a few times a week and ocassionally played sport because we enjoyed it. >So you actually went out and socialized, which means you did something. I mean, that French guy definitely didn't socialise, he didn't even speak. The women you meet while put partying are not representative of all women. I've seen enough women that don't party or "aren't like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:20 PM
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Man what are you on about, none of the guys I'm talking about put in any work to be chad, I put in no work in my early twenties when I was getting women come onto me in clubs and shit, I barely worked, half assed my studies and just went out partying 3+ times a week, it was one of the easiest times of my life, the hardest part was managing hangovers. My point wasn't about casual sex, it's about how women feel more passion and desire for these men and that's what gives them easy access to casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:58 PM
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I lived with a guy that was good looking, not tall to be fair, like maybe 5ft 8, but model tier face and a ripped body, didn't really do anything outside of his job, other than drink alcohol and have sex and he never struggled to find women to sleep with, even managed to have a foursome with three women he met and smoked weed with in a park (I know it's not a bullshit story because he took photos and videos), I went out for a few drinks with some friends back in college and one of the guys that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:25 PM
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I don't get why you're getting downvoted, if some guy is paying $3.9 mil for an experience he obviously derives some value from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:10 PM
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Women are surrounded by “options for sexual exploration” — who do those options happen to be? From what I saw among my friends, a minority of attractive men got the lion's share, though realistically women in general have the choice of sleeping with just about any man she desires. My social group in my 20s was mixed gender, with some lgbt people as well, and the women generally slept with the same few men and the gay guys openly talked about how attractive they found those men. The attractive me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:52 AM
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Most men don't go through their younger years surrounded by options for sexual exploration and adventure the same way women are, eventually marrying a woman who has had a quarterlife crisis and decided it's time to settle down in her 30s isn't exactly a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:02 AM
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It is blatant pandering from a multi-billion dollar company, but I think it's hilarious that they'll have a big black guy with his petite Asian waifu going around cutting down crowds of Asian men, especially given how Asian men are typically emasculated in Western media as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:10 PM
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Yes, the chances are those people still did the dance and put on the façade to get together, that's the point. You have to act like something you're not to even gain entry. Where it goes after that is up to the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:58 AM
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At least you seem content not finding what you want, because those women don't exist; even if you meet someone who ticks all your boxes, you get along great and she's attracted to you, she'll still expect the performative aspects of masculinity and will just get with a guy she like less if you don't play your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:52 AM
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Probably the video game and hentai guy, the other stuff, apart from perhaps pottery and stamp collecting, are some of the most generic hobbies going.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:47 AM
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Sure if your metric for success is just being able to date, but women are less satisfied with their relationships and sex lives and are more likely to be abused and/or murdered by their intimate partners. It seems like women aren't really getting what they want, but taking what they can get when it comes to men. If anything women have more of a need to take control of their dating lives than men do, but you're all too scared and would rather sit on the sidelines and let a man do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:52 PM
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Realistically, how is this any different than expecting men to pay for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:44 PM
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I don't know, I think older guys can be some of the most red pilled, especially if they've got some shitty relationships/marriages under their belts, though the younger men who would've been ignorant to how much women engage in things like af/bb, soft harems and so on, are being shown these behaviours through the internet whereas before, even when I was a young man only 15-20 years ago, you'd only really see what women were actually like if you partied and had some "chad" friends that were out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:33 PM
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I learned fairly young from my mother and sisters that, to women, shame only matters if they're the one's feeling it, you have no right to feel shame or expect privacy in their eyes; never tell a woman something you wouldn't tell her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:25 PM
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I met these women in my late teens/early twenties and do keep in touch with some of them, but they've either been through countless situationships, abusive relationships or are single mothers, part of what drew me to them was I saw them as someone to grow and develop a life with, have new experiences etc, but that ship has sailed now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:49 AM
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I think women just don't realise how much their preferences overlap, look at the halo effect and pre-selection as well, there's plenty of physical traits that are objectively attractive (height, symmetry, thick hair, clear skin, defined jaw, etc), being physically attractive gives people a bias toward seeing you in a better light (halo effect) and men who appear to be desirable to women are perceived as being more desirable by women (pre-selection). I've seen it repeated over and over again, whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:40 AM
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My experience with those situations has been women never ask and it just fizzles away, with them, or a mutual friend, eventually mentioning years later they used to be into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:26 AM
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It seems that American culture also differs from European culture Perhaps superficially with irrelevant things, like who pays on the first date, but ime we seem as strict about the more consequencial aspects of gender roles (i.e who asks who out, who's responsible for escalation etc) in dating as the Americans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:08 AM
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women don't actually care about you as a human being. Luckily I didn't need to be told this as I learned it from my mother first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:02 AM
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The only take away from this is that she is her own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:31 PM
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I think his point of contention is more with the word "good"; using a more precise vocabularly in these discussions would probably clear up a lot of things. If instead the talking point was women wanted an enticing, sexy and/or exciting personality, I doubt half this conversation would have any legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:14 AM
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I'm just going to drop this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:08 AM
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This was bound to happen and I feel like it is somewhat self-inflicted given women show larger support for trans rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:25 AM
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Wait why would males be so desperate if they have an easier time with dating? Because they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:37 AM
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Listening to what the guy himself says would be a step up for most women, followed by looking at what he actually does. Also listen to your friends and family. I've warned women about guys before, one of them was literally showing signs of being abusive a few months in, did she listen? No. Is she now a single mother with two kids after finally leaving an abusive relationship? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:28 PM
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Class consciousness and a revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:37 AM
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If men are so overworked why don’t they have anything to show for it? Late stage capitalism. Productivity, house prices, the cost of living have all outstripped wage growth for years, even the cost of education is increasing more than wages and there's been an upward trend in educational attainment; people are working much more for much less. You can only get so much blood from a stone, this discussion kind of plays into the talking point about women only wanting the relative best men and only c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:36 AM
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If we're going by underlying genetics it would be orgies and harems, with men fighting each other for the right to mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:19 AM
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Yes they do. They choose not to. They choose not to be open with partners, friends, family, etc. Nothing is stopping them. Maybe times have changed, but I don't buy it. Showing emotion was something my mother and older sisters very much suppressed in me and my brother. I used to resent my father for being an alcoholic, but now I understand why he saw that as his only option. Women, in my experience, support male openness in theory because it's the socially acceptable thing to say, but in practic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:12 AM
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In what way am I being naïve? I'm not sea lioning either, you've given no specific answers. No doubt confidence can improve results, but it's not a requirement for living a functional, comfortable and enjoyable life, in this day and age especially; the single biggest deciding factor for the people you network with and your life outcomes is the socio-economic conditions you are born into, not insecurity, not confidence, not even ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:33 PM
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under pressure and lose to comeptition highly competitive environemnts, where this guy is terrible at taking on challengers. What pressure and competition? Which competitive environments and callengers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:37 PM
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It’s very important for some I never said it wasn't, however this thread is very much addressing generalities. Do you think more men or more women would be satisfied in a relationship that's not progressing toward anything? Just hang out every now and then and have regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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I would count that as a supplement to their life, I think most guys would be happy with the status quo, just adding sex and a bit of spice. Women are more often the ones wanting to make big life changes like getting married, having kids and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:10 PM
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Very succesful in what though? You can live a comfortable and enjoyable life without having to strive for success and beside that anyway there's plenty of insecure, socially anxious or whatever else people making absolute bank in high level tech jobs. Give me specifics here, you're talking in platitudes, like what real world scenarios are you thinking of? What is success to you, that insecure or shy people are barred from achieving?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:08 PM
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is a detrimental character trait to have in the real world as a man What real world scenarios are you thinking of when you say this? I've known shy and insecure men that manage to keep a job, buy a house and so on, if anything they're doing better in the real world than a lot of confident dead beats I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:50 PM
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Plenty of fathers and uncles out there wouldn't want to see their daughters/nieces getting groomed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:09 PM
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I think it boils down to men wanting women to supplement their life, while women want men to give them a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:41 AM
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I haven't felt an emotion since my dad died in my teens, I should be killing it out there then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:37 AM
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You're a woman, it's easy to have sexual encounters with any type of man you desire, apart from men not into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:18 PM
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Do you think the guys doing it care if you think they're a piece of shit? Especially when they look at women lying about their past, using makeup, filters, angles, plastic surgery and so on. Women go to great lengths to present as someone they're not, why should men not do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:11 PM
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Well that's just the way the world is, everyone lies to make themselves look better and have better outcomes, you get left behind if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:38 AM
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I guess when the alternative is being an incel, they weigh up their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:54 AM
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Women often lie about and obfuscate their past to increase their chances of getting comitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:52 AM
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I get paid an obscene amount to sit in an office and do virtually nothing and then leave 2 or 3 hours earlier than I'm contracted for, some people don't need to make the time, they have it and still manage to have a life. I think I'd need a side gig at MI6 to fill my days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:35 AM
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That's just to be expected these days, no woman is saving herself for one bloke; you'd have to be pretty naïve to assume any woman doesn't have a guy on the side before commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:33 AM
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The women here are so adept at building strawmen they'll find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:43 AM
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Damn I've missed 9 world wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:02 AM
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I met a barmaid in Greece once, she was a lovely woman and very intelligent, she came from somewhere else in Europe, had a couple of degrees and was just travelling, working in bars and so on. It didn't click until the next day, but she basically didn't serve anyone else other than one of my friends that came over. We just stood at the bar chatting for a couple of hours and playing simple drinking games to decide who bought the next drink, when my friends decided it was time to move on she asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:01 AM
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That's disingenuous, the whole discussion hinges around which guys women willingly have casual relationships with, not what guys can do to have casual sex on a technicality. If she sticks with him under the impression that they are building up to comittment, then it means he wasn't wanted for a casual relationship, regardless of how much the guy strings her along and skirts around defining things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:42 AM
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To me it seems the opposite, I think it depends on you as a person and whether women see you as "hookup material" or "relationship material". Women as a whole, seem quite consistent in which characteristics fit into each box, I know guys who have had 10s or even 100s of hookups who lament never finding a relationship, but my experience has been women wanting more than sex and acting demure; I've experienced more women I've not even been on a date with talk about how we'd make a good couple, movi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:35 AM
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The point I'm making is that a woman won't date a guy she is compatible with and attracted to if he doesn't approach and escalate the relationship, everything hinges on that regardless of how into the guy she is. For women, minutiae like who asks who out, who pays, how he goes about the first kiss etc are more important to who she selects than how much the guy has going for him. Hence my answer to the OP, women won't actively seek relationships regardless of how "better" men get; they'll retain …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:02 AM
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Who are you quoting? I haven't said any of those things. If women pick the “nice, stable guy”, she’s going to endure a lifetime of demeaning, unsatisfying duty sex. A man who would put a woman through that is monstrous. So pick bad, unstable guys, is that your message? If you want to gaslight yourself into believing that is actually good for you, don't let me stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:37 PM
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Are you replying to someone else or have you entirely imagined up something I didn't say while writing your reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:11 PM
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Yeah that's why women are less satisfied with their romantic and sexual lives, experience more abuse, physical and sexual, and are more likely to be murdered by their intimate partner. A woman's biggest filter is how a man approaches her and women here will argue, ad naseum, in defence of this dynamic. Women will not date a man, with whom they share values and interests, if he doesn't play the game right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:42 PM
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I'd wager no. Women need plausible deniability, as well as a way to avoid accountability; the mythos surrounding how they got together is as, if not more, important to a woman than who the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:40 PM
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I'm choosing to believe it is Gnome and the OP believes there's a secret society of them socially engineering everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:21 AM
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having sex that’s devoid of passion or genuine desire They just don't realise that's what they're getting since only a minority inspire and are on the receiving end of genuine lust and passion, "chad treatment", if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:53 PM
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I'd sell my couch and TV and turn my lounge into a gym if I had no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:37 PM
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I was hoping someone came up with this and that's not even mentioning the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:00 PM
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Sure some have good judgment, some don't; I doubt many women who have experienced abusive relationships or been the victim of femicide believed they were of the cohort that sucked at picking people and this discussion is, fundamentally, about women's assessment of risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:30 PM
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The man you live with, who you've known for years and you were there for each other in better and worse is not a random stranger as the man in the story. The irony being this man is, statistically, the biggest threat to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:40 AM
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Really, you are bringing this on yourself even engaging someone who is making diagnoses based on reddit comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:18 PM
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The real problem is that women are shit at judging men. I can think of 3 women I've seriously wanted to date, each of them iss a friend and I've known them for years. It turned out they also wanted to date me, but I never asked them out or made any moves because they never let me know how they felt. Now we're all in our mid to late 30s, one of them has been in and out of situationships and getting pumped and dumped by guys she meets online or in bars for the last decade, apart from 1 actual rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:40 PM
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The norm is overwhelmingly that men approach and both your points still happen regularly, women are less satisfied emotionally and sexually in their relationships, experience more domestic abuse, cheating and are murdered more often by intimate partners. I don't think who approaches is really the crux of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:13 PM
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No man is actively trying to have a relationship with half the women he meets or more. A big factor in that is going to be how open and receptive said women are and how he weighs his chances. Men don't approaching all the women they're attracted to, they approach the women they're attracted to, whom they think they at least have a chance with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:54 AM
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Turning up and things just happening is a distinctly female experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:09 PM
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You are priviledged that women show interest, you are obviously attractive outside of it. Your whole point hinges around how you've started selecting women differently, not that what you've done has made you more attractive. I've seen this with quite a few of my attractive friends, to them they're blind to how women are with the average Joe, because to them a woman showing interest is a normal thing, they think they're charming womanisers that have it all figured out, but they're coasting on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:58 AM
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Privilege is invisible to those who have it. I think your point breaks down because your experience precludes you from understanding those that never benefitted from the privilidges you have. You might as well tell the homeless to start a business with a loan from their father, it's tone deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:52 AM
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focus on women that are showing interest in you already Don't know if focusing on imaginary people is really going to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:41 AM
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Translation: dating would be a lot easier if most men didn't date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:00 AM
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I wonder how many people here actually know men who have visited escorts or have spoken to an escort. Pretty much all the guys I know that have, were already in a relationship or were attractive men who just found paying for it to be less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:41 AM
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