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| 12 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Wear a condom, and GET A FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TELL WHERE YOU ARE GOING. SERIOUSLY. These 2 things will basically keep you safe 99% of the time. Give them your live location, and tell them when you should be checking in with them. No check in = phone call, and have a "safeword" that indicates you are in danger, ie they ask you how you are doing and if you say the word "fantastic" then it means you are not safe. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Kinda fancying the idea of cougar hookupsSome spots you met them at? I’ve heard hotel bars are great; any other spots? | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What's the deal about this?Good, keep doing that. DO NOT FUCK YOUR COWORKERS. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it weird to get number and ask out without basically any rapport building or small talk?Correct, they are working and do not want to be bothered. Bad strategy, you go for drinks at a bar and the girl you asked out is your bartender. Bad idea. Become a regular and lightly flirt and make a connection. Go read Models by Mark Manson. It has the answer to your questions, trust me. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird to get number and ask out without basically any rapport building or small talk?Is it weird to get number and ask out without basically any rapport building or small talk? Weird is subjective, who really minds that? As far as is it effective, probably not. If you did this 10 times and are relatively attractive, you will probably get 2 numbers. But, most likely will flake or be hard to land. Or, approach, talk for a few mins, and increase your rate to 4/10 numbers AND less likely to flake. Which sounds better? | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:08 PM |
| 7 | Is it weird to get number and ask out without basically any rapport building or small talk?It is not odd to do this at all. Girls are either warm, neutral, or cold. Your goal is to weed out the cold ones, and to turn neutral to warm. Brief texting is good, but your interaction on the open needs to be good enough to where it seems natural that you don't need to talk that much more over text and she WANTS to go out with you on the same day / next few days. "Hey, I am free the next 2 days and we definitely need to (insert callback joke here). I know a coffee spot at X, but you can only c… | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach will NOT save youI think your post is well written but with the overall narrative that cold approach is not the best way to meet women and that it should not be the focus to meet them is one that does not seem to be backed by my personal experience and also doesn't fit in to other models of dating that countless others have found success in. You simply cannot beat numbers. Referencing Models By Mark Manson, any girl that you meet is going to be warm, neutral, or cold to you. The goal is to get as many neutrals -… | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 03:45 AM |
| 2 | What are your guys favorite conversation starters to use?Always push away from thinking subjects. Always pull towards feeling subjects Cheatcode: Just put the word feel into your sentence. "What feelings do you have towards X" or "How does X make you feel?" | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | 29 year old first time sex strugglesHorrible, awful advice for someone experiencing a problem of lack of erections. If you cannot get hard, there is a real and physiological basis for why you cannot. To act like, somehow, you are being a "loser" or taking "the weak path" for taking medication for that is misinformed at best. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?10 numbers? Are you kidding me? This is amazing! Don’t get your head down. Just reflect and also realize that only you are in control of what you say. You have no power over them texting back. Good job man! | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 12:00 PM |
| 11 | What’s the sexiest move a guy made that totally blew your mind?Wait, how did this work so well? LOL. Can you explain? | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Advice that changes everythingPoint 2 slight correction: Vulnerability IS seductive, not “can be seductive.” The reality of dating for women is they encounter a lot of creeps and any hint you are one is not good. Being open and honest is the best thing you can do. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How I doubled my Tinder matches last week (exact photos included)just using therapy correctly Therapy? As in, you started to talk to a therapist and it helped that much? | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?Bodybuilding hopes you out tremendously. It increases the amount of girls (on cold approach but even more so in social circles) that are going to be warm towards you versus neutral or even cold. But it’s not the cure. It’s a tool; if you are overweight or very skinny, hitting the gym and fixing your diet is a great boost. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | should you fuck mids for experience ?Seriously. God I wish this place was normal. “Should I fuck mids for experience” YOU SHOULD QUIT BEING AN INCEL FIRST | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | conflicted between desire to keep going and religious upbringingclub sluts And what are you exactly? A stellar man in shining armor? This is the problem with this sub in general. You think you are high and mighty above the “club slut” because you have so called traditional values. Why would a girl who is “worth something” to you want to be with a guy who talks about Ne-Yo’s open marriage as something to try and calls girls at the club sluts? | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ?Make sure you have your haircut, and a few different outfits! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Which option should I chose to get maximum results with girlsNone, you are too needy by flexing your lifestyle like this. Go read Models by Mark Manson and, in reading it, you will understand why these things make you look like an insecure man to high value girls. Hint: You are sub communicating; “I am not a person worth meeting outside of material possessions, and I have to buy these things to make myself feel wanted by others” | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 17 | What's the most incredible club you've ever been to? The one with the most beautiful and coolest women to talk to and flirt withThis one time I slipped on baby oil and when I woke up I was at a Diddy party with Epstein, Trump, Bill Clinton; the whole gang was taking turns on me! Was probably the most incredible club I’ve been to. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 03:17 AM |
| 80 | sex for first time with more experienced girlIf you and her are in a position to have sex (ie home alone or watching movie in your room) then it’s pretty reasonable to assume she wants to have it. Either way, YOLO and go for it. Don’t be a creep either; hand on thigh first and gauge from there. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?I’ve tried to give this guy advice and he won’t listen; there is no point | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Romantically approaching women who do adult modeling/OF/similarAlso, never use the term hooker, prostitute, cash hoe, etc. around her. If you do even have a glimpse of meeting her in the future, remove these terms from your vocabulary. Try “dancer” or “entrepreneur” instead | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 01:14 PM |
| 26 | How do you turn a “bored” girl excited or happy?sometimes the bitch is just boring | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | NO matches on Tinder. Any help?Almost 100% sure this does not work; you need a new phone number. Dating apps track your phone number and keep data even after you delete your account. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 05:31 PM |
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