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These bitches are going to have sad cringey lives in their middle age. I'm middle aged and know a lot of middle aged women, many of whom are childfree. Not a single woman I know who is childfree has a "sad cringey" life, or has any regrets about not having kids. Now, for a decent number of the middle aged women I know who do have kids it's the complete opposite. They're the ones who are discontent with their lives, and I know several parents who have admitted that having kids was probably the wo…
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:48 PM
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if she isnt young and doesnt want children, I really dont give a fuck about a woman being interested in me, and other men are the same. Not true at all. If a woman wants to have kids I have no interest in having a relationship with her, it's one of my deal breakers. I have never had any interest in having children and can barely stand to be around young children. The 20 some year old children of a lot of my friends feel the same way and are opting out of being parents. Also, If I was single a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:40 PM
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You're off by a decade. In the US the birth control pill was approved by the FDA in 1960.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:06 AM
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I used to know a guy named Chad, and funnily enough we went to high school together in the 80s. The last I heard he was a percussionist in a major symphony orchestra and a private music teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:32 AM
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I've let every woman I've dated since I was 20 know that I had no intention of ever marrying, or having children. I'm an atheist so the religious aspects of marriage are meaningless to me, and I just don't believe that an outdated ceremony and a piece of paper are of any real value to a relationship. I was in one long term relationship where we were in a legal domestic partnership, which meant we had rights of survivorship, hospital visitations, and we could be on each other's insurance policies…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:11 AM
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So don't ask out strangers. The majority of couples I know either first met through common interests, or through shared social circles, and in many cases knew each other for a considerable time before developing a romantic relationship. My girlfriend and I knew each other for many years before we started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:09 PM
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A lot of those men don't even try. I've spoken with plenty of guys complaining about having problems dating who also admit they haven't tried asking someone out in 5+ years, and in quite a few cases they've never even tried asking out a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:52 AM
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I can relate to that. Most of the times in my life when I was actively pursuing women I ended up failing and being miserable about it. Then I'd decide to not worry about women and just focus on myself and having a good time and that's usually when a woman would come into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:26 AM
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You’ve met someone. You date. Romance blossoms. You get married. 30 years in. The beauty fades and strength diminishes. Now what? Eh, my girlfriend and I started dating when we were both 45, and that was 5 years ago. Given my family history of cancer I doubt I'll be around in another 30 years. For those who don’t want children—what will you leave behind? Or are you fine with no one remembering your name after you’ve left this world? I don't have children, and I've never wanted to have children. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:06 AM
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With my current girlfriend we were at a two week long historic reenactment event that we had both been attending for years, and had been camping with the same group for the last five or so. One night while the camp was sitting around after dinner making plans for what to do that evening I asked her what she wanted to do that night and her answer was to look at me and say "you", and now we've been together for over 5 years. The woman I dated before her I had been friends with for about a year and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:54 PM
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This doesn’t work for men because it’s telling men to put the onus on women to make the first bold move , which never happens. It's happened to me plenty of times. Probably half the women I've dated were friends that made the first move. Most of the rest were women in my extended social circle that made their interest rather clear before I asked them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:24 PM
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Now the answer would be zero, but I guess I'd have to say once if we're talking about my past since I did have sex once with someone I no longer liked. She was an ex, and I had loved her at one point, but the last time we had sex was after we broke up and I didn't even like her anymore. She just showed up at my place a few months after the breakup wanting to have sex with me because she was frustrated that the new guy she was dating didn't know how to get her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:59 AM
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So what if you're rejected by women, just go away and die loser" is NOT good advice. And it's wrong. Where did he say that? What he said was basically "If you're rejected, so what? That's normal." And yes, getting rejected is normal. It might suck, but it's totally normal. I've been rejected by plenty of women in my life and I've learned to just accept the "no" and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:15 AM
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And they have a completely unrealistic view of what the 80s and 90s were like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:11 PM
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I think that where you live, and the social groups you ask, are going to play a major role in how women will respond to past homosexual behavior. If you're in strongly conservative areas it's far more likely to be an issue than if you're in more liberal areas. For example I live in a very liberal area, the vast majority of people I know are very liberal, and I can't think of a single woman I know who would have a problem dating a bisexual guy, or a guy with a history of things like crossdressing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:34 PM
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That really depends on the people in the friends group. In my friends group it is very common for people to have dated multiple members of the group over the years. I even have friends who are now married to other mutual friends' ex spouses and everyone gets along and is friends with each other. Some of them even go on vacations together as a group. But I do recognize that people that can do that are likely in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:08 PM
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Yeah, "never rebelled" generally means "never thought about, or questioned, what they were told to believe and how they were taught to act." They likely never really developed a personality of their own. Oh, and "rebelled" doesn't necessarily mean things like getting in trouble, breaking the law, etc. I used to know a guy whose mother rebelled against her very liberal, beatnik father who used to run around with Ken Kelsey and the Merry Pranksters (and given that he was a chemist who made LSD qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:26 PM
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It's very unlikely to receive alimony today with less than 10% of divorce settlements ending with alimony ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:00 AM
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Happier? You have no idea what you're talking about. The real world of the past was not like the television shows of the 50s and 60s. Huge numbers of housewives took "mommy's little helpers", drugs like Valium, Miltown, Lithium and an assortment of amphetamines daily to deal with their miserable lives. Then there were the thousands of women forced to have lobotomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:49 AM
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Surely there were tons of men who did not want to get married but did so because of obligation and social pressure. I'm sure there were, but that social pressure forced many of them into marriage in the past. I'm a man who has never wanted a traditional family. The thought of a wife and children has never held any appeal for me. I just don't think you need a ridiculous ceremony and piece of paper to commit to someone. But, I was also born in the middle of the Gen X years and grew up during the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:19 PM
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You know that includes nonsexually transmitted HPV as well, right? HPV is transmitted through skin contract, sex isn't required, it just makes transmission a bit easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:10 AM
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I hope you don't drive then, you're far more likely to get injured in a car accident than you are to catch an STI while following safe sex practices. Also I'd love to know what kind of psychological damage you think having consensual sex causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:47 PM
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Except that as of 2018 (the most recent data I could find) the majority of women do not use hormonal birth control. Women aged 20-29 are the most likely to be using birth control, but only 19.5% of those women are using birth control pills, and 13.1% are using LARCs (long acting reversible contraceptives). LARCs also include non-hormonal contraceptives, like IUDs with copper, so it's maybe around 30% of women aged 20-29 who are using hormonal birth control. Source: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:32 PM
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I'm currently suffering from insomnia and first read that as "excessive eyebrows" and thought "Wow, you'd love my friend Goat, his eyebrows are taking over his face."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:29 PM
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I've met the women I've dated through mutual interests, at work, and through mutual friends. My current girlfriend and I knew each other for over 20 years before we started dating, and I don't even know where we first met since we've had so many interests and friends in common through those years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:11 AM
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My longest relationship to date lasted about 7 years and most of the first two were long distance. We had known each other for about a year before we started dating, which was about a month and a half before she left to finish getting her degree at a university about 430 miles (692km) away. So she would spend most of winter, spring and summer breaks with me and the rest of the year we would get together at least one weekend a month, usually two. I was the manager at the store I worked at so I wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:39 PM
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I don't know how some men can be comfortable being in a long term relationship and laying next to a woman dozens of men have been inside. Because we're not insecure. If you're secure and confident in your masculinity (real masculinity, not that "alpha male" big man trying to be a bully because he's really a scared little boy, bullshit) why would care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:45 PM
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No, I do not imagine that, and I definitely can't relate to those comments. Those comments sound like they come from someone who is extremely insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:07 PM
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But to say that men and women were separated and living in different spheres as the OP did is categorically false for the vast majority of human civilisations throughout history. Yes it happened, but usually only amongst the upper classes, which have always been a small minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:15 PM
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It was among the laboring classes that women had the most say in their "dating" lives since their marriages weren't for political reasons or generally as part of a land deal as their families didn't usually own their land. Of course if a family could arrange a marriage for a daughter to someone of a higher social level than them they would do so, but that was a fairly rare occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:18 AM
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At least in what is commonly known as "Western society" the separation of the sexes was really not that common amongst most people for most of history. It was primarily a thing amongst the aristocracy. But even amongst them there was plenty of mingling for most of history, hence the ideas of "courtly love" that were so widespread in the Medieval and Renaissance periods. It's really not until we get out of the Renaissance that we see a separation of the sexes becoming more common. Then in the 19t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:28 AM
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Obviously women like guys who are in good shape with a lean, toned body Some women like that, but by no means all. My girlfriend isn't at all attracted to guys who are lean. She prefers guys who are big and burly, as do quite a few women I know. If it wasn't for the women who like the big, burly men I would have had a much harder time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:39 AM
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You're asking them about the physical appearance of the person, nothing more. If they don't know the person they have no information with which to judge his personality and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:20 PM
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I haven't been to one since the 90s so I have no idea what they're like now, but back then it depended on the club. The first time I went to one was for a roommate's birthday. We went out to a few different strip clubs that night and most of them sucked, but the last club we went to was different. This club was smaller and the women were far more talented dancers. The dancers were just that, dancers, who just happened to take off their clothes while dancing. It was far more about the artistry of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:11 PM
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Almost certainly, and if I wasn't in a long-term monogamous relationship I'd still use condoms as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:50 PM
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I'm a nearly 50 year old guy and I've never tried Tinder, or any other OLD. I've been in a relationship for the last 5 years with someone who I've known since we were in our early 20s. I do have to say that for some reason after I turned 40 more women started flirting with me, and not just women in my age group. A couple months before the COVID lockdowns began I was at a Lords of Acid show and was hit on by 5 different people, most of whom were at least a decade younger than I was, and one was p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:01 PM
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"Hook up culture" has been common for a lot longer than just the last 20 some years. It started to become popular in the 1960s, and by the 70s was pretty common. An old boss of mine used to tell stories about the disco scene in 1970s New York, and how until he met his wife he hooked up with different women once or twice a week at the discos. Back in the 90s a friend of mine at college used to go out to clubs and pick up two or three different women every week, and that was in addition to his 2 g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:38 PM
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No, it really doesn't have to do with how attractive someone is but how they act, and interact with others. Here's an example. Back in the 90s there was a guy in my extended social circle who was generally considered to be a good looking guy, he was also the lead singer for a band that had some success, they released several albums and toured with Nine Inch Nails as an opening act. Yet no woman in the social circle would touch him. Why? He was a creep. He had a habit of acting inappropriately wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:59 PM
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I'm a guy in a LTR and I think it goes both ways. If one person, regardless of gender, pursues another for sex, or a relationship, then they are making a choice to pursue that person. That person then chooses whether or not to have sex, or a relationship, with the person that pursued them. My girlfriend made the first move, if I hadn't been interested I could have easily said no. I've done it before when women I wasn't interested in pursued me, either for casual sex, or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:44 AM
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Well that's just wrong. I've turned down several women who were interested in me that I want interested in, and one that if we had both been single, or in open/poly relationships, I would have absolutely been interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:42 AM
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I do, because it happens to me. My current girlfriend made the first move, my girlfriend before her made the first move. Most of the women I've dated either made the first move, or made their interest clear, and I'm not a good looking guy. I'm tall, but I'm also fairly fat and I don't have a good looking face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:04 AM
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Yes, everything you just wrote is all BS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah, my dad made about 3 payments and that was it. Of course that was the 70s and back then there was basically nothing that could be done if someone didn't make child support payments, especially if they lived in a different state like my dad did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:30 AM
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Eh, I've known plenty of guys who are "weird as fuck" who do just fine with women. The trick is they tend to pursue women who are just as weird as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:20 PM
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You still can in a lot of states. One of my friends hasn't received a child support payment from her ex in about 4 years, another friend hasn't received one since child support was ordered by the court almost 2 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:59 AM
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I don't know how it is currently, but back in the 70s and 80s it was quite common for the man to just leave, which forced the woman to be the one to file for divorce. It's what happened in my family. My mom came home from work one day to find that my dad had packed some of his stuff and just left. The same basic thing happened to bunches of families I knew back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:58 PM
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Exactly, and the fact that priests and monks took vows of celibacy while nuns took vows of chastity was done deliberately. While today we think of chastity and celibacy as being the same thing traditionally there was a difference. To be celibate was to be unmarried, but to be chaste was to refrain from sex. People didn't actually expect priests and monks to not have sex, and while having sex was a "sin" they didn't break their vows by having sex. It was just expected that priests and monks would…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:14 PM
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I have seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:14 PM
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Considering he committed sedition when he attempted to overthrow the government of the United States, and has committed more crimes than could be listed, yes, the semi-sentient orange blob of walking feces in a poorly tailored suit is indeed "bad". He should be spending the rest of his useless life in prison, unless it can be proven that some of his actions were to benefit his buddy Putin. In which case he committed treason, and the death penalty is still on the books for treason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:00 PM
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Nah, not Kevin a male Karen is called a Donald. Think about it, they're whiney, entitled crybabies who think the law shouldn't apply to them, what name is more fitting than Donald?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:48 PM
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I'm not single, but I'll answer anyway. do you spend time with girls you're not attracted to? Yes, and I did when I was single as well. is your group of female friends also a potential dating pool? I was friends with most of the women I've dated before we actually started dating. But being interested in them romantically was never the reason I was friends with them in the first place, and they all either made the first move, or at least made their interest explicitly clear. My current girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:58 AM
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Keanu Reeves behavior isn't "nice guy" behavior, it's "good person" behavior. There's a world of difference between a "nice guy" and a "good person".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:05 PM
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That's a good point. I think there are probably a lot of cases where the woman is forced to be the one to file for divorce because the guy won't, even if he was the one that left. I know that's what happened with my parents. When I was 14 months old my mom came home from work to find my dad had packed a bag and left. She eventually filed for divorce and had to wait a while for it to go through because he couldn't be found for over a year. Of course he wasn't making it easy to be found since he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:55 PM
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Exactly. While I am tall, as I said I'm not generally considered physically attractive, I'm overweight, I'm not wealthy, so according to incels my "SMV" would be pretty low, but something I've heard from a few different women, "I'm not here because of what you look like, I'm here because of who you are."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:24 PM
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Physical attractiveness is far from the only factor when it comes to attraction and dating. I'm not generally considered a physically attractive guy, but I've had some success with dating and have been in my current relationship for about 5 years. If a guy is physically attractive but still struggles to get a date that says a whole lot more about him and his personality than it does the women who reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:54 PM
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A few years ago my girlfriend did one of those DNA tests, I think 23 and Me. A few weeks after she got the results she got an email from someone saying "I think you're my sister." It turns out that her very religious father had gotten someone pregnant a couple years before he met his future wife and she never told him. He ended up living only about a half hour away from us so she's gotten to know her new older brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:37 PM
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If I was single it would depend on age. I've never wanted to have kids, and don't generally like being around young children. So the older their kid, or kids, the more likely I would be to date a single mother. Of course at my age most single mothers I would be considering would likely have teens, or adult children, so it wouldn't really matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:28 PM
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Back in college in the early 90s my very liberal friend Melanie, for some reason, went on a date with a guy we had nicknamed 'Conservative Dave". While having dinner at a nice restaurant a homeless guy came up to the window their table was on the other side of, and started pissing on it. Melanie said it was a perfect metaphor for how the date went.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:39 PM
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I know a lot more than just one, I just mentioned them because they've been together the longest of couples I can think of off the top of my head. I probably know dozens of couples that had sex within the first three dates and have been together for years. My current girlfriend, who I've been with now for almost 5 years, and I had sex before we ever had our first actual date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:29 PM
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That's not even remotely true. A very large number of women that I know, maybe even the majority, never had kids and never wanted to have kids. Same with the guys that I know. I've never once wanted to be a father, it sounds like one of the worst things in the world to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:12 PM
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Some might, some might not, it depends on the individuals. I know a couple that had sex before their first actual date, and they'll be celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary in September.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:20 AM
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As long as they're both consenting adults I think it varies on a case by case difference, and that the difference matters a bit less, at least to society, as both people get older. I think most people would find it less disturbing if it was a 35 year old and 55 year old dating as opposed to an 18 year old and 38 year old. The biggest age gap I've ever had in a relationship was when I started dating a woman 2 days after she turned 20 and I was just about to turn 30, but I didn't pursue her, she p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:36 AM
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You really need to read that again. It says that 1/4 of men have a child that is under 18, not that 1/4 of men under 18 are fathers. According to the article only about 1% of white, Asian and Hispanic males and 3% of black males under 18 are fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:49 AM
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You'd be surprised how many people with master's degrees, and higher, end up working in restaurants, or retail, for various reasons, I've known quite a few. One of the line cooks at a restaurant I was a sous chef at was a medical doctor, back home in Brazil, and while he waited to take his board certifications to be a doctor in the US he needed something to pay the bills. A woman who used to work for me when I was a manager at a chain of cutlery stores had a master's degree in physics, but she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:05 PM
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It might matter to someone who's insecure, but I honestly couldn't give a damn how many people a woman I'm in a relationship with has had sex with before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:47 AM
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Or don't ditch the dorky hobbies and find a woman who has the same, or at least similar, dorky hobbies. It's worked for me. My current girlfriend, and several other women I've dated, do medieval reenactment, which is a pretty dorky hobby. I've also dated women that I've gotten to know through tabletop RPGs, science fiction conventions, and Renaissance festivals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:38 PM
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Well from what I’ve seen conservative people who value marriage last longer than anybody else. That's not what divorce rates would say, at least not in the US. The highest rates of divorce are among Evangelical Protestants and Born Again Protestants. Most of the couples I know who have been together the longest, and I'm talking about 20+ years together, are extremely liberal and in polyamorous or open relationships. Also, what do you mean by " ...your ability decreases with an increasing body co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:45 AM
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