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| 1 | What kind of men behaviour do you girls like in social situations?Well if the other guys can’t lead the conversation then somebody has to do it.. there’s also girls who clog the conversation while the others listen.. I’ve seen it in my university campus. There’s a lot of guys who are shy so they tend to be a bit boring until they open up way later… most people like this arent even trying to impress, some people are just more talkative, less shy than others. | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Game for a 42yr old guy?That’s why I said there are some 30 year olds that are way better looking than a lot of college girls. It’s just they’re a little older | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Game for a 42yr old guy?I literally had a balding , out of shape dad bod classmate in his mid 30’s that used to cold approach around campus.. he got numbers, but no one ever responded lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Game for a 42yr old guy?I just graduated college and there was a ton of ugly chicks in my classes lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Game for a 42yr old guy?Yeah there are some 30 year olds that are better looking than a lot of college girls anyway. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..Bro but there’s some truth in most of the advice because I’ve also dated a super hot girl and they’re mostly spot on. Also what this person said is spot on. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:39 PM |
| 11 | Are there any guys who went from socially awkward in early 20s to a Chad after moving out to a big city?I learned to recognize the friendly vibes vs flirty vibes. after getting comfortable with the girls, constant communication, and hanging out alone a couple of times, you need to start flirting (being sweet) a bit with confidence, just don’t over do it.. a simple compliment here and there to show you find them cute, then I like to buy them à cute, cheap simple outfit and invite them to wear it when we go eat.. This little things show her that you find her attractive and separates you from the guy… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:20 AM |
| 50 | Are there any guys who went from socially awkward in early 20s to a Chad after moving out to a big city?Naw, it was only after I made a genuine friend that’s a girl, who happens to be very social and introduce me to her girlfriends, then I started to hangout with her other girl friends.. that was the Turing point for me.. but it didn’t happen over night, took some time of hanging out with women until I started opening up and realizing what works , the timings and what doesn’t work. | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:52 AM |
| 1 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?The problem is that not just because she made YOU work for it, means she makes everybody work for it.. some women give it to someone easily without really knowing them, but make others work for it.. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)?Fresh hair cut & clean shaved or cool beared. Cool fresh shoes, fresh outfit, cool style overall!! Believe or not, very few guys can get this right consistently … probably only about 7-8% of men are like this. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Yeah exactly, many women who look “good”, are really just average /a bit above average when make up , hair, and tight clothing comes off.. that’s why I only date girls who wear little to no make up and just have simple hair styles , I don’t like surprises. …. true beauty is difficult to find. The kind of girls who always look pretty with out makeup no matter what they wear or how they style their hair are super rare. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 05:09 PM |
| 17 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.And they do, trust. Some don’t want to grab attention. I have several hot friends and have dated à 9…. Plus loose clothing hides a good body.. why do you think many guys are ripped but you can’t tell unless they take off their shirts ? Same with women, some wear such loose clothing when they’re just bumming at home or running errands that it hides all the goodie goods. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:07 AM |
| 130 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Because a lot of them only look good when they are put together with make up and outfits that show their best body attributes. You do see them around every day but you ignore them because when they dress with loose sweatpants and a sweater to go to the laundry or market, hair undone because they feel lazy, you don’t even pay attention to their existence because they’re not showing anything attractive . But in the places you mentioned, all women show the best versions of themselves with their bes… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Most of u dont actually have a dating problem, you have a reps problemThat’s not flawed logic. That’s called exposure therapy. And it’s exactly what you need | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys go through your girl’s phone? If then how?And then you’ll need to go through her phone to confirm, or you will waste time with a person that you shouldn’t be with. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 05:43 PM |
| 16 | older guys getting younger girlsOne of them knows, the other one suspects I have the other one, but hasn’t been able to prove it .. I met girl #1 through facebook dating , girl #1 introduced me to her friend girl #2 .. then I started dating her friend, and girl #1 never let go of me, so now she knows I’m dating both and doesn’t care. And girl #1 also Introduced me to another girl I became friend with benefits with, girl #3 ( Also 21) but she doesnt know about girl #3 or else she’d dump me. So girl #3 knows about the other 2 lo… | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 01:32 AM |
| 48 | older guys getting younger girlsAt 31, I thought I was done. But shortly after I broke up with my ex, I started dating à 20 year old and a 21 year old, who are now 21 and 22 respectively and had another FWB who was also 21… I’m 32 now turning 33 soon | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with feelings for a fwb?I’m in your same situation.. attached to my FWB but don’t want to date her long term. I just want her to love me the same way I love her.. she seems not to have caught as much feelings as me though, she’s also bisexual haha | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 03:45 AM |
| 2 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsIn this area it’s more about having a good taste. I happen to have a good taste in clothes, I pick and combine the right colors. My style is simple but effective. Cool trendy sneakers, jeans that I find cool, not too tight and not too loose. A regular T-shirt with a cool design, decoration or fabric cut. Some jewelry such as a nice watch, and a chain. Always a fresh haircut and sometimes earrings. All clothes must fit right (the way I personally like them) or else I don’t buy them even if I like… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 11:37 PM |
| 6 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsNaw I’m just above average with a cool style and the girls I befriend usually think I’m super funny idk why.. I’m like a 7 but I’m not a 7 universally .. some might see me like a 6 and others like an 8 | /r/seduction | 15/02/26 09:10 AM |
| 14 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsNot all of them because some are in relationships, but when they become single I do bang some.. and there’s some feelings between me and her so I only bang who ever is not gonna fuck up my relationship with my main FWB… she brings me so much social proof !! | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 11:42 PM |
| 19 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsFacebook dating (we basically met to have sex, and she just kept reaching out to hang out, after hanging out for 2 months, she invited me to join her friend group, and that’s how I consistently meet good looking women. She’s very social so she always has a new friend with her that I also befriend and sometimes I have sex with them too) | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 05:06 PM |
| 39 | how to meet girls in 2026 without appsI met one through an app, became friends with her. And I’ve met tons, and will meet many more girls thanks to her. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 09:15 AM |
| 1 | "How some guys do it'' - my friendYou just gotta find someone you click with.. if you’re boring, there’s tons of hot boring girls to choose from. It’s easy to click with women you meet through mutual friends, or social environments which you visit often. That’s why he can get hot girlfriends. I used my own example as well to explain you how it happens. | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 06:57 PM |
| 3 | "How some guys do it'' - my friendBecause his options are people he meets in person and builds a connection with them. I’m in a relationship rightnow but I already know of at least 2 girls with whom I could get into a relationship fairly quickly if I break up. Both in their early-mid 20’s and beautiful. They’re Colombian. I met both through social circle and our bond developed over time. They’re just waiting for their turn basically now .. I’m early 30’s. | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What are the key things to learn / develop to become good with girls?I didn’t have those skills either, I picked them up by hanging out with girls | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What are the key things to learn / develop to become good with girls?Everything on this sub and any seduction, pick up subs, plus did a ton of research through chat GPT.. nothing ever clicked until I started constantly hanging out with a group of girls …. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 08:37 PM |
| 5 | What are the key things to learn / develop to become good with girls?Nothing.. just hang out with girls.. none of the theory I read helped as much as becoming friends with a girl who introduces you to other girls and then that’s how you learn to interact with girls. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desertWell maybe I shouldn’t have said TikTok, I’m assuming TikTok because my girlfriends get a lot of messages on TikTok so somebody should be answering those messages and meeting up don’t you think? And I do have experience on Instagram, you just follow them and like their pics, if they follow back then they find you attractive. Then just try responding something interesting to their stories and then it may or may not progress. I just make sure I can tell from their profile they live in my city, and… | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desertYou want to find girls from your neighborhood on Instagram ? | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 05:22 AM |
| 59 | I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desertBro in nightclubs when you’re drunk and poor lightning, a lot of girls seem like an 8, especially with a dress and make up on, also I bet most hot girls on dating apps are just there to get followers for their other social media.. the real game happens on Instagram DMs or TikTok | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 5 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?lol it depends on the crowd you hang out with.. I’ve had all kinds of girls.. mixed girls, blacks, Hispanics, Asians, whites , from all ages.. just dress good and be decently fit, don’t be ugly, and spit good game… there are tons of girls who are hot and don’t get a lot of attention via social media, there are girls who are hot and humble enough, just maybe not where you’re looking. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?I’m in LA too, then stick to down to earth girls .. seems like you’re after the conceited types.. there are plenty of good looking girls who are humble enough .. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?I guess it depends on if you’re able to accomplish it or not.. it’s always been easy for me doing it in the car with women all ages, from 15 years old when I was 16 and got my first car, to 40 and 50 year old mature women I hooked up with.. they came from all walks of life, bus drivers, business professionals, students, unemployed, part-time employed, married, etc… I’ve hardly ever done it at a girls place though, always the car or a cheap motel near by haha .. it’s easy, just start making out i… | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:40 PM |
| 9 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Bro you don’t even need that lol I’ve banged tons of girls in the back seat of the car in the middle of a random street, no tinted windows | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:15 PM |
| 46 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Rigth ! He probably bores them, can’t keep them entertained with Talk 🗣️ if they met you online and agreed to go out it’s cause they think you’re attractive. Can’t keep them? Then you just don’t know how to entertain them during the conversation | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short?I learned by messaging girls on social media. Even if their replies were boring, I would think critically and just write something that would most likely make them reply back, and then once rapport was established, I would think critically how to flirt and what to say before replying back to them.. took a few months, but eventually I was making girls fall in love with me all through messages.. This translates to in person flirting as I now know what to say. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Role of money in attractionBro you’re spending either way ! When I say “give them experiences their ex’s couldn’t afford” means spend more money on them than the guys they usually date.. if you don’t wanna spend money then you gotta be handsome, and even then you gotta spend to take them out when you’re truly interested in one. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Role of money in attractionBro it’s easy, you can’t attract every woman, but there are a segment of women who will date you without knowing you first, if you convey wealth through the car you drive, clothes you wear, and the fun you have! If a certain woman sees you can provide all that, this type of woman will find It attractive and overlook your physical weaknesses, especially once you start providing her with experiences that past boyfriends couldn’t afford… this is how money gets you women.. if you have even more spar… | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 12:03 AM |
| 20 | If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic optionBro so true about women going to clubs with their girlfriends and rejecting guys ! I went out with 5 girls all by myself and I danced with all of them 1 on 1 , when I was dancing with one of them, the other 4 were there dancing alone and would reject every single guy that approach them, while they all waited for their turn to dance with me .. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?I only go out with girls with whom I’ve been flirting with via texts already and developed that flirty vibe, so it’s already a for sure that they like me. That’s the secret. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?Most people need to be attracted to the person before going on a date, if they’re attracted it’s almost obvious they’d kiss you .. if they’re already attracted to you and the date goes well then 98% of the time they’ll kiss back if you kiss them | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?As with everything in this life, there’s always exceptions but I’d say it’s at least 85% the case for sure .. because if she doesn’t like you why would she agree to go out on a date ?? If she likes you enough to go out on a date she should like you enough to at least kiss you..most people wouldn’t go on a date with someone they wouldn’t kiss.. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 07:19 AM |
| 13 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?They don’t like you that’s why.. if a girl likes you for sure she will kiss on the first date .. if she doesn’t kiss on the first date don’t waste your time .. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?They don’t make a move .. I get laid on the first date 90% of the time .. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 06:00 PM |
| 10 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaI started doing well on Instagram until I posted a bunch of high lights partying with several different girls… from that moment, girls started replying to my DM’s.. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)Became more aware of how girls react to me and I simply make a move on those who seem to be more receptive. I have a fresh cut, dress fresh, smell good, I’m easy to get a long with and they say I’m funny .. and putting myself in situations outside of my comfort zone… for example; I went out one time with 5 girls and myself only and I danced with all 5 taking turns the whole night while they rejected every guy that approached. They all shared me to grind and dance the whole night | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How do hookups happen in college?Learn to read girls interest and then act on perceived interest.. or say or do a little something to gauge their interest and then act on perceived interest.. that has worked for me.. the other option is to flirt with confidence with many girls until one just hits back on you very straight forward | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys talk about with womenHaha nope I disagree .. women are far more complicated than guys. And you can actually trash talk like you do with men.. but just don’t be the one that talks the most shit cause girls are more sensitive at the end of the day and could take your words very seriously.. so unless they start trash talking, don’t do it first.. also girls are just as sexual as guys and once they trust you, they will be the ones starting sexual conversations .. it’s not about being “Nice” either.. when you’re too nice,… | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 08:18 PM |
| 14 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.I think next time I get asked if I’m gay by a girl I’m just gonna say “yeah but I’m looking for a girl to change that” | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 08:54 AM |
| 2 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.Happens to me a lot in my university .. apparently dressing fresh, having a cool hair cut and being in shape makes people think that you’re gay for some reason.. in my university guys don’t really put effort into their hair, style or over all appearance but I’ve been like this since HS | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 08:51 AM |
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