Entrospection Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	To all my “below-average” looking guys My guy everything you are saying is filled with this idea that you need to meet "women's standards for attracriveness" to get a girl. Even after you've been told you look ok you're still using this excuse as a reason. Everything you say is filled with self deprecation. How can you expect a women to want to be around you when you so obviously don't even like yourself? Get rid of this mentality that you don't live up to the standards of other people and start finding things about yourself that you…	/r/seduction	07/02/19 05:22 PM
–	To all my “below-average” looking guys Spitting truths bro. I'm in that boat rn... only I'm the attractive one in the relationship. My gf isnt like a 9 or a 10 probably on most peoples scales but she is funny and confident and kind. Being around her I'm constantly showed how amazing of a person she is because physically I'm attracted to her, but less so than with other girls I've dated. Her presence is just so darn enjoyable that you cant help but be intrigued and want to be around it. If you see a girl and she's just so gorgeous you…	/r/seduction	05/02/19 07:37 AM
0	To the guys who think that looks are everything... You're totally right OP, and anyone who disagrees is kidding themselves. Think on this, there has to have been a time when you were out and about somewhere social and there was a physically unappealing guy with just an out of his league hottie on his arm. You, being more attractive, naturally think to yourself, "wtf how did that fat bald dude land that kind of a woman?" It's game, and I boiled it down to this: "Hot women don't date ugly guys, but ugly guys date hot women." Now this is a crude wa…	/r/seduction	16/03/18 07:09 AM
2	FYI: Eye contact is the one of the most important elements in seduction. Can't stress this enough but everyone in here saying what about any shy guys or what if terrible freak pimples. Not just for game but for countless basic aspects of life eye contact is not only respected but probably expected also. If you can't look someone in the face they will subconscioualy think of you as less trustworthy. The same principle applies to the way really attractive people seem to get treated a little better. Our minds construct these instant opinions and it influences all of our…	/r/seduction	24/09/16 12:28 PM
4	I try too hard and end up saying stupid shit or acting super goofy in groups, and it just naturally happens. How can I stop myself from being a total dork in that regard? This is something I kind of struggled with when I got to college and the best way I found to deal with it was to just always have it at the back of your head. A crude but strong analogy is like when you have a girl over and you just can't ever fart and then when they leave it's sweet freedom. Keep the mindset of always having the girl over, but just with choosing your words. Also making people laugh is a good thing, but it kind of sounds like you're doing it for attention and not out of any actu…	/r/seduction	13/08/16 02:39 PM
1	Seddit, Im 18 and just had my first breakup and I need help fixing my mindset. Never look back.	/r/seduction	08/10/15 11:49 PM
1	Older and non-college guys getting hot girls that are in college, not seeing it happen but reading about it, anyone else? I live in an SEC college town attending an SEC school. I work in the most popular venue for music in the town and my boss is 40 years old and dates a much much younger woman (college aged) she is very good looking and has her life together as well as a healthy social circle. Its all about confidence and what you're comfortable with. Why should your opinions on what's ok make a difference to an older guy who's idea of ok is a young pretty girl?	/r/seduction	28/09/15 11:25 PM
1	Rejection. I've recently come into my own over the past year or so, socially speaking. I've got more friends, both male and female, than I've ever had, and there are multiple reasons for the changes in my life, but I think there's one tidbit of advice that I constantly remind myself of that might help you. You are scared of girls rejecting you, you have low self esteem. I was the same way. So try and remember this... GIRLS DON'T HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT. I used to think of girls in terms of their sex. I wou…	/r/seduction	14/04/13 11:53 PM