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Maybe when they're not into you or don't feel safe with you Ah, I forgot. I am a dude, so I am ipso facto at fault for everything. Less snarkily: maybe she is having sex with me but won't communicate her needs and wants because shes using me for an orgasm and not actually into me, or feels safe enough to let me have sex with her, but not enough to say what she wants or needs because I'm so dangerous. Or maybe she's just bad at communicating or there's some other thing she needs to improve on. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:11 PM
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Communicating and actively participating are basic steps here which many women still manage to fail at. So I'll start with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:03 PM
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Okay, don't make the effort then. That's.. not at all what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:35 PM
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Put in the effort to make her cum and you'll find out how much women like sex. Although a popular take, her enjoyment of sex is not solely the responsibility or fault of the man. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:04 PM
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I have direct evidence that contradicts this statement, so I disagree strongly. They do generally value it differently from men, and they do use this to their advantage, individually and in aggregate. However, one engaged in the act, they can very much enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:02 PM
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The first part is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:22 AM
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Not all of us do. Similarly, women need to stop sleeping with men that haven't committed to them yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:19 AM
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I'm all for having a man whose loving, protective, a provider so i can reciprocate and make him food, polish his shoes and all the stuff we women like doing out of love. Yeah, some of us do that. But only for the right woman. not caring if they’re girl posts half nude If I have to express my displeasure at this, you're not the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:13 AM
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So, you're against a men-only space in the gym? I've seen it for womrn, but it's never been a thing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:20 AM
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I don't see it. Women are allowed to participate in all men's sports that I'm aware of. The don't make the cut, but they're allowed. Little league baseball allows girls to play. However, softball is girls only. receipts: https://en.as.com/mlb/can-girls-participate-in-the-little-league-world-series-n/ https://www.littleleague.org/play-little-league/softball/divisions/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:04 AM
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For me, I don't get want scantily clad women being distracting, and I don't want women judging me. I'd sign up for a men's only gym, if they existed. We should have the option to not have to deal with women's nonsense either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:01 AM
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Are you looking for relationships or approaching women that you personally can't see yourself fucking at some point? So a woman who hits on a man, then waits until they're married to have sex with him is just hitting him up for sex? Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:44 PM
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Then complain about the same men not picking up their signals. Or, more commonly, on the wrong men picking up signals that weren't there. If your signal is indistinguishable from noise, you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:40 PM
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You shouldn't believe everything you read online. [citation needed] ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:36 PM
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I don't care. She shouldn't be unhealthy, but that sounds like a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 11:28 PM
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Sounds like you want a trad husband without having to be a trad wife in the ways you don't want to be. Common take, but pass. Either be modern or be trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:47 PM
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If you're privileged, equality feels like oppression. And then you reply with a hyperbolic post like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 PM
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she*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:54 PM
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Tell me you're a woman without telling me you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:08 PM
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I meant firearms, but your take is hilarious, so I'll let it stand :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:59 PM
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I can’t much to prevent it. Small arms have entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:28 PM
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men allow a capitalistic system that prevents fair wages and an ability for one income household? Comrade, have you seen the sexes' labour roles in the USSR, eastern Europe, China, and North Korea? So. Much. Progress. I sincerely doubt that you're advocating in favour of right-wing revolution. At least, I really hope you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:53 PM
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are you awkward around men the same way? I'd be surprised if they were. Women are hella judgmental. It's kind of their thing. So there are plenty of guys around that got on the wrong side of that and have the emotional scars to show for it. Sadly, in my experience, emotional scars aren't as sexy as physical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:45 PM
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Yes. Do you think its possible for men to have close female heterosexual friends in a healthy way? Yes, but it's hard. As many others point out, it can be very difficult because over time one of them (usually the man, I would guess, because most men find most women attractive wheras the converse is categorically not true), so it's unlikely to last. Most likely, he'll ask her out, she will assume subterfuge, and they'll explode like a gram of FOOF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:43 PM
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Comments? Many articles have! Definitely underscored the fact that boundaries are OK for women to have, but not for men to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:06 PM
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Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:47 PM
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Why do you think I look down on someone I just said I’d view as platonic (unless otherwise shown differently)? You didn't call them "platonic," you called them "NPCs". Non-Player Characters. Not real people. Subhuman. You should talk to men. I try to avoid talking to myself. It garners funny looks. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:31 PM
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Most men are NPC to most women. Yes, it's just usually not out in the open like that. For men it seems most women are at least fuckable and then some women are both fuckable and loveable. No? What an underinformed and cynical view. It might help to chat more with these "NPCs" you look down on so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:19 PM
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Wow you're out of touch with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:13 PM
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Most men are "NPC" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:59 PM
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You too, friend! Perhaps you'll rediscover your sense of humour, and even think about things a bit more deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:54 AM
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dealing with unwanted pregnancies the way anyone should be allowed to. Killing infants by exposure has been banned in the west for a good many centuries now. Good luck bringing it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:05 PM
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This guy marries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:25 PM
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Stay married to her? Just because she's less attractive than she was didn't make you suddenly not want her. And having better options doesn't mean you have to take them! Do women think the way you seem to imply? Seems like yes, which would explain a lot. Your whole question only makes sense if you're a disloyal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:22 PM
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Hold on, I have to find a large flounder for the task
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:27 PM
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Unlike us vile and vengeful men. Hey, reminder: make sure to fill your quota of repression this weekend, no matter how much the women disgust you. Half-month reports to your patriarchal supervisors are due Monday!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:05 PM
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in a surprising turn of events, zero women claim to enjoy their exercising their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:00 PM
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I'm a no sex before marriage kind of guy. But I expect her to be as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:14 AM
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Selection bias is a helluva drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:08 PM
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If we could support ourselves on her income and it's not going to cause her to lose her attraction to me if I'm a house husband, sure. I doubt there are many when for whom this is true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:48 PM
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I don't care how much money she makes. I actually am not interested in a woman who is defined by her career. A job is a way to earn money, nothing more. A career woman will sacrifice her family for her career, and likely be salty about both. I do care about aspirations and work ethic. I need a wife I can trust to pitch in, and complement my efforts. So as long as the lack of aspirations is only related to career, I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:46 PM
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Perhaps. I'd be concerned that I might develop feelings for her. That tends to happen after a while when I get on especially well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:27 PM
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To quote a certain hedgehog, I'm waiting. taps foot impatiently
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:24 PM
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Are you expecting grovelling at your feet or something? Yes. Please begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:20 PM
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If we're on our honeymoon and you're refusing, then that's definitely too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:15 AM
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Sorry, no, I'm not just going to take your word for it. I didn't ask you to. On the contrary, please do check the references yourself! That's how we understand the strengths, novelty, and limitations of studies: by digging in to them and understanding how they arrived at the results they reported (and what they didn't choose to highlight.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:05 PM
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I am sorry that asking a question That was not a question that was a whole basket of implicit allegations without even taking the trouble to thinly veil. confused you so much Ah, doubling down on the passive aggression. Lovely. what did you mean by that then? I presume you can figure it out, once you decide to actually apply your mind to the task. At this point, you're clearly not engaging honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:45 PM
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Maybe go with that instead of ... whatever it was you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:33 PM
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Care to elaborate how that relates to the point I was making?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:29 PM
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There's a lot of folks expecting that a woman will woman up when married and with kids (plus the misrepresentation during dating). It's yet another downside of the women are wonderful effect. I mean women are just naturally good with kids, right? Isn't that what everyone believes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:40 PM
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That would be included in the pre divorce calculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:38 PM
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If you read though the citations, there're some thumbs on the scales, e.g. by counting children in the final score.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:35 PM
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"Gray divorce, which describes divorce among persons aged 50 and older" so already you've started with a huge misrepresentation of what the study actually says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:23 PM
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Oddly enough, I feel the same about women. Surprise: men are actually people too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:23 AM
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You.... don't understand how employment works? Ot how romantic relationships work? Ah, I see. Second time you've deliberately misstated my position. You're just not interested in logic and discussion, you're interested in fighting. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:56 PM
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people choose to be in a relationship, and 2 people can choose to not be if they want. So how is this materially different from an emplyment relationship? bloody hell this sub is obsessed with power Did you miss the part where you mentioned it before I did?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:44 PM
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Yes, I am, but no, I'm not going to date you. Clever approach, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:35 PM
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Yes, but your argument was not based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:23 PM
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I didn't realise that my boss was in a romantic relationship with me That wasn't what you said: 2 people choose each other. Both parties have as much power as each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:16 PM
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Bold of you to assume it ever stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:14 PM
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So employers and employees have the same amount of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:52 PM
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There's a difference between fast food and a filet mignon paired with a nice malbec. You don't care if you're kept starving, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:07 PM
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your partner is attentive I'd say this is buggest problem for most men in long -term relationships. Most women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:18 PM
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How long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:59 PM
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It looks likr you're a woman. I'm a man. I expect our perceptions on this are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:27 PM
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She shows it as well. Thus far, you've not demonstrated it. If you cannot good faith, I will end this. So saying "what the person you're holding up as an ideal is not demonstrating congruence between their words and actions" is "bad faith?" Perhaps you're the one "bad faithing" here, by bringing in an example that cannot be challenged. Nagging is not a display of contempt. I Yes, it is. Nagging is a result of caring and seeing your worth and thinking you aren't living up to it which is upsetting…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:36 PM
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She says it all the time to him. Oh, she says it? Then it must be true. Dudes who think a woman nagging doesn't care have no idea what a woman who doesn't care looks like. Don't we, though? We do. That's one form of it. Nagging is a display of contempt and prioritizing herself above him. She cares, alright-about herself. Not him in the slightest. She cares about him and their relationship. Then why is she chipping away at its foundations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:58 AM
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Agreed. Women are much more self-absorbed than men. By a country mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:33 PM
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Frankly, this mentality is doomed to fail. You say that, but it's worked wonders for me. Women just are fundamentally incapable of contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:28 PM
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My mother hasn't stopped nagging my father yet despite their not so happy marriage. And he's always pissed off she's nagging. wait for it.. At least she still cares, dude Ah, there it is! chef's kiss She cares, alright. Not about him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:17 PM
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She's nagging because she cares. Could you maybe phrase your affection in a less terrible way then? Thanks. "He only harasses you because he cares." Seems like a terrible thing, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:10 PM
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If someone says “go away” “stop talking to me” or anything along those lines, then you are obligated to go away. Oh? Interesting. Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:21 AM
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You seen to have a thing about holes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:17 AM
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wouldn't the obvious thing to do just be to be sexual and hot, but with your husband? This. Fucking this. From above: Do I want to be the lonely dumpy housewife whose husband jacks off to porn every night, or do I want to be the hot girl who would make my husband’s eyes fall out of his head? The Madonna-Whore complex dictates that I cannot be both. No, you can be both. The "Madonna Whore Complex" is Freudian bullshit. The answer, in case you missed it, is that you absolutely should try to be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:53 AM
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point is women like alpha and beta traits Yes, we're agreed here. the fact that looks matter at all doesn’t prove AF/BB it just shows that women are physically attracted to men AND want them to provide. And a whiff. No, AF/BB is where the woman can't get both in the same guy, and settles for the man she doesn't want to have sex with, but wants his stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:21 PM
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I don't think you understand anything about the terms at play here. Yes, "hot" is judged on more than looks alone. That doesn't invalidate the term, it just makes your understanding wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:08 PM
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I disagree with your definition of "whore" then. I think we otherwise agree though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:52 PM
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Fair enough. Still good to meet you, though. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:45 PM
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I don't think most men would preferentially sleep with promiscuous women, but the things some (many?) men look for are definitely different to those they look for in a wife. I think, if given the choice, most men would prefer one or a few (maybe even a lot!) women that are both great partners and have the hot sex with them but nobody else. Update: a man might settle for having sex with a promiscuous woman, but wouldn't want her as a wife generally. Kind of the worst case scenario is a promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:43 PM
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So you're both saying OP is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:35 PM
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It's called Madonna/Whore. How is this a "dual mating strategy?" Or, perhaps better: what do you understand this term to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:32 PM
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Woman has sex with an attractive guy whom she demands very little of and then she gets with a less attractive guy with all the demands. You're not operating on the correct definition. AF/BB (alpha fucks, beta bucks) is entirely about what a woman looks for from each guy. Ideally, she'd like both from the same guy. But, if she can't get her hot guy she's been sleeping with to commit, she'll form a relationship with the guy who's not hot but a steady, good provider (often called the "plow horse") …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:13 PM
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Further, the whole "owes" and "power" framing seems very female to me. It's more or less a foreign concept to me, and I suspect many men as well. It seems to be very common for women, though, to track perceived power and who owes what to whom. I call it the "calculus of slights." I've heard the after-action report many times and wondered how common this is: "was I slighted here? I think she was insulting me by...", often in things that seem incredibly small to me as a man. Perhaps this is why wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:45 PM
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Hi. I'd not. We'd have to be married first. The what point is correct: if we get on well and I find her attractive, she has good potential for marriage. Anyway, good to meet you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:21 PM
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The degree? No. Many fools are some variety of doctor, and many wise people may lack much education. The field would definitely affect things, though. It says possible topics of conversation and sometimes worldviews (e.g. I don't think a doctor of women's studies and I would likely get on well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:16 PM
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Once people feel like you “owe them” something they become very power trippy I don't think that's at all how it works in this situation. It's not "his" money, it's their money. They set a budget and stick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:59 PM
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Sounds fine to me. Guess that's why I'm pretty "trad."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:56 PM
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There is such a library, but the Jedi do not possess it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:43 PM
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And the men are mad because I told the truth lol. It's not even about power for me but protection. The power I have provides a certain layer of protection for me. Of course it it's only protection. Nobody likes having power over others. It's always only a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:40 PM
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Sort of. It's more that women have a high baseline value (ability to make and raise babies (at least in the early stages)) and men have zero (possibly even negaitve) individual default value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:51 PM
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The ball is in my court when a man approaches. I have total control of the situation. I get to reject, take his number, or friend zone him. He also has to prove himself to me once I give him the opportunity to take me out. There are many preventive ways you can do things when you hold all the power. You call the shots. I think this is the best comment. Relationships and sex are all about power for women, and not so for men. It's a completely different outlook. We're just lucky she said the quiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:26 PM
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OK, but my point was that many of us dudes have the same problem with our female partner. Phones seem particularly pernicious problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:09 AM
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Why do you assume husbands are the only ones that have this problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:06 AM
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if you see me cleaning the kitchen or scrubbing the bathroom, it would be nice if you put down the tv remote or video game controller and pitched in a little. Or her phone....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:46 AM
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Women are not phones or cars you upgrade after a few years. Men are not wallets or vending machines to use up and replace with a better one. Yet that is most men's experience. The concept of a "starter wife" in in itself so unpleasant and really ridiculous in a forum where most men complain that they cannot get sex or love. I would think that the overlap between those two groups is approximately zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:38 AM
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