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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | I still love my wife, she broke my trust | Environmental-Tap128 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 02:15 AM |
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| 3 | If you were the one who was left, and the one who is heartbroken, how long did it take you to get over your ex?You’re not the “bad guy”. You’re a POS. Hope she reams you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/22 03:46 AM |
| -10 | Scared of divorcing my wifeHypocrites. Men in these forums get pissed when the women request support/ half assets. Men get pissed when their spouses friends/ support groups encourage the woman to get a divorce. Yet I see the same thing these “men” are advocating you do. You want to be happy? Figure it out on your own, you shouldn’t rely on her for your happiness. You want to leave her, and not fix problems in your relationship that you most likely own 50% of? Then you don’t deserve her money. Really, blow jobs? You sound … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Anyone had an ex come back around?Yeah, fk you Sheila. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Reasonable ExpectationsShe texts you constantly asking when you’ll be home? At least she misses you? Wants to be around you? Edit: I saw your posts, you’re a dirtbag. Stop looking for sympathy here. Hope she reams you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/22 01:53 AM |
| 20 | Is it ok to track my car's location?Agreed. If you confront she will feel cornered and then most likely retaliate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Need help with copingMonkey branched? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/22 07:02 AM |
| 8 | When a woman say she was/is in an abusive relationship or marriage, Abusive is a Code word for women.Yeah I allowed my STBXW to do whatever, spend whatever. I pipe up ONE time about these see through yoga pants and I’m “manipulative”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Divorce and TikTokYesssir! My STBX 28f has been posting all about her new and improved single life on instagram and TikTok. Our mutual friend, (my buddies wife) says that she thinks she is delusional. I feel as though there are many hurt girls and women on those social media site, so they post things like, “know your worth” and “dump him to regain independence” I could go on and on but my point is that it’s a very trendy topic. My STBX before she left, I saw a notification on her phone about screen time….6hrs/ da… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 36 | After 7 years and a 2 year old, wife wants divorce.We’re here for you bud. I’m so sorry. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. 3 months ago this was brand new to me. My wife of 8 years leaving me. What’s wrong with the world? I have been asking myself that everyday. I don’t understand either. I thought I was an amazing husband. You are a good person, it’s her. She has most likely spent many hours on instagram and TikTok. There are thousands of relationship coaches that try to get people to split. You are not garbage. My wife is treating me that… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?My STBX and I got married at 21. If its down hill now, I promise it gets worse. I couldn’t cut ties because I was too loyal, faithful, believed in marriage. Took my vows seriously. 8 years into marriage (29m) (28f) she cheated on me. Told me I was just her ticket out of her terrible home town. Said much worse, she crushed me. She resented me for years but told me she kept appearances up because she didn’t know how to survive without my income. Being lied to for years is hurting me the most right… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Wife wants a divorceHey bud. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I got into the same boat with you just a few months ago. Your story sounds so eerily familiar to mine. We just didn’t have kids. Im 29, been with my current and soon to be ex wife at 20. All the things your wife has said, mine said the same. Im still in love with my wife, so much it hurts. Because she feels nothing for me. The best thing you can do, is think about yourself. Your kids. I don’t want to put all women into one bucket, but I keep hearin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid the rage?My wife of 8 years did something similar. Once she found a new man she had no feelings for me. Ran home to Ohio. Hasn’t talked to me in months. I got papers last week from her attorney. I found out the guys name. Listened to my dash cam audio. Talked to our mutual friend. Once I confirmed it, I sent a mass text to all her family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustUnderstood. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Serving papersMy wife ghosted me. Then served me papers. Still ghosting me. Unless you really hate her, please explain. Talk to her. She’s still human. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustThank you man. I appreciate you and everyone here giving me the advice you have. I am delusional. There were so many flags I chose to ignore so as to not create reasons to be resentful or spiteful to her. I wanted to love every part of her. Even the bad ones. Gave her excuses for her because I know she had some mental health struggles. I will cherish the good times but not use them as a reason to chase her. She really has always been this person. She would tell me and my family how easy it is fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustThank you, I appreciate your words. I’m working closely with the VA now. It only goes so far. I relied too much on her. Coming home to her was the best part of my day. I got too attached. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustA little harsh but I understand. You make a good point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustI’ve always wanted kids. But her family has issues with that. She was on birth control since a child to prevent future issues. She knew I wanted kids, she said to me, “I am so f***ing happy I didn’t have kids with you”. Man, right in the feels. Really. I guess I’ve been blinding myself intentionally. I didn’t want to see the bad in her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustI was sneaky too. I listened to my dash cam footage. Man, the stuff I heard…I really didn’t want to believe it. It sounded like a person I never met before. I kept giving her passes in the past because I know she has some mental health issues. I had reasons to end it long ago. But I took my vows seriously. Guess I want to be an honorable and faithful man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 4 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustThanks bud. It’s hard for me to understand it. I feel she was just “keeping appearances” for a while. Feels like the rug got pulled out from under me. She really caught me off guard with the, “I’m no longer in love with you” chat. Going to be difficult to trust again. She often asked me, “you’re never worried I’ll cheat on you, you don’t have dreams like that” I would always tell her I trust you completely. I feel foolish now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 06:00 AM |
| 3 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustIt’s so unbelievably hard. I go through a roller coaster of emotions week to week. Stay strong brother. I am doing my best I can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 05:57 AM |
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