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100% agree. If you start when you’re still working on your looks it’s going to be hard but once you get into better shape/get better fashion etc etc you start playing the game on easy mode.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:18 PM
2

You’re a good dude for not fucking an obviously hammered chick. You have your shoe in the door now tho, just ask her to grab a drink sometime next time you see her or text her to set it up if you have her #.
/r/seduction26/05/22 12:00 PM
2

I stand by my original advice never initiate another conversation with her again in your life. Only respond when she texts/snaps first.
/r/seduction20/05/22 10:03 PM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:50 PM
1

Spend time acquiring new girls.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:57 AM
2

We all fuck up and it’s a critical part of the learning process. Scarcity creates value. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. It’s hard as fuck to resist the urges but if you initiate with her it’s 100% done you heard it here first.
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:08 AM
1

Do not text her first (you can respond when she initiates) for 1 month. You need to go nuclear. You fucked things up (no offense). This is coming from a guy who has fucked up more than 5 relationships lmao. If she doesn’t text you first for an entire month do you really think she’s the one for you bro?
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:59 AM
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Fuck no don’t ask her what’s up. That is horrible advice. Do not do that.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:51 AM
1

Match energy and then some. She’s distant? You’re more distant. She’s being super sweet to you? You’re even more sweet to her. If she lets things die because you go distant as well, SHE IS NOT INTO YOU She doesn’t feel distant out of nowhere. You asked her to be your girlfriend. Which is not a good idea. 100% of the time the girl brings up the relationship talk. You gotta learn the fundamentals my friend.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:49 AM
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I text my girlfriend “Are you doing ok doing ok, anything I can do?” If something MAJOR happens (losing a job, death in the family, she’s really sick or injured, etc etc). Otherwise, why the fuck would you check up on someone? Just be honest with yourself and she hasn’t texted you in a while and you’re looking for any excuse to text her.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:46 AM
2

If she likes you more than you like her this will work forever. My experience, is that when a girl is either WAY more or WAY less social than me, it is typically tougher, but not impossible.
/r/seduction10/05/22 08:14 PM
1

Yeah, dumb as hell.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:59 PM
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I’ve legitimately gotten slapped for asking an Asian girl her nationality as an opener. I had a shiner for a Monday morning meeting at work.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:53 PM
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Bro we are the same person LOL. My cold approach or even bar/party hookups vs online hookups are so ridiculously skewed towards online. Once I’m on a date my close rate is 70-80% (I used to be a nerd and keep track lol). My strength is def when I get them in a 1:1 setting.
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:53 PM
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Man I think the “Hey I thought you were cute I’d be kicking myself later if I didn’t say what’s up I’m ******” is better than all of your other examples. If you compliment a girl’s nails I legitimately think she will think you are gay. I’ve never done this. Same with the cultural thing and the courses thing. Especially the courses one. Comes off as totally disingenuous. Simple is good. As far as keeping it going, just learn how to fuckin talk lol and ask her about herself eventually ask for her …
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:47 AM
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Beautiful post. I’ll add that this is no excuse not to be persistent to girls who are “on the fence”, my current girlfriend wasn’t super into me at first, but after a week or 2 she finally agreed to meet up for drinks and now loves me. I suppose she was into me enough to give me her # and text me back tho, so there was some level of interest. But yeah, generally if she’s just clearly not texting you back or whatever, drop her and move on.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:58 PM
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For sure, but in my experience it’s over half that do, maybe over 75%, but my pussy eating skills have been honed over the years lmao. At worst she’s very hot and bothered and ready to be fucked after a 10 minute pussy eating sesh.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:36 PM
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Someone pin that bitch to this subreddit it took me a while to write and is the exact process I have followed for years with great success 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:34 PM
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Do not fear premature ejaculation brother. If you cum fast, guess what, she already came, maybe multiple times. You keep fucking until have some stamina. After gettting off once you’ll last literally 10x as long the second round. Most of all, be confident. Sex is easy. You’ll do great.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:22 AM
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Alright here’s a step by step basic guide: 1. Get into a comfortable setting, watching a movie for example. Put your arm around her, make her feel comfortable, rub her shoulder. 2. After maybe 20 mins, start making out for a few minutes. A good way to do this is by grabbing her cheek lightly and pulling her into you. Girls get turned on way slower than guys so in general just go slow at the beginning. 3. Guage the situation, if she’s aggressively grabbing your dick it’s on. If she’s not, slowly …
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:48 AM
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Lol. Yeah I mean I truly do feel bad for those types because it’s a really shitty place to be. I always ask for # but if she asks for IG I make her follow me first bc otherwise she won’t see my dms. I have a way more direct/polarizing strategy than most though.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:22 PM
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She wants to make sure you’re cool before she agrees to go on a date with you. If your IG sucks she will think you’re not cool. Sad truth of today’s dating game.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:07 PM
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Cool too see this validated from a female point of view. I think the “nice guy” thing is such an over simplification. Ask anyone I know and I’m a really nice dude. I’m just not a push over and stand my ground when I need to. Part of being a nice guy imo is joking around with people which involves light teasing lol. Makes them laugh, which makes the vibe better.
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:51 PM
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Be NICE with some SPICE. I joke around/tease my GF a lot and she loves it. I do not bend or fold on topics/issues I feel strongly about. I’m nice as hell to her as long as she is cool to me. If she is acting bitchy for no reason she gets the cold shoulder for a couple days. Being nice isn’t the problem. It’s being a pushover or an over-eager child trying to appease a woman by any means necessary that gets you in trouble.
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:02 PM
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Oh shit. Well I’ll give you the full rundown then lol. GP’s don’t know shit about hormone optimization unfortunately, so I would go to somewhere like elevate alternative medicine or royal medical clinic. If you wanna do it on your own go to walkinlab (type it in on Google) and you can request whatever bloodwork you want and then go to either labcorp or quest to get the samples taken. Full and free testosterone + ultrasensitive estradiol is where I would start. Your test levels should be between …
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:34 PM
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You could. I didn’t see that you were 17 in the OP, so I’d maybe just go to a GP and tell him exactly what’s going on. I’ll tell you the first time I had sex I couldn’t even get hard let alone stay hard because I was so nervous. The girl was way out of my league too, attraction wasn’t not the issue. I was 17. I’m 28 now and haven’t had any issues since the first time. The doc will guide you in the right direction and I can’t in good faith tell a child to get black market Cialis. So I retract my …
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:28 PM
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Dm me
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:21 PM
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Get your testosterone levels checked Stop watching porn and masturbation (easier said than done). Bare minimum stop with the porn. Take cialis 3 is a bandaid. I would be more worried about testosterone levels.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:20 PM
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Maybe throw these in here and there, but the bulk of the convo should be you getting her to talk about her self. Also, cold reads are lethal. Physical touch is lethal.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:36 PM
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Valid point.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:52 PM
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I’m in the top 10-20% and usually get 7’s-9’s what do you want me to say
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:51 PM
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You got more balls than me, brother. Lol. Yeah the most fucked up part is she is by far the best girlfriend I have ever had and I still want to fuck around.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:27 PM
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Well I did so here I am asking advice about my situation.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:21 PM
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Ya she is down for 3somes with no penetration on my end (lol) but I think I think there’s about a 90% chance she would not be a big fan of this. I’m a “high value male” (fucking hate that term so much but is what it is) so maybe she’d be down. Idk. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:21 PM
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That they are my friend.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:18 PM
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Those are good numbers compared to people good at pickup lol. You’re doing good.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:27 PM
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Be cool. Don’t nag. Cook for us. Take care of us. Be pleasant. Be interesting. Be an absolute freak in the sheets.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:39 PM
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“Opinions are outsourced” is what did it for me 🤣. Are women more susceptible to adopting the opinions of their BF/Husband if he’s a confident dude? Sure. Are 100% of their opinions outsourced? Uhhhhhhhh 🤣
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:31 PM
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This is definitely true, what works even better is if you’re with a hottie. Preselection. Idk the technical term for what happened to you. Competition/validation?
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:20 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:19 PM
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Fr. Don’t over complicate this folks
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:56 AM
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“You are the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen in my entire life” was my opener for my current GF future wife. Try a bunch of shit out and see what works for you. There are basic principles to follow but different strokes for different folks. Using a canned opener would probably not work well for me but would work great for others.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:55 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:29 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:26 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:26 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:21 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:21 AM
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Yep. It was all hogwash until this was the case for me. Now I have a beautiful, amazing girlfriend and I would be sad for 2 days if she dumped me. Get those reps in and continue self improving fellas 😎
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:20 AM
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There is a perfect balance to be struck between general nonchalance with a burning desire to chase your dreams. All while not giving the girl too much of your attention, but enough so she knows you like her. Every now and then do something extra special for her just because you fuckin want to. She should know you love her, (LTR) but absolutely do not need her. If she dumps you today she better be damn certain that you will shrug it off and go pull another baddie within a couple weeks. This keeps…
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:16 PM
1

Yeah, although I got rejected less and less as I got better at this shit, got in better shape, increased my fashion, etc. I’ve pulled on the first convo of the night and I’ve pulled on the 15th, and (spoiler alert) probably 70% of the time I go home empty handed. Just depends. It’s a numbers game and have thick skin, but if after 250 approaches you haven’t gotten laid once there’s something off.
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:42 PM
0

Jealousy is a hell of a drug. Keep doing you brother.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:32 PM
1

It was a combo of my mindset being in the right place and the girl being perfect by my standards.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:18 PM
7

Welcome to the club. Was in this purgatory for 5+ years and just met the girl I’m going to marry (knew within 5 dates).
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:40 AM
3

I strongly disagree what are the easier/more natural alternatives? I learned how to game blacked out drunk half the time at college bars in college lol
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:02 PM
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This is it. If you’re consistently finding that girls don’t like you, continue working on yourself and continue getting the reps in with girls. The results will come if you put in the work.
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:26 PM
3

I would work on socializing in general, maybe do toastmasters or some shit like that, but you’re not weird, you just need practice talking to people. If all else fails, booze.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:04 AM
1

True sorry
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:57 PM
1

Touché good sir
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:57 PM
1

❤️
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:56 PM
1

Hahaha good deal 😂
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:56 PM
1

Haha ok bud
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:32 PM
2

This is the way. Thank you.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:32 PM
2

Lol I’m gonna pass on that one but if I ever need to get diabolical on someone I’ll save this 😂
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:31 PM
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That was a joke man lol
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:14 PM
0

Right exactly. She’ll directly send me the really good ones which I actually appreciate (we have a similar sense of humor). But she knows I don’t love texting so it’s a balance.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:14 PM
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Good point. I have many flaws that she puts up with lol.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:13 PM
2

Good points. She’s not ignoring me she texts me constantly which is not ideal (kinda annoying) but I much prefer it to her being cold and distant obviously.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:13 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:11 PM
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I think this is an important point, if it makes her happy posting a bunch of funny memes or whatever, then so be it.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:11 PM
6

Hahaha right. Here’s a gourmet meal plated for you, tell me about your day. Followed by an hour of animalistic fucking, then watching a show. God I’m such a beta.
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:46 PM
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Fair enough. I can handle it, it doesn’t annoy me because I’m worried to lose her (I’m plenty confident in my ability to find a new girl, and I love being single). It annoys me because it’s almost embarrassing when friends/family start to follow her on social media.
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:58 PM
1

……..kay
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:06 PM
1

This is a fantastic idea
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:05 PM
1

Amazing doc
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:02 PM
1

Doing all these things brother. Also I’ll add she’s not on her phone all the time when we’re hanging out. It’s like during her work day 😂 I’m legitimately concerned that she doesn’t understand the basic concept that in order to be productive you can’t fuck off on social media at work all day
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:53 PM
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SHE’S FOR THE STREETS
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:51 PM
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It’s only being a cuck if you aren’t receiving the same treatment from them bud
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:51 PM
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Fair enough. I’m for sure splitting hairs. She literally cooks for me every time I come over and is an absolute freak in the sheets. Super hot, exactly my type. I need to stop being a bitch lol.
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:12 PM
1

How did you ask them out?
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:54 PM
2

The types of girls that do this body mod/extreme makeup/plastic surgery/post Instagram pics with their ass hanging out are new age gold diggers. They are looking for guys with clout, elite status, or a fuck load of money.
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:29 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro this made me laugh out loud
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:12 PM
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And to say it does not play a big part is so laughable and I mean no offense. I have a friend who’s a mediocre YouTube influencer and he has tens of hundreds of hot girls blowing him up on IG all the time.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:49 AM
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Is Pete Davidson an A list celebrity. Stop it. That is wild about Ariana grande though, figured she would date someone in the industry for sure.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:47 AM
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What we can learn is - Status/clout are insanely important. Obviously the dude is funny so probably fun to be around too. Anyone who wants to maximize their results with women should strive to achieve high status.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:18 AM
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Be a celebrity and fuck whoever you want. Status/clout is one of the most important traits for male attractiveness.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:15 AM
2

I think he’s referring to seduction specifically. Is “don’t look up” a book on seduction?
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:14 AM
3

This post was pure poetry. Excellent info.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:12 AM
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It’s a guideline, everything isn’t set in stone.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:10 AM
2

Agreed 100% just used it as an example as a thing people commonly disagree on.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:44 PM
7

Right, women should do 80% of the talking on the date. The point he’s trying to make is - let’s say you disagree strongly with something she’s talking about (let’s say a political topic that you’re well read on and have a confident opinion on). State your opinions with a non-confrontational attitude and don’t let her get you to budge if you actually believe what you are saying.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:32 PM
5

“Seduction” or “game” is probably 80% inner game and 20% seduction/game strategies and tactics.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:20 PM
0

Lmfao. Getting pegged
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:59 PM
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My girl posts borderline “trashy hot” pics on IG pretty frequently. Other than that she’s obsessed with me and checks off all of my boxes and then some. Best GF I’ve ever had. I’ll bring it up at some point, but I don’t really care that much. At the end of the day I’m the one fucking her.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:37 PM
6

Yup. Salicylic acid in shower, hylauronic acid in the morning, and retinol face cream before bed works wonders for me.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:41 PM
4

I was nothing. Got no pussy in high school. Barely any in college. Gave myself a reality check and got into the best shape of my life, got a good job, and worked hard on my social skills. Since then I’ve successfully dated around and have a great GF. It’s possible if you put the work in.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:40 PM
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I would respond with “idk what you’re talking about, I’m a born again virgin” and then change the topic but still try to get her to come over Or something like “your words not mine” with a grin
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:03 PM
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Yes. Attractiveness for men is much less about physical looks (although it is still a huge factor). And much more about: -Financial standing/solid structure of lifestyle (Home/car/stable good paying job/able to pay for basic shit) -Status in social hierarchy -Confidence/general demeanor -Sense of humor The list could go on and on but those are the main ones. We are lucky as men that if we aren’t in the top 20% looks wise, we can make up for it in different ways. But yes, you are what you attract…
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah and a lot of guys do it. It’s in our nature to dissuade females from fucking other guys and getting them to fuck us. But if you do it you’re a bitch and it’s disrespectful as fuck.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:49 PM
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Just say baby carrot. Any girl who’s overly concerned with penis size is going to be a problem to deal with lmao.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:35 PM
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Nope you’re like 90% of guys lol. Just have fun dates with girls and ask them if they want to come over to your place at the end of the date. If all goes smoothly and you hook up, then hang out with them at a cadence of no more than once per week, and when/if they bring up the exclusivity talk, just say something like “I really like spending time with you, you’re gorgeous, I’m just at a point in my life where I’m not ready for a relationship. If you don’t want to keep hanging out, I totally unde…
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:05 PM
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Whether or not your tongue is buried in her ass by 10PM
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:26 PM
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Fuck what women think about your hobbies. Do what you love. If you do it with confidence your hobby could be dancing around with toy unicorns and it won’t matter.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:19 PM
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“I have decided to give up on women and focus on my weaknesses and improve myself” Young man, you’re wiser than most people your age. Get jacked. Kill it at school. Be a good friend. Develop a good sense of humor. Be nice to people but do not be a pushover. Have a positive mental attitude. You won’t be a virgin for long. ALSO: Befriend someone who’s super outgoing. Talk to people in your classes. Do “cold approach” on guys or girls when you’re standing in line, at the gym, etc etc. I had 0 frien…
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:16 PM
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It’s so simple but so difficult. Be attractive. Not just your looks but by your behaviors. Have abundance mentality. You enjoy time with her but you don’t need her. Match her energy, if she’s going cold, go colder. If she’s going hot, be slightly less hot. Be comfortable, you don’t give a shit what anyone thinks.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:48 PM
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Despite what anyone tries to tell you here, yes it does.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:52 PM
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Man always, always, go for the close. It’s so important. Hook up with her on the first date then keep hanging out with her. I’ve had white hot dates go ghost due to not going for the close. Almost 0% of the time has a girl ghosted me after booking up on the first date.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:59 PM
0

Why didn’t you go for the close on the first date?
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:43 PM
1

Go direct or wait it out until you have another reason to message her.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:27 AM
1

What’s one thing you know about her other than the math part? and you will need to get ready for rejection in college my man I did better than average and got rejected 8-9 times out of 10.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:31 AM
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If you wanna go indirect (more chance of a yes but also fighting an uphill battle and likely getting friendzoned if you don’t have a ton of experience), go the math route.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:20 AM
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You could go either way. I really prefer direct rather than indirect cause it gets straight to the point. You will get rejected more with this method but the yes’s you get will be at least somewhat into you. “Hey I noticed you on the zoom call and you’re cute as hell, do you want to get coffee sometime?”. 9/10 times she’s saying no but the 1 time she says yes and you don’t flop on the date you’ll be banging her within a couple weeks if you have decent game.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:20 AM
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Go for it man but if she says no don’t keep pressing her. Gotta respect her boundaries and there’s a good chance she won’t be into you (I know from personal experience). Hot girls almost always have a guy they are seeing or a BF but shoot your shot.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:12 AM
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Yes, she’s at least open to it.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:40 AM
7

Offer her something different than 99% of idiot men while showing her she can’t control you with her pussy and you’ve got her soul.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:06 AM
1

I fall into that trap a lot with the gym, especially over the holidays. It always amazes me how much better I feel after hitting the weights hard. Therapy can be so hit or miss, so hard to find someone who you vibe with.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:45 PM
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Fair enough, yeah I should be better at that. It’s just laughable how much of a weak, introverted, unconfident, shell of myself I was 10 years ago compared to now lol. 10 years of therapy and self improvement have done me well. If anyone else feels like a “beta bitch” now, go talk to a professional in mental health, get to the gym, set and achieve goals, and create/read positive affirmations every morning (those have worked the best for me).
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:36 PM
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I was mostly referring to my past self using hyperbole but yeah the language coulda been a bit less colorful didn’t mean any harm
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:50 AM
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Yep, agreed to a certain extent. I think if you have any really “beta” traits (hate that word too), you really do have to eliminate em and change your mindset, but once you’re in a good place, confident in yourself, have some experience under your belt, etc etc etc being yourself is the only way to go.
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:26 PM
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Right exactly, as long as it’s genuine and not forced. This isn’t a black and white thing “omg I can never return a compliment again???” I’m a shoe guy and I regularly get compliments on them and I almost always compliment theirs out of reflex too even if they are dusty old adidas. Lol
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:15 PM
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That’s definitely true, same experience here. Although they aren’t posting to Reddit seduction forums either lol. So we should look to how they act and behave, and try to work that same behavior in our own lives if we want to be more successful in life and with women. Idk about you but fake it till you make it has worked really well for me here.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:53 PM
5

Yeah it’s just a category of characteristics, useful word for seduction related stuff, but I cringe when I use it cause so many D bags use it.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:46 PM
-12

100%. I’ve been full beta bitch and frozen heart pimp, right now I’m somewhere in the middle. Fake it till you make it with removing beta behavior and replacing it with alpha then once you’re naturally doing more alpha shit you can relax a bit and just be yourself. Alphas (I really hate this word but it is what it is) can take compliments confidently as well as give them out.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:32 PM
122

I have a funny story that made me learn this rule at a young age: we were probably ~14 and playing halo, I made a really good play, and my friend’s older brother complimented me in a genuine way. I must have said something like “oh I suck, it was just a lucky play” or something. He says “Dude, just take the compliment, it’s ok to be good at something”. Made me feel so uncomfortable but unknown to me it was a super valuable life lesson.
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:17 PM
264

This one is so hard for me to stick to but it is important. I try to say thank you and move on to a new subject, but store it in the memory banks to compliment the person at a later date.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:17 PM
17

It’s done block and delete move on.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:39 AM
7

You got it man. Now become an above average guys. These problems will be a thing of the past.
/r/seduction21/12/21 04:33 PM
1

Man shit: -lift weights on a regular basis. Plethora of mental health benefits as well as physical benefits. -Be laser focused on your career, whatever that means for you -Be able to hold court, learn how to be likable and charismatic. This will get you further than any hard technical skill. -Be generous. Make that bank and use it to make those around you happy. -Stop acting like a child. You are the leader. You are the boss. You’re a dangerous man who can protect his loved ones who simultaneous…
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:34 PM
1

Meh, you’re probably right but I’m ready to risk it for the biscuit. I’m at a really good place in my life right now so I’m willing to take the risk.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:02 AM
1

Fuck I guess we’ll see! Thanks brother
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:00 AM
1

Lots of things. Hot, cool, similar views and life outlook, music taste, lifestyle habits, and a lot more shit.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:00 AM
1

And so it goes
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:59 AM
1

Any behavior can be learned. You can still be an alpha dude while being goofy and making girls laugh. It’s all about not being reactive to the bullshit they inevitably throw at you to test your fortitude.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:59 AM
2

This guy knows.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:57 AM
2

The whole “being vulnerable with women” thing is a crock of shit. Be the man. Grit your teeth and power through the tough obstacles of life. All while trying your best to have fun with the whole process and keep a light hearted attitude.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:57 AM
1

Absolutely brother
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:51 AM
2

It’s easier not to get emotionally invested when you have multiple casual partners. When you have more options it makes it much more natural to not get invested in a single girl.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:50 AM
1

Skinnny is much better than fat. Get some muscle on your frame and it will pay dividends
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:48 AM
1

Thank you brother 🙏🏻
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:46 AM
1

Are you in good shape? How is your fashion? Hygiene, etc
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:45 AM
0

Otay
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:45 AM
1

Constant self improvement, become likeable, social, charming. Be the guy people are happy to be around
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:44 AM
3

100% most definitely is lol. Just trying to ride the wave
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:41 AM
14

Happened to me many a time lol. “But this one’s special” 😂😂😂😂😭
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:37 AM
3

We shall see kind sir
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:09 AM
4

We’ll see
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:08 AM
5

Otay. You’re*
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:57 PM
2

Oof but god damn does it sting when it happens.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:57 PM
1

Lmao this post is divulging into how to be a fuckboy. I’ll write something up and post it tomorrow when I have time.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:56 PM
1

I was a virgin until 19. Hit the gym, do man shit, kill it in your classes, and be social. Get out of your comfort zone socially. Develop a sense of humor. Be able to talk to anyone. You can only do this through practice.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:52 PM
11

Gotta keep that sword sharp 🗡🗡🗡
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:46 PM
1

Plz don’t tell me the result 🤣
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:45 PM
1

You CAN
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:45 PM
3

Go for it bro lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:44 PM
4

I sure as shit do too. It’s pretty depressing when the same loss of interest at the ~6 month mark happens every single fucking time. But I’m hopeful and going in with a positive attitude.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:25 PM
1

A few per month for a lot of years
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:24 PM
6

It’s a mediocre burrito chain that I live close to lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:22 PM
11

Lmao I’m half kidding but If you need help we could do a quick call to point you in the right direction
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:20 PM
37

Gotta slay some dragons to get to the princess brother
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:19 PM
8

I mean everyone has their own opinions but something like: -have a fun and interesting life -change her mood not her mind -try to be as carefree as possible -be assertive and dominant while being a gentleman -be good at sex -make decent money (enough to afford fun dates, dinners, have a decent place, etc) -have something outside of work that you’re passionate about -let them do most of the talking -don’t overly communicate via text -don’t be needy -be decisive, being wishy washy about decisions …
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:18 PM
35

Absolutely. Don’t get emotionally invested, have fun dates, hook up with a lot of girls. Have a reason why you’re not ready to settle down. Rinse and repeat. That being said I’m totally sick of that lifestyle. But it’s necessary to do for a while IMO so you can understand female behavior. Edit: I will give you professional Skype consultations for chipotle gift cards. Lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:10 PM
3

Haven’t read this one but I’ve heard great things. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:09 PM
2

Oh gotcha. Thank you lol. Just trying to not act like an overly eager puppy dog 😂
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:00 PM
7

Hahaha. You and me both brother. I’m being a bit over the top for comedic value but she’s a cool ass chick.
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:46 PM
2

Yeah yeah. I know lol. Just have really amazing chemistry right off the bat with this one and I’m just excited at the possibility of wherever it goes.
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:42 PM
2

I know the fundamentals and it’s so hard to follow them when I’m really into someone lol I’m gonna try as hard as possible to act normal 🤣
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:33 PM
1

Lol what do you mean?
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:32 PM
22

❤️
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:28 PM
7

Yeah, I’ve definitely made this mistake before. At this point in my life I’m looking for someone to balance me out and motivate me to do better.
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:27 PM
66

That’s the plan. The craziest part is she’s more into me than I am into her (which is a lot lol). It’s just such a magical feeling
/r/seduction13/12/21 08:19 PM
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