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I agree, if she enjoys your presence then it doesn't matter of you go to a food truck or a fancy sit down restaurant downtown. Some of these guys here swear you need to drop hundreds on a date to get a woman's attention but my first date with my wife was a walk around an art museum and food at a mall food court (which the latter was her idea). I'll also add for a the women out there, just because he's eager to drop money on you the instant you meet doesn't mean he's more into you (as a person) e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:30 PM
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Some of the guys that I know growing up that got laid the most were brokest. Hell I got an uncle that had 3 kids by 3 women all in the same calender year and he is a straight up bum that was barely providing for the one he had. I would argue that the aggressive pursuit of getting laid hinders men from getting the bag more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:01 AM
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Right, and yet some men still thing women are lying to them or withholding what they really want. It's basically the same thing OP is doing but gender swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:32 PM
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That's not what I said tho. Women are more likely to break up first, men are more likely to cheat. Reason being it's easier for a woman to find a replacement so they don't need to keep the old one around. Some men feel the need to keep the woman around until he can find a replacement so he will cheat first and only break up once that's established.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:30 PM
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The problem is you are attributing your way of thinking to every single "average" man. I've known dudes that dated attractive women (punched up if I'm being honest), yet still managed to cheat on them. Sometimes with women that don't even look better than the ones they were with, simply because it was new pussy at that was exciting enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:24 PM
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Lol who told you that lie? I've noticed women are more likely to break up and "upgrade" than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:22 PM
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Curious what people think: Is the issue mostly individual (self-improvement), or is there actually a structural imbalance that needs a bigger solution? Short answer: skill issue Long answer: this may benefit men who suffer from skill issues, but outside of that who does it benefit? Let's look at it from the US governernment perspective (who I assume will be ushering this program). What benefit would they have from encouraging young male professional to go live in another country? That's less tax…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:08 PM
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To you it's intentional, just like women not directly expressing that they desire certain traits comes off intentional to men. In reality, nothing its being covered. Saying "men are unaware" makes no sense, what man is unaware that he wants a woman that treats him nicely and makes him feel good lmao. Like I said these are near universal traits. What is understood to us doesn't need to be said. To your next point about men covering it to play victim, this also doesn't make sense. All of the trait…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:36 PM
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Covering implies that there is intentional hiding. All of those traits you mentioned to me seem universal. Not too many men would want a woman that isn't nice, agreeable, encouraging, etc. But those traits at the top are subjective. Some men prefer curvy women, some men prefer thin ones. Some men want virgins, some men want women that will put out on demand and don't care about her body count. That's why they get stated more than the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:30 PM
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I don't think this is a case of not knowing what they're attracted to, just that certain aspects of attraction go unsaid. Women do the same exact thing. This is why "nice guys" exist, women will lead with personality traits but leave the other ones unsaid (taller than them, burly build, good financial standing, etc). So then you have guys claiming that women don't want try type of guys they claim, which they do but they just don't say certain aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:38 PM
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On a first date that person is not your partner, you're getting to know them and I don't think it should be expected for one person to have to pay. I'm married now and I basically pay all the bills right now but on our first date I didn't pay for her food.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:01 PM
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You're missing the point. They use the term "nice" incorrectly. In reality they don't like passive lames. Which is what a "nice guy" is. Doesn't really matter if he's a good person or not because to be real a lot of "nice guys" aren't good people, they're really assholes as well and would be mask off it they had the confidence or attractiveness to pull it off. So that's why they're wary of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:18 PM
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Keep in mind all of this for either gender is a completely optional sidequest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:28 PM
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I've never done (and never will), but I can say that it can work only if you're extroverted enough to make it work. I have a friend that cold approached people whenever we go out, not necessarily just to get numbers but because he just loves talking anyones head off who will listen. However this does lead to getting numbers and dates for him. For those who are introverted and can't carry on conversations with a complete stranger seamlessly, it doesn't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:48 PM
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I'm well into the top 10% income wise and when my wife and I met (on a dating app) she didn't have a job and lived with her parents. When she did get one she wasn't making more than 40k a year, and she's been laid off since August of last year. So I think there is some truth to that, but main reason you see high earning men paired up with other high earning women is proximity. They're more likely to be around each other in college, work, or networking events. Me I was a commuter in undergrad, di…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:22 PM
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Lol for real. Even red pill podcast guru Myron Gaines who brags about having sex with hundreds of women in Miami tells men that a woman's orgasm doesn't matter since according to him, it serves no biological purpose. This idea that body count plays any factor in obtaining good sex is crazy. A man who's only had sex with one woman a hundred times will be a better lover to that woman than a man who had sex with a thousand women one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:21 PM
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I said sexual experience not body count. You said both: As someone who has a high body county I prefer women with high body counts or at least alot of sexual experience. Either way you look at it my point stands. Any sexual experience gained with a person in a past is irrelevant to the sexual compatability of you and the person you are having sex with currently. This idea of having to practice sex to get good at it for someone else makes absolutely zero sense because as I mentioned, what gets on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:07 PM
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Your sexual compatability is determined by the person you're having sex with currently, not in the past. What gets one person off may not get the next one off. I gave this example to someone else but let's say you had sex with 10 women in the and they could all finish by penetration alone, and you were able to please them all. But woman 11 can't and she needs clitoral stimulation. If you were to do the same things that you did before, it's not going to work this time. All of your "experience" go…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:51 PM
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Or she has had sex and she knows this already. This is the key part, she has to tell him what works for her. If he goes purely by his past experiences that he's built with other women, it's not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:56 PM
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Right, but that's the basics of sex. If we want to get into specifics, women get off different ways. Let's say you have sex with 10 women who get off on penetration alone. Youre really good at it, they're all satisfied. Then you get to 11 who doesn't and need clitoral stimulation, but you do the same thing that the other 10 liked. All of that past experience doesn't amount to anything, she's not going to like it. You still have to learn that one person's preference. So there's a difference betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:34 PM
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I agree with this which is why I gave the starfish example. Having a high body count shows your ability to get people to have sex with you, not your ability of the sex itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:26 PM
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But at the same time not everyone is are turned on/off by the same thing and preferences are dependent on person to person. So regardless of how many people you have sex with, you are going to have to learn that particular new person. That's not the same as learning sex itself, and OP claims "Teaching someone the basics of sex is a miserable experience". The basics is the action of inserting penis into vagina until completion. That's not something that needs to be taught, that's something everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:25 PM
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That is true but it goes back to my point where it's a mental thing regarding expectations of their performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:47 PM
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Lol because I told you my experience. First piv at 26 with someone who has had several other partners before. Like i said she didn't know and it didn't stop her from wanting to come back to my place for seconds and thirds and so on. This idea that you need to practice habit sex is dumb, every person is biologically hardwired to know how to do the action. It's the part where you're in your head about your performance that screws you. Idk if you play sports but if are in doubt about how you'll far…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:43 PM
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Right, every body is different so the things that you would be taught would pertain to your partners particular preferences. What counts as "good sex" could vary from person to person. You could have sex with 100 people and number 101 could still think that it wasn't that great for that reason. I don't think "the basics" how OP puts it is something that needs to be taught though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:34 PM
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I don't really give af about the concept of virginity or think it's a big deal, but I don't agree with this point. Sex is a biologically hardwired action that all mammals have been doing for millions and millions of years. It's not something that you need to be taught now to do correctly, and most people who have bad experiences with sex their first times is because they're nervous and it reflects in their performance. I didn't have PIV sex until I was 26. Idk the girl's exact # of past sexual p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:25 PM
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Depending on the business, how you personally invested, how much you had starting out and if this your main or side source of income, losing that can financially ruin you worse than a divorce would. Yet people still strive to be their own boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:07 AM
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That moment made me just lose faith in that whole norm, like why bother if it can crumble right when you don't expect it? I don't agree with the part about it's unexpected. Your parents divorce may have came as a shock to you, but I highly doubt after 25 years they woke up one day and was like "yeah I think it's time we split". More often than not you know your relationship is on the decline, many people choose to ignore it and act like things are fine until they can't anymore. As to why anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:11 PM
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Then don’t. Thank you. Idk why people can't understand that optional life choice is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:10 PM
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Same here except I don't love God. I still think I've benefitted from marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:09 PM
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I don't think paying for a date determines how much he likes you. I'm married now and I pay for damn near everything. I have more money than her and it's not an issue. But on our first date she bought her own meal I bought mine. It's not that I wasn't interested, but you're just getting to know each other and there's no pressure or sense of "loss" if during that process we find each other incompatible. On the other hand, you got guys (not all) who will pay for the first date simply as a fast tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:11 PM
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I met my wife on bumble and didn't pay anything. I left tinder because I liked the concept of bumble better. Now the number of matches on bumble was less. On bumble I had 8 total in like 2 weeks I was on there, and I'm only counting the ones that message because if they don't in 24 hours then the match goes away. On tinder I don't remember the exact number but it was over 100 total. Sometimes I'd get 8 in one round of swiping. That said, the "engagement" was still higher from the bumble despite …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:01 AM
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they feel like they could've gotten a better man were they not a mom. Lmao I mean if they are attracting men like OP I understand why. Bro is straight up admitting he's lazy and does the bare minimum. Basically they attract men who want to be mothered by their partner and who better to do that than moms. On the other hand, this is why some men are adverse to single moms because they know they wouldn't have had a chance if she had better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:59 AM
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True but I'm not complaining. When I was dating I ruled out women who had kids or wanted them, and at almost 30 that reduced my pool by a hell of a lot lol. But it was either that or be with someone incompatible just for the sake of getting my pee pee touched. I'm married now so it worked out, I look at it as all you need is to find one person. I guess if your goal is to fuck as many women as possible then you can't really be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:01 PM
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Take out the liars then that's not a bad pool to be left with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:42 PM
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Not just by being, there are conditions to it as well but I feel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:13 PM
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It's way more than just a few btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:18 PM
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They think that they are attractive and high value, that all women should throw out their “rules” for him. Often times because they do. I saw this video on another sub. Pretty it's about the topic of coffee dates and how a lot of women say they turn them down because they are too "low effort" (I've heard this before irl). So this guy makes a bumble profile and gets like 42 matches in 24 hours, and at the top left you see 50+ women like him. He shows his DMs asking women out on dates to a coffee …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:36 PM
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Knowing that hvm expect to have sex by 3/4 dates, and knowing that they will lie/pretend/and hold back information until they get sex Ok if your definition of a hvm is high earning and attractive looks and personality wise, why would any of this above apply? I don't see why any that's actually desired by women would need do any of that just to get laid. If anything that's the sign of a borderline undesirable man with a scarcity mindset who needs to strike while the window of opportunity is open …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:39 PM
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Yep, typical windmill post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:13 PM
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Yeah i'm not saying that every single person who doesn't have sex regularly obsess over it, but the ones that do are mainly the ones that aren't having it regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:33 PM
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If you willingly date a dumb woman who's fault is that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:46 PM
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Sex is only a big deal to those that don't have access to it regularly. Saying this as a late bloomer that had serious FOMO and was obsessed with it, until that changed and I realized it wasn't was life changing as it was in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:46 PM
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Considering most guys relationships don't work out, that's clear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:56 PM
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Intelligence is second to last I'm dead lol edit:nvm you got sanity 4 times, it is last 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:41 AM
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Imo this question is easy. If dating with marriage as a goal the 30yo. Most 21yo women are not looking to settle down, especially one with a high bc. I don't even see them making good wives even if they were. But if I were just dating just to date then the 21 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:38 AM
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It's a hypothetical so they both exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:30 AM
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Women assault men at least as much as men assault women. Based on what? Women also do other things such as false allegations, baby-trapping, paternity fraud-- all of which they do with near complete impunity. Not really relevant to the topic, but if we are going there then men also have been doing other things like committing terrorist attacks/genocides and running underage sex trafficking rings with near complete impunity. What does the minority of a gender do have to with the gender as a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:55 PM
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Both of those statements are true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:02 PM
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I think it leans more toward women wanting to be paid without the label of being a prostitute or be seen as easy, or even having to put out at all. There's already no guarantee that a date will lead to sex. You still got guys that will fully pay for the date just for the chance, but with this setup you're going to have to add an extra payment on top of that without moving odds in your favor at all. I don't see many guys thrilled for this opportunity, even those who do want the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:29 PM
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They have an app for that, it's called seeking arrangements lol. Idk why women who just want to trade themselves for cash just can't be upfront and have to use roundabout logic to justify it. "Date preparation costs" is bullshit because you guys are not out here buying new makeup and new outfits for each and every new person you go on a date with. Btw "You weed out those who are too broke to date" is funny considering one party needs the other to help them prepare for the date itself lol. If not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:30 PM
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It's hotter to see a guy face rejection IRL than to see him cower behind apps swiping safely. I got married from a dating app, and I never cold approached a woman and never will. Considering the cowardly way worked out for me, why does it even matter? You should do what gives you the most success, not what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:54 PM
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Not really. You don't know if the person is single before approaching irl. You don't know if they meet your preferences, like if she has kids or wants any before you approach. Also it's only easier if you're extroverted. Taking time to think about what you say is easier imo. Quicker is probably the only thing that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:43 PM
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Lol this sub is so delusional. Pearl got belt put to her ass hard. She should stick to debating a group of randoms on jubilee, she but off more than she could chew going for Ana.
/r/MensRights14/01/26 03:54 PM
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For the most part I can agree, but I personally experienced this. I can say for myself that I look much better in my early-mid 30s than 10 years prior. Just last week I took my wife out for her birthday and I ordered drinks, got carded and the dude hands me my ID back and goes "I thought you were way younger than that". I get people thinking I'm younger than I am often, granted my BMI is still normal and my hairline hasn't left me yet. I think if men take care of themselves it's not hard to be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:39 PM
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Lol it's not just reddit, go outside and see how many 20 somethings are with 40 something year old men. Even though it can happen it's rare the two demographics are even in the same casual spaces to form a connection. Generally one party is seeking out the other. I'm not even a age gap hater and I can see the majority of people congregate with their own peer groups on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:40 AM
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Let's look at marriages. On average the man is 2.2 years older. Only 2.6% of marriages feature a man 15+ years older, and the larger age gap marriages tend to be remarriages where both partners are older anyway. It's safe to assume the majority of 25 year old women aren't checking for 40 year old men. So what would make one become this exception, what would older men have on average that younger men don't 🤔 And sure, there may be several early to mid 20s that prefers older men not for their mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:15 AM
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It's funny how you end the quote right there and ignore the very next sentence lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:55 AM
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Bruh you know how many men are successful content creators as a job compared to all men in the country?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:23 PM
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On social media where everyone is an anonymous profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:46 PM
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How many do you know? I have one friend I know pays for women's OFs but he also has multiple gfs and never expressed interest in settling with any of them. He's our friend group man whore so it tracks. Now for men who are in committed relationships or are less sexually open, you don't see them casually talking about their OF subs and they are less likely to be open about it due to fear of judgment. I am willing to bet some of your coworkers who express disgust towards it also fall in this catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:37 PM
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It's flat out projection. The ones who complain the most about OF and paying for porn in general are more likely the ones to engage. Simply because they know they would be judged by their peer groups if they came out and said they did it, so they protest and distance themselves from it to avoid that. It's very telling when statistically middle class married men are the largest consumer base, which is the typical coworker demographic. Now ask yourself how many of these men would publically admit …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:22 PM
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Why are you arguing with yourself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:25 PM
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It's not shit or even a bad thing. You're just making it out to be bigger than it is. Who wants to be around a boring ass person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:09 PM
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That type of women is the vast majority of women. Nice = boring. You might be the outlier and exception to the rule though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:07 PM
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Me talking about how my father died during a hot dog contest has driven me to become the world champion hot dog eater... but I am vegan, so... I cannot achieve my dream. Yoo I would laugh my ass off if a girl told me this on a date 😂. I'd also assume she's trolling me and play along. Tell her to get the contest runners to prepare some vegan dogs. Any shit test deserves to get shit thrown back at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:52 PM
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Lol how am I gaslighting men when I'm giving my own thoughts and experience? I dated a girl that made as much as me (if not more when we started dating) and she didn't want to pay for anything. From dates to rent when we stayed together briefly. She was bad with money and blew her own. But now I'm married to a woman that I was making 5x more than when she was working and she still contributed proportionally towards bills and household expenses. Even getting me gifts which the other never did m. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:11 AM
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People with degrees have higher earning potential than those without, and she will likely make that money back plus way more by retirement If your wife is horny around random mfs she just met, you have bigger problems to face That's a problem why? As does getting a higher position, starting a family, etc. Some weird shit to get hung up over. Why in tf would I resent having more money brought into the house? My wife got laid off months ago and has been looking for a job since, you know happy I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:23 PM
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You gotta understand that women often inflate other women's ratings. So what she may be describing as a 10 could be 7-8 to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:31 AM
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If you get that impression then why not float the idea to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:21 AM
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It was a mix of everything. You had your older men who were divorced trying to navigate dating without failing agian and you had men who had no clue how to even approach women. The cringy incels took over when all of their spaces and forums were being removed and they went to red pill adjacent places and became the dominant voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:52 PM
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You shouldnt have to curate a profile toward anyone tbh. Like if you need to optimize your photos you're probably chopped. Just post some front facing camera selfies, few lines about yourself and let it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:24 PM
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Women do this as well. I've seen many profiles of them in group settings and it's hard to tell which is them especially if some of them look similar. I've also seen many profiles where women would lists interests that of the men they'd be interested in (being from the south that's hunting, fishing, mudding, 4 wheeling, etc). It's just basically "let's put a bunch of things the other gender likes to attract them".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:20 PM
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It's not nice that they're shocked you're to learn you're actually old then proceed to call you unc later 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:34 AM
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Not when you tell the your actual age and their response is something like <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:16 AM
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Ok. But you still didn't answer my other question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:15 PM
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Let's look at America then, the population in 1925 was about 115 million people, today it's 340 million. So instead of growing 4x the size in 100 years it's 3x, whoopty do. Do you think that rate of growth is perpetually sustainable? Btw the TFR of Nigeria is between 4.5 and 4.8, not 6.4.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:27 PM
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To me a simp is a performative panderer to women for the sole purpose of gaining their approval. An example of this is a guy like Derrick Jaxn. He tells women what they want to hear like how their relationship struggles is all the man's fault and real men should do this that and a third to keep a woman happy, whole time he's been cheating on his wife multiple times and he was putting on an act to get views and sell books. Treating a woman well isn't simping, having to go out of character as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:34 PM
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So instead of going up to a guy she fancies, she sits there and films her "struggle" to post online and fish for compliments lol. She deserves the response she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:19 PM
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Eh that's highly species dependent. Black bears sure, they're likely to run away from people and only attack if threatened. Clap your hands at Grizzly and that mf will bite it clean off. You'd need bear spray, a weapon, or a vehicle to survive that encounter. Also we at lucky we don't live near many polar bears because they'd try to eat your ass on sight. What makes humans the most dangerous is proximity though. I'm out and about today, probably will walk by 100+ people minimum. Most people will…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:16 PM
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I'm looking at it from a logical perspective. Those websites didn't die, they were bought out. Progress in technology has nothing to do with it because current apps aren't more technologically advanced than apps/sites of the past. The changes were 100% due to what would generate the most revenue. You have to understand that if a dating app is too good, it operates on a slim profit margin as the your customer base wouldnt be on them for a much shorter period of time. This is why they do things li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:04 PM
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Dating apps are worse today than they were then. Eventually Match group bought out every app/site except for Bumble (which was created by a former employee), and they all turned Tinder style. You used to be able to search users and match based on interest, also filters were free. Now it's all RNG and monitization. So if these things rang true then, how would they be better now? Saying this as someone who met his wife on an app in 21. Basically all luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:12 PM
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We went from 2 billion to 8 billion people is 100 years, do you think the rate of is perpetually sustainable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:39 PM
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Speaking from biased experience, men. Dated a girl that had a 4 year college degree but hands down one of the dumbest people I've met. Like will see something that is obviously fake news on an Instagram story and will believe it as fact without any further research. Also had nothing but very surface level conversations, like topics involving celebrities or something somebody said on social media. Anything that would involve a fraction of critical thought she didn't want to talk about and it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:21 PM
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I can understand where you're coming from, sometimes it's like a jester act to keep a woman's attention on a dating app because she's also messaging many more other guys than you are women. But if you are landing 20-50 new matches every single day and are having a bad time, that seems like a personal problem. Maybe be more selective? I only got 8 matches total on bumble in a span of 2 weeks and one of them I ended up marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:12 PM
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That was the case for me though. I don't really go out anywhere besides to work plus it was a year after covid hit so ppl were still doing the social distance and mask thing. I met my wife on a dating app. Bonus about the apps is the filters. I'm childfree so I wanted a woman that didn't have any kids and didn't want any. Its nice to know that up front before further investing into a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:08 PM
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That, or becuase they will stay younger and prettier for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:33 PM
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Lmao I swear "pick me" women live in your mind rent free. I have not seen any feminist stance that would side with a man on forcing his gf to get an abortion. Like other people are saying most single mom hate comes from men. I'm not quite fond of single moms myself tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:14 AM
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See, I'm not interested in discussing some dogmatic red pill off-shoots, or mentally challenged red pillers living in their confirmation bias. Its not an offshoot, mainstream redpill is highly dogmatic if you want to discuss it or not. "Red pill truths" are a blue pill strawman. I've only heard the phrase "red pill truth" be used by those who claim to be red pill (which is funny because if it was true it would just be called the truth). The whole point of red pill has always been: "look at women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:18 AM
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In the comments he says he goes both ways but leans toward women, so yeah he would definitely clean up with them if he only knew his potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:52 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/malegrooming/comments/1pmpy59/18m_never_had_a_gf_dont_want_to_end_up_alone/ Posts like this is why I believe there should be an age restriction on black pill type content. You got a guy who's 18 years old and he's asking for advice how to fix his looks so he doesn't end up alone like the 30 year old men he sees online. A guy that just stuck his foot in the door of a adulthood and is already conventionally attractive is worried about dying alone. As you young mfs say, ts f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:24 AM
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Yeah, red pill doesn't replace the need to use your own brain. I'm sorry it took you so long to discover that. Unfortunately the majority in the red pill never discover, outside of those who make a living grifting from it as content creators. They take these "default assumptions" and form bias around them makes that make them to be true regardless. The red pill is just the justification for the belief system. Which is why you constantly hear "red pill truths". Close-minded red pilling is just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:22 PM
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Bro what makes you think Chris Brown even needs to be in a relationship in the first place and why you think you never seen him with a woman longer than a year ever since Karrueche? He got women paying $1000 just to take a picture with him backstage. He has access to sex regardless and all the women he's with know he's with other women. Average Joe on the other hand will not have women flocking him like this and his main avenue for consistent sex is being in a relationship. So if he wants access…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:07 PM
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There's been several studies over the years that show men who are more economically dependent on their wives are the most likely to cheat on them. I can also use people that operate around me. The friends that I had that I knew cheated because they told me would often be the brokest guys I knew. The more successful ones are married or still spinning plates because they don't need to form a relationship to have an extra place to stay at night bc their living situation is rocky. Do rich and "high …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:47 PM
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It seems Pew is using unpartnered as not married or cohabitating, which by that definition its very believable and would be more than 1 in 4. Single as in never having a gf or bf at any point their life, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:24 PM
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I did. What I learned about the red pill as I got older is that it takes some truths about social behaviors and human nature, then exasperates it to an extreme level to make one size fits all judgements about entire situations. Have I been led astray for a girl that "changed" but she continued to be a hoe? Sure. Does this mean every single woman in existence is that way? No. Instead of taking it as a learning lesson and moving accordingly, it's more comfortable to cope with the idea that "AWALT"…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:16 PM
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I cook all the meals my relationship just because I'm much better at it. Thinking cooking is something women should use as a bargaining chip is incredibly goofy mentality imo. But I will say this, often times the same women who say they shouldn't give "wife privileges" to their bfs are the ones who expect the guy courting them to pay for all the dates. I mean even you make this post while at the same time making post like this arguing in favor of women deserving princess treatment from a guy she…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:37 PM
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They don't want to acknowledge this one. Is why damn near every woman as at least one "toxic ex" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:43 PM
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Do they ever acknowledge that women who date assholes are typically shallow, traumatized, mentally ill, or assholes themselves? No. Sure, I've always known that women who date these guys are the female equivalent of them, but do you think these women view themselves that way? Ofc not, but they get sympathy and it's all the guys fault because "love bombed" or "tricked" them. Thank you for helping confirm this is bs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:27 PM
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Not just any celebrity, a comedian lol. All of that outweighs the fact he looks like Timon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:21 PM
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But it was entertaining nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:28 AM
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Was that not a good movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:21 AM
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The people who watch and comment on those videos do exist in real life and they share those views. The only reason I know this content exists is because I have a female friend that would send me those types of videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:20 AM
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You might be right, I took it as since the friend is popular he knew the girl and he heard her say that until someone else pointed it out. I have no stake in him actually being insulted or not. Either way OP just wants to know what reasons women could potentially think that, and some others are giving answers from their POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:25 AM
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Fair enough, I took it as the friend knew the other girl and that was what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:58 AM
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She did give a reason, he's too low value. Again whether or not that is valid is irrelevant, thats a different discussion. But that was her reason for turning him down. He just wants to know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:56 AM
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Sure but at the end of the day that's the reason she gave for rejecting him, and he is just asking what does that mean. You think it's nonsense, so you wouldn't be the target for that question. Someone else here gave a list of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:24 AM
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She thinks you look broke and boring most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:13 AM
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There's a ton of sprinkle sprinkle soft life content on social media that tells women how to spot low value/high value men. Whether or not he's actually low value or believes it's really a thing is irrelevant, that's how she sees him. He's just curious what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:12 AM
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Upside: Humanity will be more lit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:17 AM
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I met my wife on one. This was like a year after covid hit though and people were still masked up and social distancing outside, so that may have played a factor. I still preferred it because it allows you to filter people out that don't meet your preference before getting to know them. Like I don't want children so I could use a filter to not show me anyone with them or wants them. Another reason is that I don't be outside like that to meet people and I don't really care for the idea of going p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:08 AM
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Yep. My parents had me as teens, and my dad had to drop out of college and derail his entire future plans to take care of me. One thing I can say is I'm glad I didn't have to go thru that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:05 AM
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Lol bruh. There was no group called "blue pillers" that existed at the same time as red pill. Blue pull was created by red pill people as a quasi insult for those that didn't see the "truth" as they did. People just started accepting the term as a way to show they were agaisnt the red pill. Like of how white people called black people the n word so much black people adopted the term for themselves as endearment. It started as a fairly one sided beef at first now here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:22 PM
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I mean if you listened to anybody else you'd see blue pill was a term that red pill people came up with to describe people that didnt align with their views. So yeah. Then purple pill came out for the fense sitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:13 PM
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They typically want a man that is assertive, takes initiative, and knows what they both want for dinner. They just don't like the word "leader" because it sounds demeaning to them lol. I agree the question is pointless, they say one thing then act in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:09 AM
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Are you attractive enough. Are you compatible with their lifestyle (short/long term relationship, kids, etc). Are you compatible with their belief system (religion, political, etc). This is all that really matters and are answered in the filters. The rest that you write in a bio is fluff and they can get to know on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:21 PM
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You have people on r/tinder struggling to get a single match and asking for advice on how to tailor their bios and taking professional pictures. I had no bio on there c and just some front facing selfies and got over a hundred my entire time there. I met my wife on bumble in a few weeks, had a bio because the app kinda makes you have one but the same pictures. End of the day most people don't even bother to open the bios, just add filters look at you and swipe accordingly so none of that really …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:08 PM
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Then show the thousands of matches that he gets with beautiful women in just a few days. 🤣🤣🤣 Windmill you too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:59 PM
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How when Rollo wrote the book that made it mainstream and the term "red pill" can't be older than the movie it came from? I'm in my mid 30s btw, not some young guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:47 AM
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This includes mfs well into their 30s, 40s and 50s. Guys who hype up dating young inexperienced women in their prime to start families with, but end up dating or wifing the opposite. Andrew Wilson from whatever podcast hyping up dating 18yos but he's with a woman his age that has 3 kids by 2 dudes. Donovan Sharp and Cooley are married to older single moms themselves, both hid it until exposed. Both Myron and Walter from fresh and fit exclusively date sugar babies or escorts. Kevin Samuels died s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:03 AM
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Eh, well if you think red pill dudes are a bunch of beta males then sure bc they do this type of thing often. All of the content creators pedestalize the low n count virgin girl that doesn't do anything, but then end up entertaining women they call 304s because they realize they aren't the exception and aren't getting the type of sex they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:27 AM
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The "crazy", "fiery" or "feisty" type of woman. An extention of that, the woman thats clingy. They think they want that girl that is obsessive over them and give them a spicy love life, until they are drained from all of the arguments, accusations and conflict that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:20 AM
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That doesn't answer the question. Plenty of men will sincerely want a certain type of woman, get that woman and realize that it wasn't the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:16 AM
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Society doesn't necessarily have to mean complete strangers. It could mean people in your own social circle, like friends, family, classmates or coworkers for example. When your peers are having conversations about their gf, wives, mistresses, booty calls, etc. you cannot partake because you haven't experienced it. This is where the feeling of isolation comes from, especially since you're in a small minority. Then if they find out, at worst you'd get clowned for it, at best they may silently jud…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:31 AM
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Damn this is a pretty well written explanation. As someone who did lose their virginity later than the majority of men, how you describe how isolating that feeling is. I will say after having sex it was like "oh, that was cool", it wasn't some life changing experience and my life went on like normal after. But at least you can get over that feeling of FOMO and that something is wrong with you. You can tell a person that objectively their life will be the same but it won't matter until they exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:04 AM
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Yeah taking down a whole ass 300lb woman just to say they did it is oddly specific lol. Idk how many dudes are that down bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:42 AM
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Societal expectations. You can ask why do women have a strange obsession with taking hours to get ready bc they wanna make sure their makeup is perfect and then put on uncomfortable high heel shoes. Same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:37 AM
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Lol what's the topic to debate? This seems like rant more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:25 AM
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To your point sure it's not hard, if your standards are extremely low and you take whatever gives you attention. Finding someone that is quality in your eyes can take a bit of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:22 AM
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You can’t just blame that on women when men are also biphobic. Yes but at the same time straight men aren't dating other men. I mean in terms of hiding it from their potential sexual partners. But, you know, if you’re bi maybe stop hanging out with biphobic straight people and make some queer friends? Interestingly enough I have a female friend that is bi herself (been with both but primarily dates men) and she told me outright up that she would never date a man that's been with another man. A l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:08 AM
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Yes but you are missing the point. They are initially attracted to these men because of the traits I mentioned. Not all men with those traits are toxic, so they dump the toxic ones. But in general women prefer men who are assertive and take charge, not soft and passive. Some women may prefer the latter but it's more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:31 AM
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He's a stand up comedian and he used to be on a few TV shows at one point (I know Wildn Out was one of them). Now he still does stand up shows but he's most know for his podcast with Andrew Shultz called Flagrant2. He's not red pill and he actually has been beefing with Fresh and Fit for years. Long story short they had F&F on their podcast a while back and then started challenging them on their views on women. Basically Akaash calling them corny and lame. Myron is salty he made them look bad an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:19 PM
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Why do you think bi men feel the need hide their sexuality though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:58 PM
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But women are initially attracted to them because they have the traits OP is talking about. They leave once they end up realizing he's toxic and treats her bad. So that doesn't really prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:56 PM
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Most women I know would love to date their gay best friend. Lmao most women won't even date a bisexual man. Just because you may be in a more open minded circle that doesn't men most women think that way. Most of the ones I know are turned off by that, but they will still have gay besties. Also if we're going off anecdotes, most women I know have at least one "toxic ex". The reason they fall for those types in the first place is because they exhibit traits of assertiveness, masculinity, and extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:33 AM
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I got you anyway. Long story short he went viral because a while back he claimed his wife he met when she was 22 and he was 31 was a virgin like him and a "gift from God", eventually she gets on tiktok talking about how she was popping pussy for white boys in frat houses in college. She also has a podcast and openly lusts over her cohosts husband and saying she wants to be in an with with them. So now this dude is branded as a cuck. There's still a lot more to Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:35 AM
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From what I know, you only split assets that were earned while the couple was married. They've only been together 3-4 years, so while it's not "nothing," it's definitely not half of this dude's fortune. There's some caveats with this. If her name are on any of the accounts, everything in that is split regardless if any of that money earned before marriage. If he continued to contribute any money into accounts he had before he was married and they're in his name only, that still gets split. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:30 AM
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Never implied I'm on his level or near it. I just said I would use myself to be the baseline, meaning the female looksmatch version of me would go no lower than what I look like now because it makes no sense. I used him as an example of an ideal man in terms of looks from a female gaze perspective that we both would know. So basically a range anywhere between me and him, not a guy that looks exactly like him. Like I described before just taller than female me, in decent shape (muscular physique …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:53 PM
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True. You're right, it's just hard for me to get sentimental and open up like that. I'm working on that. Don't really feel shame about the past though, it's one of those "it is what it is" moments. I just use the past as future lessons. But yeah glad you found a partner that the same for u.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:19 PM
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Yeah which is why I put a caveat of not looking exactly like him or needing to be rich. Just a template. <image> I'll use myself as a barrier, I posted this pic here before this is on my wedding day a year ago. I'm like 5'10 barefoot, I think I'm pretty handsome and in decent shape especially for my age. I don't think I'm near the top .001% or even top 1% though, idk how to quantify looks. According to the calculator on dqydj.com I am in the top 5% income wise. So I feel like if the female versi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:02 PM
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She didn't even know the concept of incel or red pill or any of that until we watched that one Netflix documentary about that British kid earlier this year. I coulda brought it up then but I was like nah, I rather keep the gender war debate stuff separate from our relationship lol. We have talked about our past experiences though so she's aware of my dating struggles and I am of hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:29 PM
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Sure. What may work against me is that i'm in my mid 30s and all of the men who fit that criterea either are taken already or are divorced single dads. But wake me up 10 yrs younger I feel like I could do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:46 PM
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Not him specifically, just giving a visual of the type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:19 PM
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Ultimately meeting my wife. Before her I had a string of a couple situationships that ended bad and left me with a more negative perception of women than I had before I was ever physically with one. But with her it's like I could tell she genuinely cared about me. Even when I'm the one to fuck up she is there and we work things out with each other. So yeah, she doesn't really know this but she played a big part in how I view women and me not spiraling further down the red pill rabbithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:21 AM
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Thanks fam, it's something that came with time. If I was here a decade ago during my incelling and deep in the manosphere trenches era my comments would probably look a lot different lol. That's why I can relate to why a lot of guys here think the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 07:54 AM
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I'm a millennial too, in my mid 30s and I can tell you that your experience is because you grew up in NYC which has a different culture. I spent my entire 20s in the south, and I never did the whole hustle grindset thing. At most I had 1 roommate at the start of my career, and I did forgo going out to save money to be able to pay my loans off faster (which did cost me a situationship because me not wanting to spend $100 eating downtown every meal gave her the ick lol). I even joined the military…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:59 AM
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If I was woke up tomorrow as a woman I'd have the same brain and same preferences I have now, but I'm going to answer as if I'd be straight and looking for a man. Personality wise charming, generous, assertive, and sense of humor. Looks wise like a Michael B Jordan type but not necessarily the super PED'd version from creed. Just taller me, good physical shape (muscular physics preferred), nice face and smile. Doesn't have to be rich but doing well enough to not have to struggle financially. On …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:29 AM
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MGTOW proves her point about announcing departure. I rememebr being in those spaces a decade ago and it went from "men going their own way" to "men complaining about modern women" quick. Also educated well earning men are more likely to get married than men who aren't. And the reason why men go overseas to find women is the because they are not economically viable here. If money wasn't an issue for them then they wouldn't need to use that money as leverage in a third world country to make them m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:49 AM
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Everything you're saying is true, women want all of this. But when they have stability, they don't want to ruin that by having kids. I got a bunch of single moms in my family. Women with multiple kids by different men. I'm sure they all had the choice to give it up but they kept reproducing. Thing is I'm from the south, in a place called "the hood". I'd be willing to bet if I was raised in a more educated and more economically affluent area it would look differently. So yeah I really believe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:14 AM
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The point is when women have no choice in the matter, they produce more kids. When they have a choice, produce less kids. Choice is key. A sign of a free and progressive society is low birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:39 PM
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There was never any incentive to have kids. Women have the most children in the places where they have the least education and amount of rights. So women having less kids means the society is progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:28 PM
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No, this is all they need. You're on a video about silicon sex dolls so ofc 99% of the comments would look like that. Men who aren't checking for these dolls wouldn't likely be on this video. Its like me going to r/MyBoyfriendIsAI, seeing 99% of the women in their gushing over their generated partners and asking "why do women need men?" Some people are happy with artificial (which online spaces seem to be an over representation of), but the majority of people rather have the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:11 PM
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The best answer to the second question is "to see if you're what I'm looking for", otherwise there's no real way to answer that in good faith because things can change as you get to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:42 PM
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I think where people (generally women) get let down is becuase you can have ideal intentions that are generalized, but those intentions for that particular person can end different. I can be like "my intention is to get married", doesn't mean I want to marry you, because impossible to know that on the first date. So if this ends up never happening because that person realizes down the line that this other person is not the one they want to marry, the other person feels lied to and mislead. Perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:41 PM
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5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:39 PM
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Same here. With me the biggest thing was looking for someone with no kids and didn't want any, since I was snipped. It was nice to just filter just for that before going any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:52 AM
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Just means going up to someone you don't really know and get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:51 AM
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Don’t any of you just want to get away throw away the dating apps and get back to the good old fashioned ways? Not at all my guy. I'd likely be single rn if it wasn't for covid and technology. I don't really go out much unless I need to and I never approached a woman first in my life. To me the old fashion way sounds like driving without a GPS. I got friends that do it, I've seen them cold approach and get numbers and dates and I probably could if I applied myself, I just never felt the desire t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:22 AM
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I mean, given women expect and many seem entitled to being wined and dined on the man's dime, it's not really men's fault that women are forcing men to consider the business aspect of it. If women largely paid for themselves, and even paid men for it, then men wouldn't have to think about it from a business side at all, now would they? I can kinda agree. I dated a girl once that every time she came over and wanted food, she wanted to go out to some nice restaurant downtown instead of somewhere l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:14 PM
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Post seems like bait. There are women who enjoy hookups, I didn't really have "work my ass off" to do so with the girl I first had sex with and was an fwb with and I don't consider myself a Chad. I was chilling, she hit me up about being in my city to go to a concert, and it went from there. I'm married now to a different woman, didn't really have to play any bs games we were both intentional and straight to the point. Started with a date at an art museum and food at a mall food court (her idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:00 PM
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I agree to an extent, a lot of men think of it like a business too. "If I have to pay $xxx for a date and she doesn't put out in the end then why would I not I just hire an escort instead?" "Why would I wait after x amount of dates to smash when Chad was able to hit it first night?" "Whats the point in getting married for men if 80% of divorces are initiated by women and she's just going to leave you and take half of your assets?" Seen plenty of these types of comments on this sub. It seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:52 AM
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Yeah but you're making assumptions about millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:39 AM
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For me personally income is in the top 5%. Idk how quantify status. Looks wise above average imo for my age. Personality hard to quantify as all but I make her laugh so it's good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:13 AM
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What areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:24 AM
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Since we are giving anecdotal examples, before my wife moved oin with me I basically had to do all the domestic labor myself. The entire time we lived together I've cooked all the meals except for maybe twice. Otherwise when don't then we usually eat takeout. She does the dishes and cleans the kitchen which she's doing rn. Before we got a place with a washer and dryer in it I would gather all the clothes and take them to be washed, when I brought them back she'll fold them up. I can iron my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:22 AM
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gf/wife has enthusiastic, consistent sex as often as he likes This would probably be a bigger reason than the other 2 things you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:44 AM
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Obviously, I’ve quickly figured out because guys don’t want to be honest about what they really want because they’re hoping lying and giving mixed signals will lead them to sex I don't think this is wrong but this isn't the root cause. Many women will pretend that they aren't there for hookups because they don't want to be seen as easy. If youve ever been hit with the "I normally don't do this 🙈", it's likely they normally do this lol. So as a result, guys will go along with it and do the whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:21 PM
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If this is selfish, what do you call a woman who only shows up to a date if something is in it for her (free dinner) or goes on a trip with you if something is in it for her (free ticket and hotel)? Name one single thing women are doing thats selfless besides showing up? Women like this are what I like to call hobosexuals. These are the types that come around on the 1st of a month when a bill is due and expect generosity from a man. No different than those who stand in the middle of the intersec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:57 PM
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Because my wife will probably have a serious issue with me courting women. On a serious note, there is not much more of a bigger turn off than a woman with "you are lucky to be in my presence" type attitude. I rememeber texting to this girl I used to talk to and she had the audacity to tell me "you're lucky I'm even talking to you right now". I wanted to spaz on her but I kept it cool and just reminded her that she doesn't have to talk to me at all. I was ready to end all communication on the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:04 AM
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Oh yeah sometimes I forget about that, I set that as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:02 PM
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No why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:44 PM
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Tbh when I was single I told myself I'd never get married or have kids. Ended up married but the kids are still a hard no. I'm fine where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:26 AM
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I cook almost every meal for my wife and I because I'm better at it. My dad cooked growing up, more than my step mom if I recall correctly. My uncle probably cooked some of the best food I've eaten in my entire family. I never saw cooking at home to be feminine outside of the trad wife/husband role. It's more neutral than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:43 PM
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Men who take on the active parts of women's gender role are generally sought after. For instance men who plan social events and gatherings, who maintain close relationships with multiple people, men who cook, who are great listeners, etc What I don't understand is how did these become to be perceived as feminine traits? Planning social events and gatherings is a leadership trait that requires initiative and assertiveness. That's not feminine. Having friends isn't feminine. Cooking is a basic ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:31 PM
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People call Caitlin Jenner out all the time and she's largely been made irrelevant since her woman of the year win and her killing a person with her car. Blair White is just a YouTuber who really doesn't have the name outside of the platform and people on that platform call her out too. Neither of them are accepted by the broad lgbt community by other members and both of them are mainly used by the right wing as a "see a trans person agrees with me!" button. You specifically cherry pick two Tran…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:31 AM
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Peak reddit moment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:37 PM
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The UN themselves took no part in writing (or even fact checking) that report. It was written by a "UN Special Rapporteur" which is basically an independent expert they hire each year to write on a topic, this one was "violence agaisnt women and girls" Now the woman that wrote the report basically did no research and got all of her data from an independent user submitted database called shewon.org, which right now the medal count is over 4000. There are several issues with this. One, and the big…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:25 AM
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Money, looks, and personality are the big trifecta for attractiveness in a man. The only thing that older men almost always has an advantage in is the first area. Younger men have a advantage in the second. The third is a toss up but I will say the older men who exclusively dates women 20+ yrs younger aren't exactly excelling in that area (think the red pill types), though exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:18 AM
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The fact that the majority of men struggle with dating means that the majority of men have been coddled by the benefits of patriarchy and simply were never fit to reproduce. The majority of men don't struggle with dating, the male loneliness epidemic is about as much of an epidemic as the trsns women in female sports epidemic. It's mostly exasperated by the media. With a fair playing field, natural selection is allowed to take course, and the next generation of men can be better. I dont think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:13 AM
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Not just straight women would say no. I have a friend that is openly bi herself (she heavily leans toward dating men though but had female partners in the past) tell me that she would never date a man that's been with a other man. Coming on reddit is the only place I've seen almost every woman not have a problem with it. Irl it's been the exact opposite, shit I dated a girl who flipped out because she thought I had a gay experience in college 6+ years ago at the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:54 AM
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Again, a byproduct of social media. These types of spaces never existed before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:46 AM
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If that’s true, the paradox becomes obvious: exactly when looks matter most to younger women, people insist money is the only thing they care about. It's not really a paradox. If there are younger, better looking men to choose from but she picks the one that is over the hill, it's easy to draw the conclusion why. I get there are exceptions to the rules, some older men still look better and have more virility than younger men. Still, the rule exists. Financial interest can come in any age group l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:58 PM
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Social media has always been the vocal minority yelling the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:01 PM
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Depending on how old you are, men of your generation didn't have the 24/7 internet accessibility in their pockets and social media sites that give them a platform to complain on. For me this stuff started coming out in my early college years. You might not have known men who complained about paying for dates and not getting laid after, but they existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:00 PM
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Because he delegated those duties to her. Why do you think companies hire managers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:09 PM
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It's not. I know many men in real life that like to chase, and women that like to be chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:04 PM
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Lol I don't fit any of these. Over 30, married, she had 1 past partner, we're never having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:07 AM
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would you prefer to live in a world where both genders were very chill, make-up would be near non-existent, function over looks, basic clothes, earthly colors, etc. Low pressure, low expectations for appearence. This is the world we already live in. When I'm out and about I don't see women dolled up and draped in designer unless the place calls for it. Most wear basic clothes and wear minimal makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:37 PM
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This is such a terminally online take lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:57 PM
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Why is this a question for red pill and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:56 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:01 AM
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Not really a fair comparison since the majority of men will be in a relationship at some point in their lives compared to a miniscule amount that would ever go pro in a sport, but let's go with it anyway. Parents often give the most optimistic outlook to kids. Would you seriously be mad at them if they said you can be an astronaut in third grade, but you end up a barista at Starbucks after failing to find a job in your degree field? Honestly they can't see the future and wouldn't know for certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:04 AM
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Rizz and looks > gym and money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:44 AM
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Lil bro I was 26 before I had sex and I met my wife when I was a few months shy of turning 30, which happens to be the only relationship I've been in that lasted at least a year. I think everyone with common sense knows that no one is guaranteed a relationship by the time they become adults, and I don't agree with implanting doomerist thoughts in people's minds who have barely even started life for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:43 AM
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Loser is looked at differently in this context, it's more about mentality than outcomes. Someone like Elon Musk is considered a loser despite being the richest man (on paper) and having a bunch of kids by several women younger than him. When you have a large amount of money that greatly helps level the playing field, which is mainly what older men have going for them over younger men. There are some older men that still look as young and have more game than the actual younger men though, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:29 PM
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Not really. Plenty of men with gfs get called simps because of what they do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:08 PM
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Let's be real, the charismatic smooth talkers pull the most women in general. Shallow or not. We call it having game. You can fake it just to get the panties or have interest in the woman, up to you. That's what they were trying to sell to other men in a packaged product. My point is that PUA advice had potential to work. Pull up, dress nice, smell good, look good, have game = max increase of chance of success. The game is the hardest part as if you're not naturally extroverted or a people perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:14 PM
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I'm not gonna act like they personally cared if you had success or not, but one had the potential to work, the other serves 0 purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:57 PM
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It did start with PUAs giving tactics on how to pull women, but they quickly noticed their consumer base were still too scared to do that and they could make more money fear mongering modern women and convincing men that feminism and the top 20% Chads are the reason they will be forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:59 PM
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I was following the manosphere before the gravitation to the alt right (hell since the term manosphere was coined), truthfully it was on the decline before then. I've seen MGTOW go from "men going their own way" to "men obsessed with what modern women do". Then what came after that were the podcast grifters that shifted their content from how to get women, to why things like liberalism and feminism made women so bad. Fresh and Fit was the biggest example of the PUA to black pill incel pipeline. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:58 PM
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No need to make a post, it's just an observation. People are biased toward their own. I did address your point, there is no purpose of calling out the "bad men" if a. The bad men aren't the ones complaining and b. women are going to keep going to them anyway. I've had several female friends complain to me about how their bfs treat them. My advice is always "leave him". Now whether they do or not is up to them, most time they don't go anywhere (I'm not talking about DV situations either). So agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:16 PM
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Your entire point also works in the inverse. Women typically give other women the benefit of the doubt when a relationship goes south. Even if she is cause of it, like she cheated. It's "he must have done something to cause her to do that". Everybody's biased. Now as for your point about men not blaming other men for being bad partners, who's the one getting online complaining about it? You don't hear a peep from these men, so what is there to say to them? When you get on here complaining that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:05 PM
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plans dates around alcohol, is extremely sexually forward, is comfortable being touchy/feely and changes into a more dominant personality will have VASTLY greater success in dating Lmao this is exactly what I'm talking about. All of this = game. Men are generally expected to approach women, so men need social skills to do so. Simply going to the gym and making a lot of money isn't going to teach you how to talk to women or make you less awkward when doing it. Imo the red pill is too focused on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:33 PM
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Is going to the gym going to make you look like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:22 PM
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It’s really as simple as looks, money and status haha Its not that simple. For one, gym doesn't change your face much unless you started out obese, or your height at all. These are the most important look factors. This is why you have so many "gymcels" becuase the hyper muscular physique is more of a male body standard than a female one. If you're a normal weight range (or even slightly higher) any gains from going to the gym will be marginal outside of health reasons. <image> As for money, gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:33 PM
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A little bit of A, a little bit of B. Yes you're going to be more confident the more sure you are that you will succeed, but confidence is also an innate trait. You have fully capable people with "imposter syndrome", you have people who have no clue what they're talking about or doing but they're confidently incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:34 PM
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There was literally an autistic dude here that made over 200k a year as a a engineer in tech and he would alway be in the gym, but he was autistic and he would talk about all the times he'd be in the bar and women would reject him. It's not like they could see his bank account numbers over his head. Don't get me wrong those things can help but in my experience the guys that got the most pussy were the ones with the most game. Generally they were highly extroverted and had the least inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:14 PM
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Now if they could use them on others consensually that would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:38 AM
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The average man here may be, but on general that's not the case. I sure as fuck was, but few of my peers struggled growing up. Not having a gf or sex in HS or college meant you were the odd mf out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:30 AM
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Women who call other women "pick me's" for daring to cater to the love of their life do so for the same reason men call other men "simps". They are single and miserable, and misery loves company. Have you ever noticed how the type of women who get mad at other women for this are rarely in successful relationships themselves? They can know their worth all they want they still go to bed alone, and they're mad the "pick me's" are actually getting picked over them (which is also funny how they autom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:08 PM
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Did I say it was easy though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:17 AM
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Tbh that doesn't matter. My tinder profile was just front facing selfies except for one or two where I was outside. Didnt have a bio either. Idk how many total matches I got since I deleted the app a long time ago but it was over a hundred. Then on the tinder sub you got some guys who take professional pics and critique each other bios and they say they can't get a single one. If you gotta do all that then you might wanna hang it up and try something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:57 AM
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I met my wife on a dating app so it worked for me, but I disagree with this post. It's logistically impossible for it to work for even most men. Dating apps are generally a ratio between 3-4:1 men to women. That's not including bots, women selling OFs, and those who aren't even serious. So at best we're looking at a third of men having success. So with more men relying on apps primarily, there is more opportunity to approach women irl. You just need to be extroverted and have little inhibition. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:41 AM
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Im speaking strictly of sex, not necessarily a relationship. Let's say if it were as easy for men to get on tinder and hook up as women, there wouldnt be an epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:58 PM
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They're lying like a mf. It's always been about not being able to get laid. If they could do that consistently they wouldn't care about all the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:06 PM
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I agree with the flirting vs harassment meme to an extent, but I've seen first hand how far having game or rizz as the kids call it will elevate a man's chances of success. Sure it would be even higher if he was taller or more attractive, but it still beats any man standing struggling to make eye contact or just acting weird in general. The men who are the most extroverted and have the least inhibitions tend to not have as many problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:24 PM
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yet we see EVERYWHERE men complaining not having options Do you think the men that have options are gonna get online and talk about it as much? So ofc it seems like men don't have options if you're in spaces like these and hear about it often. Like someone mentioned the average man had sex as a teen. There is no top 20% of anything at that point as the seperarion between them is small, mainly popularity and social skills set them apart. Also they're likely not paying for it that young either sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:44 PM
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Lol idk how you got that out of what I said. She has the chance to do that now technically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:21 PM
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Reminds me of a funny convo with my wife yesterday. I'm a nerdy tech geek and a basketball fan. We were watching the season 2 of the Starting 5 documentary and she tells me "I couldn't be with you if you were an NBA player because you'd have too many hoes". Like I know I get no hoes but damn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:55 PM
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You also took a long time before moving in together, didn't you? Depends on your definition of long time, but I don't think so. Here's our general timeline: July 2021 - Met on bumble and went out on first date August/Sep 2021 - Met the family, we have an official titled relationship April 2022 - She moved into my apartment December 2022 - Engaged October 2024 - Married March 2025 - Purchased home together Imo we moved relatively quick, since there are ppl who are engaged longer than it took us t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:04 AM
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Generally when people speak of young love they mean high school or college at the latest. So I assumed that's what you meant. To answer your question though, that wouldn't have worked out at that moment. That year was the first time I had my own apartment (albeit with a roommate), and I just started the job in the career field that I'm still in. So I wouldn't have been in a position for any serious future planning as I was just getting my feet off the ground for real. Also I couldn't see myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:01 AM
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Idk some of these sound oddly specific but you should have came up with some better descriptors if you really want unbiased answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:07 AM
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This hits every extreme age gap stereotype imaginable and sounds like some creative writing lol. Assuming this is real and you're not from an extremely impoverished third world country, you already know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:03 AM
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Only thing I can think is OP trying to frame this as women don't want to pick good guys or nerds, because he gave them all the downside and made the divorcee and fuckboy sound better in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:24 AM
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If I was a woman that would be the one I'd easily pick too. Let's look at the downsides of each one. Cheats and is broke. Boring to be around and sucks in bed. Older and on the fense about children at his big age. Has a strong case of the 'tism and probably sucks worse in bed than #2. He also has the most upside about him compared to the rest. So yeah the best option by far is the most predictable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:21 AM
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I just peeped that, putting dogs before trans is nasty work 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:55 AM
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They don't tell dudes to sleep with men, dogs or trans, but they do say that men should be at least 30 years old and have 50 bodies at minimum before they settle down (with a younger virgin/low body count girl) because that's the only way to gain experience and understand female nature. I'm not saying I agree with this but it's in similar vein to what this lady telling women to do. Sleep around and then when you're ready to settle down, then hit the beta bux type guy up you were eyeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:02 AM
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Well Russell Wilson wifed a single mom, and I think he was previously married before I think. He's a multi million net worth nfl star with many options. He just really wanted Ciara in particular. I know that's just an anecdote but still, I've also seen this irl. It could be desperation in some instances, or it could be she's so attractive he overlooks that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:54 AM
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I don't really give a shit personally My grandma was 20 years younger than my grandpa. He's actually her second husband, they met and got married when she was 30s and he was 50s and they both already had kids, so they never had any together. Around his mid-late 70s he was diagnosed with alzheimers disease. She had to basically become his full time caregiver and do basic things like change his diaper and give him bed baths. He died a few years into it. Now she's approaching his age when he passed…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:49 AM
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also most men would take this strategy 100% This is already red pill rating advice. They just want it for themselves and want young women to settle with them early on after they already had their fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:33 AM
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So we gon act like this mf didn't really just say bang dogs 😐 Anyway this is typical red pill advice I'd hear fresh and fit give to men. Members of the opposite gender ain't shit so sleep around as much as you can in your 20s and when you done hoeing around, look for that good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:19 AM
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I don't think anyone who is on the same tier as a multi million dollar movie star would even be on this sub tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:25 PM
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Im 100% convinced people in this sub just get their information on how relationships work from the internet. I've seen 30+yo single moms get with men with no kids, I've seen broke guys get with women that made more than them. All that prime shit goes out the window when it comes to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:23 PM
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Who are the main ones making this media though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:33 AM
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Idk if this post applies 100% to me as I didn't hit my stride in my 30s but late 20s, but I didn't have any young romance. Didn't have a gf in high school, didn't go to prom, didn't get laid in college, first bj was 24 at a party and actual piv sex was 26 with a coworker/fwb. My first actual stable relationship was at 29, a couple months shy of turning 30 and I ended up married to her. I'm 34 now, she's 29. We just got a house this year. We still travel, play video games, and just enjoy each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 12:17 AM
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Alright I see. At that time I was already in my own apartment (with a roommate), had a job and was in decent shape from being in military (which is where I initially met her, she worked in my unit). I see where you're coming from though. Imo the biggest killer is living in grandma's trailer as it's hard to begin women back to that. You can probably find a roommate to live with to help expenses. You probably do have a lot of muscle, but if it's all surrounded by fat then you aren't even going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:43 PM
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Expert liar how? She didn't ask, I didn't tell. I just played it cool, didn't make the situation awkward and she never found out. Maybe that could fall under lying by omission but that information is no one's business to begin with. Btw what amount of self improvement do you need thats gonna take another decade in order to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:00 PM
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Waiting until marriage as just one example, I don't care if men are voluntarily celibate for any reason and women generally do not either. However I will say that it being about "rejecting the system" is weird, but not because of the rejection of sex itself. The system that you're claiming to being a "slave" to is human biology. Traits such as emotions, fear, hunger, exhaustion, and even libido just to list a few are formed for a reason and that reason being necessity. I've not brought up morali…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:48 PM
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If you're a virgin because you act weird then sure maybe she will find out, but that would only be because you act weird not because you never had sex. First time I stick my p in a v was at 26 with a woman I've known and worked with maybe a year prior to that point. After we did it she had no clue that was my first time as I didn't tell her, and we were fwbs that had sex frequently after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:07 PM
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I fall under none of these categories and I'm agaisnt it because it makes absolutely no sense. For one, OP is proposing the ability to remove sexual desire without the physical hormonal side effects that chemical castration gives. This concept is not even scientifically possible (at least the moment). Even anti depressants have hormonal side effects that kill sex drive. The brain is extremely more complex than just "turn this part off". Two, the need for any scientists to research this is zero t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:55 PM
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Nobody knows you're a virgin until you tell them you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:36 PM
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Ok we can test that, listen to me pls. I'm married. Occasionally I enjoy putting my penis in my wife's vagina as I just did last night but thats not why I'm here. We've went months without doing it before and at no point did I ever look at her with resentment because I really didn't care. A relationship consists of more than that imo. I'm glad she doesn't look at me like an object and treats me with respect and dignity, in return I offer her the same. Now sure some guys may hate their significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:38 AM
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Lol that's not a relationship, the man is basically a roommate you can barely tolerate and you're dating your friends. Why not just skip the rigmarole with the guy and just date your friends? Also you're not a man so how do you even know how men want to be treated since you've never had that perspective lol. What you're doing is trying to potentially sabotage others chances at an actual healthy relationship on the guise of just looking out for them. Do you still not see the incel parallels here …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:18 AM
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I don't, but the point is that you are taking bad personal experiences (which idk if you actually experienced yourself or not) and projecting that on all men. Then trying to convince other women to not pursue relationship discounting that the majority are in relationships with men and are happy. Pretty much straight out of the incel playbook. Big "girls rejected me in high school so I'm going to carry this resentment for the rest of my life" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:48 AM
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"All women want are tall assholes and they hate it when you're nice to them and treat you with respect. They only look in your direction when they're 30 and old and need someone to help take care of Chad and Tyrone's kids after they finish pumping and dumping her. Then all she's going to do is deny you sex every night and eventually end up divorcing you and taking half of everything you own." This is how tf you sound but the femcel version.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:30 AM
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20 minutes? I got a good fiver in me, maybe seven on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:24 AM
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Well if those guys want to endure that then all power to them. I had one experience with a big tit (and big body) rough face. Superbowl party, Panthers vs Broncos. There was this girl who I met a few times before thru mutual friends, we were all drinking and she was all over me. I was kinda uncomfortable cause I wasn't really into her, but I was basically peer pressured by everyone there to let her suck my dick in the bathroom. I went thru with it, basically could barely get it up had a half chu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:35 AM
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True but that works up until the night as most women take their makeup off and wash their faces before they go to bed (unless she has terrible hygiene). So once you're able to bag her you're gonna see how she looks in a fairly short period of time regardless, and you're gonna see that side much more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:11 PM
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If I had to choose between pretty face and smaller tits vs unfortunate looking face and bigger tits, I'm taking the former 10 times out of 10. And this is coming from a guy with someone who wears a DD bra. No breast size is gonna make me get it up if I'm genuinely not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:42 PM
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Probably. Less than 1% of women in America are 5'9 or taller, women who are 5'8 are in the 95-96th percentile as well. So this means it's almost guaranteed he's going to be taller than every woman he comes across. This is likely not stopping him. On this very sub there was a guy who's like 6'0 or 6'1 and claiming incel. He said it was because he's ugly, offered to DM me a picture. I'm not trying to protect his feelings or anything when I say this, but nothing about this dude was ugly. He looked …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:13 PM
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An average height guy that's above average looking, in above average shape and above average income isn't settling lol. Unless Jack has some obvious personality disorder, he would be a catch. Some of you guys just get too engulfed by the opinions of the vocal minority of women online demanding a 6'4 10inch meat having 500k a year earning CEO, and then attribute that to something all women demand or else they're settling. I've literally known women who cried over guys with less of a resume than J…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:41 PM
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Fair enough. "Skill issue" may not be a right term. However a lot of people with disabilities still manage to adjust and live regular lives, it just takes a lot more effort to put in than normal. I agree if they don't think it's worthwhile then that's their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:55 PM
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This makes sense but if you think about it, the ones who throw themselves at men are generally not the ones being pursued themselves (keyword generally). The other ones get so much attention that they don't have to do that. I have a friend that's 35 and divorced with 2 kids. He's also a little shorter than me so maybe 5'8 and has a dad bod, but more so the Jason Momoa type where he has a broad chest and shoulders. He still goes to the gym regularly. Face wise i'd say he's good looking and he sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:10 PM
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I was like Jack when I was single. 5'10, good shape from being former military, finished college, 6 figure job, my own apt, 6-7 in terms of looks. Still managed to go on a dating app, get a decent amount of matches and eventually meet my wife (didn't settle on my standards either). I spent most of my 20s single but mainly because I was focused on escaping poverty and I am highly introverted and only went outside when I had to. I get that having stats like Jack isn't gonna guarantee women fall at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:08 PM
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cowardly men exploit a loophole and cheat the system by paying for it. Can this not apply to other things as well. I can jack my own car and change the oil but I pay a mechanic to do it. I can clean my own place but there was a time when I lived in my apt I'd pay a maid service to do it occasionally. I can cook but sometimes I order doordash. I never paid for sex and don't plan on it as my wife would like take issue with that but I don't see it as any more cowardly than paying for any other thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:14 AM
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This wouldn't have happened if she never started streaming in the first place This is like telling someone who got hit by a drunk driver that "this wouldn't have happened if you never got your license in the first place". Like no shit, but this mentality puts the onus of the fuckery that took place on the person that did nothing wrong in that instance and away on the shitty person. It's not really helpful when it comes to addressing a problem. Also sure this specific scenario wouldn't have happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:53 PM
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I think women who do content creation really need to wake up to this reality because a lot of them actually think they get all this money from being funny and interesting What makes you think they dont already know that? I don't think it matters either way. If they are attractive enough, nothing about their content will stop men from forming parasocial relationships with them. There's this guy who makes videos on YouTube named Shelbo99 that vlogs about being Pokemane's boyfriend and how they pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:01 PM
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No, they were made to set marriage to be one man and one woman. It was never illegal to have multiple partners in general. You just couldn't marry them. So making polygyny illegal in 1862 was specifically to stop the Mormons, who only had multiple partners in marriage. Spinning plates and having a roster is not necessarily polygyny considering you are not committed to all of them at once, but each one individually. Meaning that they're not gonna be all under the same household and operating as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:17 AM
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Ok that may be true but laws were passed in 1862 to make polygamy illegal at the federal level and this was specifically in response to Mormons practicing it. Also none of this changes that polygamy is generally a religious practice, even though Protestants are agaisnt it. Fun fact, in the old testament (Torah) polygamy was permissible and there were many men with multiple wives. When the new testiment rolled around they patched that and emphasized that marriage is between one man and one woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:44 AM
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Thats why traditional religions and cultures implemented rules for men to limit promiscuity, like in Christianity for men to resist temptation, or in Islam for men to lower their gaze. Polygyny was practiced in mostly religious cultures. It is permissible in Islam, and was practiced by Mormons. The main reason it was banned in the US is because the Protestants were in charge and wanted to stop Mormon influence, not really because to resist any temptations. Also from an evolutionary biological st…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:07 AM
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"well she gave me her prime so i'll suck it up and stay loyal even tho god knows i'll want inside an 18yo girl's pants... something something wife goggles" Sooo is the better option would be for him to pull a Leo and trade her in for the newer model after she gets a certain age? Why is it bad to want to stick with your woman and not try to chase 18yo tail just because of looks? I remember going on this subreddit that was like askwomenover40 and the person who made this post asked the women who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:42 AM
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I never, not even once, felt like I needed to have sex to the point of considering hiring an escort, deceiving someone to get them into bed, or god forbid violating someone's bodily autonomy or consent. When I was sexless throughout the majority of my twenties, I never felt the need to do any of these things (I came to close to buying a prostitute when I was like 22-23 but realized I have better use for that $200). The majority of men don't do any of this either. You being in spaces like these j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:55 PM
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Well if a man is contemplating trading in his wife, I'm assuming the love is already lost. Just listing why the man would stay anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:33 AM
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So what stops men from leaving their wives? Objectively speaking, two things. Money. They phrase "it's cheaper to keep her" is real bc only 15% of marriages have prenuptial agreements. Then you gotta think about child support if with children. Overall divorce is expensive. Feasible replacement. Unlike what the rp may want you to believe, the average 50yo man is not rich and does not have the means to obtain a 18yo gf (tbh I don't see why anyone would want a wife that much younger than them but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:18 PM
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If your profile is written to sound like a corporate email just how this post is, that would also do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:17 PM
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My fault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:49 AM
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Lemme find out you just trying to find the perfect lie to tell women to get laid 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:46 AM
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Women aren't attracted to the majority of men =/= women are not attracted to the male body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:59 PM
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Straight the long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:53 PM
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he kills all the bugs and opens all the hard jars Everything else is so sentimental then I get to this and it took me out lol. He sounds pretty decent, I'm crashing the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:24 AM
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Love is conditional and nobody is loved simply for existing. The closest thing you will ever get to that is from your parents, but even they only love you on the condition that you're their child and not some random kid. I do get your concerns about superficial reasoning for loving someone. A relationship built off of being with someone for their looks alone for example wouldn't last long as looks fade with age, they may fall ill or they might gain weight. But at the same time, your partner beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:24 PM
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Ok, but my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:34 AM
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Most men don't need to lie and manipulate to have sex, if you do that's a skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:28 AM
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Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex asexuals have left the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:13 AM
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It's literally not, it just means a form of a romantic relationship without a label. Idk how all of a sudden that changed to one party wanting something serious while the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:12 PM
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This post seems like entirely projection and you're trying to assume the intent of the person you're talking to. What if she knew they weren't serious but wanted the lifestyle provided for the time being anyway? Why do you think it was multiple of them? I've always taken situationship as some sort of a short term fling and I've even used the term before. Sure it could also be interchanged with FWB or fuck buddy as well. Language evolves and you're arguing semantics here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:07 PM
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I hear #2 all the time, both from men and women but mostly women. It's usually to warn others to avoid dating coworkers and pointing out the crush is only developing because youre around them 8hrs a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:17 PM
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The ones that have a problem are conservative women. Not friends with too many conservative women, most I know are liberal and none of them I know would be fine with proposing to a man. I would imagine only a small amount actually would, maybe they're concentrated on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:36 AM
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I've literally never seen a woman put a dick preference in a bio and i've had to swipe on at least 1k profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:51 PM
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Having a better career doesn't equate higher quality though. I know, dated a woman that made more than me when we started out and was in school for a masters degree, also dated a woman that lived with her parents and was looking for a job when we started out and only has a bachelors degree. Ended up marrying the latter, mainly because her personality was a million times better. Imo what's on your resume is important to your employer not your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:50 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:31 PM
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Men and women view dating down differently. She is describing dating down in terms of career success, which is much more important to women than it is to men. That doesn't imply low standards though, just different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:46 AM
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Nah it's mainly women who attribute "dating down" to finances. The vast majority of men date women that make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:44 AM
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Why wouldn't you want someone who is as ambitious or as successful as you? So when I met my wife, I was making 6 figures and she was living at her parents house doing commissioned work still looking for full time employment. Many women would view that as "dating down" and not given a man in that situation a chance but I didn't care because that's not a priority. She is ambitious though, just not as successful career wise. Tbh if I were to try to find someone as successful as me I'd prob die alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:42 AM
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Just keep your past to yourself then, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:59 PM
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Would she do it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:55 PM
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Women also usually have better options (for something casual) as they age as typically they will get better jobs and start hanging around better paid men Women's best options for something causal as they age are young men. Looking at the askwomenover40 thread asking about the single ones love lives, ether majority were talking about how they hookup with younger guys is their mid 20s. These guys generally aren't providing anything but dick. Cheating is not socially penalized at all, especially fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:35 AM
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Ok I can concede to that point, but showing them the female doctors and scientists isnt going to spark change in them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:44 PM
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Sure and the countries that have patriarchy aren't going to be swayed regardless of the outcome in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:41 PM
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I've had some ads on IG pop up, the last one in particular this one guy texting some busty 3D AI woman to show feet and she agrees and taking her shoes off and puts a foot up to the screen. And that was the whole ad lol. I'm like wtf I am not the audience for this so I hid the ad from being shown. The ones for women I notice also offer some level of emotional support instead of being just straight up goon material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:40 PM
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I think you are giving the US too much credit in terms of what other countries give a fuck about what goes on here, especially when it comes to gender wars. Onlyfans is not the reason the taliban took over influence in Afghanistan and subjugate women. They would be doing that regardless of what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:59 PM
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Polygyny is conservative in nature and is mostly rooted in religion. The main reason why it was made illegal in the US was to curb the spread of Mormonism, as the main sect in this country to this day is Protestant. It's still widely practiced in some places that have a Muslim majority. That said I don't see why a free and progressive society would revert back to this. If anything, women would just choose to opt out altogether, not be tied down within a single rich man's harem. I've been seeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:54 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Vent/comments/1nya2h9/my_husband_pees_on_the_floor/ Reminder if u are still single in 2025 it's because you don't take 3 showers a day 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:39 PM
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Nah he got a point, I had an ex like his and I wasnt broke. Just tired of being the one to foot the bill on $100 dinners downtown bc she doesn't want something quick nearby. I was paying off all my student loans early at the time and it was a setback. Brought that up, she didn't really seem to care. Also had to practically beg every month for the money for her line on the phone bill and she didn't put a dime toward rent. A lot of women take advantage regardless of what you make and men should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:54 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:42 AM
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I met my wife off one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:36 AM
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I'm trying to figure out what money he's giving her. We're close enough that he shares a lot. Like I've seen his statements, know he's in debt and credit score starts with a 5. Sometimes he'd hit me up asking for money to borrow so he could take a Uber or Lyft to work. They were dating back before he got his own place. She lived with her mom in Texas while he lived between his mom and aunt's in DC and Maryland. She would come visit because she had family in Baltimore, and then she'd travel down …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:12 PM
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Nah I have a friend that sounds like his. 30 years old, 5'6, obese, hairline receding at the corners and he barely makes enough money to take care of himself let alone give as an allowance. He doesn't have a car, just got his license this year, he just got his own apartment a couple years ago (used to live with his family) and he can barely pay for it since he got fired from his last job and it took a while to get a new one (now works as a security guard in washington DC for $23/h). He showed me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:45 PM
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Most men would take an attractive child molesting woman over a ugly "good" woman. The fact that whenever a teacher SAs a student most of the comments are "where were these teachers when I was in school". Attractive people get more leway than less attractive people, idk why this is a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:16 PM
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Easy, women that support deadbeat bums are much more likely to come on the internet and complain about it, and women in healthy relationships are more likely to live their lives like normal. To your point it's more likely that a woman is going to tolerate more bs from a guy she's more attracted to than less, but it's not some thing where deadbeat outnumber men who contribute around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:15 PM
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There's ways around that, like using seeking arrangements. Or just passport bro to a place where it's cheaper and the laws are lax.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:28 AM
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Going by OPs definition of needs that can be purchased as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:02 PM
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In reality men need woman way more than women need men. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:12 PM
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Im sure my wife doesn't need me as she survived 25 years w/o knowing I existed but when she had a flat tire and crying because she couldn't change it herself, her AAA expired and she had somewhere to be I'm sure it was extremely convenient I could drop her off then change it for her so she didn't have to worry about it. Yall discount the convience of having a partner being too hyper focused on need itself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:10 PM
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Well my parents had me as teens. My dad dropped out of college just so he wouldn't be away from me and ended up being the one with primarily custody and who I lived with almost all of my childhood life. So I would have to respectfully disagree. I believe I came out much better than I would had I grew up raised by my mom. And don't get me wrong I love my mom and all but I notice single mom raised men where I'm from make up a disproportionate amount of the crash outs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:43 PM
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Disclaimer:.This strategy only works if you're reasonably physically attractive and have a life. My boyfriend is a tall, handsome man with a good job Fam, anything you do would be successful if you have all these qualities. The autism wouldn't even matter at that point, you could have just added be tall and wealthy in the disclaimer and stopped writing the rest of the post. This sub has me dying sometimes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:45 PM
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Mind you this is our vice president that still wears the same eye makeup <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:14 AM
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Hmm so tell me what does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:03 AM
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So hear me out. The husband material is supposed to be the special one and better option right, but you have lower standards for all the other men you give/gave access to your body. It doesn't really make much sense to me. It's like a hiring manager giving interviews for a job, but for the potential candidates that are better on paper they have to go through a rigorous 3 round interview just for a chance to make the same $$$ as the previous lesser qualified candidates from a temp agency who just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:45 AM
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I find it hard to believe that he's some loser sitting at home while his wife gets fucked. Right, he's sitting in the chair in the corner of the room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:12 AM
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Which one is higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:07 AM
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I'm married and I'm glad I've never been called husband material, it's only a compliment in your minds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:03 AM
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Which one has the higher set of standards in your mind, or are they about equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:01 AM
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Well if that's how you choose to hear it then all power to you. The person you're replying to is correct though, it's almost never used as just a straight up complement by itself and almost always used as a way to tell the guy why she would have never hooked up with him. It's one thing of she doesn't really do hookups because it's not her thing, but if she does I'd take it as "I have lower standards for other guys I'd let have access to my body and higher standards for you because you're special…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:53 AM
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Would you have casual sex with a guy that isn't husband material?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:51 AM
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Women praising other women for being sexually "free" and having high body counts doesn't change how men view them, so I don't think this matters as much as you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:54 PM
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My wife doesn't work at the moment bc she lost her job a month ago so I am the sole provider. But when she did work it was like a 80/20 split on bills because I made a significant amount more than her. She is very funny but only when she's not trying to be. Like the only times I'm busting out laughing is when she says or does something without the intent to be funny but it's funny anyway. Assuming the bare minimum attractiveness is there, personality in general is a huge deciding factor. Which d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:23 PM
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You do know what sub we're on right? Do you expect the average socially awkward neurodivergent man on PPD to approach any woman in general on a regular basis? I don't approach women at all regardless of how they look (wife may not like that), but I do have extroverted friends that make it a point to hit on women when out and out. One thing I notice is that if there is a group, the more attractive women get the most attention. This is why guys always complain about how they're trying to hit on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:47 PM
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That youtube video said women who don't get approached in public or social media but their friends do doesn't mean they're unattractive, it's because they are too attractive and they think you're out of their league. This is a lie, generally in a group of women the more attractive ones get hit on first. That video also says that it you have a bunch of platonic guy friends that never make a move it's because they're scared by your ambition. Another lie, either a. They actually don't like you in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:18 AM
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Here. Now a lot of people have problems with this source claiming it's biased, but the the raw data they used for one of the references is here. You either have to download the entire dataset, import, analyze, and visualize it yourself, or you can use the tool on their website if you sign up. I've never done the latter, but I did do the former and got the same conclusion. Wrote up an outcome in post on a red pill like subreddit because they were claiming that men should have at least 50 bodies b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:28 AM
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It's both men and women. Data from the general social survey shows that for both genders, having higher n count is correlated to lower likelihood to get married, lower rates of marital satisfaction and higher divorce rates if married. And it makes sense, if you're the type of person to have sex with a whole bunch of other people, it's less likely youd be fine with just one person from that point onward. Then if you do settle down by chance, it's a higher chance you'd just default back to what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:30 AM
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I mean I typically have to buy lunch for work, if I pack it then a couple days. Now if we talking non food or gas related, then weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:16 PM
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For real I'm thinking he got shot like trump got shot, and he'd be patched up and alright in no time just to make a political statement about it later. Nah that shit was gruesome he's not making it out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:13 PM
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All this senseless white on white violence needs to end smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:11 PM
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Adderall makes me feel like a god and I can do anything. Take that first thing in the morning after a long night of whacking it and you'd be straight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:11 PM
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How about (and hear me out because this may sound crazy) men and and women date who they want to? This whole policing types and preferences is getting old. I know I know, men all the time complain here about women wanting Chad for superficial reasons instead of wanting their cool awesome self, but guess what those guys are generally told (paraphrasing here) to stfu, get over it, and find someone who is into them instead of changing the other person's preference. So why can't women do the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:28 PM
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Tbf there is a difference between training for a bodybuilding competition roids and preparing for a movie role roids. The latter isn't that visible for those who don't train or work out at all and have any clue about how much lbs of muscle is possbile to put on in a short timeframe. I dated a girl once and we went to the gym, and she told me she didn't want to lift weights because she didn't want to look too muscular. I had to explain to her why she didn't have to worry about that. So I guess th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:08 PM
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Sure, it doesn't automatically make you more attractive to all women but women in general are more attracted to masculine men than they are metrosexual twinks. I know women on this sub are built different, but most women want a man that can protect them over sharing morning routine tips. If you are a man that wants to cast the widest net possible, the being traditionally masculine is the move. That doesn't mean not shower or wipe your ass properly either because being a dirty stank mf doesn't me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:35 PM
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There are formally educated and employed women who don't know shit about cars lol. On a side note who even writes checks on a regular basis? We have banking apps that track every transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:00 PM
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This is why we need to bring mansplaining back
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:56 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/YoungThug/comments/1nay1gl/audio_young_thug_cheating_on_mariah_planning_to/ Pretty much the guy on the left is a famous rapper that's been in jail the past 3 years on a RICO charge, he just got out recently on time served and probation. The girl next to him is an R&B singer and is his gf. She chose to stay faithful to him and hold him down the entire time he was locked up. He's been in the social media news because someone leaked all his jail phone recordings and he's bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:52 PM
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For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:14 PM
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They still have a safety net provided by the state of they fail. Which is? There are plenty of countries that enforce gender quotas everywhere Sure but in America it's not and half of the users of this site are from here. So does America not have the same problems you mention? Exactly. They pick the right men or they suffer the consequences. Fair enough. I disagree. Doesn't matter really. I don't care. The change improved their results. The change that never happened and never will? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:14 PM
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*becoming egalitarian I missed a word my bad chief
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:00 PM
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No. If that were the case women wouldn't use any social programs. They would just sell what they have to earn a life. I was speaking on married women in particular, which they would not be qualified. Married women are relying less on their husbands to be primary bread winners than in the past. The majority of married women work. This is capitalism at play here. Remove all government help and gender quotas and see how many women end up being hired. If it's not a federal government employee or con…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:39 PM
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Women didn't replace men with the government, they replaced them with capitalism. Within marriages men are still the primary bread winners of the two genders on average but that gap has been steadily decreasing over the decades to the point where most relationships are egalitarian. Those that are both single utilize social safety net programs aren't doing so to circumvent relying on a man, they're on them because they couldn't rely on the man that knocked them up to stay around. And if you allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:41 PM
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I would argue men are more privileged in their personal lives overall, you're just looking at it purely from a dating/marriage dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:29 PM
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The only times I’ve ever even seen the “don’t be an asshole and maybe you’ll get women” commentary is when some guy is acting like an asshole while asking for “advice” from women, and it’s an easy way to tell him to basically go fuck himself. Well you're about to see it now https://www.instagram.com/reel/DM57Nu7Ssbm/ My point is that it doesn't really matter if he's an asshole or not, a lot women especially here automatically assume that if a man is struggling with women then it must mean he is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:20 AM
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Your whole second paragraph is a self fulfilling prophecy. I get there are some "nice guys" out there who are assholes lying to themselves and others, but this is always the go to explanation as to why "nice guys finish last". Here's another example. Man is genuinely nice and respectful to woman, he sees same woman play him or go for guy that treats either her, others around him, or both badly. Man points this out as to why he struggles, then he gets told that is impossible, he's only pretending…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:22 PM
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I swear you beat this same topic to death lmao. Sure women aren't actively seeking out being with guys with bad personalities, but I've been around and talked to enough to know that they have and will continue to tolerate it for the one they want (in general, even if this doesn't apply to whatever special snowflake redditor queen that may be reading this). This is why the advice of "have you just tried being nice to them??" is dumb. That's not saying that being mean or rude is the better play, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:05 AM
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You say that but look at the increasing number of 20 year old men who are single in this "loneliness epidemic", yet I have a friend who is 35 now who doesn't have issues with getting 20 somethings if he wants. Hell i've had female friends in my age range see my dad and fawn over him. The top tier older man will always be more desirable than the average younger man, but these older men are few and far in-between especially the larger the age gap. So yes I will concede on average a woman is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:13 PM
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If your definition of prostitution is narrowed down to simply exchanging resources for access, then almost everything in life is prostitution, not just dating. Me going to work is prostitution. I'm exchanging my time, knowledge and service for a paycheck every 2 weeks. Me helping a friend move is prostitution. I'm exchanging my time and strength for a box of pizza and a beer. Me owning a cat is prostitution. I'm exchanging food and shelter for them to sit there and look at me judgingly all day a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:03 PM
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Youre operating on the assumption that the youth is the only thing makes the man (or anyone) attractive, instead of it just being one factor. A 40 year old with the best body, best hair, best skin for their age may not be more attractive than the best looking 20 year old, but will still certainly be more attractive than the average 20 year old. In general I think younger women look better than older ones, but growing up I had a crush on Thandie Newton who is damn near 20 years older than me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:20 AM
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even if you look good now, your looks are going to fade quicker than a younger man I already addressed this point in my first point --> "Now the further along he ages, the more he has to work hard to compete with someone who doesn't have to put in the effort in their 20s". However this decline can be at varying rates depending on the person. Someone can fall off completely before turning 30, some would be more gradual. Personally I think I look much better now than 10 yrs ago. women don’t really…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:44 AM
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Is that not what this post is about? If you take the money out of the equation which is what you're doing, you're left with physical characteristics and personality. Younger people generally have the former in their favor, personality could go either way as a lot of young guys here are "off" to put it mildly. Older guys are deemed more mature and experienced but a lot can be jaded and have baggage too. So if you put the physical characteristics (looks and fitness) on the same playing field, what…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:43 AM
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I started dating my wife when she was 25 and I was a month shy of turning 30. Idk how much she cared about my finances but I know she didn't have a sense of how much money I really made until after we made it official, and she was pretty shocked. I made it a point to not try to lead with my wallet. Went on a cheap first date to an art museum which I paid like 6 bucks for her ticket, and then we ate at this japanese place in a mall food court (her idea btw) and we each paid for our own food. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:11 AM
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I'm not a fan of cold approaching, but I have to admit that it does work if you know how to do it because I've seen it several times. By "know how to do it", I mean you still have to warm them up a bit and not dive straight into asking for a number all awkward and shit I have friend, highly extroverted (this is key) so he goes out of his way to talk to anyone regardless of if he's interested in them. One interaction I witness we were at a coffee place and there was this girl reading next table o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:28 PM
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This is true but then again preselection is a thing and in general women are more attracted to men that other women find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:13 PM
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Im not someone who’s just gonna fight someone because you bumped into me. But i if you push me my goal is try to flatline you. What does this have to do with Raja? The wrestler Syko Stu never pushed him. He never called him a bitch. He hit him with a prop beer can on the assumption he was a wrestler (you know he had the cameras around and all), but then once he realized raja was visibally upset he apologized to smooth things over Over hour later Raja got in there and beat his ass. The moment to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:48 PM
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I'm sure plenty of men do that, but what does that have to do with me? I still wouldn't want to settle down with a woman like that, the same way a lot of women wouldn't want to settle with a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:12 AM
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I assume she must have felt some kind of genuine sexual attraction for you, no? Yes. The whole dynamic was weird and I can spend paragraphs going into detail but I still feel like she would only come around when the rest of her roster was either empty or thin and I was the backup. I was still cool with her the times she had a bf but she would be shady toward any girl I talked to and when she realized my current relationship is serious she got mad. "I get it the new pussy running you" one of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:29 PM
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Casual sex isn't really the issue, I just don't get how you can be so embarrassed of that person that you cant be seen in public lol. One I was with was cool with my mom despite us not being exclusive (I had to tell my explain my mom that too lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:49 PM
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This girl I was in a off and on fwb type situationship, and she once casually mentioned that if we're not married by a certain age that we should marry each other. I was just like "ok" in that Waka Flocka sarcastic tone because I couldn't tell if she was serious or not, but thinking about it seriously hell the fuck no lol. She's the one that told me "you should have locked it down sooner" when I was ready for a relationship (despite it being her idea initially) so, likewise. I don't want to sit …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:27 PM
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No. First sexual encounter was a long story but to keep it short I wasn't really attracted to her, it was peer pressure at a superbowl party and I don't really count it. The others I've slept with I brought home and they met my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:50 PM
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If I were to have every comment or social media post saved for any occasion I'd whip it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:48 PM
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I'd feel worse being the guy settling down with a woman who fucked dudes she's embarrassed to be with than be the dude that she's embarrassed to be with 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:47 PM
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Ofc you would that's my point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:40 PM
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Lmao is it that or do women comprehend things the way that they want to especially when it goes agaisnt their worldview? I say it's the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:37 PM
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I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:22 PM
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they dont want to pay for anything No they just don't wanna pay for you. They can pay for themselves you can pay for yourself most men simply aren't attractive Most people aren't. If they were then attractive people wouldn't stand out as attractive they are lustful, immature, vain and often sexist The ones that you check for. And before men say modern women dont offer anything you're wrong. Any guys with a sex drive is pretty desperate for sex and most guys are lonely too so women offer guys wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:18 AM
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I've been noticing a big uptick in femcel content not just here but reddit in general and you know what I'm here for it. Balances things out a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 AM
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I mean I never had that problem. Then again my sample size is limited to 2 but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:12 AM
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We probably won't, but if we somehow do the universe would have the last say at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:25 PM
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I don't agree with alimony in general (which is why I had my lawyer waive alimony in the prenup), but I definitively do not agree with what you're proposing here. Basically you're saying alimony should be awarded not just for a difference in earnings, but for for revenge (cheating, DV) and disability. Let's look at the disability piece. For one, autism generally isn't something that would prevent a person from function in society to the point where they need their spouses support. Two, what if b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:25 PM
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One day the sun will implode and we will all be killed by outside influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:26 PM
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Cultures come and go everyday, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:08 PM
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As far as I know, no but I haven't talked to her in over a year. I do know her second child's father didn't have any kids, and he was pretty successful. He wanted to marry her but she didn't want to be with him. Says he's too controlling but idk their dynamic first hand, never met or spoke to the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:38 PM
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So I'm 33, was on bumble at 29 almost 30. I also had a female friend who was on the platform a couple years later, can't rememeber what age but at least 35 probably 36. My stats: 5'10, decent shape from just getting out the military, no kids, own place, career taking off making 6 figures (didn't advertise this though), only debt was a car payment that I paid off in 3 years of me having it, have a strong hairline and my beard connects. Her stats: 5'9, also in decent shape, two kids by two differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:15 AM
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Nowhere. Introverted so I don't go out much and I never cold approached a woman in my life. Met my wife on a dating app when I was a couple months shy of 30. Before that, it was work but as I moved up this was less reliable as most of my coworkers now are old men and everyone is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:28 AM
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On my profile I just had it set to looking fo a LTR, and and I put having kids or wanting them in the future is a deal breaker. Btw I basically leaned what "ENM" was because I saw it on a couple women's profiles I matched with and wondered what it meant, found out and immediately was like no I'm good on that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:43 PM
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I’m telling you they’re not all top percentile hot guys. Mostly they’re just normal guys. Oh I believe you, I've seen this. I just brought up attraction because you did in the title. Regardless of where they fall on the attraction scale, they still hit tho. Regardless if they came out the gate as an asshole or they tricked the woman (which if you ask women they all fall for the same tricks every time), they still hit tho. Which btw if the latter is the case, these men are only pretending to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:08 AM
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Idk if they're all top percentile hot guys or not especially if I never seen them, but I do know 1. He's an asshole (according to her) and 2. He still hit. So based on this we can deduce his personality didn't stop him from getting laid. So why do women tell guys who struggle with getting laid it's because of their personality? I mean it may or it may not, but considering that doesn't stop other men then there has to be something else stopping that guy in particular. What are your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:39 AM
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You know what's funny about this post, you straight up admit that attractive men can get away with bad behavior. But when men make this very same argument, they're just bitter jealous they can't do the same 😂. You're basically just acknowledging men's point but still trying to shame, for what idk. Maybe the truth hurts that much? Btw im in a relationship and have no reason to be jealous of another man, and even I can clearly see that being nice is optional when it comes to getting laid. That's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:24 AM
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Well the term "peasant" generally implies an agricultural laborer. But it wasn't that uncommon especially in medieval times. Even though class mobility wasn't an option they still had to focus on survival. Men had to consider would the woman be able to birth and raise children and women had to consider if he was strong and stable enough to take care of the family. Love proceeded practicality. If anything economic marriages became less of a norm as the more time went on and capitalism grew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:11 AM
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I don't see why get married when everything you mentioned can be accomplished by simply having a roommate. The advantages would be that such future marriages would not have the drama and the jealousy that most serious relationships have today and partners would be more free to do what they wanted. Since love and committment would be a lower priority in the marriage ( If not the least priority - If they will be presente at all) both partners could enjoy sex without committment in the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:46 AM
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Peasants also married for economic reasons as well. Family of the brides typically got a dowry that consisted of some money and/or livestock and the they also got to get rid of a mouth to feed. Having children was an economic thing as well as they were a source of free labor and retirement plan down the road. Also single men still out earn single women and have higher median salaries. It's not by a lifestyle changing amount though so I do agree with with you on the gold digger thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:32 AM
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I don't disagree, I think being extroverted is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:23 AM
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Low birthrates are only an issue once people start to get old and the social security ponzi scheme starts to fall through. But once things normalize it shouldn't be a problem. What we should not be doing is continuing to have children at the same rate, considering we have modern medicine that keeps us alive much longer than nature intended and there's no need for a high replacement rate. Plus with newer technology outsourcing jobs, lower birthrates help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:16 PM
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It will correct itself once older people start dying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:11 PM
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Categorically not false https://www.cnbc.com/2023/02/07/neuroscientist-shares-coveted-skills-that-set-introverts-apart-their-brains-work-differently.html Now that's not to say being introverted automatically means you're smarter than an extroverted person but it makes sense as someone who is hyperfocused on an intellectual pursuit would be less inclined to put time into social activity. Your last paragraph I agree with and was the point I was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:43 PM
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Most of the "gifted" and high IQ community are introverts. I think what's going on is that extroverted people can convey their intelligence in a way that more people are willing to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:05 PM
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Yes, it's a skill like any other. It wont come naturally and will seem forced and rehearsed unlike coming from more extroverted people but it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:54 PM
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Yikes. Well there are girls out that that would, the problem is they're few and far in between. Can't believe im going to suggest passport broing but in some Asian countries you'd just be slightly shorter than average and about the same height or taller than half the women. You'd prob have the best luck there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:52 PM
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I feel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:47 PM
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Aside from expensive and risky leg lengthening surgury, I'd say be more extroverted. From my personal observations the extreme extroverts have the most success. Ofc there will be a higher number of rejections but if you keep putting yourself out there you're bound to get a rotation going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:45 PM
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Time to either settle down or get a sugar baby gramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:39 PM
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Yes and women to getting pregnant by men who have no intent to be fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:25 PM
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Yes, because they're wanted by the women in their proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:31 PM
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So if that's not happening to you, wouldn't you be below them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:54 PM
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I think what OP is getting at is when sexually unsuccessful men who are already in the vicinity of women vent about how they aren't having success attracting them and landing dates, the first thing people get at is that they probably need to fix their personality. "Have you tried being nice to women?". Stuff like that. The disconnect comes when these guys see other guys who aren't nice not have to struggle and always keep a rotation. Somehow, it's taboo to say that the reason you're struggling i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:52 PM
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Personally I think I think either choice has way to do with social factors than a biological hard wiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:49 PM
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I'd argue that men lose attraction to their partners due to familiarity faster than to aging as well. I've seen dudes cheat on their girl with lesser physically attractive women. It's also why red pill podcasters push the narrative that high value men "exercise their options" and it's ok to have a rotation of women because we aren't naturally monogamous or something. So what you're saying it's not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:48 PM
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I agree. The funniest thing I've seen was videos where dudes would ask women how do they think Lizzo look. When they'd say "she's gorgeous" the guy would be like "you know you kind of resemble her a little" and you can see the disgust in their faces like wtf did he just say? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:40 PM
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Men, however, are far less likely to be attractive. The odds of me seeing a desirable man just walking down the street is like 1 in 20, meanwhile almost every girl I see is beautiful Lol I wonder where you live? I've never been to single place where I walked down the street and almost every woman was beautiful. The best I've seen was in southern California but that's mainly because they are more likely to be in shape, still only a handful I'd say were drop dead gorgeous. What I tend to notice is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:53 PM
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The passport bros subreddit love to even rank countries based on women's sexual availability and perceived submissiveness. It's funny how they love to say it's a culture thing as to why western women are worse, but if you look at the maps they create South Korea and Japan always rank in the harder areas to date compared to the rest of the region, despite how a lot of those weebs glaze their culture. Also the areas that are highly religious are harder to date too, despite them also glazing purity…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:43 PM
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Mainly 2 reasons It's generally associated with sex tourism. Just because you're not referring to it doesn't change anything. The majority of passport bros aren't going to Medellin and Thailand to find a wife they have to talk to using a translate app on a week long stay. You're gonna be seen as doing the same thing. The locals already have a problem with foreigners from higher earning countries coming in and raising prices on things like housing, on top of that you're pricing them out of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:38 PM
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define significant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:05 PM
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Manosphere and online pill community = enough to establish a pattern lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:49 PM
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So every single man on earth share the same thoughts and opinions is what you're telling me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:33 PM
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I have one now but I spent most of my adult life single. I'd say it's because of being highly introverted and socially unaware growing up which led to never approaching any girl I was interested in or knowing what to say if I did. So I'd say be extroverted if it was possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:43 AM
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Because one already implies the other and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:55 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:34 AM
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Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:20 AM
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Same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:18 AM
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But the number of violent criminals disproportionately come from single mother households so it all ties together
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:09 AM
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humorous, ironic, or sarcastic way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:10 PM
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Commas and the word "or" elude you I see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:07 PM
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"'Tongue-in-cheek' is a phrase describing something said or done in a humorous, ironic, or sarcastic way, not meant to be taken seriously." yet here you are 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:04 PM
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That was supposed to be tongue-in-cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:46 PM
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Because it is a numbers game. What works for one person doesn't mean it's going to work for another, so when someone gets advice to do a whole bunch of different things and none of them work, they get disillusioned by it all. I met my wife on dating app but I'm not going to tell others that this is the way to meet because I know it was mostly RNG at play and not everyone is going to have the same experience. You can do all the professional pics and well written bios you want, no outcome is guara…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:23 PM
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Yeah you're not gonna get bug free code that works the way you intend in your the first time, but the biggest plus about AI is the productivity factor. Even if it gives you slop, you have something to work with and refactor that may have taken you 30 mins to get got that point on your own I'm constantly having to go back and forth with chatgpt to fix things but it's still faster than me starting from scratch. You're still gonna need smart people, just not as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:56 PM
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Lmao. I'd be up there with her tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:24 PM
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I don't even know my own IQ so I don't really care about the number. But I do agree dumb girls are a turn off, been there before it's mind numbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:23 PM
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My manager/scrum master is pushing for our team to use Claude AI hard, basically telling us we don't even need to know how to code anymore and during our meeting told the guy that was hired recently from an internship that he can throw his entire computer science degree away because he won't need it anymore 💀. Then another coworker piped in and said he hope he paid his student loans off 🤣 Anyway SM built an app and a website and demoed it, and tbh it was pretty impressive. I use chatgpt sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:22 PM
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I do. I remind all the men here who complain about marriage that nobody is forcing them to do it. Most aren't even in that position to do so in the first place but that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:25 PM
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Someone else criticized Howard with: “She’s a 40 year old woman, she had that baby to set herself up for the next 18-20 years, which she’ll be close to 60. She’s not trying to work. Young bull got played. She playing the long game.” Lmao this comment is spot on. This woman basically just wants a meal ticket until she retires. Also that baby isn't even 1 years old yet, how in the FUCK do you blow through $100k to "maintain the lifestyle" 😂🤣. In other words, she already went through 1/10th of her …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:02 PM
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As a person who is snipped and doesn't want kids ever, this post is weird. Wanting to have your own children is not a fetish and I don't see the issue with wanting your own over being a step parent or adopting. And why do you act like this is something on men when the vast majority of women would rather babe their own child as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:23 PM
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Lol this is the female version of the incel doomer posts of how women only want to marry you for your money then divorce you take the house and kids then go bounce on Chads dick 😂 I'm married with a high paying job, all of my coworkers are married except for one (that's a long story). Most of them are older (40s+) and been married to women close to their age for a long time, and I haven't heard this mentality from them. One of them is mid 40s, been divorced twice, and just got remarried last yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:12 PM
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So what you're telling me is that they can over up and still stay cool, so how does my point not stand? It's almost like the heat is an excuse 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:19 AM
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Ok, let's go with "GII is a pile of bullshit", doesn't change the fact that the women in UAE have some of best rights out of entire Middle East countries, probably only under Israel. I've been several countries in the region while in the military and was in Abu Dhabi before (there's an air base not too far from there). Highly progressive city. We had some places in Saudi too, the female airmen weren't allowed to travel by themselves in any areas off base like the culture was entirely different. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:06 AM
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Yeah just because UAE is in the middle east doesn't mean their women don't have rights. They're #31 in the world on the gender inequality index scale. The US for reference is #46. Let's look at Saudi Arabia, they're much richer than the UAE and have the best economy in the entire middle east. Their women have less rights (56 in the world). They have a much higher birthrate than UAE and every single western country for that matter. So yes it pretty much correlates more highly to how much freedoms…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:34 AM
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If millions of muslim women can don full ninja garb in much hotter climates what's her excuse 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:53 AM
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This goes hand and hand. Women having less rights -> less likely working or educated - > more reliant on man -> focus is on family and likely to pump out babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:46 AM
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Yes but what's even better than that is not having kids in first world countries. You can basically live however you want and do what you want. Which is why less people in first world countries have children compared to third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:58 AM
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I'm like that's a factor I've already acknowledged this is a barrier for many, but let's take a look at Scandinavian countries. They have long year+ maternity and paternity leave, they have subsidized daycare, they have higher public education scores, and they have lower rates of poverty than the US. They all still have lower birthrates than the US. The bottom line is the more comfortable a person's life, the less likely they are going to want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:54 AM
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Sure but in most of history and some places today men have had rights that women didn't and dictated what that choice would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:44 AM
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"Much more expensive" is relative to where you live. At bare minimum kids need clothing, food and shelter. Some places shelter = 5+ people to a room, food = whatever they grow and slaughter, and clothing = passed down from kid to kid as they start to outgrow them. If you're in a first world country then likely you have your own room, clothes, and mcdonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:40 AM
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Nah not when they 're free labor when younger and and a retirement plan when older. It's not like you even need to make college funds for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:35 AM
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Lower education. 2. Less autonomy 3. They need extra hands to tend to the estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:29 AM
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This pretty much goes along with my point. Poorer = less options = more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:26 AM
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"Birthrates are down because men are trying to procreate with me" is one of the takes of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:18 PM
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Yep. I had this convo with my wife bc she was saying that birthrate is down because it's expensive to have kids, which i'm like that's a factor but if you look at the countries with the most generous parental leave and socialized health and daycare, they have lower birthrates than the US. Poor countries have the highest. The real answer is choice if if you want the #s up then have to take away rights from women. She kinda got offended at that but I pointed out even she doesn't want kids and mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:15 PM
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I usually go every two to three weeks. For the most part he tells me stuff I already know and gives some common sense advice but I don't really follow through with most of it. I typically let my impulsive thoughts win. I just keep going because my insurance pays for all of it. There is some positive to it though like I learned I have ADHD and got my doc to prescribe meds that make me super productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:39 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:24 AM
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Is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:20 AM
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Well it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:40 AM
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Interesting, and you don't think that this applies when the genders are swapped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:25 AM
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That wasn't my question. I said how would she feel if her guy was called a simp for it. If this girl is a pick me then she would agree he'd be a simp no, or is this a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:13 AM
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How would you feel if people called your guy a simp for doing it the same way you label her a pick me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:56 PM
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Becuase most women these days act like basic chores that all adults should do is akin to being a maid or slavery. The fact you call her a "pick me" for being picked is an example of this salty female mentality. Anyway when men see women catering to them then they take notice. You'd think she bought him a Rolex or a yacht or something the way guys are reacting Odds are anything she could get him he could get for himself. Most men prefer acts of service over gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:55 PM
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To an extent. Girls in my school were dating dudes who already graduated and had cars and jobs. You had to compete with that. I think it's only easier for the guys who were outgoing/popular enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:48 PM
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So if you grew up poor then came across a million bucks at 30, would you not enjoy the money now because you didn't have a chance to spend it in the past? Doesn't make sense to me. I will blow up that relationship in all of my incel glory cause fuck her This is that self sabotage I'm talking about. For one you're gonna vent about the past lack of success to your partner (not recommended), then you're assuming she's going to mock you, and then youre gonna blow it up. This mentality is just gonna …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:50 PM
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I'm a late bloomer as well, and this emotional damage you speak of is purely mental and FOMO, mainly driven societal pressures to be in a relationship or have sex. Personally first time I did PIV was 26, and a BJ at 24. Before that, I did feel left out hearing about my peers having experiences that I wasn't. But then after that point, I realized it didn't even matter. I stopped dwelling on the past and what didn't happen. Nothing else about who I was changed at that point either. I will never un…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:34 PM
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I mean if you think about it, the same can be said for buying clothes or using a smartphone/laptop. There's a chance you're wearing something that was created by a child in a sweatshop or typing your comments on a device with batteries mined by child labor. I mean there is a good chance that these happen as well, so are these ethically wrong too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:03 AM
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It's simple. If she likes you, it doesn't matter where you take her. If she gets offended over a "cheap date", she doesn't really fw you like that. So if you take a girl that doesn't fw you on an expensive date, the outcome is likely the same except she'll leave the carrot on the stick longer. Had a date where we went to a museum, I paid 6 bucks for a ticket. Then we ate some food, I paid for my own she paid for hers. We ended up married. To your point "if she likes you she will sleep with you" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:27 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:38 PM
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No incel was coopted by men who were sexually unsuccessful. Not all of them are misogynistic, but the ones who are started forums to bash women and drew the attention of everyone else. Having a relationship or not is not a major accomplishment, like some of the biggest losers I know are with someone. I agree which is sort of to OPs point. Guys who are incels are told if they're just respectful to women they could get one. I'm not saying that's a bad thing to respect women, but that's not why the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:33 PM
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This is the reason why the term "incel" is thrown around as a replacement for misogynist. While a lot of incels do develop a disdain toward women, there is this belief that the reason why he's sexually unsuccessful is becuase he hates women. They want to believe women only reward good behavior, but what's interesting is almost every woman I've come across that shares their sexual history they always have some toxic asshole in there. Truth is misogynist men are often sexually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:33 PM
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Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:23 PM
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Lol you don't have to agree, the results speak for themselves. Literally the only person I knew irl who was trying to convince me that I shouldn't marry my wife (apparently cause I'm too good for her?) was a woman that worked at the front desk at my job. Glad I didn't listen to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:25 PM
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It does depend. If the goal is to be he a long time bachelor fuckboi, take advice from a man who has no problems getting laid. If the goal is to be married, take advice from a married man. There is no situation where you need to consult a woman on any of these things outside of the one you're actively trying to pull (and even then the focus should be more on what's done than said).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:10 PM
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I'm talking about men taking advice from other men with experience. That's better than men taking advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 06:00 PM
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Which is why you take advice from the men with most experiences not the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:49 PM
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Lol most already don't so that was never a problem to begin with. I think OP is just coming from the standpoint where if a man vents his frustrations in dating, the common advice is just "listen to women" like that's gonna change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:35 PM
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Post on r/teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:18 PM
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You're entitled to your opinion :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:47 PM
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Lol i'm not saying it's better or that I really agree with it, ijs how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:24 PM
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My view of the platform is you pay money, you get custom videos, you bust nut. Personally I think it's stupid to message them for any non transactional reason like trying to form some emotional bond regardless if it's actually them or someone in a call center hired by a social media team, but some men do that. My whole pont about "on the side" is that in general men aren't trying to leave their wives/gfs with OF models. The two serve an entirely different purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:00 PM
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Sure I know some men that move similarly, but is it really hypergamy if he isn't intending on settling down with any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:46 PM
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Or they know that the 20 something they're lusting after for sex isn't going to be a good poential wife or mother/step mother so there's no bother to do it. You gotta think about all of the childless guys out there who cheat on their gfs and have a roster. They have nothing to lose by just breaking up, but they keep them all around anyway because he wants access to them all. Unfortunately I know a lot of guys like this. I think the closest example to what you're trying to explain is Leonardo DiC…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:24 PM
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It's kinda funny to see so how women try to rationalize how they think into men. Most men that have the options to pull the hot young women aren't replacing their wives for them, they are just fucking them on the side. Women will upgrade and replace with the better option, men will just collect them and have a harem. If you do see men leaving their wives for them, odds are the woman found out, divorced him, and it doesn't matter if he's public with the other(s) or not. edit: or his wife has canc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:54 PM
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I mean it's not like women can't and don't do the same thing, but if we want to spin the definition of the term then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:42 PM
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Lmao spin it how you want you're still describing prostitution and not hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:39 PM
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Lol alright, it's still not hypergamy for men though. They both have their roles and OF chicks like any side chick mainly remain in the "for recreational use only" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:24 PM
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Sure, i'm not trying to argue if it's cheating or not I'm arguing that it isn't hypergamy because they are often kept on the side and men have been having side pieces for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:22 PM
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No it just means men are attracted to attractive women and some men cheat (mistresses, side chicks, etc.) If men were leaving their wives to marry OF models then you'd have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:03 PM
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The worst offenders of this are the ones who are in relationships and asking should they break up or divorce their s/o. We don't like with you mfs, we only know your side and you're more than likely gonna paint yourself as the good person. So just go ahead and break up lol. Like if I have to ask internet strangers should I stay in my relationship then my relationship not worth staying in imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:09 AM
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Not necessarily. It taught me to be more direct, gauge interest, how to initiate going on a date or making out, and what I generally want a first date to look like. You're missing my point, you could have learned all of this by going out with women you meet IRL as well. You used women on the apps as practice instead. Women on apps have significantly higher standards than those I meet IRL Sooo you're just making my point for me lol. If women on apps have higher standards than women IRL, when what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:11 PM
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It’s just a free source to find 5 or 10 women who will go on first dates with you. Here's the thing if a guy can get 5-10 first dates a dating app that easy, then they likely wouldn't need any help getting women IRL and would get the same outcomes. It's not like women on OLD apps have any lower standards than those you meet IRL, as most of them do both anyway. If anything apps are harder since the gender ratio is so skewed. If he's sturggling to get matches (let alone responses), then how will d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:44 PM
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I guess this is where I'm confused. Where does OLD play in this? You'd have the same outcome regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:19 PM
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Many of them are not joking, that’s actually the bar for what flirting looks like to them. Ok but it worked for them. They have plenty of evidence of reproduction. Just because it wouldn't work today doesn't mean they had it harder then. Even autistic men from Gen Z should behave better from this, at least after some practice. Sure, and he would still have much a harder time today than the boomer in his youth. To be fair, these are the men who need the most help. Men who can’t look a woman in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:50 PM
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The crap boomers learned from magazines or their parents, and kept ingrained up into their 50’s, would’ve given me “the ick” by the time I was 16. You realize this goes agaisnt your point right? It gives you, a person dating in the 21st century, the ick. It was still successful for them though. If anything this shows that the bar is higher for men today than before, even you say the women have higher standards. So idk how you feel they had it harder. Online dating is practically a training simul…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:24 PM
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The problem isn't that women are incapable of looking at a guy and automatically deducing he's an asshole, it's that when the asshole does come out, they often ignore it. I brought it up here before but I had a female friend that would call me in tears over this one guy and send me screenshots of their convos at the time. Some red flags I notice is how he'd call her all kinds of dumb bitches, called her a bad friend after her other friend killed herself, and accused her of cheating even though h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:00 PM
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Met on a dating app. Still introverted but not as much as I used to be. Biggest thing that helped was me joining the military as in basic you're forced out of your comfort zone and to speak up. But something else that helped is just having an outgoing friend, hang with them they'll naturally bring people in a group and just speaking to those folks to expand your network.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:39 PM
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I'm not conflating anything and what you personally prefer is fine. My point is that most men prefer romance along with sex, and escorts do not fill that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:19 PM
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Bro look at the title of the post, OP is the one that is linking paying for an escort to something that's for sexually unsuccessful men. My point is that his take is not new, escorts have already been suggested to them, the majority reject going that route. So idk how you came to the conclusion you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:37 AM
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Yeah this goes beyond physical desire as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:37 AM
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You're judging something that you've never experienced because the mainstream told you it was bad. Hold up Did I say it was wrong though? See how you refused to answer this question lol, you keep getting defensive even though I didn't pass one judgment about it. Funny enough when I took a speech and debate class in college, one of the topics was to pick a controversial take and argue for it. I did my presentation on why prostitution should be legal. So personally I do not give af that you or any…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:14 AM
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Just in general, that need for romantic validation is driving force behind the "Male Lonliness Epidemic ™"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:54 AM
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That's some information batman couldn't beat out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:49 AM
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How many escorts have you been with? Why does this matter? The only people I've seen demonizing high-body count women are the folks in the manosphere. Literally, everywhere else it is either praised or at minimum considered not a problem. Again, not true. Look at the controversy around Sabrina Carpenter's new album and tell me which group of people are primarily behind that. I guarantee you most men who consume manosphere content (hell men in general) can't name a single song of hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:47 AM
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Did I say it was wrong though? All I'm saying is when paying for sex is suggested in incel spaces, it's mostly rejected. This goes to show that even the men that OP claims would benefit them most do not even want to go that route. Some men do, to each their own all I'm saying is that escorts is not the answer because most men want to be desired by the woman they're having sex with as much as they want the sex itself. It's why dudes here complain about the concept of being "settled" for by a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:34 AM
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My advice for all these types of posts is simple, don't do it. If you have to get on the internet and get opinions on why you should or shouldn't do something, you don't really want to do it. So what's the point in trying to come up with convincing arguments? Just don't date men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:17 AM
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Get out your feelings for a bit and actually read what I said. I'm not talking about the sex alone. I'm talking about OPs premise that you can pay an escort to get her to pretend to care about you. Yet you are still focused on how great the sex is. Congrats? All i'm saying is that most men want more than that and that escort pretending to care about you is not the same as a genuine connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:57 PM
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"Need someone to pretend to care about you?" <- this is what I was referring to, not the sex itself. Escorts can give you sex if that's all you want. However it won't fill the void of being desired, which most men want and no amount of her pretending for pay will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:48 PM
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I believe that most men want a genuine connection, not someone who pretends to give a damn for a half hour to an hour for pay. You didn't just come up with some profound proposal, escorts have always been suggested in incel spaces and the majority rejects for that very reason. Also I still managed to get married despite being ADHD (undiagnosed until 30s though) and highly introverted. Maybe even on the spectrum, idk never bothered to get tested and don't care to. I do think having social skills …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:19 PM
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They know that's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:55 PM
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If it's only on men then yes, same logic applies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:14 AM
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I mean you're a man that has the ability to grow hair out of your own body no? Do you think it's disgusting to have pubes or arm hair on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:28 AM
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If you're disgusted by women having it and not men, then I can see why that would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:13 AM
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Cavemen have been discovered to draw boobs on walls. When there's a will there's a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:12 PM
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VPNs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:03 PM
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This tea app data breach should show how stupid it is to give your license to a porn site to access it, yet so many states and other countries are making it a requirement. Porn sites are the least secure like there's already so many sites with login info out there. You'd have to be stupid to comply with these new laws
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:36 PM
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Get excited too, I like lobster. She's paying for her own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:15 PM
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Marriage yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:13 PM
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Knowingly, no. Why not? Don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:24 AM
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None. I'm married now but I never cold approached anyone in my life. Don't believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:40 PM
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Women complained about unwanted advances by men when they're out and about (even at bars/clubs enjoying the night with their girls), men adjusted accordingly therefore men dropped the ball lmao. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Judging by her demeanor she doesn't seem like the type i'd even want to get to know if I was single. Personally I think this is the better outcome. The unspoken social contract was that women show up and exist, men do everything else. Maybe it's time for some new te…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:52 PM
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When you think you've already read the most dumbass takes on this sub then someone comes around and manages to surprise you. "I've never seen this thing happen, so it never happens" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:34 AM
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Sure but I take more comfort in the fact that I'm now married to a non toxic woman that doesn't pull this bs than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:25 PM
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Didn't really ignore anything I tolerated it then stopped giving af eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:43 PM
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He's probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:43 PM
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This is dumb. If youre good at it then it won't take you long. It's like how ppl good at interviews are the ones who get the jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:42 PM
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I was in my late 20s with this one. She was a couple years younger but had the maturity of a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:12 PM
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Mine would do this too, it got to the point where im just like "alright make sure do a flip on the way down". Shits exhausting to have to try to control someone else's emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:03 PM
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Notice how it's always the man's fault that he "drove her crazy". Show me one video where a guy kicks down the door of his ex and the comments are like "what did she do to make him like this??". It doesn't matter if she cheated with his entire bloodline or drowned his dog. It wouldn't be her fault, just like it's not his fault that she acts this way. You and only you are in control of the way you react to your emotional state. Women tell men to seek therapy for this very reason, so she needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:01 PM
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Are you the type of guy a woman would want to be around long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:02 PM
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It is unfortunate. I always believe that there should be an age limit on black pill identification. Like how can it be over before youre even legal lol. I was a late bloomer myself and started down the red pill rabbit hole in my youth but man if I was in my late teens early 20s now I'd be cooked as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:01 PM
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New generation of guys. Boys are self identifying a incels in their teens these days. I don't think they have the decade of pill lore to even notice the same shift as you do. Its the same thing though, both are sexually frustrated. One just come up with PUA culture was big, the other came up when pepe "it's over" memes are big.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:48 PM
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Good = productive member of society not actively or passively causing harm (opinions do not count).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:37 PM
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I guess if you spent your whole life growing up with social media access then experienced COVID during developmental years it makes sense why they think how they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:34 PM
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Yes, it’s expensive. Gen Z is right about that. But to afford that lifestyle, people had five roommates, lived way out in Jersey, took the train an hour to work, split appetizers, pregamed hard at friends so you only had to buy 1 drink out. You realize people living in the suburbs get gfs too right? There's no point in living like this unless you are either early career or just like doing it. Everything you mentioned sounds like it would lead to burnout. Like someone mentioned the juice isn't wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:28 PM
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Sure, i admit my experiences with men in person have been decently positive, that means literally nothing though. Lmao see this is why your opinions are dismissed. That's like me ignoring all of the interactions with women I've had and focusing only on the groups of man hating gold digging pink pill feminists I've seen online and then projecting that as how all women are. That's goofy as shit tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:01 PM
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There are loads of single men who are at least middle class or upper class who could support a woman comfortably. The man has to be willing to financially support the woman and settle down long term for this to even make sense. "Loads" is relative, some areas have more than others and that woman has to be near areas where there are largely single men to support them. To answer your question though, for a woman who only wants resources and doesn't care for the relationship aspect it would make a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:05 PM
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they complaining that men expect them to pay, to pick them up, to make the first move, to initiate conversation, to plan for dates This is what I mean. Do men expect this 100% of the time or half the time? Often time it's the latter, but then women will exaggerate and portray it as men expecting the gender roles to completely switch. For example if a man suggests splitting the bill, in her eyes it's "paying for the date" since he's not covering for her. Considering that the majority of women on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:46 PM
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I agree, but the issue here is that men aren't really asking to be pampered. Men just do not like one sided transactions. Expecting a woman to put in the same effort as you is seen as feminine by some women lol shits crazy to think about. But either way being the princess sounds way better than being the help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:07 PM
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Lmao it's not ok to you, which is why you use "princess era" as a way to lowkey shame it. I do agree that men should not be the ones out here chasing women. Idealistically effort should be met in the middle, so it's nothing wrong with me expecting reciprocation on the other end. That's not "princess" treatment but if you see it that way it is what it is lol. More men should stop being desperate simps and be princesses I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:17 PM
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Man yall have the worst takes on this sub lmao. Dating apps are a terrible indicator of market value considering that there are at minimum 3x as many men on them as women, which leads women to have more selective swiping patterns than men. god forbid you suggest dating an obese women or single mom and suddenly they act as if that's below them yet their tinder matches are low and no women who has choices is choosing them Because this is dumb advice. For one it makes zero sense to settle for a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:46 PM
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It's more than half. https://bi.org/en/articles/bi-men-are-not-considered-attractive-new-study-says Funnily enough in friends with a bi woman who told me she would never date a bi man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:14 AM
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Because they're irrelevant lol. The question is who gets shamed more, it's clearly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:10 AM
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Lol just because it's not working doesn't mean it's not happening. They just lowering the amount of fucks they give about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:41 PM
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I wasn't concerned but thank u for the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:51 PM
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hard truth: if none of your "equals" are attracted to you they aren't your equals Hard disagree. A person's own looks, social or financial status has nothing to do with what they are attracted to. Just because someone has unrealistic standards doesn't mean that they are above the person that they aren't attracted to. That "obese limbless woman" isn't going to automatically be attracted to everything given her situation. Also when it comes to rating attractiveness, men and women have different sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:43 PM
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Even in society outside of this sub it's the same. Women are shamed more for expressing sexuality than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:00 PM
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Ok lets go with that. The premise that just rich, famous, or good looking men practice sexual polygamy is still wrong. Like I said the men who are the most financially dependent on women are more likely to cheat. Followed by the men who make 100% of the income, and the more egalitarian relationships (between 50-70%) have the least. I've noticed this IRL. I work around men who make a lot of money (200k ish range), not rich but far above average. If they cheat I have no clue, but they are all marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:03 PM
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No, response would be to tell her to mind her business.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:33 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:30 PM
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If it were equal then maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:14 PM
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When a man is either, rich, famous or good looking (above average) they all lean towards polygamy Lol idk who told you that lie. Polygamy is a relationship structure where you are committed to several women. All of the women know of each other, and generally but not all the time under the same household. Most of men in these categories you mentioned are in relationships one woman. What you're describing is having side chicks/cheating, which tbh even broke men with a lot of time on their hands do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:14 PM
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Yep, but notice the best out of those pile of people often get praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:23 PM
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Lol yeah but who are they having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:59 PM
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Did I say that men can't wait until marriage? Ofc they can, ijs the expectation to remain a virgin is largely placed on women at a young age. Even in this sub, who's the one's harping most about their perspective partners body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:58 PM
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This is a mostly terminally online take, I would argue women's sexuality is more demonized than men's. Like there are "purity balls" where young girls pledge their virginities will remain in tact until marriage. Some of the weirdest shit i've seen, and I don't think I've seen any equivalent for young guys. I would even notice the difference between how my friends or coworkers view their sons vs daughters. As soon as they get to the age where they display interested in girls, they are so excited …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:22 PM
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women have way more medals in that area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:18 PM
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I think you're looking way too deep into this. Like I said before a persons looks or number of available options has nothing to do with their preferences. Coincidentally the fat women you met weren't into you, but the in shape women were. I'm sure there are some fat single moms that would date you, you just haven't went out on dates with them yet. Another thing (and this is just an assumption of mine) is that maybe it's the vibe you're giving off? Maybe you're more receptive to more attractive w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:27 PM
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you’d think women who are open to this would already have a roster set up? Maybe they do and you're just another one I think the “better options” for the overweight women might literally just be overweight men they prefer more What makes you think overweight women prefer overweight men more? Do you think overweight men pen prefer overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:56 PM
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It’s completely jarring to be treated so sternly by women who I’d expect to have no options, These women that you expect to have no options really have more options than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:39 PM
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A person's looks had very little to do with their own preferences. Ugly people have eyes that work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:34 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:00 AM
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Right, but like I said that the odds are they are into these things because the guys they like are into these things. Again, it's not the hobby that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:20 PM
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Sure all women aren't a monolith but I am willing to bet that they got into these hobbies because a guy they were with or liked were into these hobbies. Bottom line the hobby isn't the problem, it's the man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:42 PM
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Agreed. I'm from the south and I've seen so many women on dating apps have pics with them in camo and put on their profiles that they like hunting, fishing and mudding. The women here can analyze it all they want but it boils down to the fact that the wrong man is holding the fish in the pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:59 PM
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Well the point is that it isn't to attract a male partner. Only women call other women "pick mes" and believe that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:35 PM
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Pearl Davis is a bad example because she's a grifter. She's a career woman herself who puts on a long flowery dress to larp as a trad con. She's not giving up her studio to become a trad wife. Her behavior is rewarded by the fact that red pill men who watch her funds her lifestyle. Now she's moving into politics to make more money. It's worked out for her due to the fact she's a big enough name for us to discuss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:20 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:47 PM
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Unpopular opinion but I think hooters wings are decent. Not the best I've had, but the Chipotle honey flavor is really good. Ive been several times for free wings on veterans day. I'm married btw and I don't really pay much attention to the waitresses. To answer your question though, I wouldn't be uncomfortable with her going to a male version of that. However if it was a point to where she'd go on a routine basis (let's say weekly) or she's tipping an exorbitant amount of money like it's a stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:46 PM
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33yo married man lol. But I can understand the assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:17 PM
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It depends on what you mean by "nice car". I drive a 2 door manual coupe with a big spoiler on the back, I think it's nice and I on occasion get compliments on it, but it's always from other young men. I notice women are more receptive to luxury sedan and SUVs brands and not sports/muscle cars or pickup trucks that men think look cool. I do think men should buy cars they like to drive and not to try to impress women (or other men) either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:54 PM
1

What if my car is sporty with big fin on the back but it's a Subaru 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:47 PM
21

Don't threaten me with a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:36 AM
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Several times, though it's hard to get an exact number. The issue is that most the time it's "indirectly"and mainly realize it after the fact (for all the autistic asses out there). Women are rarely ever blunt about it so it's hard to tell if they're being flirty or just friendly sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:21 PM
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Women can barely handle men watching porn. I don't think I've been with a woman that cared tbh. My wife has been thru my phone and seen the videos I I've watched. She knows I watch it and doesn't care (outside of something like onlyfans). Some women do care though, everybody's different. Imagine if they could have thousands of eager women wanting to date them within an hour of them making an online dating account. If there is one thing I believe the broken clock red pill is right about its prese…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:44 PM
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do you think your father would have even had a chance to conceive you if he existed in this current dating climate? Yes. Bro's a Chad and if we were the same age he would put up much higher numbers than me. Even right now at age 50 something he has women thirsting over him and lowkey thinks he cheats on my step mom but I can't prove it. Before Online Dating and social media apps a man's biggest competition was the other man across the street from him. True but before these things men were more l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:21 PM
0

BBC?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:07 PM
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Everyone knows the "emotional labor" is way more important than that though 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:34 PM
2

The other thing is being married to a man in todays modern age usually means associating with someone who watches porn and expects you to look and act like a pornstar in bed. Please show me the statistics where men expect this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:37 AM
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Posts like this reminds me of all of the people who scream at the top of their lungs how college is a scam, but they either never went to one or finished. It's always the ones who never came close to having the title catastrophizing it lol. I believe that anyone who doesn't want to get married shouldn't no matter the reason. But it's incredibly goofy to be like nobody should get excited for something because of some cherry picked worst case scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:19 AM
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Like how women split the financial responsibility 50/50 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:11 AM
1

There is a analyze data tool on their site but you need an account. Without an account the only way is to download everything and find that particular one. There is a pdf with each survey in it so you know which set to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:16 PM
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https://gssdataexplorer.norc.org/gss_data They combine all the surveys into one download. You can get them by individual year or all the years at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:17 PM
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Sure but the data is available to download by year for free, you can see for yourself. I've done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:46 PM
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General social survey. If the dataset is downloaded from their site then it's legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:28 PM
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Idc how much I'm incelling or how she looks, no way I'd let a random woman live with me for any reason. My first instinct is that this is a setup and she's working with some guys to backdoor me (this happens). I'd just Google nearby women shelters and send her a number to call then unmatch. On another note I did read this post on reddit where this guy admitted to letting a homeless woman stay with him for sex so I guess there'd be guys that would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:33 PM
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The one that the man is more likely to do obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:02 PM
2

So in your other comment you said buying sex is worse. So how come selling is worse in this instance and not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:01 PM
1

Men would not be happier to be in a lower status in society. No offense to gays but depending where you're from you won't have a fun time growing up. Maybe asexual like another person mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:59 PM
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Idk none of it seems worth it to me. Everything in life comes with risks and "what ifs", but if something doesn't seem worth the risk then don't do it. You don't need any justification to not do something optional in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:09 PM
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Sometimes I feel like guys talk themselves out of pussy and this is an example of it. That's a high key weird thing to admit to tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:57 AM
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I agree, I would do the same thing and be upfront. I was mostly saying that in case she is vocally against doing it, you don't really need her permission to so do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:46 PM
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True the military is another, I was in the air force and was in a situationship with one girl in my unit at one point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:32 PM
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I was thinking nursing/hospitality but this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:02 PM
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I agree with all of that, but my point is older women are not immune to this. Slightly less likely than their younger counterparts sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:58 PM
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No makeup, no filters, no weird overhead angle to hide fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:56 PM
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lol I've seen what she looks like, even without makeup she's > almost every woman to exist. That's my opinion, you are entitled to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:47 PM
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You are entitled to your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:31 PM
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You'd think. Off the top of my head I can think of 3 women I know personally that were in their mid 30s and tolerated avoidable drama and dog shit behavior from men. What makes it more wild is these guys were in their late 20s. Two of those women did eventually turn it around and get married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:45 PM
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Lol it does look bad imo, but do you really think men sub to these women solely because of looks alone? It's also due to sexual availability and promiscuity which is attractive to men. These type of women get augmentations to boost their sexual features (breasts, ass, DSLs). The best looking women I've seen do not even do onlyfans at all. Zendaya is also out of my league and she shits on bhad bhabie, amber rose and Blac Chyna
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:05 PM
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My general experience is that women tend to find tall, conventionally attractive, and muscular men the most attractive (with minor variations) and that women who don't go after those men tend not to be very attractive themselves. No they all go after those men, it's just the men pick the more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:52 PM
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Ask most women, and they will tell you that older women are more attractive because we know ourselves and what we want. With all due respect, who gives af. Women are generally not the ones pursuing other women, men are. So what does it really matter what women find attractive in other women? Men and women generally have two sets of standards. I notice when women describe themselves in terms of desirability, they generally lead with traits they find attractive in men. I have x amount of degrees, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:02 AM
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Nope, instant deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:47 AM
2

Outside of countries like north korea I couldn't think of a worse place to live
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:03 AM
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Ijs what's more likely to happen, you already confirmed half of it just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:56 PM
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Whats more likely end up happening is that you'd die alone wondering how better off your be if you ever found that 100% option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:21 PM
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Depends on what the 20% of desired traits that she doesn't have is. Some traits are worth more than others. One of my non negotiables is kids so if she had them or wants them in the future, then the other 80% wouldn't matter because that's an automatic no, that relationship wouldn't work out. But if that other 20% is just minor preferences that won't make or break a relationships, then having 80% is a catch. Realistically if you do find someone that is 100% perfect in every way you either got lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:11 PM
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I didn't say every one but it's most. It's near impossible to find a wife in a short trip to the most sex touristy destinations in that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:54 AM
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It's what most relationships are if you have nothing to offer outside of money. Also you view them as a black and white dichotomy. In most relationships a single person is doing 100% of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:37 PM
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The thing is passport bros say and do different things. Yeah they'll tell you that they want to find wives and you personally may have done that, but the majority end up in Medellin or Bangkok only for a week at a time each trip. Both you and I know they're not finding tradwives here in such a short period. I will be willing to bet if you did a poll of relationship status at the PPB sub the vast majority would not have gfs let alone engagements or marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:48 PM
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I don't agree this is a goofy take. I can afford a lot of things that I don't want. Why would I want to settle down with a woman who only tolerates me based off of what I give to or spend on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:43 PM
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If you are someone who uses your economic status as a selling point in dating, and you use money to buy access to women who would be out of your league otherwise, you will attract women who value you for money, this should be common sense It is common sense, but how do you think this is something men as a whole do? It's like judging all women based on the actions of the subset that are sugar babies lol. Men who have to use their money as leverage do so because they have nothing else to offer so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:40 PM
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Her post is 100% rage bait lmao. She sprinkled some reasonable things to make it seem legit. I'm already married though I can post requirements from before then. One hard non negotiable is no kids and do not want any kids ever. Could be perfect in every way but that's a deal breaker. Requirements: Attractive. Not demanding 10/10 supermodel but I had to like looking at her. Enjoy her presence, Not a mean, rude or condescending person. Goals in life align (for example if she wants to backpack acro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:22 PM
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You may be right but my dick would have prob shriveled into my body at the thought of it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:45 PM
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That's how men see themselves. It's funny how the weak men look up to these red pill and manosphere influencers who put the thoughts in their head that they're beta if they can't do xy and z and their lives are practically worthless. But then reject women who say go to therapy to better themselves lmao. Going got he gym is great but that's not the answer to every problem. My wife convinced me to go to therapy after we got together and I still do. It's not a bad idea at all but the main ones who …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:12 PM
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No, that's what men rather do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:37 AM
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Other than actively recognizing and fixing the issue yourself what's the other option, bottle it up inside until you kill yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:36 AM
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i.e. over consumption of porn will almost always lead to a cuckold fetish (in men and women) Or maybe it's the other way around, the rise in the popularity of the fetish is leading to the increased creation of the porn? Let's look at this example. The number of people who are lgbt increases every year, and doubled to tripled over this past decade alone. Does this mean that viewing gay porn or something else is causing people to be gay? No. These people were already like that, societal shifts is …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:37 AM
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I know what you said, still a weird hill to die on due to my last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:12 AM
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almost all porn is indirect cuckoldry you are getting off to watching a man Weird hill to die on considering plenty porn without men exist lmao. The only time I'd ever watch porn with a man in it is if I just really want to see that particular actress, but that's rare as most of the time they have solo or lesbian scenes too. Men aren't as valuable in (straight) porn that's why they get paid the least and only a small handful of actors do most of the scenes. The real money is in gay scenes, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:39 AM
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It's still much closer to being equivalent than straight men being hit on by gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:36 PM
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Only if the woman is lesbian herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:37 PM
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I had a gay friend I was in the air force with, I'd hang out with him after work from time to time. I had to flat out directly imply to him I don't roll that way as he would make little advances but I still hung with him because I knew he'd treat me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:35 PM
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Imagine being treated like a piece of meat by women who don't know even know you. They just want you for your body and don't even care to know your name. In all seriousness it wouldn't hit men the same way as it does women unless men also adopted the same behavior as women. Otherwise men would still act the same way to them. The main ones who have a problem with women expressing sexuality now are men who are religious fundamentalists or they do not get any actionm themselves so they hate outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:25 PM
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For the "choose better" argument to work then yea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:54 AM
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What if he was raping them, would you brush it off as a rare bad case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:48 PM
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Moreso his past actions. You can tell by of they have a kid they don't care of already or he cheated on his ex with you. If a guy gets a woman pregnant who he's known to cheat i'd say he's stupid. But you don't know what you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:43 PM
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Because humans and their judgment are fallible. Let's say you don't get a test, the baby isn't yours but you live your life none the wiser. Would that change the other person's shitty moral character? No, you just wouldn't know about it. So choosing better wouldn't even apply here as youre basically living in ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:06 PM
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Yes. If my wife suspected me of cheating she has my pass code and and can go thru my phone when she wants. Would I feel some type of way? A little. But if it makes her have peace of mind then I'm for it. I'm not hiding anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:53 PM
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Do women walk around with "cheating whore" written on their foreheads or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:16 PM
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My peace of mind > her taking offense You don't really need her DNA, just yours and the baby. I don't see why men don't just do it on their own accord.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:23 PM
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You can't just expect women to drop their standards to what you consider and deem "realistic and reasonable" if you're unwilling to drop yours. Yet you're putting all the onus on the guy to drop his standards in this post. The thing is me already have lower standards relative to women. Men in general swipe on every woman just to get a match and would have sex with damn near any woman that would let him. So mens already low standards should touch the ground at this point huh. Imo I think being al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:15 PM
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I started dating my wife when I was a couple months shy of turning 30, before that I was never in any relationship that lasted a full calendar year so yeah I spent almost all of my 20s single. What makes it easier is life circumstance changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:17 PM
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That's a pretty good point. The stuff they like from men are generally masculine traits, but they may not see it that way. They may masculinity as an Andrew Tate like "Himbo", a misogynist obssessed with muscles, money, status and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:12 PM
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The survey was done by glamour magazine, I looked up the web traffic and mostly visited by 24-35 year old women demographic. Idk about politics but that demographic generally leans liberal. Also I didn't say no woman would. I know a few that would, but I know more that wouldn't. Here is the complete opposite My experiences line up in the survey. Btw most of the women I know are younger (30s or less), and typically lean liberal. One in particular is bisexual herself, but doesn't date bi men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:06 PM
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Yep. I brought this up in another comment but every time the question of "would you date a bisexual man" comes up here almost every woman has zero problem with it. But almost all the women I know and have talked to about this topic irl have expressed some level of disgust or discomfort at the thought of that and even studies show the majority of women wouldn't. That's why I don't see the point of asking these types of questions here. Seems like every woman here tends to be with some short effimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:38 PM
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"autistic women who love femboy traps" accurately describes like 90% of the women on this sub lol. It's the nature of this sub I guess, even the majority of guys are on the spectrum which is why they constantly complain about the lack of success they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:23 PM
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They do, the answers you see is a purely reddit thing. Like almost every woman here say they would seriously date a bisexual man but studies done show that turns off the majority of women. Don't take ts seriously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:07 PM
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You're asking a sub where most of the women who participate love soy boys lol. The majority of women are attracted masculinity otherwise that trait would have been selectively bred out a looong time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:05 PM
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Not a virgin male, breasts are not inherently a sexual part. Some guys are into feet and get off to them, should feet be covered because of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:33 PM
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I mean about women having to cover up. Idc about your nationalist views nobody asked And yes the clit and penis are homologous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:38 PM
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I mean, I’m a European nationalist, I don’t like Islam Ok, still as backwards thinking as they are with that argument. Why do you want to show your tits to randos on the beach, though? Idk, idc. Not for me to decide. Also tits aren't equivalent to penis. Men have them too just smaller, except for fat dudes theirs can be pretty big. But not a single thing is stopping them from walking shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:08 AM
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It’s a privilege that your bodies are considered worthy of the respect of being kept private. Lol this is that same dumbass logic that middle eastern Muslims use to convince their women it's a good idea to walk around dressed like ninjas in public in 100 degree weather. Btw I've seen a bunch of fat mfs in nothing but a speedo at the beach and I've seen some with shirts on in the water. Nobody gives af either way but what's important is that you had a choice. Women don't have a choice, they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:53 AM
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Only if they forgot their money or I'm feeling generous. I've had both platonic male and female friends offer to pay for my stuff on different occasions. I don't think it should be an expectation though. She seems extremely entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:00 PM
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I don't "need" my wife in the sense that I was and still would be able to exist and live independently of her. But I really grew accustom to her so if she were to go that would really suck my life wouldn't be the same without her. I think it's the the same the other way around. People have sought companionship since homo sapiens stepped on the scene, but it's also possible to live without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:12 PM
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Lol I just saw the pic he posted. I don't think he's ugly or anything, he just looks like every standard 30 something y/o Mexican man I came across when I lived in San Antonio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:41 PM
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@ them I'm tryna see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:54 PM
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You can be the most self actualized person in the world, as a man you're going to be primarily judged on what you do before who you are. Not in shape, not social, no network, not having a decent living situation, don't make good money, don't put that shit on when you go out = more likely to struggle. You're right women don't need a man for survival, but she is going to want a man at her level of "what she does" or higher. The who you are (values, interests, presentation, etc) comes second. The o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:34 PM
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Currently with the same race but yes As long as she's fine with it as well No As long as i'm not expected to go ever No Tried it before, would never do it again Hell no No No, not having kids is a hard requirement Yes Yes but as long as I can get my quiet time when I request it No If I knew for certain, no I dated one the same height as me once and in anything other than flats she was taller so yes No, I don't want kids No My wife lived with her parents when we met so yes Prefer someone out of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:31 PM
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I'm married now but when I was dating, this is what I looked for Monogamy. This is a must, I don't do open relationships or "ENM" or side pieces or whatever they're calling it unless it's one sided on my end, which is not likely so I don't even bother. Attraction. I need somebody that I like looking at. I wasn't requiring a super model, i'd be happy with an average looking woman if I found her cute and she checks all the boxes but below that, I couldn't do for any reason. Similar age. We have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:17 PM
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No, I don't do the same so I wouldn't expect it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:28 PM
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Lol you tell me. You're the one saying men are expected to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:17 AM
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Yeah I know. I manly want to hear from someone with OPs pov who believes it should be an expectation and to see if they could give me a justification other than "that's just how it's always been".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:16 AM
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You're telling me things I already know fam. I get where the gender roles came from and I get the expectation is there, I'm just asking why should it still be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:53 AM
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I get this, but increasing your odds is optional. I'm trying to figure why it would be an expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:00 AM
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That isn't gold digging. It just means if you're a nurse making 85k per year, you want your partner at least having a job that pays 50k per year. I agree it's not gold digging, but in this scenario why should the onus be on the man to pay for the date? You have that in the title but then don't mention it again in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:37 AM
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True, but then again Andrew Tate made his come up from managing women's onlyfans and cam profiles. He'd brag about taking half their profit and an extra percentage for taxes, then bragged about not even paying taxes. He's charged with trafficking in two countries now. So sometimes it's an illusion of autonomy, but for the most part you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:49 PM
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Yep, and either way men are going to consume. I believe a fraction sub to OFs to build interpersonal relationship because the top earners are too busy to respond and they hire a management team to handles transactions and requests. Most of the men that do just want to see a bigger variety of asses imo. The only thing that changes is that profit structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:36 PM
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Yeah I think it's the time where most people start to become established in adulthood and things become routine from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:31 PM
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Lol the girl is a gaming nerd like him, highly doubt she's a Stacy irl. What's happening here is that his wife bores him, and he is having more engaging convos with someone who shares his interests this developed a emotional affair from it. If anything he prob doesn't even know what she looks like or if she is really a she and his wife may look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:26 PM
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About 26 I want to say. I'm 33 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:21 PM
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These days women that do "OF" and "regular porn" is no different. Bottom line the majority of women don't show themselves just for the sake of it, unless it's promotion. The "free" videos on the hub are just that. It's either a snippet from a big studio, or snippet from an independent person that links to their OF. If you do see full collections of videos, odds are someone paid the site, ripped it and uploaded it themselves (not all the time but most the time). With OF gaining popularity, less w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:18 PM
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Efficacy is multiplicative not additive. So when they claim "Tinder platinum improves your matchmaking potential by x% or x times), if your matchmaking potential is close to zero then any gains are negligible. It's the difference between getting a match every month to a match every 3 weeks. Matchmaking doesn't even guarantee a text back either. So if someone buys this expensive tier thinking it will land them a date when they struggled before, that's on them for misinterpreting. Really the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:19 PM
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Lmao stating a fact is boot licking? Explain how it's a scam then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:21 AM
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A scam would imply that they are deceiving/lying to you or stealing from you. They are pretty up front about everything they do. Being greedy is one of those things, and that is typical business behaviors. Also the stocks are normalizing. Match group saw a huge boom and peak in 2021 since people couldn't go outside and meet other people without masks and social distancing (interestingly enough same year I met my wife). Now that people are out and about, they arent relying on them as much. To you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:18 AM
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That was bumble you're probably thinking of. Match group owns 4 out of the top 5 dating apps in the world, bumble being an exception but even that one is turning into a tinder clone. Unfortunately this model is the most profitable, and the best way to retain men is to retain women. It's why women get in the club free before 10. They can cater to men all they want but if no women are there, then men aren't going to use the all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:10 AM
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Why is that strange? It makes complete sense if you think about it. Women clearly do not pay as much. Only women are gonna use this filter, and it's behind the "tinder platinum" pay wall. Boom, they just opened up a new source of revenue by enticing more women to pay $29.99/mo. End of the day it's a business and shareholders like to see that green line go up every quarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:59 AM
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I met my wife on a app and I agree wit that statement. Apps are like scratch off lottery tickets. The main goal is revenue, and for this is to be addicting as possible without being too direct with it. Every once in a while you'll get lucky and get something good out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:56 AM
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I'm not saying you listen to just appease her, ijs that's what they expect of you. They generally are are not looking for you to handle their problems unless they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:36 AM
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If men were so logical, they wouldn’t be complaining about relationships issues. Because relationship issues can't be solved with logic smh. Just curious how long has your longest LTR been?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:27 AM
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You hear listen to her problems, make her feel understood and if she asks for your help then you offer it. Not really from my opinion, but from my experience of being with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:12 AM
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A vehicle doesn't have a mind of its on and it's way of doing things. You tune it a specific way to get a specific outcome. Relationships aren't like that. Like someone in another comment mentioned, men solve problems with logic and reason, women though emotion and understanding. Trying to solve relationship problems with the male mentality of "diagnose the root cause and fix the issue" doesn't work all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:09 AM
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If a woman is inventing problems to start an issue, then you learn to get to the deep root cause of her problem and solve it. Lmao that's not how it works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:59 AM
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This one is easy. Because another human being (especially a female human) is not an inanimate object and can't be negotiated with or "solved" via a logical or step by step process like a vehicle. The stuff you listed involve attracting women and entering an LTR. Getting a prenup, being more socialable, and fulfilling your purpose is all cool. No guarantees it will land one but it could boost your chances. But what about within the relationship? That can come with an entirely new set of problems …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:57 AM
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Meanwhile the friend is getting piped down by a guy that struggles to text her back on time 😂 I do think gestures like this are extra but there's nothing wrong it. Just not every woman deserves these types of gestures imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:29 PM
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I see more men online crying about being unable to find a partner than women. Not saying that I haven't seen women do the same, but the pendulum is heavily in one direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:29 PM
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I'm a full time w-2 employee for the company I work for (which is a defense contractor, think Lockheed for example). The company has a contract with the DoD, so I'm hired by that company to work on whatever projects the government needs done or systems they need maintained. But all of my pay and benefits are through my company. So from the govt perspective I am a contractor but from my company's perspective I'm a FTE. It's kind of like being an external consultant that actually does the work as …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:41 PM
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IT for a defense contractor. Me in particular I'm a DevOps engineer. They typically pay more than average because it requires a TS security clearance and since there is less competition, it's easier to move up. Started on my first contract gig making 88k in 2019 and a few job hops and raises later making 204k now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:26 PM
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She didn't need to start at all imo. I never found the super thin nose and exasperated cheekbone look attractive. Like Erin Moriarty for example, she's not at the point to where she looks grotesque but she is solidly less attractive than she was when she started getting work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:49 PM
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I have no clue why famous women want to walk around looking like Jigsaw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:36 PM
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I've been on both ends of the tax bracket spectrum, weirdos and entitled chads are in both. Poorer people aren't any more well adjusted socially, worse off imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:31 PM
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Yeah that comes with it. They already get no sympathy from most and I think women are more ok with dying alone than men are. You don't really see articles about female loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:15 PM
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Lol income doesn't really have anything to do with how gross a person can be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:12 PM
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Same, I'm sure everyone in my office makes over 100k at least, many over 200k. Thing is everyone is married except for one guy though, most are older men in their 40s+ but even the younger guy who is in his 20s is about to marry this year. The one that's not married isn't married for a reason i'll leave it at that lol. So yeah it's not unreasonable if you are around the same people but you'd have to act fast before they get snatched up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:11 PM
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I don't see why reducing the dating pool is a bad thing. When I was single I was mainly looking for women in their mid 20s, attractive, no kids already and didn't want kids. That reduced the dating pool by just as much probably but that's better than settling for something you truly don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:06 PM
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That's dumb. Marrying the gross autistic tech nerd divorce him get half his bucks then go for the manly man making 24k is the big brain move.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:02 PM
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Entry level tech guys from mid schools are not making that much lmao. No experience help desk is like 30-60k depending on COL. Software devs in higher COL areas sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:00 PM
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Hardly ever. At most it's a fleeting "damn she looks good" thought then go on about my day probably forgetting about her by the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:22 PM
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Prestigious career field = comfortable white collar desk job or managerial position. I notice whenever anyone campaigns that "we need more women in X" they're always talking about these fields. There are plenty of well paying and valuable career fields that women wouldn't even attempt to touch even if you could snap your finger and end patriarchy worldwide. As for any of this happening in 10 years, I don't see it and I'm willing to bet actual money that it doesn't. I will add mareiafe not going …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:25 AM
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As someone married to a human woman, I don't think AI girlfriends can replace human companionship today but at one point in the future they probably can. Maybe not in our lifetime but whenever the hardware catches up to the software and the software reaches true AGI. The only thing that can't be replaced is biological functions like pregnancy. But who's to say an artificial womb can't be created to advance surrogacy and it ends up in bot. Btw this wouldn't be just for the below average basement …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:24 AM
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Imo the uncomfortable discussion is that deep down they don't view men that's been with other men as "masculine" anymore and it's a turn off. I notice that they'll be close friends with a bunch of gay dudes, but they all would be the flamboyant limp wrist type gays. The turn around and insult a straight or masculine presenting man that does something they deem "sassy" by accusing him of being gay or down low. It's soft homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:38 AM
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I got in a debate with someone about this and was told that there’s no such thing as bi men. Only gay men trying to pretend they aren’t gay. And apparently this is how most men feel about it. Not sure. But it’s definitely rhetoric I hear from men a lot. I hear this from just as many women as men. It may depend on culture but where I'm from this is a common sentiment. Once a man does something gay, he's gay so such thing as bi. To OPs point, I've noticed a stark contrast between women on reddit v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:53 PM
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Can't believe I used to do this up into high school. My shorts would damn near be touching my ankles 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:55 AM
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Went on a date today at the Alamo drafthouse. Two movie tickets including the "convience fee" and taxes were ~$30. Then food there for both of us was like ~$70 including tax and gratuity. Didn't even get any alcohol, just two meals and fountain drinks. So $100 bill total which isn't a big deal to me now but it's obv why younger single guys with more limited incomes would complain about that especially considering how easily that can add up while looking for a partner. This is why I promote men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:54 AM
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Yeah but screaming produces a high pitch sound. I used to be able to do it before I hit puberty and my voice got really deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:36 AM
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Can only get out what sounds like a weird rhaspy whisper. I can yell pretty loud tho but screaming is physically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:18 AM
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I lost my ability to scream after puberty. Guys who still have high pitch voices for some reason can
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:07 AM
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I mean, I'm not red pill but I agree with the second. We are not equal. Some things men are better at, and some thing women are better at. Men are better at appealing to logic. When it comes to women's emotions, sometimes it make zero logical sense for them to feel the way that they do, and it makes no sense to treat them as such. I look at it like if you want to date an equally minded partner, date a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:49 AM
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It doesn't. Women don't put men in friend zones men put themselves there. It's an imaginary mental prison that you are free to walk away from at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:33 AM
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I agree and I'd expand that to say it's ok to not want to date someone who had a hoe phase even if you had a hoe phase because it's ok to date or not date someone for any reason you want tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:26 PM
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But in 2024 elections, democrats were different, they we actually kinda trying to appeal to men and distancing themselves from so called woke politics like open borders, soft on crime etc. Actually they didn't, which is why more young men went right wing because they were the group to pander to them after the Dems ignored them. Obviously if economy collapses, trump will be out but war has been won against wokeness and identity politics This sounds about as stupid as Fox news' "war on Christmas".…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:24 PM
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Considering average is such a low threshold I don't see why not just strive to become high value. If you figure "I'm better than about 80% of the men around me" then you'll be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:00 PM
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It's like feeling sorry for a lottery player for having bad odds on his scratchers. If it was the only way they could make money then maybe, but it's a completely optional thing in life to do. And even if people felt bad about men not having luck on them, what would that change? Nothing. So I don't see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:55 PM
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Funniest shit happened at my job. One of our internal customers accidentally messaged the group I work for saying "man i'm about ready to give up on this (product I support) shit, the service sucks and completely unreliable" then said "sorry wrong thread" lmao. What's bad is I lowkey agree with him and i'm glad he made that mistake. We had so many people recently, good talented people either get laid off or jumped ship. We're doing skeleton crews and covering down to support operations. At the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:24 PM
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Man wtf is that last paragraph, was question supposed to be answered or is this a chance to shop your feminism fanfic 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 PM
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That's unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:39 PM
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Some free game for those interested. I was at the grocery store today and saw this guy in a shirt that read "women are powerful" on the back, and was PDAing with this gf in produce. Try taking the feminism pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:50 PM
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I think 10 months is enough time to be seeing someone and talk to them about stuff like this (assuming they are properly in a relationship and not just a 10 month sneaky link). Let's say he's the type that would get upset because he's anti abortion, well now you know that you two don't have compatible views.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:10 PM
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Yes but they still generally have a higher income ratio than poor countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:47 PM
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There was this one guy who used to post on the daily thread often that was an engineer who made over 200k. He was autistic and would document all the times he'd go out to bars and get turned down. By his posts here you can tell you can he wasnt socially adjusted which was his problem, but if OP was right then he should have no issues due since he can provide a lifestyle for women to flaunt. On the other end, one of my friends stay facing court summons and eviction from late payments yet still ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:49 AM
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Pretty much. I can't get a girl to like me, therefore no girl likes any man who isn't high status enough. It's a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:05 AM
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They don't love you, they love what you can give them and while it may sting, it's truth that many are too afraid to face Not really. The truth that many men are afraid to face is that they never has a woman to love them beyond what they could provide because they don't offer anything beyond that, and to cope with this they say this is female nature and projects this to all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:04 AM
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Same here. Also I feel that voluntarily telling someone you're dating how much money you make is weird, because it would seem like you're lowkey inviting them to a sugar/bb situation. I didnt let my wife know until after we were official bf/gf, she moved in and finances were discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:09 AM
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I make right at 5x more than my wife before taxes and I had a lot more in assets prior to us getting together. So I made sure to get a prenup before marriage which she was fine with. We just bought a house and it's in both our names so if we were to divorce that would get split. I put much more money into bills than she does so I'd lose out naturally but I'm not really tripping over that as long as I'm keeping what's in my individual accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:19 AM
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Idk what red pill you've been seeing but the Red pill that supported Biden/Harris was been extremely non existent for me. They've overwhelmingly been Trump supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:51 AM
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Yet most red pill men identify with conservatives and voted Trump lol. The modern day republican party is isn't the same as it used to be. The president has been married 3 times, cheated each prior woman with the next (including his current), and brags about how he can grab women by the pussy. They love the idea of having a bang maid at home while being able to "exercise their options". Not to mention he isn't super religious which most of them aren't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:36 AM
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https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/journal-of-demographic-economics/article/effect-of-marital-status-on-life-expectancy-is-cohabitation-as-protective-as-marriage/5B6B9B86C737AE3F095CF3781023F458 Married women have longer life expectancy than single women, but lower than cohabitating women. The effects of stress and leasure time is more dependent on children than the marriage itself. We hear often that single childless women are the happiest but don't even realize the emphasis is really on c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:11 AM
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probably in similar proportions to the number of men who do so. Which is very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:45 AM
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It is a risk, but like any risk there are mitigation factors, starting with marry a woman which a similar or higher level of income than yours Divorce laws do not take from the man and give to the woman, they split the assets evenly and whoever contributes more gets screwed (generally the man since men earn more). Ensuring that both come in with equal assets can offset that from happening to you. If you cannot find this, then here is option two get a prenup This will protect premarital assets, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:32 PM
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How about, nobody. How about we stop artificially extend the life of people who have no quality of life left. I agree, this would probably also increase birth rate since people don't have to take care of elderly people and can focus on raising more kids. Countries with lower life expectancy have higher birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:40 AM
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Birth rates are dropping globally, but it's still higher than the US. If we look at Afghanistan for example, the life expectancy of a woman is 12 years lower than an Iranian woman, but they put out almost 3 times as many kids than Iranian woman on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:33 AM
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I still call all storage hard drives but yes only SSDs will do, if it's nvme then that's even better. Make sure it's in a raid array to not lose any of that precious collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:17 AM
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Lol I learned that's how it usually is. Even the second girl at 26, this was someone I knew for at least a year after she got to my military unit. We'd talk a lot, she wasn't ugly or anything but I didn't see her as my type initially and wasn't interested in dating. I just viewed her as a friend, told her about the vasectomy and everything. One day we were on the phone and I noticed she was more "open" than usual, and she told me there's a concert she wants to see in my city, so I took the hint …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:07 AM
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Lol thanks fam. I swear that short car ride to and from the gas station with her confessing her feelings felt like hours. It caught me so off guard I had to start brainstorming ways to get up out of this situation without completely shutting her down and making it even more awkward 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:20 AM
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Also, this argument means nothing, unless you are actually advocating for a country to regress into a shithole and oppress its population in order to make babies I mean you're talking to someone who is sterilized and childfree. I'm not really advocating for anything and idc that the birth rates are dropping. I'm just saying that if this is a problem that needs to be reversed, then turning your country into an oppressive shit hole would do a better job than offering free and easy childcare, as wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:08 AM
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may i ask why did you want to wait? most guys here would grill you for passing that chance. was it just the pregnancy scare? That was a factor but it wasn't just that. I just wasn't attracted to this woman at all, plus she was trashy asf. We were at a superbowl party, I knew her thru mutual friends and we met a couple of times before. She got drunk then got and all over me in a sexually aggressive manner. I cannot make this shit up, everyone started chanting "suck Environmental_Day558 dick!" a o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:54 PM
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Tbh the woman when I was 24 wanted to but I didn't, so I just let her smd, made an excuse not to proceed any further and left it at that. What really gave me the confidence was the vasectomy I got done earlier that year when I was 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:34 PM
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Bj at 24, piv at 26. Whichever you count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:27 PM
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If the economy collapses you’ll just be underwater on your mortgage. Would only matter if I was looking to sell anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:25 PM
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Bruh this is the funniest shit I've seen on here 😂. I'm taking it thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:58 PM
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He is speaking from the guy in the first panels pov lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:58 PM
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That's it? Rookie numbers, hmu when you bought multiple 4tb hard drives and built a NAS for your collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:53 PM
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*sexless 12 year old bashing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:52 PM
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I just realize the interest in my mortgage over 30rs is more than my house itself 💀 I need for Trump to stop edging us and collapse the economy so I can refinance cause wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:51 PM
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Well then explain the nuances. Why is it that countries like Canada and every single western European country (except for France and Ireland) that have these incentives you list covered by their taxes, have lower birth rates than the United States that do not guarantee any parental support? There is a correlation between a countries development and their birth rates. The more a country is developed and takes care of its citizens, the less children citizens have. Think about it, these women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:12 PM
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Both sides are almost equivalent in how they treat motherhood. Free daycare, free medical expenses, free classes for new moms, other support? How entitled, your baby is not my problem. What's funny is in the countries that have this, along with year+ long maternity and paternity leave, women have still fewer kids. It has nothing to do with respect. The more developed a country is and the more rights that are given to women, the more women are going to choose to not start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:14 PM
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Pretty much, tbh the majority of the women I matched with I never even messaged (which would also explain why most when nowhere)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:46 PM
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Can't relate, I met my wife on an app and had plenty of matches. Nearly all the others went nowhere because if the convo is stale I just don't reply. I just have a problem with the attitude that if a woman gives you a crumb of attention you have to act like you're starving for it. I had this one chick I was messing with at the time say something like "youre lucky I even talk to you". I was so offended at that I'm like well then hop off my line and talk to somebody else. She tried to play it off …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:02 PM
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I love when people are like "you fumbled" as if that's the only girl in the world that will give him attention. Even if it's a joke if he didn't find it funny then who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:56 PM
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You saying women here are middle age gen x Karens 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:52 PM
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Natural doesn't mean zero effort though. If that natural woman in your example plucks the wild hairs between her everybrows she's still natural after. Im in a LTR with a natural woman I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:51 PM
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What's wrong with anyone wanting someone natural and gorgeous though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:38 PM
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Mainly because the guys that promote it unironically are cringe and laughable. All it really takes is gym, a nice haircut (or treatment/shaving it all off if balding), and styling of clothes. Yet I see so many guys here act like it's over if they don't mew 1000 times a day or get facial reconstructive surgury. Btw women do get shit on all the time for doing stuff like getting fillers and bbls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:32 PM
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Wanting a natural woman =/= wanting every single natural woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:28 PM
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Money would be more important in life if you were those things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:12 PM
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That old lady that pinches your cheeks counts too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:07 PM
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Yeah it's never gonna happen Its not hard to get attention from women though, it's just rarely any one that you'd want attention from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:35 PM
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roided out jacked looks Btw the fact that the majority of people who view and judge bodybuilding competitions are men should be telling enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:45 PM
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Lmao this is hilariously wrong on so many levels Before the nuclear family was destroyed How and when was the nuclear family destroyed? Do you even know the definition of a nuclear family, because it has nothing to do with who brings home the bacon. You're thinking of a tradcon family. Thus, this artificial demand has created the fetishization of male body physiques such as twinks and bodybuilders, becoming popular These still aren't the most popular body types. Men for the most part are the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:48 PM
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Right, a man with her stats wouldn't likely be considered on apps or irl unless his game is immaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:08 AM
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The thing about dating apps that you aren't taking account for is that they aren't an even 50/50 split. Most are are between 3:1 to 4:1 men to women ratio (tinder specifically is 4:1). And that's not even counting the female profiles that are promoting their OF or are bots. So statistically most men aren't going to find success even if they a. were all highly competitive candidates and b. they were willing to scrape at the very bottom of the barrel simply due to being outnumbered. Due to this, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:47 AM
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Personally I fail at being over 6ft, reading books, and empathetic. But it's fine, a 31yo single mom with no place of her own or a high school education is an instant fuck no and swipe left😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:42 AM
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I think you have some revisionist history regarding the early days of the internet. The reason why you had to teach kids online that everyone is an old pervert is because of the sheer amount that were falling for faceless people asking their a/s/l on the other side of instant messengers. People trusted that mp3 from a peer to peer fileshare site (that mysteriously has a .exe extension for some reason) was the song they wanted. People believed the random avatar that told them to drop their loot a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:32 AM
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You just said you're not anti social with bad social skils though. You don't have to be a mack or a professional comedian either lol. I'm curious how many women you actually asked out on a date this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:53 PM
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Even if that, there isn't a shortage of hoes that want some dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:45 PM
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So why can't you get laid then? 6'3, social, not ugly, no standards, there has to be a woman that will fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:23 PM
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Ofc they're not. But I have seen women with men they complain are incompetent and can't do basic tasks like help with the kids or cook and clean and stuff. If these men are high enough value, they can still get with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:22 PM
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Lol @ him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:03 PM
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Bro you dm'd me your picture late last year, just went back to it you're not ugly at all. I'd say like a 5-6, room to go up if you got a nice haircut and got swole. I think you have a social aversion to women cause I highly doubt there is not a single woman in your immediate area or found online that would fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:01 PM
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Interesting. If you look at all of the sitcoms, the husbands are generally bumbling idiots and the wife is the one with common sense. I notice a lot of women so complain about "weaponized incompetence", but these men never have problems landing relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:48 PM
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And you're 6'3. Why are you afraid of pussy my guy 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:46 PM
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Lmaooo that is so true. I noticed the vast majority that I've seen come out as bi has never dated a woman seriously. So when relationships when men sour, they have a idealistic view about how being with a woman would be. But data shows that woman x woman relationships last the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:41 PM
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Rapper signed to TDE (I think)? She's been at it for a few years and recently blew up and her songs are all over tik tok. People started hating on her because she was going an interview and someone asked her what's her biggest red flag in dating, and she responded "straight men". She identifies as bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:12 PM
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Men who are not chosen are not being oppressed, they are not being forced to do anything and they are not being physically violated in any way. Um you realize is the same the other way around right? Unless this post is about rape (which men can experience getting raped too), women are not forced to have sex with men with they don't want to. Just because there are people who argue that they should be able to have sex with who they want legally doesn't mean that's the case in actuality. For the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:36 PM
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It's biased to believe the vast majority of women who identify as lesbian have been in lesbian relationships? Just your personal opinion, how many of these women do you believe were DV'd in lavender situationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:52 PM
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So every lesbian woman who experienced DV was a closeted gay woman and closeted gay women just happen to be abused by men at a higher rate than heterosexual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:23 PM
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Lmao, insane level of accountability dodging 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:20 PM
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And it's believable that the majority of lesbian women fall in this category and that men are doing most of the abusing to them, not other women? If that's the case, then how do you explain bisexual men reporting more instances of DV than straight men, while gay men report the least?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:16 PM
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If you've been in relationships with men in the past, that would imply bisexual. Unless we've been lied to and sexuality is a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:13 PM
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Lemme get this straight, the majority of women who identify as lesbian (not bisexual, but lesbian) have been in relationships with men in the past and have been abused by them. And these women were abused at higher rates by men than women have only been with men their entire lives. You have to do insane mental gymnastics to even make this make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:11 PM
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43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime, as opposed to 35% of heterosexual women. Lesbian and bisexual women are counted separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:06 PM
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Then what other relationship dynamics could that have possibly happened in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:04 PM
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Even if you sit bisexuals out, lesbian women have higher rates of DV than heterosexual women. So who is doing the abusing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:57 PM
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Lmao so being gay is a choice now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:56 PM
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I told my wife I was serious about getting a hair BBL if I were to ever go bald and she's agaisnt it. Talking about the rock is handsome and he's bald, I'm like I'm not on steroids though lol. Seriously though I'm either going the surgical route or getting it all lasered off. I see so many older guys walk around with the top bare and scruff on the sides, that looks so ridiculous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:37 AM
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Lol I like how you make a bunch of assumptions, ask questions then answer on my behalf. Let me correct some stuff. Have you ever experienced a woman being everything you dreamed of within a romantic relationship for an entire 2 months and then slowly devolving into someone you can’t imagine being with? No? Yes Then be thankful that there were less women in the population who would do that to men and therefore your chances of encountering that were lower (when you were still single), so you lucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:57 PM
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Just like how a lot of women in the subreddit just straight up don't want to listen to pure logic and facts. Their emotion becomes reality for them it's crazy. Man this is women in general lmao. One thing I learned is that if they come to you with a problem, they care more about being validated and justified than being presented with a logical solution. You're right though, trying to get through to them is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:17 PM
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Here's my replies to OP, I don't want to type it all out again lot of what you're saying here I acknowledge in that comment because that's how it went down. I'm not saying these women want to be abused, they want the guy they are with to treat them like the guy they were when started dating. That's why they give him chance and chance again. I'm also not blaming them for the actions of that guy. My main point is that the abuse at some point becomes obvious to them. They get to a point to where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:55 PM
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"Mad" is a reach. We're still pretty cool, even after her relationship was finally done done we'd still chat to catch up on how our lives are going. We haven't talked to each other in like the past year because life is busy but since i'm thinking about I might text to catch up. She came to me, not the other way around. She felt comfortable enough to confide in all of this with me. Every time she would hit me up i'd listen and hear her out. But when she asked for advice, I tell her straight up sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:32 PM
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In this particular case it wasn't even a full calendar year between her dating him, and her telling me all this, (was about 5-6 months IIRC). Also they didn't even live together. Her and I used to talk romantically for a short period before all this, but at this particular time I was dating my wife (then gf) and she was dating him. We continued to talk as friends and were cool with each other, that's why she'd come to me about the situation. What's odd about the entire situation is that overall …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:55 PM
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It's not a contradiction and your point doesn't even make sense. This man was not going thru a mental health crisis. His mind was firmly intact and he knew exactly what he was doing Who's telling you to sus it out? Not me. Mental issue or not, I think it's incredibly the fuck stupid to put up with a man that's cheating on you and calling you out of your name. If it's a one off instance you believe can be worked out then sure, but if it's a repeated pattern of behavior then that's a problem. I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:14 PM
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This is a pretty good explanation, I've seen this play out plenty of times. Personally thought I think it's more of an issue where they choose to not focus on the bad stuff because they are hoping that the person from when they met comes back. It's not like they're completely blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:57 PM
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I get it, men who are abusive arent going to display that initially and will act like a wolf and sheep's clothing. The thing is when the mask is off, many women will see the red flags and proceed to ignore them because they are hoping they get the version of him from when they first met. I had a female friend of mine (mid 30s at the time btw) cry to me in literal tears on the phone because of an argument she was in with her bf. He was potentially cheating on her with another mutual contact, he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:43 PM
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It's not but op said "According to women on reddit a 30something guy can only approach 30something women." Who in their right mind is going to base their dating options on the opinions of "women on reddit" (if they're even saying this to begin with)? Im not dating any woman on reddit so why would I have that in consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:53 PM
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The internet is a where the vocal minority scream the loudest and mirrors back mostly irrelevant issues. Most people go about their day to day lives not caring about anything OP mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:45 PM
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Men forming their opinions and living vicariously through what other people on the internet think are creating angsty men. People shit on dating apps and tell men not to use them all the time in this sub, but I met my wife on one. I was turning 30 when we first met up, she was 25. Small gap but I wasn't forced to date anyone my age. Before her I dated a woman that lived in a other country, I met up with while we were in a different country (logistic nightmare esp since t was when covid broke out…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:42 PM
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If I bite into a cookie and it crunches, my disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:54 PM
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I look at debt forgiveness as a bandaid, the better solution would be two slash interest rates to below the rate of inflation. But either way I don't think it's a big deal if they were to get them forgiven. Most of the time you actually have to do something in return in order to qualify, unless you're talking about Biden's plan but that would have only been up 10k.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:41 PM
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So pretty much the same as it's always been lol. When I was on there, literally every one sent me a wave gif, "hey" or "hi", except on two occasions. One sent a fire pickup line, the other sent a question. Married the question one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:28 PM
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I've only had them on two occasions and they were good, only complain is that a single cookie is so heavy it takes several days to eat and they're expensive. Cool for a every once in a while treat but I can't see how people get those shits every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:19 AM
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I'm saying that the main reason I ever go out is because I'm invited. Not a fan of live music I think I've only been to one concert in my life, and I can wait for the movie to come to streaming. Besides work, running errands, and gym, I wouldn't be outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:29 AM
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I mean if I normally wouldn't go out do the thing if I wasnt invited I don't see a reason to go by myself. If I do hit up a friend to hang out it's only because I want to hang out with them, idc what the event is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:10 AM
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Chatgpt is trained to tell you what you wanna hear. I had deja vu once so as a joke I asked it was someone going in the past and jacking with the space time continuum, and it explained what deja vu was then said "maybe someone is jacking with the space time continuum and you're the only one who can rememeber". I'm like wtf lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:54 AM
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Mostly jealousy, but the single parents who are the only parent do have a point. Being a stay at home parent is nowhere near that level of difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:48 AM
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These comments are exactly why I didn't say anything about being a virgin when I lost mine, and she was none the wiser. Idk why any man who's age starts with a 2 would volunteer that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:39 AM
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I think your friends are shitty and that guy is a simp. He could have easily just cashed out on his own drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:29 AM
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Common sense. Think about it a bit, the less women having children at a younger age, the higher the average age at first birth is going to be. Giving birth is a biological process that has a deadline (varies by woman but there is one nonetheless). Putting two and two together it's obvious that the overall birth rate is going to down as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:15 PM
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I never said they were the majority. But when the average age of first birth keeps shifting to the right over time and giving birth is a biological process that has a deadline, then that is a clear indicator of why the overall birth rates are going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:24 PM
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I don't buy this. I'm married and I don't have any kids yet. Meanwhile I have many people in my own family (both genders but mostly women) that have been birthing since teens and have different kids by different people. One cousin in particular I thought was gonna break the cycle ended up getting pregnant a few years ago at 27 or 28, but with a guy who already had two kids by two women. She's baby mama #3 and now a single mom. Birth rates are dropping because like someone mentioned, teen pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:50 PM
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Today my manager had the nerve to tell me "you cant do everything Environmental_Day558", I'm like is that a challenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:31 AM
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I already had my doc up me from 10s to 20s last time I went. And yes it works my brain feels like a super computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:30 AM
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Too late fam but there's always tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:24 AM
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<image> I probably lose a day off my lifespan when I do this but I get so much accomplished. I feel like I could take over the world if I really wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:53 AM
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It's a brand new week, not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:47 AM
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There have been a handful of recent stories about how millennials and Gen Zers are widely returning back to the church but census data suggests that the Catholic church is still on the decline. Its not just the catholic church, it's the protestant church as well that's on the decline. I think what you're seeing is just anecdotal and probably due to a culture war. Like there are a lot of gen z that may have adopted religion the same way they shifted right wing, but overall that rate lower than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:35 PM
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You didn't read my comment because I said I met my wife on a dating app. When you cold approach someone, odds are it's because they're attractive. No one really cold approaches a person they don't find attractive. They're not gonna have a bio to read over their heads, and you're not gonna get to know anything about them until you talk to them. Dating apps are the same way. You're not gonna swipe right on someone you're not attracted to (unless you're desperate), and you're not gonna get a full s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:43 PM
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Depends on what you mean by given the opportunity. I have the opportunity to pick up my phone right now or go out tomorrow and communicate with a different woman, but I've never felt the desire to. That said, if Zendaya came up to me right now asking for it raw, i'm folding immediately and I wouldn't even try to hide it. However the odds of that ever happening are as practically as close to zero as you can get. So outside of wild hypothetical scenarios, I would say most men who don't cheat aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:41 AM
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I understand there are down sides to dating apps as well, but for me it's still superior to cold approaching for those who aren't extroverted and would be making these conversations either way. I also made this remark touching on what you just said a bit. It worked out well for you because you have the propensity to be social, which is generally an extroverted trait but there are some exceptions. Having both game and the ability to naturally carry a conversation is valuable, but not everyone has…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:21 AM
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You do realize that you also have the ability to communicate with this person and then go on a date with them in person before you make any decisions right? Swiping right on someone means you're interested in getting to know them further, not "make a decision instantly". To your point sure there are people either don't put bios or don't read them, and are just swiping based on looks. I don't see this as inherently superficial. If I were to approach a woman irl, it would be a woman i'd find attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:41 AM
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Just because I watch goat porn doesn't mean I'll have sex with a goat. Lmao this is an incredibly wild example my guy but we'll run with it. Sure, just because you watch goat porn doesn't mean you'd fuck goats irl. But it does mean you find goats sexually attractive regardless of you acting on it and I doubt simply viewing goat sex will make normal people sexually attracted to goats. Lets use another example. I plan to hack into an online bank network in attempts to wire funds into my account, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:12 AM
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This is projecting male sexuality onto women Likewise. You're projecting the reason that men use dating apps onto women. Unless a woman is completely chopped or literally never leaves the house, she will have men approaching her irl. I will agree that women are more responsive, but that doesn't mean she will respond to every approach or that she isn't selective. They use apps more so to expand their options than to compensate for a lack of options (even if this may be the case as well). But bott…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:46 PM
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Then what was the point in replying to my original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:33 PM
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My point is that when men ask women out they don't ask them what to wear, they come to the date dressed how they want. So it makes no sense for women to use how much it costs to dress themselves as justification for an expensive date unless they're asked to come dressed a specific way, which odds are they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:42 PM
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What about the outfit they pick, ask a woman out that only walks around naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:42 PM
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Ok. Are you also requesting which outfit they put on, their nail style and their makeup as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:09 PM
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they say that they use make ups/perfume/clothes/etc to come to the date, and therefore a coffee date is losing them money. It's so funny every time I hear them go on about how it costs them money to look good for a date, so they should be reimbursed for their time. How much do you want to bet that they already have these items on hand? When they go to work, or church, or out with their friends, it doesn't matter they're likely to get dressed up and wear makeup. I highly doubt they're buying bran…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:42 PM
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I might be going crazy but I could've sworn it was pretty much the consensus that coffee, dessert, etc. was a perfectly acceptable first date for two people still trying to get a sense for each other. There's really no consensus on this. There are some women here in the comments say coffee dates are boring and low effort. Even one I know irl and talk to her about this say that she wouldn't go on a date with any man that suggested getting coffee because it's cheap and she can get coffee herself. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:36 PM
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You’ll never see the cute passion somebody has for their interests, or the way they treat everyone around them with kindness, or how they do a happy dance when they eat food they like! These are all things that make people beautiful and loveable. These things would never be shown or appreciated on a dating app. How will you know any of this unless you actually approach this person and ask them out on a date? IRL i would see a woman I am interested in getting to know, chat with them a bit, ask th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:42 PM
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I don't get this take. The same people you meet in dating apps are the same people you come across in real life. People's standards do not change either way, so if they're shallow that's just who they are, not the app making them that way. If someone doesn't find you attractive on an app and will swipe left, then they are likely to reject you irl as well (unless you're just super smooth with game and can pull them that way). I met my wife on a dating app. I preferred it that way because I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:53 PM
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This is what i'm talking about, why waste time responding to stupid shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:26 PM
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Another dumb take. Who set the social security retirement age? Who created the draft laws? Who are the main ones doing the sentencing? Who are the main gender in the police force? Feminists do not make laws, men do. The reason why there is a societal bias against men is because men coddle other women. Blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:06 PM
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Liberals need to purge their spaces of feminists if they want to become popular again. Otherwise we will keep losing elections. I don't consider myself a feminist or a fan of them, but this is an incredibly dumb take. There are many reasons why liberals lost the election, but feminism is not high on that list. But that's not what liberals do now. In jk Rowling case, liberals just painted her as transphobe and absolved themselves of any responsibility to debate her ideas Why would they be respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:09 PM
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Because when people bring up "free speech" they almost always reference the first amendment as well. The first amendment only applies to you and the government. It's impossible to go "beyond governments", because lets say social media had to allow any type of speech on their platform then that would have to involve government enforcement either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:54 PM
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Obviously don’t attend a hobby group if you aren’t genuinely enthusiastic about the hobby Well it's not so obvious and I think there should be a disclaimer. I'm not saying this is your intent, but a lot of times when this advice is given on this sub it's assumed that the audience already has a hobby or interest like yours where people meet over it, or it's implied that you can just find a random one and partake in it just to find a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:37 PM
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I met my wife on one. All the other women I've dated have meet online (not necessarily thru an Old app), and one other from work. I'm not saying it's the best way but for people who aren't extroverts it's better than what you suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:18 PM
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Yes but you realize you actually have to genuinely enjoy that hobby for this to work right? Let's say my hobby is video games, well for one due to online connectivity most groups are not in person and two the stereotypical gamer is a guy so finding an attractive woman in that avenue is like finding a needle in a haystack Now something like a run club like you mentioned would be a good place to find attractive in shape women. But let's say I hate running, I'm only there to bag a chick. If I strik…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:14 PM
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I understand that having kids is not the exact same as dating, but in order to have kids you have to 1. attract a woman and 2. have sex with her, which is key here. In order to do those two things, you do not need wealth. However if we want to speak on dating in particular, poor people date too. They don't just look at each other and immediately fuck unprotected, there is generally some level of courtship that leads to it. May not be a fancy dinner date, but they go out with each other nonethele…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:13 AM
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Making half or less of the median individual income for that area 20s and 30s is when most people date and reproduce, so that age range if he's 30-something and "flexible" he might have a lot of options. I'm not saying that man wouldn't have a lot of options, i'd say he'd have more options if he was more outgoing than he would by having more money. And yes, there are exceptions, but they are called "exceptions" for a reason. https://www.stlouisfed.org/on-the-economy/2016/december/link-fertility-…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:10 PM
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Sure money would increase anyone's success in dating, but I don't think it's the biggest force multiplier. I would argue that a guy who is poor but extroverted and a social butterfly would have better chances in the dating market than a guy who is well off financially but introverted and socially awkward. Poor people getting laid isn't an exception at all. As a person who also grew up in a low income area, babies were getting popped out left and right. I'm doing well financially now but I'm stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:38 PM
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Men buy cars to impress other men. Funny you say this, the day before yesterday this guy shouted at me while I was pumping gas that my car is sexy, and then yesterday when I was coming out of the grocery store another guy stopped me in the parking lot and wanted to take a picture of it. This girl I used to date in the past made a comment on how I bought it just to impress women. Had to tell her the only thing it attracts is guys, not a single woman ever stopped me to say anything about my car lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:19 PM
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Sure. Let's a guy invites a woman on a date, pays for it, assumes the woman will have sex with him afterwards because of it but she declines. Should the burden have been on the woman to tell him up front before accepting the date and paid meal that she isn't going to have sex with him, or should he have clarified up front that he expects sex at the end of the night as a condition for him paying? Scenario 2. Guy asks woman on a date, she come expecting him to pay but at the end of the date he req…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:05 PM
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The same reason women aren't expected to say "btw, I'm not sleeping you" on a date. If one person makes an assumption of what's going to happen on a date without clarifying, that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:50 PM
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Let's say two people meet on a dating app, depending on how the conversation goes the expectation to meet up irl for a date at some point is already there. So who actually does the asking out first is irrelevant here imo. The only situation I would say "whoever invites you out for the date should pay" is if the other person is asked out the blue, has to go out of their way to make it there, or have to move plans around to attend. Other than that, the first date (or couple of dates) with two peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:48 PM
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Yeah people said the same thing about ai art making humans with 6 fingers now look at it. Give it time, soon LLMs will be in people's daily use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:47 PM
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Well "idiot word sequencers" are replacing people for certain tasks so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:25 PM
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I'm sure a therapist is better at those things too, is going to therapy not a positive either?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:49 AM
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My main concern about it would be what type to personal information she would be feeding it, especially if it's a foreign app. Other than security concerns, I wouldn't feel any type of way as long as it was confined to an app and not other people. Tbh this could be sort of a positive for men not good with emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:07 AM
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Lol those scooters are slow as hell. Walmart doesn't want big people zipping around their aisles that's dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:27 AM
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Anyone can walk to their destination but a car will take them their faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:43 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH5y2BouUJP How it's gonna go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:49 PM
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Do you wear collared shirts tucked into khaki or black pants often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:39 PM
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I got istj, but normally I get istp. It was close like a 45/55 split. I just dont like how the answers are a rigid either or with no nuance. I felt like both answers could be correct depending on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:28 PM
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Yea that does suck but i can just spank it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:44 PM
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Duh which is why I specifically named them and not the white guys like Rollo. My point is despite their race, mostly white guys watch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:39 AM
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The college experience is a scam. If I had to do it over I would have just did community college my first two years and saved myself 20 grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:11 AM
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I'm talking about now not then, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:09 AM
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"Of the 1,214 people surveyed from ages 16 through 25, ethnic minorities were more likely to view him positively versus white young people: 41 percent of Black respondents, 31 percent of Asian respondents, 15 percent of white respondents." Cool, now look at this. <image> So if the student body represents the population, then that would mean 137 white kids, 33 Asian kids and 19 black kids viewed him favorably. Which would mean white kids are still his primary audience. Also I get that minority me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:06 AM
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Is he hot now or is he just rich and famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:42 AM
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The Islam shift is a grift to expand his audience but you are deluding yourself if you think his primary audience isn't young white men. Idk if you ever seen the documentary vice did, but in it there was this one scene showing the men who flew out to participate in his masculinity course he was selling. It was almost all white men. Now they were older since those are the ones with the money to fly out there but his younger fans probably outnumber them. Now considering he is from the UK himself i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:41 AM
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True, it's all mainstream now and this show is helping with that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:24 AM
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It's a cannon event at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:23 AM
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There are only 9
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:16 PM
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My wife and I finished that adolecense show on Netflix. She was familiar with Andrew tate and the term incel, but that was her first time hearing about red pill so she was looking it up. Had to explain what terms like 80/20, hypergamy and awalt meant. Now that show got her worried about her little bro cause he be in his room on the internet all day and don't really do much else. I didn't wanna anything but she may be right. I think regardless he needs to figure it out on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:14 PM
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I will not fall for this propaganda, if my shit starts receding to the point my face is half forehead them I'm going bald that looks so goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:45 PM
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“just respect women and maybe you will date one” is so funny to hear. Respect is optional if you are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:44 PM
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Value is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:44 PM
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For example, if I met a 27 year old gorgeous blonde bombshell who was an absolute 10/10 and she told me she was a virgin, I wouldn't find that hot. I would find it incredibly suspicious that someone as attractive as her hadn't had sex yet, and I'd either think she was lying, or that she used to be a lot less attractive and only recently had a big glow up. Worst case scenario, I'd assume that she had a terrible personally and scared every potential partner off before they had a chance to sleep to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:46 PM
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He already has some from my other cousins. He'll be alright
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:29 PM
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I haven't looked, brb edit: I shouldnt have looked cause what the fuck <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:45 PM
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<image> This reminds me of my uncle, he also had 3 children by 3 women all in the same calendar year. But my uncle is a brokie and never had a 5 year $255 million contract with a pro sports team. I can't believe this dude had the nerve to tell me "that's not how we do it in our family" when I told him I wasn't having kids. Like you're the last mf that should be tell me what I should be doing with my meat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:41 PM
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Probably more men fapping to this tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:17 PM
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Yeah but you going for the models initially aligns with the same point they're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:12 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/science/comments/1jin3y8/physical_attractiveness_far_outweighs_other/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:44 PM
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I've always picked a favorite side and slept on it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:40 PM
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She looked better before tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 05:20 AM
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It's tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:04 AM
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I don't even speak to any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:02 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHHGGTkRoAJ/ Before >>>>> After
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:01 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:22 AM
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Yeah you're not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:39 AM
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Women are respected much more than men. LMAO bruh you cant be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:21 AM
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I don't think OLD and approaching are mutually exclusive since I use both to meet people but I do think people short-change cold approaching a bit too much. Yeah I don't think they're exclusive either, there isn't one particular way that guy has to talk to a woman but I'm just pointing out some may be more suited doing one over the other. I get where you're coming from about the short changing, but I think its due to the demographic of men in this sub or just reddit in general. I don't expect ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:49 AM
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The push back on cold approaching isn't that it never work, it's that it mainly works for people who are extroverted and social already. I have friends I go out with that can just naturally strike up a convo and get a number without even having the intention of doing so to begin with. The problem is not every one is like that and "Delete the apps, just talk to a girl irl bro" seems to always be the go-to advice on this sub. Sure, just walk up and look stupid because you can't naturally carry on …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:56 AM
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Years ago I dated girl that at the time made a little more than me, long story short she was selfish (never wanted to spend any of her own money or split bills when we did stay together) and kind of an asshole. So I'm married now, and I make 5x more than my wife. I don't view her as a bang maid bc we both work 8 hour days and split the household chores. Despite me out earning her by a lot she still contributes what she can. I wasn't going to turn her down bc she wasn't in a position make a six f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:06 AM
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I mean yeah I guess you maxed out charisma and game then you could get by, I've seen it happen. But without that you're SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:41 AM
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I read the post, i stand by my comment. Your logic is that you can be married and he's a deadbeat dad. Sure. Just like you can get in a head on collision while wearing a seat belt and still die. What you're doing is the equivalent of saying seat belts don't matter while completely ignoring statistics. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4240051/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:20 PM
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Who tf wants to date an ugly person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:59 PM
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For ladies, Im tired of seeing “Stop having kids out of wedlock” as if marriage magically makes a guy not shit. True but a guy that is serious about taking the step to marry you is more likely to want to raise a child with you than the one you had a hookup with and trying to convince to be there for the child. Even post divorce. What you're doing is like saying "people wear seat belts and still die in head on collisions" like sure that's technically true but one situation you may die, the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:56 PM
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People's personalities are heavily shaped and influenced by their culture, upbringing and surroundings, and can change over time. Functionally working the same as a machine learning model imo. I think the main difference boils down to consciousness, and would that matter to those with AI partners. I agree with your concerns though, whoever enters the market with this product early will make money hand over fist like tesla.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:02 AM
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If it becomes mainstream enough that won't matter. I rememeber a time where watching anime was nerdy and wearing the apparel would get you made fun of, now it's cool to do cosplay. All it takes is for some rp content creators to promote it as a better experience than "modern women", and for some streamers to engage with it and it will be popular. We are already there. People already use chatgpt as a therapist and someone have conversations with. Yes but sex isn't the main issue here, it's the em…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:39 AM
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Lol tell this to the ones that make a big deal out of age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:40 AM
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Hes depressed because he has to come home without his secretary work wife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:33 PM
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<image> This can also be applied to driving a sports car
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:49 PM
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I'm reclaiming my body in my 30s and want to feel strong and sexy. I'm also planning to get my nipples pierced Just the pole aspect aside, this is a sign she got one foot out of the door otw to the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:59 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:51 AM
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5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:46 AM
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Q4short men, are you bringing a step stool to your wedding? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:12 AM
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Not an mra but idk what this has to do it them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:05 PM
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Nope, already been temp banned 3 times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:01 PM
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Never said it's sexually attractive by itself, ijs women do go for men who offer that. You also need traits other than that to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:52 PM
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I've seen the same and like I said they're the female equivalent of the dudes they go for. I've also seen women that go for men that will commit to them. Another thing, being "good" by itself isn't enough to attract a woman, you need to have other things going for you. Which is why I don't get why guys do the bare minimum by being nice then complain women aren't attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:25 AM
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That's because social media didn't exist in 1995.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:04 AM
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Women have made their preferences clear, they are drawn to toxic, high-status men over stable, committed ones. Maaan I wanna say the c word so bad 😂 Women go after stable, committed men all the time. The women you are looking at do not. The same way you complain about women wanting "toxic men", you want the female equivalent of these men. But if you don't want to believe me then fine, my advice would be to stop trying to be average and become a high tier man yourself. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:00 AM
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Dudes will watch a heavily edited video of a street interview and be like "SEE, WOMEN ARE WHORES"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:45 AM
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Yep, she actually was separated from him by the cops and given the opportunity to leave, she cried and said that she didn't wan to be separated from him, then the day after she went right back to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:40 PM
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Here's my scolding hot take, the police didn't fumble anything, Gabby did. They got testimonies from both parties, one side took the blame. The cops can only go off what they're told, and the witness that called 9/11 wasn't there to give his take on record. They even noticed her markings and tried to coax her to say Brian attacked her she insisted he did it in self defense. So what are they to do, see into the future lol. At the time they made the best decision. They gave her the van and made su…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:33 PM
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Why not, the kids had nothing to do with whatever their parents got going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:06 PM
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I think so. I have female friends, one of which we would text almost daily. The key is to not be single or attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:29 PM
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Looking at her ex, she clearly has a type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:28 PM
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I don't think autism is worse than all those things but seeing how autistic people act in this sub, I understand it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:09 AM
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True, but imo I don't think it's pure dishonesty but a matter of perspective. Neither person in either scenario may genuinely think their actions contributed to it unless pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:42 PM
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Thank you, this is it right here. I dated a woman like this. At the time she made like 30k more than me, asked me how I felt about a woman making more, I told her idc it's not a competition to me. I felt that answer turned her off. After we dated we remained cool, and she had a new bf. She would complain to me about him being in his 30s with a masters degree and only making 70k a year, amongst other things that made him sound like he was a bum. Even though I was making more at that point it remi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:34 PM
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But ppd women always call out men who claim they've have women that left them over something minor, omitting the details that led up to the woman leaving. When people speak on their own experiences (men and women alike), they tend to do so in a way that makes them look innocent or paint the other in a bad light. So when I hear about these stories from women about their man being intimidated, I take it with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:32 PM
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Lol you could have just linked to the entire post you got this from. I agree with the analysis that OP did, but they are the OKC blog writer are trying to convey 2 different things. It's hard to compare the two since men and women view attraction differently. The only real takeaway you can get from this guys graph is that men rate women's attractiveness symmetrically while women rate men's attractiveness with a positive skew, and that men view way more women attractive than women view men attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:52 PM
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I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:00 PM
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Because being queer used is an identity to gain popularity. Notice who all these bi-demi-pansexual women ultimately end up settling down with...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:57 PM
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Now I wouldn't call all of those things I mentioned "advantages" nor every single option is a good one Already acknowledged that. She's told me an instance of her being cold approach respectfully while she went ice skating as well. I'm thinking that it's either your location (surrounded by men who just don't do this) or you just don't look approachable (which isn't necessarily a matter of shyness).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:45 PM
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However, shy women's problem doesn't lie in making the first step, but in getting approached, because it simply doesn't happen to them. Idk about all that but my wife is introverted and barely goes outside, but when she does she's often telling me about how some she turned some guy who flirted with her and asked her out down, or how she got catcalled, or how some creepy dude was following her in the grocery store. Now I wouldn't call all of those things I mentioned "advantages" nor every single …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:35 PM
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I never really claimed it serves an important purpose. Ijs due to the backlash from the outcome of data, dating apps are highly selective of what data they make public and theres never been another widely publicized analysis since okc. That doesn't mean anything changed about the users swiping behavior in the past 11 years or however long ago it's been. Companies just realize it does them a disservice to their brand to let it be fully known.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:16 PM
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Lol that's what you took from my comment? Show me a newer article analyzing the same set of data from a different dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:01 PM
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Can't relate. Seems more like an autistic thing than adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:57 PM
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Due to the outcome and backlash of the studies no company would ever analyze and publish the data they collect again. Personally I don't see much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:52 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/1j7dfk7/got_this_text_on_womens_day_yesterday_from/ Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:47 PM
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He's 30. And yeah I do think I'm in a better spot, but only over the last 4 years. I still being extroverted gives you the biggest opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:24 AM
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This kinda describes me (first bullet) and my friend (second bullet). I know for sure he's been with more girls than I have. So if we determine success based on numbers alone, the second. Quality of relationship can go either way. I'm married now and he's still having problems with some girl in his roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:51 AM
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The thing about confidence is that it's generally results driven. You can't expect a person who keeps failing to gain confidence, they need some wins in order to boost it. The gym can increase confidence for sure, it worked for me. But when you have guys who refer to themselves as "gymcels" because they worked out, see physical results but see no dating prospect results, their confidence is not gained. The guys I notice that may be lesser attractive (short, out of shape, etc) but confident is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:17 PM
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Not true. Confidence can be gained or lost over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:59 PM
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She wants commitment and thinks she can bring him around Her fault! People show their true colors early on. The fact he's pulling back effort and only coming through for booty calls shows that's the type of relationship she wants. Considering she's going for that but thinks she can "bring him around" is her problem, not his. I know women like this, they mess with guys clearly not interested in settling down but think they can change him, and we all know how that goes in the end. So I think if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:04 PM
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Only when she's not looking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:24 PM
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Your story reminds me of the first girl I was fwbs with. One day we were pillow talking and she asked me what I'm most insecure about. I'm thinking that's an odd question, and I refused to answer it. She kept bringing it up and tried to guilt grip me into telling her. I know for a fact that the question was bait and if I did she would do the exact same thing as yours at the first argument. That said I don't think that you cannot open up to every single woman alive, I trust my wife enough to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:53 AM
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Yeah, the country is huge and there are some places where people marrying early is the norm but on average it's early 30s. But I was just asking because I looked up Norway was like 36 for women and 38 for men. By that point you're already should be committed you'd likely have a house with both your names on it and kids by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:27 PM
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The average age of first marriage in America is 30 for women and 32 for men. But what's the logic behind waiting until your late 30s to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:17 PM
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What is the situation? I'm out of the loop
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:59 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDcfuvLpTKV/ This guy is spitting here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:31 PM
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2, easiest decision of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:58 PM
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Not single, haven't been single since 2021, longest stretch of being single was from birth until age 26
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:47 PM
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Oh yeah startups are a different beast, you're gonna have multiple hats. Personally I would rather be a mid-large size company especially starting my career out. Tech sales is understandable (as long as there is commission involved), but way in tf would I volunteer to fill out legal paperwork 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:44 PM
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I pointed out here before how he's bald and short and managed to pull a baddie. Guys here have no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:39 PM
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Which career path pays more? That's what I would go with. Also generally speaking programming shouldn't involve much customer facing interaction. So keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:28 PM
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Imo you should have work experience before doing grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:07 PM
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Lol. Personally I choose to cook because I'm much better at it. But yeah I don't get why criticize something that works in another person's relationship. Guy doesn't do domestic labor, he's lazy. Women does it all but doesn't have a job, she's lazy. To me it would be a problem if the other person didn't like the dynamic but accepted it bc they don't wanna speak up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:06 PM
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Take this as an opportunity to learn to be social. I was an anxious wreck before I took a "customer support" role and it was tough at first but eventually talking to people became second nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:00 PM
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But unlike redpill stuff, women don’t seem to be taking the things there and spouting them off as fact in other places. Mainly because their spaces don't get banned. FDS moved to their own website due to disagreement with reddit but as far as I know they didn't have to. On the other hand every RP adjacent sub eventually gets banned which causes them to migrate other places and have the same convos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:00 PM
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He's gonna claim he unmatched and it deleted the convo or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:07 PM
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Idk I haven't seen her full face and don't feel like scrolling thru hundreds of feet pics to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:06 PM
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She's just fishing for compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:55 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:54 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DD26bN1SXZs/ Easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:41 PM
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Both can be true at the same time. Women and girls are less likely to commit violent crimes. Women and girls are also more likely to receive less of a sentencing than their male counterparts for the same crime. Bonus points if they come from the right socioeconomic background and/or have the right complexion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:22 PM
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This is who pearl reminds me of <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:31 PM
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Im 10 yrs older than him and I agree. I'd still be single if it wasn't for bumble. Never was one for cold approaching. Only other relationship I was in that didn't start online was from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:06 PM
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You're hired
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:56 PM
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With AD and Kyrie injured leaving the team with an aging Klay Thompson as the lead scorer, what do you think about the future of the Mavs and Nico Harrison's career as a general manager of a professional sports team?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:35 PM
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I would put a partner you're married to and a high school couple in two categories. Only a small percent of relationships started in high school even make it to marriage. Also usually there is a valid reason for an older person to sacrifice their career. This case not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:13 PM
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Giving flowers on a first date is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:06 PM
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They realize they can't latch on to our over inflated defense budget that they give us shit for having anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:47 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1j4nyoo/i_18m_am_not_accepting_my_wrestlingacademic/ People on this sub like to romanticize having teenage love and relationships, but don't seem to realize how fucking stupid you are at that age. This guy was really about to give up a D1 scholarship and 50k in a 529 just because his gf couldn't get in the same school. Good thing both of their parents talked some sense into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:43 PM
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It would make more sense for the third bullet point to be "the way you make her feel", but either way 321
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:36 PM
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I don't see a reason not to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:27 PM
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Alicia Keys and Thandie Newton
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:06 PM
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I would suggest bumble because that's what I used but they turned into a tinder close over the recent years. Out of all of them Hinge is one that people complain about the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:44 PM
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Makes sense. If you didn't take the plea you'd have to lawyer up anyway so I guess your situation was the best given the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:38 PM
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What did you lawyer suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:29 PM
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I would have rather eaten the expired tags fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:17 PM
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Is that what most 30yo women want? I'd assume they would prefer someone who is on their level financially esp if they want or already have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:58 PM
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Lol unless that 20yo man is a trust fund baby what bux does he have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:53 PM
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Doesn't mean 30 year old women would want them back though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:15 PM
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Eh, I met my wife on one. They're only used for hookups if you intend it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:49 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:01 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/short/comments/1j0bq1p/an_app_but_only_for_taller_men/ I came across this ig page in my algorithm. It's pretty much a meme page making fun of dating short guys while promoting a dating app for women looking for men 6ft and over. I saw this comment on one of the posts <image> Brutal asf. I imagine this dude proud of himself thinking that height doesn't matter and she likes him for him, ​meanwhile his gf on the internet monkey branching and clowning him. I'd crash out if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:48 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:39 AM
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I mean if you think she's going to agree to have her sexual encounter recorded despite having no idea what's being done with the recordings after then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:56 PM
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A consent form or audio wouldn't do you any favors because legally consent can be revoked at any moment after it's given. So that won't protect you in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:25 PM
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It's unbelievable that having a mental breakdown over not getting laid isn't a normal or healthy thing? lol wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:50 PM
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Well I've never done any drugs and I was in the military for a decade as well so I was pretty active and physically/mentally fit. I'm also married now and go to the doc regularly. Not worried about my lifespan being cut short. What you're describing has nothing to do with sex drive and everything to do with unchecked mental illness. Look at guys like Elliot Roger, you want to tell me that extreme obsession and crashing out is a normal biological response to not getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:34 AM
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Generally states would consider next of kin before fostering, as long as you're 18+, financially capable and have a place with a room for them. But if we go off this hypothetical, I'd still marry if that was the plan anyway. I'd rather her sister stay with family over a foster home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:20 AM
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I'm 13 years older than my sister so I can see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:16 AM
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Doesn't work that way, women below your league can still have standards higher than you. Best to not settle yourself and shoot for the best you can obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:15 AM
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I meant my comment edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:06 AM
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Like I mentioned to someone esle it's likely they live a privileged life where their biggest adversity is not getting a girl to want to fuck them. If they had to deal with the life of person A they'd off themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:05 AM
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No I had a sex drive, I just self released until I started having someone else do it for me regularly . Being scarred for life because you didn't have sex for 10 years after puberty isn't normal or healthy that sounds mentally unhinged asf. Then again I gotta remind myself of what sub I'm in lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:55 AM
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I noted that in the edit. I'd still take it over A either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:53 PM
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I got a feeling they grew up middle class and privileged and the only real obstacles they've faced is access to sex. Have them spend more than a week in a state prison and I'd bet they'd fold on that decision lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:51 PM
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Still nowhere near as bad. Yall put too much emphasis of quality of life on having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:48 PM
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Eh, I went a full decade post puberty without it. Was not scared for life. However I think being on drugs and doing a considerable amount of time in jail would be worse on your mental. I'm saying this from having people in option A in my family and neighborhood I grew up in. I'll die on the hill that going without sex is not worse than doing prison time, coming out with a felony and stuck doing shit jobs for the rest of your life (assuming you don't turn back to the streets). Worse comes to wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:20 PM
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There are people in these comments saying that's a tough choice or they'd pick A. I have a few people in my family that do and/or sell drugs, in gangs, and have several baby mamas. I don't think they realize how bad that lifestyle is. Then turning that life around is near impossible because being a felon limits your employment to shit jobs. Bouncing around shit jobs means tough time paying the minimum child support cap for all the kids you have, which backs up. Which over time means more jail ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:12 PM
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OP didn't mention any mental issues like autism. But still I'd rather die an autistic virgin than have to live like person A. edit: nvm OP did I can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:51 PM
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LMAO I can't believe we're comparing being a middle class 35 year old virgin that still has the possibility to ascend to being a crack baby born homeless gangbanging felon with 5 baby mamas who are just and down bad. How this is a tough choice is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:33 PM
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I get that. However I still think a person who has been starving for days and sleep deprived will be craving a warm meal and a bed more than one who knows it's available to them every day. Same thing with sex, which if you notice in this sub the men who put so much emphasis on its importance are the ones who struggle to get it. Even to me getting sex was a much bigger deal back when I wasn't getting it like I am now. Not to say I don't enjoy sex with my wife or no longer content either, but i re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:12 AM
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The appeal of a lot of things in life is the experience. Once you do something over and over and over again it loses it's appeal (generally speaking). So yeah this is why you have unhappy rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:19 PM
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Ofc there are men who will get bruised egos and offended about being turned down by women they believe should be easy for them. It's why you hear stories about guys Trey Songz getting charged with sexual assault despite having women thrown at him. That's not really a contradiction to my point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:18 PM
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From what I've noticed the men who are the most pressed about having sex are the ones that don't get it frequently. It's easy to make that a focal point of your life if it's nonexistent. I saw this clip of Andrew Tate and normally I think what he says is completely stupid but this had me thinking. He said men who get excited about having a nice steak are losers, because rich men like himself can have a steak at any given moment and it's not special thing. I think this same reasoning applies to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:59 PM
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Why not seek partners who are more educated? More successful? Ambitious, wealthier? Better social skills? More charismatic, funnier, etc? Because all this doesn't mean a better person or someone who would treat me better. This is the most important. I'm doing well enough to live comfortably on my own. My wife does work and has a degree but even without her salary we would be good. So it wouldn't make sense for me to make that a top priority Years ago I did "date up" with a woman who made more at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:05 PM
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Squirt is a bad example as it's just an involuntary piss but yeah they orgasm nonetheless. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:46 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28678639/ This would imply that 80% of women would be vastly sexually incompatable and shouldn't be with men if we're going off piv alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:44 PM
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I don't think the majority of men genuinely believe this. However there are a lot of men who simply don't care to put enough effort into or don't think it's important to bring a woman to orgasm. I've seen rp podcasters say that since they don't ejaculate seed it's not biologically imperative that they do. Which is a tell but w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:35 PM
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Trying to instill some pride in the man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:37 PM
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Smh don't take shit from europoors either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:27 PM
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I want to say this is racist but idk anything about Nepali people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:22 PM
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And they only have one nba championship, pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:24 PM
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If you're trying to pull with a watch then you need to be looking at a Audemars Piguet, Patek Philippe or Richard Mille.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:01 PM
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If I was a woman reading this I'd worry about going missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:51 PM
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But it’s also due to their want of sex, they’ll settle for Becky for sex and think they’ve done a great thing since they sacrificed their chance for Stacy and Becky should be grateful he’s not out there chasing Stacy. I don't know any men that thinks like that. For the most part men take what they can get. If he wanted Stacy he would be pursing her. If he is settling for Becky that means he can't pull Stacy (which isn't bad imo, no point in trying to chase something you can't obtain). So he's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:48 PM
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Most ive done was hit a bar and by them a round of drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:40 PM
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You guys buy your friends birthday gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:11 PM
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The difference is that men settling is a result of loneliness and desperation. The standards you're reading are mainly hypotheticals. No offense to the men here but most of the men here aren't getting dates or putting themselves in a position to be fathers. If they are in a long drought and a woman gives them attention (Stacy, Becky, Plain Jane, whoever), they are folding regardless. For the ones that can and do pull, they're not going to discriminate. If Stacy is dtf over a cup of coffee then a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:10 PM
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I think being broke is the biggest factor. Socioeconomic status is a direct correlation to crime. Not having money also limits theability to obtain an education. Add isolation on top of that then that is a recipe for a crash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:50 PM
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<image> Text between me and a homie two days ago, we still haven't hung out lol. The consequence of getting older and all your peers have kids. Also for finding a gf without kids you may have to date a little younger. I was your age when I met mine she was 25. Seems like more people are childfree now but yeah that was a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:46 PM
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Not enough we need to up the numbers ⬆️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:52 PM
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Sounds like the rest of his songs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:51 PM
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The only yeat song I heard and really like is better then ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:23 PM
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It means man with opinions I dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:29 PM
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18 and 20 yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:56 PM
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Those kids who didn't put themselves in six figure debt for the same degree are actually smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:53 PM
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Taylor swift but a slightly better body
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:51 PM
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Average men have working eyes just like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/short/comments/1is16e4/what_could_i_have_done/ Brutal asf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:42 PM
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The first time i dated and had piv sex with a woman I was like 26. Only other sexual encounter was a bj at a party 2 yrs prior. This woman I know had an extensive sexual history, and was the stark opposite of shy and inexperienced. I didn't tell her that was my first time, and she was none the wiser. Eventually we became fwbs and would have sex occasionally after. After her I had a couple of other encounters then I met and started dating my wife when I was a couple months of turning 30. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:47 AM
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I had that last night for dinner. Get the triple dipper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:37 PM
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Yeah but then youd have to live in Montana...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:55 PM
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Keep him around as a full time nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:54 PM
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On tinder it would vary wildly. Some days I'd get no matches, some days I'd get like 6-8 (usually after I stop swiping for a bit). Had over 100 total, don't know the exact number cuase my account got auto deleted. Only got one date out of it and it went nowhere. On bumble I had 8 matches total in 2 weeks. Met my wife and got off. As for "decent" rate, most men aren't getting that. Maybe a top percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:19 PM
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And like I pointed out to OP, there are variables for the type of men that are violent agaisnt women, such as those in lower socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:35 AM
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....the majority of countries in the world are racially homogeneous and break down to consisting of a handful of ethnic groups. Your point would make more sense of every single race existed in each country in near equal number like gender does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:23 AM
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Not every single race exists in a near equal number across all cultures, countries, or socioeconomic boundaries though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:13 AM
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The same can be said for men in general https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10952995/ Considering the diverse types of IPV, higher rates of physical violence are found in low-income groups. The same study reported that women who experienced coercive control were more economically disadvantaged. I agree with Kentato009, your reasoning is no different from those who love to claim that 13% of the population do 50% of the crime and spout about bell curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:11 AM
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I am reading. All of those traits which you say are indicators of creepiness are just indicators of low status in general. It's like how men use promiscuity as indicators of potential infidelity, based on past experiences. But what does that have to do with my post? Its has to do with how you associate being creepy with traits that are just undesirable in general, and come to the conclusion that "if multiple people call you a creep... you're a creep". Sure people who can't dress and don't have f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:08 PM
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