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| 182 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? | Discussion | Enzo-Unversed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 12:39 AM |
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| 4 | American women are way more toxic than most other women50/50 is stupid. Just pay for your own order. The issue is finding an American woman, that isn't fat,covered in tattoos,single mother or has the bodycount of a dictator is very difficult. Most of the standards themselves are normally fine, bit cranked up to 1,000. Wanting a taller man,man that earns more etc, but wanting the top 10% of men in height and salary? Come on. Especially since women are earning equal or sometimes more than men on average nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsDefine sexist. Many women want a traditional man(but don't want to be a traditional woman) but, not someone who is an actual incel. Unfortunately both are considered sexist in modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsBut if a woman complains about her dating life, everyone has to assume the "good men" are terrible and how she's such a beautiful snowflake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsThen they have no right to be hypergamous or expect the man to pay for everything anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:49 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsMen eventually either go full Black Pill or cope with this. The women never seem to. Tell a man he's average at best. Now tell a woman that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsI went from finding nobody to multiple dates and 2 girlfriends within a year of moving here. The dating pool in the US is just atrocious for men, who want a normal,healthy BMI woman, with no kids/high bodycount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedDepends. Many women will think dating a man 2/3/10 points above them is "settling". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Do men and women have realistic standards for each other?In the US? Absolutely not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:06 AM |
| 0 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?Korean women are far more attractive and intelligent than American women. Also good luck getting women in the US to drop sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Male surplus is a problemYou mean immigrant men, that have no chance and come from "misogynistic " cultures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Attractive can't be negotiated BUT if someone is on the fence, it is possible to win them over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Exactly why passport bros is a thing. You can easily get quality women, without needing a bunch of nonsense(6 pack rich,tall etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:58 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?How is that a Redpill view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:39 AM |
| 4 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Yep. Double digits is top high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Red:Body count matters. Blue:Men and women can often be friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Yet most women will not date a man making less than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 09:37 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on settling? How many people do you think settle? Do you have an experience settling or being settled for?I won't settle, but my requirements aren't very high to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Prenup a red flag?Anyone who won't agree to a prenup is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:44 AM |
| 0 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?Date to marry. Find someone of good mental and physical health, decent looking and has marriage and children as goals. No sleeping around,no dating criminals/criminally inclined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Yet many women think they deserve more attractive and wealthy men. Probably the same women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:39 AM |
| 2 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."I don't want to live in the US whatsoever again. Also I'm not looking for traditional, I'm looking for not fat,not a narcissist or "sexually liberated". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Is personality more important to men or women?Personality is a vague platitude. I'd say women care more about it, but not over the big 3.(height,money and looks) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:28 AM |
| 2 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."I'd never date in the US. I'm in Japan now. If I end up having to leave, I accept dying alone. Absolutely not worth trying to find a wife in the minefield. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators?I suspect I only have ADHD(I was originally diagnosed with this) but incase, I don't want a 100% chance of Autistic children. I also struggle immensely to find anyone Autistic I get along with, especially romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators?I was diagnosed with Aspergers. I don't think I could ever date an Autistic woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 12:15 PM |
| – | Do you look for your partner to be more similar, or more opposite?I'm not sure why this doesn't make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you look for your partner to be more similar, or more opposite?White and East Asian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menYep. I was diagnosed with ADHD and it was changed to Aspergers. I think I only have ADHD, but my issues in Middle School were very Autistic. I was chubby, yes but I realized because I wouldn't have a normal conversation,had long dirty looking hair and baggy ass clothes, I did poorly. I'm in Japan and do quite well now. I dress better, go to the gym etc. The biggest change to be made is understanding peoples emotions. It's not the social skill issues causing the problems, it's giving off the impr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 01:21 PM |
| 3 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menI'm going to be blunt. Most Autistic men struggle because they are likely to dress and act in a way that raises red flags. Another major issue is many are just outright rude because they can't understand the social ques. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you look for your partner to be more similar, or more opposite?Same interests,personality type etc. Only thing I have a different preference for is race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Many Women Are Still Peak Beauty at 30-35I've never found a White woman over 30 attractive IRL. I've found Asian women up to almost 40 attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | what are and should be the proper age ranges for adults to date?I'm 26 and my dating range is 18-30, with a preferred age of 21 or 22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | You must pick oneEasily the first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:14 AM |
| – | Would most RP men prefer an average looking virgin woman or a knockout woman with a past?Average virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Is there a biological "attraction drought" going on in the United States right now, with obesity, sedentary lifestyles are poor diets?Not any easier to find attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableI'd have issues being accepted and those are often poor quality and few in numbers. I would need to get married or leave. Japanese immigration requires 10 years of experience or a degree for a work visa. A spousal visa has virtually 0 limits to what I can work that don't apply to Japanese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | What Do You Bring To The TableI am not fluent in Japanese to get into one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableIm 26. My situation is a bit bizarre. I am planning to go to Japanese language school in April with about 4,500,000 - 5,000,000 yen. That's enough easily to finish language school with quite a bit left over. For me to stay, id HAVE to get married and get the spousal visa. I'd have enough to be able to go to university the following year. It would depend on if whoever I marry would consider it even useful to have me go instead of work a full time job for 4 years. I do not have enough for universi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableI obviously never went to college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?Mostly 18-22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableI blame being raised by a single mother that did nothing for me to succeed academically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional?I'm 26 and I'd not date another 26 year old in most circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?I'm 26. Average for men:5-10 Average for women:15-30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableBecause I highly select for intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Bring To The TableI'm not fat,no debt,intelligent and apparently a 5-7/10 in looks. My lack of a degree is my biggest issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?If that was true, I should also be a 7/10 automatically. There's just as many fat men as women and I'm closer to underweight than overweight now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?The average man is by definition, average. If you mean the average man is disappointing, the average woman is even more disappointing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 11 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?I've basically dropped any intention of dating American women. It's approaching 3/4 of women being overweight/obese. Over 70% of women are undateable solely because they're fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Women really dislike autistic menI've found only 1 Autistic woman I even like being around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Women really dislike autistic menMen don't give a shit if a woman is awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Women really dislike autistic menSame. I give myself a year before I end it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menI will eternally hate my mother for giving me Autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Women have a much more delusional idea of average than men doI used to be fat. At my fattest, I was 1 higher BMI than the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I've posted my pictures in multiple discord,reddit and talked to those IRL. I'm average to above average. Likely 5-7. I am told I look 19, which helps since I go for women 18-22 primarily. Unfortunately there are very few women I take any interest in near me. I'm likely moving to Japan next year but that can be an absolute disaster with Autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I have 0 intention of even being a 30 year old virgin, let alone a 40 year old one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I'm already 25. Too late for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer 20 year olds. Knowing this, why do women still get into relationships with men?I'm 25 and I prefer 18-22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 0 | A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022.Yep. I see thin dudes with fat women but never fat dudes with thin women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 7 | What NON self-gratifying things do you look for in a woman?Intelligence and introversion are musts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:18 AM |
| 39 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.Why I should accept dying alone. Thanks mother for the Autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticHe's asking what are things that women value in men that aren't determined entirely by genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticI'll take a 6 ft woman over a 5 ft woman any day. (I'm 5'11) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticThis. Simps are entirely to blame for below average and average women demanding the top 10% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticI've actually heard people defend this too. "Maybe 80% of men are unattractive and women also put more effort into their looks." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idioticAny dating site statistic disproves this. Men rated 90% of non-fat women as average or above. Women rated 80% of men below average. While the latter study doesn't exclude fat people, there are just as many fat women as fat men. Height and hair are the 2 biggest things that women are quite ruthless about online. Especially height. I've also noticed that men and women care about about looks in different situations. Women care more about looks for casual sex and men care more about looks for long t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Describe your ideal partner then describe your ideal selfIdeal partner:Aimer. Ideal me:Me without my mother's genes and a smaller nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Womens body countPersonality and social status are the best predictors IMO. It's unlikely the shy girl at the library is getting railed by multiple dudes weekly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable for a man with an average physique to want a thin/non-fat female partner?No such thing as hot chubby women tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable for a man with an average physique to want a thin/non-fat female partner?I'm 5'11 and 140 pounds. About to start going to the gym. I lost 80 pounds. I sure as fuck won't settle for fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Anything that is artistic or requires intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?I'm 25. I'll give it another year before I off myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?Ironic since my mother cursed with Autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?I have found 1 Autistic woman I've liked. Has a BF. She is very sweet,attractive etc and said she had severe issues with ghosting. Autism is a GG. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beIt basically means if you're Autistic,shy or unfunny, you're inferior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?Yep. Unfortunately I prefer East Asians. They detect Autism like a radar. It's 2x as bad since I exclude Autistic women.(with exceptions) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDToo bad finding women Irl is hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDI'm 5'11 and just lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What age does pretty privilege run out for women?Depends on race,individual woman etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)I didn't lose 80 pounds just to be told to settle for a fat woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How Much Is Too Much: N-Count Baseline Answer?18-20:4-5 21+:9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterI'm screwed in that department. I'm 25 with no degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterMeaning enjoy being a virgin until 45. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterI doubt it's any worse than single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterGym only works if being fat is your problem. Bald and/or short? R.I.P. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 6 | What even is a "good personality"?Yep. Ugly and awkward = creep Hot and awkward = shy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I never knew how bad the obesity epidemic has gotten until I lurked the 18-22 age demographic on Tinder today vs 5 years agoYep. Dating is borderline impossible for me. Fat is my biggest deal breaker. It excludes 60% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:24 PM |
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