EpicJohnCenaFan Archive

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3	At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women? First of all, stop attributing depression to lack of success. You're depressed because you don't have success, not the other way around. I think you already know the answer to your question also. You actually gotta get out there and start talking to girls to improve. They'll be no easy age where it becomes great, there isn't an easy fix. You gotta put the work in.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 04:33 AM
1	How to pick up chicks at work Looks affect how much guys respect you. How much guys respect you translates to women also. But I wouldn't say looks directly affect how women see you nearly as much as people think. Look.. with numbers, if she gives some excuse or whatever, don't even respond. Occasionally she'll double text offering an alternative but don't sit hoping for that outcome. You should be talking for like 2 days max before setting dates, and if you've proved you're cool and funny and she still gives an excuse, find …	/r/seduction	02/11/21 11:52 PM
1	How to pick up chicks at work The thing with that is I'm just clear with my intentions. You may get more rejection, depends, but you'll only get girls who are into you, and it'll just give them one clear path to my attention. If they don't like it, fine. There's other girls who do. At the end of the night, they'll be multiple new girls partying with us so it won't matter in the end. And they all know where I stand. You can achieve the hard to get stance through other things, even after a direct compliment.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 10:30 PM
2	Approach anxiety If you're doing that, you already have your shit together better than 90% of guys. And you'll have some success. You have a well paid job, you're in shape, you control what you can with looks. If any guys are giving you shit, you're probably in a better place to even care to listen to them. Be smart about it though. Some of the hottest girls are getting DMs from verified checkmarks on Instagram. Realistically, you're not gonna beat those guys at this stage. Just cold approach when there's a cute…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 09:06 PM
2	How to pick up chicks at work It's your vibe. That's everything. It's not weird, just get her attention first.. before you say anything. A simple "you are beautiful" or something along those lines is good. After that just talk shit. Ask her questions, pretend to give a fuck about her answer. Come up with funny responses, be confident. It really isn't that hard. If she rejects you, know to leave. Don't be one of those guys who keeps recycling openers. Just like "that's fine. I just wanted to let you know. Have a nice day". If…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:34 PM
2	[deleted by user] Bro, just shut up. The most high value guys in the world are the rich guys in their 30s and they have 19 year old girl friends. I doubt you can actually get sex from young hot chicks.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:26 PM
3	Approach anxiety Improve your life in general, seriously. When you're the rich guy with the lambo, in shape, fighting ability, whatever makes other guys respect you, you don't give a fuck what the random guy thinks of you. If guys will respect you, girls will respect you.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:22 PM
1	Is there redemption for a failure of congruency? You gotta share details of the text, screenshots. More about the party. Nobody here has a fucking clue when our only information is "We played games", "I was sexual".	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:20 PM
-1	How to pick up chicks at work First of all, are they really that hot? Seriously, if there's more than 2 or 3 approaches per week thay you'd genuinely stop what you're doing in your life to say hi, then you gotta raise your standards. You can't be mass approaching chicks at your beach. But the occasional exception, it's fine to tell her she's beautiful. And you can get away with it with the right inner game.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:18 PM
1	[deleted by user] Just put "hey" back. Or "hey, how've you been?". If she's gonna give you dickhead replies, you can give them back. This was a pathetic attempt to get your attention anyway. The next time you ask her out, if she gives anything other than a yes, just don't even reply because look.. you wanna fuck this girl. You shouldn't be giving your attention away for free if she won't let you progress. She's gotta know there's only one path to your attention.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:15 PM
2	[deleted by user] Just ask her out. If it works great. If it doesn't, find some new bitch to talk to. It's that simple.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:12 PM
2	Is she playing with me? She's giving you shit. If you go on for a kiss and she pulls that, a simple "yes" is a good enough answer. Own it. If she doesn't, you gotta cut down the attention you're giving to her. She's gotta know there's only one path she'll get validation from you. If she walks that path, cool. If she doesn't, cool, go find some new girl to talk to.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:09 PM
3	How to make her want my validation or approval? Don't give it away easily. I find I literally never have to give validation to get results, and it works great. Just give her attention when she's doing things you like, cut it down when she's not. If you try and escalate and she refuses (asking for whatsapp, a date, whatever), then cut the attention, but the response depends on which part you tried to progress and the girl's situation.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:06 PM
1	I NEED HELP i dont know how to respond to these More or less just a mindset of "behave or I won't speak to you". "I bet you say that to all the girls", don't respond anything like "only the cute ones". She's giving you shit and you're giving her positive attention for it. If she says "shut up" in a playful way, I'd usually ignore it completely. It's a positive sign but it's not something I'd encourage her to do. If she says "make me", make her. Don't fuck around. Compliments are great. Your response depends on the compliment though.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:04 PM
9	Store Boss Asked Me To Stop Picking Up Girls At A Mall? 🙄 People honestly approach way too many girls. You went out with the intention of specifically meeting girls at a mall. My advice to you is just to not do that. Do normal things with your life, just approach girls on the way if they're exceptional. Above that, these places then become pickup spots. Girls get used to it and get immediately defensive on approach. Pickup guys often don't know when to leave; they'll keep recycling openers. The really hot girls aren't in a mall anyway, they're on the m…	/r/seduction	02/11/21 02:59 PM
1	How do I avoid boyfriend vibes? You're doing exactly what you should do if you want a girl in love with you. It's not a bad thing, just if she starts to piss you off, dump her.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 10:53 PM
1	I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before. Honest answer here. Don't even respond. Any girl who leaves you for any reason is not a girl worth having or keeping. Save yourself the time.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 10:10 PM
2	Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghosted Bro, don't even talk to her. Unfollow her. Learn from the lesson and move on.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 07:31 PM
1	Just a small piece of advice for the day Surely there's something you can cut down on, like shit food, or video games a little bit, to afford a £20 a month subscription to a gym that will literally improve every aspect of your life, even your health. You can't enjoy the good things if you're dead.	/r/seduction	08/09/21 05:40 PM
1	Just a small piece of advice for the day What do you mean you don't have money? Are you unemployed?	/r/seduction	07/09/21 02:12 PM
1	Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle?? Sometimes guys literally just wanna sleep with their own space. Don't think too much into it.	/r/seduction	20/07/21 10:30 PM
20	What do I say after I introduce myself to a woman? How to keep convo going? First of all, I would change the opener, it's a little too generic. An observational statement would be a little better, or maybe just going direct and to the point if you're a beginner. Also practice talking with almost everyone to work on building your social skills. There's a lot more you could add to your game and other easy ways to not run out of things to say but start there. A way to force yourself to say something would be, after each of her responses, immediately saying "Yeah and..." an…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:22 AM
1	Approached crush from primary school Her response?	/r/seduction	04/07/21 01:54 PM
1	Is it possible for a man with Asperger's to get a girlfriend!? Yes	/r/seduction	17/05/21 05:51 PM
2	Opinions on public outdoor movie nights? Movie dates, generally bad idea unless you and the girl aren't already close. There's no opportunity to get to know the girl. You both sit there, watch the movie, then head home having barely said a word to her. If you're gonna do a movie date, do it at your own house.	/r/seduction	17/05/21 05:51 PM
2	Texting tips Purely depends on the text she sent before. But she replied so she's investing somewhat. If she's being pretty logical, respond logically but with 25% of fun and flirtatious vibe so it's not boring conversation. If she's responding positively, like she's flirting with you or giving compliments, move it towards making plans. Repeated value texts over a couple weeks usually gets her asking questions anyway as your value builds. But don't focus on questions so much. They're not needed to get her ou…	/r/seduction	14/05/21 01:59 PM
1	Why does being direct with a woman with about what you want almost never work? Being direct off the open will have the same effect. More rejection but the girls into you will be more on for something. If the vibe is clearly positive, then pushing for plans is obviously a good idea. Don't get stuck in endless conversation when you could move it forward.	/r/seduction	13/05/21 05:29 PM
3	Texting tips I don't use voice notes often but when I do, they tend to work better if it's a scenario where you haven't met the girl in person yet. Texting just gets to the point a little easier. Calling her out on it in a non-needy way is important. Humour is an easy way to do this. Something likw "Dear diary, cute girl disappeared. Should I send a search party?". There's a difference between being needy and a little entitled. Value texts worked a lot for me, yes. As for messaging in general if you're worri…	/r/seduction	13/05/21 05:28 PM
1	Every girl now in Instagram is model💩 It'd separate you from her 27k other followers. She'd likely actually see the message in the first place. Definitely always the number	/r/seduction	13/05/21 05:24 PM
1	Need some advice Yeah, I read it right. It's kinda like implying that she has an effect on your emotions. She's gonna wonder why you care so much about the outcome of what happens when you barely know her. As for pushing for plans, you've already kinda decided they'll happen. Honestly, most guys are thinking what you're thinking right now, not the other way round. Be a little entitled and expect success.	/r/seduction	13/05/21 05:23 PM
1	Running out of things to text It would help a lot to see your text conversations. Generally, pictures of cool things you're doing every couple of days are a good idea. Treating DMs like a social media update almost. One thing I find that helps if I can't think of any immediate response is looking in her response for anything that I could misinterpret as a compliment or an escalation on her part and I usually roll with that. If there's nothing, again just treat the DM like a social media update.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:33 PM
1	Every girl now in Instagram is model💩 First of all, I'm questioning why you got her Instagram anyway. Just go for the number.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:27 PM
1	Need some advice I think that the text you suggested is a pretty horrible idea. What does it say to her when you're coming into this with the mindset of "I hope you like me"? The part about the smile on her face too, she's gonna be wondering why are you even so important to her? Do you not have other girls into you? Why not? It's pretty needy and low value. Hard to tell what the best response is without the entire text conversation. From what you've told us, probably best to just go straight to making plans sinc…	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:26 PM
6	Why does being direct with a woman with about what you want almost never work? Basically, she doesn't view you as high enough value to go on a date with. Building value is a whole separate issue. But about being direct, you're going to get a lot of rejections. Expect it. The good thing about being direct is overcoming with the approach anxiety and fear of rejection, and also if you're direct, a lot of girls will reject you but the girls who like you will be super on for something. It's kind of a trade off.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:21 PM
1	Women say they don't feel a romantic connection. What am I doing wrong? Very hard to tell without knowing more information.	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:19 PM
4	Texting tips Moving on when you could have pulled it back, you're rejecting yourself before she even gave you a hard rejection. You'd be stopping at the smallest sign of resistance. Voice notes, generally don't use them but mentioning drinks is a bad idea if you're getting silence. Could work to restart conversation but it's not ideal. You'd be a little needy. If she's giving you silence also, your value probably isn't even high enough for her to care about your opinion of her anyway. Probably the best optio…	/r/seduction	12/05/21 10:19 PM
1	Crippling Anxiety around attractive girls Dude, stop using that as an excuse to not take the action. Overcome what you clearly want to overcome and don't let the past define you.	/r/seduction	11/05/21 10:30 PM
1	Crippling Anxiety around attractive girls You're saying this like you actually want approach anxiety. Just take the action man	/r/seduction	08/05/21 12:12 PM
1	Crippling Anxiety around attractive girls The only way you're going to manage that is by taking action. Making approaches until you're no longer feeling anxious to make them	/r/seduction	04/05/21 08:15 PM
6	Crippling Anxiety around attractive girls Reframe is as excitement. When you meet an attractive girl, you were just presented with a new opportunity that didn't exist a second ago. Your life just got better. You should be excited, not scared. It's not an "oh shit" situation, it's the ideal situation that you want. Even accept a bad experience as a positive one. The worst experience ever is still a success because the only way you can possibly fail is by not even trying - that's the worst chance of success. Even if it's a bad experience,…	/r/seduction	25/04/21 01:59 PM
1	What after you ask for a date and she prolonges...? Ask her when she's free and what her schedule is first. Base it off that.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:09 PM
1	How important are material items to women? Not at all. If she asks what car you drive, don't mention it. Say something stupid and unbelievable but say it with a straight face. It's better not to answer many questions directly, and leave her wondering about you.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:08 PM
10	Is there like a good short conversation when approaching a girl that gets you phone number? Tell her why you're approaching her. (you think she's cute and want to get to know yer). Swap the "how are you doing" for "what are you doing", so that you know if you should speak for a few more minutes if she's not busy, or get the number and leave. Don't say your name. Ask her for hers, then say that it's nice to meet her, repeating her name and shaking her hand. If she asks for your name any time then, she's somewhat interested. If she doesn't you should probably forget it. It's just a quick…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:04 PM