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| 1 | For cold approaches do you try to chat them up first or just be more direct and ask for her number?Not really, the cold approach is tough, even if your smooth/handsome, but it’s really great practice if your social skills need to be honed in or you still get a lot of anxiety. It is how I met the woman I am currently dating, it was at bar though, so maybe not at as cold as daytime approaches. Meeting women through your social circle has to be much more common but you still gotta be able to flirt and showcase your personality and that’s where all the cold approach practice will really pay off. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | For cold approaches do you try to chat them up first or just be more direct and ask for her number?Yeah you gotta show off your personality a bit or else you’ll be relying a lot more on your looks. I like to not-so-subtlety imply that I approached because she was attractive rather than out right saying “you’re cute”. I just feel like the “I think your cute” line, especially as one of the first things you say is just so generic and doesn’t showcase your smooth language skills. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says “that’s so nice of you” after complimenting her?Probably just a go to phrase to say when someone compliments you. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | What can I do to be more attractive, before entering college?Get your class schedule set up asap and get a jump on the harder topics so you’re better prepared. Remember hanging out with women is a time constraint too, so the easier you have it hitting the books the more time you’ll have to go out/socialize. | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach never worksYeah the cold approach is hard, even for good looking, smooth guys, the colder (daytime) the harder. It is not the norm for how most relationships meet, but it’s not that uncommon either. Cracking at it though provides crucial real world practice, so I still recommend people do it. I would say however, your level of failure though likely speaks more to a bad approach style which is turning women off or maybe just your looks. Don’t despair though, because looks factor far more in a cold approach … | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think and do you think it’ll workSounds convoluted and like a totally l fake ploy in order to manipulate. Even worse you sound like a jerk testing whether some random girl is a “bitch or not”. I’d recommend you start by maturing up bit. Anyways, it’s high school, can’t you just spark up a conversation in a sincere manner and just follow up every time you cross paths, since you go to the same school. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What are signs of interest from a girl during conversation?Look for the long and/or deep stare. Like when you make eye contact while talking, does she tend to hold her gaze as if she’s looking into your soul? Or kinda scan your face as you talk? All good signs. The real green flag is when you can feel her staring at you when you’re not focused on her. For example, if you’re talking to someone else but you can still feel her stare is focused on you. If she begins laughing at even your most minor offhand jokes, that usually get chuckles, that’s good sign.… | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How am I supposed to stay motivated as a short guy trying to game?It is for sure a handicap no doubt. BUT you can overcome it. I’ve seen it myself several times, maybe not with all women but it shouldn’t deter you. ALSO, why can’t you just stick to shorter girls so you’re still relatively taller? Like there are still tons of great petite girls out there. | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls to grind you?First things first. You should know how to dance, with or without a partner. If you’re on the dance floor and you’re not dancing, you’re doing it wrong. Nothing expert, just the basics, there’s an endless amount of YouTube videos nowadays. Learn to dance. At the club, I actually recommend sparking up a conversation while in line to get inside or while waiting for drinks at the bar, if they are in your immediate vicinity. It’s usually not as loud and allows for conversation. On the dance floor it… | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Being confident is hardHmmm I kind of feel like you are mixing up two distinct versions of confidence. There is the literal confidence where you feel fairly certain about something. Like being confident that if you approach a girl she’ll be receptive or if you get into MMA, you’ll be confident that you’ll perform well. Like more of statistical type of confidence. This I think this is related but still distinct from self confidence or what I’ll call self assurance just to distinguish it, where it’s not necessarily conf… | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How did you increase your confidence to approach people?You kind of have to practice at it every day and slowly you’ll progress to a point when one day you’ll realize you did something that would usually trigger insecurities without even thinking about it. But you got to do it everyday and it takes a good amount of time. I similarly lost a bunch of weight at 19 years old, and while it did help, my insecurities still held me back. I honestly didn’t fully feel genuinely confident in most aspects of my life till I was about 24. So it was a long journey … | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 07:09 PM |
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