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| 13 | Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boysOnly with feminism. Something the honey badgers have talked about before years ago: feminism is trying to act like women's pimp. It needs to insist that women are weak and only powerful with feminism behind them to maintain its power. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/23 01:40 PM |
| 99 | Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boysWomen are powerless according to feminism remember | /r/MensRights | 21/01/23 02:05 AM |
| 34 | Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boysvagina hat made in a third-world sweatshop on your head. Nailed it | /r/MensRights | 21/01/23 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Which quote of this BBC's 100 Women laureate is your most favourite?I haven't the faintest notion what possible revolutionary role white hetero- sexual men could fulfill, since they are the very embodiment of reactionary- vested-interest-power. But then, I have great difficulty examining what men in general could possibly do about all this. In addition to doing the shitwork that women have been doing for generations, possibly not exist? No, I really don't mean that. Yes, I really do. Typical. Her problem was never with the system in place or hatred. It's just th… | /r/MensRights | 18/01/23 12:17 PM |
| 22 | Society claims women are good at everything, while men are good at almost "nothing"And slaves were responsible for the operation of a plantation | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 0 | Body positivity seems too onesidedI think you are right, that the men looking like that is mostly a business and making money thing. But I'm not sure that the plus size women thing actually leads to more sales, we would have to see some numbers for that. I assumed the reason was because of pressure from women and women's groups around portraying "unattainable" body standards but I guess it could be both. Still, why were the men's "unattainable" body standards not addressed at the same time? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Body positivity seems too onesidedYes definitely! I say we turn to terrorism and start blowing up malls until something gets done about this, that's how feminism and the suffragettes really kicked off their rights movement. /s The men's rights movent is in its early infancy and definitely still in an awareness phase, were finding our feet. I think the question of this post is why the hell were men ever left out in the first place? Was it oversight? Or do they just not give a shit about men? Or is just pure hypocrisy? Who knows. … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 08:31 AM |
| 12 | All men are (treated like) pigs (by the western society and judiciary)Wait, but I heard that it's all because of the patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Becoming More Masculine and Dominant: Seeking Recommendations for Books and Other ResourcesHey. I'm glad to hear it. Have you read Enlightened Sex by David Deida? Also really good, sort of a continuation of the way of the superior man but for any sex or orientation, I definitely recommend it. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How come there are so many subreddits helping women be proud of themselves while there isn't a single one encouraging pride in men.(except for this one)Less than admirable? Jesus Christ I wasn't expecting that. I subbed to it initially, after reading his responses on that thread I decided to take a look. Immediate unsub. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Becoming More Masculine and Dominant: Seeking Recommendations for Books and Other ResourcesNo more Mr Nice Guy again. Way of the superior man by David Deida | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Supermodel complains she only attracts 'emasculated' menShe wants a confident man who isn't too confident? What does that even mean? I think what she wants is a man that is capable of leading and being the masculine but for some reason is perfectly happy to let her take the role when she feels like it and to take it back whenever she decides she is done. She doesn't want a person, she wants a prop so she can act out her masculine power fantasy yet hand back the masculine role whenever she fancies it so she is free to be feminine, or when shit gets re… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with female bullies/offenders in future scenarios?You're making some good points | /r/MensRights | 05/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Feminism sub and BBC celebrates and encourages women’s anger and rage.I didn't read your wall of text, who has time for that? But I check your follow up comments and you can't even take VERY good advice with any kind of grace, there isn't a chance I'm reading that wall of text, it will be a waste of my time. Half a good message is in its delivery mate, no one is reading it. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/22 10:30 AM |
| -2 | I don’t think I can date a feministYou're full of shit and I don't like you | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 08:52 AM |
| 7 | Have you noticed all the articles etc celebrating single women, but few for men?That song wasn't celebrating singlehood for women, it was more like: put a ring on it and marry me. Hence the dance holding her left hand up. And the lyric was "all the single ladies" and "cause if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it". I still think your point is true but that song promotes marriage if anything | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 08:33 AM |
| 18 | Have you noticed all the articles etc celebrating single women, but few for men?Yes but with no responsibilities or family, there isn't as much of a drive to work so much or as hard. The single life is great for finding a good work life balance and in your free time you can do whatever you want, who wants to kill themselves at work? Lol | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | My thoughts on MasculinityI agree a lot with what you are saying except for the balancing masculinity and femininity. I'll preface what I'm going to say next with this: everyone has both masculine and feminine, they are two sides of the same coin, you can't have one without the other. Just because you are a man doesn't necessarily mean that you are or should be masculine and just because you are a woman doesn't mean that you are or should be feminine. There are some people who have a balanced "core" but most people have … | /r/MensRights | 15/12/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchYeah cause it's all about the usa. Or is because I'm outside of your left right bollocks | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWhat about pregnant women, are they a different case? Sick people already don't get Healthcare so we clearly don't give a fuck about them. Maybe in the US but not where I am from. And old people get social security and other benefits that they can use for housing. That can cover housing as well as food? If you put access to sex at the same level as shelter and food, seriously get a grip | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchNo it can't but do you think it's enough for a baby? An old person? A sick person? If you can't get sex sorted for you by the government they should have that? Why are you even in men's rights? It sounds like you think no one should have rights. Get a fucking grip | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchYou think a space heater will keep people alive in winter? Have you actually been anywhere cold? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 07:25 PM |
| -5 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchYou're an idiot. Giving people space heaters in below freezing winter or shipping them off to be homeless in warmer states are not good ideas, wouldn't solve the issues and just create more issues. You're embarrassing, stop. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchExactly. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:52 PM |
| -4 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchOr how about just shelter | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchThis is a simple thing So why has it not happened then? You can't just change laws like that when others oppose it. Get fucking real | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:37 PM |
| 0 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchMaybe in Africa but in America and Europe, you definitely need shelter. It's -4 C at night where I am right now. People will definitely die in that | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchNo worries | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWhich they agree with doing for basically everything else(Healthcare, education , food housing etc). So that's the hypocrisy . Except prostitution is controversial and currently illegal in the US and other places. As well as having it's own issues like sex trafficking and exploitation etc that doesn't have a simple answer or fix. If it wasn't for that, id agree it might be hypocrisy. But it's an outlier to your examples so there is no real comparison to be made and hence no hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWho's paying for the vouchers then? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchIts not a whole other conversation..its the most direct way to address the issue of sexless men that many other countries already do. There are far more things to consider about legalizing prostitution than this one issue. The people who oppose it try to make it this big complicated issue and it is not. And how do you propose getting around those people in a democratic country? Its a straightforward solution as old as time itself and if we know what's good for us we'll legalize this quick. And i… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchThe government pays all that stuff for you does it? I have no problem with prostitution in the same context. Read the conversation | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchLegalizing prostitution and vouchers to attend a few sessions a year is an example You used the word vouchers instead of tokens. The example I gave was legalizing prostitution, a very obvious voluntarily activity. Sure. But legalising prostitution is a whole other conversation, one with it's own pros and cons with not much political will or agreement on either side of the political spectrum. To say that the left isn't doing it right now makes them hypocrites is a bullshit argument. Get real. Men… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWhen an incel wants redistribution of women, suddenly all lefties ironically understand and argue that free will (free market) is more ethical The second comment on this thread, the very first one I replied to mate. It allows women to profit legally for having sex with men they otherwise would not. So its win win. I'd argue that that favours women at the expense of men. Women effectively would just be paid to have sex. If a man want to sleep with a woman, hell have to cough up a token. Sure does… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchIt's not hypocrisy at all. It's a weak argument. If you want to talk about legalising prostitution, talk about that. Not redistributing women (what started this thread). Personally I'm for addressing the root issues of this problem rather than sticking a bandaid of prostitution on it. The left or any government cannot make anyone love you, that's what incels etc need. Love and intimacy, not prostitution. Talking about it as hypocrisy of the left is absolute bullshit. Thinking the left can just l… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:24 PM |
| 0 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchNo I don't agree. I don't think women and money are comparable at all. Sorry | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchI'm not. You read the entire thread right? I'm pointing out how stupid the arguments are | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Mens Rights Movement is talking about equality in the courts, education and healthcare as well as perception of gender in media and culture. Feminism is talking about entitlement and privilege.Thanks for the advice. I said I don't know how but I'm a bit to preoccupied with myself anyhow at the minute. I was part of a men's group at one point, men's rights only ever came up tangentially but I think I would have been preaching to choir a bit haha. Fucking groupthink You're probably right. Nothing turns me off anything faster | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchYeah, typically the exploited working class that the wealth redistribution seeks to address. Wether you have money doesn't mean you earned it using your body or whatever so what is your point? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchYes, when it comes to sex because it requires the body and will of another person. Is the distinction there not abundantly obvious to you? Why do you think that this point should be over looked? Besides, prostitution isn't going to solve the incel issue, as what they need it romance and intimacy, sex is just the doorway. So how are we going to distribute intimacy? I thought the right was all for personal freedoms and liberty, except when it comes to womens bodily autonomy apparently. And aren't … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 4 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchIt's not crazy at all. The argument above is completely stupid. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:45 PM |
| -2 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchTypically not the person who will be taxed | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:44 PM |
| 0 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchOkay, if the comparison is sex/romance, not women like the OP said it's still not comparable: You need another human to have sex, and to distribute or determine where that sex happens necessarily means that you will have to infringe on somebody's free will somewhere as acting on their free will right now is not bringing about the desired outcome. However you do not need another human to have money and so you having money affects no others free will or rights. You don't need to use your body to g… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchDon't see anything particularly bad about that idea on the face of it. Apart from it just being a tax on men and giving it directly to women. What's to stop a woman from demanding one of the vouchers to continue a one night stand? So it would have it's problems. Why does the left need to be in support of it though? Why isn't the same criticism directed at the right when they haven't done anything like that either? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:24 PM |
| 4 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchDown votes? What is it you disagree with? That women and money are different so the same logic can't be applied? Please answer | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:04 PM |
| 0 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchThey are advocating for policies that consolidate sex for who? And how so? Give me an example. I'm pretty sure that people's personal freedoms freedom's like who they wish to have sex with trump's any argument like that anyway. So how is there a disconnect in that reasoning? Sex isn't a commodity that you can redistribute but explain how you think they should be going about that | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWhat point? How is comparing redistributing people, woman, to redistributing wealth in any way a good argument to make? Women are not resources and wealth, so saying lefties think this is okay and the other isn't should be obvious, no? That doesn't expose any kind of double standard or paradox in logic, I hope most people make a distinction between people and objects when applying arguments. So what's the fucking point of his comment? It just makes lefties sound more reasonable to me. And the co… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 02:38 PM |
| -13 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchWhat are you actually saying? Are we comparing one unit of currency, a dollar or something to one woman? If so thats not the case. What the hell is this thread? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 12:25 PM |
| -14 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchSure but the comparison is crap | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 12:24 PM |
| -24 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchMoney and women are completely different things though dude. I don't that comparison is any good | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | stuck between a rock and a hard place.women being child bearers really rubs me the wrong way That's sort of reality dude and there is no escaping that. It's something you will have to accept. In case I'm misunderstanding, because I don't really get how nature and reality can rub you the wrong way, please explain. But to the main point of being more egalitarian in relationships, while it's a noble sounding goal, you should be careful that you do not lose what attracts you to one another within your relationship. Without the poles of … | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Misandry IS systemicOh okay. I thought it might have accidentally got me instead of the comment above | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 10:09 PM |
| -6 | Mens Rights Movement is talking about equality in the courts, education and healthcare as well as perception of gender in media and culture. Feminism is talking about entitlement and privilege.I don't know why you are getting downvoted. That's a good point. I don't know how to do any activism however and turn this away from just being a hobby for me. Although I would say the mrm is still in its infancy and perhaps not ready for large scale activism. To be honest I don't want to be an activist, I want to just live my life. I'm quite happy to just keep talking about it for now and hope that awareness and conversation spreads the idea to a larger audience where things can change in it's … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 09:52 PM |
| -15 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?This thread is a dumpster fire. The OP is clearly pretty angry, I'm not sure why. This place isn't usually like this I swear | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Misandry IS systemicDid you mean to reply to my comment? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 10 | Misandry IS systemicIs it? You don't save children because you hate them and think they are weak, it's the opposite of hate. The same for women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Advice for someone who’s never had a romantic relationship?Check out "The fearless man" on YouTube. It's not a quick fix by any means but if you put the work in it definitely helps, it has for me at least. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice for someone who’s never had a romantic relationship?Check out "The Fearless Man" on YouTube. They offer pretty much exactly the resources that you are describing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/22 10:07 PM |
| 23 | Double standards even on hairI'm not a geneticist, but from my understanding the "baldness genes" are carried on the X chromosome. It doesn't matter in the man who fathers your child is bald or not, your sons likelihood of being bald is much more dependent on the mother's father being bald. So it's a moot point anyhow | /r/MensRights | 07/12/22 08:16 PM |
| 17 | 3rd world feminism and what it means for usI don't know an awfully lot about what is happening in Iran but I don't get this "it's all about women's rights" nonsense. If rights for women could be fixed there it wouldn't be some super great place to live. It's the people of Iran Vs a fundamental religious regime that is backed by both male and female religious extremists. It's not a feminists Vs evil men thing. I'm pretty sure people out there are fighting to not live under the regime, not just fix things for women | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceOkay, this is a you thing cause I never did anything of the sort, have a nice life | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceNo you didn't. And where did I make fun of you? | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 12:00 AM |
| 10 | WE DON'T HATE WOMEN, we hate feminism, can people get this thru their damn skulls already?While that can and does happen, it doesn't really invalidate actual criticism of real ideologies and the impact they have | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 12:35 PM |
| 16 | WE DON'T HATE WOMEN, we hate feminism, can people get this thru their damn skulls already?So you're point is that feminism has no impact on anything whatsoever? Or why not blame feminism then if it is someone's fualt? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceI said you seem proud. I didn't say you were. If you agree that you are proud then that's you | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 12:07 PM |
| 21 | WE DON'T HATE WOMEN, we hate feminism, can people get this thru their damn skulls already?Or it's that men have always had problems yet feminism is getting in the way of any solution whilst simultaneously not achieving much for women | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceYou said you think I sound proud Nothing to do with your feelings, duh. the country What country? Then we'll see if you think PTSD is some lighthearted joke. That is literally the opposite of what I'm saying, you special case. Bye now | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceI didn't and I'm not going to | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceThe word proud is in my comment, where I said you seem proud of it. Yes it is shit, my point exactly. It doesn't validate you | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Speaking out about sexual assault committed by women towards men (especially gay men) always turns into a competitionIs it bigger or smaller than your dick ? How about your brain? Showing yourself up here lol. But it's cool, you used some big maths words so you won haha | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceExactly, why would you be proud of it? You're wearing it like a badge of honour. I don't know if you think it validates you as a soldier or whatever you are saying you are or it's just all bullshit, I don't care. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceI said you seem proud of it | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceProud of PTSD? Please lol | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Now that females being included in a draft is off the table again expect the “anti draft” activists to vanish without a traceYou don't even see yourself lol. You're doing exactly what everyone is talking about leveraging to improve it for everyone; making it all about women | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 11:17 AM |
| 2 | What do you love about being a man?Sorry, you were pretty clear. I thought perhaps you meant a deeper issue that wasn't being addressed. if you are one of the many men who simply don't fall under that archetype, then you are looked at as defective I think here is where my definition of "masculine strength" and yours may differ. I know the archetype is a big burly man but I think that is mostly superficial. Being a man that people look to to handle a crisis runs much deeper and has a lot more to do with character than muscles or a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/22 07:17 PM |
| 7 | What do you love about being a man?I agree with everything you've written here pretty much. My personal thought on this issue is that "victimhood culture" is a symptom of a much deeper issue and as long as this issue persists unabated, this particular symptom will also remain undying. I think the bigger "problem" is that western civilization is weathering what I call the Age of Atonement. Especially this. I agree that it is a good thing that these past and current wrongs are being unearthed. It's why I used the word incentivised,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 08:56 PM |
| 12 | What do you love about being a man?I don't actually think this gender role is healthy, but I don't see it going away any time soon I was thinking of writing along the same lines as your comment but couldn't be bothered to put it into words. However I disagree with what I have quoted above. I do think it's healthy. I think there is a current zeitgeist in our culture that being the victim is good; as things are, victimhood brings a type of power along with it. I don't think that that is healthy, I think we should be striving for se… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 07:13 PM |
| 8 | When you come to the realization of the cost it is to be a man..They're not talking about being employed and working full-time. Are you new here? You should read and listen to what people are saying before making pretty irrelevant comments | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 06:15 AM |
| 5 | 75% of men are too scared to chat up womenYou can't blame the simping men either. Simps, nice guys or whatever have come about due to lack of male role models, fatherlessness and the general attack on masculinity in the west. It's the masculinity that has been trained out of men that most women are actually attracted to though | /r/MensRights | 21/11/22 08:49 PM |
| -2 | 75% of men are too scared to chat up womenYou're right. I'm all down with men's rights but this is definitely a two sides thing. Not that I'm blaming men for how the cards are stacked against them, because they are very unfairly stacked. But talking to women or anyone and having good interactions is a skill and not one men are naturally equipped with. It can be developed and you can get good at attracting women, it is mostly about confidence and how you view yourself. Some of it is physical attributes sure but not everything. It's not p… | /r/MensRights | 21/11/22 08:30 PM |
| 5 | 75% of men are too scared to chat up womenThat's a good idea and I can't believe I haven't seen it before | /r/MensRights | 21/11/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | US Police Violence is 9x More Gendered than RacializedYou should just be clear mate, because you're not coming off well. Talking about delivering a message, you're really not doing well | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 11:14 PM |
| 13 | US Police Violence is 9x More Gendered than RacializedOf course you wouldn't, because it's not about women | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 08:03 AM |
| 3 | feminists complaining about objectification meanwhile they do the exact same to menI am paying attention to women. I never said a woman can't explicitly want to ever fuck you, I said the reason why are different. I don't think the answer to all this gender stuff is to ignore gender completely. We have to recognise our differences for the good. And sure, the differences are general and not individual but that doesn't mean they don't exist It's not bioessentialist, it's reality. How would your friend, a woman, know that women are just as visually sexual as a man. Because she has… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 02:37 AM |
| -3 | feminists complaining about objectification meanwhile they do the exact same to menYou're missing the point. Why exactly are you fine? Is it because you as a person with your personality and body are sexy? Or is because you provide stability and security, through your demeanor or behaviour or however. Is it truly your body they list after or what they perceive that you provide? I'm not saying you're wrong or right, but are you actually evaluating what the above poster is talking about? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | feminists complaining about objectification meanwhile they do the exact same to menYou're right. There is nothing wrong with anyone raising their standards, it might bight them in the arse, but they are free to do as they wish. We are free to raise our standards too and we should | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .I think it's a pussy move to move to a private chat when you are handed exactly what you asked for. You started it in public, reply in public, what's manly about moving it to a private chat? Explain | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .I'm just agreeing mate, if you want to define your worth by if you eat pussy or not, that's up to you. I'm not stopping you. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .Right, so I didn't name call. You asked a question and I answered it. Not sure what's so unintellectual about that. And 'thats it dude?' clearly meant you were waiting for a response. Who are you trying to kid? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 10:03 PM |
| 9 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .That is a pussy move yes. You should just post the reply to the comment mate | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:58 AM |
| 9 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .Lol sure | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:57 AM |
| 7 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .Nope, still there. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Feminist in ask how other women could possibly vote for a political party they don’t agree with. The comments jump straight to demonizing women because they’re “paired with their oppressive class” and infantilizing by claiming they must be brainwashed by men, religion, their families, etc.Always the same. Was the same thing with women supporting the regime in Iran. As soon as women are also to blame for something, outcome the misogynistic talking points of how women are incapable of making their own decisions, that infact a man is pulling the strings because women are too weak minded I guess? I don't see how feminists and the likes don't hear their own sexism, but I guess it's always okay when they do it | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:08 AM |
| 11 | So I have a genuine question and want to gain understanding .Why aren't t you responding to the guy that gave you all the information you asked for? Instead you're here getting into a bitching match with this guy? He's right, you are a pussy | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:04 AM |
| 11 | Top AskFeminists post: "zero pity for men for not having sex"That just isn't true. Yes there are people who will do better relationship wise if they improve themselves and their attitudes but that is ignoring the large trends that are happening in relationships for both men and women. Tinder and dating apps etc. It's not just about some men being assholes and therefore unable to get sex. I think we are finding that there is a lack of life experiences for men and roles of provider and protector etc that make them attractive to women. Boys have no initiatio… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | r/menslib is a fucking hellscape. Sorry if i've miss flaired it , just dunno what it comes under.There are already many women here who care. Women are the reason that I got in to men's right in the first place: karen Straughen and the other honey badgers. You can check them out if you want to see what they actually look like but frankly being a woman has nothing to do with it. I think it's just understanding that there are two sides to the gender issues coin, that men's own experiences and wants are also valid. That gender issues aren't one sided (men oppressors and women oppressed) and tha… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Gender ideology is feminism.The whole gender doesn't exist beyond a social construct is so obviously bullshit I can't even wrap my head around how anyone can entertain the idea. But I'm not going to go into that here. I'm going to preface the rest of my comment with that I completely support the transgender community and their right to do whatever they want with their bodies. If you are mature enough to make the decision, fully informed and have done enough reflecting I think you should be allowed to do whatever, you aren'… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t have rights?you saying feminism is inherently misandrist in its values You know everyone can read feminist texts and see for themselves right? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism | Violence against women and girlsincels keep believing "women" are the reason they're not happy in their own life, the longer this problem keeps going on You're just not listening are you? You are still just blaming them. You are the problem. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Vaush showing a heavier MRA leanI don't think it's that, or at least not completely. The bad boy being desirable trope is everywhere, and they are not just desirable to women with low self esteem. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/22 10:38 AM |
| 7 | According to the Atlantic, we should unite with, not oppose feminists when trying to fight for men's rights.How about something not in Iran? Summing up what is happening in Iran as men vs. feminism is fucking ridiculous. It's the people of Iran against the fundamentalist religious regime. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Russia could start conscripting women into Ukraine warWhere are the hateful ones? Do you mean hateful of feminism? I think that's pretty fair. Absolutely nothing wrong with hating an ideology. If you mean hateful comments of a demographic being at the top well then you are just wrong | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Russia could start conscripting women into Ukraine warHere you again lol. Who is being sensitive? I get what you are trying to say but what's with all this 'your sensitive and bitter' nonsense? Completely undermining your own point | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Russia could start conscripting women into Ukraine warYou didn't insult anyone but you started coming with crap like "no need to get emotional" when no one was. Or "bitterness isn't attractive" when no one was bitter. You never really answered his questions at all really | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 8 | According to the Atlantic, we should unite with, not oppose feminists when trying to fight for men's rights.Now what am I meant to do, post a bunch of links to articles about men shutting down feminist events with threats of violence, protesting against a law that would grant women equal rights Please do | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | everything is geared towards women yet somehow I'm privilegedWhat happened to the homeless women? Did they all die or something? Or were they just never homeless to begin with? | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 09:27 PM |
| 14 | Australia: New funding to promote healthy masculinity among young menWhen was standing up for what's right ever not a part of masculinity? You must be right, it's not the masculinity they are changing there, it's 'what's right'. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhI said you are like a sociology cultist. Just like someone in a cult only gets their information and world views from the cult and ignores any other information. You said they get trafficked in China as traditional brides, so which one is it? | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhNot the question I asked. Sociology is not above politics, and it certainly isn't bigger, but it's down in the mud with it, one would inform the other. So how do you separate the science and 'facts' from the politicisation. Exactly the same as how you mentioned before that the sciences can be politicised, the same question of sociology. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/22 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Just unsubbed from r/MensRights. Here's whyYeah, I looked over a couple on your profile and they definitely didn't deserve downvotes. I'd say that the one where you were saying approaching venue about the ladies night before suing would be the better way to go is right. However I think you're getting the downvotes because you are pissing on the fire a bit and a bit condescending with the whole 'reread your own comment' thing. Not that I'm trying to criticize you, because you were right, I'd just say there is a time to temper the reaction… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 13 | Just unsubbed from r/MensRights. Here's whyI'm there because it is where the conversation is happening. I like it here, but there really isn't much going on and whenever there is any discussion everyone is always already in agreement. This isn't an echo chamber, that isn't fair. But this place is not shaping the men's rights movement or how people view it. That is happening over there and to check out, is in my opinion, lazy and remiss. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/22 12:09 AM |
| 55 | Just unsubbed from r/MensRights. Here's whyThere are commenters there who are more right wing and traditional sure. I don't think the answer is to nope out though. By leaving it your are allowing it to fall more to all of those elements you listed. I don't agree with some things I read there but I try to call them out, discuss them etc. I personally don't see the point of removing yourself and solely focussing on a group you already agree with. What do you get from that? Why not stay and discuss? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/22 06:50 PM |
| -4 | Dearborn dads get school board to buckle — providing an example to America’s menI'm not sure. The only example they gave of the books they are protesting was something called 'This is gay'. Doesn't sound all that bad to me. Seems more like puritan sex negative nonsense. The image had a woman holding a sign saying keep a children pure. Don't see what any of this has to do with men's rights | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 06:46 PM |
| -2 | Trans woman didn't disclose she was trans before sleeping with meI think what you are finding truamatic is the shame around it rather than the act itself. If you had never found out it wouldn't have bothered you. That doesn't mean you are transphobic as the shame is coming from external factors, what society says and what other people think etc. It's happened now though and no one need know about any of it. But like the other commenter said, nothing has changed about you and there is no reason to feel shame. Give it a couple of decades when societies views ha… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | When you're down, and troubled, and you need some lovin' care, there's nothing more comforting than listening to a woman explaining why she stopped being a feminist and why men and fathers matter. Enjoy this couple having a normal conversation.That was a really nice. Title is spot on! Also I'm new to this lovism term, I like it | /r/MensRights | 28/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What are some good male-positive people/creators/forums/whatever that you can find online?I've recommended this YouTube channel in these spaces a few times: The fearless man. It's a self improvement channel that focusses on attracting women but at it's core it's about being the best man you can be. But if you're not actually looking to attract any women then it might not be for you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Saying mens mental health is misogyny.She's responding to a comment that is CRITICISING feminists, being a feminist is something that is voluntary. There's a big difference there | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Saying mens mental health is misogyny.Does it? I haven't seen much of men shaming people in men's rights. And does it work? I can't think of a time I've been shamed by another dude and I don't think that would bother me much either | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Saying mens mental health is misogyny.What do you mean? The person being shamed has a penis or the person shaming has a penis? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Saying mens mental health is misogyny.Shaming doesn't work to well here lol | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhFound you again. You didn't answer me last time. How is sociology effected by politicisation and biasses? Or how does it avoid them? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhThis guy is like a sociology cultist. The only truth is what sociology decrees according to him and it's tiring. I was under the impression that North Korean defectors do everything they can to avoid China anyhow, as China will just send them straight back. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhI think it's more women who are content and ENJOY being feminine. They don't have so much of a drive to work and prove their masculine, they are happy to take the feminine role. If you have ever travelled you will notice the difference in one country to the next | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 01:06 PM |
| 12 | What the fuck is this? This is what feminism is doing to men.They're really not | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Please BAN MeDude, are you lying about this sub popping up even if you're not subscribed? Fucking SWEET! I always figured it was too niche for that | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Do y’all realize there’s hundreds of local Facebook groups with 23k+ women, where they can anonymously post your photos and other women can reply to gossip/shit talk/spread defamation?That could work but I would say go lightly with that approach as you could scare away many women who would easily misconstrue what you are saying. I would say just keep an ear out for misandry and then challenge them on it and see how they react to that. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Do y’all realize there’s hundreds of local Facebook groups with 23k+ women, where they can anonymously post your photos and other women can reply to gossip/shit talk/spread defamation?I've not been in your situation so I don't know how it feels but that was the action of a person, not a group. Just like any other person could wreck your life in a number of ways that you will never be able to avoid but you can't infer that the whole group are just itching to do the same and live in fear of that. I'm not saying you can't be scared. However I don't think you should let one bad person wreck your life and continue to have power over you. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Do y’all realize there’s hundreds of local Facebook groups with 23k+ women, where they can anonymously post your photos and other women can reply to gossip/shit talk/spread defamation?You're gonna get dangerous and untrustworthy people along with whatever you do in life, they will always be there. You shouldn't stop living your life though, don't let them win. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 07:22 PM |
| 34 | Do y’all realize there’s hundreds of local Facebook groups with 23k+ women, where they can anonymously post your photos and other women can reply to gossip/shit talk/spread defamation?Whoa there buddy. Tarring a whole demographic with the same brush (what a lot of feminists do) is the main reason I ended up in this sub. We shouldn't be doing the same. This is men's rights, not a women hating sub | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Teachers Are Hard-Wired To Give Girls Better Grades, Study SaysGet the fuck out of here | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 05:59 PM |
| 4 | I feel that feminists/most women will never be able to empathize with men's issues, because they've been indoctrinated their whole life to see men only as oppressors and subjugatorsI agree that you can't take anything more than a broad point from the graph | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:58 AM |
| 7 | I feel that feminists/most women will never be able to empathize with men's issues, because they've been indoctrinated their whole life to see men only as oppressors and subjugatorsOh yeah the graph is crap. Everything is far more complex than that | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:43 AM |
| 12 | I feel that feminists/most women will never be able to empathize with men's issues, because they've been indoctrinated their whole life to see men only as oppressors and subjugatorsIt's a diagram making a point, these is no data or measuring going on lol. The top of the top is just blue, and the rest is both. If you're saying that's how it should be that is definitely not true. It is definitely also blue at the bottom. People who work dangerous and deadly jobs, homeless people, prisoners, people who are sent to war. The vast majority of them are men, the disposable class, at the bottom. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:38 AM |
| 4 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityIt seems to me that you definition of a man is centred on how you feel about it. What does this mean? How do you figure? Historical woman have been disadvantaged by men. I could count the ways, but I'll be here for a while. But now we found a voice due to progress and it gets taken back by men feeling out of place Who told you this? Feminism? Or are you confident that women always had it worse in the past? That you could pick any time period in history and you would have rather been a man than a… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 7 | I feel that feminists/most women will never be able to empathize with men's issues, because they've been indoctrinated their whole life to see men only as oppressors and subjugators'Your comment makes no sense. Write an accurate one.' If their comment makes no sense logically, explain, it should be simple. How is the basis of his argument flawed? | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityThe power that you talk about is always defined to be the power that is traditionally welded by a man. The whole patriarchy crap does not address the very real power that women also wield, a soft power, but it is power none the less. It doesn't fit the narrative though so you never hear about it. Your whole definitions of what's toxic masculinity and what's misandry then flies out the window | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityHere giving your lectures again telling us what is fact and what is not. Last time we talked you said that science can be politicised. Some sciences in my opinion anyway. I never pointed it out at the time but do you ever give any thought to if sociology has been corrupted by political motivations? It is the MOST susceptible to it and offers the most to be gained by being politicised. How does a sociologist like yourself separate the political from the very little actual, provable science in soc… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 09:08 AM |
| 5 | It's always misogyny and toxic masculinityWelcome to how it feels to be a man, except you are hearing it in just one niche subreddit, not absolutely everywhere your whole life lol Women do have a proven in-bias though, something that men never had. The Metoo movement proves that women have a lot of collective power. That's not the first example of it either, there is the white feather campaign as another one. That shit is sad not the fact that you don't like having a mirror held up to you | /r/MensRights | 15/10/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | 44% of young women identify as liberal vs 25% of young menI'd agree with him. If we're strictly talking about actual feminists and not just the casual kind, then there are no feminists that do believe in equality. The principles behind it are inherently anti equality. This is the brainwashing of subs like this. “They’re the enemy. They’re what’s holding us down. Everything we do is good. Everything they do is bad.” That’s insanely scary. That’s some literal cult like Hitler shit going on. Calm down there. This comment immediately followed it and is als… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 07:31 PM |
| 9 | 44% of young women identify as liberal vs 25% of young menI think it's more that all of the things he listed including men's rights don't have an ideology. Feminism is an ideology that is opposed to equality, which is clear once you look below the surface. Not us Vs them or whatever. All of the others are bad and all of us are good. Good to know. What his comment said is more 'it's all of these are good, feminism is bad' | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 4 | "I think men should be frightened"Its not about who initiates what, its about whether or not its reciprocated Well yeah obviously. But you can have a scenario that is included in your conditions where two people rape each other. Which is patently ridiculous. How can two people rape each other? It's a scenario excluded from rape by definition so your reasoning for defining too drunk to consent is always rape is clearly wrong. It's a lot more nuanced than 'drunk sex is rape' or whatever. The only way I can make what you are saying… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 10:04 PM |
| 40 | "I think men should be frightened"Yeah I agree, except the wanting to press charges part. I don't think either should be able to press charges. The condition above kind of negates the 'always rape' part though Edit: also I don't think mutual initiation is a thing, one will always have to initiate, the chances of them both doing it at exactly the same time is incredibly small | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 09:45 AM |
| 53 | "I think men should be frightened"What if the other person is drunker? Who is raping who? | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Horrible Moms | The Early Morning ShowYo, answer the question. Let's get to the bottom of it. Do women deserved to be ashamed for being attracted to a man doing dad things well? If you world views aren't fucked up, defend them. Don't pussy out like every other person like yourself who rolls through here. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | We need to talk about this.Yeah, that's pretty much how I understand it | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | We need to talk about this.Cassie Jaye was a casual feminist and now isn't so I'm not sure what your point is? I myself was a casual feminist and am now not. Christina Hoff summers isn't a casual feminist and I'm not really sure about whether you could call Erin Pizzey one A casual feminist is someone who goes along with feminism=equality bullshit without looking deeper, none of them are reading or have read The deceleration of sentiments by definition. If they have, they are not a casual feminst | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 0 | We need to talk about this.How do you figure? | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Horrible Moms | The Early Morning ShowDo women deserved to be ashamed for being attracted to a man doing dad things well? Edit: hang on let me reframe it in the way you did: women get off on seeing a child playing with a man? sick fuckers. Fucking getting off? What are you on? You need to check your fucked up world views and misandry, your the one with a sick mind | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 11:31 AM |
| 18 | We need to talk about this.I want it to be published. So the whole world and the future can look back at it in horror and decide never to pull this kind of shit again | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 01:37 AM |
| 11 | We need to talk about this.I fucking hope so. Maybe this kind of shit is what's needed to wake up any casual feminist to the fucking vile hatred they support | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 01:33 AM |
| 61 | We need to talk about this.This is fucking disgusting. Feminism has really outdone itself, the level of misandry here has actually managed to shock me and I didn't think that was possible. There were a couple of comments on those incel posts on r/science talking about how men should not associate themselves with red pillers and the manosphere as you can pull a bunch of anonymous comments displaying misogyny from some forum or another (not shocking). I asked the commenters if they still associate with feminism when there i… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Horrible Moms | The Early Morning ShowReally what is wrong with finding things hot? It's just demonising male sexuality | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 03:10 PM |
| 24 | Anti-mens rights feminists ask why men don’t talk about their feelings, and then downplay mens experiences every single time they do… And then they blame the patriarchy.Therapy isn't a bad thing. But going to therapy to cope isn't always a solution to real world problems. Therapy isn't going to fix men and the problems they face, society and the discourse around gender needs to change. Feminism needs to get it's act together and stop blaming all of mens problems on men that they need to fix with therapy. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that anytime a man voices frustration with anything in regard to Men’s Rights it is suggested he “hates” women?I would like to talk about men's issues in how we could actually solve them more than just turning to attack feminism. However a huge road block for acting out any solution to those issues is feminism. A lot of those issues will need to be solved by society and government however that cannot happen if feminism blocks any attempt to do so. Talking about it is good and all (when men are actually allowed to and don't have fire alarms pulled to end events etc.) But nothing will come of it if society… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Oxford proposes a special lump tax for men and that women pay lower taxes.Lol stranger/worse things have happened pal Hopefully you could still afford them after the tax | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Oxford proposes a special lump tax for men and that women pay lower taxes.Why? What are you going to do then? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 09:16 AM |
| 13 | What do you think feminist gets right?You think feminists would EVER pin "what does mens rights get right" to the top of their page?! Maybe not no, but I'm here because I want to be better than them. Not try to get my own back | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 51 | Question for all you men.Yes, in the casual feminism=equality sense. But even then I remember being shouted down in class for saying I'd rather have had periods than being forced to fight in WWI after another classmate was lamenting about how bad women have always had it, her example being her period. Which bothered me but I would have still just agreed that I was a feminist because I support equality. But then I went to university and stumbled across a Karen Straughen video and that was that | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Woman Dates Women and Understands MenI've been following Anna Akana for something like 10 years. I haven't watched a lot of her stuff in the past 5 or so but have recently been suggested a couple by you tube. Anna Akana was never really big on sexism etc. in her videos, at least when I watched the majority of what she put out, but definitely a feminist in the casual sense. In some of her latest videos however though she has been going into men's issues, particularly on a video where she talks about a trans man's experience of being… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:32 AM |
| 102 | 17 year old boy being groomed by older woman. "it's happened to me before, and I'd rather she talk to me and waste her time than go after someone who doesn't know better" A few decent top comments.. a lot of despicable ones..People will insist that women and men are equal. Be careful if you even so much as imply that women aren't capable of what a man is in any sort of role where you might get cancelled. That's all forgotten when it's something despicable though. 'It was a man, it had to be! A woman could never do such a thing.' You can't have your cake and eat it, it's one or the other. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | When people in Men's Rights groups talk about how hard it is for them to get matches/attention on dating apps, why do they never bring up the gender ratio of users on those apps?You're right. I stopped using those apps a long time ago and I don't really complain about all that myself. Surely this is something to consider for why men might be attention and date starved in these places, and why it feels like women on there have it so much easier. I think what you are pointing out is just an extension of the same issue and it compounds the effect. I think women will always have an easier time securing interested parties in dating than men do. The disparity between the user… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 06:13 PM |
| 9 | The main thing about incels is that their life is literally harder than everyone else's. In the purest sense.Just checked out your recommendation. Their lowest service costs £1400. For a lot of people, myself included, that would be ridiculous expense for the chance for only 6 dates. I'd be very dubious myself about meeting a woman who is paying that much to get a date. Doesn't sound that great. But then what? He's paying £1400 for a minimum of 6 dates, the issue isn't solved. Maybe something will work out with one but I imagine the awkwardness isn't just going to stop once he is in the date | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 11:04 AM |
| 11 | The main thing about incels is that their life is literally harder than everyone else's. In the purest sense.So everyone should just go on first dates? You have to be taking this piss. Will it still be broadcast on TV or will the government have to step in for the sheer volume of people that would need to date. If you can't get onto first dates, what should you do then oh wise one? and she already knows that you want to be seriously involved in a romantic relationship with her You see dating as something where a man must prove himself worthy don't you? That isn't how dating works, the man is also there… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 10:40 AM |
| 28 | The main thing about incels is that their life is literally harder than everyone else's. In the purest sense.Some people are so out of touch with the situation for most men. Here is part of a comment from somewhere in this thread: Like what? Give some examples. Also, tell him to actually date women and tell them that he wants to go on a date, is looking for a relationship, sex or whatever bla bla bla instead of just approaching women Marie Antoinette here has just solved the issue. Women aren't giving some man any attention? Let them eat cake pussy | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 10:32 AM |
| 23 | The main thing about incels is that their life is literally harder than everyone else's. In the purest sense.Also, tell him to actually date women and tell them that he wants to go on a date, is looking for a relationship, sex or whatever bla bla bla instead of just approaching women. Are you for real? Is there some kind of grammar error or typo in your comment? I can't wrap my head around what you are saying. Please explain. What do you think approaching women is? Tell him to actually date women? This is some real 'let them eat cake' bullshit! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 10:21 AM |
| 13 | Scrolled through r/MensLib and its disappointing.I haven't been to menslib in a long while. But holy fucking shit. The mental gymnastics is insanely hard to follow. Do none of them stop to think maybe there is something in their presuppositions that is wrong? Occam's razor anyone? Jesus christ | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?refinement of our knowledge I cant be arsed to get into a semantics argument pal | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?The goal of science is to better understand our world through the refinement of our knowledge pool by the systematic use of observation and experimentation. You've just told me that observation and experiment doesn't do that. Experiments don’t “establish” knowledge. They validate or invalidate proposed hypotheses. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?That is not the goal of science. Then what is? Experiments don’t “establish” knowledge. They validate or invalidate proposed hypotheses. And then? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 56 | What's happening to homeless men in Denver?Wow, it's just blatant | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?so a person can get a bachelors of science in math. Math classifies under STEM...physics is also applied math. We are just talking past each other here. What has being able to get a bachelors of science in math have to do with anything? To show that math is a science? What would a naming system have to do with that? Physics is not applied math, it applies math but you cannot derive physics from maths. You always need to do physics to derive the physical laws of nature. Math is the tool. Biology … | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 12:25 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Yeah, sorry if I'm coming off as pretty horrible but I can tell you have never studied a 'hard' science from your distinctions and descriptors there. Maths is not a science, it's a tool of science. You only have one example of "physics" being incorrect and that was the sun revolving around the earth. Your interpretation of that is incorrect though. Copernicus is pretty much at the birth of modern science as we know it. Physics never said that the sun went about the earth, that was never physics,… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Fine, if it's a science it's a very soft one. It's not a science where you can talk about 'facts' and absolute truths. It's all inherently subjective, psychology too. I think any real psychologist, the scienceyest of the lot, won't go about talking about 'proven facts'. None of these studies are replicated numerous times or are they? Enlighten me. Applying a 'scientific method' for observations far from establishes 'scientific fact' out of your conclusions. But to the point, show me the experime… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Sociology may try to implement a scientific method but that does not make it a science. You cannot establish any objective 'facts' out of it, it is inherently also subjective. To relate it to the physical sciences is bullshit. Your observations might be scientific but the conclusions that this guy is saying is fact certainly aren't. Or maybe they are, prove it. Tell me what experiment established that toxic masculinity is real | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Yeah, no it isn't science and isn't proven anything. I know exactly what science is and it isn't sociology lmao or this: Then you started getting science where people try to branch together logical conclusions. Yes, you should use critical thinking and ask if you can repeat any experiment performed by sociology and make the same observations. I'll save you time: you can't, there aren't any experiments to even repeat | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Wtf? I didn't ask if the snake was toxically masculine. So what's the non toxic response? To a snake or invading army? There isn't one, is there? The response is rightly violence and aggression. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 01:05 AM |
| -1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?And how should you respond in a non toxic way? Doesn't matter what's coming. Is the snake in your example above toxic for being a snake? Lol | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?You actually replied. Don't care if you have life, good for you | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 12:05 AM |
| 5 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Its toxic masculinity in a nutshell to use social situations to dominate others Is it? Lol are women incapable of that or something? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?No reply, didn't expect any less. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?You were pretty snappy with the last reply, hurry up! | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?No, I don't. You should just sit there and accept your fate when someone or something is coming to kill you and the people you love or else you are toxic? Good luck with that Those Ukrainians sure are some toxic fuckers | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | GF is pregnant after lying about contraceptives — a warning to all my college males out there like meI can't even remember lol | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:08 PM |
| 0 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.You can doubt all you like. Where is this explanation? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Aggression, violence and suppressing feelings? Do they suddenly become untoxic in times of war etc? Or is that for a woman to decide? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Why is it when someone comes with this sociology crap they talk about it as if it's a science and proven fact. It's not. 'get educated' lol just because some other fucker wrote something doesn't make it true. Give me a fucking break | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Using dominance or violence to control or assert superiority over another. And that is specifically masculine how? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is toxic masculinity?Fucking murder? Really? Is poison harmful? yEEeeEp | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.Hi, I agree a with a lot of what you wrote however I still don't think what you are talking about is a universal truth. What you are describing has no room for any trans person as an example. Its a better way of moving forward sure, but it's still only a tool that cannot capture the totality of what we are and hence cannot be applied universally. Also I think it's good advice for any man or woman already in David Deida 'second stage' but probably not right for someone to hear if the are still in… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.You may have been better starting off with this argument then as your point is valid. Your original comment implied that you thought the inverse (it's not the inverse) would be about red pillers and that you thought this to be true Edit: and his initial comment was an opinion, he never presented it as fact. Your valid criticism doesn't completely negate his argument though. You haven't presented any 'inverse' you've just equated it to a similar argument | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:37 AM |
| 0 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.women are essential expendable Sorry what are you talking about? Everyone's argument here is that the attitude that a woman just has to show up is bad and wrong. during sex in an attempt to justify why the "it's his fault" argument has any validity...which it doesn't. No it doesn't, which is his point | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.mentality would posit opposing opinions as they might pertain to delusions about misogynistic perceptions of "feminism" Would they? Have you not just done what you are claiming he is doing? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.in order to take the blame off of some men for simply being bad in bed lol. It's ridiculous That's not what he's doing. We all know that some men can be bad in bed. That's the entire point | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.To simply act as if all that is required for a woman to please a man during any sexual activity is to be "present" is...c'mon, now...do I have to say it? I honestly think you have completely misunderstood the post. You sound like you are in agreement | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.Oh it's incredibly apparent Is it? I asked you to evidence it, not just say it again My individual relationship with my father has no more to do with the author's argument than does the same experienced by any of the feminist you all are fucking talking about If it doesn't then why did you say it did? I asked you to expand on what you meant when you said it allows you to see through the bullshit. I'm not really sure what your talking here otherwise. this used a few outlier examples provided Do y… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.Oh believe me, beloved. I'm settled in After only a day? Okay. You'll be kind of breaking the mold but GOOD! A true test of the validity of any thesis is it's ability to be disproven by an inverse. So, in essence, you cannot "TALK" about one without the other lol Your turn :) You haven't disproven any inverse. Why is red pill the inverse in the first place? All you did was imply that you think it's also true for red pillers (and the original commenter didn't), which could be true, but again, it'… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.This sounds a lot like the work of David Deida and I think it's good for those who are looking for this kind of thing when it comes to sex. Like a spiritual stage of sex. However it seems a little too prescriptive to me and it's not right for everyone. I'd also say what you have written applies to the masculine and feminine, not necessarily a man and a woman | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.No. And that's his whole point | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.I'm a dude and I downvoted you. Seriously what are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.My theory is that men and women are generally as good as each other when it comes to how skilled either is at sex. It's just that men don't complain about sex that leads to the stereotype that men are bad and don't know where the clitoris is etc. I've experienced the 'trying to land a helicopter in a storm' handjob myself | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 11:01 AM |
| 2 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.It's a typo for gaze as in look upon. But glazing could be a euphemism for cumming on someone lol | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.Have any counter examples to back up your statement that it is "completely untrue"? Or anything apart from just your opinion? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.What is the bullshit being promulgated from the manosphere that you are talking about? How has your relationship with your father and partners allowed you to see through it? | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | She can't orgasm? His fault. He can't orgasm? His fault.No one's talking about that, were talking about feminists. Is this a whataboutism? Or derailing maybe? I see this is a one day old account. Please don't do the usual of deleting your account and pissing off the next day. Stick around, debate | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:40 AM |
| 12 | Are there any other male friendly subs on here?Someone recently started a sub called r/lostmanfound pretty new and quiet but it might be something like what you are after | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 10:18 AM |
| 3 | GF is pregnant after lying about contraceptives — a warning to all my college males out there like meYou're a dick. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 3 | "The Narcissist's Prayer" is all you need to know to understand feminism's dismissive attitude to male sufferingMaybe he just wants to see someone attempt to argue it. Like bring what they've got and see how they hold up. I tend to have a lot of fun from just debating itself and I can understand what he means from that perspective. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Is this sub being suppressed via reddit algos or reddit mod suppression?Dandy | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Of the top twenty posts this week on TwoX, fifteen are about men being cruel, insensitive, sexual deviants, rapists and…….underwear thieves.You have me backwards, I'm not trying to explain any creation of attitudes in modern women or the creation of recent stereotypes or anything like that. I don't really care that women are attracted to bad boys and violence etc. It could all be evolutionary or social, it is what it is, I don't care. What annoys me is the hypocrisy and being so blind to women's roles in everything that a bunch of people can become unstuck trying to figure out why a woman might be attracted to a death row inmate. In… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 14 | Of the top twenty posts this week on TwoX, fifteen are about men being cruel, insensitive, sexual deviants, rapists and…….underwear thieves.I was reading that thread of what would happen if all the women of the world disappeared or something along those lines. One of the threads was about inmates on death row recieving fan mail, so women starting relationships with murderers and the likes. Quite rightly I think a lot of people were disgusted with women with this mentality and were questioning how a woman could ever be attracted to a guy like that. But here I am half watching 'the originals' as my sister has it on, it's a spin off of… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.Not what he asked though | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.Maternity leave was done for men? | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.I don't think people are that naive. If it were that simple I think we would see a lot more people self identifying as feminists than we do today. But what is your point exactly? Your comment here basically mirrors what I wrote in the first place | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Is this sub being suppressed via reddit algos or reddit mod suppression?Yeah, it's a he's not wrong but he's an asshole kind of situation. I don't think people are using it as an ideological weapon to justify their hatred, they are winding up in these spaces because there is no where left to go. The anger and hatred is not justified but it's not an invalid response to how people have been treated by society especially when any other method of expression is met with censorship or ridicule. The difference between here and feminist spaces is that the hate isn't promote… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 11 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.I disagree | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 10:29 AM |
| 18 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.The one that accurately describes what it is | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 10:27 AM |
| 20 | Yeah, because if you don’t support feminism, you’re a sexist.I've met people with this kind of thinking in the past. I think it's more that she would have bought into the bullshit of feminism=equality and now is just virtue signalling and flapping her gums in the way she has been taught is right without applying any critical thinking whatsoever. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 21 | American boys and men are suffering — and our culture doesn't know how to talk about itMaybe it's because people who lean left are politically homeless due to feminism coopting the political lefts stance and want to differentiate themselves from it whilst also supporting the traditional left. The right doesn't need to this as people like yourself have already declared them the enemy. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 08:33 AM |
| 34 | American boys and men are suffering — and our culture doesn't know how to talk about itSee what? I'm also subbed to left wing male advocates lol You are dividing this into left Vs right thing because you're trying to draw another line of bad guys and good guys, its just more identity politics and anything you disagree with must be right wing. Both the mainstream left and right don't give a fuck about men's rights, it's not about left Vs right. Where have I claimed any victimhood? Please explain. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 08:30 AM |
| 10 | Is this sub being suppressed via reddit algos or reddit mod suppression?Id rather take the incels or whatever you want to call them than you mate. Seriously, your attitude sucks and is pretty telling to be honest. My guess is you are an incel but you see yourself as a 'good' one. That attitude is not good though and it will not get you laid or approved of, so drop it | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 07:18 AM |
| 37 | American boys and men are suffering — and our culture doesn't know how to talk about itConservatives lol this place actually leans left | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 07:03 AM |
| 15 | Should we have r/AskMRA, to opposed r/AskFeminists?I like the idea | /r/MensRights | 20/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 31 | A bit of my story and why I don't like some commonly given advice.I relate a lot to everything you wrote here. I'm not a virgin and I probably wouldn't consider myself an incel but I'm still not great and meeting and talking to women. People usually get quite surprised by this as I've gotten older I have grown into my looks and I'm fairly attractive now. But being attractive isn't everything, I notice women are more receptive to me in general but nothing happens if I'm not making a move. I'm the exact same as you in that I've always been able to make friends w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/09/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Why i like Andrew Tate And some things of his i do dislike.Brian begin from the Fearless Man on YouTube | /r/MensRights | 18/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Isn't Circumcision Already Illegal?This is a joke right? Training? And what the actual fuck, scraping? You shouldn't have to scrape anything when cleaning yourself | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Isn't Circumcision Already Illegal?No, good hygiene means good hygiene. If you are circumcised, do not think that you do not have to wash your penis. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 10:27 AM |
| 8 | Feminism has resulted in only male characters having interesting writingI only watched the film edit of Kenobi but I really enjoyed how it ended regarding Luke. That he just needs to be a boy. Seems like a sentiment that I haven't really seen or heard elsewhere in anything I can think of. I think story telling is very important and any story that will have its influence will need to be to be compelling so I don't think that the trend you describe will last. The all female versions of franchises like ghost busters being flops will eventually lead to this trope dying … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/09/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”That would be like me saying I didn’t have an opinion before I watched She-Hulk, because my understanding of media is that it will have a positive feminist message That's a non sequitur and nonsense. But sure, is usual for you not to have an opinion on something before watching it. Even if you do watch it, your views will still be opinions. Yes mate, WHEN I watch it I will have formed an opinion, that's how that works. your opinions on media have given you opinions on She-Hulk. You’re looking fo… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”It's an opinion on how the media is right now yes, nothing to do with she hulk itself. Do you think that there isn't any Mary sues etc. In the media currently? A more apt comparison would be I'd eat my hat if an unexpected team win the superbowl this year, not the Giants. It seems you are the one forming biased opinions. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I am a woman. I’m trying to understand the MRM (men’s rights movement) lAn emotional response isn't to be unexpected then right? | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”What opinion? I haven't given one | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”Yes, that's what I said. I haven't said anything about she hulk, I haven't even bloody watched it! | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”Tony stark does turn it around. He has three films and the avengers films to turn it all completely around. But in the first film he is gifted his old reactor by pepper pots with the inscription 'proof that Tony stark has a heart ' which ends up saving him. It is LITERALLY spelled out for you, a common trope of a lesson men need to learn, so what do you mean exactly? Again, well see with she hulk but now it's just speculation as it isn't finished and I don't even watch it or haven't brought it u… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”a female superhero is judged as a representative of all women Are they? And by whom? Most female characters who are flawed tend to be much more accepted than 'just as good as any man' modern superheroines. Eg. Ripley, Alice from resident evil, the lady from underworld etc. Etc. (that's from the top of my head and what I've watched recently) What I've seen tends to be complained about are the Mary sues. If you watch Iron Man 2, you’ll see this a lot. For example, Tony checking out Natasha and her… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 06:21 PM |
| 4 | I am a woman. I’m trying to understand the MRM (men’s rights movement) lWhat danger are you in or how do you feel unsafe on a subreddit? I think anger is being directed at you (and I can see that it is from a couple of the comments) because you have asked a question with many assumptions in mind, the main one being that we are against women's rights. You should stick around with an open mind, no assumptions and not looking to find something that you came here looking to find, and actually see for yourself. If you just lurk and listen for a while, not just bait yours… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”I don't watch it but if a show as mainstream as she hulk turns around and preaches about misandry and how she and by extension women treat men is wrong, going against the grain of feminism and modern media, I'll eat my hat. I hope this happens but I won't hold my breath. But none of that has anything to do with what I said so I'm not really sure what you are getting at. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 6 | I am a woman. I’m trying to understand the MRM (men’s rights movement) lWhy do you feel that way? Have you spent time here? The majority here actually call themselves egalitarians and like me, they support women's rights. It's important to note the distinction between feminism and women's rights, they are NOT one and the same. So any criticism of feminism you see, do not assume that it is a criticism or objection to women's rights. Stick around and see what people here are saying, if you disconnect from feminism=women's rights, you'll see that no one here is against… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many male subreddits develop the “Crab Mentality?”I think you're right about being jaded by experiences they have only read but that is a non gender specific internet wide phenomenon. Granted it's good to point that out but how are you not being a crab in a bucket in this situation? For the most part I see a lot of people coming to grasps with the situation they are in, men's rights is in its infancy, men don't know how to get out right now other than to just completely walk away eg. MGTOW. I haven't seen anyone who is 'out of the bucket' being… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily clown world men live in: got slapped in publicNah mate, you're blaming men and excusing women, not the other way around. The OP said society, you are the one who divided it up into problems with men and women. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Daily clown world men live in: got slapped in publicThat's not your problem mate but yes, type as slow as possible! | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Award-winning investigative journalist Barbara Ehrenreich passed away this week at age 91. Here is what she had to say in 2004 about Abu Ghraib and the alleged moral superiority of women.Yeah she is so close but seems to stop and instead decide 'men originated the evil, but women can also be tainted by it' *shocked Pikachu face. She talked about being naive about accepting assumptions but only goes so far to challenge just enough assumptions that she can restore her world view after being faced with the evidence. Doesn't seem to be able to see that she is still in the same trap she is preaching about removing feminism from. *Shocked Pikachu face - me | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 04:37 PM |
| 12 | Daily clown world men live in: got slapped in publicOf course he's not upset about getting hit, it was consensual. Did you not read what he wrote? What are you on about? For everyone else, do not smack a girl if she gives you a yank, whatever that means. It's not a male problem, again, whatever that means, it's your problem if you're getting your head kicked in. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 04:24 PM |
| 4 | “Women among 10 injured” So if only men had been injured the incident wouldn’t have been as bad? Another instance of society viewing male lives as disposable and expendableI was under the impression that they didn't abduct the boys, they just murdered them. Possibly burned them alive but I'm not sure of that | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Resumes with a female name were 41% more likely to receive a callback than resumes with a male name for software engineering jobsThey were also talking about feminists claims, not feminists | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | why does society ignore the fact that marriage laws are why many men refuse to marry?Ah, I know what you are talking about. I didn't really register anything like that myself at the time so I'll have to rewatch it | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Resumes with a female name were 41% more likely to receive a callback than resumes with a male name for software engineering jobsWell if you want to get all pedantic he was actually attacking their claims, not the feminists. It might have been a movement way back in the past but it certainly isn't now. It's the establishment, one that isn't allowed to be criticised without people piping up to defend it from being 'attacked' apparently. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 104 | Resumes with a female name were 41% more likely to receive a callback than resumes with a male name for software engineering jobsFeminism isn't others. It's an ideology | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | why does society ignore the fact that marriage laws are why many men refuse to marry?What episode was this? I've just recently watched it and I can't for the life of me remember what you are talking about. I have an idea you're talking about Constantine but that definitely isn't the reason if it is her lol | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 06:59 AM |
| 17 | Hanging out with other men has been improving my mental health (gay, 22)You might enjoy No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 11:51 AM |
| 0 | attack misandry not feminismI think you're off the mark here. He's suggesting it as a strategy. He doesn't say anything about himself being a feminist. And unfortunately feminism is SEEN as pro equality, it's not, but it's still seen that way by the majority | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | What are some great books every man should read? Drop some recommendations below!Way of the superior man by David Deida and already been said in another comment but No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover | /r/MensRights | 03/09/22 10:32 AM |
| 10 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?I'm not really bothered about whether people decide to go the surrogate route to start a family. I would question whether it was done out of selfish reasons, of myself especially, as I agree with the other commenter that both a mother and father figure are important for any child. However I think the most important factor is whether it is a loving home, not if both parents happen to be around for whatever reason. Great people have come out of far worse backgrounds, people are resilient and can c… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Opinions? "Men are emotionally unavailable." Yet the first thing women do in a fight is stab at your emotional vulnerabilities.I've been thinking about this quite a bit. Now, I don't really know much about Freudian psychology or much of any of it really, so I can't tell you exactly what penis envy means. But I'm starting to think that it's a thing and Freud was right; a lot of women have a desire to prove themselves to be just as good as a man in anything a man is typically good at. Women, luckily, are capable of doing that Whereas men aren't as we could never give birth to a child no matter how hard we try, and perhaps… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Talking about how even when the relationship fails that fathers are just as much of a parent as mothers and the issue of how society encourages otherwise.. I refuse to engage anymoreLet's take the industrialised world for ourselves since men built it and just kick the women out /s | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | When I was involved in an accident first responders were women and they were afraid to help me. They had to wait for men to arrive.Yeah, they also sound like shit bouncers. But what stopped the guy from hitting you? What happened after? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | When I was involved in an accident first responders were women and they were afraid to help me. They had to wait for men to arrive.For real? If someone randomly starts attacking a bar's patrons as soon as they step out of the door for a cigarette, it is definitely the job of the bouncer to put an end to it. Especially when the person is angry because they were being turned away at the door. What world do you live in that that isn't the bouncer's problem? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 30 | When I was involved in an accident first responders were women and they were afraid to help me. They had to wait for men to arrive.You're right, I suppose it's actually representation rather than equality and I totally get why that is important, especially for those of different races in any public service. But it's not more important than competence in saving lives and doing the actual job. I'm also not sure why WOMEN would need representation separate from men though, it's a farce. Another commenter pointed out that emergency services have lots of esteem surrounding those in the role but I suppose image is more important … | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 221 | When I was involved in an accident first responders were women and they were afraid to help me. They had to wait for men to arrive.My local fire service that I applied for (I didn't get in and I'm sure that was to do with my own shortcomings) the previous year dropped the pass rate for the COMPETENCE test for everyone but white men by 10%. They were more concerned with equality than competence. If I were a woman who made it in that year I would have been fuming! The other week I also stepped out of a bar to a guy that was kicking off and there was only a female bouncer. The guy didn't like me looking at him so he decided to… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 10:40 AM |
| 7 | The She Hulk show is just stupid, Feminist bullshitYeah. Only murders in the building is a really good show. It's just a shame you have to overlook the whole men are incompetent idiots, and if they are not they are evil, where women just get to be normal people aspect. And ignore the fact that the main character fantasises about killing a guy but that isn't ever an issue apparently she's just 'empowered' | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.Men bro. Imagine having to skew history so much to justify the idea that women weren’t ever oppressed. Moron. Complete and utter moron. And I don't think I've actually used any history. Apart from the fact that hunting and mining were jobs and feminism started after the industrial revolution. The rest is just logic. If not, please point out where I'm 'skewing history', not just call me names. And what is her dream job? Why didn't you answer? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 07:58 AM |
| 4 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.You thinking feminism fighting for women’s right to work.. labels them as weak? Um, no. I've never said anything like that... What are you actually talking about? I think women rightly asked for their right to vote and work, but they were never oppressed like feminism claims. My whole point is that your argument that women of the past were oppressed requires that the women were too weak to ask for equality, cause that's all feminism did, was ask and they got it. My argument says they were not we… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.I thought you’d be logical and understanding of gender issues Your comment has no logic, or any argument at all really. Spinning it around to try and paint WOMEN as the ones saying they were weak and less intelligent is wild Again, feminism, not women. And I never said they were less intelligent. That must be coming from you. r/persecutionfetish with a mix of very poor understandings of history I'm saying there was no persecution, from anyone. Its your argument that is about persecution, so I do… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.You thinking women weren’t reduced to motherhood for most of human civilization is very strange. You can’t possibly believe women were thought to be more than just wives and housekeepers for most of history.. right? You don't hear your own sexism, misogyny no less. Just this and just that. But the world of men is apparently everything and all the women of the past were weak and sucked. Business! A masculine world! (definitely not because women weren’t allowed to work or gain an education AND the… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.But teaching women they can function independently without depending on men and very important. Especially when striving for equal relationships. Maybe we are missing each other but sure, I can agree with you there. Women hating their femininity and ability to be a Mother is because a lot of the time- and for most of history we were reduced to just that. I think this is pretty revisionist and wrong. I think what has actually happened, ironically, is feminism has reduced the women of the past to … | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.women aren’t incubators and are also necessary parts of society. No shit, I thought all of that was implied I'm my comment. But women are mothers, not JUST mothers, but their ability to carry and nurse children is the primary role in which they are NEEDED. Side note: why is it that the incredible miracle and gift of motherhood is boiled down to being an incubator in these kind of discussions. If I didn't know any better I would say it seems a lot of women despise their own feminity and womanness… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Reddit is antimale. Unless we get active in real life, NOTHING will change. We must start creating local subs so we can organise in real life.Both can do the exact same shit That is so obviously not true. Men don't have wombs primarily and women aren't capable of the physical abilities of men. If you think women NEED men to survive and teaching girls to be independent is bad. There is a very distinct difference between being independent as we know it today and being completely independent, not NEEDING anyone. Nobody can survive alone. Drawing a dichotomy between needing other people with different skills and abilities, society, to sur… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 13 | What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man”The only one in that list a women CANT do is some military roles. Women can do these things, what's stopping then isn't sexism, it's that they just don't want to. If it's sexism stopping them from these harder more dangerous jobs, it must mean there is a lack of sexism in all of these other fields that you find women in and wanting to be in. But I'm pretty sure that's not what we hear at all. There is apparently a lot of sexism holding women back that needs addressing through quotas etc. It can'… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Police remove gender-critcal lesbians from GAY PRIDE parade in Cardiff because they were causing confrontation' with trans groups and their supporters.Well, acknowledging that kind of bias is the first step in overcoming it I guess | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Police remove gender-critcal lesbians from GAY PRIDE parade in Cardiff because they were causing confrontation' with trans groups and their supporters.I don't know, did he? So why do you support him then, or not the lesbians or whatever. What's the difference? Jordan Peterson is also unacceptable then if he did get kicked off, right? | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Police remove gender-critcal lesbians from GAY PRIDE parade in Cardiff because they were causing confrontation' with trans groups and their supporters.I don't think Jordan Peterson ever goes around causing confrontations with sexualities he doesn't like at PRIDE events. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Do women need men need women?I think you undervalue a lot of men there, the 'weaker ones'. And I don't know how you came to your conclusion but I think it's unfair. There is not just a few amazing men and the weak fodder for the menial work. Men are more valuable than just the occasional freaks, there are a lot of men out there doing neccassary work and are good at it, careers a lot of women don't seem to want (which if fine). It's probably what's responsible for the disparity in workplace deaths but society is running on t… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 05:22 AM |
| 0 | should men demand the right to have their own companies?it’s very niche and would never really happen on a usefully large scale just because it doesn’t make enough sense It's already happened and is happening, there are women only companies. and that instead of running away from uncomfy situations, you address them and look for an actual solution. this isn’t sexist, this isn’t telling anyone to man up, it’s a totally genderless concept that boils down to how to correctly address the issue at hand and to not overreact Your right in that that is the id… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How do I be a man?My guess is that what you perceive in your friend as 'manly' and you think is lacking in yourself is confidence. Your friend sounds like the type that for whatever reason has found himself in plenty of challenging situations and conflicts, a 'street dude'. From this he would have gained a sense of confidence. Real confidence, that comes from the KNOWING that presented with another difficult situation, he will be able to handle it. Every man is capable of this as that is what a man is for, handli… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | should men demand the right to have their own companies?I think you are reading way too far into what he is saying. Your 'psychological analysis' is just uncalled for and I think way off the mark. People self segregate by sex all the time, it's fine, the world doesn't end. In fact, men spending time with just men, and women spending time with just women is most of the time a good thing. Men spending time in a group of only men is essential in overcoming the nice guy syndrome and basically essential for every man anyway, according to Dr Robert Glover,… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | should men demand the right to have their own companies?I agree that you are right but your attitude is one of "man up". I think manning up is a good thing but people all have shit to deal with, women included yet they are never expected to just deal with it. I'm bringing women into that to point out the sexism in your attitude for the male case. Becoming more aware and resolving these kind of issues is the ultimate goal but sometimes people aren't ready for that and attempting it or being forced into it when you're not ready could do more harm than … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Club bans staring without 'consent' & hires 'officers' to police venueIt’s just being respectful and having basic communication skills, understanding the ‘yes’ and ‘no’s’ You're right about this part. But the yes and nos aren't in English. These communication skills aren't at all 'basic' for some, especially men. It's a skill that needs to be developed and can only be developed through interaction, not being told do this, don't do that etc intellectually. I think it would be good for all men to learn and develop these skills but there is no manual for what these y… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Looking for Positive Improvement You tube channels to help with my journeyThe fearless man. Really great channel about basically becoming a better man for yourself but it has a focus on dating and interacting with women | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Things college students accused of sexual assault should know.I guess, I can't really say as I'm not too savvy with the technicalities and law jargon haha | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Sexual ViolenceIn my opinion I really can't see what the difference would be between a man raping a woman and a woman raping a woman with a strap on (Not that I think that a woman needs to be the victim, just for arguments sake). Frankly, the only difference is one appendage is flesh and the other plastic. But what that has to do with the trauma or any other horrible thing the victim undergoes I have no idea. Maybe I guess because one could result in pregnancy but I don't think that is the primary issue in any… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Things college students accused of sexual assault should know.Hi, I'm here because I got tagged. I want to clarify what she meant by confidential. What I said was I think the accused name should not be published or made known to the public until a guilty verdict is found. I'm not sure if that's what you already understood but I meant it in a way to protect the reputation of the accused and their privacy. When and if they are found guilty is a whole different matter | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?👍 | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?More time to properly get back to you This is bizarre. My experiences are not invalidated by anything you can say, or even by your bizarre comments. I'm not invalidating your experiences. But your experiences aren't facts, they are anecdotes, not some absolute truth. Which you are using them to claim. It's pretty simple, I don't see how it's bizarre. I'm not making my argument, I'm saying that these things have been my direct repeated experiences for decades. No you didn't you made an absolute s… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?You sure argue like a feminist. See it's my experience that feminists arguments are usually just air like your comment above. No substance | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?Wiser and calmer heads than mine have also tried, to the same effect. It's not a matter of delivery and never was. The guy you first replied to, myself and Cassey Jay are all examples to the opposite. Your experience isn't truth. If your argument that your experience says one thing is true was valid, it will also validate every claim by every feminist that "all men are this or that" based on their experience. It's a bullshit argument used to justify bigotry. While your claim is not bigotry as fe… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?No, it's 3 decades of direct experience telling women and feminist what feminism actually says and does. They don't care. If you're telling them how you're coming at it right now, I'm not surprised really. But she still is a feminist in my opinion. She shudders at the idea of being called an MRA, and she would rather be helping girls in some foreign country. She still does not care about men and boys here. She never said she was an MRA. What's wrong with helping girls in some foreign country? Sh… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?5 hours and still waiting. /u/peaceful-domination I'm glad you're here. Here we welcome argument and critical thought, just please actually engage. Don't just cherry pick your arguments to reply to | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 07:18 AM |
| -2 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?No, they are not. They never have been. And nothing you can say to them will change that. That is some absolutism and black and white thinking. We definitely should be careful not to do the very thing we criticise feminism for. The person you are replying to and myself were in positions that the vast majority of feminists probably are. Casual feminists like Cassey Jay who given the chance to actually see it wouldn't call themselves feminists any more. I think it's why the no true Scotsman argume… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 07:12 AM |
| 6 | 'The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality'I'm glad we have someone here that doesn't delete their comments or account hours after posting. I just wish her arguments were better, it's no fun to debate when their arguments are weak and hold no water | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 27 | 'The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality'Can anyone remind me of a quote that goes something along the lines of 'to find out who really holds power, just find out who you can't criticise'? I think it's pretty relevant here | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 06:57 AM |
| 47 | 'The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality'Nah, u/peaceful-domination is a monument to how tolerant this place really is. She doesn't know it but she's inadvertently helping lol | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 13 | 'The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality'Got anything other than anecdotes? Something we can measure and a little less nebulous? doesn’t have other people gauging his status by his partner, doesn’t need to work in opposite-gender dominated fields Those two just simply aren't true. It takes like 5 seconds of thought to figure that out, comon | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.Were talking about a subset of both. But all people should be treated as innocent until proven guilty whether they are actually innocent or not. The justice system isn't perfect though, there are those who are innocent but we're wrongly found guilty but that can be a little murkier obviously | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 3 | What is your story? What got you into men's rights? I used to be a massive supporter of feminism. I am not now. I do not hate women. I support them. I wish they would do the same. Let's tell our stories.I had very similar experiences and went through a red pill-ish (mostly just Karen Straughan videos) phase about 10 years ago. I moved away from gender issues entirely for a while but I'm back now. I'd say there is a much larger world out there where most people are sensible and if given the opportunity to see beyond disingenuous takes and sound bites, like Cassey Jay, would hands down agree we have a point. I disagree with where you go at the end there. I think men are just lacking the liberatio… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 3 | What is your story? What got you into men's rights? I used to be a massive supporter of feminism. I am not now. I do not hate women. I support them. I wish they would do the same. Let's tell our stories.You sound like a strong dude | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 3 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.It would be in the hands of the police and court, just as it is now. The only difference would be their name would not be published, just as it happens right now for the accuser. If the accuser names them publicly then they would be slandering or in contempt of court. Once a person is found justly guilty, then the protection of anonymity would be gone. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.The accusation comes well before the verdict and conviction so the causality in your argument is backwards. I definitely think their should be legal modifications, protecting the identity of the accused would be a good example that would prevent a lot of the damage a false accusation can inflict. Edit: I think you would have to be living on another planet to believe that a verdict of innocent results in no harm no foul | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 5 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.Women are allowed in those fields and roles, its very illegal for them not to be. there will always be fatalities at work and everything should be done to reduce these. The real issue it is pointing to is that men are dying at work at this disproportionate rate and yet no one seems to care. People are worried about miniscule differences of income between men and women and the glass ceiling, but never the glass floor. These men aren't doing these jobs for fun, our society depends on them and so m… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:54 PM |
| 4 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.Whether it actually ends up in a prison sentence is frankly irrelevant, the majority of damage has already been done and is very hard to undo. It would be like claiming that everything is all okay for a victim of rape once their rapist is in prison, completely ignoring the very real trauma | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.Wow, he abdicated his throne for this? It's some post alright! | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 6 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.And the 9X more chance than a woman of dying at work is obviously pointing to an issue in society for men. I get what you are saying but it is a men's rights issue just as something that disproportionately affects women is a women's rights issue. Many issues for women are framed in the exact same way and if it's a fact then I don't see the harm in using it to point out the underlying issue. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 11 | I asked why I need Men's Rights, well this is why.Always just looking for a zero sum game for a God only knows reason. My bet is bigotry | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 11:33 PM |
| 5 | [META] Allying with women will improve men's rights.The modern men's movement in some ways was started when feminism rejected men's issues. Warren Farrell was a feminist, the ideal of what you describe, he started to talk about men's issues in just the way you've said, through a feminist perspective etc. and for it he was silenced. The fact is your idea was tried, it wasn't an oversight by men. The mens rights movement was created out of necessity because what you are suggesting is basically impossible | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Yeah it is. I don't know why you keep going on about it. He asked for one, it doesn't matter if it's a pocket or a sea, there only needs to be one. Anyway, Christina Hoff Summers isn't out on her own lol, there are other people who think like her, she has others on factual feminist. I know that doesn't help the narrative you're trying to build though. By the term “feminism” is meant the modern reigning version Says who exactly? Edit: you're actually just pulling the no true Scotsman fallacy but … | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Sommers' positions and writing have been characterized by the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy as "equity feminism", a classical-liberal or libertarian feminist perspective Reality says different. Don't give a fuck what feminist leaders say mate, never have. But you can carry on taking their lead | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.He asked for a single feminist. It doesn't need to be any reigning brand or anything like that. Why would it? I'm not calling anyone anything willy nilly, the very Wikipedia article you referenced called her a feminist, she calls herself a feminist. Why are you fighting this so hard? Why all of these conditions? Is it possible it's because it disproves a narrative or some thing like that? | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 11:45 PM |
| 0 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Again so what is the point of asking for a non-bigoted feminist when any feminist who isn't bigoted is excluded by definition? She falls under equity feminism according to what you quoted from Wikipedia, but because bigoted feminists don't like her were supposed to be agreeing with them and denying her status as a feminist? It seems like you're all trying to build a boogeyman out of feminism and cherry picking what fits not unlike what feminists do with patriarchy. If every feminist was like her… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Christina Hoff Summers? Asked her what? | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.What? They are completely different things. She is a feminist. She calls her self one. Why is everyone so happy to agree with the bigoted feminists all of a sudden? Unless it's because it's more about making a point that every feminist must be a bigot and deserve hate than actually looking at reality. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:23 AM |
| 0 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Says who? Success? Why are you guys adding rules and suddenly agreeing with the bigoted feminists and using their yard stick to measure who is a feminist unless to make a point? Why ignore reality. Really thought we didn't do that here Of course the non bigoted feminist is going to be deplatformed by the bigoted ones. What exactly do you want? Describe it. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | One of the most telling criticism of Men’s Rights Activists is when they are called Incels. So sex has nothing to do with gender rights unless it’s a man advocating for his legal rights. Then it’s down to the fact he can’t get laid.Oh shit. You're back. Why did you delete your tired comment? And why only now have you come back with all this crap? Did you finally get permission from your wife or whatever lol. Oh by the way why not share how the big bad girls are oppressing you and keeping you down. That should be good From your other comments it sounds like you love that kind of shit, a wet dream for you right? Lol If you want to have a proper discussion and not whatever the fuck that horseshit rant above is, let me know. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Still can't stop her from calling herself a feminist. Nobody has authority over that and Christina Hoff Summers didn't ever stop being one. All of that is kind of missing the point though. You asked for a non bigoted feminist, she is one. If you're not allowing a feminist who disagrees with other feminists in your question, then your question is unanswerable, it's not even a question. So why even ask? | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | This caught my eye for 2 reasons: (i) I wasn't aware of such domestic violence killings in the past (ii) the number of people who seem to celebrate this as some sort of feminist/women-empowering approach +/or find it funny: can be seen in # of likes and with some quote retweets (contd. in comments)There's a lot to read so i skimmed the top. I see enforcement of gender roles but not any old abuse being socially acceptable | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.I think she is making the point that you can't just boot someone out of a movement. She was a feminist during the second wave. Other feminists or others don't have the power to remove the title of feminist from her as if it is a religion where you must defer to the highest authority. There is no such thing in feminism and there is no highest authority. Hence saying she is an anti feminist because large portion of the movement moved away from her isn't exactly right | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 21 | This caught my eye for 2 reasons: (i) I wasn't aware of such domestic violence killings in the past (ii) the number of people who seem to celebrate this as some sort of feminist/women-empowering approach +/or find it funny: can be seen in # of likes and with some quote retweets (contd. in comments)I've heard this 'times it was socially acceptable' thing before but it's only ever second hand. Can you point to anything that backs this up. I'm of the understanding that OUTRIGHTLY abusing women has always been pretty taboo | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Christina Hoff Summers. Look for the factual feminist on YouTube. Allthough most of the time she is arguing against radical feminism and I guess trying to change it from the inside. I don't think she is too well regarded by other feminists obviously | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 16 | saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels.Is the comment deleted already? | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 13 | One of the most telling criticism of Men’s Rights Activists is when they are called Incels. So sex has nothing to do with gender rights unless it’s a man advocating for his legal rights. Then it’s down to the fact he can’t get laid.Source? Or are you just talking out of your arse? You've edited your comment. You previously posted that the more rights men have the more pedos etc. Can you point to an example at least Lol edited again to now you're just tired? What an input, I hope you're having fun lol | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricBecause feminism is broken. It's not a simple misunderstanding between two otherwise equal rights movements, feminism is antithetical to humanism or egalitarianism like you and many people here support. I don't really fall myself an MRA, just as I suspect a good portion of people here do not, the mens rights movement as far as I see it is compatible with egalitarianism, despite the venting. On that point, when there is no other place to vent, the frustration etc. will be condensed into these kin… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | men are people tooLol no one even mentioned being rejected by women. What has that got to do with anything? | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 5 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricBut not for a relationship or fling, they don't want to actually date their own creations | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricI also agree with you here but I think you're coming at it from a both sides are in the wrong view point, whereas I don't think this is true. The mens rights movement in some ways was born from second wave feminism, there probably wouldn't be a modern men's movement like it is today if it wasn't for the rejection of men's issues by feminism. To berate people here and find fault as if the the mens rights movement is equally culpable is disingenuous at best. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Apparently "toxic masculinity" is misogyny while "toxic feminity" is not misandricI can kind of see what you're trying to say but how come in everyone of your examples its up to men to change or do something to fix the problem? For your example of the social isolation problem, you're still placing the fault with men, if men did something differently, it will all be fine is what I'm getting from it. Feminism has been around for some time and it's the movement that holds the power and practically the entire narrative around gender issues, so I'm just struggling to see why you t… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/22 06:30 PM |
| 11 | There are going to be so many kids with father issues in our generationWomen were the more violent gender in the 30s? Have you got sources for this? | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 12:41 PM |
| 16 | There are going to be so many kids with father issues in our generationOP put toxic and violent in speech marks. Why don't you ask them what they feel instead of assuming it? Or why don't you just say what you think instead of trying to put words in other people's mouths. You said it's societies fault, why do you think that u/JaquenHaggar? | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 12:04 PM |
| 19 | There are going to be so many kids with father issues in our generation2 hour old account and unconvincing as fuck. Maybe next time. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Just a little question: What made you a MensRightActivist?I used to call myself a feminist in the same way I suspect the majority of people do: feminism is for equal rights between the sexes, I was on board with that. I'm not sure how it exactly happened but I remember being irked by some of the things I was seeing from feminism when I started to pay attention. This was around 10 years ago when I first went to university. It wasn't long after that that I discovered Karen Straughan however that happened, I definitely wasn't a feminist long after that | /r/MensRights | 27/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | have you seen the movie "men"?Jesus Christ. What a fucked up article and film by the sounds of it. I don't understand how they can't read what they are saying. How is it not obviously disgusting rhetoric to them? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand the circumcision debateYou didn't have a good time with your foreskin though, so I'm not sure why you are making that judgement call? When did you get it removed? Before having sex? It sounds like it might have been medically necessary for you so maybe you did need one all along. Why did you get one done? That sort of puts you in effectively never having had a foreskin anyway in my book, I don't think you can really say what it's like to have a healthy foreskin. You may as well have been circumcised when discussing th… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 07:41 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand the circumcision debateThis guy sounds like he got that circumcision at 14 when whatever happened with him retracting it went down. A similar thing happened to me but I didn't get circumcised, and I'm glad. I'm guessing he never allowed it to heal if it could, might have been medically necessary. The stupidly intense sensitivity that it's painful went away eventually for me, I got used to it. Now that I'm older with some experience in the bedroom, it's honestly all about the foreskin for me really, so I'm lucky I didn… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 6 | I don't understand the circumcision debateHey, I basically went through the same thing as you. I still have my foreskin though, I'm definitely glad I didn't get rid of it, the thought never crossed my mind to be honest. I think you're looking at the child abuse thing from the perspective of the intent of the parents, that defining whether something is child abuse. This is backwards. If the child is abused, it's child abuse. It can be done with the best intentions and through ignorance, but it doesn't make it not abuse. Cutting off a par… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:47 PM |
| 13 | Femcels and How the narrative changes when it affects women. From they are losers (male incels) to what do they need and how can they better their lives (female incels).I think left leaning mainstream media might attack white men most of all but I think black men fare the worst across all mainstream media | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Double standardsHow have I not shown respect? I spoke only about my own foreskin. I think it sucks that you had yours taken from you without choice, I don't think that should have happened or should continue to happen. Being circumcised might be great, I don't know. If I want, I could choose to have it done, but importantly it will be my choice. In any case, we should be honest and not pretend it's just skin. Believe me when I'm telling you now, it's not. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Double standardsMine must be magic then, cause it definitely ain't just some skin | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?It's not like it's of limits to us if it's that great any way. That's the great thing, because we weren't circumcised as infants, that's our choice. It doesn't matter how great it might be, we get to choose. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Sorry, I thought you were being disingenuous with your question | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Genuinely, I feel glad for you, I'm glad women enjoyed your penis. I'm from a country where circumcision is basically only religion and medical reasons. Very few people do it outside of that so uncut is the norm here. A girl did ask me if I was circumcised because I have quite a short foreskin, but no girl has ever complemented me based on the fact that I was intact I'd have to admit. Apart from that one girl it was never mentioned, no denial or disappointment because I was intact. Now I'm not t… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?And again, children do not have rights Woah, what the fuck?! Yes they do! Eh, it's a non-argument. Ain't no adults wanting circumcision. Do you remember the pain of childbirth? Why are you willing to inflict that on a new born then? I can't understand this. If you aren't willing to undergo it yourself again, how the are you able to do that to your own son? He does feel pain, he experiences it. Not remembering is not the same as never happening! Watch a video of a circumcision, please, the suffer… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Nah, of course you can think what you like. I just don't see how the position you're taking is self consistent. So do you consider this less important but still an issue, a smaller fish to fry later? Or are you just cool with non-consenty things? Circumcision is perfectly fine in my book of it's voluntarily done by an adult. I just think a child's right to his own body supercedes your desire to have his body a certain way Like whatever anyone thinks of circumcision, the rights of the child is mo… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?I mean, I would understand your take if I read it else where on Reddit. But here? On a men's rights sub, you don't even want to give your own son the right to his own body. Like, what are you even doing here? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?And it not being their choice is your choice. If you can live with that, hopefully you're child is cool with that and doesn't lose his dick or die or something Edit: and what we're talking about in context sort of is. You're not free to go amputating anything you like from his body | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:02 PM |
| -1 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?How was the sex before hand? Get a lot when you were 11? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Would you be willing to let your child make that choice? Should it not be his choice? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Yeah, I'm really insecure that I'm not cut and there is no way I will ever be cut too... Oh wait, yes there is. Nevermind | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Lol sure thing | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?last I check the clit doesn’t make vag cheese Pretty sure women get smegma if they don't wash yes Plain and simple you don’t know anything about infantile circumcision, you have no clue whether or not it actually does make their life better, Back to knowing nothing? Am I circumcised again too? Go to a place where FGM is prevalent, you'll hear a lot of the same defences and crap that you are talking right now coming from women who underwent FGM. Does that make FGM okay? No. You are just the male … | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?whereas there is no reason for fgm, ever. Can't see why hygiene isn't a reason for FGM when it is for MGM. and if aren’t cut, then you also have no clue what it’s like to be cut, and you sure as hell don’t get to speak for us of your not apart of us. I'm not speaking for you, I'm speaking for children who aren't yet cut and can't consent either way. Your foreskin is gone forever mate, nothing I can do about that. I don't give a fuck if an adult wants a circumcision, you do what you want to your … | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?What does it take to have a clue? Try an ounce of intelligence. Understand I’m not minimizing circumcision, it’s just not that big of an issue. ... Cough... Cough removal of the clit doesn’t provide any kind of hygienic benefits, Neither does circumcision, people should just be washing. And you're cool with the removal of the clitoral hood then? so come here small boy. When are we on for then mate, Friday? Edit: how about cutting the homophobic crap? shouldn’t be done, but by god it doesn’t matt… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 7 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?You clearly couldn’t have less of a clue of what your talking about. And it is clear your an angry small man who was cut and blames that for your problems, So I don't have a clue and I am cut? What does it take to have a clue. Now please, tell me how it’s oppressive, hatred or a double standard? Don’t even start comparing it to fgm, not even close to the same How is it not the same? Do you mean you're fine with FGM in principle, just not in extent? If it was closer to MGM, as in less cutting, li… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 01:13 PM |
| 7 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?would I know? And no one has actually bothered to explain exactly what it is that I’m missing. Your missing a part of your penis, a part with a lot of nerve endings. I have no idea what it's like not to have one just like you have no idea what it's like to have one. All I can tell you is that I really like mine, it's probably where I get the most sensation. It makes masturbation incredibly easy, it also makes sex easier as it provides a gliding motion. You might have to talk to someone who has h… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 11:31 AM |
| 11 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?How would you know what you're missing? I have my foreskin, you would have to kill me first to take mine, never mind without anesthetic. If someone tried to do the same to a hypothetical son I've mine, I would be ripping their throat out on his behalf. I hate this argument that if a baby doesn't remember it's fine. Harming babies in any case is then fine, cause they won't remember. Watch a video of a circumcision, you might feel differently. And what about the principal of it? Does that not both… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:38 AM |
| 11 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?No one is arguing about circumcision in cases where it is medically necessary. The case you described though would only take place when a boy is at least a teenager and circumcision should be the last option. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:34 AM |
| 15 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?Do girls remember getting their ears pierced? Uh yes. Do you remember getting vaccines in your foot? Vaccines in my foot, is not strapping me to a table and cutting the end of my dick, filled with nerve endings. can’t have trauma over what your brain physically could not record, there’s a reason that a common pain treatment is to make you forget it happened, can’t remember what wasn’t coded. Any child abuse is cool then before the age of like 4. That's cool too know. And as for the gatekeeping, … | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 07:08 AM |
| 17 | Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely?It does affect you, how would you know otherwise, youre cut. You did experience it and you did have the pain, you were just too young to remember it, still happened to you though dude. And I really do have to be kind of honest, y’all push this issue a little too much I think you're in the wrong place then pal | /r/MensRights | 16/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 8 | TIL about this statement by early feminist Sylvia Pankhurst on the sinking of the TitanicOkay. Same question. Why what? | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 05:42 PM |
| 5 | TIL about this statement by early feminist Sylvia Pankhurst on the sinking of the TitanicBut why what? | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 16 | TIL about this statement by early feminist Sylvia Pankhurst on the sinking of the TitanicWomen and children first is not a law, no one demographic made it. It is what society deemed best, society including women. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Female-on-Male violence is now glorified in mainstream cinema, where is the equality today, or even basic decency for Men?Is that true? I'm pretty sure men are still stronger in the leg department, it's just women have stronger legs in comparison to their own upper body strength. I still think that overall men have more lower body strength. Like women aren't coming close to what man can lift using his legs in a squat for example | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 01:47 PM |
| 2 | AngerI agree. I've thought about it before and I think that it might be a reaction to the blurring of sex, gender and pronouns etc. Seeing as being a woman or man is no longer a matter of biology, biological terms are stepping in to take the place of what once would have been referred to as a man or a woman. Why we see females instead of women being used more often than males instead of men is likely coming from the person applying the traditional term to themselves, as in, I'm a male but I still thi… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 01:23 PM |
| 25 | TIL about this statement by early feminist Sylvia Pankhurst on the sinking of the TitanicYeah women were property, sitting along side all of the valuables of the men of the Titanic on the life boats. If some of the rich men were willing to sacrifice more of their priceless possessions, more men may have been able to fit. Instead those greedy men valued property more than their own and other men's lives. Like one grand piano could have instead been like at least four blokes. Your narrative of the past is ridiculous and makes no sense. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | *SPOILERS* Top Gun sequel has a FEMINIST pleasing story. Wooh. Yet another movie bends to being a feminist appeaser.And that's why Guybrush exists and Galbrush doesn't. Men can be comically inept halfwits. Women can't. Men can be flawed, tragic human beings. Women can't. And why? Because for some stupid reason, every single female character reflects all women everywhere. I think this is also why female comics typically struggle. Their image is too precious and they can't reflect a poor representation of women. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 01:48 AM |
| 5 | anyone else hate the way suicide and mental health is portrayed?I don't have a problem with women expressing that they don't have enough help really, everyone needs more help. Having said that after suffering a bereavement both my sister's and I joined a waiting list for therapy. It wasn't quick for a therapist to get in touch with my sister. I never heard anything however. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Ghosting and sacrificeGirls don't know what guys need to do to be more attractive any more than men know how girls should dress or wear makeup to be more attractive. As in, a rare few will know, most won't have a clue and a large number will have strong opinions and be completely wrong. Spot on. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Feminist misreading of the “you’re a pussy” insultAn old pussy also used to mean an old lady. Ms. Marple gets called one a bunch of times in the books. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Feminists have lost their ever loving minds: "If we phrased it as ‘forced fatherhood and child support’ do you think we could get young men riled up about this too?"I just followed that link you posted. It's a comment on this same thread. And there is nothing that can be viewed as mysoginy there, nothing even close to being along the lines to what you have quoted there. Did you post the wrong link or something? Edit: I've just come across the comment, it's only two comments down for me. What's going on? | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | If you're going to be Pro-Choice, be Pro-Choice for both parentsYeah, I was pointing out that the idea that the rapist should be in prison, never mind getting government well fair, never crossed the commenters mind | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | "Legal Paternal Surrender" vs. "Paper/Financial Abortion"You're picking a fight where there isn't one dude. He has a different opinion to you. It's allowed. This isn't feminism, we don't need to keep trotting out slogans, we just need to be correct. And yeah, the movement needs support, that's what winning friends and influencing people is. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 09:13 PM |
| 3 | If you're going to be Pro-Choice, be Pro-Choice for both parentsYeah, Jesus Christ. What would a rapist do with child support payments in prison? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Men and boys among alleged rape victims of Russian soldiers in UkraineAnd why is it that soldiers have always prayed that if captured they aren't given to the women? Can you explain, please? | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | If you're going to be Pro-Choice, be Pro-Choice for both parentsCircumcisions do result in some deaths but also can lead to damage and scarring, so I think that arguments actually still stands. No it doesn't bring an unwanted life into the world but what has that got to do with my body, my choice. If it's true for abortions it's true for circumcision. They are both conclusions supported by the same arguments and logic. But not every pro choice argument can be applied to circumcision obviously. You have to either accept the fact that all people should have th… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 4 | If you're going to be Pro-Choice, be Pro-Choice for both parentsIt has everything to do with abortion. The case for abortion rests on the same arguments. If this doesn't stand, then neither does that. My body, my choice. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/22 06:02 PM |
| 9 | “Mass shootings caused by 'masculinity,' says report commissioned by Nova Scotia inquiry”I thought Nova Scotia was Canada? But I could be wrong. I think you're also conflating gun control and generally better social well being in Canada with differences in sex. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 11:58 PM |
| 12 | “Mass shootings caused by 'masculinity,' says report commissioned by Nova Scotia inquiry”When blaming doesn't work, try shaming | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | No one cares about "My body, my choice" when it comes to being drafted to die at 18 years old.Sure, I'll concede that men created armies and conscription. But it wasn't through choice, it was though necessity. How else were you going to survive? So why does it matter that men created it? I love the implication that women just sat by twiddling their thumbs. How are women not also complicit in the creation of these if they said nothing and yet benefited? How is that view point not sexist? As it suggests that women of the past were weak willed people with no agency of their own. Here's that… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | "All men are responsible for the culture that allowed Sarah Everard's murder"Guilt is good because it makes us change? Were you yourself just murdering too many people? Because I wasn't. Maybe if more men felt guilty, change would happen quicker. Change has not been slow for women's issues. I would say it seems that it doesn't take long for women to get what they want, even when it's not even a clear majority among women themselves, such as getting the vote for women in the UK. I'm not going to force myself into "feeling guilty" for the sake of making some supposed "chan… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 06:38 PM |
| 4 | "All men are responsible for the culture that allowed Sarah Everard's murder"What's the point? That you are imagining that he is not bothered by the murder? What are you basing your bet on? The OP is responding to this woman's opinion about the murder, not the murder itself. So what is your point exactly? That there will be no justice until all men feel guilty about the actions of another individual because he happens to be a man? Or that the rights of men to be treated with fairness and equality should come second to how women 'feel'? Should we not question or disagree … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The feminist myth of "Thousands of years of oppression" completely debunked in a new book - article in the GuardianI agree, but can we point to any examples that support your case. Maybe it's a case of let's not gamble and find out. If you know if any wars that were fought in the defence against invasion by solely volunteers, please let me know. I think theorising about such things without facts will only lead us down the same path of feminism. I can't deny that there is an argument for the draft and that in the past, the scale of men that the draft recruited was probably necessary. Whether that many volunte… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | To correctly frame gender issues we must step out of the Historicist mindsetI think that maybe the picture he paints is too grand but I'd also say that what the picture embodies is true. I'd say that it's a special case of striving for your life to have meaning. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.Alright were going round in circles dude. It's not science. It's the furthest thing from it while still maybe squeezing by by being able to call it a soft science. I'm not saying the whole concept is false because of an appeal to authority, I'm saying your argument is. fallacy should not be used to dismiss the claims of experts, or scientific consensus. I haven't done this. I'm asking you for evidence and you are not an expert (I don't think anyone is). Appeals to authority are not valid argumen… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 06:25 AM |
| 6 | It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men.You don’t take it as good faith because you don’t like your opinions being challenged. I am here in good faith because I want more men to see that they are being held down and simultaneously being weaponized against other men. If you’re taking anything I say as an insult, that is coming from you. I am not here to insult you but I will call bullshit when I see it I'm asking you the same question in return. Specifically, how do you find your opinions being challenged? Especially on topics such as … | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 12:14 AM |
| 9 | It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men.Sure you do buddy | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 17 | It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men.Judging by their username, they are just here to start fights and to troll. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | We can be betterAnd I do find it comical in the hypocrisy that my comments were downvoted and the person who agreed with me was upvoted. I see what you are saying but there is no hypocrisy, there are differing opinions here. I'm in agreement with the post and most of my comments are in negative karma. And it's understandable, there is anger and frustration being vented here as there is very little place else for that. I think if you bring yourself here declaring that you are a feminist, you will have to expect … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | We can be betterI mean it is understandable. Feminists aren't looked on too fondly around here and with fair reason if you are asking me. Your comment here doesn't seem very productive and it gives the impression that your more looking for a win, with the laughing face and all. From my perspective, I'm not convinced you're fully aligned with the spirit of the original post and you could probably reflect on your own comments yourself. But I am just inferring this from two throw away lines anyway | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 08:22 PM |
| -2 | We can be betterMe too, though this guy definitely said it better than I could! | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:05 AM |
| -4 | We can be betterI don't think you deserve the down votes you are getting. Your guys discussion sets a good example. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:01 AM |
| -1 | We can be betterVery, very well said | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.The first part is just more appeals to authority. I'm criticising all of it. I don't care that militaries and university staff agree. Doesn't make it true. Also having a goal doesn't make that goal easy it even possible, still very much room for hubris. Second part. Men can't father children now? and hence not a risk for men? What? Risk of pregnancy is too great for women when they can have abortion etc where men can't etc? What? How does that make sense? Culture eradication doesn't go hard enou… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 09:17 AM |
| 2 | What’s your thoughts on female victims of harassment and violence?It really isn't an echo chamber. Check through my comments here, you'll see a lot are at 0 karma or even negative. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/22 11:44 AM |
| 2 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.lmao have you done a sociology degree or read a sociology textbook or encyclopedia? If so, please cite which ones you read, I will take a look with my university how credible those sources are because I am concerned that you seem to not know anything about sociology. No I haven't. But, I have already addressed this further up in the comment chain. Appealing to authority doesn't really cut it here since 1. It's not a science so there is no established 'fact', 2. It's not that complicated that you… | /r/MensRights | 23/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Alright this needs to stop now.If you get offended by MRA's here in this sub talking about all that is wrong with feminism and women, then you are part of the problem that makes such talk necessary. Ugh. Your whole comment sounds so much like feminist reasoning I actually wouldn't be surprised if a feminist wrote it and you only swapped out the genders. I'd consider myself an MRA and I'm not here to talk about all that is wrong with women, feminism yes. Women no. Feminists, women, and their white knight defenders need to stop… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/22 08:25 AM |
| 0 | Alright this needs to stop now.I'm with the OP. I'm not sinking to feminisms level. I'm not here to see the boot on the other foot either. If men's rights goes the way of feminism with the attitude and 'excuse' that two wrongs make a right then I'm out of here. I'll be an anti-MRA just as much as I'm an anti-feminist. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.Prior to identifying that patriarchy is harmful though we had to at least identify it exists. So it was important to label it. Yes, but theorising it isn't proof that it exists. I am denying its existence. I've said this twice now, just saying something exists doesn't make it true. Appealing to authority won't make it true either, it's not a science. You're supposed to be defending your evidence for patriarchy, yet you are not doing this. are a lot a lot of things that can be explained with it. … | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Why men don't resist their marginalization and dehumanization by feminism (the feminist man: explained)I get what you are saying however I think the above commenter is still correct. In your example of your wife saying 'quit it, it's not sexy', you definitely should not have quit nor do I think you needed to explain to your wife how it is dehumanising. I'm not saying that you shouldn't have explained to your wife, I'm glad for you that you can talk to your wife about such issues, what I am saying is that I think it should have been irrelevant. A man should be solid because he is a man, not for th… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.Right so the goal posts of this argument are shifting all over the place. I'm not against putting feminine menstrual products into toilets, I've said this before, I'm actually for it. But you keep defending their necessity, while I've never denied it. I'll admit, maybe I haven't given enough credit to how useful it would be for people who absolutely need them, if every bathroom stocked them. However this is not the point of my argument. What I'm arguing is that the reason it hasn't been done isn… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.Sure thing dude, I'm obviously the clown here. Let's all pretend I didn't have a question. Well done to you | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 11:21 AM |
| 3 | My experience with dating apps.Yeah, I'm not sure why I got down voted. The stuff they talk about is really good advice, for anyone | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.How about no | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.Still avoiding my direct question that you asked for. NEeeEeeExt! | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.Is just answering questions just that hard for you? You just keep resorting to being patronising rather than having a discussion on good faith. It's boring | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 09:02 AM |
| 3 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.nothing is stopping you from going to a Starbucks and taking as much toilet paper squares as you wish to take home btw Yes there fucking is! If everyone started doing this they would stop providing them! Are you for real? Starbucks isn't a charity. If everyone started getting their water for Starbucks everyday they would put a stop to just handing out free water. What the fuck are you on about. They give out this stuff for free because they want custom, they are not obliged to do this beyond pro… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.So you're anti abortion, or pro-life? If you are then we have nothing to talk about. Carry on | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.Or if you want a strait question: If the baby's well being is most important, is it best for the mother to abort a baby that a father doesn't want than to bring it into the world despite not having a willing father? And if it does have a willing father yet the mother is unwilling, should the mother carry it to term anyway I think that is pretty unloaded and is in the babies best interst | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.Nah, I'd rather you answer the question | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 01:18 AM |
| -4 | My experience with dating apps.Mate, I spent time digging this out for you: https://youtu.be/a69-Usyrzxw Watch it. It's not about what you can do, it's about what you are willing to do about it, if that makes sense. Seriously, watch it! | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 7 | I bet they won't show this in the courts.Funny thing is, I would say that was true for men, and if women are the same or equal to men it should be true for them too. Everyone needs to get smacked in the face to see what's what | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.I think think the answer to that is obvious. Still though not answering the question. Why won't you answer the question? That's two for you | /r/MensRights | 17/04/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.I'm gonna start by saying I'm not against putting feminine hygiene products into bathrooms, where they make sense! Emphasis on the last part. Especially places like schools, I think this is a good thing. What I disagree with is the fault of 'patriarchy' part. I've already gone over this but you haven't responded to anything I have said really, just reiterated what you have already said with no logical backing: It blew my mind this has not been done already. The answer for why it hasn’t been done… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men."You still didn't answer why you would prefer men paying to forcing women to get an abortion? You'd rather hold men responsible than women?" I did, still don't see it. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | If women can have abortions, so can men.But you literally haven't. Comon, I want to know! | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 4 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.Where do you live? You are telling me that the government are stocking toilet paper in every bathroom? Can you do this with your house? Or is it just business premises? The default was “humans defecate and urinate”, which is how bathrooms were designed with men in mind. I disagree with your assertion hear. Bathrooms were designed long before hygiene products were even a thing. And the only thing lacking in a modern bathroom are hygiene products but these are fairly recent so what you are saying … | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 8 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.And who's job exactly is it to make sure a bathroom has soap and toilet paper? What will happen if a building does not have this? "if man was considered default than bathrooms took care of what men need." Women need the exact same stuff as men, it's not like any of this is exclusive to men, if it were, you would have an argument. As it stands, there is no exclusivity so you can't draw the conclusion that anything was done for men or with men in mind. Because where do you draw the line? People ne… | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 06:40 PM |
| 10 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.I haven't ever read our heard that myself personally, but if we're talking about feminism and not women, well there are a lot of laws and practices that are easily verifiable that you could point to that would support their case. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 10:25 AM |
| 14 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.And a lot of people say the earth is flat. And what? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 09:00 AM |
| 26 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.Toilet paper in bathrooms are free to use for customers, it's not just free, who ever owned the bathroom stocks it. Any business wherever is currently able to put feminine products in their bathrooms for 'free' but why aren't they? It's it the 'patriarchy', so basically men's, fault that woman owned businesses aren't doing that already? How is the 'patriarchy' stopping them? What has this example got to do with men if it's not just an attack and blame on men? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 08:11 AM |
| 13 | If all the men vanished today most feminists I know would still blame the patriarchy for their troubles.It does make sense as with men there is no patriarchy | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Birth control discussionI can only tell you that having kids is something that I have never really cared about and how the future is looking I'm not sure I can rationalise intending to have any. Having said that, now that I am getting older I think I'm developing more of a desire to be a father, I think it's a biological drive as it's definitely not rational, my thinking hasn't changed. So I'd say be careful about jumping the gun as how you FEEL might change as you get older. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 12:58 PM |
| 5 | From The New York Times, Ukrainian War is primarily a crises for women.I think you are right in looking at this particular case. But in the broader context I think focussing on 'women's issues' of "forced" migration when the actual conflict, where men are ACTUALLY being forced into laying down their lives, is currently happening is incredibly tone deaf. The issues these women and children face are pretty insignificant in comparison. The women the article talks about in your quote stated that their priorities were simple and they already have been met, they are safe… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Some of you seem to think there's no space for men's issues on the left, so I thought I might shareTwo comments in and you've made up your mind about the guy and assumed everything he thinks so you have blocked him? You sound just as bad as the feminists to me to be honest | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 03:08 PM |
| 16 | From The New York Times, Ukrainian War is primarily a crises for women.Forced migration makes it sound as if they are not just escaping but being forced to leave. Ultimately they are choosing to leave and I know that is down to circumstance but they are free to stay. Getting to leave is good, I'm sure many are happy they get to leave. It's the men who are being forced, not the women and children. Edit: also, while migration will come with its own host of issues, it is not a crisis! It's the solution, the solution to being killed by an invading army. The crisis is t… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Hypocrites, how do they expect to be taken seriously?No one would care! Lol. In fact I think that already happens. Honestly, I think your response is genuinely hilarious | /r/MensRights | 13/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What would be some of the best books on self improvement and being a man in todays time?'The fearless man' on YouTube. Can't recommend these guys enough, everything you are looking for! Books wise: 'Way of the superior man' by David Deida 'No more Mr Nice Guy' by Robert Glover But seriously the fearless man, they recommend an extensive list of books and I think are exactly what you are looking for. I think they should be recommended in the side bar or whatever, I think they are doing work that is that good for men. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/22 12:22 AM |
| 15 | Council worker who leaked sex offender's address to paedophile hunter's group, leading to a large angry mob turning up outside his home, is not charged with misconduct in public office. Instead, she is fined £500, paid at £50 a month. After the hearing, she left the court giggling with two friendsWhat is it with the over reaction to talking about pedophiles? It's like some people think if you are not frothing at the mouth you must also be a pedophile. Are you over compensating? What is it? I don't get it | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence""It often stems from the wish to not be responsible yourself, but delegate that part to the "strong rock" who protects you." This could very well be true but I don't think it is particularly founded in anything. It's not necessarily the case that a woman desires confidence in a man only when she is not confident herself. She can be confident and also desire confidence. I really don't see any problem in this. I myself am in no way naturally good or nurturing with children and so I would look for … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"Sure. Sorry if I didn't phrase that right. I meant the expectation for all that is greater for women than it is for men as in the same way for men and confidence. I think both things are good if thats what you want to do | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/22 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"I want to clarify that I definitely agree with tearing down gender roles as a prescription and highlighting inequality where it exists. However I don't see the final goal as making everyone equal by outcome, it's a good thing men and women are different and I think that will always present itself in one way or another like in the case of being confident is beneficial for sexual success for men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"The manly bravado stuff isn't necessary to be confident, I'd actually say that is indicative of a lack of confidence. And I agree no one should be expected to perform any role but we can't pretend that the 'roles' don't have some deeper basis in who men and women are fundamentally. And by extension there is nothing we can do apart from telling women that there attraction to confident men is wrong which I completely disagree with. If you do not wish to perform a more masculine role (I don't think… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"No, of course women can be confident and more confidence the better in my opinion. See I don't think they do demand perfection from men, I don't think confidence is related to perfection or perfectly confident is even a thing. I don't think it is unfair that women can get away with not being confident, like I said I think that's just the way things are in sexual attraction (like women need to take better care of their appearance than men) and I don't see how that can change. Personally I don't t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsYou're not offering a scientific explanation of the behaviour, you're applying animal behaviour to humans. Of course there is a biological basis for it, there is for everything but it is far from the complete picture and were humans, not animals. So I'll ask you again, why is biology important in this case? Why even bother with anything if it all boils down to biology? How does a biological view help in this case if the same is true for every case? How would they be wrong in justifying their ang… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsAlso, I've just read your edit on your first comment. I'm not sure why you think throwing out a bunch of fairly irrelevant degrees adds weight to your argument, I'm not denying your intellect, I'm asking you why you think it's pertinent to reduce this scenario to purely biology. Can you please explain why this is? Also, I couldn't give a shit about cockroaches, I could talk to you about my degree, doesn't mean it's relevant | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsPlease point out in the comment chain above where you mention this as I cannot find it. If you could also answer my question in my edit that would be great because I think that is the real contention. I have been to university so I'm all good on that front. I think your making the rape thing a whataboutism now, he was using it as an example to highlight how your logic could be used to defend rape in the same way, no one's actually talking about rape. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsNope, just checked and that's the first time you have written it in this thread | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 10:21 AM |
| 9 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsBecause that's the first time you have said that. Edit: And if you're not making an argument, why are you bringing it up? Everything can be reduced to biology, so why are you making a point of reducing this to biology? What's your reason for this? I think that's a fair question. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 10:12 AM |
| 7 | Article about woman who tried to murder her newborn met only with "she needs help" commentsThat's really not a whataboutism. He's using the same logic to defend rape to highlight how preposterous your argument was. Also, where is the rage exactly? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 2 | What are some of your dating struggles, tips you would like to give, and some you would like to receive?/u/Jonathanese I'm hoping tagging you worked because I want you and a lot of other people to see this. I agree with pretty much everything you said and I think you hit the nail on the head, I think I'm in the same boat as you in a lot of ways but I'm getting better. My only advice to you and anyone else is to check out a YouTube channel called The fearless man. https://youtube.com/c/Thefearlessman I think they have the answer to a lot of your questions and answer them far better than I could. An… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/22 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Joan Collins Warns 'Anti-Maleness' Ruining Generation of Young Men 'Suffering from Being Labeled Toxically Masculine'Sure but where in that was he toxic for being masculine? Peoples response to that may have been shitty or toxic but what has that got to do with masculinity? Why is it not just misandry? How victim blaming of female victims of rape is misogyny, as it should be, not toxic femininity. Men don't create all societal standards and gender roles, society does. So why is only the masculine toxic? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 02:20 PM |
| 9 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"I agree. I think a lot of why I lacked or still lack confidence is because I rejected masculinity myself through whatever reason. It's through my masculinity that I'm now becoming more confident. I know that's vague and wishy washy but there is a lot to unpack there for this comment thread. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Let me get this straightJust got round to reading your comment. I didn't imply anything, you inferred it. Here's my flex, I don't have to prove anything to you so no. I'm not going to reveal anything about my self or play your games | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 45 | Question from a female LWMA: How to approach defensive men?Hello. I'm not really sure what to tell you here. However I do think you should be putting yourself first. If you don't like how a guy is responding to you it's not your responsibility to fix him or overlook any shortcomings he might have whatever the causes of those short coming are. Having said that it's hard to see what you are actually asking with the examples you have given. I think for people who question your intentions, you can only be genuine. If they can't see that then it's their loss… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 7 | Deconstructing the Masculine Ideal of "Confidence"I'm basically the guy you described, having been rejected a lot and lacking confidence. That is changing though I'm still not at the point where I'm good with women. I think confidence is a trait of masculinity and I think it is a good one. I don't think that there is any double standard there as it is what a lot of women find attractive in men, and that's no real fault of their own, it just is. I think the problem you're highlighting is due to the lack of masculinity being seen in a positive li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/22 12:10 PM |
| 7 | Joan Collins Warns 'Anti-Maleness' Ruining Generation of Young Men 'Suffering from Being Labeled Toxically Masculine'How is being raped toxic on the part of the masculine? | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 10:56 AM |
| 11 | Let me get this straightProjection pal. That entire comment has literally nothing to do with me or anything I have said. "Fellas, is it gay to use words that women came up with?" Never said this. Never said the majority of feminists are terms. Never said anything about being bisexual or gay or anything. I don't have to explain my issues with circumcisions to you or approach the issue in a way that you see fit. I don't care about any of that stuff, haven't said anything about it so I'm not going to respond because that'… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/22 10:51 AM |
| 10 | Let me get this straightHow the fuck does it help knowing what your sexuality is or if you paint your nails? No one said anything about anything like that, no one gives a fuck. You're projecting, all of it is projection. If you agree with the people of menslib, that's cool, go there. Why are you trying to police this place? You're not achieving anything, just re-enforcing what we already think about feminism and people like yourself. Men's rights has only been around for a decade or so, it's in its infancy compared to … | /r/MensRights | 23/03/22 10:17 AM |
| 15 | Let me get this straight"Circumcision is not a good thing, but anyone who says it's a huge deal is probably forcing themselves to be angry about it. Let's be real." Fuck you! Seriously. I've read through all the shite you have posted so far but it's this whole comment that stopped me. First off you can fuck off with your toxic masculinity bullshit. I reject the term and I'm not using it. you can link to Wikipedia with another definition of what "toxic masculinity" is just like every other fucker does every fucking time… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.I agree with most of everything you just said apart from the last line. I would make the distinction that masculinity is not a measurement of worth but it is also not a farce. Toxic people are toxic people. Masculinity has nothing to do with it. Edit: thanks for being civil. Sorry if I didn't come across that way at points, I didn't have much time to write | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.And how does this emasculation of gay men lead to a better outcome in education? How is this useful for improving outcomes for all boys if it is not saying that abandoning masculinity is the key? "Redefining masculinity" or whatever. This is my issue, masculinity does not need to be defined or redefined or whatever because there is nothing wrong with being a man | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved."The way you guys talk about gals, one could think men would have a problem suddenly turning female, like it's a horrible fate. I'm not sure that's what was intended, to imply that being female is somehow not as good as being male, or that gay men aren't "real" men, so I am asking pointed questions looking for answers in that arena." You keep bringing up women and misogyny into this. Nothing I have said relates to any of that. I would have a problem suddenly turning female or being forced to be … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.Who is saying men should be more like women? If you paid attention to my own points you would see were the issue is. The article is blaming masculinity for poor educational outcomes. Emasculation being the repression or elimination of that masculinity. Nothing to do with women. Like a eunuc isn't masculine but they certainly aren't a woman. I haven't once mention women in this respect | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 7 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.I'm not the person who said that but the article does mention that gay men may hold the answer for improving boys outcomes in education. It proposes a reason for this being that gay men are excluded from masculinity. Its implying that masculinity is the issue and should be changed or redefined or whatever it says. Instead of just optimising the schooling system for boys because they are fine just as they are. Masculinity is not and should not be the problem, just as femininity should never be th… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.I'm confused. No one said that the article said that you need to be gay. It wasn't in the title like you said and no comment mentions it. The title is pretty accurate to what is in the article or at least what the article is implying. Hence when I said it's in the article. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 9 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.I didn't define it, I said there was no definition. Like the word blue has no other definition other than what blue is and you cannot change the colour blue by changing a definition. If someone is being described as "womanly" it's purely subjective to the describer and does not negate the man's own masculinity. I would say a better 'definition' would be anything MEN do can be called 'manly' or masculine but is purely context specific and you're still trying to distill a vague concept out of the … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 14 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.Who's emotional? Please explain what the article says | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 08:41 AM |
| 11 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.It is in the article. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 08:36 AM |
| 49 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.There is no definition. It's a word that points to what maleness is. The definition doesn't precede the behaviour. If we start defining masculinity different it isn't going to change men. How is that not obvious? Do women check against a working definition of femininity when making decisions or taking action. Fuck this defining masculinity bollocks. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Politicians can’t hear what men don’t say. An interview with Ann Widdecombe. — The Centre for Male PsychologyShe's a politician, how am I supposed to trust her beyond what she says? I'm not going to not trust her just because she is a woman. And I'm not going to inherently trust a dude just for being a dude. Total unilateral control of narrative? What? I'm here for men's rights, not whatever that is! Yeah but what man? All she can do is speak or not speak. Her not speaking doesnt mean her platform just automatically goes to the nearest man or something. I'd rather anyone speak up about men's issues tha… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Politicians can’t hear what men don’t say. An interview with Ann Widdecombe. — The Centre for Male PsychologyI'm in complete disagreement. How can she give her platform to a man? She has a platform and is using it to speak up for men, how is that a bad thing? You don't have to be a man to be part of the conversation about men. The more people speaking up the better, doesn't matter who they are. She doesn't need to be trusted, when she starts doing stuff I don't agree with, I'll criticise her then | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | QuestionSee first comment | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 2 | QuestionYeah no shit. What's your point? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 10:56 AM |
| 3 | QuestionIt was addressed to people who would read the thread, not you. You should be able to gather that for yourself though | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 10:53 AM |
| 5 | QuestionI didn't say anything about being concerned... | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 6 | QuestionThe OP won't actually discuss any real points with you guys. She's too busy trying to stop her cats from being mean to her hamster. She has time to be overly sacarine and condescending though | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 10:46 AM |
| 11 | Conservative site celebrates women being excluded from the military draft saying “ A well-ordered society seeks to protect its women and children.”Lol you definitely can xoxo | /r/MensRights | 16/12/21 10:29 PM |
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