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They want a man that will pull his weight. I've never even seen a couple in my generation or younger where both don't work full time. I don't think "breadwinner" accurately describes any husband under 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:20 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:18 AM
2

Which is where I and most people I know am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:00 PM
2

WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:35 PM
2

Deserve what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:10 PM
2

Maybe I just live in Divorce Land. If I were to move somewhere and see lots of healthy marriages and couples who support one another as a community, then I'd be more inclined to take the plunge myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:14 PM
1

I haven't seen that. I do see comments like the ones here saying they object to the misogyny, racism and fetishization of foreign women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:04 PM
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If I need a plumber I don't care what sex they are. I pay them money and they fix my pipes. They're not benefiting my life, they are providing a service. And let's just see what happens if women start denying men sex unless they wear condoms. 99% of marriages and relationships would end immediately and men would be rioting in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:50 PM
1

Women don't choose "the same crappy men over and over". Most if not all single men over a certain age are, well, let's just say they're single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:47 PM
4

What "dumb choices" would those be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:43 PM
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Every one of my friends save one and everyone I know in my generation has had at least one divorce and/or a kid out of wedlock. I don't blame any single people for not playing the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:39 PM
9

The average person has never even heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:28 PM
-1

Where's this fabled hate for passport bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:26 PM
1

You guys wouldn't know reality if it bit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:40 PM
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That's mostly who cheats, in both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:32 PM
1

Actually I do speak for all modern women. You're still stuck in boomer land apparently. No gold diggers are after your minimum wage paychecks dude. But by all means if your fear makes you leave us alone then has at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:59 PM
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Way to change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:34 PM
2

No. Not "needing" to work because they might be able to live off their husbands like parasites isn't something that modern women value. Men's fear is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:18 PM
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Who is pushing this narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:58 PM
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Reddit and Tiktok are not real life. But believe what you want to, it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:55 PM
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How do you know they are women? Or real people even?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:50 PM
2

IDK where you live dude but it sounds like the third world. In the industrialized world all women work. Not working isn't a thought that even crosses our minds. Women are looking for men who add value to their lives. They don't need or want your money. You have to provide other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:47 PM
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Which ones specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:39 PM
1

I have friends as well and none of them have done that, and they don't know anyone who has either. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:38 PM
4

Who says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:00 PM
6

Women don't need men's funds, this isn't 1950. We pay our bills. You have to add value to our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:59 PM
6

If our exes were hobgoblins doesn't that prove that we're not settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:53 PM
4

I think this is really it. Poor self esteem and victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:50 PM
5

How would you know? You don't have the ability to watch individual women date different men across time. You're holding women accountable for the actions of one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:46 PM
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If he's trying to have non-committal sex WITH HER that isn't okay. What he/she did with other people is their own business. It's not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:31 PM
3

They are choosing better. They're choosing to stay single. We are not accountable for the actions and attitudes of anyone besides ourselves. Mist men frankly suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:46 PM
4

Men pretend to care about more than looks when they really don't. They do it a lot and I don't think they even realize they're doing it. You can't blame these women for being misled and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:58 PM
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People absolutely can complain when others don't mind their own business. As long as they have no kids or STDs the past doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:46 PM
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It doesn't matter what women say, men will tell them they're wrong. Time to stop caring what men think of these matters. I'm going to look after my own safety as I see fit and I won't feel an ounce of shame of guilt for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:56 PM
4

Men like this guy: I won't commit. Women: K no sex for you then. Them: Wuh? 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:47 PM
1

Sex is a committal act. It makes babies and solidifies family alliances after all. That's kinda the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:26 PM
-4

You shouldn't be having non-committal sex sounds like. You're not communicating effectively and people might get hurt and it will be all your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:12 PM
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Just FYI women cheat with unattractive men too. It's not really about the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:09 PM
2

These men can not fathom a world in which women's lives do not revolve around them. No, instead it must be Chad that he's competing with, and not her peace and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:36 PM
6

Single women have less sex than women in relationships and are the most celibate group, according to the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:35 PM
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Depends on if they're in a committed partnership yet or not, same with the man. I generally draw the line where the couple has decided they're going to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:59 PM
-1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:56 PM
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Okay so you thought you'd try your luck here? This isn't a fetish sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:39 PM
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Yes THOSE women. Some women don't mind sharing and others prefer exclusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:32 PM
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You shouldn't believe this crap. These types of people just aren't into exclusive relationships. Women who are certainly don't stick around sharing the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:31 PM
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I guarantee they are not. Not everyone is into monogamy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:30 PM
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There are entire subs dedicated to that. Take your question over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:15 PM
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There's no dilemma. People are allowed to grow and change any way they see fit and there's nothing wrong or fickle about it. Fickle is just a term sticks in the mud like to use when they've been out-grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:57 PM
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Sorry you think humans are supposed to be robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:50 PM
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Wrong. What you guys are saying happens, isn't what happens. Like I said you got it twisted. You're twisting it intentionally so that you can have a problem with it. Others in the thread have explained it better than I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:58 PM
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That's pretty normal. Don't know why you think it's not or that there's something wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:24 PM
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You literally said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:23 PM
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Because I know y'all's perspective on this is warped. Other comments in this thread have explained it better than I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:22 PM
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Well no, they do have to say it or at least show a picture of what the guy looks like. Otherwise how would you know? You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:15 PM
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That's your own twisted perception of what's going on. And people are allowed to want different things and to change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:12 PM
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Not wanting to date you =/= treating you like a criminal. You went off topic. But oh well I made ma point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:11 PM
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This conversation is about who women and men choose to date, not people being followed in stores or treated like criminals. No idea what you're talking about. Check the comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:44 PM
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Hm no, good women choose the best possible partner, especially to have children with. Men who don't measure up get left out and that's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:41 PM
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It's not a common phenomenon. I guarantee you guys don't know any women who do actually do that. What's really going on here is you're hearing what woman "A" says and looking at what woman "B" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:39 PM
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I think you replied in the wrong thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:37 PM
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Um no, they're actual trash. Porn actresses and such. No women in my family do that so I don't know what you mean by "sisterhood".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:36 PM
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Are they saying that it's worth it if the guy good looking enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:35 PM
-2

What a pathetic and immature mindset. "Mom that kid got ice cream for throwing a tantrum. How come I got grounded?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:27 PM
-2

Who's contradicting what they said?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:24 PM
0

The fact that they're all trash and he's not married or having kids with any of them kinda moots that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:23 PM
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Women can date who they want and that's their business and it doesn't excuse anyone for bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:16 PM
1

So what do looks have to do with any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:11 PM
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Her boobs will never sag he's talking about a sex mannequin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:41 PM
2

Everything you just said confirms that men aren't suitable partners for women. You certainly aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:38 PM
3

All of those are adaptive responses because men are unreliable. Male hypergamy and promiscuity is an adaptation to women often dying in childbirth. In today's times women are no longer dying in childbirth but men are still unreliable, unfaithful, and always looking to trade their old wife in for a new model.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:29 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:20 PM
2

Nope. Good enough for a lay, AT MOST.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:20 PM
2

Good men don't act on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:17 PM
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Men DON'T pay the majority of the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:13 PM
1

Just wait until you're over 25 and you discover that life sucks LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:12 PM
2

Most adults are partnered if not married and most are not sharing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:45 PM
1

I think it's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:41 PM
0

Nothing you're saying makes sense. Is this a bot or are you just really stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:40 PM
0

Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:35 PM
0

I don't know what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:32 PM
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Many of us had to watch our grandmothers "love" our grandfathers because they literally had no other choice for survival. What we want is real love, not dependence. And we can either get exactly what we want in a partner, or learn to be happy without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:49 PM
1

Women do not care about money or muscles as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:46 PM
4

Early 20's men are doing just fine with early 20's women. Most just aren't really committed yet. The average age for marriage is still early to mid 30's for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:38 PM
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Women are not by and large doing any of the things you're saying. It's not 1 man 3 women. You think these women are being faithful to this one man? Women who don't mind sharing men are also being shared. And do you seriously think average men aren't partnered? I don't understand where you guys see this happening in real life. It's the way below average guys who don't even try and are single and complaining about it. They claim it's involuntary because they can't stand accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:34 PM
0

None of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:44 PM
2

I don't think most people are really this grandiose in their desires for a partner. Like, I can have a crush on Batman or whatever but I'd like a normal person who's on the same wavelength as me to vibe with in this life and hopefully make each other's lives just a little bit better. That's how all my friends' marriages are that have lasted so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:12 PM
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Thanks but I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:18 PM
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That can happen to anyone, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:57 PM
0

No, that's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:45 PM
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I don't care about your point. It has nothing to do with mine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:28 PM
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The man's money is more important than his flesh and blood offspring. I already got that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:21 PM
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Or maybe we should listen to people when they say they were abused and not forced them to stay with the potential abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:57 PM
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Unlike some I remember the world before ChatGPT I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:56 PM
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Men are the ones forgiving of bad social skills in women. It's their job to change that, no one else can do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:53 PM
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Those aren't tangible examples they're nebulous buzzwords the MRAs use. "Affirmative Action" for example has no legal definition. And there are all sorts of scholarships, for everything under the sun, and some are for females. Being pro-female is not anti-male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:44 PM
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Okay, WTF are you talking about then? Did you just invite yourself into my inbox to bark at me? Sounds like nobody was talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:41 PM
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You're ranting about boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:37 PM
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Both sexes (as well as intersex and so forth) are protected classes in the US. Sex can't be used as a discriminating factor in hiring for example (although it is all the time and usually women are on the receiving end if this discrimination especially in higher paid positions).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:36 PM
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So fix it instead of complaining like it's all of our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:32 PM
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WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:31 PM
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Your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:29 PM
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He fled the country to protect his wealth and to avoid ever having to be in his child's life. That's fucking monstrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:25 PM
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Sounds fair to me. Rights and responsibilities and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:18 PM
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There are no gender quotas, women-only grants or affirmative action. The men's rights shills made all of that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:16 PM
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Reading the comments...the answer is they are lazy and impatient and want a shortcut to pussy cat. And then when this inevitably doesn't work they'll blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:12 PM
-1

Society didn't decide that, men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:10 PM
1

Tiktok and YouTube are not evidence of anything except how gullible and reactive viewers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:19 PM
2

Being a creep doesn't work on me or anyone I know. WTF would we do with some random dude? I don't know what they're thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:24 AM
1

All men think they are those things. Hint: they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:17 AM
-1

How does being pestered by people you don't want and going home alone at the end of the night boost anyone's ego? That'd make me give up pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:22 AM
2

It's never not creepy to be approached by a stranger in public. I don't know why men continue to do it. When has this EVER worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:18 AM
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Unless she is in the wrong age bracket, is overweight, doesn't have boobs, doesn't have the correct hip:waist ratio, is not feminine, is not pretty. Oh look that's most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:49 PM
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I've been approached by a man in a respectful manner exactly once in my life. And I think a lot of men took "Approach respectfully or don't approach at all" to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:31 PM
2

The women in unhappy marriages and abusive relationships are the crabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:33 PM
5

Might as well marry the Chad because they actually do tend to be better people. I've seen the best of both worlds and Chad lives in a much better neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:32 PM
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If this is in reference to stories posted on Reddit just assume it's made-up. You can tell they're made up because the same stories (or something close) get posted over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:30 PM
-4

What your fine with is irrelevant. They don't require your approval, respect or validation and your opinion of them means absolutely nothing to anyone outside of yourself. It's not a space for you. Just FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:25 PM
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"Low value" behavior now that's a new one. But yeah I generally agree that whining doesn't solve anything. Empowering other women to decenter men from their lives is good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:18 PM
-16

Nah they good they just don't want y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:59 PM
0

Nah. I have awesome self esteem and she's right LOL if a man is still single after about 35 there's a MAJOR REASON. Likely several.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:56 PM
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Nah. And not only that, all the men I've ever hooked up with were really gross and I did so at low points in my self esteem LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:42 PM
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If my husband made enough so that I didn't have to work, I would still work and we could afford a housekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:35 PM
9

Having a maid and a nanny accomplishes that same outcome. Why should all that drudgery fall on the shoulders of one woman? She won't get to have a life. Women used to share childcare labor with female relatives and I don't know why Western society decided to make that impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:33 PM
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Yes and the only thing that's not a choice is which gender gives birth and breastfeeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:39 PM
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Cooking and cleaning is not a gender role. Those are both jobs, cook and maid, and both sexes do them. A girl isn't relegated to being her partner's maid and servant just by being born female. If fatherhood and motherhood aren't even gender roles then I guess gender roles don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:22 PM
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I'm pretty sure motherhood is something only the female gender can do. Aside from that there really aren't universal female gender roles. Everything else in the relationship is mutual and shared between both man and woman (or should be).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:07 PM
0

That's only the gender roles part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:05 PM
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Nobody wants you...so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:07 PM
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Nobody here is talking about prostitution. You can be respectful or get reported. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:07 PM
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Try not being like "I'm awesome, it's women that are the problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:23 PM
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The only one getting upset is you. Maybe don't brag about what a great humble person you are on this site in particular. People WILL call you out on it. P.S. "vent" is man-speak for "whine like a little victim".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:59 PM
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It wasn't meant as an attack, and my observation is based on your comment, which is boastful, jealous-sounding and a tad misogynistic. IDGAF about anyone's self-esteem here one way or the other. Since you're being a defensive asshole I'm guessing your's isn't that good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:42 PM
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Women don't mind ugly or awkward. Some find it cute even. Most likely he doesn't put himself out there or actually try to date, or he doesn't know how to date and doesn't want to learn. That seems to be what I see with most of these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:33 PM
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You're not interesting or humble and I'll bet you're not as kind as you think. I think the word you're looking for is "resentful people-pleaser".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:30 PM
-1

I already told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:53 PM
-4

It's better than your's, a sample size of 1: yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:47 PM
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Excuse me? This is my lived experience. I've seen it my whole life. Not everyone is a bottom barrel lowlife incel like you. Most men are out there living their lives like proper males.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:27 PM
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Women have always been in the workforce, always, since the stone age literally. During industrialization women and children worked in factories and mines. The only women in the history of ever who have been homemakers have been upper middle class and royalty. Women did not take men's jobs. Automation did. If women can and always have done double duty as workers and carers of children and family members, the least men can do is pull their weight. Women's careers take a hot during motherhood and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:53 PM
-11

Most men can get sex and relationships very easily. Most don't stay single for long, maybe a few weeks maximum. They tend to still be dating and fucking any of the various women they know through social media or whatever, and will often do so before the breakup with the current partner is final. They pull this off very easily because of social media and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:10 PM
1

Okay reporting your spam now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:19 PM
1

AI? What are you talking about? And I'll say what I want. Too bad if you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:23 AM
1

Yes I fully understand your logic. But it's still wrong. And men are more selfish than women full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:41 AM
4

That's another thing that men normally do all the time. What's the next trope that gen Z is going to come up with? Breathing oxygen through the nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:34 AM
4

It's not a dating app trope. Taking pictures with fish is an ingrained male behavior LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:27 PM
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I have fish "selfies" of relatives that died before I was even born. It's a man thing. Not a political thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:25 PM
3

Not really. I'm pretty sure men have been enjoying fishing for millions of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:21 PM
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Guys looking for hookups and not a relationship are unattractive to me. Even the best looking ones have a smarmy aura about them. I either didn't see it or willfully ignored this in the past and it didn't work out well. So I don't do that anymore. And before anyone asks they virtually act like creeps once you get your guard down, even the not so good-looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:02 PM
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I think that was meant to be absurdist comedy. Like the picked the most random innocent thing for women supposedly to be aghast at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:58 PM
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I really don't get this one. At least it's not a low effort picture. Maybe we could go fishing together. That would be a good date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:57 PM
6

That's so dumb and simplistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:55 PM
8

When has any young woman ever said this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:51 PM
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All the men on dating sites are pretty unattractive. That's why they're on there instead of already spoken for. The men I dated in the past were no good, that's why they're in the past. The ones on dating sites don't behave any better, so, I'll just skip that whole hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:48 PM
1

If you're not in a committed relationship it's just masturbating with another person. It's nothing but pointless hedonism that evolution will forget. Creating a family and a legacy is the alpha move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:52 PM
3

Women divorce these men because the family is better off with them not being around. Wives put up with A LOT in order to try and keep the family together for the kids' sake before the husband finally makes things intolerable for everyone. Men constantly test to see what they can get away with. It's their nature. They do it to their parents when they're boys, they do it at work with their employers, they aggravate their own friends, and they intentionally make their wives as miserable as they pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:47 PM
1

Should have done that when you were younger. What were you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:23 PM
1

It's the point of view that makes sense. You can't make friends and get dates if you're not social. People aren't things that exist to make your life better. You have to have something to offer them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:20 PM
1

Because the world doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:58 PM
1

Nope. There doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:55 PM
1

Define "get hot girls". Are they marrying these women and having families with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:54 PM
1

It's not wrong. It's just not conducive to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:50 PM
1

45+ year old women want to be left alone and younger women want men close to their own age. Dating time is over after 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:40 PM
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There isn't a man for every woman. There are more women on Earth and most are older than men, and women are more likely to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:31 PM
3

Whatever you say. He really pushes all that gender hierarchy stuff hard even now. Only instead of "conformist/not conformist" he calls it "agreeable/disagreeable". Same pseudoscience anthropologists and even primatologists say is nonsense (and rooted in misogyny).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:54 PM
1

Your entire comment is unsubstantiated nonsense that you probably copied from the Jordan Peterson sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:42 PM
9

What they mean by conformity in this context is: "Women are all conforming by not finding me attractive nor wanting to date me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:34 PM
3

Models are by and large, kinda ugly. They're job is to make the product look good and not distract from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:17 PM
1

Women = all using Tinder apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:00 PM
7

How irrational and silly. Men should try to be less emotional and more logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:23 PM
3

Men on dating apps are well below average. That's why they're on there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:38 PM
1

Listen to women when they tell you that's not true. Women do not want that type of attention from strange men, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:20 PM
0

Men do and they think women like it. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:15 PM
0

Nope. It's not welcome from any stranger. They call that "leering" and it's very anxiety inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:01 PM
0

"Why do ugly guys think they have a chance with me?" Nobody is saying that, or thinking that. Not in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:58 PM
2

Not just average men, all men. Women are inherently suspicious of male strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:52 PM
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The women feminists are taking issue with are the unnatural ones. Just take a look at every thirst trap on Insta (or whatever the kids are using these days), they're all fake. A lot of feminists don't like the hypersexualized (and often infantilized) characters in games and media. It's a valid complaint. Personally I don't mind it because males get it too if not worse. I just wish people would be smarter about it and not shame real people for not having literally fictional body proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:45 PM
2

I asked you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:37 PM
1

These guy is being predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:11 PM
2

How often have you been "aggressively penetrated" as you so delicately put it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:10 PM
2

Also men were focusing on unnatural bodies which does present a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:08 PM
1

Women don't want to propose and men do. That's reason enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:20 AM
1

Because it's the custom for the man to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:46 PM
3

With tribal people even today this is common. Like you said there are exceptions. Some men high up in the social hierarch may take multiple wives and women may marry more than one man (usually brothers) for practical reasons. Love is spoken of a lot in indigenous lore around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:49 PM
1

Lesbians are made different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:11 PM
-1

Women aren't the problem, female same-sex relationships are?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:47 PM
2

First of all you're not even a woman so what qualifies you to speak over a woman and tell her what women find attractive? 6'5" is an extremely rare outlier and most women don't find it attractive. Like I said those guys tend to be built funny, on top of not being able to walk through a doorway without ducking. I think maybe you want to re-examine the gay thing. Hell, I don't even know what Eurphoria is but it sounds like a gay show.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:14 PM
1

6'5" men are either going to look like Sasquatch or or Slender Man. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:33 PM
4

Yeah that's too tall. Beyond 6' life gets uncomfortable because things aren't made for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:30 PM
-2

Women who date men and women who date women are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:25 PM
4

"Repeat offenders" as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:04 PM
-1

Autistics are the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:58 PM
0

Or that they're intentionally not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:56 PM
1

Did you stay with them long-term?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:38 PM
2

Anyone can either get what they want or go without. It is unfair and selfish dickbag behavior to your partner to waste their time if you don't really like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:15 PM
1

Everybody has the option to hold put for the partner they want. What are you even going to do with one that you don't want? It'd be better to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:05 PM
2

? Women text almost non-stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:48 PM
2

OP is talking about putting on an act and being phony, not genuinely having a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:45 PM
2

That's what it's supposed to mean but OP is making it into something fake like an act that you put on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:44 PM
3

Trying to date people that you don't even like has a 0% success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:42 PM
3

Nobody cares about the existence of these guys except their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:08 PM
2

Game DOESN'T work. Being genuinely interesting and funny does. Flirting is one thing but this "game" stuff is the definition of "try hard" and isn't appealing to anyone, except maybe very very dumb people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:06 PM
1

There's no pressure to talk to those women. Talk to women who have personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:03 PM
1

Being a jerk isn't going to make girls like you. Nothing will. They either liked you already, or they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:52 PM
1

Game boils down to being comfortable talking to people and interested in what they have to say. Ot should be obvious to guys by now: women like to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:41 PM
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One.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:33 PM
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If it's been multiple guys and you haven't learned your lesson yet, kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:09 PM
1

Hm, probably about 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:54 PM
1

How many men have you dated as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:21 PM
0

Did any of those men propose to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:30 PM
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Only when they approach in an inappropriate place, in a creepy way don't take no for an answer. For both sexes there is finesse to it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:26 PM
1

No, men say that with their words and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:08 PM
3

We never wanted the guys that are available, we just might not have known it yet until we actually experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:43 PM
1

You're not a woman who dates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:58 PM
1

Incels are also the ones who shame women for body count. Neither of you in these cases respect women. Why should women approach you? And if you don't want to approach women, don't. Respect them and leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:01 PM
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Oh really? And you know this how? You're not a woman. And the body count thing is related yo my point. If you can't be respectful, women don't have to be bothered with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:30 PM
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It doesn't need justification. Men approach and women get approached. It's that way across all cultures and mist animal species.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:09 PM
1

Because that's what some of you guys sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:07 PM
1

To men any attention from women is interpreted as sexual until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:47 PM
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That's irrelevant to what we're talking about. Men (and women) don't respect sluts and approaching men is seen as slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:34 PM
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At least you're not going to get bedded and used by her then gain a reputation as a slut for it. At least your peers won't be talking shit about you. Girls learn really quick, like in middle or highschool, to leave boys alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:31 PM
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Men's role is to approach, women's roal is to be approached. Men don't respect women who approach, they're seen as loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:23 PM
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Yes they do. Men approach and women get approached. Since you don't get it I'll spell it out for you: women who approach are automatically seen as loose and whorish. Men don't want the women they're interested in to approach them. That's their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:18 PM
-3

It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:15 PM
0

What's the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:06 PM
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When women approach men they get labelled all sorts of awful things. Men do not respect women who approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:00 PM
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Women can't approach men and be respected for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:59 PM
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People like that don't have DMs unless they're psychopaths. They can meet people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:54 PM
1

Troll post is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:44 PM
1

These people need therapy and to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:38 PM
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Still don't know what you're talking about. "Work" is only in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:23 AM
1

Dad bod means fat with a beer gut and thinning hair from the stress of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:52 PM
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Maybe I live in a fit area of my country but I can't wrap my head around women actually preferring fat men. I just don't get it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:51 PM
1

That's a gen X problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:44 PM
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Complaining doesn't accomplish much in life generally. I don't understand how we evolved to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:42 PM
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It's not? Who are they doing it with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:39 PM
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He's not successful though. He's coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:39 PM
1

K what am I telling? I don't get with guys who are fresh from a breakup if that's what you mean. That's drama I don't need in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:18 PM
1

Nursing and teaching are inherently more valuable to society than sports, as are most stereotypical female roles. Athletes could just as easily play for free and all the profit generated could go to charities and social programs. So why don't they? You're saying sports generate more money but that's not true. Care workers and teachers are literally the foundation of everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:56 PM
1

So a teacher or nurse can negotiate until they're payed as much as professional sportsball thrower? I wonder why they never thought of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:24 PM
1

Um, I'm not a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:39 PM
1

You're basing that off of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:48 PM
1

Nope. There are stats on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:54 PM
1

Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:52 PM
2

Because divorce is a difficult, complicated and traumatic process. And why don't guys seem to grasp that romance novels are FICTION not reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:51 PM
6

Seems like women's work would pay better if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:49 PM
2

Although sugar mommas do exist it's usually men paying young pretty women to be with them. You should be asking them these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:14 PM
3

Well, men are willing to pay for it. That's their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:12 PM
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The women give their time, their beauty and the best years of their lives. Sometimes children. Why would any man engage in that if he didn't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:24 PM
1

That definitely hasn't been my observation. They'll already be talking to other girls and maybe have one lined up before the breakup is final.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:28 PM
1

None of it is trivial to them, obviously. Who do you think you are to dictate people's relationship especially when you don't know a damn thing about it? Your job is to listen. Or at least keep your ignorance to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:12 PM
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That's incredibly stupid and I only ever hear men saying that. Instead of mansplaining and trivializing why women are unhappy, why don't you actually listen to the reasons that they give?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:43 PM
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"We are all lying sacks of shit basically." Speak for yourself and only yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:40 PM
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Abuse, cheating, fights, husband is unsupportive, the relationship is dead, these are all top reasons women (and men) report as reasons for divorce. Nobody get divorced because they're bored. It's not a fun process to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:05 PM
1

That is correct. People aren't getting divorced out of boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:36 PM
1

It's the price women pay for being mothers of young children. Men don't have that handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:09 PM
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Do men care about all the work that women do or do they take it for granted also?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:03 PM
1

The risk of poverty is the main thing. Women are multiple times more likely to end up in poverty after divorce compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:59 PM
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Women have it harder than men in divorce and women have it harder staying in a bad marriage vs. divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:58 PM
-1

I mean they probably shouldn't do the sorts of things that easily spread it. Men being on the down low or dropping the soap in prison and then bringing it back to their women at home is a very real issue in some communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:31 PM
2

Um, I don't care. Nothing you say will make them attractive, or respectable to me. Especially calling non gamers "normies". They can all die alone after that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:23 AM
2

LOL so they're shut ins. That's so much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:16 AM
1

I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:15 PM
0

It's not a stereotype when it's true. Again, have you been inside a game store ever? That smell will give you Vietnam flashbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:02 PM
2

K I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:54 PM
1

What? I don't have dogs and cats. What a random thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:52 PM
-1

We don't hate them. We see gamers as unwashed and childish. They're usually fat and pale with bad skin too. Not attractive. Visit any GameStop and tell me it ain't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:52 PM
1

I should have clarified, I have no interest in autists, either on a platonic or romantic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:50 PM
1

I can confidently say that I know nothing whatsoever about any of my friends' genitals. What even is this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:49 PM
2

It's called "getting to know each other". How am I supposed to know if I'm interested in them if we just met online?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:47 PM
1

LOL are you out there measuring the dicks of men we are sleeping with?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:10 PM
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Should women just never look at you, talk to you or say anything nice to you unless they want you? If that's how these guys see it then I have to say all of you are poorly socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:53 PM
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On a DATING site shouldn't it be understood that going on a date is the goal? I'm not going to flirt with some stranger on the Internet that I've just started talking to. Not gonna happen. I do flirt with guys at the bar, concerts, parties etc. But even at those, the men who aren't partnered don't seem to want to talk to anybody male or female. Unless they think you might have drugs. They're definitely not afraid of looking like creeps then. IDK maybe it's my generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:46 PM
1

Provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:35 PM
2

"Likewise, supporting queer rights doesn’t mean you have to date every queer person, but rejecting someone because they’re queer contradicts the idea of equality." Is a fucked up thing to say dude. What other conclusion do you expect us to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:34 PM
1

Okay so you have nothing. You just want to believe we think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:33 PM
1

Okay what women are saying that then? Be specific and explain why you'd believe them and not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:28 PM
2

I read the comment. "You don't really believe in equality of a group unless you put out for said group" is basically what you're saying right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:28 PM
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My idea of effort is asking the guy about his interests, initiating conversation, everything short of asking the guy out which ought to be his job. After so many go-nowhere conversations I have come to the conclusion that men in my age group are dull LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:26 PM
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If you're going to call me a liar I can shut this whole discourse down and report you. There's no point in a conversation like that. The guys who look like models aren't the only ones who send dull messages (I suspect they are scammers/fake profiles a lot of the time) and I hit "ignore" "delete" on all of them. No amount of pretty pictures make up for having no hobbies and nothing whatsoever to say. I even put "Not interested in hookups" and if they can't be bothered to read ot why should I be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:24 PM
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Wrong. None of them are approaching or receptive, unless messages like "hey" or "wanna hook up?" count and they don't to me. I'm trying to actually date a real human, not text, sext, hook up or get scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:08 PM
1

Relationships are about love and consent, not equality. We're not resources. We are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:05 PM
5

Men aren't doing any work, I have to do all of it, is what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:04 PM
3

I'm not looking to date women so that doesn't matter to me. I don't see dudes, be they hot, fat, thin or regular, crossing any oceans any time soon. I think they'd stay home and play video 24/7 if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:03 PM
3

Female condoms feel like a sandwich baggie. Maybe that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:56 PM
4

I pretty much laugh at them. What else can you do? It's utterly ridiculous. These guys are obviously mad that they didn't get picked by the kind of women they want. They probably got rejected by a ugly girl that they thought would be low hanging fruit and their self-esteem never recovered. The ego will do anything to defend itself, even things that make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:48 PM
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Do women have this much power? IDK it seems like finding a guy who's motivated enough to even look up from his phone or hold a conversation is like pulling teeth these days. Don't get me started on OLD and how little effort men put in there. And it obviously gets them laid somehow or they wouldn't be doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:43 PM
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I've read all the comments and it's only men saying this. Women don't appear to view it that way (bi men being less masculine).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:39 PM
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People are acting like women are harshly judging or hating on bi men. We're not. We are just not attracted to them. Most heterosexual people prefer other heterosexuals. It's no more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:34 PM
-1

So wait, by your logic I have to f animals if I'm a vegan animal rights activist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:31 PM
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Like it or not that'll how most women get HIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:30 PM
1

No way in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:27 PM
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I'll engage with whatever I want. All of their points are spot on. It's like holding up a mirror to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:24 PM
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You know it kinda baffles me how men who've supposedly never had a dick inside them act like they know better than women about how it feels. Porn style sex is painful. Big dicks tend to hurt. If you don't believe me, try it on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:23 PM
1

Where's the flaw though? Not finding most men attractive isn't a flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:15 PM
1

I guess I am out of the loop when it cones to girl talk. Where are the ones saying that most men are ugly and criminals are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:13 PM
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Who's creating single mothers? Oh right, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:09 PM
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This guy can't be for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:05 PM
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Is it wrong though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:03 PM
1

Seems like kind of a pointless thing to waste time talking about then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:15 PM
1

You still got a friend though. And maybe a booty call in the future when they're thinking about ya. IDK it is inefficient if you're only looking for a partner right away. This is why most people when I was young kept their options open so to speak. Casts a wider net.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:55 PM
1

Then why are they even on there if they get nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:53 PM
1

Oh my god 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:42 PM
-1

It shows you didn't cheat or just coast by in class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:19 PM
1

It was actually way less than that but you get the point. Men get hundreds of matches too. That's what the apps are for and they're very good at it. But it seems they just throw whatever and whoever at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:01 PM
4

It's rough out there. These males have nothing going on and I'm glad I'm not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:56 PM
7

Men ARE incredibly picky. Men DO constantly talk about how they only want x, y, or z type of woman. Instead of "alpha" or "beta" women get called "good women" "wife mayerial" vs. "H03" "for the streets" or worse. What planet are you living on OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:52 PM
2

Getting to know someone before you jump into a relationship is "wasting time"? Maybe you should state upfront in your profile that you're in a hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:33 PM
0

Out of 100 men I've interacted with through online dating, 99 acted poorly. One guy I think was just lonely and looking for someone to talk to but not really date. Do men have to deal with women acting disrespectful and aggressive? I'm genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:24 PM
3

Or just not compatible, or just not feeling it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:01 PM
1

Not like he's going to come and take my cats. I'm not interested in arguing with you about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:56 PM
1

Same way you know if anyone would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:52 PM
0

Men invented "small dick energy" and other forms of penis shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:42 PM
22

It's because the importance of those traits are subjective and vary from man to man based on a lot of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:39 PM
1

I'd vote for Vance. He's invested in helping men with real problems, like homelessness and the drug crisis. Not mean social media posts that hurt the widdle feelings of the terminally online. Get off social media guys, it's not serving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:03 PM
1

LOL you heard it here folks. Whenever a woman tells you her feelings, thoughts and preferences she's not telling you the truth but a "fictional story". You're an abusive gaslighter dude, STFU. This is your last warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:45 PM
5

The guys who want to date in college probably should give them a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:34 PM
8

That's fine. They just shouldn't be resentful when women feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:28 PM
3

Gay men are adept at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:15 PM
3

His situation is fictional. Those girls marry the older guys. The ones looking to date him now were there along. They were probably too nerdy, shy or busy with their school work for him to even consider at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:13 PM
8

Why didn't you date college girls who liked guys their own age? That's right, because they were probably too nerdy for your taste or something. That's exactly how ones who dated up felt about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:11 PM
1

Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:44 PM
11

Ladies, depending how you answer OP is gonna be turning up in your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:49 PM
1

There should be one for women who are cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:04 PM
4

Take your politics somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:46 PM
1

I'm taking to a man. And you're about a week late.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:33 PM
1

The same-sex part is gay. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:32 PM
0

Dating apps. Case in point. Get offline and date in the real world. Women mostly hate those things anyway. In 2025 people aren't dating because they're busy and not motivated to date. It's a conscious choice. People who want relationships seek them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:50 PM
2

Certain people don't date because they choose not to, but most do. Nobody is out there trying to sate with no success. That's silly, and a terminally online opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:08 PM
1

That's called being young and dating around. Everybody does it. Chad is usually rich and well connected and he'll marry a sorority girl right out of college. You've probably never even met a Chad. They and Stacies live in a world of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:19 PM
3

It's more than 70%. Almost every man gets married at some point, some more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:52 PM
3

We can marry whoever we want or else not get married at all. Both are fine options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:51 PM
12

Chads are in relationships. Married with kids even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:47 PM
3

K bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:45 PM
12

It doesn't matter what men do, women will not have sex with men they don't find desirable, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:45 PM
2

The point is to stay together and work on the relationship or at least get along and be supportive of one another. Don't make it tough in the first place. Kids need to learn resilience, that family members don't always like each other all the time, but that they stay because they love each other. Not to mention, marriage is a vow and it sets a really shameful example to break it. It's selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:38 PM
2

That is fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:44 AM
2

No they do not. Do you not like, ever spend time around human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:31 PM
5

Then why are 99.99% if them not weak or submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:14 AM
9

If the women liked to be submissive then these cultures wouldn't need to threaten and punish them for not being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:27 PM
4

I've had male and female roommates. A female roommate might not replace the flowers but they will at least notice and say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:33 PM
2

You men sure like to throw toddler tantrums over the littlest stuff. This woman, talking about a (not even real) hypothetical husband hurt y'all's feelings SO BADLY that you want to overturn society. LOL get a grip!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:37 PM
1

Continuing to argue at someone after they've already dismissed you isn't debating, especially when you don't know more than them. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:31 PM
1

So, you're threatening to kill her, or saying she should be killed over this tweet? Is that what I'm hearing? People on the Internet make mean jokes. Deal with it. The only one who can make you hateful is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:54 PM
1

The debate was over when I initially replied to him. Quit white-knighting for a man. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:51 PM
2

Hm. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:47 PM
-2

Oh please. Nobody is dumb enough to believe that story, not even you. This is Reddit, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:45 PM
3

No. They wanted sex and some dates, and they got them 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:04 PM
5

I'm debating. You're wrong. That's not in any handbook anywhere, so you're wrong about that too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:38 PM
3

As many as they want I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:37 PM
1

No LOL that's not even close to what I'm saying. I'm saying you can fight for human rights and not want to fuck humans. Any category of humans, doesn't matter. And to reject someone, anyone, for any reason or no reason at all, is a perfectly noble thing to do. Why is this such a bothersome concept for you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:32 PM
-5

He's projecting a revenge fantasy onto her. But whetev's, cope how you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:29 PM
-1

"It’s like you’re just trying to ignore everything I said." Yeah cause you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:43 PM
5

Guess she decided she didn't want it with you 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:42 PM
-1

Everybody is equally replaceable in this world be they men, women, or children. The only individuals who society values are the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:40 PM
7

The women who act like this, do not care. And I don't suppose that they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:20 PM
-4

Women aren't dumb. We know what those apps are for and what men want from them. Her breaking up with you had nothing to do with any of that, and she wouldn't have stayed with you for lack of options anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:09 PM
2

Women are also replaceable. Everybody is replaceable in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:06 PM
1

WTF kind of logic is it that someone can't advocate for another's humanity unless they're willing to date them? Get outa here, you're not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:32 PM
1

So what's the debate here? There are men who act toxic and they get called out on it. You guys are acting like they should get a pass because women are allowed to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:25 PM
3

For the last time it's not hypocrisy. Do you not have, feelings, desires, emotions or attractions like a human being?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:17 PM
4

No you're just mad that they like him and not you. Partners aren't interchangeable trading cards you know. These women don't have to like you, they can reject you for any reason or no reason, just like they can pick a guy for any reason or no particular reason at all. It's how humans work guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:27 PM
6

I'm talking about judging their worth as a person and thinking less of them. Men do this A LOT to fat women, older single women, unfeminine women, promiscuous women, single mothers, etc. THAT is what's meant by toxic masculinity. Absolutely no one is saying the men need to date these women. We're saying treat them like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:37 PM
3

It's not homophobic either. You're coming from a very entitled mindset. Nobody owes anybody attraction. If I only want red headed guys, does that mean I hate brown haired? No of course not, that'd be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:03 PM
2

It doesn't come from hate. Not wanting to f someone doesn't require any justification. You ever want the person or you don't. For most women, "don't" is the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:58 PM
3

Not wanting to f someone doesn't equate to hating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:49 PM
5

Except nobody is doing that. Nobody is saying preferences are toxic. Calling women slurs, disrespecting them and making judgements based on their past is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:29 PM
9

Neither party are the problem. There's no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:55 PM
5

It's only disgusting to you, the one salty over being rejected. It's not objectively so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:54 PM
1

They're real men. But they're gay is the thing. I'm happy for these guys but they're not for me. I like straight men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:48 PM
1

No I don't want men to care about my problems. Unless they are people close to me in my life I couldn't give a flying fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:37 PM
2

It's not an insult. I'm using it as a descriptor. Not all woman-hating losers are incels but all incels are woman-hating losers. And yeah, their personalities are 100% bad. On the other hand killers can be nice people, as I've explained in several comments in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:15 PM
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Guy you literally just did the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:29 PM
1

They have varying personalities like anyone. They're not mean unpleasant Disney villains.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:58 PM
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Hello? Mods? Edit: seems they're not responding. So, my good sir, go fuck your mother and have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:09 PM
2

Okay. She's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:09 PM
2

Says who? Some videos you watched on YouTube or Tiktok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:06 PM
0

I'm not talking about men who struggle with dating. I'm talking about incel types. You know full well there's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:05 PM
2

Actually it's: Serial killers are bad but with some redeeming characteristics and some, very damaged people find them attractive. Meanwhile, incel types likely have no redeeming characteristics and are either invisible because they isolate themselves or they do everything within their power to estrange those around them through their repugnant words and behaviors. It's not a matter of women choosing one over the other. No women were EVER going to choose the incel types. A few unhinged women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:59 PM
5

These women are pathetic for being into serial killers. They're not pathetic for not being into awkward dorks. It's not an either/or.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:24 PM
5

Nobody is obligated to care about your problems. And of they don't, it doesn't mean you get to throw a little baby tantrum and say all these crazy things. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:23 PM
6

All prisoners even the ones on death row receive counseling. Not sure why you're arguing at me about this like I invented the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:35 PM
3

Nobody said anything about who is the better person. I said serial killers and many criminals have better personalities than the single loser types. Quit being salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 PM
3

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:31 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:20 PM
2

I suppose it'd be called "player" or "liberated".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:18 PM
6

If they were walking red flags they would have gotten caught early.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:17 PM
6

Well yeah I'd be in prison. I'm talking about their personalities, not their crimes. Many criminals are very smart and charismatic. They have to be. Someone like that is going to attract people who don't care about the crime aspect. By contrast, someone who has no social skills is going to attract nobody. I should have clarified that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:16 PM
2

K well they're attracted to the fame obviously. There are whole books written about this topic you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:11 PM
4

Who says serial killers aren't kind or of good character? Incel types lack in those traits too. They don't have any redeeming social traits. Lot of them never even socialize at all. Or if do they act weird or annoying. All of this is 100% within their control. Going back to the serial killers, they have good social skills and know how to be perceived positively. It's all and act but that's neither here nor there. What's stopping the rest of you from doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:51 PM
2

Nah. It has to be a persistent habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:42 PM
3

I never said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:40 PM
2

Someone with no standards or self-respect who engages in risky sexual activity with just anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:39 PM
14

Maybe if those people stopped advocating that I lose my life or my human rights, Id be a lot nicer to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:39 PM
2

We would be safe from war if there were no men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:37 PM
8

Serial killers tend to be charming, intelligent and introspective. I would rather work as a therapist for serial killers than whiny, obtuse little incels that will give me headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:37 PM
6

You're going to have to explain what you mean by that because last I checked women aren't asking anything of men except for basic respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:34 PM
1

In the past schools required that you sit nicely in your desk, respect the teacher, and study. So how come so many boys nowadays act like feral animals and can't even do basic things asked of them? There's nothing wrong with the schools. Parents aren't raising their boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:32 PM
4

If those videos were true I wouldn't have spent most of my primary school education sitting in the hallway or in the principal's office.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:29 PM
15

Or maybe these guys are even more pathetic socially than a serial killer. Sucks to suck. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:21 PM
7

How are women "abusing" power? By not having sex when they don't want to? Like, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:14 PM
3

All I see in Ukraine is white men killing each other and destroying each other's countries for no reason whatsoever. If anything I dislike humans more now. We should be more evolved than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:11 PM
6

They bash every single thing we do to enjoy ourselves (that doesn't revolting around them).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:09 PM
1

Shouldn't criticize an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:07 PM
3

That's literally not what a slut is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:57 PM
-1

Unless they're in solitary confinement or an iron lung anyone can get laid. These guys just don't try. Then they act entitled and hateful, like it's society's fault that they're lazy and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:31 PM
9

Because they're bad comparisons 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:07 PM
2

It will but not because some losers who nobody cares about can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:24 PM
13

If men are so much smarter and resistant to gaslighting how come they end up in abusive situations as often as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:27 PM
8

My guy, everyone on Reddit smokes weed, eats ass and has probably had a threesome. You're mostly talking to millennials here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:41 PM
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I guess I'm too much of a blue collar normie to understand this. Sounds like how rich people act and we already knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:38 AM
1

I don't think you have watched women over the age of 20 by the sounds of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:51 PM
1

Those other things don't pay quick big money like showing one's tits does. Thank men for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:09 PM
1

Women are not unaware of ourselves. We see the behavior you are describing in girls. We were all girls once. Grown women have jobs, children, mortgages and husbands they don't have time to even be worrying about "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:06 PM
2

Normal men and women are not like this. It sounds like you're from da hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:47 PM
1

We keep hoping to meet safe ones I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:39 PM
2

Pretending to be a girl? Fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:33 PM
1

Have you ever actually seen women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:26 PM
1

This literally put me through college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:59 PM
1

They're not brainwashed. It's a business like any other. Everybody has bills to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:58 PM
1

Having sympathy for someone doesn't mean that you can't also find them (or their behavior) disgusting or unacceptable. You're conflating sympathy with liking someone or giving their bad behavior a pass. That'll not what sympathy is. Sympathy is just a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:46 PM
0

If a guy don't have any friends and have never had a girlfriend, something is obviously wrong. The common denominator is him. It would really help your case if these guys would actually stop being misogynistic sex pests with abhorrent political beliefs and bad hygiene. You know these stereotypes exist for a reason. We literally have concrete examples. People still have sympathy for these guys. I think you're expecting the world to fix their problems for them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:10 PM
2

These guys are ridiculous. "The feminists won't let me make friends!" Good grief Charlie Brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:08 PM
2

People have sympathy for lonely guys. What does sympathy accomplish? Doesn't mean we're gonna date them or that we should.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:56 PM
-3

They ARE trying to help these guys. Guys, please get a clue: if you're not a raging misogynist, women will like you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:50 PM
1

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:36 AM
1

I have empathy. Doesn't mean I'm gonna be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:33 AM
1

Delusion is worse than nothing. It's actively self harming. These idiots will figure this out hopefully not too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:32 AM
1

Empathy doesn't maintain relationships. Shoeing up does. Guys today don't show up, yet they expect empathy, sympathy and all sorts of of other nonsense they should have gotten from a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:19 AM
1

Actually normal people make analogies all the time and people don't take it so literal. Why are you sperging?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:14 AM
1

Men are pets, women are pets, children are pets. Expensive pets at that. Have you taken the time to think about why I made this analogy? Because I'm not the first one to make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:03 AM
1

It's not settling for what they can get, it's buying a product because it's easier and more convenient than engaging with life as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:01 AM
1

"Companion" is the word I was originally going to use but most men after the honeymoon stage won't even get off their butts and go anywhere with their woman. Have you looked at relationships lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:59 AM
1

How about do neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:50 AM
1

Why is this question something to fixate on if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:06 AM
1

Like, he's too early or can't keep it up? That's more of a skill issue. I get it, it's frustrating. But hey being good at going downtown is a plus in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:50 AM
1

They're still not there in the room with you. You're still touching yourself because nobody is touching you. It's just glorified porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:48 AM
3

These are two different things that feel completely different and I need both. I've never been with a man who had an "inadequate" package. Most guys are bigger than they think they are. I blame porn for their skewed self image, and the fact that men are shamed for their dick size whether it be "too big" or "too small" but that's another discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:58 PM
2

I've only ever read it in fiction. Might be a "men writing women" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:52 PM
3

I mean, kinda but not really. All people are replaceable and men got killed in battle often. Women died in childbirth often. That's why for millions of years until recently we didn't live in insular nuclear households, we lived in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:40 PM
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Somebody listened to that Jessee Lee Peterson podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:48 PM
1

Even in the cultures where it's the norm it seems like the in-laws are way too close, involved, maybe even verging on controlling for my taste. If the guy is from a culture where living with parents is not tradition I have to wonder what's wrong with him. Why isn't he more independent? If it's expensive why doesn't he live with a few roommates instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:43 PM
3

Any woman who has sons thinks about this. All we can tell our boys is "Try your best to not be creepy, don't do x, y, or z thing and apologize if do it by mistake. And if the other person doesn't accept that then just move on." That's how it is with human interactions. We're all awkward or too sensitive sometimes. It's not that nobody has sympathy because everyone does. Everyone has been in that position themselves at one time or another. It's just that there's nothing really to be done about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:30 PM
9

In societies where there is no government, men and women tend to stay rather separate and fill roles collectively. All the women raise the children and all the men protect the village.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:22 PM
1

I assumed we were talking about all the gen z guys currently pretending to be in love with chat bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:19 PM
3

Having cats, wine (I prefer coffee), an active social life, a beautiful peaceful home, and time to volunteer and help causes because there's no man-baby husband taking all your time...sounds like a good independent life to me. Gooning to words on a screen created by some bot doesn't. It's like having a long distance relationship with someone you will never see, only it's worse because they don't even exist. FYI texting and talking online isn't dating. I feel like this also needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:49 PM
1

There's hyper realistic androids walking around dating humans? What kind of conspiracy theory is this now? I think I've heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:42 PM
-4

Because people sometimes need a good kick in order to get back up. None of this b.s., not the masturbatory AI thing, nor your sorry pity party attitude, are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:28 AM
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That's not a replacement since they already have those things regardless. Men don't need to be replaced. Men are not needed, period. They're just sometimes a nice addition to a woman's life. Almost like a pet. The men in question are filling a void that would otherwise be filled by a partner. They have a need to fill it. Nobody talks to bots because they genuinely find it to be an enjoyable pass time. You're literally talking to yourself like a nutcase. It's pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:03 PM
8

WTF is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:16 PM
1

I think the men that this stuff would appeal to are very sadly insane, and that our technology is keeping pace with the insanity mankind is facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:10 PM
-1

How about stop making excuses for people to act even more unhinged and crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:36 PM
1

How is it even a partner at all? It's not a person that looks at you, smiles at you or touches you. It's just words on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:32 PM
-1

Some people deserve a kick to get of their butts and do something about their predicament. These guys need to get a grip, because this is not how any human being should act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:29 PM
0

Are you sure they're not single by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:26 PM
-4

Women aren't replacing men with AI chat bots. Women actually are being independent. These men are not. And yeah, they are acting like losers. Delusional, self-imposed losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:24 PM
1

I was confused about the AI girlfriend thing. Originally I thought it meant guys were using AI to practice conversation on, or to help them compose texts, you know, with real women. Are people out there intentionally talking to bots as if they're real people and forming attachments to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:21 PM
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I mean no machine is ever fail proof so they will always need operators and engineers to constantly babysit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:19 PM
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And when their parents die what do they plan to do? Can't they see that this lifestyle is unsustainable and foolish?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:19 PM
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If I make more money than him what do I need is 50¢ for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:12 PM
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Women with power and money are not doing that perverted stuff. That's just your male fantasy (and it's kinda gay NGL). Women with power and money don't bother with men, at all. That's kind of the point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:11 PM
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The men are all whining that it's the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:07 PM
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It's only bad when women do it, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:58 PM
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Women who have money don't look for men who earn more. They tend to marry men in their own income bracket. It's men that get all bitchy when their wife out-earns them, and are more likely to become abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:57 PM
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You don't need a STEM background to program or repair robots. You just need experience operating them and training to do the programming and fixing. This was my job for nearly five years, and my degree is in a completely unrelated field.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:52 PM
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Most factory workers are women. Mostly immigrant women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:48 PM
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Are they homeless then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:43 PM
1

That sounds like poor self-esteem on the men's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:42 AM
1

This is what I'm thinking. There's more to her story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:00 AM
3

Guy you're 36 and you sound like an edgy teenager with all your "deep" revelations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:55 PM
0

Who was limiting women in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:53 PM
1

It's called hormones and our's suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:18 PM
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We all dream of having a spouse who offers those things. UNF usually it's kind if the opposite for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:48 PM
2

I'm well past the "wall" and I still don't want sympathy. From anyone. Never have. What does sympathy get anyone unless it's from a family member or close friend? I know all too many single moms and they don't want sympathy either. They don't really have time to be thinking about that because they're busy trying to keep their kids fed and schooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:35 PM
2

I acknowledge what is evident. Evidently, women are happier single than in bad marriages. I think any study you could find would support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:30 PM
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No idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:23 PM
6

Those guys aren't living in their vehicle because they wanted that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:23 PM
2

It's classic projection. The people who complain about others being shallow want to be shallow themselves and have it work. But it doesn't. IDK if abundance really has much to do with it. In fact I think it might really be the opposite. Most hyper-selective and shallow people never really had options to begin with. That's why they're alone all the time. Sometimes people with lots of options can be shallow probably but more often people will the most options are open to the most people, and end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:18 PM
2

I never asked/don't care about your body count. You said "men don't have sympathy for you" and I responded to that. So what are you talking about? Maybe you need help also.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:04 PM
1

What's a group made up of? Individuals. You're just discrediting the ones that don't fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:02 PM
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Men aren't building roads out of sympathy. They're paid to do it. If anything, it's women's work that is unpaid, since women do most of the raising of children and care of family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:00 PM
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I don't want their sympathy. I want to be left alone so I can take care of my business. These guys need mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:57 PM
2

Marriage doesn't benefit people who don't want to be married. And older divorced women who never re-marry, don't want to be married 🤷‍♀️. Don't know why you're trying to argue with people about what's best for them. If someone tells you that they are happy with their decisions, believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:55 PM
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35 and 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:43 PM
3

I opened every single one and it's all pigs saying gross things or being like "Why won't you talk to meee?" after they were already told no. Do you think that just because a woman looks a certain way she should have to put up with that crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:37 PM
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Divorced women are only less happy than happily married women, and happily married women are sadly a minority. Marriage offers no benefits to women, except maybe lower taxes. Splitting costs is a benefit but then you can also just get a roommate or live with family. The benefits of marriage only apply to mothers and children, and to some extent men because married men live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:30 PM
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A man can meet an exceed my standards but I still probably won't pick him. Women are looking for a life partner not shopping for produce at the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:57 AM
3

The ones not in relationships are happy. What's your confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:55 AM
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I'm not in my 20's and I'm in a relationship with someone my own age. What's the contradiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:53 AM
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Every one of the comments are guys being rude to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:51 AM
3

You mean rich white trust fund kids who's parents own mountain properties? Not exactly average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:43 AM
2

That's benevolent sexism (although I wouldn't call a stranger touching my property after I told them not to, "benevolent"). It's condescending, insulting and dehumanizing. Not good treatment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:41 AM
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There are no benefits. These men offer nothing, absolutely nothing, except annoyance and possibly danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:38 AM
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What benefits? Ask older women how they feel about not having men hound them anymore. They'll tell you it's a great relief. Older women care about their familial relationships, their jobs and their money. They are not interested in random men, at all. Most are married or divorced so they already been there and done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:33 AM
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Being constantly targeted makes most women feel disgusted by men in general. Doesn't help that the shit starts when we're like, 11 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:30 AM
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It wasn't like that at any of the schools I went to with white kids. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:53 PM
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I don't think anyone is telling boys to "man up". This is a problem that is taken very seriously by everyone. The elephant in the room here is the parents. They don't sit down and read with their kids, don't discipline their kids, they feed the kids nothing but junk food, and a good chunk of the kids are being raised in single-parent households. Garbage in, garbage out. Everything is amplified in males due to biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:42 PM
2

You went to school in da hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:38 PM
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No discipline. No fathers in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:29 PM
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When I was that age the available guys were all really immature. I did date a few and they were nightmares to deal with. All the stable, responsible, mature ones het snatched up quickly. They're not sitting on the shelf for long. "Body count" has never come up for me in real life. I don't think it's something most people think about or care about. Never chase a man. I tell this to all young women looking to date. Men will never respect a woman who chases and it's a good way to wind up used and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:26 PM
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Don't care. I'm tired of men passing blame and responsibility onto women. Women are not responsible for men's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:04 PM
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Maybe they shouldn't be allowed to vote, considering they don't have agency and will allegedly have sex with anyone they can because it's a "need" for them like food or shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:15 AM
1

And they have the shortest average lifespan in the world, and Afghanistan is the only country where women don't live longer than men. It's a shit pit. I don't know why anyone in the West thinks they want to live under the Taliban LOL. Pure insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:45 PM
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Oh boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:59 PM
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Gotta love it when someone on Reddit tries to mansplain history LOL. I told you there is nothing to debate here. Can't you accept that? If not I'll just mute you. Change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:59 PM
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Two extraordinary women discount the millions of others I guess. History isn't up for debate. Debate something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 PM
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It's literally a quote from people who lived during the time. Women have never have had any freedom, in post-Christian society, be they rich or poor. A wife is an obedient servant to her husband per the Bible and they took this literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:02 PM
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Yeah and they're having a hard time maintaining a population because so many women are dying. China is heading that way too. Oops, patriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:08 PM
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Even the wife of nobility was a slave in her own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:07 PM
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I think you should criticize people for whatever you want, and they can in turn criticize you for being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:01 PM
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The idealized version of a guy friend: is respect, is kind, listens and takes what she says to heart, is authentic, is reliable, gives and takes in equal measure. I think those guys exist but they get rarer and rarer the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:54 PM
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I feel great. Not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:43 PM
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Women care mire about the people in their lives than men do, is my point. Women not only show more interest, they also show up more. I think women want an idealized version of a man around but as they get older and more experienced they tend to say their female friends and relatives are the ones that they rely on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:42 PM
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There certainly are men who are pathetic like that. That's their problem. In my experience many men are equally as nosey and gossipy as women. Also men are not attracted to all women. It's easier for them to be on friendly terms with women they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:58 PM
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This post is written by a perv.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:55 PM
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Women are nosey dude. They absolutely want to know every minute detail of a guy's, or girl's life. And they catalogue this information. But men are famously the opposite: self-centered and never listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:50 PM
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Modern women are not looking for men as providers. They can provide for themselves. Perhaps they should start requiring this more though, since almost nobody can manage financially when the kids arrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:43 PM
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Those guys aren't filtered out at all. They chose their path. Some women do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:38 PM
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"Your friends sound like caricatures." That's how you know he's making these people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:36 PM
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These guys need to fix themselves. Women can't fix them and it's not their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:31 PM
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It's not always easy, or possible, to accommodate a big D. I think most women like regular sized ones. It's about how it feels, not how it looks. They say the camera adds ten pounds well, it's the opposite for dicks. That's why porn actors have to be endowed the way that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:19 PM
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Other than the very general advice you just have to figure it out. Women are individuals. You are an individual. I've met all my boyfriends and most of my friends at concerts, events and parties, and through mutuals. Others meet their's through work or at da club. Not to be too obvious but the advice is just meant to give you ideas that you can try out for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:00 PM
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Is this really a thing in real life? If it is I'm glad that I don't know these people. Most men I know, even conservatives are fine with women expressing their sexuality as long as they're not being reckless about it. The "virgin until marriage" or "virgin until me" ones choose to stay virgins themselves. If you're talking about red pill influencers well, don't expect anything they say to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:46 PM
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The reality shows that women are smarter and more mature. Every culture believes this and comedians make a killing writing jokes about it because of how universally true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:35 AM
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Yes, all five of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:30 AM
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At 16 a girl is already more mature than a 25yo man. And healthy people never stop developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:12 AM
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Men don't acknowledge women's struggles ever. Men don't care, men don't care about other men, men don't care about women, men don't care about their own sons and daughters, men don't care about their parents or their bloodline, men don't care about their nation, men don't care about children, men don't care about the environment, men don't care about the future or the past. I don't think men even really care about themselves, truly. They only pretend to care about things, when it's convenient, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:04 AM
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Why can't men ever lift a finger to advocate for their boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:56 AM
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Was that even a thing? Women got Trump elected. The Redditors spouting off against Trump are probably not even voting age Americans. Anyone who vocally supports 4B is doing it for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:50 AM
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Women put up with cheaters for a few reasons but "because they can get someone better looking" isn't one of them. That's some highschool shit, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:43 AM
1

Oh here we go with the whining again. Why are you so scared to be "blamed" for stuff you yourself did? And then you try to turn it around on me as of feminist behavior has anything to do with me. What the actual fuck is your problem? What neurodivergence do you have? Let me explain one final time how normal human beings work: When a woman, or anyone for that matter, tells you how she feels, you take it to heart. You don't get to disagree. God, I can see now why you feel like nobody has compassio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:03 PM
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You keep saying "blame". What does that even mean? It's nobody's fault when someone catches feelings for their friend. Nobody has ever claimed it was. Men still need to be mature adults and take rejection gracefully. If they choose to stay friends afterwards or not is between the two people to decide. Now, I've already warned you once about the victimhood crap. The conversation is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:48 PM
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Women aren't responsible for your feelings. Only you are. Speaking of accountability, have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:40 PM
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Nobody wants your understanding, sympathy or compassion. You aren't important bud. And you haven't been listening to women when they tell you their perspective. Instead you argue, mansplain, and try to play the victim. Get lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:37 PM
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Yes, men get blamed when they lie. Obviously. Nobody blames men for being upfront with their feelings. You seem to think that rejection is blaming. Nobody owes you anything just because you're feeling a certain way. If you like a girl and she doesn't like you back have you considered just, fucking off?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:45 AM
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Okay can I just ask why you think you can argue with a woman about what women feel? I'm not interested in whiny mansplaining and I've been civil with you up to this point. You have ZERO interest in understanding women's perspective. So tell me, exactly why in the fuck you think that you deserve understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:41 AM
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Do you think women are stupid and don't know which men they want to sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:34 PM
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I don't even know what you just said. Just lie because...you won't get blamed for your bad behavior? What sort of toddler logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:31 PM
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No dude you're missing my point. The guy doesn't have romantic feelings at the start. They're literally just friends. Then with time love grows between them. That's what women want. The idiots who hold on by the shred of a hope that their gal pal will fall in love with them are playing themselves. The smart thing to do would be to let go and stop wasting his own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:28 PM
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Not really. I have seen people get used for their money and homes by bums who don't want to go to work or get an education. It's your own fault if you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:22 PM
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I think people should date who they want and not waste time on people they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:21 PM
0

I know they lie. I'm asking why lie when it's not going to get you anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:57 PM
6

Why not just be honest and upfront then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:40 PM
2

The point is to be friends first and then if it becomes some more so be it. That's different from harboring secret love and hoping the other person comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:39 PM
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Unless she's into you you're not getting any regardless. Might as well be honest and see if there's a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:30 PM
1

So you are one of the violent ones? Okay. Stop being violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:06 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:52 PM
2

"Lowest common denominator" pertains to division in mathematics. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:50 PM
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The common denominator is them. They treat all women on dating apps the same, hoping to land one. Like fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:40 PM
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Nobody said it was your fault. Maybe stop making everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:39 PM
1

Reality doesn't bear this out. You seriously don't see nice average looking couples? What about your own parents (I'm assuming)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:17 PM
1

No. F off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:10 PM
1

Did I even fucking say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:04 PM
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All the ones on dating sites and social media are like that. The sooner ladies understand this the better. And no, respectful men aren't invisible. But they are offline. It's better to meet people organically. Of course this is not without risk either but at least there's a chance he might actually want a friend or a partner and not just a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:47 PM
3

Because that's how they are. Ask her what sort of messages the guys were sending her. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:42 PM
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Nobody is telling men to turn off their sex drives. Random men's sex drive doesn't have anything to do with women. It doesn't assign us any sort of job such as "gatekeeping", it doesn't determine our "value" and it is not our responsibility to control it. Men can control themselves. Women don't want to choose from a pool. They want a partner and a deep connection that's not just about sex. Having lots of men want to use our bodies isn't an advantage in anything that women actually value. Like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:15 PM
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Men don't want women's hearts. They want something else. 100 out of 100 of those guys are just trying to get some tail. It gets discouraging pretty quickly and that's why many women don't date. You're right about the puberty thing though. And that's another reason a lot of us are nervous to be near men, let alone date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:54 PM
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She's not bad or pathetic for having standards and being firm about them. Why are you guys so angry? Like I said it's not your place to tell women what they should want, think, or feel. It's not your jobs to school us or give us life advice. Your opinions mean absolutely 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:48 PM
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We don't want to be in the sexual marketplace. And what do you mean it doesn't matter if we like it or not? I have the "power" to sell my body. Well woopity freaking do! That's a worthless power to have. In fact it's worse than worthlessness, it's dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:44 PM
2

Oh dear, I hurt someone's little ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:10 PM
1

Apathy isn't really a disadvantage. I mean if you don't care if you live or die, that's kinda on you. No need to be an ass BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:53 PM
2

Having people want to f you is not an advantage in life, unless you are a prostitute. Please do not suggest that women by and large like the fact that men view us in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:49 PM
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It's not about the men. We don't care what men are doing. We just want to enjoy things without seeing women sexualized all the time. How would you guys feel if 99% of the media you were trying to enjoy had male characters walking around with their schlongs out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:45 PM
1

Why don't men help each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:28 PM
1

Nobody is saying they deserve it. We are saying it's their own damn fault. If men don't want to be killed by men then they should stop bloody killing each other how 'bout? Bitching at women about it as of it's our problem solves nothing. We don't want our sons to die either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:27 PM
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Guys you are missing the point. She can want what she wants. It's not your place to judge. She's not looking to date YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:08 PM
1

Most people can be outside the average if outliers skew the average. In Scandinavia in particular immigrants bring the average way down height wise. Most Nordic-blooded people are tall. It's not unreasonable to expect that in a Scandinavian man, especially if she's a tall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:56 PM
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I don't know where those stats are from. Even women are 6' in Scandinavia and much of Europe. I live in the Midwest, USA, and the Germanic/Nordic genes have the same effect here. IDK maybe it's the elves, dwarves and trolls bringing down the European average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:49 PM
5

Someone else already explained it with the Uber example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:37 PM
0

Depending on his age and nationality that's not a lot to ask for. That's the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:31 PM
2

Dude what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:27 PM
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