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She will take whatever she can because that’s how they work, nothing will ever be good enough, don’t give her a another dime and speak with a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 06:19 PM
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You hanging on because you’re a man, you’re hesitant to blow up your family because of your values. You’re a problem solver, you started something and you want to see it finished. You took your commitment seriously and you meant the vows you spoke for life. You are in it for the long-haul, you are not fucking around. you love your children and you know and understand how devastating this decision will be for them and you would do anything to spare them the pain of what’s to come. Unfortunately t…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 01:27 PM
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No, never, she may hear something from them that would run counter to her narrative
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 12:19 PM
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My ex is part of this scene as well, she was tired I guess of raising her children so she left all that to me while she goes out to the bar, it’s a ridiculous way for a 53 year old mother of four to behave, but hey I hope she’s having fun
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 08:56 PM
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How bad are you going to get banged up? How much money are you going to owe her and how long will you have to pay? Do you make more money than her? Does she make more money than you?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 02:12 AM
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I got her knocked up, she had a two-year-old from a previous marriage and I felt bad for her, in short, I’m an idiot
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 12:53 AM
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I always thought it was because they need to lock down somebody else, what better way to do that then get pregnant
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 05:34 PM
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Thanks for posting this OP, very helpful! Would you mind if I asked how you turned to Reddit to help meet people in real life, we are from the same area geographically but I don’t know what sub to check out
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/25 03:30 PM
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If I were you and I owned this home with your wife, you are both on the mortgage/deed, I would go back home and I would not leave until there is some type of court order in place, this can fuck you over badly
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 05:23 PM
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I’m sorry you’re going through this, I feel the exact same way, things will never be the same
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 02:21 AM
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Do you really feel this way? Sometimes I feel this way and I chalked it up to something having to do with the unknown. But sometimes I really feel like this
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 12:07 AM
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These are step kids of yours, they were her kids before marriage? And you don’t have any kids with her? Is that correct?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 01:54 PM
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It does get easier, it’s still horrible but it gets more manageable. I was with mine for 24 years and she’s been gone for almost a year now and hooked up with a dude two weeks after she left, meanwhile I can’t really give a shit about any type of sexual activity, I honestly want nothing to do with it right now. The nice thing is her relationship blew up in her face immediately, so there’s that lol. I guess you have to ask yourself, do you want her back, if the answer is no then you really need t…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 12:10 AM
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She will come with demands at some point, I know you’re a smart guy and you’re probably ready for this, but if not get ready. Everything is now a negotiation, Is she on the paperwork for the home? Is she on the mortgage or the deed? I’m so sorry to even ask these questions because I know it’s the last thing you want to deal with right now. There are very smart guys on this sub. Have you posted on here about what your next steps should be? She abandoned the home though and I think if you haven’t …
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 08:29 PM
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No kids is a good thing, you don’t want to see the devastation in their eyes as they go through the process. It also just makes things less complicated and now she can’t bang you for child support or use them against you. I haven’t looked at your profile but I get the impression that you are a younger man. You were going to rebuild and you are going to come out stronger than you ever were before. Is she coming after you for the house?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 08:02 PM
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Geez, I’m so sorry, I was blindsided by a narcissist as well. Do you have children together?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:54 PM
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I can’t speak for the person above but I totally understand what he saying. I ignored so many red flags when I first met her. I got her pregnant and I thought I was doing the right thing. I figured in time I would learn to fall in love with her, and I did. But she was just using me. She had a child from a previous marriage who is very young. I raised her as my own daughter and still think of her as such. I knew from the first date what kind of person she was and I just ignored it all and tried t…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:49 PM
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That I meant nothing to her. That she doesn’t love me and hasn’t loved me in years, Hell, maybe she never loved me
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:46 PM
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Same situation here, I didn’t even want to be with her at first, but she got pregnant and I “did the right thing“ So for 20 something years I made the money and paid for the house and everything else only for her to decide one day to just walk away, it’s a tough pill to swallow
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 12:14 PM
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I did too, I forgive myself and you should forgive yourself as well. It just meant more to you than it did to her. You were losing it all and I imagine she was happily walking away. What else could you have done? How could you not fight for something so important to you? You had a vision, You had hopes and dreams, you had a plan. You had to beg, you had to do what you had to do, you had to at least try because to you it was that important
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 02:10 AM
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Hey buddy, I feel exactly like you do I think , I don’t think I’ll ever be right again. I’m simply not who I was before and I don’t know how to get back my former self, would you care to share a little bit of your experience? And I understand if you don’t. I hope you find peace
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 10:17 PM
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I’m sorry for what you’re going through too homie
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 12:21 AM
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I was with my ex for 24 years, exactly half my life. It has been eight months and I’m still having a hard time. Definitely better than I was though. In someways I don’t know if I’ll ever be OK again. I miss my family so much and I have so much regret
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 10:48 PM
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If you can work it out, I would. It doesn’t sound like you guys fight. It sounds like she doesn’t work which means you’re going to get hammered as far as your finances are concerned. I had the same type of situation with my ex and looking back on it now, although it is still early, I think I would’ve just reconciled myself with getting laid a few times a year and put up with her shit. It’s a difficult process and it is very painful for the kids and yours are younger than mine. I guess it all dep…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 10:54 PM
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How old are the kids?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 10:04 PM
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50-50 seems to be the norm unless you have some type of record, If not don’t let her threaten for scare you. But now is the time to fight, she’s not your friend, she is the enemy now and she needs to be dealt with accordingly. Others will begin commenting hopefully on this thread and they will have very good advice, follow it
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 07:26 PM
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Screenshot and file and use as leverage for when she inevitably gets shitty with you again
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 02:16 PM
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What are you getting in return for leaving? There must be some kind of agreement in place otherwise I wouldn’t be going anywhere, you are entitled to hafe the equity no?
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 10:41 PM
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I’m not sure how long you were together but if she ever comes at you for alimony it’s going to be very difficult for her as long as you have all this documented. Hell, depending on how this goes you might get alimony from her
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 06:00 PM
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Do you share a home together? Because if you do and both of you on it together I would advise not moving anywhere, she just fucked her self badly. I would be filing for a restraining order immediately. I would document everything. I would also go to a doctor and have them fill out paperwork as well. Take pictures of every single mark you have on you from her. I would prosecute her to the fullest extent of the law. Stay in the residence and let her figure it out. Do not move anywhere
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 04:52 PM
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Sure it is
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:38 PM
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You don’t have to answer this if you don’t want to and I completely understand, but how old was she at the time of the affair?
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 01:51 AM
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It’s funny that this is your reply, I have such an urge to just go somewhere to the mountains and just chill for a little while, I keep staring at Google maps and planning it in my head but I haven’t gone yet . Why did you go and how did you feel afterwards? Do it help?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 10:53 PM
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I feel this… Mine only gives a shit about how much money she thinks she can get out of me, I’m just a commodity, like steel or soy beans. I was so stupid, I ignored so many red flags. I hate her guts
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 09:05 PM
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I get a lot of attention gay men when I’m around them. Sometimes I think my life would be easier if I could play for the other team… But I can’t, men are gross, in the physical sense… And in that way I have no idea what women see in us I am confused about what anybody sees in men physically, I am just as confused about gay men as I am about straight women as far as attraction goes
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 08:21 PM
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There are many on this sub who are far more experienced and smarter than I am, but I would say don’t give her a thing. Wait until instructed what to give her, in the meantime maybe you should take half the funds out of the joint account. The money you give her could set a precedent, so stop. In the meantime fight for 50%, hell fight for 70, fight for custody, She made her bed and she can lie in it
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 01:30 AM
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Hello brother, does she work? If she doesn’t work you could be on the hook for alimony, but you have no assets to divide no kids so there won’t be child support. If I was in your position I would pull the plug
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 11:55 PM
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No one is coming to save you
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 09:21 PM
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I guess your perspective on the lawlessness, your interpretation of the game, and how to navigate, I’m new to all this… and a little frightened lol
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 03:24 AM
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Would you be willing to expand on this?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 03:02 AM
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I was with her for 25, this douche bag dated her 30 years ago, he’s a real winner, unemployed, lengthy criminal history, six DUIs, Raging alcoholic
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 10:48 PM
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Definitely, she wanted to play a game of hop on cock
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 09:21 PM
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No, I’m still in the thick of it, but look forward to the day I’m where you are
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 07:08 PM
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Mine reconnected with her old boyfriend on LinkedIn of all places FFS. But when it originally went down she said she just needed space and couldn’t handle being in a relationship anymore after 25 years and four kids. Now she’s a 52 year old woman who thinks she’s 20 and acts like it as well
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 07:05 PM
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you dropped this 👑
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 09:26 PM
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Because it was more than just her, she represents home and hearth, without her the family just isn’t complete, something is broken now and it can never be fixed. It’s not her as a person so much as the symbolism of what she represents. Mine did the same thing, she blew up the family so she can act like a 20-year-old, I see the heartbreak in my kids face and I hate her for it but I still miss what she represents
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 01:52 AM
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Mine had more red flags then a Rutgers game, she got pregnant within three weeks of meeting her, She had a daughter from a previous marriage and I raised her… 25 years of red flags, I’m such an idiot
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 11:46 PM
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This sounds harsh but good, let her spiral, as she gets what she deserves and it only helps you from a legal standpoint
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 05:17 PM
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Fuck her, next time she leaves change the locks and don’t let her back in, She made her bed now let her lie in it, Focus on yourself and focus on your children, most especially your children. The switch has been flipped and there is no way to flip it back, it’s over
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 04:25 PM
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You are not the asshole, she was done with you the first time she broke it off, you’re coming home to a dirty house, she spending all of your money, And probably all have her own money. You put in the hard work and made changes to which not only she ignored but started having an emotional affair and honestly it’s probably more than that, I hate to say it and I take no joy in that fact. She deserves everything she gets. And because you are a good man and because you are a good father you have dee…
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 02:58 AM
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🫡
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 01:01 AM
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Sarcasm?
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 12:34 AM
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The question is what is she doing? How is she treating you? What is the status of your relationship? What is she saying and how is she acting?
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 05:34 AM
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If you can’t communicate with her properly and if it’s only one child and if you haven’t been married that long and you don’t have assets to split that may end up crippling you then leave, be done, be out and never get married again
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 12:00 AM
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Thank you brother, you too my friend
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 03:21 AM
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25 years in the hole… her money was her money and my money with her money, over $300,000 a year between the two of us and she couldn’t save a dime, if you looked at our home and our cars you would think we were below the poverty line, she just pissed it all away. I mean honestly, how many fucking live, laugh, love signs can one house have for fucks sake? And then in the end she tells me she doesn’t really love me anymore she can’t be in a relationship, next thing you know less than three months …
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 01:58 AM
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What is your remedy sir? What’s your workaround for OLD?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 01:11 AM
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I’m in the beginning of the process, and I see her all the time, would you mind telling me how you wasted a year? Did she already break it off with you and you stuck around for a year? What did you find yourself doing during that year? Did it have any affect in any way whatsoever? Was there ever a chance at reconciliation?
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 01:37 AM
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