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If social media is a negative factor in your life, you either need to reconsider how you curate your feed, or get rid of social media entirely.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:30 AM
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Why do you give a fuck what women think or want. Your thoughts should be about yourself. What you want. I live because i want to. I do things i want to do. Women aren't part of that consideration. Put yourself first, no one else will.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:27 AM
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Calling yourself beautiful out loud is the literal act of being conceited. It's like a guy calling himself alpha. Saying it out loud is very weird behaviour. Guys don't dislike confident, secure women. They dislike weird, conceited women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:42 PM
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Dating is about meeting someone you connect with And someone who has greater ability to do this would be considered to have more power and leverage. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:30 PM
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For a "freethinker", you aren't doing much thinking. Men swipe first, and then become more discerning after they get a match. It's a waste of time to care about potential compatibility before they get a match, because most likely it won't be a match anyway. Imagine you sent out job applications to 100 carefully selected job opportunities. You receive a couple replies but it leads to nothing. You try another 100 carefully selected opportunities. Same result. At what point would you say "fuck it" …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:25 PM
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I would consider the kind approach in the video to be extremely vain. That type of approach would recieve a curt rejection. Women who have approached me usually go about it in one of two ways. The first way, is quite brash and to the point. Lacking subtlety and an effort to build rapport. Similar to the video but not as conceited. This kind of approach is lazy and off-putting. The second way, is starting a conversation, being friendly, asking questions/getting to know me, looking for an opportun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:10 PM
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I assume the reason it didn't boost your confidence is because it didn't actually materialize into anything deeper or meaningful like a friendship. Confidence or fulfillment won't come unless you have something to show for your efforts. It's the main reason most people fail going to the gym. They put in the work of lifting weights and exercising, then quit because they don't see any results from their efforts, which can take months to begin showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:47 AM
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Of course not, because that would require logic, reason, self evaluation and a dose of accountability. Instead, they resort to manifestation and affirmation for themselves and other women, for what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:32 AM
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And i wish i was black so i could grow a cool afro. It's easy to be blind to the negatives when you're on the other side of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:19 AM
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Partially responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:47 AM
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Racists would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:11 PM
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"I was abused as a child" "omg really? i'm soo sorry to hear that" "Yeah, it was awful... my dad used to make me hold a light while he fixed a car, and he made me do my own laundry. It continued when i was a teenager where he'd pay me to build chicken coops" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:41 AM
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Why don't you get a hair transplant? Or go to a hooker?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:16 AM
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She has standards, and he passed them. Trad women, religious women etc.. aren't really much different at their core. It's usually just aesthetic and behavioural additions on top of a standard foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:07 AM
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What made you attractive to your wife? The same things those other 100+ women were attracted to. If you pass the first bar, it doesn't really matter whether you pass the second bar. It's optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:16 AM
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men benefit immensely from having a woman in their house In what ways? Other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:13 AM
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*crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:50 AM
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It's takes 5 minutes to know if there's chemistry. It can take weeks or months to know if it's the right chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:01 AM
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Assuming that hypothetically, whichever option i chose would remain static. I'd pick option 1. However, knowing how things work in reality i'd pick option 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:54 AM
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wizard liz? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:41 AM
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I’m 23 and only have a couple years left before men don’t find me attractive Men will find you attractive even when you're old. Women's attraction to men is more binary. Men's attraction to women is more on a spectrum. The distinction is what kind of attraction. Attractive for sex, attractive for casual dating, attractive for longer term dating, and attractive for marriage. Most guys would fuck a 40 year old, they just probably wouldn't fall in love with her. To realize women only have 7 to 10 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:21 AM
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Jesus christ dude. The point was that their opinions aren't reliable. Stop the self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:59 AM
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Women are unbelievably fickle. What they find attractive can be influenced by whoever the latest popular singer, actor, TikTok trend is. Cillian Murphy being deemed a very attractive celebrity just happened to coincide with an upturn in career success. Leo Dicaprio is now deemed ugly, coincidently this happened around the same time as their was negative press focused on him only fucking models in their early 20s. They're like a leaf in the wind. They'll like something just because other people l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:08 PM
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Why does that matter? That's not how ThatBitchA analyzes these cases. It's fair to hold them to their own standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:42 PM
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Why are you arguing like a woman, twisting what i said so you can respond like a snarky teenager? Try following the conversation better. My original comment. The issue is, putting the reasons for your confidence in the hands of another instead of your own. If i have gold in my hands, and a woman tells me it's a piece of shit, why would i give a flying fuck what she thinks? Given how women are fickle group thinkers and trend followers it makes no sense for your confidence determined by their opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:36 PM
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Now how does this help the struggling man who wants to date/have sex? Too bad, you don't always get what you want, when you want it. Either change yourself to offer what others desire, go to a hooker, buy a pocket pussy, or just deal with it. What does that have to do with letting others determine your confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:19 PM
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Girls need foreplay and mood setting So you're saying women are incompetent and incapable of doing this? You're telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:08 PM
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Yes. If i think what i have is gold, no one on earth is going to convince me it's shit and i'm certainly not going to sell it for a shit price. Sidenote: My current and past career have involved me going against the grain. In fact it was almost necessary to (selectively) go against the grain in order to make money in my last career. I've been successful doing so and it's taught me that most people don't actually think for themselves, they just follow the trends and narratives of others. Knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:03 PM
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"If a women is bad in bed it's because you're bad in bed" Women's accountability never fails to get a chuckle out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:48 PM
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Being confident while having no objective reason to be confident is like pouring syrup on a piece of shit and calling it pancakes That's not how confidence works The issue is, putting the reasons for your confidence in the hands of another instead of your own. If i have gold in my hands, and a woman tells me it's a piece of shit, why would i give a flying fuck what she thinks? The vast majority of men need to accept the bitter truth that women despise them and want them to literally suffer and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:38 PM
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guys who get laid easily and frequently (because of looks and money) don't find any meaning or happiness in sex and chasing women anymore because eventually they realise how empty it all is. I don't have much interest in chasing women romantically anymore, but i still find plenty of enjoyment having sex. But the men who get laid less are still under the delusion that sex and validation from women is the key to happiness. Sure, validation from women is pretty worthless knowing how women are. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:20 PM
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as such you should choose the most desirable men- male models, multi millionaires, professional athletes You're not choosing them, they're choosing you. And the chances of a man of that calibre putting a ring on your finger and following through with it is slim to none unless you're exceptionally attractive. You are the most desirable for men when you're young Your desirability is determined more by how physically attractive you are, than your age. No man is choosing a mid/ugly 20 year old over …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:31 PM
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You go around calling people pussies when you don’t even know shit about their lives. What else would i need to know about your life that would justify your lack the courage to be yourself, and hiding your own natural desires to appease judgemental shitty friends? The fact that you use emasculating language to try and change my position is indicative that I’m talking to a fucking idiot. I'd much rather be an idiot who lives the life of my own choosing, than a cowardly man who suppresses himself …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:03 AM
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Well, being a spineless pussy means you get friends who judge you negatively for being a normal functioning adult 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:39 PM
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Get better friends and stop being a spineless pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:30 AM
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The problem may be that the men here don't want to date anyone over 25. You think women over 25 would be more accepting of a guy over 30 living with his parents? How did you manage to type this without realizing how moronic it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:21 AM
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I'm an adult man. I like adult women. Adults have relations. This is normal adult behaviour. What kind of weird friends do you have that they would have an issue with that? Women friends is one of the easiest ways to meet other new women. I've hooked up with a bunch of friends of friends over the years and it's never once been an issue within the friend group. I'll even ask my women friends if they have any friends who are single and if they could set us up. I can't remember a single time where …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:49 AM
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Whatever happened to women's intuition? lol i noticed women seemed to have ditched that notion once you realized it would make you accountable for your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:40 AM
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There's nothing to figure out with those women. It's straightforward romance. Get to know them, treat them kindly, be thoughtful, plan cute little dates, buy/do things relating to their interests, invest in them. It's not complicated. There's no games involved. No regression to toxic familiarity. No mental issues that require rollercoaster stimulation. No social media sewage brain. The problem is that those kind of women are extremely rare, and they are becoming even rarer as time goes on. What'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:33 AM
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selectively choosing bad women I really wish that were true. Believe me, i really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:38 AM
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You don’t know any women who respond positively towards kind men? Respond as positively. And did i say i don't know any? Why do you do these stupid word twisting games? What are you hoping to accomplish with that kind of conversation? Maybe you need to surround yourself with better women. Cop out response. I've surrounded myself with just about every kind of woman imagianable over the years. There are many similarities at their core. It's not a question of whether they want toxic or not toxic, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:34 AM
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No men don't enjoy that. What we enjoy is the treatment which results from this. I'd much prefer to be nice, kind, caring and chivalrous. But women don't respond as positively to that, and in fact sometimes respond negatively. I didn't choose for it to be this way. I just adapt to what works 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:18 AM
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Why pick something that is a crime? Seems pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:11 AM
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"stop approaching us 😡" "why aren't men approaching anymore 😢" Women being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:18 PM
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this is a bit like arguing that the most effective way to get a tv is to break into homes and steal one Which is objectively true. The issue is that there are negative consequences for stealing a TV. Whereas there are far more positives than negatives for what OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:02 PM
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lmfao your entire post is nice guys finish last 🤣 "The good guys got the leftovers once the bad boys had their fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:59 PM
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"Taking dating from women, is stupid" - Me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:39 PM
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How can it harm your reputation? The only way approaching women could harm my reputation, is if my reputation was that of a celibate priest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:37 PM
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I agree. Women should be the ones who go to work and pay for everything while men stay home and watch spongebob with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:27 AM
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Right. Having a father seems to have a greater impact for positive outcomes in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:19 AM
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Woah.. you absolutely annihilated that strawman you created, queen. Women's advice: Be yourself Red pill advice: Improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:17 PM
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Natural vs constructed. Men are naturally inclined towards being protectors and leading. However they recognize this is wasted effort and to their own detriment. Hence the construction of the self interested red pill. Changing your behaviour doesn't change you natural inclination.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:14 PM
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It works now because of the crab bucket mentality of men drawn to grifters People listen to them for a reason. If the reason didn't exist, there would be no need to listen to them, would there? You're blaming the effect for the cause. Men sabotage one another Women and their horrible advice have done far more to sabotage men than any other. In fact, women's dogshit advice is one of the things that gives life to the red pill in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:08 PM
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Why don’t they build a better society Pretty difficult to do when you have to compete with the barrage of influence from social media (which includes foreign governments) frying women's brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:25 PM
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It's about doing what is in your own self interest. It's pretty much taking women's dating strategy and converting it to be applicable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:18 PM
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Exactly, if EVERY guy becomes fit, by Hypergamy, the average guy is now fit You think the advice of becoming fit is contradictory, because if everyone did it, it wouldn't work anymore? Surely you can realise how stupid your perspective on this is? The point is it works now because everyone isn't fit. This is precisely how hypergamy functions, therefor the advice works, now. the straw man here on your part is that discipline is not enough to become fit, there is a lot of other factors. No, not re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:13 PM
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Children of single mothers perform worse in life in just about every single thing compared to children of single fathers. It really makes me wonder about the negative effects on society from having women be the primary parent and more importantly, having almost exclusively women as teachers up until college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:14 PM
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Are blue pillers capable of anything other than the most idiotic strawmen? if the average men starts self-improving and in the unrealistic scenario that every men succeeds in it, the only thing its going to do is to make the "succesful self-improved man" the new average, "If every guy went to the gym, this would be the new normal. Therefor the advice of going to the gym to become more attractive is contradictory" By definition, only the top % of men are truly considered succesful, and realistica…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:59 PM
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What did you expect me to respond to? You posted a picture of an old guy. Did you expect me to dissect this with a well thought response? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:45 PM
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Sure, but it's a pretty useless response to someone asking for advice on what women want. "how do i get a job at a hedge fund" "Have a high school diploma" But it turns out that this isn't even really necessary because if you have the things they actually want, they'll overlook the lack of a diploma anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:42 PM
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so it would be unreasonable to expect a 6ft tall man when they are at best 1% of the population. lol when has "being reasonable" ever stopped women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:26 PM
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Are you a woman? The way you argue is very woman-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:24 PM
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I can barely decipher this gibberish. Gaslight yourself as much as you want. But anyone who has been around since the early red pill days will remember much of the nonsense blue pillers used to lie about, which they now openly admit, and pretend they didn't used to deny these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:15 PM
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Women don’t say they want “nice” they expect it FOH with this gaslighting lmao I've noticed this trend when it comes to red pill stuff. Red pillers make an observation. Blue pillers die on the hill claiming it's not true. Then a couple years later Blue pillers act like it was true all along and pretend like they never said otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:53 PM
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Let’s be real when a dude says “I’m nice” being the quality he brings it pretty much tells you he doesn’t have much else going on. The reason soo many men say that, is because this is what a lot of women say they want. Guy asks women what they want in a guy, women say they want x, guy says he has x but has no luck, women respond with "well duh, that's the bare minimum". Those are kind of a given Speaking the same language and eating dinner is a given, however being nice isn't. I've hooked up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:42 PM
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Men who want a traditional wife will get married when they find someone they like. Men who want casual sex will have casual sex when they find someone they like. Some men want casual sex with women who treat them well and aren't masculine. Some men want marriage with a woman who treats them well and isn't masculine. Finding a woman who treats them well and isn't masculine is easier in foreign countries. I don't understand your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:52 AM
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The right to not have to deal with the consequences of their choices, by ending a life? Imagine comparing that to slavery 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:33 PM
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Besides, I can't understand how people can jump to the sheets with someone they don't know well or aren't exclusive with. It doesn't necessarily have to be a complete stranger. Most of my relationships have gone like this. Meet a woman > become friends > have chemistry > sex > relationship > go on dates. This is a pretty common progression in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:22 PM
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You literally just explained why she does have unique privileges. Since when did the VP have to be chosen based on their performance in the primaries? This is just some arbitrary rule you guys made for Kamala. I don't know who you're responding to here, maybe the voices in your head? I said she got nominated as the presidential candidate despite failing to even make it to the primaries last election. proving the point that there are unique hurdles; especially for women in politics. She got picke…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:02 PM
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who’s ultimately controlling the narrative? Women. If women preferred shorter men over taller, this dynamic would be flipped. men with so much power who want to feel better about themselves. That doesn't even make sense. It would be the shorter men who want to feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:45 AM
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we literally have a life real example of women struggling to get to a place men naturally were given. She got picked as VP because of her race and gender, and now she's the nominee despite failing to even make it to the primaries last election. These "unique hurdles" are offset by unique privilege's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:39 AM
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So is this also all you expect a man to bring to the table? His own goals, dreams and desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:01 AM
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A good partner is one who exhibits naivety, and doesn't take precautions for life changing commitments? Ok 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:42 PM
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Well with that logic, don't go in a relationship at all, because the risk is too high. Don't take your car. Don't leave your room, not even your bed. Who knows what hazard you could expose yourself to. Or i could use that same logic and take precautions. You know, like wearing a seatbelt. People don't wear seatbelts because they expect to crash, otherwise they wouldn't get in the car. They wear them as a precaution. I have higher standards for myself and the kind of relationship I want with my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:40 PM
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If it was truly 1 in 20, we'd hear about it a lot more frequently If only there were some kind of engine in which one could search. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4137506.stm What percentage would be acceptable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:32 PM
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Indeed, such as discontinuing a relationship with a dude who doesn't trust you Sure, you can be immature and unreasonable. Or you can be a sensible adult who recognizes that trust isn't, and shouldn't be absolute, especially when it comes to such a serious matter. paranoid about something that happens to only a tiny minority of people. 1 in 20 men unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs is a tiny minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:10 PM
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Around 1 in 20 men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. You seem more upset about the reaction than the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:51 PM
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Because if my partner really thinks I could have cheated on him and go through a whole pregnancy with another man's child, the relationship is not what I thought it was. The men who are raising another man's child without knowing, are only in that situation because they trust their partner. If they didn't, they would've found out the kid isn't theirs by now. Evidently, trust alone is insufficient for this level of financial and emotional commitment. An 18 year obligation warrants some due dilige…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:47 PM
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That's a fair point. I'm not really a texter. Any serious or personal conversations i have, in person, or at least a call. So that isn't much of a concern for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:42 AM
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attempt to misconstrue any and everything they find in there as negative Then she can fuck off out of my life. At least that my experience with paranoid women going thru phones. I've never really dealt with any real paranoid women, only anxious types. So maybe i'm naive about those kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:37 AM
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If you’re fine with paranoria in your relationship that’s fine. This is a test to see if guys are fine when the tables are turned, because I know many wouldnt be fine with not being trusted. I don't expect to be trusted 100% all of the time. I think that's a little bit robotic. People are human, humans have emotions, emotions aren't always rational. I don't even trust myself 100% all of the time. Trust isn't static. It can be influenced by external factors unrelated to me. The difference is whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:11 PM
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Ok...? Was this supposed to be a gotcha? Because it missed. Why would i give a shit about her checking my phone if i have nothing to hide? 😂 As long as it doesn't disrupt what i'm doing, i really don't give a fuck tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:38 PM
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Thissss 🎯 You ate bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:16 PM
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It's similar to when they say short men won't date women taller than them because they are intimidated. They reverse the cause and effect quite often. It's probably something under the umbrella of accountability if i had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:06 AM
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You don't need to do a complete 180, and damage can be fixed. If people expect life to be without any struggle or turmoil, humanity would go extinct quickly. Fortunately the majority of people in the world aren't as self loathing as many in the west. I guess growing up without the entitled expectation of an easy life filled with luxury tends to make them more resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:47 AM
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whats your definition of "fine"? They have happy, fulfilling lives with friends and families. are any of them in therapy or on psych meds? would you know? Not to my knowledge. But if they were, why would that be a bad thing? Dealing with your problems is a good thing. Therapy and medications deal with problems. It would an issue if they weren't dealing with their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:18 AM
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Sure, but we have to deal with the struggle, figure it out and turn it into good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:09 AM
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No situation is hopeless. You've got an appropriate flair though, i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:00 AM
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Ask yourself there, buddy You're projecting your own concerns of people's opinions on the internet, onto others. using throwaway to cover for their backward and archaic wordview Killing your own baby because it's an inconvenience, is progressive? 🤷‍♂️ If you say so, buddy.
/r/MensRights23/09/24 12:58 AM
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Oh my god, are you this obtuse.....really? Like are you really gonna sit here and pretend a literal bundle of cells, is the same as a fully formed human that can live outside of a host, and is conscious and aware of their surroundings....like really dude? Great argument. You're an intellectual powerhouse. Welp throw away how about you reply on your actual account instead hiding behind a disposable one you made to stir shit? Almost as if you're aware the things you're saying are indefensible so y…
/r/MensRights22/09/24 08:19 AM
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A fetus or a bundle of cells All humans are bundles of cells, genius. is barely forming versus a person Under your philosophical framework, if we value the importance of life based on the extent of their formation it would be worse to kill an 18 year old than a 1 year old. a person in a coma is fully formed (baring age and puberty naturally) Why would age be relevant? Determining someone's right to life based on something as arbitrary as how many times the earth has orbited the sun is moronic. c…
/r/MensRights21/09/24 05:19 PM
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Yes, very. However this was my view even before i was in a good position in life. My own parents, grandparents, and pretty much all of my friends parents weren't in a "good position". None of them had much money. All of them did fine, and everyone turned out fine. I've heard from multiple people that there's never a perfect time to have kids. Sometimes life throws a curveball and you have to figure it out. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:14 PM
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I think women who kill their own babies are worse, but whatever 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:05 PM
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What if he had told you right at the beginning of the relationship, that before he met you he decided as a matter of principle, no matter what women he had kids with, he would get a paternity test. Would that make any difference to how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:59 PM
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Yes. In fact, i pretty much say this exact thing to every woman i'm with (minus the removing and growing the fetus).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:47 PM
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At the time of most abortions the "baby" has more in common with a tumor/bundle of cells than a conscious human Commonality is a dumb argument. A person in a coma also has more in common with a fetus than a conscious human. Would it be morally acceptable to kill them if you knew they would wake up in a few months time? Also, tumors don't grow into conscious humans. Fetuses do. So just listen to the doctors Why would you listen to doctors for something which is ultimately a philosophical issue?
/r/MensRights21/09/24 03:14 PM
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Changing how you act and concealing your true self because you're concerned with what another person will think about you is the antithesis of confident behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:00 AM
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It's a matter of fact statement. He's not "giving" complaining, you're "taking" complaining. How could he phrase it in a way that wouldn't "give" complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:08 AM
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I own property, I have a good job These things are neutral, not a positive, from most men's perspective. It doesn't really provide a direct benefit to us as we're still socialized and expected to provide, or at least match what a woman brings financially. It would be more of a positive if a woman was a good cook than had a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:00 AM
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Lmao do you really think the only two possibilities are a chad and an adult virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:26 PM
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Fake it till you make it. Would it be wrong for a guy to pretend to be confident even if he's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:23 PM
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Man - "What makes a man attractive?" Woman - *lists things which are only relevant once a man is already attractive. Man - "I have those qualities and have no luck" Woman - "well duh, you need to be fuckable first. Why are men confused by this 😝"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:58 AM
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You just made yourself look stupid with that contradiction 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:16 AM
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They want a fairytale guy, but it never seems to cross their small minds that they ought to behave like a fairytale woman. Wants to be a queen but behaves like a peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:13 AM
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It would make more sense for men to be more discerning with women even when he's the one who approached her. A big problem too many men have is sunk cost fallacy after a successful approach and they end up investing too much time, energy, emotion and money in a woman who really isn't worth shit. Just because you got her number and took her on a date doesn't mean you should be all in on her. Be willing to drop her if she's not good enough My approach to taking women on dates is not to win her ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:02 AM
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Just because you pick something up off the shelf, doesn't mean you can't put it back down again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:51 AM
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This is pure gaslighting. If your explanation is true then why don't women list the physical characteristics they find attractive when men ask what women want in a man, instead of listing secondary features? You didn't even come close to answering the point of OP's question. Physical attraction is a baseline, but having a nice personality isn't? It's odd to you that when guys ask what women find attractive, and women say "personality, respect, and kindness" (seemingly those traits must not be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:20 AM
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Have you attempted to make friends with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:20 PM
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I'm an introvert too, but that's not really a reason to not have any friends. Finding good friends is worth the effort. You don't need to have a huge group of friends, just a few solid people (and maybe a wider group of acquaintances which comes naturally from putting yourself out there) but just a few good friends who are worth investing your time and energy into (and who also reciprocate). Plus being friends with women is the easiest way to meet other women. And it gives you a chance to get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:18 PM
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Women must not be on those good old fashioned dating sites either, otherwise men would flock to them. There's a reason clubs let women in for free. Men will go wherever the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:04 PM
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We had those already. Dating websites specifically designed to match people based on likes and interests. They had entire questionnaire based algorithms to try and connect people with similar values. Pictures were just one piece of a larger profile filled with life goals, education level, hobbies, music taste, movie preferences, pets etc.. People (mainly women, as men will go wherever the women are) abandoned them in favour of hookup apps where appearance is really the only things that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:00 PM
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This advice works for the people who are approached. It's fairly useless for the people who do the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:43 AM
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I'd love to see men go on strike for one single day just to prove a point. International mens day would be perfect. Maybe it would force them to reconsider all of the unchecked misandry in the media, education and legal system.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 02:54 AM
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Women: Complain about men approaching them. Men: Stops approaching women. Women: Complain about men not approaching them. Men: ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:18 AM
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If someone ever asks you for an example of gaslighting. Show them the comments on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:02 AM
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I'm just saying it shouldn't be normalized Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:01 PM
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SMV isn't completely universal. One woman may place more value on height than finances. Another may prefer one ethnicity over the other. SMV has some objectivity. Being taller than a woman is almost never a negative thing. But SMV is also extremely relative to what that one particular woman values. A jacked bodybuilder will have much higher SMV with women who are gym rats, but will be lower with emo chicks for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:19 AM
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You're ignoring the extent to which different people have different preferences. Take the /r/truerateme rating guide. There are women in the 6 category who i find more attractive than some in the 9.5. Being rejected doesn't really tell me anything other than this one particular woman isn't attracted to me for whatever reason. That's not a big deal. However if all of the women who i personally like, reject me, then i would consider changing things about myself so i can find more success with thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:09 AM
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You're right. One problem that many people have is focusing too much on the ways in which things have changed (for the worse), while ignoring the things that haven't changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:42 AM
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I don't think that's true at all. I'm completely average looking. Average height too. My natural demeanor is nonchalant and laid back. I've seen first hand, with my own eyes, women go from being interested and eager to talk to me, approaching me first, to then having that interest almost instantly vanish if i react too strongly. Like a switch just turned off in their brain. It's possible that the contrast between my initial demeanor changing from nonchalant to eagerness is what turned them off. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:19 PM
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it’s hard not to be when you don’t have / never had options in your life. If you've never had options and are used to being rejected, you're investment in the outcome should already be low because your expectation is that it probably won't work out anyway. It's not worth investing a lot of emotion in this scenario. It's like buying a lottery ticket. You're hopeful that you will win, but you don't really give a shit if you don't win because you already expected that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:01 PM
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Who do you think does these things if a man is single? You're mentally ill and need professional help. Reddit can't be your therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:38 AM
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Who are you fighting? The voices in her head. I've talked with this person before, they're a unhinged crackpot. Don't waste your time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:34 AM
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Basically these kind of views. This satire video also does a good job mocking similar attitudes. It's essentially politically correct racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:00 PM
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I don't know if it's me who's changing or women, but i find a lot of women very boring and uninspiring nowadays. It's difficult to find a woman who actually ignites the desire in me to put in effort and go through the whole song and dance with them. Whenever i get a call or text notification from them i just feel like "ugh what now". I want to be left alone, but i also want a loving relationship. I'm tired of liking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:13 AM
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Exactly. When you ask women what they like in a guy, they will often tell you what they wish they liked, not what they actually like. Similar to people who say they like hiking but have only gone hiking twice in the past 5 years. They like the idea more than the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:56 AM
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Obtaining a relationship and maintaining a relationship takes some different qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:41 PM
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Who would you rather date? A woman who's a 10 but she's unfeminine, argumentative, untrustworthy, high body count, obnoxious. Or a 6 who is the opposite of the above? Assuming you'd pick the 6. Would you think of her as the "safe option" or would you think of her as the "more desirable option"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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Women hoe phase = slut, for the streets. Man hoe phase = alpha, chad. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:18 PM
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I had a fuckboy phase for a few months after the covid lockdowns and i didn't think it was that fun tbh. It sounded good in theory, but the reality was mediocre. Casual sex was exciting the first few times but it got old quick. And having a woman pining for me when i'm not into her isn't fun, it's annoying. Going on dates and having sex with a woman i actually have feelings for is far more fun than doing it with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:12 PM
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They don't really draw the line at racism. They draw the line at what is safe. They have no problem talking about race when it's white or indian people for instance. It's called safe-edgy. They present themselves as brave, bold and outspoken, but only when it's safe to do so. They wouldn't dare say anything that could receive backlash from their fellow safe-edgy peers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 09:54 AM
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*Chooses mates based on genes to produce optimal offspring *Takes birth control, plan b and gets abortions Also, do gays and lesbians not care about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:58 PM
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I don't think the question is equal. Most men probably couldn't differentiate between being someone's type/preference vs a fetish because women generally aren't as overt as men. Women probably have more experience in this area so men and women's understanding of the question isn't the same. I have blue eyes, it's probably helped me in dating, a lot of women compliment this feature. Is that consider a fetish? What's the line between a fetish and a preference? If i knew 100% that the only reason a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:46 AM
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To sum up the conversation about this topic. Many men are not invested in society or the people in it anymore. They've checked out and are apathetic to what goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:26 AM
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"Imagine you are incredibly rich. Now think about how much you'd have to pay in taxes. Wouldn't that really suck?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:19 AM
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"I think men likely were" *Proceed to explain why you think they likely weren't People on this forum really just talk out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:05 AM
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I still laugh at the fact that lesbian relationships have the highest divorce and domestic violence, while gay relationships have the lowest. Even lower than straight relationships. In other words, the fewer women in the relationship, the more peaceful and successful it will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:42 AM
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There is no pay gap, there's an earnings gap. Women get paid the same hourly rate as men when they work the same job. Women earn less because they work fewer hours, less overtime, and choose career paths that are less lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:12 PM
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He'd sacrifice time with family to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:05 PM
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goes hand in hand with the man wanting you to sacrifice your career for the relationship/family. He should want her to sacrifice the relationship/family for her career instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:00 PM
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By the time you get caught you'll have gained experience. So you'll be in a better position going forward. Realistically, there's really not much benefit to not lying in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:03 PM
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I don't know specifically what a "pick me" is because it's an overused term and gets applied to many different situations. The women i know irl who could be considered "pick me's" (the cool girls, submissive etc..) all got picked. They have the lives they wanted. Married to kind, trustworthy guys, house, kids etc.. In my experience "pick me's" do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:06 AM
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They overestimated the importance of physical attractiveness and finances to women. The study compared what incels think women rate as important vs what women actually rated. incels make "fundamental errors about what females look for in a romantic partner". The researcher literally says in the article "incels were also found to have lower standards for partners compared with non-incels"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:26 PM
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