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Equalattractions/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:54 AM
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Women are more cuddled and protected by society in general. They remain more emotional while men lose their emotions earlier in life due to hardships. You will still find women in their twenties crying when saying goodbye to their friends and stuff like that. You won't find that with men past their teens for example. Emotionally destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:23 PM
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Right, so that's another reason why they shouldn't be suprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:09 PM
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No. My highschool even lacked proper good-looking chads: The best looking girls were dating jock college/university students at 15-16yo already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:32 PM
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?! the first guy has no hairline. A hairstyle like that woud like utter shit. He would look absolutely ridiculous if he clothed and looked the way like the other guy did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:17 PM
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https://i.redd.it/0b2apcggyty41.jpg https://i.pinimg.com/originals/7b/c4/13/7bc413ba2c982fc08a588b69abb750fb.jpg These 2 guys. I am 100% sure there's nothing you could do to make the first guy get more girls than the second guy. These kind of looks disparities are completely normal in high school, unlike being some super wealthy football captain with a mansion. That's some 0.000001% bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:07 PM
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You proved my point. The good-looking guy that has drug addicts for parents and is depressed, still has a girlfriend. The ugly guy with normal parents and that is happy, is very likely to be incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:57 PM
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What status does the good-looking guy in high school that gets all the women have over the ugly-looking guy in high school that gets no women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:44 PM
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They are by far the most important factor, but not the only factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:28 PM
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Getting the looks to have a fun experience dating is impossible for a majority of men. It's why most men settle down with the first/second girl that shows them any affection because they don't want to be out there dating as man that is not above average in attactiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:12 PM
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All incels do is point out the obvious: Women's preferences in men: Tall, good-looking, full head of hair, white. Incel that lived life just like anyone else but turns out as a 25yo kissless virgin: Hey I am not tall, ugly, balding and asian. I was given a shit hand in life and dating is always going to be shit for me. Idiotic, ignorant fools: 'No you are incel because of your personality. I know a 5'2 balding indian janitor that is dating really attractive women because he is funny'. Disgusting…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:08 PM
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40% of men are incels nowadays that barely get any poon. How is dating women NOT hard when 40% of men utterly fail at it. 'Oh this test isn't hard, just 40% fail it, no problem'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:06 PM
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'just treat women as people bro, this is why you're a virgin and can't get matches on tinder'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:03 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:03 PM
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They aren't suprised. Women specifically pick the type of guy (fuckboy/player/douchy guy with no ambition/etc) that is MOST likely to pumpndump them. Women only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:02 PM
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'just ignore your strongest natural instict of reproduction bro. love yourself first' lol @ u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:00 PM
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5 dates and you found your girlfriend? You got very lucky indeed. I am a good-looking dude so I get decent results. Been on ~20 dates but haven't gotten anything decent yet. The audacity of so many women (50%) to start talking about their ex and his issues on a first date is an instant 'no-go' for me. I finish the drink and leave. Very hard to find quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 12:25 PM
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Women absolutely care because money and status are the biggest factors in a woman's attraction to a man. So why do I see high school students and college/university students with good-looking girls all the time? They have no money and they have no carreer. Your argument doesn't reflect reality. Status/career isn't important to young women, which is what you should be aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:18 AM
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Netherlands does have minimum wage but the minimum wage goes lower when you are below the age of 23. Till the point where it's barely worth the time. Basically they don't consider you grown up here in the netherlands untill you're 23 and they want to discourage you from getting a job untill you're atleast 23yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:17 AM
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Women don't care about your 'career'. Stop giving this terrible advice to young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 10:14 PM
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on point 1, about pay, you're correct. It seems harder than ever to get started in the US. it's not just the US. I live in the netherlands and there's legit nothing you can do before you get all of your degrees. It's disgusting how degenerate this society has become with its forced, useless education. Even the simplest jobs require some 1-2 year training degree before they consider you. While you could learn everything on the job in 1-2 weeks. Clownworld. The real world is simply very demotivati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 10:04 PM
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Good grades, decent job, your own car, etc. that is long term status building and money/resource building. Not possible in your teens to mid twenties. You can't be hired untill you have xx yy credentials. Untill then you are poorly paid or not paid at all (student). making friends, hanging out, finding hobbies, and becoming a more interesting (and rounded) person. Everyone already does this. It doesn't make you sucessful or ambitious. but hell, if you want status now, learn how to play an instru…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:44 PM
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You've never used dating apps. A bio is entirely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:41 PM
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A good looking guy with 1 boring picture will have lesd succesd than an ugly guy with pictures of himself doing fun things. You've never used dating apps before
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:41 PM
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What does being ambitious and sucessfull irl look like when you are spending 8 hours/day in school in your teens/early twenties? Good grades? STEM university? aka: nerd that doesnt get rewarded for his effort. No status, no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:52 PM
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I very much doubt something like candy crush saga is very popular with the average young woman. Most women I know don't play games on their phones, again it's mostly guys that do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:51 PM
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Videogames are build around satisfying ambition/competition. In most games you grind/work towards certain goals constantly. It's why so many men are drawn to it, because there's no real equivalent in the real world anymore. You can't build anything or accomplish anything real, especially in your teens and early twenties. Atleast videogames give that sense of accomplishment. Women in general are less ambitious and driven towards creating something. Therefore it appeals less to them. It's also ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:10 PM
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Yeah it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:23 PM
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It's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:52 PM
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Wow! What a cool story! My balding indian 5'4 janitor friend scored with an instagram model a few weeks ago. That woman was completely in love with his humor and personality. Amazing indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:53 PM
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Women are scared of speaking the truth and prefer avoiding confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:21 PM
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Male, 25 here. Quantity it has become better. Quality: A LOT worse. Women at my age tend to have several failed relationships already and come into a date with bitterness and resentment from that. You are basically constantly tip-toeing around whatever could trigger a bad past memory of hers and have her get mad out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:19 PM
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If you want to crush the little self-esteem you have left as a man, try tinder. Dating apps are for women and attractive men. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:17 PM
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Just be a decent human being who takes care of themselves and women will flock to you. This reads like a incel shitpost from a troll. Does anyone really believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:16 PM
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Yes, and men can still do this. In 1900 Yes so not anymore in the modern. Times of families, more than 2 kids, are long over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:14 PM
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There's a huge difference in comitting to a 30yo woman that is about to lose her looks, sex-drive, but most importantly: fertility. Compared to committing to a 20yo woman. She will stay attractive for an extra 10 years over the 30yo woman, have a higher sex-drive and will give you SO MANY MORE kids compared to a 30yo woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:02 PM
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Being a 'good person' means nothing in modern society. Way too many good men get absolutely shit on in every aspect of their lives with nothing to show for. It pays to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 10:50 AM
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I think men dropped out of traditional roles, because there's no suitable women for a family-style life anymore. In the netherlands, most women will tell you that they are not planning on having kids till they're atleast 30yo. Men adjust and drop the idea of a family life. Starting a family with a 30+ yo woman isn't worth a lot since she's almost infertile and will rapidly lose her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 10:49 AM
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She's delusional or mentally ill. Ignore her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:24 AM
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I don't agree that women are the selectors. Then you are either delusional or mentally ill. It's like this in almost every animal species btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:24 AM
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The rest of what you said? The women have to take responsibility because the men don't. women choose irresponsible men as sexual partners. As long as you keep subsidizing their poor decision making, we will just keep seeing it more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:18 AM
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Unless a woman is raped, she was responsible for the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:17 AM
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Stop getting naive young women pregnant and abandoning them. This is such fucking stupid aswell. Women have ALL the power in sexual/relationship dynamics. Stop acting like it's men that have the power. Get this in your dumb head: Women decide when and if sexual intercourse happens. Rape is EXTREMELY uncommon, despite the bs statistics that feminists show you where they combine sexual assault+rape statistics in the same number. (disgusting propaganda)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:10 AM
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Responsible people in society did not like seeing all this suffering so they created welfare for the mothers. 'Responsible' people started stealing money from the general population through taxes? Fucking assholes. Those 'responsible' people should've started charities instead. Taxation = theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:07 AM
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Guys that don't lower their standards become incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:39 PM
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Nowadays almost zero. The state/society has taken over the role of husbands/providers in almost every aspect. We need to return to a more competitive way of living to get healthy gender dynamics again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:30 AM
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We all know that many guys send unsolicited dick picks, or open with very sexual lines on Tinder. No we don't. It's a tiny minority at best. We all remember the one guy that sends a dickpic, and immediately forget about the 200 guys that send a 'hey' or 'how is your day' or some comment about your bio. We also know that a significant amount of girls really hate that. A significant amount of girls hate/will not respond to a more typical opener either. So what does it really mean, relatively speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:05 AM
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My dream was always to have a big house with a big family (5+ kids). I think keeping a wife constantly pregnant helps with having her have the right hormonal profile to keep her attached to you in the beginning atleast. After that, my wife would be of lesser importance since 5 kids would add a lot to my life overal dynamic. But yeah, wife game theory seems very hard. I keep telling myself: 'If you can't easily fuck attractive, slutty, drunk girls from clubs/bars, what chance do you think you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:02 AM
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How many of even the TOP 20% - the "best of the Betas" get divorce raped? Not as many as the lower-status / lower-class guys, but still - she can pull the plug at any time. Not sure. The point is that I need to know how to keep my wife attracted to me and for that I need to fuck a lot of different women first and know how female psychology works and how it can be manipulated. I don't care about ever getting a mutual love relationship. I don't believe in that anymore after I've seen so many relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:27 PM
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Yeah. I don't have much hope tbh. The idea of marriage/LTR/settling in modern society is extremely unfavorable and I don't think I will be able to beat those odds considering I am nowhere near being top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 06:36 PM
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End-goal: Trying to make up for under-achieving heavily in terms of sexual encounters in my youth by fucking a lot of hot women and having lots of turbulent fwb type relationships. Boosting my confidence and improving my personality in the process so that I am become more interesting to women, filling that gaping hole of my past. Then to hopefully settle down with an attractive girl in her late teens/early twenties once I am in my early thirties myself. Current progress: Hardly any better than b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 06:07 PM
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Just keep acting like everyone has the same chances on this earth. I got fucked hard by my circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:50 AM
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Why don't you tell this to the average woman or ethnic that is complaining every day about his/her position in society? white male victimhood isn't mainstream and only exists on isolated internet communities since it is shamed and reject in any real world situation. You are just adding fuel to the fire by rejecting the notion that white men can be victims of circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:20 AM
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I hope it gets better for you but blaming women is not going to help you with that. Wont make it worse either though. Women, especially young ones, have NOTHING to complain about. My last relationship actually broke up because my gf was a feminist, and many young women nowadays are. Literally half the women my age are undateable because they are feminist, ake man-haters. I want to live in a world where people are kind to each other fairytales, nothing I ever experienced. Not even as a child. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:45 AM
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It’s so sad that you view kindness as transactional and put so much emphasis on financial measures as acts of kindness but even if your point was correct Why do you think it is fair that some people work hard and are kind to everyone all their lives, but get nothing in return?! Why do you say men don’t men benefit from healthcare? Don’t men get pensions? Did men not go to school? Do they not use roads or any other taxpayer funded infrastructure? Men benefit less from healthcare than women, prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 08:55 AM
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Most acts of kindness and niceness are done through the government taxation system nowadays. If you are a single, childless man that works a full-time job, you are a TOP contributor to your nation's government. And therefore also the resulting government programs that help poor people, educate children, healthcare, etc. What needs to be done is that taxes are SEVERELY reduced, and healthcare/education is entirely privatized. This way, men aren't forced to pay into a system that they don't benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 12:43 PM
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I've never gotten the idea that women do more 'emotional labor' in a relationship than men. It's more often the men trying to re-assure a woman, help her out to deal with tough times, motivating her, etc. than the other way around. Men with issues that would require a lot of emotional labor from a woman, tend to not be able to get into relationships in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 06:25 PM
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But you provide 0 proof. Or are you saying that these 100 CEO's are somehow a relevant representation of what life is like for the average person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 11:47 AM
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Not sure what you are trying to say. Are you trying to say this study is false and it's not a fact that attractiveness matters more for male earnings than female earnings? What's your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 11:43 AM
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Men have always been judged more on their looks than women have been. Facing harsher punishments for not adhering to looks-standards society places on them. Men should be taught to put a large emphasis on their physical attractiveness in their childhood, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 11:05 AM
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with mutual sexual attraction? Seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:22 PM
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Women think 80% of men are 'below average'. If you are not in the top 20%, in the eyes of women you are very close to being bottom 20% already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:57 PM
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then why is it expect that men and women have the same wage when men are superior? Makes no sense to pay women the same amount. etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 04:17 PM
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Right so 'supposing' that women need this much money spent on just bra's. Literally more than thousand dollar every year. How can you ever claim that men and women are equal when women need this much extra money and clothing just to get to the level that men are naturally? Seems clear that men>women and we should stop trying to promote equality when there is clearly, biologically, none of it in any way, shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 02:02 PM
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that it's far more expensive to be a female Only if you seriously think that a girl needs a new 50$ sports bra every month. Let's call it the 'dumb tax' rather than the 'pink tax'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 01:28 PM
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'Who have it worse, extremely privileged women or extremely privileged men?' Like what is this question even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 11:36 AM
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> the burden of those costs will fall upon taxpayers Well this should never be the case anyways. Taxpayers shouldn't be paying for unwanted children and it's ridiculous that the government forces you to do so at gunpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:55 AM
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Whos profiting in society from spreading the lies that looks matter less for men than for women? Research is in very large agreement that it's just as important for men. This structural sabotage of life quality of men compared to women is what seriously disgusts me. Pushing men to study, work hard and 'be ambitious' while providing them with no real benefits for this effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:32 PM
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I agree. Give every ugly person 40k for surgeries and the world would look much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 08:39 AM
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> career help a person to find a partner yeah so this isn't true anymore in modern society. I cringe whenever some guy says that women only care about money. Yeah maybe if you want a sexless, loveless 'marriage' where you are treated as an ATM. No man thinks that's desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:03 PM
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> valued for being boys, future providers and all this stuff So basically nothing. Women make their own money now, there's no 'provider' role in modern society. Especially not with how little physical labor is worth nowadays removing any advantage a man might have over a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:52 PM
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> On women's appearance, mind you. And they do it because a woman's appearance is still considered her main value. And what is a teenage boy's main value exactly? As opposed to a teenage girl who according to you, is valued for her looks. What value does a teenage boy have in modern society? Zero. Being valued for your looks is better than not being valued at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:41 PM
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So what should be done about this huge investment gap between women and men? If men and women are equal, why is society much more willing to spend money on women than on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:03 PM
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'i dont care about statistics proving that 40% of men are incels'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:50 AM
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nice strawman Are you delusional or do you suffer from a mental illness. Do you think you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:20 AM
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> The lack of empathy here is terrifying > for them not being able to get their dicks wet as easy as they would like to. The lack of self-awareness is truly appalling It's like I am talking to a robot on auto-pilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:58 AM
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/cry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:11 AM
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Which is absolutely disgusting behavior to be honest. You're seriously downplaying the trauma that real rape can cause when you compare it with uncomfortable sexual situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:10 AM
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I agree, but i'd much rather be the gender that can suck but fix the issue immediately the moment I slightly lower my own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:22 AM
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Male dating struggles: I can't find ANYONE, I have never experienced desire from a woman in my life ever before. Will I ever find a single woman that wants to be with me? Female dating struggles: All of these men want to date me and be with me, but none of them are good enough. Why can't I find a perfect guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:17 AM
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what does this list have to do with gender differences in dating? are you on the wrong subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:13 AM
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Feminists conveniently merge 'sexual harrassment' statistics with rape statistics as to make it seem like a significant portion of women are being raped in first world countries. Reality is that rape is EXTREMELY rare in first-world countries and you would be lucky to know someone at all that has become a victim of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:12 AM
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Never meant that, I was talking about financial access only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 08:59 AM
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Proof that society doesn't value a guy's looks? Proof that women don't value their partner's appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:21 PM
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Just went to the the online store of a shop I go to sometimes, went to T-shirt section, saw completely similar pricing for men and women: https://imgur.com/mQIccSv https://imgur.com/SFpugle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:20 PM
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> There you go, another false assumption, which is that genes are 100% of your attractiveness. Where did I say that? It's obviously not 100%, but it makes a big portion. For example, height is basically 90% genetic. You losing your hair or not is 90% genetic. Facial bone structure is 90% genetic. And so on. All a man can do is fix skin issues, get lean, and build a bit of muscle. ​ All a
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:58 PM
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It shows the pressure on men actually: They have to be pretty without getting any financial support to achieve that. Instead they end up abusing things like steroids because they get no guidance in how to achieve a proper masculine look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:56 PM
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Right so most boys should be mad when they get don't get money for whatever activity or thing they need, since girls are being given much more than them on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:29 PM
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I dont have evidence for that claim, but it's irrelevant to my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:28 PM
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So then what happens if the son wants weekly kickboxing classes but his parents reject him, while his sister gets to go to ballet classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:18 PM
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If parents are spending 40% more money on their female children, that means female children have 40% more money to spend. If you are going to market a product and want to get as much money as possible, would you market it more to the female child with 40% more money, or the poorer male child?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:17 PM
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that it happens all the time. where do you think this average comes from? It will be worse in some families, better in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:15 PM
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How can a son have an ok relationship with his parents if he realizes that his parents are spending 40% more money on his sister compared to him? For no other reason than her gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:15 PM
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burden of proof is in the OP. Why comment on my post if you don't even read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:14 PM
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> But of course, all I see is yet another dude wishing for the 1800s and imagining the world can only be fair to men if women are artificially held back. Men who are actually capable of excelling don’t need women chained to the kitchen stove to be able to accomplish something in life. How is wanting equality the same as holding women back artificially. Are you saying women are inferior and need an additional 35.000 dollars to be able to compete with men? Typical feminism to recognize that you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:13 PM
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I know guys who got really expensive gifts, parents paid for hockey, one who is gay and overweight his parents paid for a personal trainer for him at 4 days a week for one year so he could slim down and become a male model. The study proves that this is not the average guy's experience and mine is closer to that: parents mistreating their male children and not giving them what they need. What happened to you, as crappy as it was, does not mean that parents in general love their sons less. The st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:18 PM
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You know we are writing in the comment section of a study being posted proved exactly this? Are you drunk or something? or always this ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:16 PM
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method of transportation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:14 PM
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> Meeting their interests in being better groomed and dressed vs a boy’s typical lack of interest in that. How many 12 year old boys do you know who are actually interested in facial cleanser and moisturizers? I was interested in fixing my facial skin issues and told that skincare is a female thing and that looks dont matter for men. Same with clothing. Same with not getting personal trainers/dieticians for my physical development that men need more than women. Same with so many other things tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:08 PM
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women are attracted to ambition. That's an absolutely ridiculous claim. Can't believe I am argueing with something that making life as painfull and shitty as possible for men makes them more attractive to women. What a travesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:33 PM
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Making sure your female children are better groomed and dressed is an expression of love towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:33 PM
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I was talking about parents spending money on their female children as opposed to their male children. It makes more sense to market towards female children to have them complain to their parents that they 'want/need' something when they are more likely to get their parents to buy it for them. I know from my own experiences growing up as a male child, that my parents were only willing to buy the bare essentials for me. I am sure if I was female that they would've been willing to buy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:32 PM
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why did you have to work shitty part-time jobs for months if not years on minimum wage to pay for your computer, if your parents would've just bought it for you if you asked for it. i think boys know that their parents are less likely to buy them stuff they need/want compared to girls and therefore dont even bother asking most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:30 PM
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the link is there, they have very good graphic images that explain the cost difference. if you spent 5 seconds checking that out you wouldn't have to write this useless comment tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 06:28 PM
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Did you consider products/services are targeted at young women, because they know they have more access to money than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:44 PM
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Can't relate. The guys getting 3 degrees in the netherlands are the biggest manchildren I have ever seen. Education has no correlation to real world performance or even salary here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:42 PM
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So you're saying guys never ask for things to then get rejected by their parents and them not buying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:41 PM
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> You get both your kids a haircut. I know guys who pride themselves in getting their hair cut for as little as £5, whereas I've never been able to get a cut cheaper than £20 and that was in the 90s - now £30 is around the basic. So you might spend £15 on the boy and £30 on the girl but you aren't thinking "oh god now I better buy £15 worth of stuff for the boy" because why the fuck would you. No, they've both got what they need: a haircut. And btw, from the ages of 9-11 or so I had very short h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:12 PM
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You think that's fair? Guys are shown from a young age that they are worth less and deserve less (financial) support compared to girls. If girls get an extra 100 dollars/month to spend on clothing, then guys should get 100 dollars/month aswell that they can spend on something else they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:04 PM
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Fine with that too, but you know parents wont do it because female wants are seen as female needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:01 PM
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Boys aren't supposed to be much into clothes, but they are supposed to be more into independance. Having your own place, method of transportation, etc. If women/men had their needs met equally, there wouldn't have been such a huge disparity. Parents would be buying their sons cars with the money they saved from not having to buy them clothes/haircuts. A difference in 35.000 dollars is absolutely ridiculous. Maybe if it was 5000 dollars, yeah sure nobody would care. But 35.000 dollars just shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:53 PM
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They would still have access, but not have it paid for by someone else. That's fair considering the huge gap I outlined in this post in male/female financial investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:49 PM
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were talking about a difference of 1000/year, not 100/year though. Tampons/pads are a minor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:48 PM
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Having your son with his own car and appartement makes him more independant thoguh, not dependant, than having him live at home. This idea of making life as shitty as possible for guy so they 'learn to be strong' is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:44 PM
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> You're trying so hard to see this as some huge toxic problem where boys aren't loved and it's frankly ridiculous. The fact that you so easily dismiss a HUGE investment gap between girls and guys is very telling. 35.000 dollars is an absolutely ridiculous amount of money that's being used to improve a girl's life quality while men get jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:39 PM
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> I’m not saying they have to, but if a son wanted to things that costs more money I’m sure his parents are not going to say ‘no son, because we love your sister more so we will be spending more money on her’ which is what the OP seems to be implying. This is exactly what happened though in my personal experience. I wanted to buy a motorcycle in my teenage years, and my parents simply said 'that's dangerous and stupid. we will not pay for it.' 'You have a bicycle and if you need to go somewhere …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:26 PM
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It is part of male expectations to have your own place and to have your own car though. Much more so than it is for women. However I don't see parents helping their male children with buying their first car or getting them out of the house so they can learn to be independant and self-sufficient. But clothes and make-up? Parents apparantly find it very easy to spend money on this for their girls. Considering that parents save 35.000 dollars with a boy compared to a girl, it should be a no-brainer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:05 PM
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> Also women move out earlier here too because they have so much easier finding an apartment. People are much more likely to rent to women. Yeah same discrimination here. Good reason for parents to jump in and help their male children to get independant housing, since they so desperately need to become independant asap, way more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:00 PM
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And it's a valid complaint. Society and parents shouldn't be subsidizing female education over male education. They should get the same amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:58 PM
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It's normal here in the netherlands and even required by law for parents to assist their kids financially untill the age of 21. At the same time, women move out at an earlier age than men here. And from my own experience and that of friends of mine, parents heavily pushed them to stay home, while women were allowed to move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:55 PM
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Girls and boys have different wants and needs, but women prefer spending an extra 35.000 dollar to meet the needs/wants of girls compared to guys. In a more fair time in the past, girls werent allowed to get higher education. That would've balanced out this enormous gap for example. Much better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:54 PM
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In my country, the netherlands, parents are more willing to pay for their daughters moving out early, than their sons. Seems like most parents don't agree with you and prefer having their sons at home since it's cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:53 PM
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Trades, police, etc. require education and training in the netherlands. The fact that parents/society also spends more money on education for women compared to men, just further widens the amount of money people are willing to spend on guys compared to girls. Being born female in modern society is being born with a 40.000+ dollar of extra free investments into you. Your appearance, education, life quality, everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:51 PM
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So do you think parents should set aside extra money to for male children so they can have a nice gift when they're 18yo and need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:48 PM
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> As they get older there's then the continuation of after school activities - most boys I know continued to play football (free) throughout school, or they played computer games which is a large one off expense and then just smaller occasional spending for games. Whereas the girl that did dancing or skating, now has more expensive classes, and costumes are required, and money paid for competitions etc Goes against what I saw around me. Many guys would prefer to do more expensive hobbies such as…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:44 PM
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Then why do parents choose to fund what their female children care about, but not what their male children care about? Clothing, fashion, styling. These are not necessities in life, but luxury products/services. Just because you don't want them as a guy, doesn't mean it's fair that parents pay for it if you are a girl. Why don't girls save up the money to buy these luxuries themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:36 PM
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> Girls clothing costs more. Girls have to use pads and tampons, that costs money. Girls groom more (haircuts and styling). Girls do group things more like birthday parties and stuff and that all costs money. Sure but why are parents willing to fork out extra money for female children so they can do this stuff, but they don't do it for male equivalents? These are almost all wants, not needs. Most girls are dressed way better than most guys. Girls could just as easily wear simple t-shirts etc. an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:35 PM
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Maybe in the third world, not in the first world. Uneducated women have a much easier time getting better pay in uneducated service related jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:29 PM
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Clothes and makeup are wants though, not needs. You could easily make a man's life more expensive by buying him a car at age 16-18 and refusing to buy a car for your female children. Would make up for the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:28 PM
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> Let's start with the obvious. Lots of redpillers/blackpillers often use evo-psych findings not to show how society IS, but how society should be. False, I completely disagree that this is in any way obvious. Especially in blackpillospheres you will find men use scientific studies to show how society is and why it is like that, and how little chance in dating they have because of it. They don't expect to change society, they want to change themselves, their genes. ​ There goes 80% of your argum…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:02 PM
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This right here. On top of that I would argue that most 'single' women are still having sex, while most single men are celibate. Getting positive social/sexual interactions as a woman is simply easier than it is as a man. It's one of the biggest female privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:38 AM
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