EqualistAdvocate Archive

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2	Redpill just means toxic relationships while Bluepill means healthy relationships I think you're mixing up PUA tactics and Red Pill ideology. I would somewhat agree with you regarding PUA tactics, although there is nuance there. But I would say Red Pill is about understanding female nature and general self improvement. Basically becoming your best self. Not sure if this should be considered as falling for red pill tactics...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 04:58 PM
1	Redpill just means toxic relationships while Bluepill means healthy relationships Can you explain what you meant by red pill tactics? I think you might be misunderstanding what the red pill is...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 10:35 AM
2	Feminism - equality to MEN? What does this mean?	/r/MensRights	04/12/22 10:27 AM
4	Feminism - equality to MEN? Feminism wants Equality of Outcome, but only when it benefits them. For example 50/50 representation in leadership positions, equal pay etc, meanwhile it completely ignores the disadvantages the male population experience... Working more dangerous jobs, consistent rejection etc A more appropriate version of equality is Equality of Opportunity, where everyone has equal access to opportunities without expecting the outcomes of each gender to be completely the same.	/r/MensRights	04/12/22 01:03 AM
6	Do MRAs support a woman’s right to an abortion? If no, then do MRAs support a man’s right to a “paper” or “legal” abortion? What part of the world are you from?	/r/MensRights	25/11/22 05:11 PM
1	CMV: Alpha Fucks/Beta Buxx is projection because it’s men who don’t want to settle down until their 30s For the men who get all the attention, what incentive do they have to settle down? The system works great for them. There are no downsides... For the rest, it takes considerable effort to attract a woman they would want to settle down with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 08:17 AM
1	As a woman what can I do to help men and men’s rights? Make more women aware of the power of female sexuality, and the disadvantage the majority of men have in this area. I'm not suggesting this needs to be changed, but we need to start acknowledging the effects this is causing on society. For example: Men being incentivised to earn more (women reward men with money). How this drives male loneliness / creates the disposal male. Why men are considered creepy and not women (Because they have to approach, and sometimes make mistakes) I strongly believe…	/r/MensRights	25/11/22 12:08 AM
1	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? Women need to acknowledge the sexual disparity, and the advantages that disparity brings. For example, the effects it might be having on the gender pay gap. Men cannot do this. If this is acknowledged perhaps we will see a different approach to how we are raising men. *Most women don't realise the disparity even exists...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 10:09 PM
80	This is a reminder that Cardi B used to drug and rob men. If a dude admitted this he would now be in jail...	/r/MensRights	20/08/22 08:04 PM
2	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have Personally I'm not sure I agree with you when you say women are expected to contribute financially and men still expect women to do the majority of the childcare and housework. Personally I believe Hypergamy is playing a part here. The more attractive a women, the more she can use Hypergamy to her advantage. And even then, data suggests women in general expect men to be the main provider (For example, men in good careers do better on dating apps...). If women are only choosing partners who earn …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:45 PM
1	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have I'm going to give women the benefit of the doubt here and say that I expect most women wouldn't feel comfortable, neither enjoy, lying to their partner. Perhaps I'm wrong about this though...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:02 PM
2	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 06:00 PM
3	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have Personally, I'm also not too fussed about women having had a fair amount of sexual partners, but I know some men are. My point here though was that everyone will have a limit, and it works in different ways. Clearly 1000 hookers is well past yours 🤣 But the fact that you're saying, if a guy has to pay for sex he is not attractive to begin with, is in essence you judging a man on his sexual history...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 05:26 PM
1	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have I think manipulate is, in general, the wrong way to look at PUA. Although I would agree, manipulative practices do exist, but this is more a toxic part of the PUA community. I think what is often misunderstood here is that because men are expected to approach, this puts men in a hugely disadvantaged position from the start. Men are constantly in the position of being interviewed, while women are the interviewer. Which position would you rather be in? I haven't even mentioned the possibility of b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 04:57 PM
5	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have In my opinion, body count works both ways, just in different ways. Let me ask you, would you be happy to get into a relationship with a guy who's slept with 1000 hookers? Or constantly sends money to women on OnlyFans? Or should this man also expect to find a partner who won't judge him for his past, even though he's probably spent a large portion of his savings on women to fulfill his sexual needs? In my opinion this clearly shows a lack of self control. It just works in different ways for men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 04:39 PM
2	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have Regardless of whether women do it or not, the greater the lie becomes, the more the anxiety will grow... The men she slept with does not need to live with this. Btw I'm not saying I'm against casual sex, I'm just recognising the nuances and problems for both sides within hook up culture which make it less worthwhile. Men will struggle to get it, women will regret it. And for a lot of men, the return on investment of chasing casual sex probably isn't worthwhile, meanwhile women need to deal with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 04:03 PM
2	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have This is true in terms of a social context. However I was more referring to women in relationships. I wouldn't want to be in a women's position if she has a high body count, and a guy she was dating asked her what the number is. Sure she can lie, but that's no way to build good foundations for a relationship...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 03:42 PM
3	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have How do you mean? Do you mean it's only diminishing if people find out about a womens body count? Or am I misunderstanding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 02:36 PM
5	Have you had any ideological shifts with respect to sex and gender discourse and issues? Share your experiences too if you have Growing up with Feminist ideology, I wasn't really interested in committed relationships. Men and women want sex just as much as each other right? And slut shaming is just a form of Mysogyny that will eventually be fazed out... Since learning more about Red Pill and the Manosphere, I realize this isn't really the case. It seems to me that due to biological reasons, men are far more interested in casual sex and there are valid reasons why slut shaming occurs (occurs to both genders by each gender…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 02:02 PM
-1	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone I truly believe the first step is to acknowledge our differences. We don't value each other the same way. The primary reason for this is because women are responsible for carrying the child so look for different attributes other than physical appearance. And this is okay. However this results in very different sexual market values. Teach women they are born with value but it won't last forever. Teach men they need to work on themselves to become valuable. Stop creating feminine men and masculine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:49 AM
39	The feminist narrative seems to go against the concept of rehabilitation, and it worries me. I agree with you, there kind of seems to be no tolerance for men making mistakes and learning from them. Even though all the expectation is on them to initiate romantically. For example I believe cat calling could become a criminal offence in the UK: https://metro.co.uk/2021/07/21/wolf-whistling-and-cat-calling-could-be-made-illegal-under-new-plans-14963028/ This is not to say I'm supportive of cat calling, I'm just saying that while all the onus is on men, obviously men will be making the major…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/22 10:55 PM
2	Do men understand how much pregnant women risk and sacrifice? I don't disagree with you here. This doesn't answer the question though: Why do you think it is not going anywhere because it is protecting women's bodily autonomy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 10:53 AM
2	Do men understand how much pregnant women risk and sacrifice? Why do you think it not going anywhere because it is protecting women's bodily autonomy? I'm pretty sure it's not going anywhere because it has gotten completely out of control and in reality Feminisms version of equality is inherently sexist. Perhaps it would make more sense for there to be a separate movement specifically for women's bodily autonomy? Btw I'm am in complete support of pro-choice. It's one of the few areas of Feminism I believe in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 10:47 AM
5	Do men understand how much pregnant women risk and sacrifice? I'm aware pregnancy can have huge consequences and is a pretty one sided deal. I'm not sure how many men know this though... I think this is a good reason for women to have higher expectations of men and be more selective when dating. But it seems to me that it's feminism who is arguing against this or pretending this isn't a thing. Men and women are interchangeable right? So here we are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 08:53 AM
0	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys So how do you propose we fix this? We currently have women angered by the idea that their sexual value decreases as they age, and a growing number of young men with self esteem/mental health problems because they are invisible to women. So it looks to me like sexual value is quite a big driving force... However men are going to care more about sexual validation simply because it's not something they get access too easily. Similarly a lot of women are angry about the gender pay gap and work place…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 10:42 AM
0	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys Or: Women you valuable from the day your born. Men you're disposable unless you make something of yourself... Most men will never experience the level of (sexual) validation experienced by the average woman. It sounds like you're saying women should have this value forever and if they can't have it forever that's unfair, even though most men will never have it... Something here sounds a little unbalanced if you ask me? Personally I think the biggest problem we are going to have is encouraging yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 12:34 AM
2	We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boys I also somewhat believe this, but I'm not so sure you're specifying quite the right problem. In my opinion we shouldn't need to teach men that not all women are angels... We should be teaching men and women that we value each other differently, and for men it may take more time to be considered valuable, whereas women are start off with value but it diminishes Personally I believe this would resolve a lot of the conflicts we are seeing, as well reduce "toxic masculinity". For example, desperate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 03:21 PM
3	Why is it fair that the average man meets their wife after their wife has left her prime in looks so to speak? Why is it fair that men have much more time to increase their value as they age meaning they can sleep around freely and then potentially date and marry a much younger woman of their choosing? Each gender has their own complex set of burdens and benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 12:35 AM
–	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? But this is completely acceptable because male sexuality is worthless, and in the eyes of society men are disposable, so it doesn't really count as rape... Men are so privalidged. I hope whoever reads this understands the sarcasm of this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 03:00 PM
7	would all or most men rape if given the chance ? This post just shows how much damage is being caused by feminist propaganda. No, not all men would rape if they had the chance. Men care a lot about women. I would argue the majority of men care more about women than women about men. But somehow you are considering the idea that all men would rape if they had the chance. The insanity continues...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 06:27 PM
3	Most of women AND men’s issues are due to patriarchal culture Isn't it much more to do with biology than a child / parent relationship? "This role is also why (until recently legally, but still socially imposed) men were the only ones sent to war, the only ones in dangerous labor jobs, the ones with the weight of provider on their shoulders. Because the perception of women as children means they are too innocent and vulnerable to undertake these roles." Womens reproductive resources are considered more valuable than men's reproductive resources. 1 man and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 12:34 AM