EquanimityForMe Archive

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4	Why do men develop oneitis so strongly? Some women just put your soul at ease. Sometimes the feeling isn't mutual and it doesn't work out. Sometimes it is mutual but one or the other person has some baggage blocking them from letting go. Then sometimes it's mutual, and both are completely open to it. Then the magic happens. Heartbreak is a risk, but it's worth it. I know this is the red pill sub, but things don't break down as easily as alpha = good, beta = bad. There's no way to fake chemistry. If it's not there, it's not there.	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/26 10:44 PM
10	Why do men develop oneitis so strongly? I don't like the evolutionary biology explanation at all. Humans are more complex than some monkeys that became people. For myself, I have dated and had long relationships with women where we had great times, but when it ended, I wasn't too upset. Sometimes, the time you invested seems wasted, but still I'm not super upset. Then I will meet one woman and instantly feel connected which is rare. Then I'm upset when I find out she's already engaged or something (no I don't want to date women who ar…	/r/TheRedPill	01/04/26 06:32 PM