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Well it's kind of gross. Like what am I? Just a worthless hole? This guy is indeed a narcisssicst player with no feelings, but what kills me is that I think he and his Gf ACTUALLY have something special and deep because they've been together for 2 years, he talks to her on the phone for hours, and brings her to fancy events. It's just terrible knowing she gets EVERYTHING I want and I got nothing. Heck even if he cheated on her (like when he asked me to cuddle and said he wouldn't tell her, if yo…
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:52 PM
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Thank you. This is a really, really good answer and it really helps me feel a little less alone to know that there are people who care to respond to the question. This guy is incredibly charming and I find like 95% of men unattractive. I just fear that this was my only "shot" to impress him and win him over, and that I will die alone. It feels like the hunger games out there trying to find a man who meets my standards and you're right that I would probably feel worse if I slept with him. I also …
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:46 PM
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But I really, really liked him. I wasn't turning down sex, I was going to sleep with him in fact but I just wasn't READY at the moment. The problem is he dropped me like a hot potato and now I'm scared I'll never get another chance to rekindle our romance, especially since he's planning dates with his GF whereas I think if I slept with him I could have won him over. She has no problem coming over and getting naked for him.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:24 PM
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I hope so! That's okay thank you very much, please do understand that this obsession and asking is part of my problem and I am quite acurious person and overthinker so it is fascinating and extremely helpful for me to read new answers and get multiple perspectives
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:43 PM
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Good advice, thank you :) But another part of my problem is that despite being able to have ANY girl in the world, he chose this girl and puts her on a pedestal, even calling her his princess. The fact that I and many other girls wanted him and he has the POWER to cheat if he wants and still retain women because he is so handsome and confident just makes him more desirable. There are plenty of "healthy" relationships I could get from Tinder, but I just find those nice guys really bland and if he…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:40 PM
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Why couldn't he at least be friends with me though? I really thought he was "THE ONE" after we held hands, he bought my drinks/dinner, and spent all night with me wrapped around his arms. He was also very respectful (didn't get mad just a little annoyed, like an eyeroll) when I didn't sleep with him. He even offered me his shirt. This was the kind of love I wanted for years and to have it taken away so quick is just heartbreaking and I NEED it back. And thse other guys on dating apps don't compa…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:37 PM
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Ahh but it's the hope that killed me. Looking back before he asked me to go to the bar and he I knew he had a GF I realize now there WAS another girl that was Facetiming him and he hung up on her, so I thought that if it WAS his GF, he was breaking up with her for me. I fantasized about ME getting to go on vacations, weddings, and sharing all these lovely experiences with him. What do you mean there's no competition? Is it beacuse I'm so worthless that I never stood a chance? I will say this: I …
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:30 PM
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I thought he would come around and miss me. Realize what a great catch I was and that I slipped away, because now I am truly gone forever and I haven't texted him since I moved out. I'm still waiting for him to text me and I don't know what to do. I don't like him being attached to her because it makes me feel like I didn't have an exciting enough or interesting personality to get him to want me. This really, really cripples my self esteem. No I do not have any friends or hobbies but that's the …
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:26 PM
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This guy is now treating me like a nobody though, like for example I'm trying to remain friendly with him and start talking to him in the kitchen and he will CALL UP HIS girlfriend, ask her how her day was, and invite her over. Does he know this hurts me? And I don't know what to because if I complain I'm afriad i'll look needy, but if I ignore him we'll just drift further apart
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:17 PM
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We made small talk from time to time. He invied me into his room to cuddle. Offered me his shirt. Tried to sleep with me. Asked me out a couple times, not just once. I am just wondering if I should have been more aggresive for example, I never invited him into MY room or asked him out, and now I paid the price because we drifted apart and he hasn't called or texted since I moved out
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:10 PM
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Yes it DOES have to do with her being better. Clearly he cares about her, wants to hear her laugh, thinks she's worth going on vacation with and going to fancy events with. They talk on the phone every day. They've been together for 2 years, but heck even if it were 10 years if I was a good option he would have left her for me. I just feel so inferior to her and since this girl is usually bubbly and smiley when she comes over, I am thinking it MUST be my personality. Because if I was more confid…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:08 PM
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No, I was pretty and nice and tried to be funny with him, and was genuinely interested in getting to know him as a person. He still follows me on my social media page so I am hoping he will reach out again soon. I just want to make him miss me. It's not fair that he would abandon me like this and it's really hurting my self esteem to think I will never be as good as his gf and he chooses her every night over me
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:42 PM
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Thank you! This is a very good answer and really what I'm looking ofr to help me. I am trying hard to move on but I just can't stop comparing myself to his GF because he must not have thought I was interesting or pretty or cool enough to break up with her...whereas she seems like she's funny, smart, etc. and has a better life and I'm jealous of her painfully Also I met her in our main living room once and then this guy (my roommate) told her it was time to go while she was talking to me. She see…
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:39 PM
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He DID do all that stuff, I'm not lying and that's what made me addicted to him, he acted like he was going to be my boyfriend. Cuddling is a big deal for me and very intimate. Also hand holding.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:32 PM
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Why did he cuddle with me and try to sleep with me and pay for my drinks then? We even held hands
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:24 PM
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Because he tried to sleep with me and I told him I wanted to get to know him better, also I am in love with him
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:16 PM
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