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| 2 | Just 15 days away from separation | Getting Started | Equivalent-Creme5282 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 12:06 AM |
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| 2 | Doing everything “right” but can’t seem to move forwardI can share from my brief experience if that helps. I'm mid 40's and it has been a year now since my divorce, one kid early teens. After this year, I am a bit more at peace, but this doesn't mean I don't have my falls from time to time. I think three months might be too soon, but I can definitely tell you that I feel better now compared to the early separation cycle. This is after the fact that I have had some thought losses not that long ago. Hang in there and keep doing what you are doing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.Friends, therapy, and the need to move on and leave all the BS behind. I don't think I am there yet, but I think I am making progress, and I have been feeling better as time passes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.It's amazing how common this situation is. I could describe mine with almost your very same words. It is unreal. I have faith that the future will be brighter and that we will move on, bud. I no longer care what she thinks, nor what she do, as long as it doesn't have a negative effect on my kid or that she tries to involve me on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Narcissism seems to be the new buzzword today. Did or are you dealing with that in your present or past divorce?Yep, it has been a month or so since we moved out of our common house (we were renting), and while I was cleaning up the place to sell some of the furniture, she "casually" forgot her "Narcissistic Abuse Recovery" book under a mattress. Smooth and classy. I began questioning myself and believing I indeed was a narcissistic abuser, but thankfully, I got some great friends and a family who got me out of that rabbit hole. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Just 15 days away from separationI think so, too, as we approach the final date. I hope I can get enough activities to keep myself busy and don't think about it too much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Just seperatedThis right here gives me hopes. Thanks bud! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Just Like That, 26 Years.I feel your pain. I am on a similar boat, maybe not as extreme on the BPD, since my sbtx has not been diagnosed, but her mother is, and I suspect she is as well. She decided to end it after 13 years of marriage and a small kid. I don't claim I am perfect, but I am not irresponsible as she portrays me to be. She accuses me of being the reason for her professional failure, when all I did was support her with all her diverse but never see through projects. I currently have my ups and downs, but I a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Going thought a divorceI can't express how much your story resonated with my ongoing situation. Thanks! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 07:37 AM |
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