Equivalent-Regret596 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Miss companionship It is difficult, I don’t miss cuddling up with them because I know it would be for oxytocin sakes. I’m quite aware about myself with leading chemical decisions, although, I do miss companionship. I make an effort to ask a girl on a platonic date just for company though once a week.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/23 03:14 AM
9	She's Not Yours, Its Just Your Turn You marry your best friend that’s more than a sex partner, she should be your ride or die. That’s it.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/23 01:05 AM
1	Stay in a loveless marriage or open your heart to a new woman ? Usually has two of them that are somewhat opposite in personalities. Common. That one would be the only one really impacted.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 04:14 AM
1	Stay in a loveless marriage or open your heart to a new woman ? My opinion anyways.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 03:56 AM
2	Stay in a loveless marriage or open your heart to a new woman ? If they’re older kids then it’s a no brainer. As long as the kids are 18+ or independent it’s a no brainer. You’ve done your job as a caregiver until they’re able to roam around the world themselves. Of course, they’ll still have their parents but after 18 years the accountability is really finished as long as they have their own sense of autonomy and aren’t handicapped. That’s a green flag to leave a spouse that doesn’t love you and gives that effort towards you. The part of having a child is l…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 03:55 AM
5	Stay in a loveless marriage or open your heart to a new woman ? Every situation is different: You’d need to think about the pros & cons. The list of cons is always bigger than the pros if you have children involved. Need more information from you.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/09/23 03:16 AM
1	How are you guys able to live alone? Rumination is normal. I go to therapy currently, actively every week once a day. These are the things that helps me being alone in my solitude. Reframing from saying lonely to being a single man. Create a routine everyday and abide by your routine. Set days off really put time into doing something new or reviving something different that you always wanted to try. (Pottery Class, Events, Farmers Market, Walking at the Park, etc.) Exercise as much as possible to feel good and release endorphins an…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 06:16 PM
1	Divorce was probably for the best. Why am I still suffering? Grieving process is important. The distortion of reality vs the reality you’ve built inside of your head takes time to reorganize. Your brain has to rewrite all of those synapses.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 06:13 PM
1	Asking Wife For Divorce After 9 Years Because We Share No Interests And Have No Kids Sounds like my ex wife. It was miserable. Out and about and loving towards other people. As soon as she came home, sad & tired. Weird thing is… Her mom was like this. So when it ended I was okay accepting that it wasn’t for me. Went to therapy and am doing better since. Definitely trying to date but want to make sure someone has the same values as I do.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/23 07:32 PM